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I Need Some Advice

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    I Can Relate

    I myself have learning difficulties. This sounds like my childhood. My stepmother was a very lets say mean person, and my father was passive in a sense. I know what it feels like to be walking on egg shells, pretty much what I described my childhood, but I think counseling would...
    Reigel27 Reigel27 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 19, 2012

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    What Should I Do?

    Hi All, I want some advice, thats why I landed on this forum. I am a girl, my age is 27. My only problem is i am 180 pounds but iam cute. I work as a IT professional, i have a masters degree, have many frnds, a superb family, healthy lifestyle and a wonderful comfortable living...
    GirlThinking GirlThinking 26-30, F 4 Responses May 31, 2012

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    Hi. So I wanna know how to get closure,

    me and this guy were really close at the end of last year and then we sorta stopped talking and hanging out this year. I reallllly miss him and then just a few weeks ago we chatted again for a few days, but we've stopped again and there is more to it than that but anyway. I...
    merley99 merley99 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 25

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    I know this girl, and she isn't the most

    popular girl around. Meaning she is super-unpopular, gets bullied a lot, and has almost no friends except for me and a few others. She really likes me, and hanging out with me. We were really good friends, but over the weeks we kind of separated, but she's clingy. She's going...
    Mokuba Mokuba 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 18

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    So I am trying to help my wife become more

    confident in herself, not only in her natural abilities and her beauty. She recently went out and bought a number of items of lingerie, really beautiful items that make her look stunning, but she won't wear them because she doesn't fell comfortable. I am her husband who loves...
    pwis2648 pwis2648 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 8

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    A year ago i found out by means of a friend

    that a friend(girl) of mine has a crush on me... i was so happy about that, because i as patient... I kept not giving everything, because i was afraid that if we dated , i might lose her as a friend... this continued for about 3 months and eventually she sent me a letter saying...
    edrichverburg edrichverburg 16-17, M 2 Responses Jun 29

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    Years ago i met a man he loved me

    when i was unable to know what actual love was.i ran away from him. it hurt him But he still maintained contact w/ me. Oneday he called and said goodbye clearly upset but w/o a explanation. I was hurt but knew i deserved it. Last year he and i reconnected via soc. network. We...
    sinistergirl sinistergirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    I need BETTER advice

    as some of the responses are ill-natured.
    BleuGirl83 BleuGirl83 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 4

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    When I was seven my cousin of forty years came

    to visit me and my brother. He had a motorcycle and gave each of us a ride separately. When he took me for a ride he stopped at a old cabin. I wasn't sure what was happening but I went along with him. Once inside he told me we were gonna play a game. He told me I wasn't allowed...
    ChangedForever27 ChangedForever27 16-17, F 9 Responses May 29

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    So my friend Vincent wanted me to give him my

    phone number so I did he said he would call but he never did ! He said " don't call !!" Since his parents are divorced he lives with his mean dad and his number is his house number and I wonder if I should call cuz I don't want his mean dad to answer ! What should I do
    bela5562 bela5562 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    I am in a really tough love situation,

    if anyone is willing to help me out pls message me ):
    drowninglol drowninglol 13-15, F Jul 1

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    I get jealous off me basically thinking things.

    It drives me crazy that no matter what I will never feel good enough for anything.
    cherryshelby cherryshelby 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    Signs It Is Time To Leave Him???

    I need some advice. I am contemplating my relationship. If I am always walking out the door, questioning if it will work and feeling trapped does that mean I should leave??? Even though he tells me what I want to hear when I feel this way, fights for me when he sees this...
    mina4380 mina4380 31-35, F 7 Responses Oct 24, 2013

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    There's this girl that I met online

    and she says that I make her happy and wants to be my girlfriend. I politely rejected her as I have been in an online relationship before that went south because she threatened to kill herself if I left. Though I told this new girl about it, she pretty much did the exact same...
    Cyanideheart Cyanideheart 18-21, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I had this friend (guy) we've been friend

    for almost a year and its not the romantic kind or something but I know this story is common. I did develop feelings for him. I'm actually 2 years older than him. We watched movies, dine out and I'm really comfortable just talking to this person its seems I can talk anything to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 13

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    I need some advice now :(.

    Someone to talk to please
    shaybaby213 shaybaby213 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 5

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    i'm posting this here on a site

    where i am nearly certain no one that personally knows me can find it.... my girlfriend has epilepsy and i worry about her a lot... she recently went to vegas for a trip with her mom and step dad, i didn't go because i couldn't afford it. when she got back...i could tell...
    maskedwest123 maskedwest123 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 8

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    bobbyshmurdadance bobbyshmurdadance 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 19

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    chloeeadita chloeeadita 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 3

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    My cousin used to always want to visit with me

    and come over to my house. He used to also hate his home. When I called him and told him that I wanted him to come over he agreed. He sounded different than usual, but I didn't think anything of it. When I called him and asked him if he could find a ride over he said he was...
    moose73630 moose73630 16-17, M 3 Responses Apr 2

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    Yo, anyone from the UK

    that has done Camp America while at university ? i don't know whether to go next year after i have finished my second year of university, or go the year after graduation when there is nothing in the way. Also how much money did you have to save up in order to go (apart from the...
    TheFlamingLips TheFlamingLips 18-21, M Jul 18

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    Adam352 Adam352 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    What to do when your married

    but in love with someone else. My wife is such a nice person. Been there for me thru my lowest points in life. Never left my side once. Now that I'm better I don't want to turn my back on her. The woman I'm in love with is a life long friend that I've had feelings for for years...
    FishThinking FishThinking 41-45, M 2 Responses May 13

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    I need "straight up, don't worry about my

    feelings" kind of advice! Preferably from a guys point of view so that I can stop obsessing :/ and no creeps please :)
    Hockeygirl3 Hockeygirl3 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 12

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    A few years ago i had received a phone call.

    actually it was a wrong number however, he and i actually became friends. We hit it off quite well. We'd spend night after night on the phone. Eventually he told me he was falling in love with me. Ill be honest i was deffenatly feeling somthing for him. However i was young and a...
    sinistergirl sinistergirl 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    My cousin and I are in love.

    We love worlds apart. I in South Africa. Him in Portugal. But this has been something that has been going on since we were kids. And I never understood it. Until 2 years ago when I shared my feelings with him whilst were we on holiday there. He felt the same. Left his then...
    michelledesousa michelledesousa 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    If anyone would be willing to help me with

    something and you're good advice, please message me :)) I can help out too I just need someone who knows what to do in situations.
    katherinejaneee katherinejaneee 16-17, F 4 Responses Feb 21

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    God knows that she's one of my good friends

    but what she does, makes me **** off especially with her boyfriend!!!! I CAN UNDERSTAND THAT HE WAS YOUR FIRST FOR EVERYTHING!!! BUT I CAN'T UNDERSTAND HOW YOU LET HIM KEEP YOU ON A LEASH....YOU CAN'T HANGOUT WITH US, YOU HAVE TO TELL HIM WHO YOUR WITH AND HE TELLS YOU WHAT TIME...
    Xmidniteangel15X Xmidniteangel15X 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 28

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    Ok here is what's up My name is Amanda

    and I have a bratty cousin that is 7 years old he lies he cheats in evry game and he is so sweet one minute then evil the next if you want to know more and have advice for me please speak up + I love all you peeps on ep so keep being who you are :)
    Dinosaurfanatic Dinosaurfanatic 13-15, F Jun 28

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    am home on a Thursday,

    not going to work because I have to work on the weekend. what do I do for the next 16hrs
    Gardiner1love Gardiner1love 26-30, F 3 Responses May 15

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    Let's start with i am a 32 yr old female with a

    problem. Let's start from the beginning. I'm met my husband in the bar I work in 8 yrs ago. We have had our struggles broke up for a year got back together married now it's 2.5 years later. When my husband and I were first dating he was having employment problems. A friend of...
    jessi977 jessi977 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    Ok so this story goes back some years

    when I had an affair with a married man it was over pretty much as soon as it started! Although we did and still do work together and have managed to remain professional at work.... part of the reason it ended was due to the fact that I found out that something nearly happend...
    crazychick76 crazychick76 36-40, F a week ago

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    ok so where I work at,

    there is this woman, she a cougar, im 19 an she like 30. She is always hitting on me, like yesterday, she said "I love you Drake" like whaaaaa. im not interested!!! I think imma gonna tell her im gay, before she told me she sleeps naked. like omg!! what she think im gonna tap...
    DracovNasser DracovNasser 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Ok so this story goes back some years

    when I had an affair with a married man it was over pretty much as soon as it started! Although we did and still do work together and have managed to remain professional at work.... part of the reason it ended was due to the fact that I found out that something nearly happend...
    crazychick76 crazychick76 36-40, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I am 17 years old and I live in a house

    that is falling apart with a father that lives with his mom(so yes I live with my grandma). His second ex and her children is also living with us and there are only two bedrooms and one bathroom. Except for me it seems like everyone is sooo lazy. And the house is getting...
    HakunaMatata711 HakunaMatata711 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    Ok I know I probably sound like a crazy gf

    but I was on fb and his ex posted a status "in a relationship" so I went to her page and wanted to see who it was. Anyway I went to her profile pic and it said my bf liked it...I texted him about it because I get a really uneasy feeling about him and her..he told me he...
    mollygirl123 mollygirl123 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    Soo this is kinda long

    and weird I guess but I do need advice This weekend I am ment to be meeting up with someone so we can go to his house and watch films and potentially have sex but my issue is I'm not a virgin but I haven't had sex in like a year and I'm going to be really tight again I don't...
    DemiendoImaginations DemiendoImaginations 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    My 19 yr old daughter met a guy

    and they started a relationship a little over a year ago. My daughter brought him to our house a few times and we all liked him....fast forward....they are now living with me and they just had a baby 5 days ago. I was in the delivery room with him and my daughter to watch the...
    woozey513 woozey513 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 29

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    I have suffered from depression

    for almost 5 years and nothing is getting better.. What do I do.
    HarrietAC HarrietAC 18-21, F 2 Responses May 28

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    buttcrackman buttcrackman 18-21, M Jul 1

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    Okay I work with kids of all ages,

    here is my advice please don't be the smelly kid. At the end of the day you could grow up and be that smelly man or lady at work. Think about it ?🙅🙇
    Missymay72 Missymay72 22-25, F May 29

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    I am someone who battles some depression,

    self worth, anxiety issues. I am not very good with social situations and have a hard time putting myself out there. I like things but I don't really have any particular hobbies or things that I am really wry passionate about. I am in this sort of odd relationship and I think I...
    9Cerulean9 9Cerulean9 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 9

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    I have nobody , I need somebody.

    ... ( and I'm a male)
    ZFLII ZFLII 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    Any Advice

    Hi. I don't know how to begin one of these, and I'm not really sure where to begin. I've tried writing several of these posts know, and I don't know how to say what I wish to say. It could be that my level of embarrassment about posting on here that is enabling my ability to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 7, 2013

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    I Hate My Mum

    This isn't just a typical love-hate relationship that I have with my mum. And I don't even know what it is that makes me feel so much hatred towards her, I never want her to touch me or hug me, I hate everything she says. She doesn't do anything to me that makes me feel like that...
    olddays13 olddays13 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 16, 2013

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    I've been with this guy

    for a while, but found out he cheated on me! I feel lost & betrayed.
    Sweetcountrygirl79 Sweetcountrygirl79 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    My boyfriend always questions me !

    ! Finding it hard to not get angry Ever time?????
    Aishabella Aishabella 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 29

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    In October of 2012, my ex

    and I broke up. We dated for four years and we were each other's first love. We usually broke up for about a few days and got back together; it wasn't so much that they were official break ups, we just needed a little space from each other since we were ALWAYS together. Anyway...
    trivy trivy 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 24

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    HarrietAC HarrietAC 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Anyone willing to help?

    I'll message you it's a long story, probably not something you're used to but any advice at all would be much appreciated!
    AddisonBennoit AddisonBennoit 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    Guys… Something's really bothering me right

    now… I really would love some help right now. You see, this guy with no experiences on his profile asked me what was on mind, so I answered him. Because it's anonymous and I can just block him.
    Alwaysthinkingaboutthings Alwaysthinkingaboutthings 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    I have just been tested.

    .it showed that my cortisol levels were over double the amount they should be ..plus I have all the symptoms if Cushing's. I am 16 years old and already a type 1 diabetic for 8 years now. I Workout everyday and eat so strictly. The hardest part for me is the weight, feeling like...
    Tc97 Tc97 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    So my bestfriend's boyfriend keeps hitting me up

    and just asked me to talk with him over the phone? I mean i've been friends with her boyfriend since wayyy before they dated, but it feels wrong now?
    zbabyy7 zbabyy7 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 14

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