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    Signs It Is Time To Leave Him???

    I need some advice. I am contemplating my relationship. If I am always walking out the door, questioning if it will work and feeling trapped does that mean I should leave??? Even though he tells me what I want to hear when I feel this way, fights for me when he sees this...
    mina4380 mina4380 31-35, F 7 Responses Oct 24, 2013

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    What Should I Do?

    Hi All, I want some advice, thats why I landed on this forum. I am a girl, my age is 27. My only problem is i am 180 pounds but iam cute. I work as a IT professional, i have a masters degree, have many frnds, a superb family, healthy lifestyle and a wonderful comfortable living...
    GirlThinking GirlThinking 26-30, F 4 Responses May 31, 2012

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    Hi. So I wanna know how to get closure,

    me and this guy were really close at the end of last year and then we sorta stopped talking and hanging out this year. I reallllly miss him and then just a few weeks ago we chatted again for a few days, but we've stopped again and there is more to it than that but anyway. I...
    merley99 merley99 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 25

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    HarrietAC HarrietAC 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    I know this girl, and she isn't the most

    popular girl around. Meaning she is super-unpopular, gets bullied a lot, and has almost no friends except for me and a few others. She really likes me, and hanging out with me. We were really good friends, but over the weeks we kind of separated, but she's clingy. She's going...
    Mokuba Mokuba 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 18

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    I had this friend (guy) we've been friend

    for almost a year and its not the romantic kind or something but I know this story is common. I did develop feelings for him. I'm actually 2 years older than him. We watched movies, dine out and I'm really comfortable just talking to this person its seems I can talk anything to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 13

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    I need some advice now :(.

    Someone to talk to please
    shaybaby213 shaybaby213 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 5

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    If anyone would be willing to help me with

    something and you're good advice, please message me :)) I can help out too I just need someone who knows what to do in situations.
    katherinejaneee katherinejaneee 16-17, F 4 Responses Feb 21

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    My boyfriend always questions me !

    ! Finding it hard to not get angry Ever time?????
    Aishabella Aishabella 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 29

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    Let's start with i am a 32 yr old female with a

    problem. Let's start from the beginning. I'm met my husband in the bar I work in 8 yrs ago. We have had our struggles broke up for a year got back together married now it's 2.5 years later. When my husband and I were first dating he was having employment problems. A friend of...
    jessi977 jessi977 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    I have a friend i believe hes going through a

    hard time. I know he has a hard time expressing his feelings i had told him to use his music. Hes always been able to express himself best. And for a awhile it seemed as he had been. One day he told me he had to take Somtime away and wasn't able to explain why.I wrote him a...
    sinistergirl sinistergirl 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    My cousin used to always want to visit with me

    and come over to my house. He used to also hate his home. When I called him and told him that I wanted him to come over he agreed. He sounded different than usual, but I didn't think anything of it. When I called him and asked him if he could find a ride over he said he was...
    moose73630 moose73630 16-17, M 3 Responses Apr 2

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    I Can Relate

    I myself have learning difficulties. This sounds like my childhood. My stepmother was a very lets say mean person, and my father was passive in a sense. I know what it feels like to be walking on egg shells, pretty much what I described my childhood, but I think counseling would...
    Reigel27 Reigel27 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 19, 2012

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    I have suffered from depression

    for almost 5 years and nothing is getting better.. What do I do.
    HarrietAC HarrietAC 18-21, F 2 Responses May 28

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    Me and my boyfriend get on

    so much better when he isn't around one d his close friends- jack. He's an absolute idiot at the best of times. He's so cocky and so immature, he's single so is constantly going out and meeting random girls, and he tried to get Stevie to go out too, but Stevie knows what he can...
    HarrietAC HarrietAC 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    bobbyshmurdadance bobbyshmurdadance 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 19

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    Ok so this story goes back some years

    when I had an affair with a married man it was over pretty much as soon as it started! Although we did and still do work together and have managed to remain professional at work.... part of the reason it ended was due to the fact that I found out that something nearly happend...
    crazychick76 crazychick76 36-40, F Aug 13

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    I need BETTER advice

    as some of the responses are ill-natured.
    BleuGirl83 BleuGirl83 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 4

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    Anyone willing to help?

    I'll message you it's a long story, probably not something you're used to but any advice at all would be much appreciated!
    AddisonBennoit AddisonBennoit 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    Hey I'm 16 years old

    and I just started at a new school, I'm terrible around people I don't know and haven't really made any friends. My class is planing a party. But I have never really been to one before. I have tasted alcohol before but never gotten drunk. I don't really have a problem with...
    orakelo orakelo 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    I have nobody , I need somebody.

    ... ( and I'm a male)
    ZFLII ZFLII 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    There was this guy I was talking to

    for a while & I guess I fell for him pretty fast because of the type of resin he was. He was fun & adventurous & a good kind of crazy, just an all around good guy to be around. Well he took me mudding for a weekend & we had an incredible fun weekend together, but then after that...
    perksofbeingsamm perksofbeingsamm 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Any Advice

    Hi. I don't know how to begin one of these, and I'm not really sure where to begin. I've tried writing several of these posts know, and I don't know how to say what I wish to say. It could be that my level of embarrassment about posting on here that is enabling my ability to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 7, 2013

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    What to do when your married

    but in love with someone else. My wife is such a nice person. Been there for me thru my lowest points in life. Never left my side once. Now that I'm better I don't want to turn my back on her. The woman I'm in love with is a life long friend that I've had feelings for for years...
    FishThinking FishThinking 41-45, M 2 Responses May 13

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    Yo, anyone from the UK

    that has done Camp America while at university ? i don't know whether to go next year after i have finished my second year of university, or go the year after graduation when there is nothing in the way. Also how much money did you have to save up in order to go (apart from the...
    TheFlamingLips TheFlamingLips 18-21, M Jul 18

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    I Hate My Mum

    This isn't just a typical love-hate relationship that I have with my mum. And I don't even know what it is that makes me feel so much hatred towards her, I never want her to touch me or hug me, I hate everything she says. She doesn't do anything to me that makes me feel like that...
    olddays13 olddays13 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 16, 2013

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    i'm posting this here on a site

    where i am nearly certain no one that personally knows me can find it.... my girlfriend has epilepsy and i worry about her a lot... she recently went to vegas for a trip with her mom and step dad, i didn't go because i couldn't afford it. when she got back...i could tell...
    maskedwest123 maskedwest123 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 8

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    So tonight my dad got to sit down

    and talk with Ashton and that went really well. I told Ashton if it did then I would go and meet his parents well..............I am scared to death to meet his mom and step dad...............I was in a relationship for four years where his mom and step dad hated me before they...
    SlimsB SlimsB 16-17, F Aug 30

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    Okay I work with kids of all ages,

    here is my advice please don't be the smelly kid. At the end of the day you could grow up and be that smelly man or lady at work. Think about it ?🙅🙇
    Missymay72 Missymay72 22-25, F May 29

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    chloeeadita chloeeadita 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 3

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    I am scared of falling in love ,

    someone please explain to me why, how can someone be afraid of something that's suppose to be so beautiful.
    teehee342 teehee342 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 6

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    Ok so this story goes back some years

    when I had an affair with a married man it was over pretty much as soon as it started! Although we did and still do work together and have managed to remain professional at work.... part of the reason it ended was due to the fact that I found out that something nearly happend...
    crazychick76 crazychick76 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 13

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    My cousin and I are in love.

    We love worlds apart. I in South Africa. Him in Portugal. But this has been something that has been going on since we were kids. And I never understood it. Until 2 years ago when I shared my feelings with him whilst were we on holiday there. He felt the same. Left his then...
    michelledesousa michelledesousa 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    I've been with this guy

    for a while, but found out he cheated on me! I feel lost & betrayed.
    Sweetcountrygirl79 Sweetcountrygirl79 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    In October of 2012, my ex

    and I broke up. We dated for four years and we were each other's first love. We usually broke up for about a few days and got back together; it wasn't so much that they were official break ups, we just needed a little space from each other since we were ALWAYS together. Anyway...
    trivy trivy 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 24

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    God knows that she's one of my good friends

    but what she does, makes me **** off especially with her boyfriend!!!! I CAN UNDERSTAND THAT HE WAS YOUR FIRST FOR EVERYTHING!!! BUT I CAN'T UNDERSTAND HOW YOU LET HIM KEEP YOU ON A LEASH....YOU CAN'T HANGOUT WITH US, YOU HAVE TO TELL HIM WHO YOUR WITH AND HE TELLS YOU WHAT TIME...
    Xmidniteangel15X Xmidniteangel15X 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    Years ago i met a man he loved me

    when i was unable to know what actual love was.i ran away from him. it hurt him But he still maintained contact w/ me. Oneday he called and said goodbye clearly upset but w/o a explanation. I was hurt but knew i deserved it. Last year he and i reconnected via soc. network. We...
    sinistergirl sinistergirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    Adam352 Adam352 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 14

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    There's this girl that I met online

    and she says that I make her happy and wants to be my girlfriend. I politely rejected her as I have been in an online relationship before that went south because she threatened to kill herself if I left. Though I told this new girl about it, she pretty much did the exact same...
    Cyanideheart Cyanideheart 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 13

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    Soo this is kinda long

    and weird I guess but I do need advice This weekend I am ment to be meeting up with someone so we can go to his house and watch films and potentially have sex but my issue is I'm not a virgin but I haven't had sex in like a year and I'm going to be really tight again I don't...
    DemiendoImaginations DemiendoImaginations 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    So I am trying to help my wife become more

    confident in herself, not only in her natural abilities and her beauty. She recently went out and bought a number of items of lingerie, really beautiful items that make her look stunning, but she won't wear them because she doesn't fell comfortable. I am her husband who loves...
    pwis2648 pwis2648 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 8

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    Hi, I'm a teenage guy

    and I always feel sad and disappointed about myself all the time after I masturb8 since I'm a christian. I don't like to masturb8 but sometimes i just fell unto it and can't control myself. I need help or any advice how can I totally cure this problem of mine.
    PleaseHelpThisGuy PleaseHelpThisGuy 16-17, M 6 Responses Aug 26

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    Not again, another silly statement

    that turned into the silent treatment! So I'm going off to uni in the next week or so and my mum starts to lecture me. Saying she's all worried and all. Yes I completely understand that it is her right to worry. She then goes on to say if anything happens, you always hide...
    Bhavika18 Bhavika18 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    How long should you wait

    until you text back a guy/girl? Also what's your opinion on the whole "who should text first"? I've grown up with the whole mentality that the guy should text first but I'm slowly realizing how stupid that is.
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I honestly don't know

    if anyone will care but I'm having some relationship problems and I'd really appreciate it if someone would help me out. Message me for details and if you genuinely care
    gummball gummball 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Ok here is what's up My name is Amanda

    and I have a bratty cousin that is 7 years old he lies he cheats in evry game and he is so sweet one minute then evil the next if you want to know more and have advice for me please speak up + I love all you peeps on ep so keep being who you are :)
    Dinosaurfanatic Dinosaurfanatic 13-15, F Jun 28

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    I really like this girl

    and she is bi but she has boyfriend ): I kissed her twice and she never said anything about it...I can't stop thinking about what she thinks about me.i don't know what to do
    kbforlife kbforlife 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    I have just been tested.

    .it showed that my cortisol levels were over double the amount they should be ..plus I have all the symptoms if Cushing's. I am 16 years old and already a type 1 diabetic for 8 years now. I Workout everyday and eat so strictly. The hardest part for me is the weight, feeling like...
    Tc97 Tc97 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    I'm recently divorced with one child

    and been with boyfriend who has three from two women and just found out he has another one from a one night stand. I'm devastated and don't know what to do? So much for my dream of another child.....
    cmplctd30s cmplctd30s 36-40, F Apr 3

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    So In these recent months I had been getting

    close to this girl, and we had become pretty good friends. She knew that I had a crush on her on several different occasions, and she didn't really feel the same way. Not until recently did I tell her that I was in love with her. Needless to say she still didn't feel the same...
    penumbraprime penumbraprime 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 8

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    ok so where I work at,

    there is this woman, she a cougar, im 19 an she like 30. She is always hitting on me, like yesterday, she said "I love you Drake" like whaaaaa. im not interested!!! I think imma gonna tell her im gay, before she told me she sleeps naked. like omg!! what she think im gonna tap...
    DracovNasser DracovNasser 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 17

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    Guys… Something's really bothering me right

    now… I really would love some help right now. You see, this guy with no experiences on his profile asked me what was on mind, so I answered him. Because it's anonymous and I can just block him.
    Alwaysthinkingaboutthings Alwaysthinkingaboutthings 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    It hurts me to even write this it makes me cry

    to even think about it. So I've been speaking to this boy for like a year and a half now and he's just amazing we FaceTime a lot we speak everyday without fail he always tells me how beautiful I am and how amazing he thinks I am he is always there for me he makes me laugh he...
    DemiendoImaginations DemiendoImaginations 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 28

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    I need "straight up, don't worry about my

    feelings" kind of advice! Preferably from a guys point of view so that