I Need Some Advice

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    So I am trying to help my wife become more

    confident in herself, not only in her natural abilities and her beauty. She recently went out and bought a number of items of lingerie, really beautiful items that make her look stunning, but she won't wear them because she doesn't fell comfortable. I am her husband who loves...
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    2 Responses Jul 8, 2014
    cowgirlstiles cowgirlstiles
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 29, 2015

    Can anyone give me any advice on how to get a

    girlfriend? i'm going to a dance on Wednesday night and I want to be prepared. give me any advice. ANYTHING!! PLEASE!!!
    Funkystronglover Funkystronglover
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Feb 8, 2016

    Let's start with i am a 32 yr old female with a

    problem. Let's start from the beginning. I'm met my husband in the bar I work in 8 yrs ago. We have had our struggles broke up for a year got back together married now it's 2.5 years later. When my husband and I were first dating he was having employment problems. A friend of...
    jessi977 jessi977
    36-40, F
    Aug 6, 2014

    What Should I Do?

    Hi All, I want some advice, thats why I landed on this forum. I am a girl, my age is 27. My only problem is i am heavy. I work as a IT professional, i have a masters degree, have many frnds, a superb family, healthy lifestyle and a wonderful comfortable living. Normally girls...
    GirlThinking GirlThinking
    26-30, F
    4 Responses May 31, 2012

    I need some advice now :(.

    Someone to talk to please
    shaybaby213 shaybaby213
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jun 5, 2014

    This will be the last I go on about this ****,

    but I found out on the weekend my ex-girlfirend and love of my life got back together with her abusive ex-boyfriend not long after she broke up with me. I'm guessing that's the reason she really dumped me. I'm also going to assume she has gone back to the police to drop the...
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    2 Responses Aug 10, 2015

    Signs It Is Time To Leave Him???

    I need some advice. I am contemplating my relationship. If I am always walking out the door, questioning if it will work and feeling trapped does that mean I should leave??? Even though he tells me what I want to hear when I feel this way, fights for me when he sees this...
    mina4380 mina4380
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Oct 24, 2013

    Christians only:can guys wear girls bathing suit

    because he likes the way it looks on him without it being religiousally wrong ?..
    news4you news4you
    18-21, M
    Nov 29, 2014

    How can I hang out/date

    when I go to school and immediately after that go to work? There's someone who I have really strong feelings for and I feel that she does too. I'm planning to ask her out (in a friendly way) soon and hopefully we can keep on spending time with each other outside of school, but...
    HeyRainbow HeyRainbow
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 7, 2015

    I need "straight up, don't worry about my

    feelings" kind of advice! Preferably from a guys point of view so that I can stop obsessing :/ and no creeps please :)
    Hockeygirl3 Hockeygirl3
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Feb 12, 2014

    I'm going to a wedding in the summer,

    August. I've joined a gym,took on a personal trainer whose told me with his help I'll be in really good shape by then. I've been looking at suits, I don't wear one very often,but I'm at a time in life were I'm trying to find myself,set myself a standard, I would like your advice...
    deg1965 deg1965
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Feb 18, 2016

    I've met someone who is polyamorous

    and interested in me. The latter is a rare occurrence and I do think I like her but I'm not sure if I'm capable of being with more then one person, I feel like I would get jealous if it wasn't only us. I haven't asked if she already is with someone because she just dropped this...
    ccarama ccarama
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jul 23, 2015

    I am getting teased at work

    for being different looking. They treat me rudely and laugh at me. I come home and deal with family issues. I am the black sheep in the family. They always talk bad about me to each other. Ignoring my cries for help. I have no friends because people avoid me. I don't know what...
    DeadlyArsenic DeadlyArsenic
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 19, 2016

    So, there's this EP guy

    that contacted me. He's extremely friendly, really sweet (not a sleaze bag like a lot of the men on here). He made it really clear to me that he likes me... So I looked at his profile and I saw that he was "looking for his soul mate". So we continued to converse for a few days...
    9yyu7900oom 9yyu7900oom
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 26, 2016

    PLEASE HELP ME! okay

    so long story short, I'm dating this guy. We were together not even a month and he cheats on me with his ex. I forgave him and we worked through that and moved on Later we went on a break to sort through issues He decided to start texting and calling his ex(same one) which...
    gummball gummball
    18-21, F
    10 Responses Mar 27, 2015

    So I have a crush on the sort of popular guy

    (of course) and even though hes in most of my classes, I never get a chance to talk to him. Or if I do I act so stupid. Did I mention he has an extremely pretty girlfriend (but rumors say they are breaking up) and another popular girl who is his good friend likes him? What...
    MarziaRose MarziaRose
    16-17, F
    1 Response Oct 16, 2015

    I need some help on something I know what the

    right thing to do is but I need someone to talk about it with 😔
    Holla34 Holla34
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 10, 2015

    I would really appreciate an outsider's opinion,

    so if someone could message me that would be great. I just feel a little hopeless right now.
    CaitlinBuchan97 CaitlinBuchan97
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 8, 2014


    MEN to answer only!*** Men...what are ways I can show complete submission & respect to my Husband? What does submission & respect look like to you, coming from a woman? I need some advice on how I can be an excellent submissive wife. How would you want your wife to act...
    DaughterofmyKing DaughterofmyKing
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 7, 2015

    My husband just said his brother's family means

    more to him than I mean to him. That he will always choose them over me. Im frozen. Im not sure how to react or if to bother. Im confused why he would be so cruel to me if its not true, and if its true then why try so hard to get me pregnant and convince me he loves me "so much...
    DesireHappy DesireHappy
    46-50, F
    2 Responses May 15, 2015

    I made this rhyme the other day

    and i feel like its giving advice to mself... Would you appreciate love witouth pain, sunshine witouth rain? try a day to bare my curse or weigh my brain, one day would make you insane, if life is an illusion then what the fack is a grave? Would you live with someone stuck...
    Adeadmanwalking Adeadmanwalking
    22-25, M
    1 Response Nov 2, 2015

    How do I learn to love myself.

    I'm the girl on the left and I literally despise the way I look. I'm only smiling because it's what you're supposed to do in a photo. I'm not confident at all. I'm 5'4. And weigh about 8 stone. I'm so tiny I feel like a little girl. I have everything about myself. And this isn't...
    HarrietAC HarrietAC
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Oct 6, 2014

    Complicated situation: If you have read my past

    stories you know about my situation with my female best friend. Quick update: last thing that happened is I asked her out and she said she "can't afford to have those feelings for anyone" because they would be "too destructive." However, her parents adore me, she agrees that we...
    marchdan marchdan
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jan 1, 2016
    Waiting4Wings Waiting4Wings
    18-21, F
    Jun 6, 2015

    So many of you have possibly read my previous

    posts. I couldn't figure out where to turn to get some help with this. So I thought I'd try here. Why not right? I need some time to clear my head. I need to get away from this place for a bit. Maybe a month or two bury myself in some kind of hard work that will keep my mind...
    Troutflies Troutflies
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Jan 24, 2016

    This experience is complex

    but I'm sure that some of you can relate. If you take the time to read this, I'm sure you will get something out of it. So I have always been attached to people older then me. I believe it's because of my maturity and leadership. I also have Tourette's syndrome. Most teachers...
    saboosa saboosa
    13-15, F
    Mar 2, 2016

    Anyone that knows a thing

    or two about soldering? I'd like to hear your recommendations at good soldering equipment and use. I'm tinkering with electronics. My project right now is building an amplifier and speakers, for a grander project I'll be doing later down the road. :) Any help is appreciated.
    Stormeyes Stormeyes
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 15, 2016
    monatonie monatonie
    26-30, F
    Feb 25, 2016

    Okay I work with kids of all ages,

    here is my advice please don't be the smelly kid. At the end of the day you could grow up and be that smelly man or lady at work. Think about it ?🙅🙇
    deleted deleted
    May 29, 2014

    I saw a sad post on facebook from one of my

    friends and she is always posting stuff about how guys have used her and she feels unloved. I decided to ask her out. My history with this girl is a near kiss 2 years ago and hanging a bit when we both worked at Wal-mart. When we hung out I was all meek and shy because my guard...
    Luckystraight Luckystraight
    Feb 6, 2016

    I need advice on relationships.

    ... I don't want the world to know what my problem is so if you would like to help then private message me. I may not talk to you I only talk to certain people. I want young people around my age not old people.
    Ladybug0724 Ladybug0724
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 15, 2015

    my grandmother always tells me to be

    as the palm tree, which sways in the wind and weathers the storm. but then again, she never stands up for anything anymore. i know in the past her husband abused her and her daughters, and she was brave enough to leave him. but all i see from her now is just trying to please...
    peaceinmiles peaceinmiles
    22-25, F
    3 Responses May 25, 2015

    Well recently I've started to drink.

    A lot. I don't drink so much i pass out drunk. Well I do drink a lot but i just get light headed. That's because I've been taking the risk of drinking vodka with tequila and two margaritas all mixed together in two big Gatorade bottles during school hours. Luckily none of...
    LauraChavez01 LauraChavez01
    16-17, F
    Dec 24, 2015

    Do you think that I should come out to my wife

    that I am bi curious? I want to explore but do not want to do anything behind her back, even though I think that she will leave me as she is so uptight when it comes to sex that I think she will divorce me, but I think I should be upfront and let the cards fall where they fall...
    erarmstrng erarmstrng
    51-55, M
    6 Responses Apr 6, 2015
    kimmyxox17 kimmyxox17
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 27, 2016

    I'm really torn. I signed up

    for this trip with my friend at college. It's my first time going somewhere without "an adult" and I was pretty excited until she bailed on me. Now the trip is in a week, and I don't know anyone going. It doesn't help that its a small group to begin with that are mostly guys...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 16, 2016

    This experience is complex

    but I'm sure that some of you can relate. If you take the time to read this, I'm sure you will get something out of it. So I have always been attached to people older then me. I believe it's because of my maturity and leadership. I also have Tourette's syndrome. Most teachers...
    saboosa saboosa
    13-15, F
    Mar 3, 2016
    HeyitsElla HeyitsElla
    22-25, F
    Feb 24, 2016

    I had this friend (guy) we've been friend

    for almost a year and its not the romantic kind or something but I know this story is common. I did develop feelings for him. I'm actually 2 years older than him. We watched movies, dine out and I'm really comfortable just talking to this person its seems I can talk anything to...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Mar 13, 2014

    I've been with this guy

    for a while, but found out he cheated on me! I feel lost & betrayed.
    Sweetcountrygirl79 Sweetcountrygirl79
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Dec 20, 2013

    I went to an event today

    and unexpectedly I was able to meet my director in my job area. The conversation went pretty well, until he asked me a question I wasn't expecting.. I got really nervous and felt I blew it, but I was honest to him. He told me that he will be emailing me. he asked quite a few...
    fabmara fabmara
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 18, 2015

    leaving for Florida for a week

    and a half on Tuesday and I still haven't told my parents yet.. its gonna be a war when they find out I'm going to live with a man for that time period. I'm expecting them to kick me out for not following their household laws, but that's okay because I'll just live in Florida...
    peaceinmiles peaceinmiles
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Jun 23, 2015

    My idiot bestfriend is in "love" with this guy

    and she has had ALOT of boyfriends who all leave her for dumb reasons after a while and she said that she loved them too. I don't get why she's such a dumbass when it comes to this stuff it's not logical and it bothers me when people do illogical things knowing it never worked...
    BackToBiege BackToBiege
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 7, 2016

    Hi. So I wanna know how to get closure,

    me and this guy were really close at the end of last year and then we sorta stopped talking and hanging out this year. I reallllly miss him and then just a few weeks ago we chatted again for a few days, but we've stopped again and there is more to it than that but anyway. I...
    merley99 merley99
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 25, 2014

    I injured my thumb at work

    and I filed a claim through workers comp. turns out I have tendonitis and will need therapy 3 times a week and I'm on 4 different pain meds to help with the pain. I can still go to work but there are some restrictions which include only working with one hand. Workers...
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    Jul 22, 2015
    chloeeadita chloeeadita
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 3, 2014

    I seriously need advice,

    it's gotten to the point that I don't know what to do anymore. So I've known this guy for a while and he's a major Otaku and I've been his friend. But it takes the cake when he told me he wants to date a live figure now.
    Xmidniteangel15X Xmidniteangel15X
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 6, 2016

    I believe we were all put here

    for a purpose. Each and every one has a greater purpose. In my 22 years of living, my goal was to always put a smile in ones face despite how horrible my day was going. I find joy in making people laugh and I find happiness when I see the sparkle in someone's eyes when I have...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Nov 14, 2015

    I have just been tested.

    .it showed that my cortisol levels were over double the amount they should be ..plus I have all the symptoms if Cushing's. I am 16 years old and already a type 1 diabetic for 8 years now. I Workout everyday and eat so strictly. The hardest part for me is the weight, feeling like...
    Tc97 Tc97
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 16, 2014

    um so this is kind of silly

    but i guess why not. i am a 15 year old girl and for the past few years, any of the presents i have received from my aunts have been horrible! one aunt in particular seems to think im still 8 years old and gives me hello kitty pencil cases to this day. Just recently, she gave...
    tiffanythegreat tiffanythegreat
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 13, 2015
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