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I Need Some Advice

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 335 People

    I Can Relate

    I myself have learning difficulties. This sounds like my childhood. My stepmother was a very lets say mean person, and my father was passive in a sense. I know what it feels like to be walking on egg shells, pretty much what I described my childhood, but I think counseling would...
    Reigel27 Reigel27 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 19, 2012

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    I m 17 and m totally clueless with wat to do

    with my life. i prefer solitude over any companionship or anything. I love reading, watching flims and cn do tht all day and write some. But hell tht wont fetch me a three times meal and any relationship i try always ends in a disaster or disappointment.
    sampat97 sampat97 22-25, M Feb 13

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    My past hasn't been too great,

    and my mum was in an abusive and controlling marriage. I have a boyfriend now who I've been with a few months and he is a little bit controlling,can somebody message me please because I need some advice!😔
    chloeeadita chloeeadita 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    Preparing For a Great Week

    ok, heres the deal me and my gf are going away for a week soon. and to put it bluntly, we're gonna be having sex all week. now, what i need from you guys is any home remedies or advice that i can use to ensure that sex is possible (and enjoyable) for the whole week. anything...
    1of2 1of2 22-25 1 Response Aug 9, 2009

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    Any Advice

    Hi. I don't know how to begin one of these, and I'm not really sure where to begin. I've tried writing several of these posts know, and I don't know how to say what I wish to say. It could be that my level of embarrassment about posting on here that is enabling my ability to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 7, 2013

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    I Hate My Mum

    This isn't just a typical love-hate relationship that I have with my mum. And I don't even know what it is that makes me feel so much hatred towards her, I never want her to touch me or hug me, I hate everything she says. She doesn't do anything to me that makes me feel like that...
    shannjane shannjane 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 16, 2013

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    If anyone would be willing to help me with

    something and you're good advice, please message me :)) I can help out too I just need someone who knows what to do in situations.
    katherinejaneee katherinejaneee 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    I need "straight up, don't worry about my

    feelings" kind of advice! Preferably from a guys point of view so that I can stop obsessing :/ and no creeps please :)
    Hockeygirl3 Hockeygirl3 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 12

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    I had this friend (guy) we've been friend

    for almost a year and its not the romantic kind or something but I know this story is common. I did develop feelings for him. I'm actually 2 years older than him. We watched movies, dine out and I'm really comfortable just talking to this person its seems I can talk anything to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Mar 13

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    9 months ago, my sister moved in with me

    after losing her job, car, and apartment. She has three children who stay at my house part time and with their father part time. Shortly after my sister moved in with me, she did get a low paying part time job and apparently she was satisfied with that. A few months later, she...
    thinkingmythoughts thinkingmythoughts 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    Demanding mom... what do you think?

    I need some advice. I am married, I have 2 boys and another boy on the way. My mom is a very upfront/ forward person and I don't mind that at all. I love my mom and would do anything to help her. Although lately the more I notice these things about her the more I like spending...
    jbnj12 jbnj12 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    In Need of Some Advice On How to Get Through to My Husband

    ok.. as cheezy as this may sound, here goes.. I think i may be a bit of a daydreamer when it comes to my marriage to my husband of only a year. Him and i do very well together in pretty much all aspects of our marriage but a few. I am the one that initiates sex majority of the...
    riggermmswife riggermmswife 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 4, 2007

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    I've been with this guy

    for a while, but found out he cheated on me! I feel lost & betrayed.
    Sweetcountrygirl79 Sweetcountrygirl79 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    Currently i m stuck with 2 choices

    that i have to make real soon. This affect my future careers. I m frustrated over them: 1. Choose BFA in digital animation -which is what i love -my high school grades do make the cut -i think a stronger passion can withstand tough times when i encounter setbacks -But the...
    gitzai gitzai 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    My cousin and I are in love.

    We love worlds apart. I in South Africa. Him in Portugal. But this has been something that has been going on since we were kids. And I never understood it. Until 2 years ago when I shared my feelings with him whilst were we on holiday there. He felt the same. Left his then...
    michelledesousa michelledesousa 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    Guys… Something's really bothering me right

    now… I really would love some help right now. You see, this guy with no experiences on his profile asked me what was on mind, so I answered him. Because it's anonymous and I can just block him.
    Alwaysthinkingaboutthings Alwaysthinkingaboutthings 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    I have nobody , I need somebody.

    ... ( and I'm a male)
    ZFLII ZFLII 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I really need an advice right now!

    I just dont know what to do. 😕
    babyeight08 babyeight08 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 1

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    Well I've started smoking with my friend .

    . She is younger that me and I don't want her to harm herself that way ... Nevertheless I know that if I tell her something like that she will get angry. What can I do??
    Lostsoul31 Lostsoul31 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 16

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    I have a 29 yr.old daughter she doesn't live

    with me,we got in a big argument,just started talking,i wsa off on spring break this we, I mentioned it,i shoudnt have,she hen asked if she could come over an use my interent,i said fine,well she has been here since.my youngest and her don't get-along,went to the mal,and she...
    likeable1120 likeable1120 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    Anyone Have A Teenage Boy?

    I am a mother of 4 ( 3 boys,18, 16, 12 and a 5 year old girl). The 18 year old is my problem. He only has 5 more months of school before he graduates( by a hair). He feels he should be able to do as he pleases...drinking, coming home when he wants, stay gone all weekend with...
    sstoney75 sstoney75 31-35 Dec 8, 2010

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    I'm taking seratide for depression

    but am still so depressed. My doctor isn't great so wanted to find out what works for others. My husband left and am finding it very hard without him. I just want to stop crying and be able to function properly. Any advice would be very gratefully received.
    mrsg1605 mrsg1605 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    I have just been tested.

    .it showed that my cortisol levels were over double the amount they should be ..plus I have all the symptoms if Cushing's. I am 16 years old and already a type 1 diabetic for 8 years now. I Workout everyday and eat so strictly. The hardest part for me is the weight, feeling like...
    Tc97 Tc97 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 16

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    Ok well there this new thing in high schools

    that have A days and B days. it is where students in high schools will have 8 classes and 4 in one day and other 4 classes the next daya. So i have PE during 2nd period and i had it today. Well today when PE was done and i went to locker room to change and when i was done one of...
    belieber1221 belieber1221 13-15, F Mar 20

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    Learning How to Kiss

    Well there is this guy in my high school that I really like but he is pretty experienced with kissing and making out. I on the other hand am totally not experienced in that way. And I really dont want embarass myself by not meeting his expectations! What do I do?
    cougarheart21 cougarheart21 16-18, F 5 Responses Jan 13, 2008

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    Signs It Is Time To Leave Him???

    I need some advice. I am contemplating my relationship. If I am always walking out the door, questioning if it will work and feeling trapped does that mean I should leave??? Even though he tells me what I want to hear when I feel this way, fights for me when he sees this...
    mina4380 mina4380 31-35, F 7 Responses Oct 24, 2013

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    What Should I Do?

    Hi All, I want some advice, thats why I landed on this forum. I am a girl, my age is 27. My only problem is i am 180 pounds but iam cute. I work as a IT professional, i have a masters degree, have many frnds, a superb family, healthy lifestyle and a wonderful comfortable living...
    GirlThinking GirlThinking 26-30, F 4 Responses May 31, 2012

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    February 28 I had to have a medical abortion.

    Reason for it was because I have been with my boyfriend for a long tjme we broke up for a month or two at the point my ex started talking to me we ended up hooking up. I regret it so much that I never wrote back to his text or anything this was the guy I was with for 6 years I...
    cinthiacin cinthiacin 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    Anyone willing to help?

    I'll message you it's a long story, probably not something you're used to but any advice at all would be much appreciated!
    AddisonBennoit AddisonBennoit 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    I am in love with a guy

    who has a girlfriend, and they have been together for 6 years. He knows that I love him but never say anything. What is in his mind!??
    kangjulia kangjulia 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    So basically I am deeply in love with a guy.

    We both used to live in the same town, until I moved away. He is older than me and he can drive, I cannot. We text all day and night every single day. He always says the sweetest things and I say them, back. I went back to the town for a week to visit. Every time I asked him to...
    pleasehelpmeout pleasehelpmeout 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 23

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    Life Goal

    I feel that God has lead me to start a different type of missions work in this deteriorating world of ours. It seems more and more like the youth of this world suffer the most out of everyone. The youth are the future and need Christ in their lives while they are young so that...
    Zodion Zodion 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 11, 2008

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    Anybody Some Advice

    I have my wedding coming up and my mil is manipulative. She thinks her princess youngest daughter is entitled to stand in my line being his sister when she is not paying for it but mainly cause she's been nothing but rude to me out of jealousy. Not that im anything great but she...
    05britney 05britney 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 13, 2009

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    My 19 yr old daughter met a guy

    and they started a relationship a little over a year ago. My daughter brought him to our house a few times and we all liked him....fast forward....they are now living with me and they just had a baby 5 days ago. I was in the delivery room with him and my daughter to watch the...
    woozey513 woozey513 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 29

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    Why Is My Crush Not Talking To Me Anymore?

    I know this is a lot but PLEASE HELP. This guy I met offline, started texting me some months ago but I was in a relationship at that time so I kept it on a friendly level. He was in a relationship too but I think it was on and off for two-three years. I was with my boyfriend for...
    illusionsssss illusionsssss 18-21, F Aug 5, 2013

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    I Dont Belong Here

    Well Lets see I don't know where to begin,  I am here writing my story because I truly feel like im at wits end..... My childhood consited of me and my two sisters( i am oldest)  and my mother and father. When I was around 10 or 11 I remember my parents used to go into their...
    AnnonymousPerson AnnonymousPerson 18-21, F Aug 13, 2011

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    :s

    does anyone have a good way of coping with seeing a picture of their ex with a new girlfriend? I'm sorry if it sounds funny, I should have got over him etc but can anyone understand what I'm talking about? And has anyone got any advice?
    papercastles papercastles 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 23, 2009

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    chloeeadita chloeeadita 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 3

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    So I'm moving out of state.

    .. And the one girl I've liked for about 8 months tells me she likes me a lot. We spent all weekend hanging out and doing goofy things. What should I do? I mean.... She seriously lights up my day like the sun. The problem? She's 16...
    KrysParks KrysParks 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    Hi, I have been having trouble with my

    boyfriend lately, or so it seems... My boyfriend is better at everything than me. He's a great Artist, he's amazing at it. Before I met him, I always tried my hardest to draw as good as he does, he's a natural. He always surprised me every time he drew.He's also great at playing...
    Niightmare Niightmare 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    I'm recently divorced with one child

    and been with boyfriend who has three from two women and just found out he has another one from a one night stand. I'm devastated and don't know what to do? So much for my dream of another child.....
    cmplctd30s cmplctd30s 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Well ... The last three days every time I have

    a fight or I am sad a headache appears It is really annoying and makes me wanna fall asleep and never wake up The problem is that I don't know why it happening or how I can face it .. Any advice would be useful
    Lostsoul31 Lostsoul31 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    I need BETTER advice

    as some of the responses are ill-natured.
    BleuGirl83 BleuGirl83 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 4

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    My cousin used to always want to visit with me

    and come over to my house. He used to also hate his home. When I called him and told him that I wanted him to come over he agreed. He sounded different than usual, but I didn't think anything of it. When I called him and asked him if he could find a ride over he said he was...
    moose73630 moose73630 16-17, M 3 Responses Apr 2

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    I Need Advice On How To Get My Ex Girlfriend Back?

      Me and my ex dated for 6 months. We love eachother a lot. But in those 6 months we did fuss alot and eventually her parenst found out how much we did fuss. So one day she was crying and they saw her and now they dont want me with her anymore. I cant even text her but she...
    Gpapo Gpapo 22-25 2 Responses Apr 18, 2011

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    Family Problems

    As a young kid i used to be skinny. However, around grade 3 i started getting a bit fat. My parents started to discourage me and said girls are not supposed to be fat. I did not care at first. Whenever they called any of my relatives they would make fun of me by calling me fat...
    familyproblems familyproblems 16-17 2 Responses Jul 16, 2011

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    Hey EP So here's the story; There's a girl I

    met online. We were part of the same guild in an online game. We spoke a lot on team speak. A few months back, the guild dissolved but we have kept in touch. Last night when chatting, I mentioned that I had a thing for her and may have acted on it if she wasn't into another guy...
    Drcreegan Drcreegan 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    HELP !!

    Im so confused that im not even sure what to write but ill try........  My homelife seems non existant......my 2 children have no relationship with their step-dad whom ive been married to for 7yrs now, and i feel like piggy in the middle.....if i take my kids side...
    TIPSY TIPSY 36-40, F 8 Responses Nov 20, 2007

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    I am someone who battles some depression,

    self worth, anxiety issues. I am not very good with social situations and have a hard time putting myself out there. I like things but I don't really have any particular hobbies or things that I am really wry passionate about. I am in this sort of odd relationship and I think I...
    9Cerulean9 9Cerulean9 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 9

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    It's best if a girl reads this post please I

    need advice I don't know what's wrong with me, if you are willing to help message me. Thnx! -SG
    StRiKiNgEEk StRiKiNgEEk 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 2

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    Related Experiences

    There's this really cute, adorable girl in two of my classes. The problem is I would like to get to know her better, but I haven't even had a real conversation with her and its the...
    TheAbyssWalker TheAbyssWalker 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    So I feel really overwhelmed this last few months. A lot of stuff has been going on. I need some advice on this situation I am in. About a few years back I met two guys off online...
    ButterflyPrincess876 ButterflyPrincess876 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 24

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    I don't judge I'm for gay rights. I want to help people. I've suffored depression so I understand pain. I have a couple friends who've had eating disorders and I've helped them as...
    Darkflowers Darkflowers 13-15, F Mar 27

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    I need some advice on how i can get back together with my ex even if it might not work i need a plan
    CESARR7 CESARR7 16-17, M 3 Responses Mar 24

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    I need some advice. So basically, like 4 years ago ( I know a long time) I dated this guy and I really liked him but he had to move to a different country, so we broke up. I still...
    findmyways findmyways 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    Recently, I have been doing yoga and meditation. I pray to god before my yoga and meditation that I get the most out of it. I feel like god is very close to me now. I feel closer...
    Scarlett13 Scarlett13 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 9