I Need Some Relationship Advice

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 401 People

    I feel like I'm getting in the way of my bf's

    happiness with his kid but we have a life here in oregon and we r trying to build one and he wants to be in California only to attempt to she his four year old kid .moving there and starting from scratch would be difficult and harder. It's easier and safer here. He hasn't...
    samanddanica samanddanica
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 1, 2015

    I'm 47 and divorced. Gf is 45

    and divorced. We have been together for a bit over three months. Great relationship, we care deeply for each other. How long is appropriate before saying "I love you?" Also what would make a nice Christmas gift considering how long we've been together?
    Onewithone Onewithone
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Dec 5, 2014

    There is this girl, she is new to

    or school! Like 3 days, and she is pretty hot. We'll she likes me! She told my best friend that she liked me. But I won't to be hard to get but keep her wonting me' like make her kinda crazy over me! Because I have always bin the easy one to get so now i won't to be little...
    ison71 ison71
    18-21, M
    1 Response Feb 5, 2014

    Ok....so here's the deal.

    I think my instructor may like me. We have one more week of class and I think I like him too. I don't think he's married because I've never seen a ring on his finger. He's got this sexy English accent! lol. I run into him often before class, and we get to talk for a bit. After...
    mombo2010 mombo2010
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 29, 2015

    So I've found out my girlfriend loves another

    guy, I have suspicious she's planning on either leaving me for him or just cheating on me. She doesn't know that I know and she's trying hard to lie to me. I asked her if she's hiding any, she says no, I asked her if something is going on between them, she says no. But I have...
    Resoner Resoner
    22-25, M
    1 Response Feb 18, 2015

    It's not necessarily me,

    but it's my dad. He is in a parasitic relationship. They don't live together, she cheated on him once -- and he knows it -- forgave her. From time to time she asks him for favors (money) and emotional support when things go wrong and in return she does nothing. She didn't...
    deleted deleted
    Aug 16, 2015

    Not So Much For Me...

    I need advice about what to do with my brother. He had low self-astem (forgive the spelling), and married someone who honestly treats him like crap, but he doesn't have backbone enough to stand up for himself. They moved three hours away to other family my brother and I. They...
    Littledove Littledove
    18-21, F
    Nov 7, 2011

    Alright, so i am now almost a year into

    motherhood and i have found it really hard to try and find someone who is actually willing and wanting to be with me or stay with me because of that fact. Though when i started working at my job back in july i met this guy and we hit it off right from the start...i thought he...
    BitchSuckMyLeftNut BitchSuckMyLeftNut
    18-21, F
    Feb 26

    When I turned legal drinking age in my state,

    my boyfriend of 2 years took me out. Naturally I had way too many shots and blacked out.. He carried me up and while knowing what kind of condition I was in, took advantage of me. We've now been together for 3 years and I've just heard about this and now feel violated and...
    Lonelywifeyxoxo Lonelywifeyxoxo
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 16, 2014

    So a few days ago there was a cute guy

    that mysterious appeared at my school. He seemed really cool and sorta into me, but he has vanished. The teacher still calls him on roll call, and he's been gone over a week now. How am I to find this attractive stranger?
    thescruffofamoose thescruffofamoose
    18-21, F
    Feb 26, 2015
    FromJennyWithLove FromJennyWithLove
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 22

    I need some relationship help,

    it's online dating, but i still need help, could you please message me if you think you could help, I've asked many people, but none of them could help
    TheMatespritlessMakara TheMatespritlessMakara
    16-17, M
    1 Response Jun 2, 2015

    Man's Abrasive Personality Worth It?

    I have a friend who wants to date me. I'm lonely, but I don't think I'm quite THAT lonely. Every time we go out in public, I feel like putting a paper bag over my face so that no one will recognize me later and connect me with the rude man. He seems to consider it his...
    IAmReaching IAmReaching
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Nov 6, 2009

    So I've been dating this guy a little over 3

    months now. Before we got together I was talking to a guy named Zeke. We stopped talking because my mom found out and she didn't allow it since he was older than me, and he's mixed. I saw him about a week ago and we hung out. I have always had feelings for him and they keep...
    Sheb33 Sheb33
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 1

    I've been with my boyfriend

    for 2 1/2 years. One of the main problems we have in our relationship is intimacy. He has trouble/lack of interest in affection, emotions, romance, and sex. I've talked to him countless times about this problem, but nothing has changed all this time. I just don't know if I can...
    StrangeDisaster StrangeDisaster
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Mar 20, 2015

    First off, there is no relationship,

    but I am still looking for input from people on my situation. Back Story – in 2012 I was working a job on contract, I was married at the time but the marriage was in trouble. A new girl started working with me and we became close friends, however she is 15 years younger than...
    meathelmet meathelmet
    36-40, M
    Oct 20, 2015

    i have a lot on my mind

    and ive been through some stuff throughout my life but ive been with my current boyfriend for almost 2 years and i think its all starting to fall apart. will someone please listen to my story and tell me if its anything to worry about?!
    AmIAllAlone1996 AmIAllAlone1996
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 3, 2014

    PLEASE Help me! I am in an LDR (Long Distance

    Relationship) With someone, and I love him more than the world! Even if i built a life without him I would drop it all if he called, but I don't know what to do! He lives in the USA, and I in England....It's so far away that I can't tell what's lonelier; Not having someone to...
    goldenlord52 goldenlord52
    16-17, M
    1 Response Apr 30, 2015

    I am in need some relationship counselling.

    .things are going crazy!!Would like to know a woman's perspective in my issue
    Simplicity9711 Simplicity9711
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Jan 15

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    someoneforyou12 someoneforyou12
    22-25, F
    Mar 22, 2015

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    astrudcc11 astrudcc11
    26-30, F
    Jul 27, 2015

    I have been dating this guy

    for six months. This is my first more serious relationship after a previous twelve year relationship. Embarrassed to say I did meet this guy online. We have the best times together! We both feel a connection emotionally, physically, intellectually, and have similar morals and...
    suzy0118 suzy0118
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Jul 21, 2014

    Well I don't know how to start this other

    than i am aware I did something dumb and it bit me in the BUTT. My husband and I have been together for ten years and we have 2 year old and a 8 year old. So for april fools day i was looking up ideas on what type of pranks to play on my husband and family and i came across...
    Jemmajeanmonroe Jemmajeanmonroe
    31-35, F
    4 Responses May 1, 2015

    im in love with this girl called Maya

    and she is my friends girlfriend i am in love with her i cant stop thinking about her, i want to spend the rest of my life with her. i would take a bullet for her, im a royal marine so if SHE wants me to spend the rest of me life with her then she will have to cope with my shell...
    FrozenSoldier1245 FrozenSoldier1245
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Sep 24, 2015

    Stuck On Matter

    I met this wonderful man two years ago. We are both in our late 40's. We are perfect for each other, and we compliment each other's personalities in more ways than one.    I haven’t had it easy with relationships in the past.  I’ve had two failed marriages, and that has...
    moree moree
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Oct 4, 2011

    My boyfriend and I have been together

    for 2 years now and I used to be his priority but now it feels like he doesn't care anymore. We saw each other almost everyday but lately he want to see his friends more and I understand that, it's just that he's all of a sudden wanting to go out every other couple days and it's...
    AbbyCee AbbyCee
    18-21, F
    Sep 29, 2015

    Help! So there's this guy I really,

    really like. He lives 4 hours away, but my crush on him is intense, so I'm committed. He's given lots of signs that he likes me - he wants to talk to me, he teases me, he looks at me a lot when we see each other, and he drops these.... hints. I had a gut feeling that he had...
    thelupine thelupine
    13-15, F
    Feb 11

    Relationship NEED HELP!

    My boyfriend of over a year said he wanted to take a break recently. We have always had a wonderful loving relationship, but he went to college and has started partying a ton, I’m a few years older and almost past that crazy party stage in my life. When he first went to school...
    mgirl11 mgirl11
    26-30, F
    Nov 26, 2013

    My fiancé is catfishing other women.

    He is my best friend, I love him, our life, his family, friends, everything barring 2 things is perfect. 1st thing is he has ED, which I think relates to the 2nd... He is catfishing other women. We don't have 'bedroom closeness' that often, I've tried everything, spoke to...
    blueflower86 blueflower86
    26-30, F
    Aug 31, 2015


    Lately I've been questioning myself a lot. It seems my relationship has reached this point of questioning that I'm not able to answer. It's like an overflow of ambivalence over the scenario. Am I not giving the trust needed in a relationship by being logical in my eyes? Or is...
    cbcnng cbcnng
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Oct 24, 2012

    Childhood Sweetheart

    im only 18 but i have been with my boyfriend 8 years, i am so inlove with him. never been or wanted anyone else. we was so happy together, it was like a fairy tail but i never got my happy ever after. 2 years ago he cheated on me with my gay best friend. yes my bf is bisexual i...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 7, 2012

    me and my boyfriend didnt break up…

    but we are on a ‘break’ bc i became too needy and he wants me to grow more independent so we can be stronger together. we both agreed not to see other ppl but of course its hard to trust. anyway, the break started about 3 weeks ago. i have been ignoring him since. he caved...
    insanityler insanityler
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Apr 7, 2015

    How would you feel if you have expressed to

    your mate that you Feel excluded from their life and the very next day you wake up after they were supposed to be leaving to go to work and realize that there in the hospital and didn't tell you but told Facebook how would you feel?
    imireallyhere23 imireallyhere23
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jul 21, 2014

    Sighhhhh. Im currently on a break with my

    boyfriend. We have been dating for a year and a half, this is our first break. We both agreed we need space to grow. At first I was against it, but I can see that we need space to build ourselves so we can be stronger together. We also said we aren't looking to see other people...
    insanityler insanityler
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 20, 2015

    This will probably sound like absolute insanity

    but I really want to have kids at my young age and so dose my girlfriend... We been talking back and forth for a couple days now and we have even talk about it in the past and we are really really wanting to have kids and though we don't plan on having any right now where really...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Dec 3, 2014

    It's like... I don't see what I do to deserve

    the treatment that I get. But I don't wanna go into detail with that right now. It's like I lost my brother. It's not just someone that I've known for a short period of time and went out with because he was cute. I've known him since I was young and almost as long as I can...
    cuzimTHATchick cuzimTHATchick
    13-15, F
    May 29, 2015

    So i'm with the father of my kids.

    We split up a few times over the yrs, but have been back together for awhile I find myself remembering what caused me to leave in the past, also finding out things about him that I really wish I didn't know.....I don't think it is going to last and find myself to be alright with...
    deleted deleted
    Oct 21, 2015

    Okay, so I'm going to start off by saying I am

    thirteen. And there are two guys, my current boyfriend, let's call him Sean, and my ex-boyfriend, ed. Sean is 22 ( I know that is really bad) we have been going out for just a bit more than 5 months, and I know he loves me a lot. ( I'm not just saying that) but he gets really...
    Fluffydinosaurshoe Fluffydinosaurshoe
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 25, 2015

    So my boyfriend and I have recently decided we

    should do our own thing for a little bit... We started dating shortly after I had broken up with someone and I feel like I never had the chance to find myself again after that relationship but Josh seemed like everything I needed in a person relationship wise. He cared, and...
    Organicmachine Organicmachine
    26-30, F
    Sep 30, 2015

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    kerenccaa kerenccaa
    26-30, F
    Dec 15, 2015

    My boyfriend n I have been dating

    for 2 months. We are constantly arguing but not over anything big. Before we dated he tried to date me for years but now since he got me everything is different. For the last couple of days it seems like he always have a excuse for ignoring n avoiding me. I told him if he wants...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jul 18, 2015

    How would you feel if your gf sent you this.

    .... What do I see when I look at you? This is truth and I don't what you in any way to be down about what I am about to say. When I look at you I see someone who lacks ambition. Outside of your job and paying bills I don't ever hear you saying anything about what you want to...
    shunjustin shunjustin
    36-40, M
    4 Responses Apr 19, 2014

    I met this girl around two weeks ago

    and have not been able to stop thinking about her. I'll give you guys/gals a little bit of background info I have never been in a real relationship with someone like BF&GF and had little interest in finding one until I met her I know that this might sound a little cheesy but I...
    SomeYoungGuy88 SomeYoungGuy88
    22-25, M
    Dec 19, 2015

    Should I break up with my boyfriend?

    We have been dating for a year and 2 months and he's a freshmen in college and I'm a senior in high school. I have been feeling really distant with him because he's always busy with work and college and I kind of feel like I'm in the way. I try to be patient and understanding...
    Kcfc4 Kcfc4
    18-21, F
    Mar 8

    I've recently started seeing this guy a few

    times and he's a great guy. He's handsome, funny, sweet, protective but not overprotective, and I adore him. The only problem is that he has an exgf who hurt him pretty bad by cheating on him and using him for money to buy drugs. He's still pretty broken about it, but that doesn...
    AlicebeneyisSilvereyes AlicebeneyisSilvereyes
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 16, 2014

    I know my boyfriend loves me,

    but recently he's been talking to an ex-colleague of his who he admitted is very attractive. He's met her for lunch once (as far as I am aware) and he's invited her along to a bar one night when it was his uni mates gathering and I was there too. It was the first time I met...
    april0132 april0132
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 30, 2015

    I really need some advice from an outside

    perspective. I feel torn between to men and it's breaking my heart. A few month ago I split up with my ex who I have a 3 year old to, we was together for 5 and half years. I was unhappy through most of the relationship we got together young and I was in a very low place when we...
    BusyMummy90 BusyMummy90
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 21, 2015

    Im so confused, frustrated,

    remorseful and sad. I dont know how to help my boyfriend we have been together for a year but i really hurt him:( i betrayed him and he found out and i apologised and he knew it was because of my issues(the guy was a lot older and i was raped before by an older man) we decided...
    Dana93y Dana93y
    22-25, F
    Jul 26, 2014

    im in love with this girl called Maya

    and she is my friends girlfriend i am in love with her i cant stop thinking about her, i want to spend the rest of my life with her. i would take a bullet for her, im a royal marine so if SHE wants me to spend the rest of me life with her then she will have to cope with my shell...
    FrozenSoldier1245 FrozenSoldier1245
    18-21, M
    1 Response Sep 24, 2015
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