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I Need Someone to Be There For Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 624 People

    Im There For Them But I Want Someone For Me

    I have always helped my friends, even a random stranger here and there, but when i need someone nobody is willing to help. problems come like a curse to me and never go away some times i just was to let it out to someone but i never do. i am the one everyone goes to but when i...
    theshortloud1 theshortloud1 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 18, 2009

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    Had Enough

    Lost my Mum at 4. Dad abandon me. Abused by a family relative. Have been "alone" ever since. Adulthood never brought me the freedom and security I craved. Mistake after Mistake I made. All I have encountered is hurt and pain so I built a wall, from which I never wane. Can't trust...
    angelaurora36 angelaurora36 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 16, 2012

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    I am so sick of being there

    for other people, but when I need them they are never there for me. I need them to actually be there for me and not just say they will. I can't do this alone anymore.
    Forevertired22 Forevertired22 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 6

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    I Have Nobody.

    Hey, Firstly, I'd just like to introduce myself to all of you, but to achieve what I need, I need to be open. My name is Harry and I'm 17 years old, my birthday is the 13th of August 1996. I suffer from melancholic depression and mild anxiety. I find it hard to trust people I get...
    HarryRouBennett HarryRouBennett 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    Oh So Badly

    A few months ago I went through some medical stuff. Some stuff that even the doctors didn't know much about. I had to undergo tests and procedures and I was terrified. Now I dont have an abundance of really good friends, but I thought I had a small group of close friends, people...
    hopelessromantic137 hopelessromantic137 18-21, F 2 Responses May 14, 2012

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    Truely Alone

    i feel like im alone in this world. like its a simulation and im the big joke. i feel like no one knows me, no one can relate to me or comfort me. i truely am alone. people always say they are going to be there. i need someone to be there for me.
    Estiban Estiban 18-21, M 5 Responses Jul 25, 2009

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    Yeah i ned someone ._.

    Poo /. im really lonely and im such a loner like srsly. . .
    Andyusually Andyusually 13-15, M 3 Responses Jul 20, 2014

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    mesitah mesitah 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    I Am So Lonely

    I really wish I could meet my soulmate as I am so lonely, I don't have anyone to talk to, share my feelings and thoughts. Someone I can laugh with, all my close friends are happily married and don't have time to socialize with me. I really pray to meet my soulmate soon, or even a...
    betty1975 betty1975 36-40, F 4 Responses May 13, 2012

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    Badly, Very Badly

    More than ever before, I really need someone to be here for me in my time of great despair. I'm not even sure if my "friends" care about me the way they say they do. Depression and I go hand-in-hand, so I wouldn't be surprised if my "friends" avoid me on purpose to not have to...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 19, 2011

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    I'm there for everyone I love

    but no one seems to care that I'm heartbroken, emotional and angry. All I get from everyone I know is, "stop moping around and be productive." It hurts, he broke my heart and I'm still coping with the pain and the loss. I'm struggling and I have to pick up the pieces on my own...
    soulfulmuse soulfulmuse 18-21, F Jul 7

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    There is no one I am alone youth

    and prime going wasted it hurts tumultuous moments of ****** bring nothing but pain tears and reminder how lonely one is forever more .....tears of pain wanting a real companion and never finding one ever years and years gone by what a big deal it is to want , to ask for, to...
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F May 7

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    This year's was the most disappointing year

    I've ever had. let's start with valentine's day, haven't been wished a happy valentine's day in a long time. No big deal right? Its a fake hoilday anyways. Next St Patrick's Day, made plans to go see the parade and spend the day in the city. All my friends bail on me so I go...
    Simiyes Simiyes 26-30, M Jan 1

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    I really live in a depression

    and a sense of always sad do not know the reason became not sleep and become not eat too much and become thinking a lot and became a hate my life and myself became complain to God when they worship and ask God to forgive me for any mistakes I did in my life and I makes me happy...
    Taheraz10 Taheraz10 18-21, M May 8

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    So me and my boyfriend have been dating

    for 10 months almost 11 and it's so closed to a year. We love each other but we got into this argument and we kinda both broke it off then he texted me and I only read it and didn't reply he kept texting me and I didn't reply then I replied and told him I didn't want to talk to...
    Geovani00 Geovani00 18-21, M 1 Response May 7

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    Anyone out there depressed,

    wanting someone? 😔
    yenelinini yenelinini 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 2, 2014

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    When Life's Journey Cries For Rest Here In Peace

    Come September I will be old by 62 years. For many it is high time to retire having discharged various responsibilities. I could none. Life is an utter failure. There is nothing wrong with me; everything is good; appearance, thought... everything.All it happened because of...
    Nahoosh Nahoosh 61-65, M Jan 5, 2013

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    Aside from the school year being over I've

    found a number of people recently that I'm comfortable to share my feelings with. It took time and that time was difficult, but for something to fall into place another must fall out.
    Lovemusicfckdepression Lovemusicfckdepression 13-15, F May 18, 2014

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    I Need Someone

    I have always been there for my friends and family. when ever they needed me or just needed someone to talk too. But when i need to talk about something no one wants to talk too me or comfort me. I feel so alone all the time because i don't have anyone to comfort me or talk too...
    krissyluv krissyluv 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 19, 2009

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    I Am A Ditz

    For so long I longed to have someone there for me and then I realized that I was just crazy thinking.  I have many people in my real life that are there for me in my real life and some of them are on EP as well with me, Snowbunny1002, Bluebie, Silver01ta, HistoryGent...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2010

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    Current Thinking

    it seems like I've always been the one taking care of people. When they fall in love or when they break up or when they just need a b!tch, I've picked up the pieces and said the right things. It hurts when people only realise when you get something wrong. And now I feel I may...
    u2rhere2 u2rhere2 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 29, 2010

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    I recently got back from a after-hours corn

    maze with a friend. It was fun, but it was really dark and kind of scary.. I didn't really feel secure. Everyone else was laughing and running around and I was kind of just worried. I just need somebody that makes me feel safe
    TheGirlYouNeverKnew TheGirlYouNeverKnew 18-21, F Oct 26, 2014

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    All I seem to do lately is cry.

    I've cried for 16 days straight cause I missed my boyfriend who was in America and then the day he came back I found out he's been on here messaging other girls and lying to me.
    PrettyPrincess23 PrettyPrincess23 18-21, F 1 Response May 8

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    Its the highs and lows.

    Some days are good and a lot of them suck. I want to have an actual conversation with someone and have it have nothing to do with sex or drugs or hooking up. I just want someone I can talk to honestly and not have to hide how I'm feeling. Someone who could put up with my mood...
    alyssakayart alyssakayart 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    I have recently had a miscarriage

    and had to get through it alone . If anyone had a similar situation I'd like to talk
    carin0326 carin0326 41-45, F Jul 3, 2014

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    I Wish For This So Much.....

    I am sick of always propping up other people and them not being there for me. I guess I am seen as the dependable one, the one who will always look out for you. I think people take it for granted that I will always be there and so they think nothing of it now. I am tired of...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 11, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    Hey. I just want a pen pal / online friend. I'm currently 17 but I'd prefer someone older. Unless you consider yourself mature for your age. I have a lot going on and it would...
    SarahBerry1 SarahBerry1 18-21, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Just putting it out there for anyone who needs it. :)
    alexandrajoliexx alexandrajoliexx 13-15, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I just generally need someone to talk to... To spill my ****** life out to. someone who wont judge... MSG if your up to it... thanks...
    Fernblaze101 Fernblaze101 13-15 11 hrs ago

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    This is a rather selfish request, but I need someone to be there for rn. It probably doesn't make any sense. If you want to talk, I'll listen. (Keep in mind that I am very...
    ohgodijustneedausername ohgodijustneedausername 18-21, F 19 hrs ago

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    I really need someone to tell me what the point of life is. Cliche I know. I've just not been feeling well about life lately. I don't understand why we do what we do. Everything...
    xPrincessMia xPrincessMia 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have overcome severe depression, addiction amongst other problems thanks to friends, family and counselors. I would like to give a helping hand to any of you who are needing...
    7lulu 7lulu 41-45, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have survived many challenges, overcome severe depression and loneliness, addiction and others. Thanks to the support of friends family and counselors I have become well and in...
    7lulu 7lulu 41-45, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I need someone to talk to because I'm going through a really hard time right now I'm dealing with a break up and the loss of 2 VERY sweet and loved cousins I just need a bit of...
    Twylitte Twylitte 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    i need someone too talk too about anything ..............?
    goodnitesbedwetting goodnitesbedwetting 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I need someone. Feeling rather emotional right now
    kshine27 kshine27 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I need someone to talk to:(please?
    Thedarkprincessooo Thedarkprincessooo 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I just really need someone to talk to.. I'm feeling so alone and I'm losing sight of who I am..help.. ;-;
    ShyProdigy ShyProdigy 16-17, M 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I want someone I can talk to without being judged. Someone who will be there for me not leave when they don't need me, and come back when they need something. I just hate it how...
    Kid1221 Kid1221 22-25, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Really need someone to talk to :(
    stallionblack stallionblack 13-15, F 9 Responses 6 days ago

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    Really need someone to talk to tonight
    TaylorXXoX TaylorXXoX 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Need someone to talk to ASAP
    Kellyfoster2000 Kellyfoster2000 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I wish I had someone just to talk to about all the **** in my life, and would listen, and understand me. My family never and my friends aren't the kinda people to talk about my...
    Masonh928 Masonh928 16-17, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Is someone there to talk? I'm bored.
    amtired amtired 22-25, F 4 Responses a week ago

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