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I Need Someone to Be There For Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 568 People

    I recently got back from a after-hours corn

    maze with a friend. It was fun, but it was really dark and kind of scary.. I didn't really feel secure. Everyone else was laughing and running around and I was kind of just worried. I just need somebody that makes me feel safe
    TheGirlYouNeverKnew TheGirlYouNeverKnew 18-21, F Oct 26, 2014

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    Oh So Badly

    A few months ago I went through some medical stuff. Some stuff that even the doctors didn't know much about. I had to undergo tests and procedures and I was terrified. Now I dont have an abundance of really good friends, but I thought I had a small group of close friends, people...
    hopelessromantic137 hopelessromantic137 18-21, F 2 Responses May 14, 2012

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    I Am So Lonely

    I really wish I could meet my soulmate as I am so lonely, I don't have anyone to talk to, share my feelings and thoughts. Someone I can laugh with, all my close friends are happily married and don't have time to socialize with me. I really pray to meet my soulmate soon, or even a...
    betty1975 betty1975 36-40, F 4 Responses May 13, 2012

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    I wish my "friends" would actually be there

    when I need them.. I don't see that happening tho.. nobody is ever there for me. :/
    Louder4life Louder4life 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 2

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    I really live in a depression

    and a sense of always sad do not know the reason became not sleep and become not eat too much and become thinking a lot and became a hate my life and myself became complain to God when they worship and ask God to forgive me for any mistakes I did in my life and I makes me happy...
    Taheraz10 Taheraz10 18-21, M May 8

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    Current Thinking

    it seems like I've always been the one taking care of people. When they fall in love or when they break up or when they just need a b!tch, I've picked up the pieces and said the right things. It hurts when people only realise when you get something wrong. And now I feel I may...
    u2rhere2 u2rhere2 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 29, 2010

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    I Have Nobody.

    Hey, Firstly, I'd just like to introduce myself to all of you, but to achieve what I need, I need to be open. My name is Harry and I'm 17 years old, my birthday is the 13th of August 1996. I suffer from melancholic depression and mild anxiety. I find it hard to trust people I get...
    HarryRouBennett HarryRouBennett 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    I Am A Ditz

    For so long I longed to have someone there for me and then I realized that I was just crazy thinking.  I have many people in my real life that are there for me in my real life and some of them are on EP as well with me, Snowbunny1002, Bluebie, Silver01ta, HistoryGent...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2010

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    Badly, Very Badly

    More than ever before, I really need someone to be here for me in my time of great despair. I'm not even sure if my "friends" care about me the way they say they do. Depression and I go hand-in-hand, so I wouldn't be surprised if my "friends" avoid me on purpose to not have to...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 19, 2011

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    Truely Alone

    i feel like im alone in this world. like its a simulation and im the big joke. i feel like no one knows me, no one can relate to me or comfort me. i truely am alone. people always say they are going to be there. i need someone to be there for me.
    Estiban Estiban 18-21, M 5 Responses Jul 25, 2009

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    There is no one I am alone youth

    and prime going wasted it hurts tumultuous moments of ****** bring nothing but pain tears and reminder how lonely one is forever more .....tears of pain wanting a real companion and never finding one ever years and years gone by what a big deal it is to want , to ask for, to...
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F May 7

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    Its the highs and lows.

    Some days are good and a lot of them suck. I want to have an actual conversation with someone and have it have nothing to do with sex or drugs or hooking up. I just want someone I can talk to honestly and not have to hide how I'm feeling. Someone who could put up with my mood...
    alyssakayart alyssakayart 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    When Life's Journey Cries For Rest Here In Peace

    Come September I will be old by 62 years. For many it is high time to retire having discharged various responsibilities. I could none. Life is an utter failure. There is nothing wrong with me; everything is good; appearance, thought... everything.All it happened because of...
    Nahoosh Nahoosh 61-65, M Jan 5, 2013

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    I Need Someone

    I have always been there for my friends and family. when ever they needed me or just needed someone to talk too. But when i need to talk about something no one wants to talk too me or comfort me. I feel so alone all the time because i don't have anyone to comfort me or talk too...
    krissyluv krissyluv 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 19, 2009

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    Im There For Them But I Want Someone For Me

    I have always helped my friends, even a random stranger here and there, but when i need someone nobody is willing to help. problems come like a curse to me and never go away some times i just was to let it out to someone but i never do. i am the one everyone goes to but when i...
    theshortloud1 theshortloud1 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 18, 2009

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    Anyone out there depressed,

    wanting someone? 😔
    yenelinini yenelinini 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 2, 2014

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    All I seem to do lately is cry.

    I've cried for 16 days straight cause I missed my boyfriend who was in America and then the day he came back I found out he's been on here messaging other girls and lying to me.
    PrettyPrincess23 PrettyPrincess23 18-21, F 1 Response May 8

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    mesitah mesitah 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    So me and my boyfriend have been dating

    for 10 months almost 11 and it's so closed to a year. We love each other but we got into this argument and we kinda both broke it off then he texted me and I only read it and didn't reply he kept texting me and I didn't reply then I replied and told him I didn't want to talk to...
    Geovani00 Geovani00 18-21, M 1 Response May 7

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    I have recently had a miscarriage

    and had to get through it alone . If anyone had a similar situation I'd like to talk
    carin0326 carin0326 41-45, F Jul 3, 2014

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    Aside from the school year being over I've

    found a number of people recently that I'm comfortable to share my feelings with. It took time and that time was difficult, but for something to fall into place another must fall out.
    Lovemusicfckdepression Lovemusicfckdepression 13-15, F May 18, 2014

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    Had Enough

    Lost my Mum at 4. Dad abandon me. Abused by a family relative. Have been "alone" ever since. Adulthood never brought me the freedom and security I craved. Mistake after Mistake I made. All I have encountered is hurt and pain so I built a wall, from which I never wane. Can't trust...
    angelaurora36 angelaurora36 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 16, 2012

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    Yeah i ned someone ._.

    Poo /. im really lonely and im such a loner like srsly. . .
    Andyusually Andyusually 13-15, M 3 Responses Jul 20, 2014

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    This year's was the most disappointing year

    I've ever had. let's start with valentine's day, haven't been wished a happy valentine's day in a long time. No big deal right? Its a fake hoilday anyways. Next St Patrick's Day, made plans to go see the parade and spend the day in the city. All my friends bail on me so I go...
    Simiyes Simiyes 26-30, M Jan 1

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    I Wish For This So Much.....

    I am sick of always propping up other people and them not being there for me. I guess I am seen as the dependable one, the one who will always look out for you. I think people take it for granted that I will always be there and so they think nothing of it now. I am tired of...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 11, 2011

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    I fell out with someone and I need advice on what to do. 16 years I called him my best friend. We shared many great memories. But things slowly started to change. He began...
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    I need someones opinion on something which is happening between me and my ex/boyfriend/friend To cut a long story short, we were together for about 4-5 months and we really love...
    SilkyDoughnut SilkyDoughnut 16-17, F 1 Response May 15

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    Lol when my friends need someone im there for them in a heartbeat. Even if im busy. Yet no one can be there for me. Lol
    XenoJJames XenoJJames 13-15, M 3 Responses May 13

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    I really need someone who I can depend on to be there for me, it would change my life if I had that one person who I trusted more than anyone in the world.
    NickiSchucker NickiSchucker 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 26

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    It's my own doing that I don't have anyone. I guess I want it that way more than I don't. Being alone is familiar and predictable... and it allows you to be selfish. While I've...
    ambivalentFriability ambivalentFriability 18-21 Apr 30

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    Even though I'm only 15, I'll try my best to be there for you if you need someone :)
    DarkestEmotions DarkestEmotions 13-15, F 1 Response May 2

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    I am a very open minded person that won't judge people, so if you ever need someone to talk too but are scared that you'll be laughed at or that you'll be told what a terrible...
    Crazycoral84 Crazycoral84 26-30, M May 8

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    I just need someone to talk to. Vent, unload our problems. I need someone to hear me.
    theginger89 theginger89 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 25

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    I am in tears with no where to go right now. I just need someone to vent and to tell me that everything will be okay. I have a tough past, parents who didn't show love and ruined...
    luckixoxo06 luckixoxo06 18-21, F 12 Responses May 1

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    I am so sick of the way every one deals with you 'coming out' with depression. It has been the most horrible and disenchanting experience. I feel even more isolated than I did...
    alicemadeleine alicemadeleine 22-25, F 3 Responses May 9

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    I need someone who I can express my feelings too and never judges what I have to say. I need to feel like someone cares because I'm the one always listening to other people's...
    OohlalaMimi OohlalaMimi 16-17, F 2 Responses May 9

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    Not everyone understands what a guy or girl feels. But there is someone out there for all of us to tell our secrets too.
    spider35 spider35 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I really need someone to talk to. I dont really know how to handle everything right now, and i dont have any friends.. I dont have any trust issue, so i can easily talk I just need...
    jerkiebacon jerkiebacon 13-15, F 8 Responses 3 days ago

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    Who ever is reading my experience can feel and imagine the way Im hurt in your own situation. Yes, i was having a friend but i was seeing her more then a friend by which i used to...
    Abhishekabhi25 Abhishekabhi25 16-17, M 1 day ago

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    I need some one to keep me in line. Basically someone who cares but is still willing to discipline me when needed. My parents are never strict on me, so I need someone to be.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 29

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    i need someone who i can talk to on a regular basis; someone who is willing to stay and not waste my time; someone who i don't have to hide from.
    heyidontknow heyidontknow 18-21, M