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I Need Someone to Be There For Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 498 People

    Im There For Them But I Want Someone For Me

    I have always helped my friends, even a random stranger here and there, but when i need someone nobody is willing to help. problems come like a curse to me and never go away some times i just was to let it out to someone but i never do. i am the one everyone goes to but when i...
    theshortloud1 theshortloud1 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 18, 2009

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    Truely Alone

    i feel like im alone in this world. like its a simulation and im the big joke. i feel like no one knows me, no one can relate to me or comfort me. i truely am alone. people always say they are going to be there. i need someone to be there for me.
    Estiban Estiban 18-21, M 5 Responses Jul 25, 2009

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    mesitah mesitah 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    Aside from the school year being over I've

    found a number of people recently that I'm comfortable to share my feelings with. It took time and that time was difficult, but for something to fall into place another must fall out.
    Lovemusicfckdepression Lovemusicfckdepression 13-15, F May 18, 2014

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    I Need Someone

    I have always been there for my friends and family. when ever they needed me or just needed someone to talk too. But when i need to talk about something no one wants to talk too me or comfort me. I feel so alone all the time because i don't have anyone to comfort me or talk too...
    krissyluv krissyluv 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 19, 2009

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    Oh So Badly

    A few months ago I went through some medical stuff. Some stuff that even the doctors didn't know much about. I had to undergo tests and procedures and I was terrified. Now I dont have an abundance of really good friends, but I thought I had a small group of close friends, people...
    hopelessromantic137 hopelessromantic137 18-21, F 2 Responses May 14, 2012

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    I Am So Lonely

    I really wish I could meet my soulmate as I am so lonely, I don't have anyone to talk to, share my feelings and thoughts. Someone I can laugh with, all my close friends are happily married and don't have time to socialize with me. I really pray to meet my soulmate soon, or even a...
    betty1975 betty1975 36-40, F 4 Responses May 13, 2012

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    I recently got back from a after-hours corn

    maze with a friend. It was fun, but it was really dark and kind of scary.. I didn't really feel secure. Everyone else was laughing and running around and I was kind of just worried. I just need somebody that makes me feel safe
    TheGirlYouNeverKnew TheGirlYouNeverKnew 18-21, F Oct 26, 2014

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    I Am A Ditz

    For so long I longed to have someone there for me and then I realized that I was just crazy thinking.  I have many people in my real life that are there for me in my real life and some of them are on EP as well with me, Snowbunny1002, Bluebie, Silver01ta, HistoryGent...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2010

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    Badly, Very Badly

    More than ever before, I really need someone to be here for me in my time of great despair. I'm not even sure if my "friends" care about me the way they say they do. Depression and I go hand-in-hand, so I wouldn't be surprised if my "friends" avoid me on purpose to not have to...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 19, 2011

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    I wish my "friends" would actually be there

    when I need them.. I don't see that happening tho.. nobody is ever there for me. :/
    Louder4life Louder4life 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    Current Thinking

    it seems like I've always been the one taking care of people. When they fall in love or when they break up or when they just need a b!tch, I've picked up the pieces and said the right things. It hurts when people only realise when you get something wrong. And now I feel I may...
    u2rhere2 u2rhere2 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 29, 2010

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    When Life's Journey Cries For Rest Here In Peace

    Come September I will be old by 62 years. For many it is high time to retire having discharged various responsibilities. I could none. Life is an utter failure. There is nothing wrong with me; everything is good; appearance, thought... everything.All it happened because of...
    Nahoosh Nahoosh 61-65, M Jan 5, 2013

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    Its the highs and lows.

    Some days are good and a lot of them suck. I want to have an actual conversation with someone and have it have nothing to do with sex or drugs or hooking up. I just want someone I can talk to honestly and not have to hide how I'm feeling. Someone who could put up with my mood...
    alyssakayart alyssakayart 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    Had Enough

    Lost my Mum at 4. Dad abandon me. Abused by a family relative. Have been "alone" ever since. Adulthood never brought me the freedom and security I craved. Mistake after Mistake I made. All I have encountered is hurt and pain so I built a wall, from which I never wane. Can't trust...
    angelaurora36 angelaurora36 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 16, 2012

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    I have recently had a miscarriage

    and had to get through it alone . If anyone had a similar situation I'd like to talk
    carin0326 carin0326 41-45, F Jul 3, 2014

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    Yeah i ned someone ._.

    Poo /. im really lonely and im such a loner like srsly. . .
    Andyusually Andyusually 13-15, M 3 Responses Jul 20, 2014

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    I Have Nobody.

    Hey, Firstly, I'd just like to introduce myself to all of you, but to achieve what I need, I need to be open. My name is Harry and I'm 17 years old, my birthday is the 13th of August 1996. I suffer from melancholic depression and mild anxiety. I find it hard to trust people I get...
    HarryRouBennett HarryRouBennett 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 3, 2013

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    Anyone out there depressed,

    wanting someone? 😔
    yenelinini yenelinini 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 2, 2014

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    This year's was the most disappointing year

    I've ever had. let's start with valentine's day, haven't been wished a happy valentine's day in a long time. No big deal right? Its a fake hoilday anyways. Next St Patrick's Day, made plans to go see the parade and spend the day in the city. All my friends bail on me so I go...
    Simiyes Simiyes 26-30, M Jan 1

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    I Wish For This So Much.....

    I am sick of always propping up other people and them not being there for me. I guess I am seen as the dependable one, the one who will always look out for you. I think people take it for granted that I will always be there and so they think nothing of it now. I am tired of...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 11, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I need someone to text that can keep a conversation....will send picture from my phone....don't want to post a picture here. Thanks :)
    gymnasticsgirl20 gymnasticsgirl20 18-21, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Hey everyone there is a wonderful website called 7 Cups of Tea which is there so that everyone has someone to talk to. There are trained active listener available who are more than...
    7cupsoftea 7cupsoftea 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Ever need someone to talk to? I know what it feels like to be left alone and it feels like you're in a dark room with no windows. I've been there before, and I don't want to go...
    rockerstar rockerstar 26-30, M Apr 5

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    I need help . It's been 5 months since my first love left me . I honestly believe she was the one . I still kinda do . She's so beautiful and her sarcasm is like mine and she was...
    GiovanniHernandez GiovanniHernandez 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 8

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    Hi. There are 75,304 people on this group who said they need someone to talk to. I wonder if I will find one to talk among them. Sigh.
    look4me2talk look4me2talk 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    I would love to meet some new people as there's nothing better then having people to talk to. If anyone feels down or needs someone to talk to I'll always be around as I know what...
    LoganCW LoganCW 16-17, M Apr 10

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    I really need someone who I can depend on to be there for me, it would change my life if I had that one person who I trusted more than anyone in the world.
    NickiSchucker NickiSchucker 13-15, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    Hi is someone there to talk? Im recovering from an abusive ex. He was so mean. He choked me, kicked me, slapped me, threw me... called me names..And other people have been mean...
    amtired amtired 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    I used to have a friend I could tell everything and they knew everything about me. Things became complicated and we fell apart. Tomorrow I have to go back to school after a Spring...
    hicks15 hicks15 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 29

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    Help me....I need someone to talk to.....someone not judgmental. Someone caring, someone with patience....
    HopefullyThirdTimeLucky HopefullyThirdTimeLucky 31-35, M 5 Responses Apr 9

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    I need someone that I can talk to. Someone who won't judge me for who I am .Someone who doesn't need to know where I 'm from but who cares enough to listen and tell me about him...
    selfdiscovery101 selfdiscovery101 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    So I have this friend (W) who I went to school with for three years. Last year, I moved to this new school for sixth form (college) and she took a gap year. So this year, W's my...
    echtelxebe echtelxebe 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 16

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    I just need someone to talk to. Vent, unload our problems. I need someone to hear me.
    theginger89 theginger89 22-25, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    i really need someone to talk to i just need a friend i just need you to listen
    VarioCA VarioCA 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    is someone there to chat?? I feel so alone....
    amtired amtired 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 6

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    When i say "i want to cuddle with someone" i mean just hold me and tell me that you're there for me. And everything will actually be alright
    serenapaul serenapaul 13-15, F Mar 27

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    If you need someone to talk to but I really don't come on very much but if a conversation goes like: You: "my life sucks" or "I want to die " ect. Me: what's wrong You: I don't...
    silverxrose silverxrose 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I need someone to talk to. I need some advice. if you wanna talk, message me.
    Louder4life Louder4life 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 29

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    Anyone who needs a friend, I'm here to talk. I too need someone to talk to
    urfavoritgurl234 urfavoritgurl234 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I just need someone to talk to preferably a guy my age (18 - 20) :) I need a distraction please
    beingmyself41 beingmyself41 18-21 2 Responses Apr 8

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    Sometimes in life we just need a little talk with others about what is going on in our mind and letting out everything to make yourself feel a bit Calm. If you needed someone to...
    pineapplejam pineapplejam 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    I'm lost in thoughts I'm so lost in my feelings it's hard to say but I can't find my space I need someone that cares someone that really wants to know me for me in and out and I...
    garcia127 garcia127 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 13

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