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I Need Someone to Be There For Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 489 People

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    it seems like I've always been the one taking care of people. When they fall in love or when they break up or when they just need a b!tch, I've picked up the pieces and said the right things. It hurts when people only realise when you get something wrong. And now I feel I may...
    u2rhere2 u2rhere2 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 29, 2010

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    I Wish For This So Much.....

    I am sick of always propping up other people and them not being there for me. I guess I am seen as the dependable one, the one who will always look out for you. I think people take it for granted that I will always be there and so they think nothing of it now. I am tired of...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 11, 2011

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    Aside from the school year being over I've

    found a number of people recently that I'm comfortable to share my feelings with. It took time and that time was difficult, but for something to fall into place another must fall out.
    Lovemusicfckdepression Lovemusicfckdepression 13-15, F May 18, 2014

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    I Need Someone

    I have always been there for my friends and family. when ever they needed me or just needed someone to talk too. But when i need to talk about something no one wants to talk too me or comfort me. I feel so alone all the time because i don't have anyone to comfort me or talk too...
    krissyluv krissyluv 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 19, 2009

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    mesitah mesitah 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    Im There For Them But I Want Someone For Me

    I have always helped my friends, even a random stranger here and there, but when i need someone nobody is willing to help. problems come like a curse to me and never go away some times i just was to let it out to someone but i never do. i am the one everyone goes to but when i...
    theshortloud1 theshortloud1 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 18, 2009

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    Anyone out there depressed,

    wanting someone? 😔
    yenelinini yenelinini 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 2, 2014

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    I have recently had a miscarriage

    and had to get through it alone . If anyone had a similar situation I'd like to talk
    carin0326 carin0326 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 3, 2014

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    Had Enough

    Lost my Mum at 4. Dad abandon me. Abused by a family relative. Have been "alone" ever since. Adulthood never brought me the freedom and security I craved. Mistake after Mistake I made. All I have encountered is hurt and pain so I built a wall, from which I never wane. Can't trust...
    angelaurora36 angelaurora36 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 16, 2012

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    I recently got back from a after-hours corn

    maze with a friend. It was fun, but it was really dark and kind of scary.. I didn't really feel secure. Everyone else was laughing and running around and I was kind of just worried. I just need somebody that makes me feel safe
    TheGirlYouNeverKnew TheGirlYouNeverKnew 18-21, F Oct 26, 2014

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    Truely Alone

    i feel like im alone in this world. like its a simulation and im the big joke. i feel like no one knows me, no one can relate to me or comfort me. i truely am alone. people always say they are going to be there. i need someone to be there for me.
    Estiban Estiban 18-21, M 5 Responses Jul 25, 2009

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    Oh So Badly

    A few months ago I went through some medical stuff. Some stuff that even the doctors didn't know much about. I had to undergo tests and procedures and I was terrified. Now I dont have an abundance of really good friends, but I thought I had a small group of close friends, people...
    hopelessromantic137 hopelessromantic137 18-21, F 2 Responses May 14, 2012

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    Badly, Very Badly

    More than ever before, I really need someone to be here for me in my time of great despair. I'm not even sure if my "friends" care about me the way they say they do. Depression and I go hand-in-hand, so I wouldn't be surprised if my "friends" avoid me on purpose to not have to...
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 19, 2011

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    I wish my "friends" would actually be there

    when I need them.. I don't see that happening tho.. nobody is ever there for me. :/
    Louder4life Louder4life 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 2

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    I Am A Ditz

    For so long I longed to have someone there for me and then I realized that I was just crazy thinking.  I have many people in my real life that are there for me in my real life and some of them are on EP as well with me, Snowbunny1002, Bluebie, Silver01ta, HistoryGent...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2010

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    When Life's Journey Cries For Rest Here In Peace

    Come September I will be old by 62 years. For many it is high time to retire having discharged various responsibilities. I could none. Life is an utter failure. There is nothing wrong with me; everything is good; appearance, thought... everything.All it happened because of...
    Nahoosh Nahoosh 61-65, M Jan 5, 2013

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    Yeah i ned someone ._.

    Poo /. im really lonely and im such a loner like srsly. . .
    impoatatobishxx impoatatobishxx 13-15, M 3 Responses Jul 20, 2014

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    This year's was the most disappointing year

    I've ever had. let's start with valentine's day, haven't been wished a happy valentine's day in a long time. No big deal right? Its a fake hoilday anyways. Next St Patrick's Day, made plans to go see the parade and spend the day in the city. All my friends bail on me so I go...
    Simiyes Simiyes 26-30, M Jan 1

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    I Am So Lonely

    I really wish I could meet my soulmate as I am so lonely, I don't have anyone to talk to, share my feelings and thoughts. Someone I can laugh with, all my close friends are happily married and don't have time to socialize with me. I really pray to meet my soulmate soon, or even a...
    betty1975 betty1975 36-40, F 4 Responses May 13, 2012

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    I Have Nobody.

    Hey, Firstly, I'd just like to introduce myself to all of you, but to achieve what I need, I need to be open. My name is Harry and I'm 17 years old, my birthday is the 13th of August 1996. I suffer from melancholic depression and mild anxiety. I find it hard to trust people I get...
    HarryRouBennett HarryRouBennett 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 3, 2013

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    thequietpanda thequietpanda 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 7

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    I have ONE job I need done. I'm desperate to get this job done. The only reason I'm desperate to get this job done is it's my life. It's my life's work. Back in 2001, when I was...
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    I've heard that strangers can sometimes become the people who give the best advice. I need someone to talk to. A little bit about me: I'm 22 and in university. I'm...
    patssnc92 patssnc92 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 7

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    I need someone to talk to. I was involved with a married man and he just broke things off a week ago because his wife found out about us. He says he can't see me anymore and I'm...
    sadpreciosa sadpreciosa 26-30, F 8 Responses Jan 10

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    I need some help. People tell me that I don't cut deep enough because I'm still alive, they tell me I don't bleed enough. They call me an attention seeker if they see it. They just...
    DoYouTryToUnderstand DoYouTryToUnderstand 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 16

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    I'm having a real hard time at 29 being my myself, I have a small handful of friends and I wish I could spend more time with them. My insecurity and confidence acts up when I...
    andyx181x andyx181x 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 5

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    I long to be loved the way I do. Unconditionally. I have no boundaries. I'm real. I just want someone. Need someone. I know that I don't need to have someone to be happy but I...
    WildWoman25 WildWoman25 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 12

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    need someone to head west with, gonna be leaving with friday, currently staying on the east coast. I'm 17 and am fully capable of surviving outside until we get jobs and a place to...
    ayedamm ayedamm 16-17, M Jan 15

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    I need someone to hold my hand tell me I'm a good man to look into my eyes and want only me I need someone to spoon with talk to wrestle with I need someone who can hold a...
    moitiemort moitiemort 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 17

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    Maybe..I wonder how this year will turn out for me? I wish things were different.I wish I had my own place...or at least lived in a safe place where i didnt have to worry about...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 7 Responses Jan 18

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    I need someone who no matter how much I try pushing them away they stick to my side.. Someone who ****** me off but is easily forgiven.. Someone who hugs me when they know...
    ForeverKittenn ForeverKittenn 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    Hi guys. I really need an older gentleman to confide in. I have a lot going on right now and I guess you could say I need a clichè "father figure" to talk to. I don't need...
    Hfms99 Hfms99 16-17, F 7 Responses Jan 19

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    Israa94 Israa94 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    My sister just got out if jail and started talking about how she is going to get her life together and start being there for her daughter but two days after she got out of jail...
    HU4ever HU4ever 16-17, F 7 Responses Jan 17

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    So, to start this off I am 23 years old, will be 24 in 7 days. So my girlfriend of six years, who is also the mother of my 4 year old son recently left me after just over 6 years...
    ImJustAGuyThatsLost ImJustAGuyThatsLost 22-25, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    i really need someone to talk too. i need a friend to confide, someone to seek advice. i cant be alone by myself tonite or else im going crazy and might do stupid things. serious...
    nikk82 nikk82 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 4

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    I try to be there for people they all use me they say their there for me but when their done using me and when i need them the most they leave... Right now im scared and worried...
    MyLife0778 MyLife0778 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    Even if we have never interacted or spoken, if you need someone to talk to, someone to break the boredom, someone to confess to or to vent to... I can be that person. I am here to...
    bustedknucklebrew bustedknucklebrew 31-35, M a week ago

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    i just need someone that can help me and would care about my problems, i don't care gender or age, i just need someone
    LakerBall99 LakerBall99 13-15, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I really need someone to talk to. My anger levels are beyond maximum capacity and I need to vent before I explode like a bomb.
    SgtRecker97 SgtRecker97 16-17, M 5 Responses Jan 2

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    Need someone to talk to :( I need a friend
    frankcarter770 frankcarter770 16-17, M Jan 2

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    I'm so stressed. I've been caught up with my school work, my friends, my family, a love triangle and impossible feats that I try to convince myself are possible. I'm weak and alone...
    thewriterwithpower thewriterwithpower 13-15, M 2 Responses Jan 12

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    I know this will be somewhat long but please read & in advance I would like to express my gratitude for taking to your time to read this. :) So lets rewind back when I was 13. I...
    HauntedShadows HauntedShadows 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 14

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    I'm really lonely right now and I need someone to talk to so I can relive my mind. Preferably someone around my age, which will be 15 In a few weeks
    thewriterwithpower thewriterwithpower 13-15, M 3 Responses Jan 19

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    please can someone, anyone, message me? I'm panicking and crying and I just need someone
    Suicidesilenced Suicidesilenced 13-15, F 11 Responses Jan 19

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    Wish I had someone I could always call/text/chat with...I just need someone to talk to
    hiddenjem hiddenjem 22-25, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm so BORED!!! Please someone talk to me. Don't let me die in this suffocating world of shame and hatred! I need someone to show me that they CARE!!! Thanks.
    Ihateokay Ihateokay 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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