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I Need Someone to Cuddle With

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    Cuddling is a human need!

    For myself, I feel safe when another person is holding me.
    ladyblue62 ladyblue62 51-55, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Cuddleing

    i love to cuddle when im cold or tired i just love haveing someone their in my arms its so comforting
    IjustWANTyoU IjustWANTyoU 18-21, M Oct 13, 2012

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    Doesn't Have To Involve Sex.

    Just holding each other is an amazing feeling that Im sure everyone wishes could last forever. Of course sex is good, but not necessary. Whenever Im at my lowest I really wish I could find someone to hold for an extended period of time.
    Jokine Jokine 18-21, M Jul 26, 2012

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    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M May 11

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    Love Cuddles, But Never Get Any!!

     ive never had a girlfriend or anything like that, cos im too shy and quiet and so on, and im not one of these guys that just goes out looking for sex either, so it leaves me kinda stuck, cos i have been dying for a cuddle for ages!! i work in a hotel, and sometimes i see...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 10 Responses Jan 11, 2010

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    Single and missing hugs!

    Not missing the ex though so every cloud :-)
    claireoblast claireoblast 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    And I Know Who...

    I met a guy at work a few years ago and although he is straight, we clicked well together. Fast forward another year and I moved into his place as a boarder when me previous housemates became too much for me and he offered to let me stay with him. Our relationship grew tighter...
    aussie008 aussie008 26-30, M 8 Responses Oct 16, 2010

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    jerry1993 jerry1993 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 15

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    I'm so tired. This would be the perfect time

    for a cuddle buddy or someone to hold me as I fall asleep.
    submissiveamber submissiveamber 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I Need An Affectionate Cuddling Partner

    I miss that sweet embrace. The feeling of his chest pressure tightly to my breast. The lovely caress of his skin. The warmth of his breath softly touches my cheek. The nice intertwine of our two bodies. We talk about anything and everything or nothing at all. Just to be close to...
    enchantedebonybutterfly enchantedebonybutterfly 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 2, 2012

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    Yes! Someone good at hugs.

    Likes walks on pretty days and curling up in blanket fort with me on the rainy days.
    sincitysaint sincitysaint 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 13

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    In My Dreams ... :(

    I want to sleep together. No, I don't mean sex. I mean both of us in my bed and under my blankets. Your hand on my chest and my arm around you. The windows is cracked open making my room a bit chilly but we just cuddle closer. No talking; just sleepy, blissfully happy...
    strtrydr strtrydr 26-30, M 2 Responses May 23, 2012

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    I feel so alone right now.

    I just need someone to cuddle with.
    deviness deviness 13-15, F May 2

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    Anyone? You'd be my first,

    Never cuddled before with anyone
    Beccaslife Beccaslife 16-17, F 3 Responses May 18

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    Cuddling is the best!

    It's like hugging, but you're laying down and sharing a cute moment with the person you care about, friend or lover. It's a comfort to me :)
    UndeadMassacre UndeadMassacre 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    This is so Me right now

    😞😔😒😫😖😲😮👌👍👊✊✌️
    lifelessguy lifelessguy 16-17, M Mar 11

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    innocentflower innocentflower 13-15, F 18 Responses Apr 13

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    How often could you cuddle with your

    significant other? err day? once a week? once a month? every chance you get? whassup
    danondorf danondorf 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 4

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    Honestly I think I'd have more chance of

    winning the lottery than finding a good person to cuddle with.
    SparklyRain SparklyRain 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 13

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    Guys. Girls. I just wanna spoon

    but that would lead to forking. (;
    ninjadentistinspace ninjadentistinspace 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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    I've always wanted to cuddle with someone just

    once in my life Even though I'm one on the chubbier side and like extra meat on the bones I don't care right now, I just need someone. I've gotten so desperate. It's sad. I mean cmon, I don't have terrible looks, It's not the greatest but not terrible, and I have a really nice...
    AllFlabbedUp AllFlabbedUp 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 12

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    cuddle1 cuddle1 41-45, M 3 Responses Apr 13

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    Ever since the big breakup I've been

    so lonely. You really don't know how much you love cuddling till there's no one to cuddle with. :(
    rayelizabeth rayelizabeth 18-21, F 4 Responses May 22

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    We could just eat, sleep,

    and watch netflix all day(:
    zuhreeuh zuhreeuh 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    I wish I had someone to lay in bed with me

    and spoon with me. I'd feel so safe and adored.
    mayvalentine mayvalentine 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 13

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    Want...

     I guess it  gets lonely sometimes, but every night when I go to bed, I want someone whom I could just cuddle up to in bed. Nothing sexual, but I just want to be with someone, like how a little kid wants to keep their teddy bear in bed.... Someone I can just hold hands,and have...
    jazzME jazzME 26-30, F 8 Responses Aug 15, 2011

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    Really. Like now. Maybe it's the fact

    that I'm on my period (ew, gross, ikr?) but I REALLY REALLY REAAAALLY need someone to cuddle with. Cuddle and make out. Just cuddle and make out, then they can go wherever they want, I don't care. Just need to be held and kissed that's all. Why the hell can't I find someone...
    LadyWhatever LadyWhatever 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 30

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    Thinking About Finding A Cuddle Buddy

    I have been single since high school, if you can even count that. That's fine because I've never been a huge fan of making out, and I have very little interest in sex. However, I miss being able to hug someone and hold onto then without it being weird. I wanna walk around with...
    TheDorkyOne TheDorkyOne 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    the worst part of being single is nighttime .

    ..and there is no one to hold you ...
    braveenoughto braveenoughto 31-35, F 13 Responses Apr 13

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    my friend that I like is talking to me about

    someone he likes, and it kinda hurts.
    louistoblerone louistoblerone 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 4

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    Cuddling Is A Beautiful Thing

    The energy and love passed between two people while cuddling in bed or on the couch is such a wonderful thing. Cuddling the person you love after some passionate sex is even better. Sex or no sex, everyone needs cuddles. ;)
    immy80 immy80 31-35, M 2 Responses Dec 26, 2012

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    Just Cuddling

    I'm sure sex would be great, and I'm open minded about it to say the least, but mostly I want to cuddle. Hugging, sitting together, sleeping together without it leading to sex, just holding each other and feeling their warm skin and heartbeat. That'd be amazing, but it's not...
    Rennn Rennn 18-21, M 4 Responses Feb 7, 2013

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    Any cuddle buddy volunteers?

    I'm seventeen and bisexual. c:
    rainbowdinosaurcx rainbowdinosaurcx 16-17, F 5 Responses May 4

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    I'm in desperate need

    for a cuddle buddy, sigh.
    PreciousMystery PreciousMystery 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 21, 2013

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    I like having emotional intimacy.

    For me it doesn't always mean physical stuff. I like the idea of being close to someone you love and feeling the warmth of each other. I want a relationship like that. I am a virgin and I plan on staying that way until I am married, it's just my own values and morals. I think...
    slytherinseeker98 slytherinseeker98 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 13, 2013

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    I am desperate. I need someone to just hold me.

    Occasionally bite my neck or kiss my head, just little things to give me a warm, happy, fuzzy feeling. I want to lay with someone, be able to just cry in their arms. I don't think it's much I ask, i...I just need it.
    bluefrogs247 bluefrogs247 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 9

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    Cuddling is the best thing ever :) I need a

    cuddle buddy now taking applications must be cute funny and can make me laugh!!! Message me for serious inquires only
    freespiritgal2777 freespiritgal2777 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 9

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    TheSameOne TheSameOne 18-21, M Jul 14

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    sweetstar1 sweetstar1 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 13

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    Plain and simple. I have the need to cuddle

    and feel the touch of someone. I'm just feel so lonely.
    PennyGuy PennyGuy 31-35, M Dec 25, 2013

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    I've always had a love

    for cuddling. Idk why or what but it's so amazing too me and I just wish I had a cuddle buddy
    noaha27 noaha27 13-15, M May 15

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    I just wish I could cuddle at least

    once feeling the warmness of another :). Knowing that you aren't alone, someone you love dearly and makes each other smile just before falling asleep. If I have that moment even just once I'd cherish it
    SeanDisinsky SeanDisinsky 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 1

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    To all the lonely folks out there,

    I feel your pain!!!!
    jakboom jakboom 41-45, M 2 Responses May 3

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    I have one person in mind

    but he lives too far away :(
    anovasiangel anovasiangel 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    LazyApe LazyApe 31-35, M 1 Response May 21

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    Related Experiences

    With this cold weather. Yup, i need someone to cuddle with
    ysobelley ysobelley 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    I really need someone to talk too. I'm so desperate and totally hopeless. Too much is going on and I really can't cope with the thoughts in my head. This is my only outlet.
    CostaCon CostaCon 16-17, F 7 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Sometimes it's hard when you're feeling bad and you need someone and nobody is around.
    BellaCattanach BellaCattanach 31-35, F 6 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I'm so lonely. I need someone to text all day and cuddle with and go on dates. Hang out at the beach and hold hands and hug and spend all my time with. I just need somebody to love...
    Brudy6 Brudy6 18-21, M Aug 3

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    On nights like this where it is almost 2:30 in the morning on a work night and I can't sleep.....All I want is someone to cuddle with me.
    Jessicamlee21 Jessicamlee21 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 18

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    I want to cuddle with my female friend who I have a crush on.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    the past week has been Crazy and the past 2 days have had seriously crappy weather, making me physically hurt more than usual. I would Love a special lady to cuddle with.
    NvBikeBoy NvBikeBoy 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 5

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    I hate that feeling, when you are sad but have no idea why. You feel so f#cking empty, but nothing in particular happened. They ask you whats wrong, but you can't explain. Or they...
    LaPrincesaCx LaPrincesaCx 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 12