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I Need Someone To Hear My Side And Understand

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 371 People

    I Don't Need This Anymore...

    I used to need someone to validate my feelings. Someone to tell me that he was wrong. That I didn't deserve what he done to me.I can do that for myself now, but still helps when someone listens.
    jcue1976 jcue1976 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 19, 2011

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    Jobs, Men, And Babies: My Hopeless Tri-fecta

    i just graduated from college less than a month ago. yesterday, i submitted my resume for the 100th time. over the last three months, i have heard back from four companies- all rejections. i realize it is a tough economy, but come on! not even freaking bob evans would hire me and...
    dk007 dk007 22-25, F Jan 7, 2012

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    So tired of people . I'm at the end of my rope .

    Cutting people off that ask me **** . Bc I can care less . I really don't know what to do at all .
    Fanteyzhuh Fanteyzhuh 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 1, 2014

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    I Mite Have Given Up And Lost

    I mite have given up and lost but I fell and got to pick myself up.  Just when I cried and cried silent tear of submission, the brighter side came to my view.  Things are not as bad as they are.  I still have to fight.  It took a bigger lost to me than it did for a better...
    jpllc jpllc 26-30, M Sep 27, 2011

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    I'm Bored

    I have no homework.  I don't have anything to vent about.  I feel lazy.  I don't have a job to go to in the morning.  I don't have any money coming in.  I don't feel like watching tv.  I don't feel like talking.  I just don't feel like doing anything.  I need a hobby...
    jpllc jpllc 26-30, M Sep 27, 2011

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    Finding Out My Marriage Was A Lie

    I've been married 21 years.  The last several years especially have been really great, or so I thought.  Four weeks ago, my eighteen year old daughter broke down and told me that when she was sixteen she went downstairs to her dad's desk to get a cd.  When she put...
    sherrilynn2010 sherrilynn2010 46-50 3 Responses Oct 8, 2010

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    Getting This Off My Chest

    lately i've been trying to convince myself that things will get better for me, that all the pain and suffering I've been through will come to an end. here's why i say this: two years ago, i met someone who's now my best friend and he means the world to me. it took us awhile...
    CutSnipTrim CutSnipTrim 18-21, F Feb 15, 2012

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    I am stucked between a hard place

    and a rock. I fell in love with this guy and everything was going great . Until he told me just a few weeks ago that he still had feels for his EX " that is a hoe." Right then I felt so hurt and lost . Bc he said when he thought about me , he also thought about her but he...
    Fanteyzhuh Fanteyzhuh 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 7, 2014

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    This Is Why I Joined This Site

    I couldn't comfortably express myself anywhere else I want to say how I feel in an enviorment i feel comfortable in. I just stopped seeing someone who changed my life and I don't know where to go from here nothing makes sense anymore, I can't see myself coming back from this I'm...
    Beautylieswithin93 Beautylieswithin93 18-21, M Oct 17, 2011

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    Confused

    Why is it that the truth is something that all mankind desires, yet so few people strive to show it? When a person tells you what you want to hear versus what you need to hear, it only validates the most superficial needs and will not carry through into a healthy relationship...
    fad2blk fad2blk 31-35, M 1 Response May 13, 2011

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    So Angry Today...

    So much for a good day. I have decided to keep some sort of written evidence to show that I am not overthinking stupid crap anymore. His attitude towards me is getting out of hand and I can't take it any longer but I can't see myself walking away. I hate myself for not being able...
    Jagerbom6 Jagerbom6 18-21, F Jan 23, 2013

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    They Think I Am Vicious

    I have been with this man for over twelve years now and the only thing I have heard is what a "B****H I am to him. I have put up with his hitting me throwing my children out of the house and his son steal and lie about everything he talks about. Yet I am not supposed to say the...
    tmmarion tmmarion 41-45, F 5 Responses Jul 23, 2010

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    My Past Mistakes Have Ruined My Future

    I am a single good-looking and intelligent woman. However every man I have ever loved has left me, the ones I love the most always leave in the worst way. I never knew why until a year ago i met a man who I knew from my school days. He was so beautiful even back then and what I...
    AbusedHeart33 AbusedHeart33 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 23, 2012

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    But I'm Trippin Right?

    Aye yo, I'm trippin right? Got my left hand wrapped tight and my pen in my right I hear the birds chirping while the children chatter  Heavy cars keep passing, running over that same pot hole. The train ain't passed in a few hours And I ain't had much sleep in a...
    jpllc jpllc 26-30, M May 28, 2012

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    My Husband Is A Moron

    For someone whose job is dependant upon observation and intelligence I am shocked at how dumb he is. Today I came home to him using my springform pans as plaster molds, he attempted (for the third time since Thanksgiving) to glue our kitchen drawers together with our daughters...
    katherineJane katherineJane 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 8, 2013

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    Is This How My 10 Years Relationship End?

    thanks for reading my story. as i'm typing it right now, I'd like to get all my story and feeling out since i'm very sad, confused, and regret. I am in a 10 years relationship, i'm not sure its over now or what but we decide to take a break and i'm staying with my sister now...
    becan becan 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 17, 2011

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    I'm A Horrible Person...

    I've been married for 14 years to my high school sweetheart and we have three children.  Life hasn't always been perfect for us mainly due to financial problems but the last few years as things got better for us financially... we got worst, or in all honesty... I made it worst...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 31, 2012

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    Girl Why You Playing Games

    Girl why you playing games. Whenever you're away from me In an empty room I close my eyes  And whisper you name   I can smell the sweet scent of your perfume attracting me as if you're in the other room I can hear you call me to come you  but I know it's not...
    jpllc jpllc 26-30, M May 28, 2012

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    I Feel Like I'm Doing A Little Better

    Well, I got one week before these two classes are over.  Then I will have one more class for 5 week and I will be done with my program.  I will hold my BFA in Visual Communication, concentrating in Digital Design.  My where has time went! Same thing my advisor commented with...
    jpllc jpllc 26-30, M Oct 27, 2011

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    More To The Story

    In my last story I told you that my girl left me. Well. I found out that she might have a drug problem and she was seeing this other guy that is known for drug problems behind my back. Yep. now its definitely over between us. She is a liar .. while we were together she was with...
    mattrain00 mattrain00 26-30 Jan 27, 2012

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    Should I Give Her A Chance

    i have been seeing this girl for 3 years, for about the first year in a half i was dating other girls i was flirting with other girls in front of her n i would bring girls back when we would go out to parties together and she wasnt ok with it but she felt like she couldnt do...
    confusedNindecisive confusedNindecisive 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 13, 2013

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    I Dont Know How To Move On

    I lived with my girlfriend and her parents. She cheated on me behind my back , when i found out  she moved out with the other guy and i think a drug addiction is involved also. So now im living with her parents by myself and i have been getting bad panic anxiety attacks more...
    mattrain00 mattrain00 26-30 Jan 27, 2012

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    So Far

    Class work has been going pretty good.  The beginning of the week seemed to have so much stress and strain but as I found myself to relax more, I found that the work load became slight easier.  I have the scenes for Deadly Drift lain out for Chapter 1, working on Chapter 2 next...
    jpllc jpllc 26-30, M Jun 16, 2012

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    Can You Tell Me What's Wrong With This Picture?

    Can you tell me what's wrong with this picture? My stomach growls and I can't sleep Everyone's snoring is so loud to me The tv plays but they're not saying a thing And the ceiling fan turns but I can't feel a change But in my mind I try to remember my name My gulp...
    jpllc jpllc 26-30, M May 28, 2012

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    How Is That Love?

    Girl I tried and I tried But you lied and you lied Robbed me of my peace  My heart you left to weep And all these damn memories you think I'm posed to keep Hell naw, girl that ain't me I fell for you and cracked my skull Just sometime before you used to be my...
    jpllc jpllc 26-30, M May 28, 2012

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    What's So Different

    I wake up in the morning Look into my face Stretch and take a good yawn Wash my face and dry it off   Pick up my toothpaste Put it on my toothbrush Clean out my dirty mouth And rinse it clean   I lay out my clothes   and throw them across the board...
    jpllc jpllc 26-30, M May 28, 2012

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    Baby Daddy Madness

    Your concerned and are trying to heal?! What the hell! How did this all become ABOUT YOU>? Yes I am very angry, a little confused even.My children have been thru hell...never once did I make it about me. Its NOT! Im not interested in things you have to say to me, how you feel or...
    mypapersoul mypapersoul 31-35, F Nov 20, 2012

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    Why Me

    Why Me?  Again I ask, Why Me.....
    jpllc jpllc 26-30, M Sep 27, 2011

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    My Husband Is A Moron

    Thanks, hubby, for leaving a puke-saturated blanket on top of a laundry basket of clean clothes. There is a reason I have all those special nicknames for you - you have earned each and every one.
    wigoh wigoh 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 15, 2011

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    I need someone who can understand me and my feelings! The only one who ever had the slightest chance in understanding is going to college. I know he was years older than me, but I...
    MidnightDragons MidnightDragons 13-15, F 2 Responses May 15

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    It's my own doing that I don't have anyone. I guess I want it that way more than I don't. Being alone is familiar and predictable... and it allows you to be selfish. While I've...
    ambivalentFriability ambivalentFriability 18-21 Apr 30

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    I need someone to talk to. At the moment I'm struggling a lot with my self-harm, bulimia, and anxiety. Can someone message me who can understand or at least try?
    WhereThereIsHope WhereThereIsHope 18-21, F 2 Responses May 12

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    I went through high school being the typical girl with lots of friends, they weren't always true friends but I had people around me 24/7 never had a boring weekend, through out...
    purpleheadxoxo purpleheadxoxo 16-17, F 2 Responses May 13

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    I just need someone to talk to that will listen and try to understand what I'm going through and not judge me.
    mysteryman25 mysteryman25 22-25, M 1 Response May 8

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    Who ever is reading my experience can feel and imagine the way Im hurt in your own situation. Yes, i was having a friend but i was seeing her more then a friend by which i used to...
    Abhishekabhi25 Abhishekabhi25 16-17, M 6 days ago

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    i try and help other people and it almost never works. i've talked to and try to help over two dozen-ish people and all but one have stopped talking to me. i don't understand. i...
    Destroyer2266 Destroyer2266 16-17, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Mother's day just passed. I'm feeling a little overwhelmed. I don't have any friends here to rely on since I moved. I guess I just wanted to feel appreciated and loved. Nothing...
    4Annhoney 4Annhoney 26-30 2 Responses May 11

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    If you need someone to talk to, I'll be here for you. Need advice, I'll do my best. All you have to do is message me. I'm a very caring person so I will do my best for you...
    rockerstar rockerstar 26-30, M 1 Response a week ago

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    So my boyfriend of two years called me and confessed everything! He's been cheating this whole time when I would leave the other girl would come in and now what's even worse they...
    squidknee11 squidknee11 16-17, F 4 Responses May 10

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    I want to tell everything that make me stress and sad a few days. Nobody want to hear me. I just need someone who listening my story and if can, give me advice.
    ochamr ochamr 16-17, F 3 Responses May 11

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    Lol when my friends need someone im there for them in a heartbeat. Even if im busy. Yet no one can be there for me. Lol
    XenoJJames XenoJJames 13-15, M 3 Responses May 13

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    I need someones opinion on something which is happening between me and my ex/boyfriend/friend To cut a long story short, we were together for about 4-5 months and we really love...
    SilkyDoughnut SilkyDoughnut 16-17, F 1 Response May 15

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    I am in tears with no where to go right now. I just need someone to vent and to tell me that everything will be okay. I have a tough past, parents who didn't show love and ruined...
    luckixoxo06 luckixoxo06 18-21, F 12 Responses May 1

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    i need someone who i can talk to on a regular basis; someone who is willing to stay and not waste my time; someone who i don't have to hide from.
    heyidontknow heyidontknow 18-21, M May 8

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