I Need Someone to Hold Me When I'm Sad

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 1,599 People

    BrooklynTheHarlot BrooklynTheHarlot
    13-15, F
    1 Response Jun 21, 2015

    Instinctively I will resist,

    it will look like I don't want it..... I don't care what I say, I will really need it.
    Ticklemeplease7 Ticklemeplease7
    18-21, M
    Nov 7, 2015

    I Feel Like I Don't Matter

    I think this might be off topic for this experience lol. People seem to like me at work. I can hide my feelings well there. I can go out to places by myself and some women can look at me and give me a small smile. It feels like they know I hurt just by looking at me. Sometimes I...
    bruised219 bruised219
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jul 11, 2011

    And of course, I have never had anyone there

    for me, just a pillow and blankets at best.
    stewartgreen stewartgreen
    18-21, M
    1 Response Aug 16, 2015
    christy0909 christy0909
    18-21, F
    Sep 30, 2015

    good job ky GOOD JOB to getting heartbroken in

    just 5 minutes.... I just need someone to firkin hug me like now and I'll wet your shirt
    Kywen97 Kywen97
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 29, 2015

    All I want is for someone to be mine forever

    and to hold me when I'm sad and to love me forever. Is that to much to ask for? I guess so because my prince charming still isn't here:'(
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 18, 2015

    Honestly I'm so sad. I'm always sad.

    If you ask me if I'm ok I'll get mad. Because no.. I'm not ok. I'm never ok. I can't remember the last time I was ok... It seems like such a long time ago... I barely know what happiness is anymore. It seems pretty rare. The only time I feel something other than sad is when I'm...
    SnoopDoggsGrama SnoopDoggsGrama
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 16, 2015

    Nothing makes me feel better

    when I'm upset than spooning sex. I get the best of both worlds-se.x and being held. Love it!
    notthis78 notthis78
    36-40, F
    1 Response Aug 3, 2015
    Silentsuffer Silentsuffer
    13-15, F
    May 21, 2015
    embracetheheat embracetheheat
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 25, 2015

    Talking about stuff with people online is great,

    but I need more than that. I need what I have never had, someone to hold me and comfort me when I am sad. No one has ever done that for me, and of course finding someone is incredibly hard due to how much I have been through and my own stupidity. I just need that girl that will...
    stewartgreen stewartgreen
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Aug 22, 2015

    When I'm sad I just need arms around me.

    Sometimes I just need someone to hold me close and let me cry into them and to never let me go. 😔
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 6, 2015

    Today I am very bad mood.

    it Does anyone know? One can find a girlfriend or a boyfriend and love them or he like crazy? Then after months the person is quite different, and as a stranger? Something happened to me. I can not anymore. That hurts so if you like a stranger is for the person, disinterest and...
    MistressNavel24 MistressNavel24
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 17

    I hate to say it but sometimes roleplay online

    just isn't enough. I need to feel arms wrapped around me. Feel the rise and fall of his chest as he breathes. Hear his heartbeat. Hear him tell me everything is going to be ok. Feel him play with my hair to help me fall asleep and wake up the next morning still wrapped in his...
    christy0909 christy0909
    18-21, F
    Sep 12, 2015

    So that someday, maybe I too will be called

    loved by one and worthy an unbroken heart,Your heart and mine,....There's a lot of things to do over,We'll follow through, and always no endIt's like were playing out the rise and fall of Rome again,A savior comes, you nail him to a treeThe pain that sets you free will turn to...
    LadyGallivanter LadyGallivanter
    41-45
    1 Response Sep 19, 2015

    i don't need a perfect relationship.

    .i just need someone who will never give up on me.
    Gelyn143 Gelyn143
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 12, 2015

    I'm so broken right now,

    please help me. I just want to feel loved and that someone cares about me. Please help me.
    stewartgreen stewartgreen
    18-21, M
    Sep 18, 2015
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Nov 16, 2015

    I was a little girl Alone in my little world

    Who dreamed of a little home for me. I played pretend between the trees, And fed my houseguests bark and leaves, And laughed in my pretty bed of green. I had a dream That I could fly From the highest swing. I had a dream. Long walks in the dark Through woods grown behind...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Feb 20, 2014

    There's no need to talk,

    I just want to feel close to someone and not be alone when I'm stuck down in that bad place in my mind.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 31, 2015

    i feel broken heart so much times.

    .i hope someone slap my face and tell me to wake up from my day dream..i am just feeling sad too much
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Apr 3, 2015

    What I Need From Freinds

    Just hold me just let me feel how i'm feeling no you don't need to fix it don't tell me why its wrong just be there just listen just hold me just let me cry if i want to let me bury my head in your chest hold me let me feel your love and care. Just listen and...
    tulick tulick
    31-35, F
    14 Responses Apr 16, 2010

    When I'm sad I need some one to say I'm ok

    and say I love u and put there arms around me
    rachaelwilliams9 rachaelwilliams9
    26-30, F
    Jul 18, 2015
    bak4u bak4u
    26-30, M
    Sep 1, 2015
    elimousey elimousey
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jan 17

    I just want to be important,

    and adored by the one I love.
    Itiswhatitis79 Itiswhatitis79
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jun 22, 2015

    I remember after I got back from the hospital

    you let me sit in your lap without argument and usually it started as teasing but led to argument because you said I was turning you on then doing nothing about it, but you let me sit like this and you just hugged me and let me cry and that is all I have ******* needed for the...
    MhairiM MhairiM
    16-17, F
    Oct 22, 2015

    I love to be held no matter what.

    I think touch can heal most anything. i however don't like to be touched by people randomly. meaning a hand on my arm when trying to get their point across or that awkward hug.... I would prefer only to be touched by people I love and they love me in return.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Feb 17
    asianlover69 asianlover69
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 25, 2015

    And I will ALWAYS hold you

    if you're sad, or mad, or upset.
    bikegenius1 bikegenius1
    51-55, M
    Jul 29, 2015

    I could use someone. Sometimes

    when I'm sad and I'm all alone it makes me depressed. I know everyone could use someone like that.
    Shynerdwriter66 Shynerdwriter66
    13-15, M
    1 Response Jun 22, 2015

    I need some good frnds means frnds in real I

    hate those Facebook frnds they are so fake
    raxstar raxstar
    18-21, M
    1 Response Dec 27, 2015

    I've always had issues with anxiety

    and depression, but this past year has been especially trying. I haven't felt like myself for a long time now. I've always been happy, positive, and outgoing. Now I feel like an empty shell of who I used to be...just living life by going through the motions. It is so hard to...
    JARSMS JARSMS
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Dec 27, 2015

    What do I do? Please help me :( So I'm

    currently am sitting on my bed. I recently moved out of my boyfriends and his parents in with my best friend so I can be safer because of my boyfriends mum. She threatens basically. So it's my second night and I can't sleep because I miss him so much. It's 4am and I can't sleep...
    unbound97 unbound97
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 18

    There are times I'm having a very bad day

    and my brother will hold me close and he will just let me cry it out he would gently massage my shoulders and play with my hair and not say anything until I'm ready to talk you hold me tightly in his arms and I start to feel better and safe
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 17, 2015

    Right now i feel kind of lost.

    Not entirely sure what i'm doing or where my life is going, and with not enough close friends to pick me up
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jan 8, 2014

    I just need someone whom I could hold

    and cry...I feel so depressed, alone... Being anorexic is kiling me and no one knows. I pretend to be happy and fake a smile. I help everyone yet I'm lost... *cries*
    exhuberantviolet exhuberantviolet
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 11, 2015

    It Can Ease The Sadness

    Yep, what the title reads I deem to be true, a hug has such power.
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick
    22-25
    3 Responses Aug 29, 2010

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