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I Need Someone to Hold Me When I'm Sad

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 1,030 People

    Being sad is one thing

    but having someone to hold you and make you feel better is all I want. I want the one person I can let go my emotions around and know that everything will be okay... Damn, I want a man lol 💑
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F Mar 25, 2014

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    I just want to be important,

    and adored by the one I love.
    Itiswhatitis79 Itiswhatitis79 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    "like I Am The Only One"................................

    I often feel like i'm the only one that understands me or cares about me. It's such an ugly feeling to feel like you are the only person you can rely on and it's funny as hell. When you are not even that dependable in the first place. I feel like shi* constantly. Like a burden...
    Anto815 Anto815 46-50, F Jul 14, 2011

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    I was a little girl Alone in my little world

    Who dreamed of a little home for me. I played pretend between the trees, And fed my houseguests bark and leaves, And laughed in my pretty bed of green. I had a dream That I could fly From the highest swing. I had a dream. Long walks in the dark Through woods grown behind...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 20, 2014

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    i need my girl back..

    . wat i hav to do..!?!?!
    kittulogesh kittulogesh 22-25, M Jun 21

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    I wish when people hug me.

    ..I actually feel like they mean it.
    ShadowsGreen ShadowsGreen 13-15, M Feb 3, 2014

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    Love,Dhooka,Dosti ya Dushumani joo cahe WO karo

    Humse,Aap ki kasm WO Hi 12 guna zhada Milenga Humse.
    samgha samgha 22-25, M Mar 9

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    Just so sad in life. So many things

    that are making me sadangry. I just want my life back again!
    sarahk85 sarahk85 26-30, F May 30

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    Those day days when I feel lonely

    and useless. All I want is a strong hug and sit with me and have long talks .. Is that much to ask
    EyesOnyou72 EyesOnyou72 41-45, F 4 Responses Jun 15

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    Right now i feel kind of lost.

    Not entirely sure what i'm doing or where my life is going, and with not enough close friends to pick me up
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 8, 2014

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    Silentsuffer Silentsuffer 13-15, F 2 Responses May 21

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    Sad

    I am alone! My family and "friends" have bullied me for most of my life. I spend holidays and birthdays alone because I am unable to hear any more unsolicited criticism from family and friends. Many of my "friends" have used me to advance in college and in their careers. They ALL...
    BulliedAndBeaten BulliedAndBeaten 36-40, F Nov 13, 2012

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    There Isn’t Any Appreciation

      The one I live with is so distant. I am pushed away. There is not any conversation about US, WE, or OUR. The relationship is that I care for and it seems to be expected of me.                 ...
    leonbc leonbc 61-65, M 3 Responses Nov 1, 2009

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    I Don't Know If I Can Deal With This Rubbish Anymore...

    To distract myself from the pain I have become very wound up in the 'Sherlock' fandom, and trust me, it really has helped. I have a couple of good RP partners, even. One has become one of my best friends, we've met in person before but she lives all the way in Iowa and we both...
    Cumberlocked Cumberlocked 18-21, F Mar 16, 2013

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    I Feel Like I Don't Matter

    I think this might be off topic for this experience lol. People seem to like me at work. I can hide my feelings well there. I can go out to places by myself and some women can look at me and give me a small smile. It feels like they know I hurt just by looking at me. Sometimes I...
    bruised219 bruised219 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 11, 2011

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    Please Hold Me

    I am so sad. And no one ever held me as a child. My parents were abusive. I crave being held. But I isolate from people. I am ugly, 60 years old, and feel very much alone. And can't stop crying.
    lilylilyrose lilylilyrose 56-60, F 3 Responses Mar 9, 2013

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    I Need A Hug More Than Ever

    I haven't felt this lonely in a very long time.  And right now I need someone here with me, just to hold me, to hug me, to love me.  I have found myself stuck in a depressed state that I just can't shake.  It all started yesterday.....I found out that a good...
    TheIdeaOfMe TheIdeaOfMe 31-35, F 1 Response May 26, 2010

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    I would like to meet a woman

    who would hug me.
    essybag essybag 41-45 Jun 21

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    A Hug Is All It Takes.

    For me, hugs and cuddles are important. Whenever I feel sad or lonely or whatever, a hug can be all it takes to cheer me up. And though I like talking about problems I have or htings that annoy me or make me feel small, sometimes just a simple hug or someone to hold me can...
    WondertheWorld WondertheWorld 16-17, F Jan 13, 2013

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    And Tell Me That Everything'll Be Okay

    This group reminded me of this song:
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 30, 2010

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    i feel broken heart so much times.

    .i hope someone slap my face and tell me to wake up from my day dream..i am just feeling sad too much
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Apr 3

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    Just miss being held n feeling like it's ok n

    I'm not fighting alone. The last time was so long ago it feels like it wasn't real.
    Sunrise13 Sunrise13 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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    It's got to be such a great feeling.

    Support of any kind during a hardship is so important, but actual human contact and affection has got to amazing. I hope I find it one day.
    TwistnShake TwistnShake 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    I could use someone. Sometimes

    when I'm sad and I'm all alone it makes me depressed. I know everyone could use someone like that.
    Shynerdwriter66 Shynerdwriter66 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 22

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    is it just me or aren't I dateable :( I always

    getting dumped it sucks.. I got dumped on my birthday I know how it feels.. I'm over being broken sad lonely hurt I feel like the world hates me :(
    Blazie69 Blazie69 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 1

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    BrooklynTheHarlot BrooklynTheHarlot 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 21

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    Need Some Quiet Please!

    Sometimes I'm just all talked out.  Physically and emotionally I'm drained.  The tears keep flowing and just won't stop.  My friends always want me to talk about it so I can get it out of my system.   That's all I've been doing.  Talking...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 2, 2010

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    Divorce Story

    Hello. My name is Rihab. I am 16 years old and I live in Morroco , Guelmim. I am in The 1 bac . My parents were separated from each other when I was 11 years old. This caused a lot of changes in my life that I had to get used to. Right now I live with my Mother and two brothers...
    RIhab1996 RIhab1996 18-21, F Jul 25, 2013

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    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 20, 2014

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    some one I have known

    for 8+ years has just died in a car accident and I don't know what to do. ..
    nomnommings nomnommings 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    i just can't accept the fact

    that my favorite grandmother died. me with out saying good bye to her make's me cry because i was at school taking my exams, and good thing that when my sister called me my exams were finished. :(
    redfoxylady18 redfoxylady18 18-21, F Oct 28, 2014

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    I just need someone whom I could hold

    and cry...I feel so depressed, alone... Being anorexic is kiling me and no one knows. I pretend to be happy and fake a smile. I help everyone yet I'm lost... *cries*
    exhuberantviolet exhuberantviolet 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    What I Need From Freinds

    Just hold me just let me feel how i'm feeling no you don't need to fix it don't tell me why its wrong just be there just listen just hold me just let me cry if i want to let me bury my head in your chest hold me let me feel your love and care. Just listen and...
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 15 Responses Apr 16, 2010

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    I am done with my mother she cannot keep

    treating me this way why does she think she can tell her own child "I just don't care about you anymore"
    nomnommings nomnommings 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 14

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    It Can Ease The Sadness

    Yep, what the title reads I deem to be true, a hug has such power.
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25 3 Responses Aug 29, 2010

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    Today Is Just One Of Those Days

     today i was back at school after having swine flu and a weeks holiday but over that holiday i went completely off of my food i can just about eat a dinner without throwing up without meaning to i have a feeling my anerxia is crawling its way back into my life but i haven't...
    gurlonthemove gurlonthemove 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 2, 2009

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    I Don't Feel Like I Can Take It Anymore...

    I really apologize for the length, but I just need to let it all out. I never have done this before, even. I don't even remember when it started, but it started a while back. I don't know why either. But I seriously have been just soo depressed. I feel as if I am on the brink of...
    Cumberlocked Cumberlocked 18-21, F Mar 16, 2013

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    Just Once~

    Sometimes I just need someone to hold me and tell me "Everything will be okay." I just need someone to just hug me instead of asking "What's wrong?" Like just cuddle me and let me cry into your shoulder. Don't say anything and just hold me tight. Kiss my forehead. Never let go...
    KissesFromAngels KissesFromAngels 13-15, F Oct 23, 2013

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    Never Thought I Did

    At least that's what I told myself for years and years. Made an art of not needing to be held. Which was good since I never got held. Very easy to deny yourself something you don't have. But then one day... tears were falling and I hurt, physically all over, and I was held...
    Toby2day Toby2day 51-55, F Oct 23, 2009

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    I feel like depression got to me,

    and now I'm just stuck. All I want is a hug I'm starting to think bad things but I push them out of my head. Just a hug... is all I need
    PandaGirl28X PandaGirl28X 13-15 Jun 21

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