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I Need Someone to Hold Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 293 People

    Not Just Anyone

    I do loved to be held but not by just anyone.  I have thought a lot about this concept a lot lately and if I can't be held by someone very special that I have enormous amounts of feeling for then I will just wait until he can.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 13 Responses Aug 5, 2009

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    And You Are Always Willing to

    You are always willing to, but if I ask for the one thing I need right now, you will know something is wrong.  And you don't need that on your shoulders so close to bedtime.   
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 14, 2008

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    It's been a while since I last was hugged with

    love. Or held in someone's arms when being under a warm blanky. I need a place to die in peace. Or just someone to comfort me irl until I get on my bloody feet again. Or just ignore this. It's only what I wish for. I can't be helped by anyone anyway. Cause all the nice single...
    Zim0 Zim0 18-21, M Nov 22, 2014

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    I Need Someone To Hold Me

    I never thought I'd post things like this on the internet but I don't know else to do. I was born with a mild case of Cerebral Palsy and, as of a year ago, I think I have Aspergers. I was born to a womanizing father and a very unstable mother. And eventually my brother, who...
    ILoveWeights ILoveWeights 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 17, 2013

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    I Need Someone

     I need someone near me now. He will talk to me that I am not alone because he is with me now. It does not excatly say that I need a man. I just need someone who also need me as I do, just someone besides.  Maybe because of the weather, it makes me like this. ...
    dotan dotan 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 21, 2009

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    I Honestly Must Say...

    ...that i need to be held by someone so very much, because i haven't had an affectionate kiss, a hug, or even a touch in over ten years. I'm sorry for the few people i told i had an intimate girlfriend for seven years after parting ways with my partner of five years in 2002. I...
    eleanorssong eleanorssong 56-60, F 3 Responses Jul 30, 2012

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    Sometimes..

    Sometimes the parts of me that are so faultily put together start to come apart.The puzzle pieces of my consciousness don't always fit snuggly together and my emotions can't always be calmly contained in a box of hope and logic.Sometimes I need someone there,someone that will let...
    MoonBeamsMadeOfJellyBeans MoonBeamsMadeOfJellyBeans 18-21 Aug 19, 2009

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    Lonely

    I miss the way he used to sneak up on me and hold me. I felt like there was no place safer or warmer then his arms. Will I ever feel like that again? Every time I remember it I feel so lonely...
    Tamsi Tamsi 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2012

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    My brains cracked. It's not

    so much that I need someone to hold me but more of... I need someone I can connect to so badly. I put a wall up for everyone I've ever met. All my friends see a smiling, giggling or quiet me. I just want to tell someone how broken I am. Honestly. I want to tell them how...
    Sometimesilence Sometimesilence 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 23, 2014

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    Im alone..Im shy at times.

    .And I feel as if im the.most hated at.my school..As soon as people see me they talk about how I look or how my hair is most of the time..everytime they see me they run like I have a disease..This has been going on since elementary..
    XxDarkDragonessxX XxDarkDragonessxX 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 3, 2014

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    Today was bitter short

    and sweet. The loneliness has caught up with me right about now. I miss having someone... Some night you just need to be held and a strong shoulder to cry on
    TexasGypsyMommy TexasGypsyMommy 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 2, 2014

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    I Can't Cry

    I need someone to hold me. I try to act strong. Nobody hears me. I feel depressed all the time. I can't tell anyone, I can't express myself. I'm to scared to comfort anyone, the only person who Im not scared to will forget me because I'll see him in a few years.
    Tearsmixedwithblood Tearsmixedwithblood 18-21 Jul 21, 2013

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    What does it mean to truly trust

    and be with someone you love. I'm so use to leaving my phone, iPad, laptop out in the open for the world to see. I never hide what I did, nor did I feel like I needed to hide my actions. I felt that if my man had a problem with something I was doing/saying we would end up...
    TexasGypsyMommy TexasGypsyMommy 26-30, F Dec 2, 2014

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    Lately...

    More recently I have been feeling upset. I have been having a lot of mood lows and generally feeling upset. I have been feeling waves of loneliness. The past few nights just laying on my bed and holding my pillow in the dark while listening to music. I have been crying more...
    RomanticSpaz RomanticSpaz 16-17, F Sep 28, 2013

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    Sometimes

    I’m tired of being the strong one, just once I want to give in, I want to be held when I’m hurting, I want to be able to sink into someone’s strong arms, be protected, comforted, loved but I find it hard to give in to my pain when others are around… I shrug off my...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F 1 Response May 21, 2012

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    Even though I don't like being touch,

    but I could really use some love right now. Getting bad news really puts me done.
    BooBear99 BooBear99 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 28, 2014

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    So Badly.....

    I want someone to hold me and make me feel safe. To tell me that everything is going to be ok and that I am loved. I want to know that person will keep hold of me and won't let go for some time. I want to stop being the capable and responsible person I am known for and let...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 14, 2011

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    Hold Me Please!

    I would love to just be held for hours. For you to never let me go. Laying in eachother's arms as one. Feeling as though nothing in the world could hurt me. I wish you would comfort me and make all the saddness go away. I just want you to HOLD ME PLEASE!
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 12, 2012

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    I Cant Keep Going

    When i was 7 i was sexually abused by my older brother, i wished everyday that after it happend i could crawl in a hole. My parents never noticed the signs even though i acted out, i begin to draw on walls expressing my pain. That led to later on at the age of ten self harming...
    YourMyLove YourMyLove 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 14, 2012

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    I can't help but think.

    I've lost him... I have this horrible pain in my chest... But sometimes you just can't keep things bottled up.
    TexasGypsyMommy TexasGypsyMommy 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 2

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    Related Experiences

    Feel free to pm me :) been feeling lonely and unappreciated by my bf .. Need someone to talk to , don't be shy I don't bite ;)
    xj13 xj13 16-17, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    I like to listen to people's problems and try my best to help with them. So if you need someone to talk to I'm here.
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    I really need someone to talk to. My life is worthless and I don't know if I can carry on anymore
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    I feel worthless, every.single.relationship I've been in has failed me, I now suffer from depression and major trust issues. My current husband has not helped when it comes to...
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    I need someone to give their opinion on something I can't share with people I know personally.
    Homophobiaisgay Homophobiaisgay 16-17, F 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I really need someone who I can depend on to be there for me, it would change my life if I had that one person who I trusted more than anyone in the world.
    NickiSchucker NickiSchucker 13-15, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Its the highs and lows. Some days are good and a lot of them suck. I want to have an actual conversation with someone and have it have nothing to do with sex or drugs or hooking up...
    alyssakayart alyssakayart 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    Help me....I need someone to talk to.....someone not judgmental. Someone caring, someone with patience....
    HopefullyThirdTimeLucky HopefullyThirdTimeLucky 31-35, M 5 Responses Apr 9

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    I need someone that I can talk to. Someone who won't judge me for who I am .Someone who doesn't need to know where I 'm from but who cares enough to listen and tell me about him...
    selfdiscovery101 selfdiscovery101 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    I used to have a friend I could tell everything and they knew everything about me. Things became complicated and we fell apart. Tomorrow I have to go back to school after a Spring...
    hicks15 hicks15 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 29

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    Ever need someone to talk to? I know what it feels like to be left alone and it feels like you're in a dark room with no windows. I've been there before, and I don't want to go...
    rockerstar rockerstar 26-30, M Apr 5

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    I just need someone to talk to. Vent, unload our problems. I need someone to hear me.
    theginger89 theginger89 22-25, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    i really need someone to talk to i just need a friend i just need you to listen
    VarioCA VarioCA 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    I'm lost in thoughts I'm so lost in my feelings it's hard to say but I can't find my space I need someone that cares someone that really wants to know me for me in and out and I...
    garcia127 garcia127 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 13

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    I really need someone to talk to right now! please don't be someone who will scare me away! please make me feel comfortable talking to you about my problems! I mostly prefer...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 13

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    Hey everyone there is a wonderful website called 7 Cups of Tea which is there so that everyone has someone to talk to. There are trained active listener available who are more than...
    7cupsoftea 7cupsoftea 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    If you need someone to talk to but I really don't come on very much but if a conversation goes like: You: "my life sucks" or "I want to die " ect. Me: what's wrong You: I don't...
    silverxrose silverxrose 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I need someone to talk to. I need some advice. if you wanna talk, message me.
    Louder4life Louder4life 18-21, F 6 Responses Mar 29

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    Anyone who needs a friend, I'm here to talk. I too need someone to talk to
    urfavoritgurl234 urfavoritgurl234 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I just need someone to talk to preferably a guy my age (18 - 20) :) I need a distraction please
    beingmyself41 beingmyself41 18-21 2 Responses Apr 8

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    Sometimes in life we just need a little talk with others about what is going on in our mind and letting out everything to make yourself feel a bit Calm. If you needed someone to...
    pineapplejam pineapplejam 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    I really need someone who is understanding and good at giving advice I'm going through a hard time and need to vent
    ashleyandlandon ashleyandlandon 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 15

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    I just want to help people. If anyone needs someone I'm here guy or girl it doesn't matter. Stay strong people.
    charlie41088 charlie41088 26-30, M Mar 28

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