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I Need Someone to Hug

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 375 People

    Iamlonelyinside Iamlonelyinside 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 12

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    I Just Want A Real Hug.

    all I get is hugs from my family, and they kinda suck. I want a hug from a friend, girlfriend, or boyfriend, I just want a shoulder to cry on...someone to dry my tears, and tell me that it'll be alright, but hey, that's probably never going to happen, nobody I know really cares...
    ResignedToSadness ResignedToSadness 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    No Touchy

    For the first six years of my life I was always a touchy child. But my mom was always overly affectionate. And I never really wanted her to touch me, because she would always squeeze me too tight. OR not let go. Or tell me if I didnt hug her she would be very sad and leave me...
    relleaine relleaine 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 14, 2010

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    Hug Please

    I have always been a hugable person. I dont care if i seen you a couple of hours ago. I gotta give you another. Its the affection and knowing that someone cares and a message to say i love you. If i am feeling bad or upset, or down for any reason that hug can be so comforting. I...
    kiki1956 kiki1956 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 25, 2012

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    All I Need Is Someone

    I have this fantasy  of  just being to hug someone I love and lye with them forever. It's because I don't have any special people in my life. My family doesn't really care for me and I never had a boyfriend. I know I'm pathetic...
    Saigo Saigo 18-21, M 5 Responses Jun 15, 2008

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    Coping Alone

    I am dealing with the revealation of my husband's affair. He "confessed" while under anesthesia. While it was quite a few years ago, it explains much of the struggle we have had. It makes two thirds of our married life seem a lie. I have no one to talk to other than my...
    30yrsin 30yrsin 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2012

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    Besides My Mother

    At this point, my mother is pretty much the only person who hugs me (well her and most of the adults in my family), but I still feel empty. I have trouble finding others who will, especially males. I feel like I have a reputation to protect around them and hugging is out of the...
    warriormaiden17 warriormaiden17 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4, 2013

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    Because I don't like hugging ppl I hug things .

    In the school and bus I hug my bag and when I have nothin to hug I cross my hand but when I don't hug a thing I don't feel comfortable . I don't hug dolls or teddy bears because I am scared of them .
    Ummaperson Ummaperson 13-15, F May 30

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    May I Hug You?

    When you hug somebody.  You are bringing some joy and peace into the person´s life.  They grave for love and acceptance.  I will always give you a hug.  Because you deserve it and you can always get one from me.  And hugs are healing power.  Pass it around and make...
    FaroesePearl FaroesePearl 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 8, 2012

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    I Just Want A Simple Hug....... A Long Hug...

    I just need a hug... I don't get very frequent hugs and when I do, they are short and half assed... I have not ever had a hug that basically tells me: "your lying, i KNOW something is wrong now."
    NashBlaze NashBlaze 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 14, 2012

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    Is It My Turn Yet??

    I need a real hug. A good warm one that will make me not fear fire anymore. One that will be sweet kisses thru my memory of that person when he/she is not around me.
    FolsomOrchid FolsomOrchid 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 16, 2008

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    It's Been Years

    It's been years since i've let someone touch me..my energy assures others that touch is a nono...lately i find that i miss it, i'd like to allow another human to give me a hug, a peck on the cheek , tossle my hair...i have been used to believing that my lifes journey will not...
    sularose sularose 41-45 3 Responses Jul 22, 2011

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    I always get hugs from friends

    and family and their nice, but for once I just want a really special hug from someone that I'm in love with and who sincerely thinks that I'm special, that I matter, and is afraid of losing me. And I want this hug to last for as long as possible with me feeling safe, wanted...
    jamie1292 jamie1292 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    I Want A Real Hug

    i feel incredibly alone, all i want is a hug from someone that cares about me...
    himynameisdotdotdot himynameisdotdotdot 22-25, M 6 Responses Jul 11, 2010

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    I Need A Hug

    Just some human contact. Someone who cares. I feel so alone. I want to hide and dissociate from the world.
    lilylilyrose lilylilyrose 56-60, F Feb 9, 2013

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    I Need A Hug

    I need a hug. I've needed one for awhile. And I get them... from my roommates. I love my roommates, they are amazing people. They remind me of me. It's one of many reasons that I love them. But I'm still lonely. My family... they love me, but we're distant, and no matter what I...
    Rabell Rabell 18-21 1 Response Oct 6, 2012

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    I always like to hug people.

    Having a long hug is comforting to the inner soul, a break from the outside world. but sadly, I never had a long sincere hug before,most of them are just short hugs. Having long hugs can be the most amazing feeling ever, the way your arms surround another person and they...
    camelliahearts camelliahearts 16-17, F Jan 31

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    Yes...

    I've been feeling so lonely lately. And I really have no desire to hug my family, other than my two brothers. Everyone else has been frustrating me almost to the point of tears; I don't want to be anywhere near them. But really. I need a hug so desperately. Just to know I'm not...
    SheistheLorax SheistheLorax 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2008

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    I am going through some major things

    and find myself begging for hugs which appear to be very difficult to get. It is just a nice tight long hug but I am finding that it is just too much to ask. It makes me wonder if hugs will become something you have to pay for. If that happens then what is the reason to continue...
    NoOneImportantNow NoOneImportantNow 46-50, M Jan 17

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    I Desperately Want A Hug.

    Well, I've never really had a long hug and I'm really craving one. I want someone there with me(like a boyfriend)to tell me everything is going to be okay. I want to hug someone for hours and sleep and cuddle my trouble thoughts away. I need someone to depend on, someone to spoil...
    AnonymousChika AnonymousChika 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 6, 2012

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    Stupidly Funny

    your stupid me0.yeah:stupid.me0nothing is soo stupid and horrible me0 is not worthy of being hugged.much less to just have someone.god what a dumb ***** me0.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 8, 2011

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    Out Of The Mouths Of Babes

    A friend recently sent this out....a conversation between a mother and 5y/o daughter daugher: I got married today mom: to who daughter: jacob mom: what did you do daughter: we danced mom: what do married people do daughter: the stay away from each other, but we didn't do that
    itsmemargaret itsmemargaret 41-45, F Jul 24, 2011

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    Problem Is

    many think people my age have no rights in this world wonder where it would be if so many had not been killed in viet nam wonder what changesmy wife and i could have brought to the world if she had not been killed there
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Jun 16, 2011

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    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M Nov 12

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    I need a hug, a warm, loving hug, a coumferting one, the same kind a mother would give her own child when their upset, I really could use a hug right now... :(
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    I need a hug so bad... Depressed. Really wanted to cry.
    RayaneCharmee RayaneCharmee 36-40, F 5 Responses Dec 4

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    feeling kinda low. needing a hug.. ..
    BootyHadMeLikeDamn BootyHadMeLikeDamn 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 13

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    I feel absolutely insane all of the time. I am impulsive, angry, sad, and empty. I am in my head all day long. I know other people just don't like me. I can see it on their faces...
    BigBlittleb123 BigBlittleb123 16-17, M 2 Responses Nov 29

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    I need someone to talk to about if I should tell my parents something but I don't know if I should tell them and I won't post what it is because I don't want to be made fun of by...
    christinelol christinelol 13-15, F 10 Responses Dec 3

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    I want someone to talk to because of this :( If you send someone a message saying what you need to say don't spam them they are just informing you Someone has done this to me and I...
    ChloeCuffs ChloeCuffs 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 4

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    I am going through one of the worst breakups that I've ever experienced in my life. I am 27 years old and I was in a relationship for almost 3 years. When we met, We were happy...
    lonetraveller24 lonetraveller24 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 25

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    I really need someone to talk to but that will understand me at the same time, not only be like "yeah, mhm, yeah I know ..." And for real they just don't care .... I'm Muslim and I...
    MonaInIslam MonaInIslam 16-17, F 11 Responses Nov 30

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    If there is someone who has problems or just need someone to talke too, i'll be happy to try and help you as much as i can. I know how it is to have certain feelings and not to be...
    Crazycoral84 Crazycoral84 26-30, M Dec 1

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    I know I ask people to message me a lot , but I really need to talk to someone right now . I need to vent and I need someone who's willing to listen
    EssSmith EssSmith 16-17, F 5 Responses Dec 13

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    I really just need someone to talk to... Things just haven't been going good lately and I just feel so alone and nobody seems to care. Even though my friends tell me that I can...
    D1206 D1206 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 13

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    I need someone who can relate to me and talk, or just listen. I have friends, but I don't think they would understand, and I'm scared they would judge me and leave. I've known them...
    PhoenixJackson PhoenixJackson 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 23

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    I need someone to talk to I can't talk to anyone I know they won't understand I just need someone
    mthughes mthughes 13-15, F 7 Responses Dec 13

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    I really need someone to talk to all of my friends aren't good to me and I need someone!!!
    kaybay28 kaybay28 13-15, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    So sad need someone to tall to not over 15 though sorry no one likes me and I need someone to be my friend
    TBH3292 TBH3292 13-15, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    BroadwayBound2014 BroadwayBound2014 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 2

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    i need someone to talk to . im very depressed and would like to have a friend or someone i an confide in. no awkward people please
    msworstlife msworstlife 18-21, F 9 Responses Dec 3

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    I need to know that what I did was sane and where to go from here. I just need someone right now :c
    JessicaTacos JessicaTacos 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 14

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    I dont need any bullshit or hookup crap. i need someone real that will listen and give me advice
    justlikejessejames justlikejessejames 36-40, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Someone message me please >.< just need someone to talk to
    Alluded Alluded 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    WHEN A FAMILY MEMBER BULLIES ANOTHER FAMILY MEMBER I don't necessarily need someone to talk to but what I want to do is bring awareness to those who have felt bullied by a family...
    pinterest pinterest 56-60, F 3 days ago

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    I need someone nice to talk to
    allthewaysaround allthewaysaround 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 22

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