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I Need Someone to Hug

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    Coping Alone

    I am dealing with the revealation of my husband's affair. He "confessed" while under anesthesia. While it was quite a few years ago, it explains much of the struggle we have had. It makes two thirds of our married life seem a lie. I have no one to talk to other than my...
    30yrsin 30yrsin 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2012

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    Out Of The Mouths Of Babes

    A friend recently sent this out....a conversation between a mother and 5y/o daughter daugher: I got married today mom: to who daughter: jacob mom: what did you do daughter: we danced mom: what do married people do daughter: the stay away from each other, but we didn't do that
    itsmemargaret itsmemargaret 41-45, F Jul 24, 2011

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    Problem Is

    many think people my age have no rights in this world wonder where it would be if so many had not been killed in viet nam wonder what changesmy wife and i could have brought to the world if she had not been killed there
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Jun 16, 2011

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    It's Been Years

    It's been years since i've let someone touch me..my energy assures others that touch is a nono...lately i find that i miss it, i'd like to allow another human to give me a hug, a peck on the cheek , tossle my hair...i have been used to believing that my lifes journey will not...
    sularose sularose 41-45 3 Responses Jul 22, 2011

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    I Just Want A Real Hug.

    all I get is hugs from my family, and they kinda suck. I want a hug from a friend, girlfriend, or boyfriend, I just want a shoulder to cry on...someone to dry my tears, and tell me that it'll be alright, but hey, that's probably never going to happen, nobody I know really cares...
    ResignedToSadness ResignedToSadness 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    I always like to hug people.

    Having a long hug is comforting to the inner soul, a break from the outside world. but sadly, I never had a long sincere hug before,most of them are just short hugs. Having long hugs can be the most amazing feeling ever, the way your arms surround another person and they...
    camelliahearts camelliahearts 16-17, F Jan 31

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    I Need A Hug

    I need a hug. I've needed one for awhile. And I get them... from my roommates. I love my roommates, they are amazing people. They remind me of me. It's one of many reasons that I love them. But I'm still lonely. My family... they love me, but we're distant, and no matter what I...
    Rabell Rabell 18-21 1 Response Oct 6, 2012

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    Yes...

    I've been feeling so lonely lately. And I really have no desire to hug my family, other than my two brothers. Everyone else has been frustrating me almost to the point of tears; I don't want to be anywhere near them. But really. I need a hug so desperately. Just to know I'm not...
    SheistheLorax SheistheLorax 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2008

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    I Want A Real Hug

    i feel incredibly alone, all i want is a hug from someone that cares about me...
    himynameisdotdotdot himynameisdotdotdot 22-25, M 6 Responses Jul 11, 2010

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    Besides My Mother

    At this point, my mother is pretty much the only person who hugs me (well her and most of the adults in my family), but I still feel empty. I have trouble finding others who will, especially males. I feel like I have a reputation to protect around them and hugging is out of the...
    warriormaiden17 warriormaiden17 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 4, 2013

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    Because I don't like hugging ppl I hug things .

    In the school and bus I hug my bag and when I have nothin to hug I cross my hand but when I don't hug a thing I don't feel comfortable . I don't hug dolls or teddy bears because I am scared of them .
    DrowningInPain2 DrowningInPain2 13-15, F 1 Response May 30

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    Hug Please

    I have always been a hugable person. I dont care if i seen you a couple of hours ago. I gotta give you another. Its the affection and knowing that someone cares and a message to say i love you. If i am feeling bad or upset, or down for any reason that hug can be so comforting. I...
    kiki1956 kiki1956 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 25, 2012

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    I Need A Hug

    Just some human contact. Someone who cares. I feel so alone. I want to hide and dissociate from the world.
    lilylilyrose lilylilyrose 56-60, F Feb 9, 2013

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    I am going through some major things

    and find myself begging for hugs which appear to be very difficult to get. It is just a nice tight long hug but I am finding that it is just too much to ask. It makes me wonder if hugs will become something you have to pay for. If that happens then what is the reason to continue...
    NoOneImportantNow NoOneImportantNow 46-50, M Jan 17

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    I Desperately Want A Hug.

    Well, I've never really had a long hug and I'm really craving one. I want someone there with me(like a boyfriend)to tell me everything is going to be okay. I want to hug someone for hours and sleep and cuddle my trouble thoughts away. I need someone to depend on, someone to spoil...
    AnonymousChika AnonymousChika 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 6, 2012

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    Stupidly Funny

    your stupid me0.yeah:stupid.me0nothing is soo stupid and horrible me0 is not worthy of being hugged.much less to just have someone.god what a dumb ***** me0.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 8, 2011

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    Is It My Turn Yet??

    I need a real hug. A good warm one that will make me not fear fire anymore. One that will be sweet kisses thru my memory of that person when he/she is not around me.
    FolsomOrchid FolsomOrchid 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 16, 2008

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    May I Hug You?

    When you hug somebody.  You are bringing some joy and peace into the person´s life.  They grave for love and acceptance.  I will always give you a hug.  Because you deserve it and you can always get one from me.  And hugs are healing power.  Pass it around and make...
    FaroesePearl FaroesePearl 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 8, 2012

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    I Just Want A Simple Hug....... A Long Hug...

    I just need a hug... I don't get very frequent hugs and when I do, they are short and half assed... I have not ever had a hug that basically tells me: "your lying, i KNOW something is wrong now."
    NashBlaze NashBlaze 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 14, 2012

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    I always get hugs from friends

    and family and their nice, but for once I just want a really special hug from someone that I'm in love with and who sincerely thinks that I'm special, that I matter, and is afraid of losing me. And I want this hug to last for as long as possible with me feeling safe, wanted...
    jamie1292 jamie1292 22-25, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    All I Need Is Someone

    I have this fantasy  of  just being to hug someone I love and lye with them forever. It's because I don't have any special people in my life. My family doesn't really care for me and I never had a boyfriend. I know I'm pathetic...
    Saigo Saigo 18-21, M 5 Responses Jun 15, 2008

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    No Touchy

    For the first six years of my life I was always a touchy child. But my mom was always overly affectionate. And I never really wanted her to touch me, because she would always squeeze me too tight. OR not let go. Or tell me if I didnt hug her she would be very sad and leave me...
    relleaine relleaine 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 14, 2010

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    In The Perfect Time

    after school I went 2 the church like the stupid as I used to do to complain to JESUS about what was happening to me in the school as I used to be very sad cuz it was really bad, anyway like everyday I stood praying ok! but this time it was the max I fell on my knees crying...
    alifehater alifehater 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 7, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I really need someone to talk to ;(I feel alone on this app ;;( Iwwant someone who i can tell anything to l im sick of been judged on this app you don't know me so please don't...
    Rach1544 Rach1544 16-17, F 6 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I need a hug... God I sound girly *Facepalm* But I feel the need to hug someone for no reason ;-;
    DysfunctionalPiano DysfunctionalPiano 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    I love hugs. It's sad when I cry alone in my room sometimes for a reason or no reason whatsoever. I just need someone to hug me and tell me everything will be okay.
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 12

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    More than anything right now. I just need someone who will hug me and tell me it will all be okay lol. Someone who'll give me advice and care about me. Sigh
    MissGreenEyes9 MissGreenEyes9 18-21, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    I hate that feeling, when you are sad but have no idea why. You feel so f#cking empty, but nothing in particular happened. They ask you whats wrong, but you can't explain. Or they...
    LaPrincesaCx LaPrincesaCx 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I'm so lonely. I need someone to text all day and cuddle with and go on dates. Hang out at the beach and hold hands and hug and spend all my time with. I just need somebody to love...
    Brudy6 Brudy6 18-21, M Aug 3

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    Sad and lonely........ I really need someone to talk me and hug me..
    AnnaKhit AnnaKhit 26-30, F 9 Responses 3 days ago

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    Yeah I need a hug, I kinda just want to cuddle and be held so let's make that a long long hug.
    OutOfSight23 OutOfSight23 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    I need a hug :((((((( like really bad
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 28

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    I Need A Hug. Close To Crying & I Don't Want To. I'm So Tired Of Crying.
    Eriannaa Eriannaa 13-15, F Aug 3

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    Please I need a hug right now remembering painful memories...
    Lilwillbe Lilwillbe 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 11

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    I have been feeling like i need a break from everything and everyone im used to.....I really need some quality alone, me time. I have also been feeling like i just need someone to...
    Workoutguy720 Workoutguy720 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 4

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    I need someone to talk to. Someone who is not judgmental. Someone who would be willing to listen and give honest advices. I need someone who is unbiased.
    MarieAiko MarieAiko 18-21, F 11 Responses Jul 25

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    It's very easy to say "busy" when someone needs you. . but it's very painful to hear "busy" when you need someone.
    ImJustANobody ImJustANobody 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 24

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    Yea..i am deprived of love since i remember,,i have had all the emotions...mainly negative ones..but i do believe that love can save me..and i want to be saved by love. I need a...
    divich420 divich420 18-21, M Jul 27

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    Yea..i am deprived of love since i remember,,i have had all the emotions...mainly negative ones..but i do believe that love can save me..and i want to be saved by love. I need a...
    divich420 divich420 18-21, M Jul 27

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    If anyone ever needs to vent or someone to talk to I try my best to listen and try to help~ feel free to message meh if you ever need someone to talk to or listen! cx
    Tayway22 Tayway22 13-15, F Jul 30

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    (This is long but I just want someone to read and hear my struggle and understand. Please read I'll appreciate it!) I have no friends in high school. None at all. During break I...
    DavidDG DavidDG 16-17, M 8 Responses Jul 26

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    I just need someone, someone to listen or just talk...message me someone?..
    pwikachew pwikachew 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 26

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    i just need someone to talk to. like an online friend that i can tell all my problems and worries, someone that i dont really know and someone that might understand me more than...
    annaray13 annaray13 16-17, F 14 Responses Jul 27

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    Do you need to vent? Do you just need someone to talk to? Or even need advice? Send me a message i would love to help or just talk to you! Your choice =]
    CaptainCanuck CaptainCanuck 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 9

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    hei ! , i need someone to talk to (i prefer a girl :/ around my age or older :/ ) , someone who can understand me and make me feel good about mylife ,
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 22

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    My life is like a bad soap opera. its just one big dramatic thing after another. And I need someone i can vent to about it. Someone who won't past judgement or be overly...
    ThisGirlLovesNerds12 ThisGirlLovesNerds12 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 22

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    My affair just ended a couple of months ago after my BF found out about a MM I had been seeing for over a year. The MM was my best friend and helped me trough the toughest times...
    GumboGirl GumboGirl 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    My affair just ended a couple of months ago after my BF found out about MM I had been seeing for over a year. The MM was my best friend and helped me through the toughest times at...
    GumboGirl GumboGirl 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 23

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    I need someone to talk to about reincarnation. I need to talk about these memories and strange, strong feelings about the future I keep having. Anyone who is willing to talk...
    ftmFreddy ftmFreddy 18-21, T 1 Response Jul 27

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    Hi i need someone to talk to plz i need fun and happy plz
    xhmkq8 xhmkq8 13-15, M Jul 28