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I Need Someone to Hug

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    I Just Want A Real Hug.

    all I get is hugs from my family, and they kinda suck. I want a hug from a friend, girlfriend, or boyfriend, I just want a shoulder to cry on...someone to dry my tears, and tell me that it'll be alright, but hey, that's probably never going to happen, nobody I know really cares...
    ResignedToSadness ResignedToSadness 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    I am going through some major things

    and find myself begging for hugs which appear to be very difficult to get. It is just a nice tight long hug but I am finding that it is just too much to ask. It makes me wonder if hugs will become something you have to pay for. If that happens then what is the reason to continue...
    NoOneImportantNow NoOneImportantNow 46-50, M Jan 17

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    Out Of The Mouths Of Babes

    A friend recently sent this out....a conversation between a mother and 5y/o daughter daugher: I got married today mom: to who daughter: jacob mom: what did you do daughter: we danced mom: what do married people do daughter: the stay away from each other, but we didn't do that
    itsmemargaret itsmemargaret 41-45, F Jul 24, 2011

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    I Need A Hug

    I need a hug. I've needed one for awhile. And I get them... from my roommates. I love my roommates, they are amazing people. They remind me of me. It's one of many reasons that I love them. But I'm still lonely. My family... they love me, but we're distant, and no matter what I...
    Rabell Rabell 18-21 1 Response Oct 6, 2012

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    In The Perfect Time

    after school I went 2 the church like the stupid as I used to do to complain to JESUS about what was happening to me in the school as I used to be very sad cuz it was really bad, anyway like everyday I stood praying ok! but this time it was the max I fell on my knees crying...
    alifehater alifehater 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 7, 2012

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    I Desperately Want A Hug.

    Well, I've never really had a long hug and I'm really craving one. I want someone there with me(like a boyfriend)to tell me everything is going to be okay. I want to hug someone for hours and sleep and cuddle my trouble thoughts away. I need someone to depend on, someone to spoil...
    AnonymousChika AnonymousChika 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 6, 2012

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    Because I don't like hugging ppl I hug things .

    In the school and bus I hug my bag and when I have nothin to hug I cross my hand but when I don't hug a thing I don't feel comfortable . I don't hug dolls or teddy bears because I am scared of them .
    DrowningInPain2 DrowningInPain2 13-15, F 1 Response May 30

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    It's Been Years

    It's been years since i've let someone touch me..my energy assures others that touch is a nono...lately i find that i miss it, i'd like to allow another human to give me a hug, a peck on the cheek , tossle my hair...i have been used to believing that my lifes journey will not...
    sularose sularose 41-45 3 Responses Jul 22, 2011

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    Stupidly Funny

    your stupid me0.yeah:stupid.me0nothing is soo stupid and horrible me0 is not worthy of being hugged.much less to just have someone.god what a dumb ***** me0.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 8, 2011

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    I always get hugs from friends

    and family and their nice, but for once I just want a really special hug from someone that I'm in love with and who sincerely thinks that I'm special, that I matter, and is afraid of losing me. And I want this hug to last for as long as possible with me feeling safe, wanted...
    jamie1292 jamie1292 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    I always like to hug people.

    Having a long hug is comforting to the inner soul, a break from the outside world. but sadly, I never had a long sincere hug before,most of them are just short hugs. Having long hugs can be the most amazing feeling ever, the way your arms surround another person and they...
    camelliahearts camelliahearts 16-17, F Jan 31

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    All I Need Is Someone

    I have this fantasy  of  just being to hug someone I love and lye with them forever. It's because I don't have any special people in my life. My family doesn't really care for me and I never had a boyfriend. I know I'm pathetic...
    Saigo Saigo 18-21, M 5 Responses Jun 15, 2008

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    No Touchy

    For the first six years of my life I was always a touchy child. But my mom was always overly affectionate. And I never really wanted her to touch me, because she would always squeeze me too tight. OR not let go. Or tell me if I didnt hug her she would be very sad and leave me...
    relleaine relleaine 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 14, 2010

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    Yes...

    I've been feeling so lonely lately. And I really have no desire to hug my family, other than my two brothers. Everyone else has been frustrating me almost to the point of tears; I don't want to be anywhere near them. But really. I need a hug so desperately. Just to know I'm not...
    SheistheLorax SheistheLorax 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2008

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    Iamlonelyinside Iamlonelyinside 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Besides My Mother

    At this point, my mother is pretty much the only person who hugs me (well her and most of the adults in my family), but I still feel empty. I have trouble finding others who will, especially males. I feel like I have a reputation to protect around them and hugging is out of the...
    warriormaiden17 warriormaiden17 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4, 2013

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    Hug Please

    I have always been a hugable person. I dont care if i seen you a couple of hours ago. I gotta give you another. Its the affection and knowing that someone cares and a message to say i love you. If i am feeling bad or upset, or down for any reason that hug can be so comforting. I...
    kiki1956 kiki1956 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 25, 2012

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    May I Hug You?

    When you hug somebody.  You are bringing some joy and peace into the person´s life.  They grave for love and acceptance.  I will always give you a hug.  Because you deserve it and you can always get one from me.  And hugs are healing power.  Pass it around and make...
    FaroesePearl FaroesePearl 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 8, 2012

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    I Just Want A Simple Hug....... A Long Hug...

    I just need a hug... I don't get very frequent hugs and when I do, they are short and half assed... I have not ever had a hug that basically tells me: "your lying, i KNOW something is wrong now."
    NashBlaze NashBlaze 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 14, 2012

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    Coping Alone

    I am dealing with the revealation of my husband's affair. He "confessed" while under anesthesia. While it was quite a few years ago, it explains much of the struggle we have had. It makes two thirds of our married life seem a lie. I have no one to talk to other than my...
    30yrsin 30yrsin 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2012

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    Is It My Turn Yet??

    I need a real hug. A good warm one that will make me not fear fire anymore. One that will be sweet kisses thru my memory of that person when he/she is not around me.
    FolsomOrchid FolsomOrchid 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 16, 2008

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    I Need A Hug

    Just some human contact. Someone who cares. I feel so alone. I want to hide and dissociate from the world.
    lilylilyrose lilylilyrose 56-60, F Feb 9, 2013

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    I Want A Real Hug

    i feel incredibly alone, all i want is a hug from someone that cares about me...
    himynameisdotdotdot himynameisdotdotdot 22-25, M 6 Responses Jul 11, 2010

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    Problem Is

    many think people my age have no rights in this world wonder where it would be if so many had not been killed in viet nam wonder what changesmy wife and i could have brought to the world if she had not been killed there
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Jun 16, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    More than anything right now. I just need someone who will hug me and tell me it will all be okay lol. Someone who'll give me advice and care about me. Sigh
    MissGreenEyes9 MissGreenEyes9 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    I need a hug Will someone hug me
    andrewj2014 andrewj2014 18-21, M Sep 6

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    The last couple of days have been hell for me. With what losing a really important person of mine, and other things, it's taking a huge toll on me. I thought that I wouldn't need...
    jayyward jayyward 16-17, M 2 Responses Sep 6

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    I hate my life so bad right now! I need a hug and someone to talk to!!! Anyone? Please? I prefer someone close to my age but i dont really care
    AnimeFreak1547 AnimeFreak1547 13-15, F Sep 7

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    I hate my life so bad right now! I need a hug and someone to talk to!!! Anyone? Please? I prefer someone close to my age but i dont really care
    AnimeFreak1547 AnimeFreak1547 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    I hate my life so bad right now! I need a hug and someone to talk to!!! Anyone? Please? I prefer someone close to my age but i dont really care
    AnimeFreak1547 AnimeFreak1547 13-15, F 8 Responses Sep 7

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    Sad and lonely........ I really need someone to talk me and hug me..
    AnnaKhit AnnaKhit 26-30, F 10 Responses Aug 19

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    Somedays you just need a hug, sometimes for no reason and sometimes for particular reasons. Hugs make you happier, and I need a hug right about now :(
    MiZShortiiE MiZShortiiE 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I really need a hug, I feel so very alone and confused :(
    Vampireloveless Vampireloveless 18-21, F 37 Responses Aug 28

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    I need a hug and not just a virtual hug either . I've been sad and depressed and just want comfort from that one person :(
    EssSmith EssSmith 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 28

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    ..also if I'm fine.. nobody would reject a hug. I just ended my day running downhill with my skateboard. A girl who was riding with me wanted to have another run and I couldn't say...
    CrookedMat CrookedMat 26-30, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I need a hug and just a shoulder to lean on for a while. I fedl completely **** tonight :/ i feel like my depression has been coming back more lately and progressively worse at...
    oxzymoron oxzymoron 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    I Only 3 Hours Of Sleep... My Stomach & Chest Hurt Really Bad. I Need A Hug.
    Eriannaa Eriannaa 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    I really need a hug right now like from him ugh
    Karianne6614 Karianne6614 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    I need a hug... So depressed and down...
    charmee26 charmee26 31-35, F 11 Responses 5 days ago

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    I need a hug because it affirms me and you at the same time that we matter to each other!
    larrlee larrlee 61-65, M 5 days ago

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    I am getting depressed going to college right now. I cry for even the smallest reason right now and miss my family like crazy. I try and hang with people to keep my mind off of...
    Vampireloveless Vampireloveless 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Feeling kind of down now... Just need someone who I feel free with, free to be myself. Someone preferably laid back. It doesn't matter how old you are or what gender, just need...
    justicehero justicehero 18-21, M 3 Responses Sep 5

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    Well, it's not as if I 'need' someone to love. After all I suppose my age (15) kind of puts a limit on my emotional needs ect. If I'm honest, I don't think I truly know what love...
    musicislife00 musicislife00 13-15, F 15 hrs ago

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    Someone who isn't fake. Down to earth. And who cares about others. Please message me. I need to cry to someone and let stuff out. I usually don't do this. But I need someone right...
    skylerGrace skylerGrace 13-15, F 9 Responses Sep 1

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    Yeah, I know it might sound stupid and childish, but I need someone like Augustus Waters. Yeah, I'm talking about the same Augustus Waters from The Fault In Our Stars. And yeah, I...
    actuelly actuelly 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 5

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    I really need someone to talk to right now that's around my age. There's a lot of stuff that's been going on and I need their opinion on a few things. I really need someone to just...
    Vagabond01 Vagabond01 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 7

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    Nobody knows the real me.. My family doesn't know the pain that's inside. I hide it behind a smile; It's funny how so much pain Can be hidden behind one fake smile. They think I'm...
    ravenzewolf ravenzewolf 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I'm in a terrible mood. I feel like I'm going to break down and cry. I need someone. The one I'm supposed to talk to is arguing with me and the one I wish I could talk to is on my...
    Lovelyxx93 Lovelyxx93 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    I'm in a terrible mood. I feel like I'm going to break down and cry. I need someone. The one I'm supposed to talk to is arguing with me and the one I wish I could talk to is on my...
    Lovelyxx93 Lovelyxx93 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 3

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