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I Need Someone to Hug

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    I Need A Hug

    Just some human contact. Someone who cares. I feel so alone. I want to hide and dissociate from the world.
    lilylilyrose lilylilyrose 56-60, F Feb 9, 2013

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    Coping Alone

    I am dealing with the revealation of my husband's affair. He "confessed" while under anesthesia. While it was quite a few years ago, it explains much of the struggle we have had. It makes two thirds of our married life seem a lie. I have no one to talk to other than my...
    30yrsin 30yrsin 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2012

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    Stupidly Funny

    your stupid me0.yeah:stupid.me0nothing is soo stupid and horrible me0 is not worthy of being hugged.much less to just have someone.god what a dumb ***** me0.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 8, 2011

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    Is It My Turn Yet??

    I need a real hug. A good warm one that will make me not fear fire anymore. One that will be sweet kisses thru my memory of that person when he/she is not around me.
    FolsomOrchid FolsomOrchid 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 16, 2008

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    I Just Want A Real Hug.

    all I get is hugs from my family, and they kinda suck. I want a hug from a friend, girlfriend, or boyfriend, I just want a shoulder to cry on...someone to dry my tears, and tell me that it'll be alright, but hey, that's probably never going to happen, nobody I know really cares...
    ResignedToSadness ResignedToSadness 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    I always like to hug people.

    Having a long hug is comforting to the inner soul, a break from the outside world. but sadly, I never had a long sincere hug before,most of them are just short hugs. Having long hugs can be the most amazing feeling ever, the way your arms surround another person and they...
    camelliahearts camelliahearts 13-15, F Jan 31

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    I Want A Real Hug

    i feel incredibly alone, all i want is a hug from someone that cares about me...
    himynameisdotdotdot himynameisdotdotdot 22-25, M 6 Responses Jul 11, 2010

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    I Desperately Want A Hug.

    Well, I've never really had a long hug and I'm really craving one. I want someone there with me(like a boyfriend)to tell me everything is going to be okay. I want to hug someone for hours and sleep and cuddle my trouble thoughts away. I need someone to depend on, someone to spoil...
    AnonymousChika AnonymousChika 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 6, 2012

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    May I Hug You?

    When you hug somebody.  You are bringing some joy and peace into the person´s life.  They grave for love and acceptance.  I will always give you a hug.  Because you deserve it and you can always get one from me.  And hugs are healing power.  Pass it around and make...
    FaroesePearl FaroesePearl 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 8, 2012

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    Out Of The Mouths Of Babes

    A friend recently sent this out....a conversation between a mother and 5y/o daughter daugher: I got married today mom: to who daughter: jacob mom: what did you do daughter: we danced mom: what do married people do daughter: the stay away from each other, but we didn't do that
    itsmemargaret itsmemargaret 41-45, F Jul 24, 2011

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    Hug Please

    I have always been a hugable person. I dont care if i seen you a couple of hours ago. I gotta give you another. Its the affection and knowing that someone cares and a message to say i love you. If i am feeling bad or upset, or down for any reason that hug can be so comforting. I...
    kiki1956 kiki1956 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 25, 2012

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    It's Been Years

    It's been years since i've let someone touch me..my energy assures others that touch is a nono...lately i find that i miss it, i'd like to allow another human to give me a hug, a peck on the cheek , tossle my hair...i have been used to believing that my lifes journey will not...
    sularose sularose 41-45 3 Responses Jul 22, 2011

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    All I Need Is Someone

    I have this fantasy  of  just being to hug someone I love and lye with them forever. It's because I don't have any special people in my life. My family doesn't really care for me and I never had a boyfriend. I know I'm pathetic...
    Saigo Saigo 18-21, M 5 Responses Jun 15, 2008

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    Yes...

    I've been feeling so lonely lately. And I really have no desire to hug my family, other than my two brothers. Everyone else has been frustrating me almost to the point of tears; I don't want to be anywhere near them. But really. I need a hug so desperately. Just to know I'm not...
    SheistheLorax SheistheLorax 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2008

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    Besides My Mother

    At this point, my mother is pretty much the only person who hugs me (well her and most of the adults in my family), but I still feel empty. I have trouble finding others who will, especially males. I feel like I have a reputation to protect around them and hugging is out of the...
    warriormaiden17 warriormaiden17 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 4, 2013

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    I Need A Hug

    I need a hug. I've needed one for awhile. And I get them... from my roommates. I love my roommates, they are amazing people. They remind me of me. It's one of many reasons that I love them. But I'm still lonely. My family... they love me, but we're distant, and no matter what I...
    Rabell Rabell 18-21 1 Response Oct 6, 2012

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    I Just Want A Simple Hug....... A Long Hug...

    I just need a hug... I don't get very frequent hugs and when I do, they are short and half assed... I have not ever had a hug that basically tells me: "your lying, i KNOW something is wrong now."
    NashBlaze NashBlaze 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 14, 2012

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    In The Perfect Time

    after school I went 2 the church like the stupid as I used to do to complain to JESUS about what was happening to me in the school as I used to be very sad cuz it was really bad, anyway like everyday I stood praying ok! but this time it was the max I fell on my knees crying...
    alifehater alifehater 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 7, 2012

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    I am going through some major things

    and find myself begging for hugs which appear to be very difficult to get. It is just a nice tight long hug but I am finding that it is just too much to ask. It makes me wonder if hugs will become something you have to pay for. If that happens then what is the reason to continue...
    NoOneImportantNow NoOneImportantNow 46-50, M Jan 17

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    I have always made the wrong choice when it comes to friends and now I am left with none when i need someone the most :(
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    i got so many sleepless night...there are things that bothering me in my life now....i need someone to talk to,,
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    Dear Lord, Family anf i are oing through hard times. We are so scared. Its so dark tonight. Are expecting the worse. The weather is horrible, so humid. I saw my sisters hugging...
    Donotletmego Donotletmego 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I usually hate being touched. I hate it when people grab my arm to stop me from doing something. But, I feel like I need a hug x.x It's so strange and it's funny because my best...
    DearYou DearYou 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I am 14 years old, my life ahead of me my past behind me. I wish I could say that without lying. Honestly, I am a 14 year old suicidal, a picture of sadness painted with blood on...
    UnwantedShadow UnwantedShadow 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Im really really sad now! :( i need someone to talk n listen to my story! I got no friends :((((
    lonelyadelle lonelyadelle 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 28

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    Hello.. My name's Jason. I've found this forum several times whilst typing random things into google, so I thought i'd sign up... It looks as if it's a good place to vent. I'm not...
    aJason23 aJason23 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 18

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    i need a hug,suddenly. to make me more calm...
    klooey klooey 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 19

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    People think that expensive psychiatrists can cure you with a prescription for some obscure drug. In reality I'm just cynical and ruthless because I've been neglected all my life...
    TommiAdkins TommiAdkins 13-15, F Mar 25

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    I also sometimes need someone to talk to, I mean, someone who really understands what struggles and battles are like, but can I just say to all of you on this website, you give me...
    imasecretdisaster imasecretdisaster 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 2

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    I need someone to confine in. Someone that will have my back no matter what. Im scared to write how I really feel I just need some unconditional love. I just want this guy to...
    LolaaBunnii LolaaBunnii 18-21 Mar 18

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    This is 1 of many paragraphs that I need to post aftetwards I just need someone to talk to. I'm lost. I hate my life and I'm starting to hate myself. I need someone who will just...
    smileykylier smileykylier 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 21

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    If you need someone to talk to then you could talk to me if you want to. I'm not a therapist or a doctor so I may not be able to give the best advice because I know we all have...
    Chirogymnast Chirogymnast 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I need someone to Talk to..Someone who understand me.Someone who listen to what im saying.Someone who always here beside me.Someone who not judge me and someone who I can trust.
    CMFajardo CMFajardo 16-17, M 4 Responses Apr 5

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    I am always looking for people to talk to...about anything!! Feel free to message me and I'll get back when I can :) If you are struggling with something or need to vent just flat...
    Jaimedee Jaimedee 18-21, F 9 Responses 6 days ago

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    It's funny how when someone needs somebody to talk to I'm always here, but the time I need someone to talk to no one is there. That's one of the reasons I don't trust easily.
    Kayleer18 Kayleer18 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 22

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    please someone help me!- Someone has been sending me hate on my ask box. However, i think its my best friend. She hangs out with this boy who hates me and i think hes giving her...
    SomeRandomGirl12 SomeRandomGirl12 13-15, F 7 Responses Mar 27

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    I just want someone that really cares. Someone that will hold me and love me. I need someone.
    breannainreverse breannainreverse 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I need help or someone to talk to I'm 14 years old and I'm Suicidal....my parents are getting divorce and I live with my dad who always makes me clean the house he drinks a lot and...
    11001s 11001s 13-15, F 24 Responses Apr 9

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    I just need someone to text me pretending to be someone else so that I can effectively lie to my mom. Yes, this is terrible, but I'm desperate. Someone..PLEASE?
    kittenkate kittenkate 18-21, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    I really need someone to talk to asap, preferably someone who has a good understanding around mental health. I'm not entirely sure what's going on right now but I'm feeling quite...
    caraacakes caraacakes 16-17, F 12 Responses 1 day ago

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    Normally i am the one who needs someone to talk to but tonight i am doing pretty good. I feel everyone could always use someone to talk to however. Feel free to talk to me and i'll...
    TwystedAbyss TwystedAbyss 18-21, M Mar 19

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    Boredom is filling my soul currently, need someone to talk to ( though I'm with my friends now, they're busy with their own gadgets ) I want someone fun,kind, and patient to talk...
    Daydreamerneverfalls Daydreamerneverfalls 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    I just need someone to talk openly with about all m experiences who can give me advice on where to turn next. In my early childhood I was abused and raped repeatedly by my...
    SkitLaberge SkitLaberge 18-21, F Mar 20

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    I need someone who is understanding and someone who I can get close to. I want a friend who will be there for me. I've been battling depression and a friend would be nice to have...
    JNguyen104 JNguyen104 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 21

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    I need someone to talk to... But then, if someone wanted to talk to me, I'd just think, 'my problems are probably mostly in my head, anyway! A lot of people have it a lot worse, so...
    Charlottexoxx Charlottexoxx 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 24

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    Let me just start off with some background. I have been a Christian girl all my life, my dad left when i was 11 this rlly took a toll on me, i needed my father's love. i needed him...
    Porcelian Porcelian 16-17, F 20 Responses Mar 29

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    I really need someone to talk to. Not someone I know, just a stranger that I can basically pour my heart out to. I just feel really low. I hate dumping my problems on other people...
    JustThatNobody JustThatNobody 13-15, F 11 Responses Mar 31

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    I need someone to talk to.. I am going through some tough times right now. I really just want someone I can talk to openly about what's on mind and what's going on in my life...
    Raven628 Raven628 16-17, F 8 Responses Mar 31

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    I am feeling down due to some family problems. I cried my heart out and I am feeling a little bit better now. I feel like I need someone to talk to right now, like a close friend...
    3mayunanda 3mayunanda 16-17 2 Responses Apr 6

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    I'm so lonely I have nobody, naw I'm just playing but I really have been bored though, so someone come & entertain me # I need someone to talk to
    briyonnamobley briyonnamobley 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    If you feel you need someone to talk to, and you can't find that someone; just go out and explore nature..
    ScorpM ScorpM 18-21, M Apr 8

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