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I Need Someone to Hug

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    I've been feeling so lonely lately. And I really have no desire to hug my family, other than my two brothers. Everyone else has been frustrating me almost to the point of tears; I don't want to be anywhere near them. But really. I need a hug so desperately. Just to know I'm not...
    SheistheLorax SheistheLorax 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2008

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    It's Been Years

    It's been years since i've let someone touch me..my energy assures others that touch is a nono...lately i find that i miss it, i'd like to allow another human to give me a hug, a peck on the cheek , tossle my hair...i have been used to believing that my lifes journey will not...
    sularose sularose 41-45 3 Responses Jul 22, 2011

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    Coping Alone

    I am dealing with the revealation of my husband's affair. He "confessed" while under anesthesia. While it was quite a few years ago, it explains much of the struggle we have had. It makes two thirds of our married life seem a lie. I have no one to talk to other than my...
    30yrsin 30yrsin 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2012

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    I always like to hug people.

    Having a long hug is comforting to the inner soul, a break from the outside world. but sadly, I never had a long sincere hug before,most of them are just short hugs. Having long hugs can be the most amazing feeling ever, the way your arms surround another person and they...
    camelliahearts camelliahearts 16-17, F Jan 31

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    Problem Is

    many think people my age have no rights in this world wonder where it would be if so many had not been killed in viet nam wonder what changesmy wife and i could have brought to the world if she had not been killed there
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Jun 16, 2011

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    I Just Want A Simple Hug....... A Long Hug...

    I just need a hug... I don't get very frequent hugs and when I do, they are short and half assed... I have not ever had a hug that basically tells me: "your lying, i KNOW something is wrong now."
    NashBlaze NashBlaze 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 14, 2012

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    No Touchy

    For the first six years of my life I was always a touchy child. But my mom was always overly affectionate. And I never really wanted her to touch me, because she would always squeeze me too tight. OR not let go. Or tell me if I didnt hug her she would be very sad and leave me...
    relleaine relleaine 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 14, 2010

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    Because I don't like hugging ppl I hug things .

    In the school and bus I hug my bag and when I have nothin to hug I cross my hand but when I don't hug a thing I don't feel comfortable . I don't hug dolls or teddy bears because I am scared of them .
    DrowningInPain2 DrowningInPain2 13-15, F 1 Response May 30

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    I Just Want A Real Hug.

    all I get is hugs from my family, and they kinda suck. I want a hug from a friend, girlfriend, or boyfriend, I just want a shoulder to cry on...someone to dry my tears, and tell me that it'll be alright, but hey, that's probably never going to happen, nobody I know really cares...
    ResignedToSadness ResignedToSadness 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    May I Hug You?

    When you hug somebody.  You are bringing some joy and peace into the person´s life.  They grave for love and acceptance.  I will always give you a hug.  Because you deserve it and you can always get one from me.  And hugs are healing power.  Pass it around and make...
    FaroesePearl FaroesePearl 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 8, 2012

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    Besides My Mother

    At this point, my mother is pretty much the only person who hugs me (well her and most of the adults in my family), but I still feel empty. I have trouble finding others who will, especially males. I feel like I have a reputation to protect around them and hugging is out of the...
    warriormaiden17 warriormaiden17 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 4, 2013

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    In The Perfect Time

    after school I went 2 the church like the stupid as I used to do to complain to JESUS about what was happening to me in the school as I used to be very sad cuz it was really bad, anyway like everyday I stood praying ok! but this time it was the max I fell on my knees crying...
    alifehater alifehater 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 7, 2012

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    I Need A Hug

    Just some human contact. Someone who cares. I feel so alone. I want to hide and dissociate from the world.
    lilylilyrose lilylilyrose 56-60, F Feb 9, 2013

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    I am going through some major things

    and find myself begging for hugs which appear to be very difficult to get. It is just a nice tight long hug but I am finding that it is just too much to ask. It makes me wonder if hugs will become something you have to pay for. If that happens then what is the reason to continue...
    NoOneImportantNow NoOneImportantNow 46-50, M Jan 17

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    I Desperately Want A Hug.

    Well, I've never really had a long hug and I'm really craving one. I want someone there with me(like a boyfriend)to tell me everything is going to be okay. I want to hug someone for hours and sleep and cuddle my trouble thoughts away. I need someone to depend on, someone to spoil...
    AnonymousChika AnonymousChika 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 6, 2012

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    All I Need Is Someone

    I have this fantasy  of  just being to hug someone I love and lye with them forever. It's because I don't have any special people in my life. My family doesn't really care for me and I never had a boyfriend. I know I'm pathetic...
    Saigo Saigo 18-21, M 5 Responses Jun 15, 2008

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    Is It My Turn Yet??

    I need a real hug. A good warm one that will make me not fear fire anymore. One that will be sweet kisses thru my memory of that person when he/she is not around me.
    FolsomOrchid FolsomOrchid 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 16, 2008

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    Stupidly Funny

    your stupid me0.yeah:stupid.me0nothing is soo stupid and horrible me0 is not worthy of being hugged.much less to just have someone.god what a dumb ***** me0.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 8, 2011

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    I Need A Hug

    I need a hug. I've needed one for awhile. And I get them... from my roommates. I love my roommates, they are amazing people. They remind me of me. It's one of many reasons that I love them. But I'm still lonely. My family... they love me, but we're distant, and no matter what I...
    Rabell Rabell 18-21 1 Response Oct 6, 2012

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    Hug Please

    I have always been a hugable person. I dont care if i seen you a couple of hours ago. I gotta give you another. Its the affection and knowing that someone cares and a message to say i love you. If i am feeling bad or upset, or down for any reason that hug can be so comforting. I...
    kiki1956 kiki1956 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 25, 2012

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    I Want A Real Hug

    i feel incredibly alone, all i want is a hug from someone that cares about me...
    himynameisdotdotdot himynameisdotdotdot 22-25, M 6 Responses Jul 11, 2010

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    Out Of The Mouths Of Babes

    A friend recently sent this out....a conversation between a mother and 5y/o daughter daugher: I got married today mom: to who daughter: jacob mom: what did you do daughter: we danced mom: what do married people do daughter: the stay away from each other, but we didn't do that
    itsmemargaret itsmemargaret 41-45, F Jul 24, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    Yeah I need a hug, I kinda just want to cuddle and be held so let's make that a long long hug.
    OutOfSight23 OutOfSight23 18-21, F 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I feel so much older than I am. I have always had this problem. I also look much older then I am. I am only 14 now but people think I am 18. And when they hear me talking about...
    guitarsongwriter guitarsongwriter 13-15, F 17 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I want a person to like me for me.... now I get that sounds so teen girl but I want someone who lives on laughter and compassion I need someone to be silly and talk till 3.00 a.m...
    SkullSweetHeart SkullSweetHeart 16-17, F 4 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I want some who i can talk to all the time and not lose i need someone to talk to.
    scoobycharlie scoobycharlie 13-15, M 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    Im bored so i need someone now to talk to :P
    Darceyblair Darceyblair 13-15, F 3 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I have so many things going on right now, I just need someone to talk to and possibly some advice?
    biancal24 biancal24 16-17, F 3 hrs ago

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    Im going though a lot right now and just need someone to be there. Text me at 267-209-1911
    ShutterFly729 ShutterFly729 22-25 6 mins ago

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    I am at a critical point in my life, a point where I will make a huge decision. While I am not feeling pressured, there is a bit of fear of the consequences that may come, what...
    bkf2 bkf2 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    I need a hug... God I sound girly *Facepalm* But I feel the need to hug someone for no reason ;-;
    DysfunctionalPiano DysfunctionalPiano 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Hey. I'm 15 years old, and growing up awfully. Most of my family is dead due to cancer. The remaining part are partually thieves, and partually selfhating people, blaming eachother...
    Draganoth Draganoth 13-15, M 9 Responses Jul 2

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    I'm a guy who can't express himself well, at least through words😳. I need someone to love and hug. Someone, I can hold in my arms, kiss and call mine. I'm too alone by myself. I...
    TheAverageIdiot TheAverageIdiot 16-17, M Jul 13

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    Shshshshshshyyyyyyyytttttttttt Realy x 1470000000 Strangers get mad at my hope. Pals cant travel here. New pals here aint sure of me yet. New enemies increase the need...
    converted converted 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 2

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    I always need a hug. It doesn't matter if I have just had one or how good or bad a day I am having, another hug will make things better.
    xxxtop xxxtop 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 4

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    I won't receive a hug from my boyfriend until this upcoming week, but I need a hug now. I'm depressed and all I can think about is leaving.
    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    PEOPLE!! *puts two hands up and holds a gun pointing at y'all* I need a HUG! Gimme some or you'll dieee! O_O (he he he)
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F 31 Responses Jul 15

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    I really really need a hug right now :( 😢
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 17

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    I need a hug :((((((( like really bad
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I need someone to lay with me, cuddle, and hold me for no reason. I need someone I feel comfortable with, that I can share all of my problems with. I need someone that will love me...
    QuietChick96 QuietChick96 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I'm not suicidal or anything, but i have some problems of my own that just need to be said out? I just need someone who can relate to my problems and act like they care. I'm not...
    AlwaysOverthinking AlwaysOverthinking 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    I need someone to talk to. Someone who is not judgmental. Someone who would be willing to listen and give honest advices. I need someone who is unbiased.
    MarieAiko MarieAiko 18-21, F 11 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm just about ready to explode. My logical brain knows I shouldn't be feeling so frustrated, anxious, overwhelmed, angry and deteriorating. but my emotions are going out of...
    Skaech Skaech 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    Latley I have had some suicide thoughts, like how much the world would be better without me. I need someone to talk to just so they could listen or i need someone to listen to me.
    Smiley1994 Smiley1994 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 16

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    I need someone to talk to or vent. Going through a low point in life. Message me if you wish to talk or text... Story below. Maybe I'm destined to be single. Everything has...
    Winbu Winbu 16-17, M 4 Responses Jul 18

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    It's very easy to say "busy" when someone needs you. . but it's very painful to hear "busy" when you need someone.
    ImJustANobody ImJustANobody 26-30, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Yea..i am deprived of love since i remember,,i have had all the emotions...mainly negative ones..but i do believe that love can save me..and i want to be saved by love. I need a...
    divich420 divich420 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    Yea..i am deprived of love since i remember,,i have had all the emotions...mainly negative ones..but i do believe that love can save me..and i want to be saved by love. I need a...
    divich420 divich420 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    If anyone ever needs to vent or someone to talk to I try my best to listen and try to help~ feel free to message meh if you ever need someone to talk to or listen! cx
    Tayway22 Tayway22 13-15, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    I just need a friend its a long story and I just need a friend.. Need someone to listen to me..