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I Need Someone to Hug

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 377 People

    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M Nov 12

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    I always like to hug people.

    Having a long hug is comforting to the inner soul, a break from the outside world. but sadly, I never had a long sincere hug before,most of them are just short hugs. Having long hugs can be the most amazing feeling ever, the way your arms surround another person and they...
    camelliahearts camelliahearts 16-17, F Jan 31

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    Besides My Mother

    At this point, my mother is pretty much the only person who hugs me (well her and most of the adults in my family), but I still feel empty. I have trouble finding others who will, especially males. I feel like I have a reputation to protect around them and hugging is out of the...
    warriormaiden17 warriormaiden17 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4, 2013

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    Because I don't like hugging ppl I hug things .

    In the school and bus I hug my bag and when I have nothin to hug I cross my hand but when I don't hug a thing I don't feel comfortable . I don't hug dolls or teddy bears because I am scared of them .
    Ummaperson Ummaperson 13-15, F May 30

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    I Just Want A Simple Hug....... A Long Hug...

    I just need a hug... I don't get very frequent hugs and when I do, they are short and half assed... I have not ever had a hug that basically tells me: "your lying, i KNOW something is wrong now."
    NashBlaze NashBlaze 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 14, 2012

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    Problem Is

    many think people my age have no rights in this world wonder where it would be if so many had not been killed in viet nam wonder what changesmy wife and i could have brought to the world if she had not been killed there
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Jun 16, 2011

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    Stupidly Funny

    your stupid me0.yeah:stupid.me0nothing is soo stupid and horrible me0 is not worthy of being hugged.much less to just have someone.god what a dumb ***** me0.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 8, 2011

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    It's Been Years

    It's been years since i've let someone touch me..my energy assures others that touch is a nono...lately i find that i miss it, i'd like to allow another human to give me a hug, a peck on the cheek , tossle my hair...i have been used to believing that my lifes journey will not...
    sularose sularose 41-45 3 Responses Jul 22, 2011

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    I Just Want A Real Hug.

    all I get is hugs from my family, and they kinda suck. I want a hug from a friend, girlfriend, or boyfriend, I just want a shoulder to cry on...someone to dry my tears, and tell me that it'll be alright, but hey, that's probably never going to happen, nobody I know really cares...
    ResignedToSadness ResignedToSadness 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    Out Of The Mouths Of Babes

    A friend recently sent this out....a conversation between a mother and 5y/o daughter daugher: I got married today mom: to who daughter: jacob mom: what did you do daughter: we danced mom: what do married people do daughter: the stay away from each other, but we didn't do that
    itsmemargaret itsmemargaret 41-45, F Jul 24, 2011

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    In The Perfect Time

    after school I went 2 the church like the stupid as I used to do to complain to JESUS about what was happening to me in the school as I used to be very sad cuz it was really bad, anyway like everyday I stood praying ok! but this time it was the max I fell on my knees crying...
    alifehater alifehater 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 7, 2012

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    I Desperately Want A Hug.

    Well, I've never really had a long hug and I'm really craving one. I want someone there with me(like a boyfriend)to tell me everything is going to be okay. I want to hug someone for hours and sleep and cuddle my trouble thoughts away. I need someone to depend on, someone to spoil...
    AnonymousChika AnonymousChika 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 6, 2012

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    Iamlonelyinside Iamlonelyinside 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 12

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    May I Hug You?

    When you hug somebody.  You are bringing some joy and peace into the person´s life.  They grave for love and acceptance.  I will always give you a hug.  Because you deserve it and you can always get one from me.  And hugs are healing power.  Pass it around and make...
    FaroesePearl FaroesePearl 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 8, 2012

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    I Need A Hug

    I need a hug. I've needed one for awhile. And I get them... from my roommates. I love my roommates, they are amazing people. They remind me of me. It's one of many reasons that I love them. But I'm still lonely. My family... they love me, but we're distant, and no matter what I...
    Rabell Rabell 18-21 1 Response Oct 6, 2012

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    Yes...

    I've been feeling so lonely lately. And I really have no desire to hug my family, other than my two brothers. Everyone else has been frustrating me almost to the point of tears; I don't want to be anywhere near them. But really. I need a hug so desperately. Just to know I'm not...
    SheistheLorax SheistheLorax 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2008

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    Hug Please

    I have always been a hugable person. I dont care if i seen you a couple of hours ago. I gotta give you another. Its the affection and knowing that someone cares and a message to say i love you. If i am feeling bad or upset, or down for any reason that hug can be so comforting. I...
    kiki1956 kiki1956 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 25, 2012

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    Is It My Turn Yet??

    I need a real hug. A good warm one that will make me not fear fire anymore. One that will be sweet kisses thru my memory of that person when he/she is not around me.
    FolsomOrchid FolsomOrchid 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 16, 2008

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    I Need A Hug

    Just some human contact. Someone who cares. I feel so alone. I want to hide and dissociate from the world.
    lilylilyrose lilylilyrose 56-60, F Feb 9, 2013

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    Coping Alone

    I am dealing with the revealation of my husband's affair. He "confessed" while under anesthesia. While it was quite a few years ago, it explains much of the struggle we have had. It makes two thirds of our married life seem a lie. I have no one to talk to other than my...
    30yrsin 30yrsin 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2012

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    No Touchy

    For the first six years of my life I was always a touchy child. But my mom was always overly affectionate. And I never really wanted her to touch me, because she would always squeeze me too tight. OR not let go. Or tell me if I didnt hug her she would be very sad and leave me...
    relleaine relleaine 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 14, 2010

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    I am going through some major things

    and find myself begging for hugs which appear to be very difficult to get. It is just a nice tight long hug but I am finding that it is just too much to ask. It makes me wonder if hugs will become something you have to pay for. If that happens then what is the reason to continue...
    NoOneImportantNow NoOneImportantNow 46-50, M Jan 17

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    All I Need Is Someone

    I have this fantasy  of  just being to hug someone I love and lye with them forever. It's because I don't have any special people in my life. My family doesn't really care for me and I never had a boyfriend. I know I'm pathetic...
    Saigo Saigo 18-21, M 5 Responses Jun 15, 2008

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    I Want A Real Hug

    i feel incredibly alone, all i want is a hug from someone that cares about me...
    himynameisdotdotdot himynameisdotdotdot 22-25, M 6 Responses Jul 11, 2010

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    I always get hugs from friends

    and family and their nice, but for once I just want a really special hug from someone that I'm in love with and who sincerely thinks that I'm special, that I matter, and is afraid of losing me. And I want this hug to last for as long as possible with me feeling safe, wanted...
    jamie1292 jamie1292 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    I reaaaally need someone to talk to., I honestly feel like I have nobody anymore.
    miconstancia miconstancia 13-15, F 4 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    im sick of hugging my pillow, I just want a real person to hug. every night I hug my pillow and pretend that someone is hugging me. sometimes without even realising it, I hug...
    silentgirl1234 silentgirl1234 13-15, F Nov 14

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    I am feeling upset with everything. I had to let someone go my ex bf cos of my situation. Stupidly got involved with someone and just lots of thing just need a hug someone to hold...
    stupid28 stupid28 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    I wish I had someone to hug... I feel so alone and really need a hug... Really.....
    FullTimeAloneBoy FullTimeAloneBoy 18-21, M Nov 11

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    I just really need someone to talk to so I can express myself some more. Maybe vent a bit. Everyone ignores me and my girlfriend just left me. She was about the only thing I had...
    KidKD11 KidKD11 13-15, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm here for u...idc who u are how old,gender, race or whatever...no one deserves to be alone in this world everyone deserves to have someone they no will be there..i could be that...
    istrying istrying 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 5

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    I really need a hug. I wish can doing it everyday. because its warm and loving. i like it so much
    myselfhere myselfhere 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 26

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    Today , was the worse day, hectic work day , and my brake light comes on in my van, that added to money problems.. I just need a hug... To know everything will be okay.
    moonlisrose moonlisrose 41-45, F 20 Responses Oct 27

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    I'm looking for someone that's a goof, someone silly to joke around with. Someone I can skype [MUST have skype..] with or bug whenever I need someone to talk to. Someone that won't...
    Kinrix Kinrix 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 29

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    I need to talk to someone who has experienced a miscarriage. I need to know that I'm not crazy for feeling so empty and alone. I need someone to tell me it will eventually get...
    Roadtorecovery31997 Roadtorecovery31997 16-17, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I need someone to talk to who is in a similar boat as myself. I'm 25, female, and still in college. I'm struggling to make any progress in my life and I've seemed to isolate...
    katastic katastic 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 7

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    I need someone to talk to I need someone to go out with I have a phone I love someone
    Chloe158 Chloe158 13-15, F Oct 29

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    Sometimes we all need someone to talk to because their will be days where we will feel lonely and want someone to talk to if anyone needs someone to talk to I can that person...
    soccerboi7 soccerboi7 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 13

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    I need someone to talk to me, call me baby, tell me he needs me, tell me he cares. I need someone to make me feel like I have a part in this world. I need love. I guess I'm just...
    DepressingKayla DepressingKayla 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    More than anything, I want a best friend. I need someone I can connect with and will actually text me. I'm sick of getting in touch with loads of people only for them to stop...
    speedskull speedskull 18-21, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I need someone who will be there when I need him and someone to cuddle with me
    Chloe158 Chloe158 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 29

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    I am always looking to make new friends. Its been four months since I got out of a long term relationship and still one of the hardest things is not being in constant communicatiom...
    FloraTristan FloraTristan 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 2

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    How could you call yourself a Christian? How?! You sat back and let your granddaughter get aborted. Did you just pretend it didn't happen. Turn your back on the situation. You are...
    forgottenheart forgottenheart 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 4

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    Someone that's highly intelligent or at least a little but talkative. Please, I need someone to engage with, to converse about a vast array of subjects and topics, someone who isn...
    AngryTitan AngryTitan 16-17, M 2 Responses Nov 7

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    I need someone to hush me down, pull me close and wrap their arms around my waist and softly draw little circles on my back with their fingertips. I want someone to whisper...
    dancedesire dancedesire 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 8

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    I feel homebound. I'll be 26 this year and I'm still living with my parents. I need to get my own living quarters and a job, but I was dismissed/suspended from college since I...
    pagan360 pagan360 22-25 2 Responses Nov 10

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    I need someone to help me. I need someone to be harsh with me and help me not to eat. Help me.
    KatMcFat KatMcFat 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 14

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    okay so I really need someone to talk to. I need to get someones opinion on what I should do with my relationship or lack or or I dunno anymore. its very complecated... is there...
    bolahaming bolahaming 18-21, M 6 Responses a week ago

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