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I Need Someone to Hug

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 407 People

    Iamlonelyinside Iamlonelyinside 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 12, 2014

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    I Just Want A Real Hug.

    all I get is hugs from my family, and they kinda suck. I want a hug from a friend, girlfriend, or boyfriend, I just want a shoulder to cry on...someone to dry my tears, and tell me that it'll be alright, but hey, that's probably never going to happen, nobody I know really cares...
    ResignedToSadness ResignedToSadness 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    Besides My Mother

    At this point, my mother is pretty much the only person who hugs me (well her and most of the adults in my family), but I still feel empty. I have trouble finding others who will, especially males. I feel like I have a reputation to protect around them and hugging is out of the...
    warriormaiden17 warriormaiden17 18-21, F Jul 4, 2013

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    Out Of The Mouths Of Babes

    A friend recently sent this out....a conversation between a mother and 5y/o daughter daugher: I got married today mom: to who daughter: jacob mom: what did you do daughter: we danced mom: what do married people do daughter: the stay away from each other, but we didn't do that
    itsmemargaret itsmemargaret 41-45, F Jul 24, 2011

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    I always get hugs from friends

    and family and their nice, but for once I just want a really special hug from someone that I'm in love with and who sincerely thinks that I'm special, that I matter, and is afraid of losing me. And I want this hug to last for as long as possible with me feeling safe, wanted...
    jamie1292 jamie1292 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 18, 2014

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    It's Been Years

    It's been years since i've let someone touch me..my energy assures others that touch is a nono...lately i find that i miss it, i'd like to allow another human to give me a hug, a peck on the cheek , tossle my hair...i have been used to believing that my lifes journey will not...
    sularose sularose 41-45 2 Responses Jul 22, 2011

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    Problem Is

    many think people my age have no rights in this world wonder where it would be if so many had not been killed in viet nam wonder what changesmy wife and i could have brought to the world if she had not been killed there
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Jun 16, 2011

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    Is It My Turn Yet??

    I need a real hug. A good warm one that will make me not fear fire anymore. One that will be sweet kisses thru my memory of that person when he/she is not around me.
    FolsomOrchid FolsomOrchid 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 16, 2008

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    I am going through some major things

    and find myself begging for hugs which appear to be very difficult to get. It is just a nice tight long hug but I am finding that it is just too much to ask. It makes me wonder if hugs will become something you have to pay for. If that happens then what is the reason to continue...
    NoOneImportantNow NoOneImportantNow 46-50, M Jan 17, 2014

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    Coping Alone

    I am dealing with the revealation of my husband's affair. He "confessed" while under anesthesia. While it was quite a few years ago, it explains much of the struggle we have had. It makes two thirds of our married life seem a lie. I have no one to talk to other than my...
    30yrsin 30yrsin 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2012

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    I Need A Hug

    I need a hug. I've needed one for awhile. And I get them... from my roommates. I love my roommates, they are amazing people. They remind me of me. It's one of many reasons that I love them. But I'm still lonely. My family... they love me, but we're distant, and no matter what I...
    Rabell Rabell 18-21 1 Response Oct 6, 2012

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    May I Hug You?

    When you hug somebody.  You are bringing some joy and peace into the person´s life.  They grave for love and acceptance.  I will always give you a hug.  Because you deserve it and you can always get one from me.  And hugs are healing power.  Pass it around and make...
    FaroesePearl FaroesePearl 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 8, 2012

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    Stupidly Funny

    your stupid me0.yeah:stupid.me0nothing is soo stupid and horrible me0 is not worthy of being hugged.much less to just have someone.god what a dumb ***** me0.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 8, 2011

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    I always like to hug people.

    Having a long hug is comforting to the inner soul, a break from the outside world. but sadly, I never had a long sincere hug before,most of them are just short hugs. Having long hugs can be the most amazing feeling ever, the way your arms surround another person and they...
    camelliahearts camelliahearts 16-17, F Jan 31, 2014

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    All I Need Is Someone

    I have this fantasy  of  just being to hug someone I love and lye with them forever. It's because I don't have any special people in my life. My family doesn't really care for me and I never had a boyfriend. I know I'm pathetic...
    Saigo Saigo 18-21, M 5 Responses Jun 15, 2008

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    I Desperately Want A Hug.

    Well, I've never really had a long hug and I'm really craving one. I want someone there with me(like a boyfriend)to tell me everything is going to be okay. I want to hug someone for hours and sleep and cuddle my trouble thoughts away. I need someone to depend on, someone to spoil...
    AnonymousChika AnonymousChika 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 6, 2012

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    I Want A Real Hug

    i feel incredibly alone, all i want is a hug from someone that cares about me...
    himynameisdotdotdot himynameisdotdotdot 22-25, M 6 Responses Jul 11, 2010

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    No Touchy

    For the first six years of my life I was always a touchy child. But my mom was always overly affectionate. And I never really wanted her to touch me, because she would always squeeze me too tight. OR not let go. Or tell me if I didnt hug her she would be very sad and leave me...
    relleaine relleaine 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 14, 2010

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    I Need A Hug

    Just some human contact. Someone who cares. I feel so alone. I want to hide and dissociate from the world.
    lilylilyrose lilylilyrose 56-60, F Feb 9, 2013

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    Hug Please

    I have always been a hugable person. I dont care if i seen you a couple of hours ago. I gotta give you another. Its the affection and knowing that someone cares and a message to say i love you. If i am feeling bad or upset, or down for any reason that hug can be so comforting. I...
    kiki1956 kiki1956 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 25, 2012

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    Yes...

    I've been feeling so lonely lately. And I really have no desire to hug my family, other than my two brothers. Everyone else has been frustrating me almost to the point of tears; I don't want to be anywhere near them. But really. I need a hug so desperately. Just to know I'm not...
    SheistheLorax SheistheLorax 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 30, 2008

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    Because I don't like hugging ppl I hug things .

    In the school and bus I hug my bag and when I have nothin to hug I cross my hand but when I don't hug a thing I don't feel comfortable . I don't hug dolls or teddy bears because I am scared of them .
    Silentsuffer Silentsuffer 13-15, F May 30, 2014

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    I Just Want A Simple Hug....... A Long Hug...

    I just need a hug... I don't get very frequent hugs and when I do, they are short and half assed... I have not ever had a hug that basically tells me: "your lying, i KNOW something is wrong now."
    NashBlaze NashBlaze 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 14, 2012

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    Holla34 Holla34 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Hey I live in Texas- making a plan to run away but I need someone to go with. Anyone?
    182114123125PA 182114123125PA 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I think I have BDD (body dysmorphic disorder) but can't bring myself to tell anybody because of worries that they'll think I'm just vain and self obsessed. It's getting so bad that...
    jep537 jep537 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    If anybody needs someone to talk to i'm here for you
    Babyzach Babyzach 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    I just really need someone to talk to. I really don't know who to turn to about this anymore
    kmiracle kmiracle 16-17, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    I Need Someone Who wont judge. and talk freely with me. and be like a best friend. an honest person. listen to me giving me advice ..
    Eren123 Eren123 18-21, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Need someone to talk to, please inbox me!
    mblan11 mblan11 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    If i ran away, it would be on impulse. And yes, I'd have my regrets- but I would follow through and not turn back. I just need someone whose prepared to run anytime and stick it...
    182114123125PA 182114123125PA 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    If you need someone to talk to, I'll be here, even though I won't know you I would still like help you in anyway that I can. I'm open to listening to anyone who has no one to talk...
    TimidGrl58 TimidGrl58 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I need someone to talk to!
    Sunshineandshowers89 Sunshineandshowers89 26-30, F 10 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm 19, F and I don't live in America but in Pakistan. I've had several issues. Family, health. I have a lot yet I feel empty. I want to get away from m life because it has been...
    AnaNye AnaNye 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I need a hug from my dad he was always there for me loved me protected me didn't let nobody touch me I was his little princess his baby he would of done so many things to find a...
    BabyBlue1987 BabyBlue1987 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I am stressed out and need someone to please message me preferably men because they may understand better
    cowgirltraylor cowgirltraylor 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 25

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    My landlord is trying to evict me because I won't sleep with him. I'm so stressed. He's an evil man. I have to be here for 9 more days until I can move. I've been renting rooms in...
    insomniasucks insomniasucks 31-35, F 7 Responses Aug 25

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    if you ever need to vent out im here... ive had time to let things out and I want you to feel comfortable to do the same inbox me or you can even whastapp me if you want...
    PSNDCD PSNDCD 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 24