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I Need Someone to Hug

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    Coping Alone

    I am dealing with the revealation of my husband's affair. He "confessed" while under anesthesia. While it was quite a few years ago, it explains much of the struggle we have had. It makes two thirds of our married life seem a lie. I have no one to talk to other than my...
    30yrsin 30yrsin 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2012

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    Hug Please

    I have always been a hugable person. I dont care if i seen you a couple of hours ago. I gotta give you another. Its the affection and knowing that someone cares and a message to say i love you. If i am feeling bad or upset, or down for any reason that hug can be so comforting. I...
    kiki1956 kiki1956 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 25, 2012

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    I Want A Real Hug

    i feel incredibly alone, all i want is a hug from someone that cares about me...
    himynameisdotdotdot himynameisdotdotdot 22-25, M 6 Responses Jul 11, 2010

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    I am going through some major things

    and find myself begging for hugs which appear to be very difficult to get. It is just a nice tight long hug but I am finding that it is just too much to ask. It makes me wonder if hugs will become something you have to pay for. If that happens then what is the reason to continue...
    NoOneImportantNow NoOneImportantNow 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 17, 2014

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    I Desperately Want A Hug.

    Well, I've never really had a long hug and I'm really craving one. I want someone there with me(like a boyfriend)to tell me everything is going to be okay. I want to hug someone for hours and sleep and cuddle my trouble thoughts away. I need someone to depend on, someone to spoil...
    AnonymousChika AnonymousChika 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 6, 2012

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    No Touchy

    For the first six years of my life I was always a touchy child. But my mom was always overly affectionate. And I never really wanted her to touch me, because she would always squeeze me too tight. OR not let go. Or tell me if I didnt hug her she would be very sad and leave me...
    relleaine relleaine 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 14, 2010

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    Yes...

    I've been feeling so lonely lately. And I really have no desire to hug my family, other than my two brothers. Everyone else has been frustrating me almost to the point of tears; I don't want to be anywhere near them. But really. I need a hug so desperately. Just to know I'm not...
    SheistheLorax SheistheLorax 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2008

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    Iamlonelyinside Iamlonelyinside 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 12, 2014

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    I Need A Hug

    I need a hug. I've needed one for awhile. And I get them... from my roommates. I love my roommates, they are amazing people. They remind me of me. It's one of many reasons that I love them. But I'm still lonely. My family... they love me, but we're distant, and no matter what I...
    Rabell Rabell 18-21 1 Response Oct 6, 2012

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    Problem Is

    many think people my age have no rights in this world wonder where it would be if so many had not been killed in viet nam wonder what changesmy wife and i could have brought to the world if she had not been killed there
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Jun 16, 2011

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    Out Of The Mouths Of Babes

    A friend recently sent this out....a conversation between a mother and 5y/o daughter daugher: I got married today mom: to who daughter: jacob mom: what did you do daughter: we danced mom: what do married people do daughter: the stay away from each other, but we didn't do that
    itsmemargaret itsmemargaret 41-45, F Jul 24, 2011

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    I Need A Hug

    Just some human contact. Someone who cares. I feel so alone. I want to hide and dissociate from the world.
    lilylilyrose lilylilyrose 56-60, F Feb 9, 2013

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    I always get hugs from friends

    and family and their nice, but for once I just want a really special hug from someone that I'm in love with and who sincerely thinks that I'm special, that I matter, and is afraid of losing me. And I want this hug to last for as long as possible with me feeling safe, wanted...
    jamie1292 jamie1292 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 18, 2014

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    I always like to hug people.

    Having a long hug is comforting to the inner soul, a break from the outside world. but sadly, I never had a long sincere hug before,most of them are just short hugs. Having long hugs can be the most amazing feeling ever, the way your arms surround another person and they...
    camelliahearts camelliahearts 16-17, F Jan 31, 2014

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    Because I don't like hugging ppl I hug things .

    In the school and bus I hug my bag and when I have nothin to hug I cross my hand but when I don't hug a thing I don't feel comfortable . I don't hug dolls or teddy bears because I am scared of them .
    Silentsuffer Silentsuffer 13-15, F May 30, 2014

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    Is It My Turn Yet??

    I need a real hug. A good warm one that will make me not fear fire anymore. One that will be sweet kisses thru my memory of that person when he/she is not around me.
    FolsomOrchid FolsomOrchid 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 16, 2008

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    I Just Want A Real Hug.

    all I get is hugs from my family, and they kinda suck. I want a hug from a friend, girlfriend, or boyfriend, I just want a shoulder to cry on...someone to dry my tears, and tell me that it'll be alright, but hey, that's probably never going to happen, nobody I know really cares...
    ResignedToSadness ResignedToSadness 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    I Just Want A Simple Hug....... A Long Hug...

    I just need a hug... I don't get very frequent hugs and when I do, they are short and half assed... I have not ever had a hug that basically tells me: "your lying, i KNOW something is wrong now."
    NashBlaze NashBlaze 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 14, 2012

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    It's Been Years

    It's been years since i've let someone touch me..my energy assures others that touch is a nono...lately i find that i miss it, i'd like to allow another human to give me a hug, a peck on the cheek , tossle my hair...i have been used to believing that my lifes journey will not...
    sularose sularose 41-45 2 Responses Jul 22, 2011

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    All I Need Is Someone

    I have this fantasy  of  just being to hug someone I love and lye with them forever. It's because I don't have any special people in my life. My family doesn't really care for me and I never had a boyfriend. I know I'm pathetic...
    Saigo Saigo 18-21, M 5 Responses Jun 15, 2008

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    Stupidly Funny

    your stupid me0.yeah:stupid.me0nothing is soo stupid and horrible me0 is not worthy of being hugged.much less to just have someone.god what a dumb ***** me0.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 8, 2011

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    May I Hug You?

    When you hug somebody.  You are bringing some joy and peace into the person´s life.  They grave for love and acceptance.  I will always give you a hug.  Because you deserve it and you can always get one from me.  And hugs are healing power.  Pass it around and make...
    FaroesePearl FaroesePearl 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 8, 2012

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    Besides My Mother

    At this point, my mother is pretty much the only person who hugs me (well her and most of the adults in my family), but I still feel empty. I have trouble finding others who will, especially males. I feel like I have a reputation to protect around them and hugging is out of the...
    warriormaiden17 warriormaiden17 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4, 2013

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    I need a hug 😰 getting tired of crying for somebody's else's mistakes . I'm done apologising for being a loyal & committed to a complete dickhead who will never appreciate what...
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    Oh and did I forget to mention I'm an emotional wreck at the moment? My (well basically is) my best friend has let me know it's a no go and is moving out of town. ...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 8 Responses Apr 7

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    I just need a hug. I feel myself drowning and I need to be pulled back up.
    Mylo248 Mylo248 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 31

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    Just now , i am just receive a message from my team mate that they are leaving the team, it is set up quite a long ago, and i think it is going to work but... looks like i am...
    blackravencat blackravencat 22-25, M Mar 27

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    Blehh.. so lonely recently.. friends are having fun, and when they're around they are tired... girlfriends not around much, family is busy, people are working... I just need some...
    RawrrItsAlexa RawrrItsAlexa 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 5

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    When i wake up in the morning i don't feel like anyone is appreciating me. I feel useless and unloved. I need a hug to feel appreciated.
    pedermn97 pedermn97 16-17, M 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Its the highs and lows. Some days are good and a lot of them suck. I want to have an actual conversation with someone and have it have nothing to do with sex or drugs or hooking up...
    alyssakayart alyssakayart 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    Help me....I need someone to talk to.....someone not judgmental. Someone caring, someone with patience....
    HopefullyThirdTimeLucky HopefullyThirdTimeLucky 31-35, M 5 Responses Apr 9

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    I need someone that I can talk to. Someone who won't judge me for who I am .Someone who doesn't need to know where I 'm from but who cares enough to listen and tell me about him...
    selfdiscovery101 selfdiscovery101 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    hey guys im very depressed today i need someone to talk to preferably female but ya i really need someone to talk 2
    ultimatewedgiegodess ultimatewedgiegodess 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 25

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    I used to have a friend I could tell everything and they knew everything about me. Things became complicated and we fell apart. Tomorrow I have to go back to school after a Spring...
    hicks15 hicks15 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 29

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    Ever need someone to talk to? I know what it feels like to be left alone and it feels like you're in a dark room with no windows. I've been there before, and I don't want to go...
    rockerstar rockerstar 26-30, M Apr 5

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    My mother is extremely abusive I need someone to talk about it with please message me someone
    isobelhapcher isobelhapcher 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    i really need someone to talk to i just need a friend i just need you to listen
    VarioCA VarioCA 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    I'm lost in thoughts I'm so lost in my feelings it's hard to say but I can't find my space I need someone that cares someone that really wants to know me for me in and out and I...
    garcia127 garcia127 31-35, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I really need someone to talk to right now! please don't be someone who will scare me away! please make me feel comfortable talking to you about my problems! I mostly prefer...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I need someone to talk to right now. I need help.
    theenjunior theenjunior 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 18

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    I just feel like my life has no purpose. I've put 110% into everything I have done and what do I have to show for it? Nothing. People tell me "it'll be ok" but the reality is I'm...
    a7xsolitude a7xsolitude 18-21, M 3 Responses