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I Need Someone to Hug

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 402 People

    Hug Please

    I have always been a hugable person. I dont care if i seen you a couple of hours ago. I gotta give you another. Its the affection and knowing that someone cares and a message to say i love you. If i am feeling bad or upset, or down for any reason that hug can be so comforting. I...
    kiki1956 kiki1956 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 25, 2012

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    Coping Alone

    I am dealing with the revealation of my husband's affair. He "confessed" while under anesthesia. While it was quite a few years ago, it explains much of the struggle we have had. It makes two thirds of our married life seem a lie. I have no one to talk to other than my...
    30yrsin 30yrsin 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2012

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    I Just Want A Simple Hug....... A Long Hug...

    I just need a hug... I don't get very frequent hugs and when I do, they are short and half assed... I have not ever had a hug that basically tells me: "your lying, i KNOW something is wrong now."
    NashBlaze NashBlaze 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 14, 2012

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    Out Of The Mouths Of Babes

    A friend recently sent this out....a conversation between a mother and 5y/o daughter daugher: I got married today mom: to who daughter: jacob mom: what did you do daughter: we danced mom: what do married people do daughter: the stay away from each other, but we didn't do that
    itsmemargaret itsmemargaret 41-45, F Jul 24, 2011

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    No Touchy

    For the first six years of my life I was always a touchy child. But my mom was always overly affectionate. And I never really wanted her to touch me, because she would always squeeze me too tight. OR not let go. Or tell me if I didnt hug her she would be very sad and leave me...
    relleaine relleaine 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 14, 2010

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    It's Been Years

    It's been years since i've let someone touch me..my energy assures others that touch is a nono...lately i find that i miss it, i'd like to allow another human to give me a hug, a peck on the cheek , tossle my hair...i have been used to believing that my lifes journey will not...
    sularose sularose 41-45 2 Responses Jul 22, 2011

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    All I Need Is Someone

    I have this fantasy  of  just being to hug someone I love and lye with them forever. It's because I don't have any special people in my life. My family doesn't really care for me and I never had a boyfriend. I know I'm pathetic...
    Saigo Saigo 18-21, M 5 Responses Jun 15, 2008

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    Because I don't like hugging ppl I hug things .

    In the school and bus I hug my bag and when I have nothin to hug I cross my hand but when I don't hug a thing I don't feel comfortable . I don't hug dolls or teddy bears because I am scared of them .
    Silentsuffer Silentsuffer 13-15, F May 30, 2014

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    Problem Is

    many think people my age have no rights in this world wonder where it would be if so many had not been killed in viet nam wonder what changesmy wife and i could have brought to the world if she had not been killed there
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Jun 16, 2011

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    Besides My Mother

    At this point, my mother is pretty much the only person who hugs me (well her and most of the adults in my family), but I still feel empty. I have trouble finding others who will, especially males. I feel like I have a reputation to protect around them and hugging is out of the...
    warriormaiden17 warriormaiden17 18-21, F Jul 4, 2013

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    I always get hugs from friends

    and family and their nice, but for once I just want a really special hug from someone that I'm in love with and who sincerely thinks that I'm special, that I matter, and is afraid of losing me. And I want this hug to last for as long as possible with me feeling safe, wanted...
    jamie1292 jamie1292 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 18, 2014

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    I Want A Real Hug

    i feel incredibly alone, all i want is a hug from someone that cares about me...
    himynameisdotdotdot himynameisdotdotdot 22-25, M 6 Responses Jul 11, 2010

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    I always like to hug people.

    Having a long hug is comforting to the inner soul, a break from the outside world. but sadly, I never had a long sincere hug before,most of them are just short hugs. Having long hugs can be the most amazing feeling ever, the way your arms surround another person and they...
    camelliahearts camelliahearts 16-17, F Jan 31, 2014

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    Iamlonelyinside Iamlonelyinside 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 12, 2014

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    I Desperately Want A Hug.

    Well, I've never really had a long hug and I'm really craving one. I want someone there with me(like a boyfriend)to tell me everything is going to be okay. I want to hug someone for hours and sleep and cuddle my trouble thoughts away. I need someone to depend on, someone to spoil...
    AnonymousChika AnonymousChika 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 6, 2012

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    I Need A Hug

    Just some human contact. Someone who cares. I feel so alone. I want to hide and dissociate from the world.
    lilylilyrose lilylilyrose 56-60, F Feb 9, 2013

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    Stupidly Funny

    your stupid me0.yeah:stupid.me0nothing is soo stupid and horrible me0 is not worthy of being hugged.much less to just have someone.god what a dumb ***** me0.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 8, 2011

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    I am going through some major things

    and find myself begging for hugs which appear to be very difficult to get. It is just a nice tight long hug but I am finding that it is just too much to ask. It makes me wonder if hugs will become something you have to pay for. If that happens then what is the reason to continue...
    NoOneImportantNow NoOneImportantNow 46-50, M Jan 17, 2014

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    I Need A Hug

    I need a hug. I've needed one for awhile. And I get them... from my roommates. I love my roommates, they are amazing people. They remind me of me. It's one of many reasons that I love them. But I'm still lonely. My family... they love me, but we're distant, and no matter what I...
    Rabell Rabell 18-21 1 Response Oct 6, 2012

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    Yes...

    I've been feeling so lonely lately. And I really have no desire to hug my family, other than my two brothers. Everyone else has been frustrating me almost to the point of tears; I don't want to be anywhere near them. But really. I need a hug so desperately. Just to know I'm not...
    SheistheLorax SheistheLorax 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 30, 2008

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    Is It My Turn Yet??

    I need a real hug. A good warm one that will make me not fear fire anymore. One that will be sweet kisses thru my memory of that person when he/she is not around me.
    FolsomOrchid FolsomOrchid 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 16, 2008

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    May I Hug You?

    When you hug somebody.  You are bringing some joy and peace into the person´s life.  They grave for love and acceptance.  I will always give you a hug.  Because you deserve it and you can always get one from me.  And hugs are healing power.  Pass it around and make...
    FaroesePearl FaroesePearl 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 8, 2012

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    I Just Want A Real Hug.

    all I get is hugs from my family, and they kinda suck. I want a hug from a friend, girlfriend, or boyfriend, I just want a shoulder to cry on...someone to dry my tears, and tell me that it'll be alright, but hey, that's probably never going to happen, nobody I know really cares...
    ResignedToSadness ResignedToSadness 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 5, 2013

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    I just want someone to talk to. There is this stupid situation I am in and I just can't decide how I feel about it or what I should do. I am so confused. I just want to rant.
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    I really need someone to talk to
    LittleLiloo LittleLiloo 18-21, F 6 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I need someone to talk to like now. I really screwed up right now.
    RJguy90 RJguy90 22-25, M 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    Today is the day..I reckon..I really need someone genuine here to talk to...It feels bad..when your friends are not there and your life is empty without them..You try to do all...
    AjLovesMusic AjLovesMusic 26-30, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Super bored, need someone fun
    Luke2000xc Luke2000xc 13-15, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm actually a good listener so if anyone need someone to talk to about something, I'm available. Openminded so nothing is too strange or weird to talk about.
    Inj3ction Inj3ction 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    So I completely went against my plan and kind of unexpectedly told my therapist about the rape. She's probably the only person who will ever know ...except the man I marry. He will...
    WomanOfWillendorf WomanOfWillendorf 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    The love of my life, also now an ex, just asked if there was any way he could have another chance. I need someone to talk this through with.
    maskedheart13 maskedheart13 22-25, F 10 Responses 4 days ago

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    If anyone needs someone to talk to, you can message me. I promise I will not judge or criticize. I am a good listener.
    FTDFTL79 FTDFTL79 36-40, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Hi my name is Jordan and I am 16..i am very emotionally and physically strong but I broke so easily..I need someone to talk to..My family is in court for the children custody of my...
    JordanTheLost JordanTheLost 16-17, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Need someone to talk with my feelings right now...
    AshleyFaith AshleyFaith 26-30, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Please message me. I really just need someone.
    Hithereperson91 Hithereperson91 16-17, M a week ago

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    Hello there. I really need someone to talk to. If you can, please message me
    musicandnotes musicandnotes 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Just send a message me if you need someone to talk too:)
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 29

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    I need someone to talk to.. message me if you want to talk..
    TilTheDayIDie TilTheDayIDie 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    I don't know what to do anymore. My depression is getting worse and I don't feel like it will ever get better. I'm 22 years old. My half-brother(different fathers) is 31 years old...
    acidicbase acidicbase 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 29

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    Having a hard night tonight...my mind is swirling with so much stress and sadness...it feels like this past month has been a bad dream and I just can't wake up from it...I don't...
    SouthernZombie22 SouthernZombie22 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 29

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    a lot is going on in my head and with the people around me which is affecting me, but not how it should. I just... i dont know where to turn n e more and i need someone to talk to...
    lilbit33 lilbit33 22-25, F 6 Responses Jan 28

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    I need help guys, please! I met a guy like one week ago (I know it sounds like nothing but it feels longer) we went out to eat some ice cream and we started talking more and more...
    American19 American19 18-21, F 6 Responses