I Need Someone To Just See Me For Me And Love Me For Me

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    lmyrical lmyrical
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jun 1, 2014

    I'm a weirdo. I know.

    Weirdos need love too
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 24, 2014
    yayepisoverimsad yayepisoverimsad
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 15, 2016

    Not for my looks or some preconceived idea of

    whom I am, but because I am me. I am complex and not as strong as I may appear, I want a safe place to show that and still be accepted.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses May 5, 2015

    Sometimes Even Men Need A Shoulder To Cry On

    My mental sickness is that I have trouble with commitment. I love to interact with people, especially women. I can’t get enough of a good conversation with a women who is passionate and has thought by herself about the universe, books, art,love, life… We could get lost with...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Feb 11, 2013

    I'm so done..........

    ....**** it .
    yassbishh yassbishh
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Aug 24, 2014

    I need someone to hold my hand tell me I'm a

    good man to look into my eyes and want only me I need someone to spoon with talk to wrestle with I need someone who can hold a conversation I need someone who will answer when I call I am weary of this long lonesome journey that is my life when will I deserve love
    moitiemort moitiemort
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Jan 17, 2015

    I`am not a perfect person,

    I make a lot of mistakes,But I really appreciate those people who stay with me after knowing how I really am......................................
    nikhiljoshi1123 nikhiljoshi1123
    36-40, M
    Apr 15, 2016

    My views have changed

    after thinking long and hard, I used to think it mattered what I look like they look like but then I thought if they it me had an accident & was disfigured I would want the love back still & I would gladly give it. If I suddenly turned blind, again I would want that love...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 14, 2016

    I have been with my boyfriend

    for over 4 years now, but it always been me changing for him, I left my friends because he didn't like them, I stopped going Out because he would get jealous and I got pregnant so I was like I'm ready to be a mom when I clearly to young but i didn't mind; i thought maybe he...
    ox97 ox97
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Mar 30, 2015
    ImJustANobody ImJustANobody
    26-30, M
    1 Response May 7, 2014

    But That's Impossible

    When people don't read my stories or talk to me, but listen to mentally unstable people spreading rumors about me.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Feb 14, 2010

    I'm fed up if people trying to change me

    and making me insecure . What's wrong with just loving me because I am who I am? I'm not a pile of clay you can make into whatever pleases you..
    aishathepanda aishathepanda
    18-21, F
    3 Responses May 7, 2014

    Although everyone tells me everything happens

    for a reason, sometimes I feel I'll never never find someone who cares
    ElissaAcosta ElissaAcosta
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 17, 2015

    Most days, some sick,

    twisted part of me compels me to come downstairs during break to hang out with people that I liked at some point in time. Those days are the ones that make me question myself, especially when you laugh at my expense with the same old jokes. It gets pretty old keeping up a smile...
    raindrop19 raindrop19
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 22, 2014

    True love and loyal friends are two of the

    hardest things to find...
    ImJustANobody ImJustANobody
    26-30, M
    1 Response May 14, 2014

    I play a lot of video games,

    i don't mind at all looking like crap although i feel bad sometimes because i'm not a girl someone would fall for and i wanted to know what it's like to be pretty & special to everyone else..
    Everdeenxx Everdeenxx
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 9, 2014

    I thought it did happen

    but no, looking back it was something else, not love. Can't wait until it does happen, everyone deserves it, Don't I? Don't you?
    isfj isfj
    41-45, F
    1 Response Apr 15, 2015

    Please...

    I love myself for who I am now but for so many years I longed to share the most intimate and real parts of me with someone special. I no longer long for the person to love me for me.  I discovered that in order for others to love me for me, that first I had to do that for...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    8 Responses Feb 14, 2010

    I totally agree with you it seems like most

    people only want someone for what they have instead of the true attraction to another person.
    tman419 tman419
    31-35, M
    Mar 17, 2016

    I truly need someone to love me

    for me and not use me to get to someone else
    Anthony2400 Anthony2400
    22-25, M
    Mar 4, 2016

    I hate that men only good

    for good looking girls what about us sporty and smart girls we need so love too :)
    weeamylee weeamylee
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Apr 26, 2014

    It gets quite lonely here,

    this place inside myself.
    AbyssEyes AbyssEyes
    16-17, M
    1 Response Mar 13, 2016

    Dont Know Why

    i know why people dont realy love me for me am the one who always help them with anything even there kids saying some of there kids are realy bad i do soo much for ever in my family i never realy had someone realy love me for or not help me but someone was there win i need to get...
    shyspidergirl shyspidergirl
    26-30, F
    Jun 11, 2013

    do people exsist? people

    who really want to know a person for who they are and then build a life and legacy together.. embracing their weird or their insecurities. I hope so, or else it just doesn't make sense
    yungmumm yungmumm
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 17, 2015

    Please Accept This!

    Babies are being born every minute in this world. My main question many never want to answer. Why do people hate? No one I know choose to come into this world. If everyone could respect this it would be much easier to accept this. I wish people could just love and live and let go...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy
    41-45, F
    1 Response Mar 24, 2013

    at some point a like-minded soul will connect

    with mine...I am 24 and perpetually single. haha yes i know I am at a young age to be worrying about such. For me it became a problem when i realised that i have been nothing but an experiment to people...I am not the woman people fall in live with...I am the woman you f*** and...
    Ashlaaay Ashlaaay
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 24, 2014

    I don't know....I'm trying to be positive

    and show I'm a cool guy...but I don't feel like a lot of people would like me if they met me. Is something wrong with me? Am I too nice? Am I being too dense? Do I let anger get the best of me without realizing it?
    Marcus010 Marcus010
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Jan 17, 2015

    I am 13 about to be 14

    and I don't have anyone not even my councilor will listen he says that it is just teenage problems and it is stupid. All my friends ditched me at school and the friends I do have when I talk to them they ignore me and talk to someone else and the worst thing is if anyone had to...
    Teenagegirl258 Teenagegirl258
    16-17
    2 Responses Jul 2, 2015

    Added this experience a long time ago,

    and I'm thinking tonight how silly it's been for me to have taken so long to figure out the 'someone' is me.
    thatonewoman thatonewoman
    31-35, F
    Nov 24, 2015

    Anyone Know How To Really Move On?

    I think I have finally resigned myself to the fact that I married the wrong man--for the second time. My current husband is incapable of comprehending how to show me he loves me or simply does not care and cannot be bothered with anything that requires much effort, including sex...
    Gaylez Gaylez
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Oct 30, 2011

    You ever wanted to do people how they do you,

    but you don't because it's out of your character? Yeah me too.
    ImJustANobody ImJustANobody
    26-30, M
    1 Response May 11, 2014

    Just need someone to talk too.

    I'm bored and lonely. I'm a new member here.
    enoughisenough12345678 enoughisenough12345678
    18-21, F
    Feb 24, 2014
    CompassionateCoffee CompassionateCoffee
    18-21
    1 Response Apr 26, 2014

    I find that changing yourself

    for someone is a very hard thing to accomplish. As I have learned, I cannot be anyone but myself and if they don't like it than I have no problem moving on, I just wish it was easier to do with other people. Some things about me may be eccentric or out of character but I love...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jun 7, 2014

    I am an over - emotional

    and and imaginative guy. some people have bullied me for this in my past. I have a had tragic experiences which have shaped me up bow and had me traumatised. but I somehow coped up with my adversities. but I feel like losing myself and being broken. I always dreamt of friends...
    thedivich1 thedivich1
    22-25, M
    1 Response Dec 30, 2015

    Yes!

    And not try to change me into someone or something I'm not.  I appreciate reality.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Nov 23, 2011
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