I Need Someone to Love - Forum & Chat Board | Why?

Why exactly do you feel the NEED to love someone. I mean, if you love yourself you dont need to love anyone. Why not just simply want to? just because its nice and it feels good. The need suggests that you dont feel good otherwise. Which is not attractive. Love yourselves, love others because its fun. Otherwise, dont worry too much about it. theres a lot of cool stuff in this world. Enjoy it.

can you make love to yourself, can you hold yourself, It is so good when someone else initiates romance and puts their arms around you and touches you.  As you go with out anyone doing theses things you will become cold.

I agree that needing seems desperate and is indeed unatractive, simply wanting is better, but some of us have had no luck in love, and after many tries and after seeing many people around you having a special one you start wondering why can't I have someone?

If there is a case in wich you have fallen in love with someone, but you have had no luck winning that person heart then the thing is harder, you know how happy love can make you be, you know how great it would be to have someone to share your life, your thoughts your kisses, you were so near absolute happines but it was denied to you, that's what happened to me, I got a little taste of that happines but I didn't get it, and that made me very sad, after being so close to it then I started needing it as much as I want it.

I realize this is not attractive, but I want to share my experiences here with people that probably understands me, of course I have learned (altought a little to late) that I must not show that need when meeting people as that will make me unnatractive, but here I can share my need with other people in need, as much as I love myself just as emmellw said you can't hold yourself or kiss yourself.