on 04:45PM at Dec 9th, 2012
He is pakistan and i am an african but
on 04:48PM at Dec 9th, 2012
I have been with a Pakistan guy for 4 Years now, he is everything i ever dreamt of in a man, physically, emotionally and all rounder i must say, we have our ups and downs but we always have a way of resolving it, i have a 2 years old daughter and he is the best dad you can ever imagine and we are expecting a baby boy in less than a week from now, I am here sitting in a cyber cafe because i read things on the internet abt pakistans actting this way and i have noticed that anytime i bring up the issues, he always reacts bad and tells me everyone isnt the same but this time i started crying also due to hormones and stuff and he got angry then i wore my jacket thou its freezing cold and left the house, i didnt give him papers and actually its the other way around; I am african and he is pakistan; we both dont have papers and he paid for me to have one and then this year he got his paper by immigration law because where i live,u have to prove to live here
for certain years and then prove you can get a job which he did and he was given one, but the case is that he is living to pakistan next year feb bcos his brother is getting married and i am so scared of would say insecured because of stuff i read on the internet, i feel maybe he can go there and get married like they all do, he ran after me when i left the house to go to a cyber cafe mins ago and begged me like crazy to come back home but i refused even he knelt down in the snow and apologise, i refused and told him to give me 30 mins and i have been away for more than that now, i am confused because he is a pakistan but i believe they are all the same, i didnt give him papers but he paid for me to have one and still i am more confused because he is not gaining anything from me, instead he spends money on me and send money to my mom in africa every month; please any advice ?
on 04:49PM at Dec 9th, 2012
i havnt seen my mom in 5 years and he bought ticket for me and my daughter to go to african and visiy my mom, he borrowed the money and gave me pocket money and sent me money twice in africa but am scared that when he travels maybe he wont come back, i am 26 and he is 32.