I Need Someone to Talk to Forum & Chat Board | My girlfriend is moving away I'm emotionally a wreck

Yes I am a lesbian. and my girlfriend who I have been living with for the passed 2 years, decided she wants to "get away". We currently live in FL and she is moving to chicago. We have an apt together and everything and she is just picking up and leaving. I have tried to talk her out of this but she won't even reason. Shes dropping out of college and she says she isn't happy here and isn't motivated to finish school right now. She's going to be moving in with a friend. But I am extremely hurt, that she will just leave me like this. Is this worth it? Should I keep trying to talk to her about this? Forget about her completely? I need advice, I have been doing nothing but crying for two weeks. She tells me im being selfish because I want her here to be with me when shes unhappy here.

 

I think you should keep asking her to stay or mabie just drop out of collage and go with her if you love her so much

 

I am in a very similar situation. I'm also a lesbian and my girlfriend of 2+ years is moving away. I don't want to leave, I just started back to college, my job, my family, friends. Her sister just had a baby and needs help and her being so dedicated to family, she won't say no. I love her so much and it hurts so bad because I feel like I am put in such a position because I can't see myself ever being without her, but if she is still so willing to leave, with or without me, I need to be honest with myself and look at if what I feel matches up with how she feels. Everything about us is so different but so similar. Our goals and hopes and dreams. Am I willing to leave my whole life behind for someone who is willing to leave me behind? I haven't found an answer for myself yet. I'm also an emotional wreck right now and she's not leaving for another few months. Hope you find your answers.