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I Need Space To Be Me

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    *relief*

    I do not need to be told what to do or who to be. I do not need to learn the art of pretense. I do not need to laugh when I want to cry just because it makes me look stronger! No more will lock myself in a closet only to be pulled out when needed! No more keeping my mouth shut...
    Regretful911 Regretful911 18-21, F Mar 15, 2012

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