I Need Support While My Soldier Is Deployed

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    Deployment Sucks!

    12:30am i had to say see you soon to the love of my life.. We stood outside cuddling for half hour i didnt want to let go of him.. 4 months i have to go without looking into his eyes, kissing him and cuddling.. i miss him already. i can't sleep, can't eat, can't concentrate, can...
    princessabi princessabi
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 27, 2012

    It's been a hard couple of weeks.

    I wish I could speak to him. :(
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 23, 2014

    Filling Lost? I Guess That's What You'd Call It.

    So my boyfriend has been deployed for only a month but I have hardley talked to him this whole time. I don't think I can take this much longer. We have been together for 4 years now and I can't imagine my life without him but it's really getting to me that he's not here. This...
    asensorsgirl asensorsgirl
    18-21, F
    Oct 2, 2012

    Here He Comes Afghanistan

     My name is Brianna and I have been with my soldier Brandon for a couple months now.  We got the news about 2 weeks ago that he is to deploy May 14, 2011. I grew up in a Army household with both My dad and my step dad in the army. My mom is the head of her FRG, and is one of...
    briannamartin89 briannamartin89
    18-21, F
    5 Responses May 4, 2011

    My Soldier ..

    Hey girls :)my names Stephanie, I'm 19 and Ive been with my marine for a few months, Ive known him all my life and spoke all the time, we also dated when we wee younger, only this time we are older and more serious about each other. Hes just been deployed to afghan and i had...
    stefnywilsonx stefnywilsonx
    18-21, F
    Mar 12, 2011

    I Started This Group Because....

    every girl no matter your age or how long your boyfriend,fiance,or husband is away everybody goes through different emotions everyone feels different things.Most people keep it in side causing more stress for themselves.i dont want anybody to feel like they are alone or going...
    princesskassie92 princesskassie92
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Sep 22, 2010

    On Break Or No When He Say He Going To Need Time

    my boyfriend in the military .I have not seen him for a year and couple months .He deployed and he comes home in 6 months .He broke up with me before but one min he say I want to be with you the next tell me he dont .I know he stressed really easy .We did get back togeather we...
    kellner27 kellner27
    18-21, F
    Mar 17, 2012

    My Marine

    My marine is deploying to the one place I wish he would never be for seven months. The platoon before his platoon was supposed to leave, needed one more person & him being the courageous and proud man that he is, volunteered to go. Crazy right? I met him on New Year's and never...
    drizzydreyyy drizzydreyyy
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 15, 2013

    I just want to talk to him.

    Why did he have to go. I miss him so. :(
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 1, 2014

    Deployment 8 Months

    I'm trying to figure out when my bf will be home from deployment .It will be 8 months and he started the 6 of February .I'm confused on when he be home is it September or October.Also I want to buy a dress but I'm afraid if he comes home in October it wont be nice out anymore...
    kellner27 kellner27
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 19, 2012

    Finally Got A Call

    I finally heard from my boyfriend today, it was short but I was happy to hear his voice.  It was going on almost a week well lets jsut say the last time I heard from him was Sunday the day Bin Laden was killed.  I was so worried about him but i saw that he had gotten on...
    southerngurl985 southerngurl985
    31-35, F
    6 Responses May 7, 2011

    He Doesn't Think I'll Be There When He Comes Home. :(

    My boyfriend is at his army base waiting to be deployed. We were texting back and forth today and I asked him how he was. He said he was "ok." I also asked him if he was nervous about leaving. He said he wasn't and he loves the Army, it was just that he was nervous about me not...
    MelMike20 MelMike20
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 28, 2012

    Support For A New Army Girlfriend(:

    Hey ladies. Im haley(: Im 16. My boyfriend Nolan and i started offically dating on New Years and the next day he left back to AIT. So that night i started writing. (: I am now on day 15 with him gone. He graduates April 1st and will be home on leave a couple of days after that...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jan 15, 2011

    Our First Deployment, Will It Get Easier ?

    I'm currently 18 years old and engaged to a us soldier. My fiancé is getting ready to deploy out of fort hood tx. I'm not taking this very well at all, & I'm looking for some girls that are experienced or experiencing the same thing. I know my fiance and my love will not fail...
    lyssa0728 lyssa0728
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 26, 2013

    I think he left me. :'(.

    It hurts really bad today to think about it.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Mar 12, 2014

    Harder And Harder.

    my name is morghan, and I'm 17 years old. I've got a wonderful fiance, hes stationed in Alaska and hes deploying in two weeks. the things he has to say about where hes going have been less then idle. its never really been reality until now. he says things like "if i don't come...
    morghan22 morghan22
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 27, 2011

    Depressed

    I dont know what happed but my ex bf broke up with me about a month ago .He told me he really depressed and stressed .I understand why and know its the deployment .Since I got in this reationship I deal with his mood going back in forth .One min he tell me he hope this work the...
    kellner27 kellner27
    18-21, F
    Apr 16, 2012

    Need Some Comfort And Support

    He left today and we had a fight before he left he didn't even tell me he was going he left a letter today telling me he left.I feel like I goofed up bad and I just want to tell him I'm sorry.I'm scared he'll never come back and he left me at such a bad time with emotional and...
    twistedbombshell twistedbombshell
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 26, 2012

    Mary Me

    MY bf in the marines while home in leave in sep for month We went to the jewlery store to look at rings and told me for the future.When he got back to his station I talk to his brother and told me he has the ring or was going to buy it soon.I talk to my bf and told me it was the...
    kellner27 kellner27
    18-21, F
    Apr 26, 2013

    I read on here and hear

    that going to bed is the hardest because that's when you miss them the most. To me it's waking up. He is awake when in asleep so when I wake up I'm excited for an email or message and when I don't see one it's heart breaking.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 27, 2014

    He Dont Think He Will Come Home Alive

    m having a hard time right now and need to talk to someone .Before my boyfriend deployment he was freaking out saying he might make it home alive and he finally got calm down .Since he beent here he would always text me and stuff and I dident think anything was wrong now he send...
    kellner27 kellner27
    18-21, F
    Feb 24, 2012

    Deployment

    So my boyfriend(jeff) and I broke up ast wedneday amd he has been acting like he wants to be with me but I don't know wht hes tginking or anything. Hes deploying tomorrow and its the hardest thing I have ever imagined having to go through. I love him with al my heart and don't...
    cavener08 cavener08
    22-25, F
    Mar 22, 2012

    Today

    Today, my man is going to deploy to Afghanistan for 9 months... Yesterday night was tough but I am sure it is going to be more tougher. 9 months sound so horrible for me like the October when he suppose to come home never come. 
    stars4 stars4
    26-30
    9 Responses Jan 18, 2012

    Moving On...

    So turns out dude i met was a fake. Thought i had a soldier waiting for me.  I guess not. When I found out i felt the time i spent thinking about this guy was wasted.  All the worrying I did, praying for this guy. I wasn't just praying for him I was praying for anyone fighting...
    jaclynpianolessons jaclynpianolessons
    18-21
    1 Response Feb 12, 2012

    Losing Hope

    i have no clue what to do anymore..its been 3 months and i still have yet to hear from my soldier..im going crazy..i dont know if he is hurt or not. i have no clue what is going on with him. i miss him so much. i love him to death but this is just too much for me..its eating at...
    inluvwitasoldier0212 inluvwitasoldier0212
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 15, 2010

    Has Anyone Else Dealt With This?

    Me and my now ex as of like Sunday ended things because he basically broke down and is like really stressed. He's in the navy and will be going on his first deployment soon. He called me crying saying that he doesn't wanna come home anymore and he hates leaving me and seeing how...
    jesscrim618 jesscrim618
    18-21, F
    Nov 15, 2012

    2 Months In

    So Im a new army girlfriend, we started dating a month before his first deployment and hes been gone for 2 months already. For the most part I finally get to hear from him once a day via email. The exception to that rule is when hes on a mission and I never know how long that...
    BlackBetty13 BlackBetty13
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Aug 5, 2011

    Wether we communicate

    or not I know he loves me. It's just hard when I haven't heard from him in weeks.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 28, 2014

    5 Months

    My man has been overseas for 5 months. There are days that I think I can do it, and days that just make me want to cry. I go without hearing from him for any number of days. What really gets to me is when people say that they know what I am going through. Some people say...
    allijane allijane
    18-21
    4 Responses Jul 31, 2011

    Met An Infantry Soldier Online <3

    i hope ppl can reply to this.  but about six months ago i met a soldier on a game website and ppl also chat on it.  you play randoms from around the world. ok so i met this guy mike who said he was a soldier.  i was very skeptical at first.  its not like i was there to meet...
    jaclynpianolessons jaclynpianolessons
    18-21
    6 Responses Aug 24, 2011

    My Bf Becoming Distance For About A Month

    I really wish I could find someone who understand what I am going throw .I have not seen my boyfriend in almost a year becuase where he was station at was out of coutry and it was to much money to come home .We broke up for a while becuase the distance was getting to him and...
    kellner27 kellner27
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 31, 2012

    Only A Month And Half Has Passed.......

    My boyfriend, Chris, has been gone for only a month and half, and this is my first deployment so I am new to the whole thing. My family is great because they help me get out of the house and do things but its still hard sometimes especially since I want to just be with him. Right...
    avoncannon01 avoncannon01
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 12, 2012

    Desperatly Awating News

    hey girlies, my god it seems like ive told this story over and over. im so sad because i havent gotten any news from my soldier. its almost been 2 months with out any news. this is driving me insane. i try to keep busy but nothing seems to help at all. i still think about him all...
    inluvwitasoldier0212 inluvwitasoldier0212
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Oct 1, 2010

    Need Encouraging Words. My Air Force Boyfriend Is Deployed

    I have bben with my boyfriend for a little over 4 months. We love each other very much and talked about moving in together. We he found out he was getting deployed with the Air Force for 6 months I was devastated. He just left on monday and I miss him like crazy. I feel...
    AFgirl AFgirl
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Sep 22, 2011

    I was doing so well today

    and them I saw him on fb. I just want him to come back or message me. I feel so sad right now. I just want to cry. ;'( it's so hard. I feel so alone in a room full of people.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Feb 28, 2014

    First Time

    This is my first deployment and I am scared. My soldier has been gone since the end of July, but only left for Afghanistan a couple weeks ago. It has been extremely hard without him. I really never thought I would be in this position.  Luckily his deployment is only 12...
    Derrysgirl Derrysgirl
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 28, 2010

    Why Bf Looking At Wedding Rings

    My bf just come home from the deployment and being station over sea for 2 years .He has 20 days left.It been going alright just having a hard time that he be leaving again to go back for 7 months .All he been talking about since he been gone is how he cant wait to get married to...
    kellner27 kellner27
    18-21, F
    Sep 10, 2012

    :(

    Hello. First of all, I'm Felisha. My boyfriend's name is Matt. He's a machine gunner in the Marine Corps and is serving in Afghanistan until June or July. Scared. Frustrated. Anxious. Depressed. Upset. All of those could describe how I'm feeling at this exact moment. It's...
    faw820 faw820
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 26, 2010

    Hey guys. Right now it's really hard.

    My guy has been deployed since oct and he was suppose to come home in March but now it's a maybe. But right now he is so depressed he doesn't even want to talk. He wants me to stay. But he isn't talking to me and it so hard. :(.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 23, 2014

    Just Needing Some Encouragement...

    Woke up this morning from a dream that my man came home. Those dreams are the hardest to wake up from! Especially since I haven't talked to him in 9 days. I'm going crazy and I just miss him so much! We just finished our second month of this 6 month deployment. And his birthday...
    rowergurl rowergurl
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Jun 3, 2011

    Mary Me

    MY bf in the marines while home in leave in sep for month We went to the jewlery store to look at rings and told me for the future.When he got back to his station I talk to his brother and told me he has the ring or was going to buy it soon.I talk to my bf and told me it was the...
    kellner27 kellner27
    18-21, F
    Apr 26, 2013

    In Need Of A Support System

    My army soldier is deployed in Afgan.. We actually met online 4-5months ago and we've gotten very very close.. We recently have gotten engaged!! We talk almost everyday but are some times there are 3 day spands due to issues that come about when he is out on patrol... No matter...
    IPrayForMyArmyMan IPrayForMyArmyMan
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Aug 15, 2013

    Not That Long

    so my boyfriend hasnt been deployed for a week and every night for the past week i have been waking up crying because of these dreams i have about my boyfriend. i constantly think about him. NO MATTER what i do hes whats on my mind. i dont even wanna hang out with my friends and...
    autumnskyyy autumnskyyy
    16-17, F
    6 Responses May 31, 2011

    Confused...

    My boyfriend is in the Marine Corps and has already been to Iraq and Afghanistan. I wasn't with him at those times so I can't really grasp all the emotions and things that happen in his head or understand how I am suppose to take them. He is getting deployed to Okinawa, Japan for...
    srfangl4 srfangl4
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Sep 23, 2010

    Should I Move On Or No ?

    I met my boyfriend not ex boyfriend in high school .We started to date while he was on leave .Before we seen each other in person again as bf and gf throw text he told me he wanted to get engaged.Then when he was home everything was fine but 3 days he dident come see me becuase...
    kellner27 kellner27
    18-21, F
    Mar 19, 2012

    Depressed Deployed Boyfriend

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now and he has been deployed for six months. He is very introverted and doesn't like to socialize. Unfortunately, on top of that, he doesn't like anyone in his unit. He does a job that has him sitting in a jeep for the whole...
    DKstrong DKstrong
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 17, 2013

    Needin Advice: Should I Be Worried

    My soldier is only 19 years old and I am 17. We will be going through our first deployment starting next year. He will be gone for a total of 15 months and I am scared out of my mind.  We have been dating for a little while now but are not in an official relationship. We...
    BrownsGirl BrownsGirl
    16-17, F
    Nov 13, 2010

    Going To Need Support Next Weekend :/

    I'm terrified and dreading it more than I thought possible. If anyone can please talk to me, add me on facebook or share e-mails or something, I'm going to be so desperate for people to talk to that actually understand when he leaves. My friends and family are ignorant about...
    paigedanielle11 paigedanielle11
    16-17, F
    Nov 27, 2010

    I'm so happy for the new friends I've made on

    here. Thank y'all for the support. Today has been a great day. If anyone needs to talk message me. :)
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 27, 2014
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