Post

I Need to Be Cherished and Respected

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 245 People

    Care

    At times i think i care too much that is why I'm not respected.... At times it's as if i don't care enough and I'm left not cherished.....whats a man to do to find some respect.....nice guy's get played, that's all I'm saying.(for now)
    andyp358 andyp358 36-40, M Aug 17, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Long To Be Cherished And Respected In My Marriage

    I have been married for 11 yrs and I feel as though I am the child in the relationship. I do not have a say in anything such as finances etc. I get yelled at if things arent they way he wants them. And did you know there is a "right way and a wrong way to sweep a floor" I donot...
    tamikens tamikens 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 10, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Stuck In a Sexless Marriage

    I do not consider myself old or unattractive. I am a kind loving man who really listens and cares. My wife has a debilitating disease like ruematoid arthritis. We do not have sex anymore. It's October 2007 now and I haven't had sex since April sometime, I think. I'm not even sure...
    givenuponsex givenuponsex 36-40, M 1 Response Oct 5, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Teacher Your Children Now About Cherish and Respect

    When I first saw the title I thought this would be really easy to write about it..  Then I really thought to think about it..   I know that I need to be Cherished and Respected and want it and I do have it now after looking for if for a long long time, but when I...
    Livinginpeace Livinginpeace 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 19, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Feel That Every Man Has T...

    I feel that every man has the need to feel respected. Respect frome his wife, kids, co-workers, and any one else who my be in his world.
    LateNightGuy LateNightGuy 41-45, M 3 Responses Jun 19, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    >__>

    I haven't felt cherished or respected in a while.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 26, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Of Course!

    For me to cherish and respect someone only to not have the same love and respect back will only result in me turning cold and the other party wondering what could possibly be wrong with me that I am just not treating them the same anymore. Do I hate them now? Have I fallen out...
    deadmoon deadmoon 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 13, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Not Sure If I Can Say It's a Need But a Must.

    If someone can not cherish and respect me they have no place in my life. With that said I hope I do and act in a way that causes someone to cherish and respect me. I know I try :)
    Kindal Kindal 46-50, F 2 Responses Jun 20, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Why Not Me?

    Wow, what I would do to be married to someone who loved me for who I am, cherished me and most of all respected me. This is the dream I had since I was 13 years old, but this has never happened to me. One broken marriage, and now in an unhappy marriage. My daughter says she...
    teddybear95 teddybear95 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 25, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Miss The Way We Talked, I Miss The Times We Had, I Miss The Love We Shared, But Most Of All I Miss The Way You Cared. =(

    I have been married for 2 years now. We have a wonderful 1 yr old son.... I never thought being married can be this lonely. I felt unloved and not cared by my husband. He even forgot our second wedding anniversary. He didn't even greet me he was so busy with his work and doesnt...
    sycathe sycathe 26-30, F Mar 26, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    The BS Story

    I wonder sometimes how things could have gone so wrong. I married someone who was acting a certain way, to get the desired result. We started off right, everything seemed to be moving the right direction, seemed to "cherish" each other. Then out of the blue she said "I don't...
    jb02157 jb02157 46-50, M 2 Responses Mar 22, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Showing Respect Is Very Imp...

    Showing respect is very important to me.  I also respect others as well.  Dont we all want to be Cherished?
    justANNIE justANNIE 46-50, F Jun 19, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Need Love and Respect

    Hello, I must say that I have an insatiable need to be cherished, loved, complimented,needed, I had a wise woman say to me that just from watching me she could tell I needed these things.  They are not a want as with some people.  I actually live in such a way that I am...
    Isabella12 Isabella12 41-45 1 Response Aug 30, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Do I Exist?

    I've been married for 2 years and he and I have a beautiful baby girl who is turning 9 months. Ever since we found out I was pregnant the whole "Love, Honor, and Cherish" thing went out the window.  He is so selfish it's ridiculous. A recent example is when he came home for his...
    maepage87 maepage87 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 11, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Cherished And Respected

    Cherished and respected,That’s what I need,Makes life easy,Helps us be friends,In the way,We’re meant to be.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Mar 31, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    What Went Wrong??

    I became sick with an incurable disease 7 years ago. It took 2 years to finally find a doctor that need what I had. I was glad I found out what I had; but sad that there was nothing to do about it. My husband seemed to be supportive at first and then became angry that I had...
    sincerely sincerely 56-60 1 Response Jun 19, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Respect

    I have been married for almost 13 years to my husband. This is my third, and I always said "final" marriage. Almost from the get go - I have not felt cherished and respected. I don't feel as though I am a priority and he lies about the stupidest, small, insignificant...
    jgstewart1109 jgstewart1109 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 28, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    Under His Wing Fitted to form Under his wing Under his protection Under his paws I remain Safe in the knowledge he cares on me Cherished as a mortal by the sun Solace from the...
    PoetryNEmotion PoetryNEmotion 51-55, F 2 Responses Jul 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    "Cherished moments are lost because we dwell too much on the past. Releasing the past is a gateway to the present panorama, which will lead to a kaleidoscope of the future...
    lovingRIZA lovingRIZA 51-55, F Jul 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I know there are humongous differences between us.. Different beliefs and thoughts.. Different lifestyle and preferences.. And maybe we would keep on arguing about life.. But, I...
    9thguy 9thguy 26-30, M Jul 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I could curl up into a ball right now, and not care if I died. The person who claims to love me more than anyone else, is the reason for my constant struggle with my emotions. My...
    jahein137 jahein137 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am a good listener. I to lost my partner that I cherished for the second time. She has moved on an is with some one else's.The first time we broke up .Was for 10 years. She can...
    lynntamborellicoxnet lynntamborellicoxnet 56-60, F Jul 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't even know where to start. I need some serious advice and no jokes ppl please. This sounds crazy and maybe even unbelievable, but I fell in love with a 30 yr old guy and I'm...
    strixerX strixerX 16-17, M 1 Response 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It is so frustrating to see everyone abuse each others in every way like that at ep same way as at real life. i used to think that this site for welcoming and making everyone feel...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 3 Responses Jul 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I just need to talk to people aged between 18 to 40 and it does not matter to me if you are male or female coz it shows that both sexes are respected.
    asianmuslim asianmuslim 26-30, M 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I met this guy. He is absolutely stunning, gorgeous as can be! When we began talking, I noticed the chemistry was evident only because of sexual attraction. Here it is tonight, and...
    PixieStixs PixieStixs 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I want someone that'll text me constantly, just because they can. I want someone to take care of me, be affectionate, and spend long nights with me. I want to have a girl that'll...
    futureboy64 futureboy64 16-17, M 8 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Truly Imhereforyou18 is here for u. If I'm messaged I will be a great friend to u n try to get to know u better as the person u r. I will message u for as long as u need or want me...
    imhereforyou18 imhereforyou18 18-21, M 11 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I really wish I could just be happy for you but I can't. When we where together I thought we where going to get married, have kids, have a life together because that's what you...
    misspaperwait misspaperwait 22-25, F 11 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I need more than a hug I need a female friend to hold me. To tell me its ok to cry to let it out. To comfort me while i cry. To tell me its not my fault.
    BDSMFan1 BDSMFan1 22-25, M 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Gm I need you i miss you gf I need you i miss you gf
    xhmkq8 xhmkq8 13-15, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I wanna walk to the edge of the earth, and scream, your name... I can still feel your breath all over me, feelin' me, I could f#ck with you for eternity, infinity. ;** I could be...
    LaPrincesaCx LaPrincesaCx 16-17, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I need someone to talk to right now
    Alex1272 Alex1272 13-15, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hi. So I wanna know how to get closure, me and this guy were really close at the end of last year and then we sorta stopped talking and hanging out this year. I reallllly miss...
    merley99 merley99 13-15, F 10 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Today is the third day we dont talk..for no specific reason..its just like silence is the only way to protect our relationship, i dont know if its my fault but i think we should...
    jessyy17 jessyy17 16-17, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Anyone around for a chat, just need some advice
    confusedhalp1995 confusedhalp1995 18-21, M 6 Responses 7 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    You know that I want you...sometimes I need that too. Even if you have to pretend- cuz ignorance is bliss right?
    BlueEyedFaye BlueEyedFaye 22-25, F 6 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So I went to a party last year in November and did something that I can't live down, which at the time was not very embarrassing but it is now (the story of what happened is on my...
    FruityTwist FruityTwist 16-17, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I need some help with something.
    WatchingTheTime WatchingTheTime 16-17, F 3 Responses 2 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    i'm writing this story for people to read and learn about something that so many ask about and rather then repeatedly writing about the same thing I'm going to put it all here I'm...
    tom67890 tom67890 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm fine. But confused. I think I can graduate this year. I need to do things in my life, I need money, I need to skate, I need to love and I need to travel. I'm scared, but I'm...
    CrookedMat CrookedMat 26-30, M 4 Responses Jun 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    These are some of the reasons why I feel the need to die. Abuse. Bullying. Intrusions. Hatred. Scorn. Rejection. Other people focused on my life exclusively and somehow them...
    deepscar deepscar 46-50, F 14 Responses Jul 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I suppose I have spent so much time in the past four years trying to unravel the constant web that my mum surround me with, that I have become a narcissist myself. I guess that...
    createababe createababe 31-35 Jul 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Is it a phase? Part of my age? No. It's not. There's something wrong with me. I'm mentally so ****** up. I need help. I keep telling everyone I need help but they don't listen or...
    juliaek1 juliaek1 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Ok, I need to vent here, before I can create… I have been in need of a good therapist for so very long. I don’t know if I’ve ever had a really good one. I keep finding people...
    dragonflEYEfly dragonflEYEfly 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    First, I want to introduce myself, I am Cyril, 22 years old living in the Philippines. I work online as a freelance writer where I earn money just enough to pay monthly bills and...
    CyrilOh CyrilOh 18-21 Jul 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So July 16th 2006 12:30pm I lost the brightness in my life, the man who held my hand when I fell over, the one who read me bedtime stories and held me when I was afraid, the one...
    Sukies Sukies 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I came from another country. My dad took me here in California last March. Being jobless was cool and fun at first. I travelled to different states. I went to awesome theme and...
    theredlioness theredlioness 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I really need a friend in real life not on EP. I need a friend I can sit next to and talk to. I need a friend that I can tell my secrets to, most not all. I need a friend that...
    Tikhreed Tikhreed 36-40, F 6 Responses Jun 29