I Need To Be Held, I Need To Know I Still Matter To Some Ppl

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    Here Lately

    i wish i could just have someone out of my close friends or hell anyone realize that i'm going through so much even though i don't show it, i would want them to just come and hold me and tell me they love me or their here for me, its sad but true
    covermewithrain covermewithrain
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 30, 2010

    Idk If I Do Or Not....

    The groups says I need to know I still matter to some people, but I am sit here wondering, do I really matter to some people, or are thye just kind and nice to me, so i get close to them, so when I feel the weaknest with them, and trusting them the most, they just turn around and...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Aug 5, 2010


    I'm so used to being the strong one...it's hard sometimes to let people see the fragile side. Also, having slashed all my family ties, I feel so horribly alone sometimes.  Yeah, it would be nice to be held, to be told that my existence matters.
    Plaid Plaid
    31-35, F
    Apr 8, 2011

    What I Know

    I've had a good life I know my problems are nothing in comparison to others but I'm still feel overwhelm I have collage coming up, I came out as BI, I being thinking about Body image which is never good considering I've had anorexia and right now when it seem like I need someone...
    Bethie101 Bethie101
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 9, 2011

    I Do

    I think we all need this from time to time. I don't know the last time, someone made me feel like i was really needed, and matter, or like, me being alive, and around, really matters.
    deleted deleted
    Nov 12, 2012


    I miss it... I miss those body hugs! *sigh*
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Jun 28, 2010

    Been There, Done That, And Back Again...and It Hurts Bad

    I remember once years ago, I really wanted and needed to be held. I had a lot going on. I had some news I didn't want and wasn't expecting, and I had no interaction with women at all to that point. I was so desperate, I took out an ad online for the sole purpose of being held. I...
    oneslimmess oneslimmess
    1 Response Apr 3, 2011

    as it is I feel like I'm at my emotional

    breaking point that at any second I could snap and self implode I just need someone to hold me and tell me its ok that the world is still spinning that I'm still alive and that somebody anybody needs me
    fenrirandimpachi fenrirandimpachi
    22-25, M
    Jul 31, 2015

    my fiance used to hold me all the time,

    he would cuddle w me, just wrap his arms around me for no reason. the last 2 months he just stopped. i ask him to just hug me and he says im being silly. but when he just stops out of the blue and im used to everyone leaving, so now i think im unwanted.
    cooper3366 cooper3366
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 1, 2015
    doc63caring doc63caring
    66-70, M
    Jul 31, 2015


    I think we all do from time to time, in that moment of weakness, when despair fills us and you feel utterly alone. Thats when you need their arms wrapped around you, letting you know you are still alive....
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp
    26-30, M
    Aug 29, 2010

    What he doesn't get..

    . That I need it now... Not at lunch... Now... I'm hurt I'm upset and if he can't see that... We both know he did... He would just rather pretend he didn't... That way he has no responsibility in comforting me... He's promised he would always be there... And of course promised to...
    deleted deleted
    Aug 24, 2015


    I think we all need this from time to time. I don't know the last time, someone made me feel like i was really needed, and matter, or like, me being alive, and around, really matters.
    xSilentlySufferingx xSilentlySufferingx
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 8, 2010

    I feel like I don't matter.

    It's always work, work, work. My moms always working. My dads always working. I'm always working. We're all busy, and that's understandable. But why is it that despite working, I can make time for them but they can't for me? I just wish that my dad would give me one of those...
    BlackSunCrimsonFyre BlackSunCrimsonFyre
    16-17, F
    1 Response Aug 2, 2015
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