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I Need To Be Loved For Who I Am

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    He Said He Believes Me Now......

    My boyfriend and I were talking earlier this week about past relationships. He wanted to know what the other guys who are no longer in my life did to cause me to end the relationship. Although some relationships ended because they wanted them to, he knew when they said they no...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 25, 2011

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    I Am Who I Am.

    Need to be loved for who I am and not who I'm wanted to be. I'm tried of changing for people. I actually proud of myself as a person. But when no one appreciates that I feel awful. Am I a bad person or do I keep the wonng company? I don't know but until proven otherwise I'm gunna...
    MakeWishes MakeWishes 18-21, F Aug 25, 2012

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    Tis Better To Have Loved And Lost, Than Never To Have Loved At All. . . .

    Tis better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all. . . . I believe it was William Shakespeare that said that line. I have never really gotten into the whole Shakespeare thing, but on this point he was so correct! Let me try to explain my last statement. I have...
    bubbadave bubbadave 51-55, M Dec 30, 2009

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    A Person Needs To Be Loved For Who They Are......

     When you meet someone, fall in love with them, start a life with them....years down the road your still together..do you ever look back and ask your self what was it that made you want to spend your life with person? do you love them for WHO THEY ARE? I see it so many...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 16, 2010

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    Love Keeps No Record Of Wrongs!!!

    The most common trait of the historical mate is exaggeration. An exaggerator is quickly spotted by his/or / her frequent use of the words 'always" and "never." The exaggerators's statement looks like this: "You always come home late." "You never take out the trash." 'You  always...
    GirlyCanadian GirlyCanadian 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2011

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    Where It All Began

    I can still see that day play out in my mind like it happened yesterday morning. I'm not going to go into to much detail about it but I was only a kid less than ten yrs of age when my dad became obsessed with my weight. Mind you I was your normal average weight kid. Maybe my...
    Fateovafatgirl Fateovafatgirl 22-25, F Jan 24, 2013

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    His Strategy And Methods.

    So if you've read the other couple stories I've posted you know a lil bit into the darkness of my childhood. I'm going to share some activities he considered appropriate. So during my parents divorce I was forced into cheerleading for a couple years. In the beginning it wasn't...
    Fateovafatgirl Fateovafatgirl 22-25, F Jan 24, 2013

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    I am something and everybody loves something so therefore I am loved for who I am :) I think...xxx
    AmberFenning AmberFenning 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    It is something that is missing so badly in my life. I keep all my hurt and worries inside and cover them with a smile even if I feel destroyed inside. I crave a mentor of kind who...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    Meh., i dont care about this anymore. Really i just want to kind to myself. Im my own worst enemy at times, my worst critic., i sabbotage my life more than anyone else has . I have...
    Janeysunshine Janeysunshine 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    But then again i have to want love someone they are and i often ask myself wonder what i will have to love and accept about them . Isn't it a scary thought . Guess i will stay...
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    I'm not like most girls. Yeah I like to paint my nails, I like to wear some nice clothes, but I love being outside and doing crazy stuff. I love riding horses and 4-wheelers and...
    LoveandLoss17 LoveandLoss17 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    How can guys treat woman like they mean nothing but when confronted act like they care? I don't get it? How can someone intentionally hurt another person and not care?
    Tric202 Tric202 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    Sometimes I don't know why I bother so much, trying to fit in. But when it's said and done, I still try to fit in. It hurts me everytime. I know I've always been the odd one out of...
    bezelbufu bezelbufu 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 29

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    Sometimes it's hard for people to accept you. Actually all the time. It's a huge problem in our society today. Being a teenager I feel it's harder now. We are trying to figure who...
    lportra24 lportra24 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 8

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    I have my share of personal problems. I've never denied its there. I have lost many "friends" because of it, or to put it differently, my "friends" showed their true self, and...
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M Jul 28

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    Yes, really just want to be accepted for who and what I am. I am a transgendered woman. Something I am just coming to terms with myself. As I do I want and need someone to accept...
    DawnR59 DawnR59 51-55, T 1 Response Aug 17

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    If i can accept you for who you are, then you should accept me for who i am.. Never try and change anyone, because when you do you will find that they are not the same person you...
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    not everyone is same in the world just like each finger of your hand is different.... i accept people for who they are and i expect the same from them
    youngsingle youngsingle 22-25, M 4 Responses Aug 1

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    I've been rejected for who I am, but I will never change because I'm not perfect and never will be
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    Accept me for who I am. I'm proud to have grey hair in my early 20s.
    DiscoNight1970s DiscoNight1970s 46-50, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I will fall in love with you for who you are not what you look like, a kind heart that treats me right is what I ask for <3
    NoraWilliams NoraWilliams 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    Trying to make the best of such a screwed situation. Aren't you suppose to love me for who I am not constantly belittle me and call me a child tell me I haven't grown up yet. At...
    gypsisoul gypsisoul 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    well i have mention about my ex urooj my first love who broke me apart and left me all alone . after urooj i met a girl on ep her name is maimoona. she is the most wonderfull...
    hasank hasank 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    People are to be loved and things are to be used. The problem arises when things are loved and people are used..|abuishaan|
    abuishaan abuishaan 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'm unlikeable and hard to love. Why? Well I'm different I stand out my voice is different. I'm like a green rose in a sack of red roses. Even a gay person told me he liked me more...
    ZKAZ ZKAZ 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    Hahaha it's been so long since I've felt like this. It was over over a year ago and sometime during and after it I was self-medicating. Days like this remind me why I started. Just...
    Holdontothefire Holdontothefire 18-21, M Aug 6

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    It's been about 8 month now, that I cling to a guy that doesn't love me back. At first he even wanted something, but hen somehow I managed to ruin that feeling and everything...
    dragonkin9 dragonkin9 26-30, F Aug 4

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    Iv posted about him before but now it's different I'm no longer wanting his love his compassion his or even his friendship I want him to suffer. " anything that a man can get he...
    renguard renguard 16-17, M Aug 8

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    IF WE REALLY LOOK INTO OURSELVES, INTO OUR SOUL WHAT WOUD WE SEE?WOULD WE BE PROUD OF WHO WE ARE, WHAT WE DO? BE HONEST ARE YOU? CAN YOU DO BETTER HOW?
    imgreywlf imgreywlf 56-60, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I think that everyone should be accepted as who they are, no one should feel the need to put on a mask because they are afraid to be themselves. It's not fair and it shouldn't...
    Living2Heights Living2Heights 16-17, F Aug 8

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    Hey everyone wants to be accepted as they are, has anyone thought to accept other people as other people are , think again its not gonna b easy !!! Exactly thats why they might...
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    comedian nick swardson had an issue like this which he talked about in his stand up bit; how some oversensitive mother of a retard approached him after a show to say that it's...
    mierdamundo mierdamundo 31-35 Jul 28

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    Just Need That One Country Boy To Love That County Girl.........
    Rebel5 Rebel5 18-21, F Aug 4

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    I'm 13 gay and need a boyfriend. Text me?? 503-400-1904.
    jimmylewis08 jimmylewis08 13-15, M 1 Response a week ago

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    In all honesty I'm a really nice guy, I'm 16 years old and my name is Luis. I love biking, reading, running, and swimming. But my past haunts me everyday, when I go to school...
    luischimbo luischimbo 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 2

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    I have just started coming to terms with the fact I am a transgenedered woman , and my wife has rejected me for it. My heart is be ripped out of my chest. I feel so empty right...
    DawnR59 DawnR59 51-55, T Aug 9

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    Why do people not accept that I'm different, I've always been thought it's due to jealousy etc but I'm at the age now were I just believe I'm not a likable guy.. But why must...
    stuwey89 stuwey89 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 13

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    Within the past few months, I've noticed something different. Maybe because I watched to many movies or have a ridiculously creative imagination, but everyday and everything I do...
    asdfghjkljacque asdfghjkljacque 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 17

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    So obviously we need to exchange friend codes. Here's mine: 1821-9380-7904. If you have X and/or Y send me your friend code and I'll put you in. Also tell me what you want me to...
    richboyguy richboyguy 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 16

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    I may have a hard time accepting who I am, coming to terms with it, but one thing my parents have always taught me is that I am not better or no worse then anyone else in this...
    starwarsfan99 starwarsfan99 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 12

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    One of the biggest issues we have in life is that people tend to care a lot more than they should about others opinion. Like just because someone thinks different than you doesn't...
    PeaceAtSoul PeaceAtSoul 16-17, T 2 Responses Jul 28

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    Possible empath, clairsentient, clairvoyant, telepath, and medium. I'm not assuming this- I've had to go to counselors and psychologist who have told me. Opening up to it now is...
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 28

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    I can be bisexual if I want, I can be a foster kid who believes in happy endings even when it seems crazy, I can love whoever I want, and be whoever I want. And if you don't like...
    AlicebeneyisSilvereyes AlicebeneyisSilvereyes 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 5

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    I am beautiful, I eat right, and I'm curvy...... I just feel for all the girls who preceded beauty with starvation and self deprivation for living. I know what you see on a screen...
    SkullSweetHeart SkullSweetHeart 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 6

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    I know that I am skilled, but lack confidence in my skills. The one thing I am very proud of is my ability to think about complex thoughts and understand advanced theories and...
    Emprosium Emprosium 18-21 Aug 11

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    Im so confused with some stuff like do i like the same love or different like what will my family say or my mom think but i want to do wht makes me happy ether its the same love or...
    desitor desitor 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 11