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I Need To Be Loved For Who I Am

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 122 People

    Don't We All?

    OK, maybe me especially. I need to find someone who will both love and accept me regardless of my gender or lack thereof. I've traveled a bumpy female to male road. Still traveling. Sometimes I don't like things about my body and sometimes I'm confused. I find peace with living a...
    Goslyn Goslyn 31-35, T Aug 1, 2013

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    Love Keeps No Record Of Wrongs!!!

    The most common trait of the historical mate is exaggeration. An exaggerator is quickly spotted by his/or / her frequent use of the words 'always" and "never." The exaggerators's statement looks like this: "You always come home late." "You never take out the trash." 'You  always...
    GirlyCanadian GirlyCanadian 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2011

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    His Strategy And Methods.

    So if you've read the other couple stories I've posted you know a lil bit into the darkness of my childhood. I'm going to share some activities he considered appropriate. So during my parents divorce I was forced into cheerleading for a couple years. In the beginning it wasn't...
    Fateovafatgirl Fateovafatgirl 22-25, F Jan 24, 2013

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    A Person Needs To Be Loved For Who They Are......

     When you meet someone, fall in love with them, start a life with them....years down the road your still together..do you ever look back and ask your self what was it that made you want to spend your life with person? do you love them for WHO THEY ARE? I see it so many...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 16, 2010

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    He Said He Believes Me Now......

    My boyfriend and I were talking earlier this week about past relationships. He wanted to know what the other guys who are no longer in my life did to cause me to end the relationship. Although some relationships ended because they wanted them to, he knew when they said they no...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 25, 2011

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    Tis Better To Have Loved And Lost, Than Never To Have Loved At All. . . .

    Tis better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all. . . . I believe it was William Shakespeare that said that line. I have never really gotten into the whole Shakespeare thing, but on this point he was so correct! Let me try to explain my last statement. I have...
    bubbadave bubbadave 51-55, M 1 Response Dec 30, 2009

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    I Am Who I Am.

    Need to be loved for who I am and not who I'm wanted to be. I'm tried of changing for people. I actually proud of myself as a person. But when no one appreciates that I feel awful. Am I a bad person or do I keep the wonng company? I don't know but until proven otherwise I'm gunna...
    MakeWishes MakeWishes 18-21, F Aug 25, 2012

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    Where It All Began

    I can still see that day play out in my mind like it happened yesterday morning. I'm not going to go into to much detail about it but I was only a kid less than ten yrs of age when my dad became obsessed with my weight. Mind you I was your normal average weight kid. Maybe my...
    Fateovafatgirl Fateovafatgirl 22-25, F Jan 24, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Tonight is the first time in years that I've been accepted by new people for the fact that I am a virgin. For years I've been experiencing verbal abuse because I have kept my...
    SeaunAtchison SeaunAtchison 18-21, M a week ago

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    I am fat. I am short. I have a dark complexion. Curly hair, crooked teeth. In other words I am not beautiful. Says who? Says a guy who I thought was a friend. I am not on the...
    spilledinklove spilledinklove 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    I really need to forgive myself.
    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I def need to forget my past it really has a toll on me being molested as a young kid really changes your life
    Reynastaxx Reynastaxx 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    Being accepted is a common issue in many generation now. As much as i have not been accepted for who i was, it never drove me to not accept who "you" are. Down the road there are...
    NymNin NymNin 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    Honestly I don't understand some people who can't accept others because of their sexuality… No dude! We don't fall in love with boys or girls specifically, we fall in love with...
    Annablake Annablake 13-15, F 11 Responses Apr 10

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    I was born around 14 years ago, and since my step dad left around three years ago, people have treated me like **** for being who I am. They think I'm not beautiful enough, smart...
    UnwantedShadow UnwantedShadow 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    dajah I accept u for who u are I would love it if we can hang outit a lot more I feel like we have a real connection with each other so let me know if ur down to hang out it more
    carsen carsen 16-17, M Mar 25

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    I can't judge anyone I accept everyone for who they are 😀
    briannarena briannarena 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    same story as told before time was counted I suppose LOL.. been with him for 13 years, this year would have been 14.. i loved a man who taught me that not every man cares about...
    sister11 sister11 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    I don't know if I should still love them or not. "Them" was my best friend who got me through a majorly bad time in my life, and I was at the edge of committing suicide. She was...
    Alice1998 Alice1998 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    She was my dearest friend and I loved her like I love all my close friends. We did everything together. She was like a sister to me. It still hurts me to know that while I'd have...
    engarde12 engarde12 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Wow identity this has been a large topic in my life lately (and off and on through out my life). Well let's cover my early life for a little. To be honest I don't remember image...
    SugarSoul SugarSoul 22-25, F Mar 21

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    My other half is a drug addict I didn't know she was when we started dating now it's two years later and she's worse I feel like she lies and has a secret life on the side for her...
    becks2378 becks2378 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    I've never really tried or paid any attention to guys until this past year when one of my relatives asked me why I was still single... I had no answer besides that I was busy with...
    fgarci04 fgarci04 18-21, F Mar 25

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    I once read an interesting perspective about the people you will encounter in your life, it states: "25% of people you meet: will never like you; 25% of people you meet: won't...
    FussBox FussBox 26-30, F Apr 7

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 3

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    I'm looking a nice, easy conversation with a kind, creative, entertaining individual who wants a friend the same back. :)
    Votonic Votonic 16-17 1 Response Mar 28

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    You are who you are Whether you pretend to be someone you're not Or going out with your true colors showing I'll accept you as you are But that doesn't mean I have to, I mean NEED...
    BabyDgay BabyDgay 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    It's a shame people rather die than be who they really are these days. Be you do what makes you happy
    June4U June4U 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 1

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    This is only the most recent in a long line of rejections. Being a transgender person in the American South certainly isn't easy, but the most painful moments are those that are...
    SisterCyanide SisterCyanide 26-30, T 2 Responses Apr 4

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    Please join me, I offer you something this society is still unable to provide its inhabitants: Happiness, assurance, warming community, and brotherhood. I aim for a real issue...
    rafaeln17 rafaeln17 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 9

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    hmmmmmmmmmm but who doesnt
    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F a week ago

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    It doesn't matter to me what you have done, or have yet to do... I'll accept you no matter who you are. So don't be shy, when it comes to talking with me. :)
    TheBlazingRedAugust TheBlazingRedAugust 18-21, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    This is so true and after awhile I just don't care anymore because I love who I am and who I've become (:
    hitthelightsnow hitthelightsnow 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    Sure I accept the fact that some people in the world are strange and I know I'm a little strange myself, but I don't have to like them. That doesn't mean I hate them or I'll...
    KawaiiBoy KawaiiBoy 18-21, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    There are soo many people judging. Every day someone is judge by a billion people and I just want to say DON'T JUDGE ME because you have no idea who I am I could be any one and its...
    silence13 silence13 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    My family doesn't like me. Don't worry, they love me. They just don't like my person. I'm a mildly emo punk rocker who has a bisexual girlfriend and doesn't like sports, and my...
    palant palant 13-15, M Mar 22

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    Haha I like this one. Where to start?? Hmm. I'm not sorry for being loud. Who cares if I still like Pokemon? So what if I dye my hair? It's my hair and I'll do what I want with it...
    EmoSakurachan EmoSakurachan 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    If you have a problem with me I don't care. If you don't like my story's I don't care. If you don't like what I do I don't care. So if you have a problem with go somewhere els and...
    XFallinAngelX XFallinAngelX 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I just really like people that stay true to themselves. I can accept everyone as long as I got the feeling that they are just who they are. I often meet people that are trying to...
    bosslim bosslim 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 8

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    And I will always...forever :) We all go through times in life when we don't even know who we are. A long time ago, I was in that place. I happened to take the Myers-Briggs test...
    flightlessbird314 flightlessbird314 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Over my dads his girlfriend is just so mean I disliked her at the beginning for picking on my for a lot of things I do and like what this experience is I dong care and if u are in...
    nightflame131 nightflame131 13-15, F Mar 21

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    If you accept for the weird, non-normal person I am, than I have no reason not to accept you
    ash5698 ash5698 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 21

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    Would be nice but highly unlikely.... usually unaccepted for what I look like or what I do or occasionally what I don't do...
    Waywardsilence Waywardsilence 41-45, M Mar 22

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    I don't judge people really unless your horrible to me for nothing, then that just really sad , but everybody has a story and we are all human, what gives me the right to outcast...
    Cloclo1234 Cloclo1234 13-15, F 5 Responses Mar 26

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    This is what I do. I accept everyone. I don't care if your gay or a furry, if your 57 or 12, you can smell or look "ugly" but I will never judge you. Whatever you do you have a...
    BlankCanvas22 BlankCanvas22 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    Straight Gay Bi Lesbian Asian European American Southern Canadian Christian Jewish Catholic Muslim Autistic Bi-Polar OCD Man Women ANYTHING I accept and love everyone no...
    biebbrauhll biebbrauhll 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 30

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    Saw a guy walk by a smoker with his kids and they all did a jokingly exaggerated cough it's nice for your kids to know that smoking is bad but I would never teach my children to be...
    Stuckinmyhead0o Stuckinmyhead0o 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    Wabi Sabi: the ancient Japanese idea of illuminating the beauty in imperfection. Love. It’s right up there with air, food, and water as the most necessary of ingredients for...
    Luna47 Luna47 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    I don't have a bunch of friends to talk to neither i have any regrets for sometimes being egoist. I am not antisocial but sometimes i just be me !!
    shadow010 shadow010 26-30, M Apr 6

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    The world has gone mad. Its distressful when everything you have know is all bullshit. All lies, especially from our own government. Course I've not believed anything about...
    InvisibIe InvisibIe 51-55, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    My friend and I were having a conversation about our morality (me and her) she's known me for years and she told me I was morally gray. Meaning, that I'm very neutral. I'll drink...
    KeithJagger KeithJagger 18-21, M 8 hrs ago

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