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I Need to Be Showered With Love and Not Gifts

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    What Do I Buy???!!!!

    I love my boyfriend to death.  But it's so hard finding a gift for him.  He just got a really great job... so he buys everything he wants and is still able to save! It's not fair. He's already bought me 2 Christmas gifts.  And he's making me a bunch of DVDs...
    debrarose debrarose 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2008

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    Gifts Are Nice But

    some one to hold me and talk with me is nicer some one to sit me on the floor and brush my hair is great years ago when my wife was alive i would take in in to the bathroom and just give her a bath for no reason and she always loved the attention and she returned it to me in...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Jun 21, 2011

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    Two In One!

    I just got a special gift across the sea from someone I am adored by. I feel the love, baby! xoox
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 8 Responses Oct 5, 2008

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    Cant Buy Me Love

    I dont need a bunch of items to make my life whole. I dont need anyone to give me a lot of gifts to show how much the love me. I just want to know that I am loved for me and appreciated in whatever relationship Im in. Gifts are okay every once and awhile, I get it...
    abstractjunkie abstractjunkie 22-25, F May 5, 2009

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    Especially During The Depressing Winter Season

    The moments I spend with the people I love are way more significant to me than the amount of money they spend buying me gifts. My father sometimes comments on how my boyfriend rarely gets me presents on random occasions, and it always bothers me how he insinuates that that means...
    TheRealJade TheRealJade 18-21, F Dec 17, 2011

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    Love Brings Tangible Gifts.

    I'd prefer to be showered with love, it's a much more satisfying and fulfilling gift  but any slightly more tangible gifts are welcome if love is not  forthcoming.  
    AtomicWater AtomicWater 41-45, F Jun 8, 2010

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    And Not Even the Mush Mushy Kind ....

    I am not a huge fan of love, but sometimes I do crave touch, a hug, affection from the opposite sex. I am a firm believer that actions speak much louder than words - I always have, and I always will. I don't need diamonds, candy, toys, presents, I...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 3 Responses May 5, 2009

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    Gifts Are Sweet

    They are very thoughtful trinkets. They have their "place" but I never ask for gifts. I would rather be "showered" with love of my guy or from my friends instead.
    TopazSkye TopazSkye 26-30, F 1 Response May 4, 2009

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