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I Need to Be Showered With Love and Not Gifts

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 77 People

    Gifts Are Sweet

    They are very thoughtful trinkets. They have their "place" but I never ask for gifts. I would rather be "showered" with love of my guy or from my friends instead.
    TopazSkye TopazSkye 26-30, F 1 Response May 4, 2009

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    Cant Buy Me Love

    I dont need a bunch of items to make my life whole. I dont need anyone to give me a lot of gifts to show how much the love me. I just want to know that I am loved for me and appreciated in whatever relationship Im in. Gifts are okay every once and awhile, I get it...
    abstractjunkie abstractjunkie 22-25, F May 5, 2009

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    And Not Even the Mush Mushy Kind ....

    I am not a huge fan of love, but sometimes I do crave touch, a hug, affection from the opposite sex. I am a firm believer that actions speak much louder than words - I always have, and I always will. I don't need diamonds, candy, toys, presents, I...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 3 Responses May 5, 2009

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    Love Brings Tangible Gifts.

    I'd prefer to be showered with love, it's a much more satisfying and fulfilling gift  but any slightly more tangible gifts are welcome if love is not  forthcoming.  
    AtomicWater AtomicWater 41-45, F Jun 8, 2010

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    Two In One!

    I just got a special gift across the sea from someone I am adored by. I feel the love, baby! xoox
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 8 Responses Oct 5, 2008

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    What Do I Buy???!!!!

    I love my boyfriend to death.  But it's so hard finding a gift for him.  He just got a really great job... so he buys everything he wants and is still able to save! It's not fair. He's already bought me 2 Christmas gifts.  And he's making me a bunch of DVDs...
    debrarose debrarose 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2008

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    Gifts Are Nice But

    some one to hold me and talk with me is nicer some one to sit me on the floor and brush my hair is great years ago when my wife was alive i would take in in to the bathroom and just give her a bath for no reason and she always loved the attention and she returned it to me in...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Jun 21, 2011

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    Especially During The Depressing Winter Season

    The moments I spend with the people I love are way more significant to me than the amount of money they spend buying me gifts. My father sometimes comments on how my boyfriend rarely gets me presents on random occasions, and it always bothers me how he insinuates that that means...
    TheRealJade TheRealJade 18-21, F Dec 17, 2011

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    I have an excessive need to feel loved and appreciated. How do I stop that? I want people to like me so bad. I have very strong feelings for others and somehow I always expect...
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    Without being loved and appreciated, then what makes you ever feel like there's any motivation to continue? What need is there to live if you have no love with anyone at all and...
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    restlessuk restlessuk 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    A message to the fucken dirty ***** who suppose to be a fucken support worker at the staff accommodation ...stop stabbing me at my fucken back and passing information about me to...
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    You sort of think maybe it's just to damn hard, or maybe I've asked the wrong friggin people. How hard is it to give as good as you get? How long do you have to look around earth...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    I just realized that all the men I have dated they "ALL" have one thing in common...... They live with there mom or grandma. um.... The first question I need to ask is do u have...
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    Somebody who cares .. who listens to you .. shares everthing with you ...and just love you .... everybody deserves and need true love
    vishar vishar 18-21, M Apr 10

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    I feel left out. My crush hates me, my friends hate me, my family hates me. It feels cramp when someone you really love doesn't feel the same way towards you. Especially when...
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    I am a nobody to anyone not even myself At the current Time I'm listening to pink Floyd indulging in a crown an coke funny thing is I don't drink don't know why I'm doing now I...
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    I do but I get cared away. I need so much it seems to smother others. so its not good.
    WickedlilAngel WickedlilAngel 31-35, F a week ago

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    please I need help and will explain all in a message.. ill leave you with this black furred wolf silver eyes and attacks me. but only I can see him
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    Sometimes I wish we had a little more control in a situation of two people having strong feelings for one another. I wish that we could just be happy together, but somehow there is...
    IKKI10 IKKI10 31-35, M Mar 30

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    I'm really upset, the aura in my home is of awkward with a capital A.. I can't take it anymore being the neglected one
    Fizzy0875 Fizzy0875 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    I always have one friend that I'm way more intimate with than all of my other's, but I'd never date them.
    shestehsweetest shestehsweetest 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    My so-called partner doesn't treat me very well, but I feel like I love him. I have no solid friends to rely on. I feel lost.
    AlisonAnnAbby AlisonAnnAbby 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 5

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    I love to see someone loves me but I a kinda have some problems I think I'm ugly so I never go to ask her ??
    sam1652 sam1652 13-15, M 3 Responses Apr 6

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    hopeespe hopeespe 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    went on a date last night with a very nice gentleman only to be told today that "last night can't happen again" because he's still in love with his ex girlfriend.
    Ines77 Ines77 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 10

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    TransguyT TransguyT 22-25, T 1 day ago

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    DeepBlood DeepBlood 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    ^_^ being alone is really hard so appreciate on who or wut u have
    mariabish mariabish 13-15, F 2 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    All I get from my family these days is belittle meant and put downs. I wish sometimes they will just hug me and tell me it's okay but instead nothing I do seems to be good enough.
    firework05 firework05 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 21

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