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I Need to Be Showered With Love and Not Gifts

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 82 People

    Love Brings Tangible Gifts.

    I'd prefer to be showered with love, it's a much more satisfying and fulfilling gift  but any slightly more tangible gifts are welcome if love is not  forthcoming.  
    AtomicWater AtomicWater 41-45, F Jun 8, 2010

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    Two In One!

    I just got a special gift across the sea from someone I am adored by. I feel the love, baby! xoox
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 8 Responses Oct 5, 2008

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    Gifts Are Nice But

    some one to hold me and talk with me is nicer some one to sit me on the floor and brush my hair is great years ago when my wife was alive i would take in in to the bathroom and just give her a bath for no reason and she always loved the attention and she returned it to me in...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Jun 21, 2011

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    What Do I Buy???!!!!

    I love my boyfriend to death.  But it's so hard finding a gift for him.  He just got a really great job... so he buys everything he wants and is still able to save! It's not fair. He's already bought me 2 Christmas gifts.  And he's making me a bunch of DVDs...
    debrarose debrarose 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2008

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    Gifts Are Sweet

    They are very thoughtful trinkets. They have their "place" but I never ask for gifts. I would rather be "showered" with love of my guy or from my friends instead.
    TopazSkye TopazSkye 26-30, F 1 Response May 4, 2009

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    Cant Buy Me Love

    I dont need a bunch of items to make my life whole. I dont need anyone to give me a lot of gifts to show how much the love me. I just want to know that I am loved for me and appreciated in whatever relationship Im in. Gifts are okay every once and awhile, I get it...
    abstractjunkie abstractjunkie 22-25, F May 5, 2009

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    And Not Even the Mush Mushy Kind ....

    I am not a huge fan of love, but sometimes I do crave touch, a hug, affection from the opposite sex. I am a firm believer that actions speak much louder than words - I always have, and I always will. I don't need diamonds, candy, toys, presents, I...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 3 Responses May 5, 2009

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    Especially During The Depressing Winter Season

    The moments I spend with the people I love are way more significant to me than the amount of money they spend buying me gifts. My father sometimes comments on how my boyfriend rarely gets me presents on random occasions, and it always bothers me how he insinuates that that means...
    TheRealJade TheRealJade 18-21, F Dec 17, 2011

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    BeYourselfBeBeautifull BeYourselfBeBeautifull 16-17, F 11 Responses 2 days ago

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    I think because I've been in love more than once I've taken it for granted. Most of my adult life I've had someone there ready to give up their life for mine, to protect me and...
    Ladybuddha1 Ladybuddha1 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 25

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    Well, it's not as if I 'need' someone to love. After all I suppose my age (15) kind of puts a limit on my emotional needs ect. If I'm honest, I don't think I truly know what love...
    musicislife00 musicislife00 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 15

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    I'd. Love to love youu need to b loved too
    suprbrian suprbrian 56-60, M 1 day ago

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    I have been married 25 years and I need to feel loved and appreciated. I feel like everything I do is wrong. I am never hugged or held or kissed by my husband.
    petstrains petstrains 46-50, F 6 Responses Aug 29

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    From a question somebody posted today: Q: Give me ONE reason why you're worthy to be fought for? My answer: Because once I've made up my mind that I want you, I'll stick around...
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Hi!:) My name is Candice. I'm 14. I found myself in a very hard and difficult situation. I loved someone that didn't love me back. I met someone in 1st grade. We became best...
    Candice321 Candice321 13-15, F 6 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Did you ever think that it is possible to sleep with someone without having a physical relation? Just laying there, talking for hours about how we feel, what we love, memories etc...
    PaleRaven PaleRaven 18-21, F 12 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I am currently going through a breakup and I am in so much pain. Just need some encouraging stories that I will live through this.
    nycwoman nycwoman 61-65, F 4 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    Hey guys! I'm trying to come up with some fundraisers for my art club at school. Do you guys have any ideas? I would love to hear some stuff. Thanks(:
    JusttThatGirl JusttThatGirl 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I am best friends with my crush am I want to tell her I like her but what if she dose not feel the same way. I always make her laugh and turn her bad days to good. She is funny...
    luisr1234 luisr1234 13-15, M 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I have finally accepted that my parents honestly don't love me or care about what I have to say to them or how they treat me. My whole life I've been treated differently than my...
    bestofme85 bestofme85 26-30, F 6 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Im weird cause I think I just love the feeling of being inlove.
    charlichan charlichan 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Is anyone available to help me with math?
    Allofthemeanpeople Allofthemeanpeople 16-17, F 9 hrs ago

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    I am 60 and married to my second husband. It is a very good marriage. My husband is too good to my sons and their families. My youngest son has been married 3 times. He changes the...
    loneyandforgotten loneyandforgotten 56-60, F 4 Responses Aug 30

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    We need 4 hugs a day for survival. We need 8 hugs a day for maintenance. We need 12 hugs a day for growth. -Virginia Satir
    Brudy6 Brudy6 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    I wish I had love, not sex, but love...the newness of sex has faded. It's probably better if you're in love anyway. I am particular though, not rich, but like from a similar...
    ijapa ijapa 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 24

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    Short summary of a much larger situation. Married 15 years, kids, wonderful times together as family. Now work creeping into the evenings for both of us. Meanwhile kids start...
    jeepin54321 jeepin54321 36-40, M 8 Responses Aug 25

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    My wife of four years has told me as of now she doesn't like sex. Ever since we gotten married and had children the affection and intimacy has fell off the grid. She was pregnant...
    born2reign born2reign 22-25, M 6 Responses Aug 26

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    I've always had the need to have a boyfriend. No gaps since I was in 9th grade. Right now I am in my longest relationship of 8 months and he is away in the Airforce. I always have...
    jasmeeni jasmeeni 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 26

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    I realise that nothing changes until you change it. Nothing is better until you make it that way. There’s nothing you’re not responsible for. Just waiting around for something...
    kaymiu kaymiu 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    I've been with my boyfriend for about 11 months, and I love him more than I ever thought I'd love anyone. He's absolutely perfect. I'm a very open person, and am always telling him...
    sidneyf23 sidneyf23 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 3

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    I don't really even know where to begin, but I do know that this is the way I feel. I don't feel like I have anyone in my life who lifts me up or encourages me. I have lost pretty...
    amwatts93 amwatts93 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 5

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    I feel empty without her texting me or talking to me on the phone, it may seem stupid or hard to believe but iv never met her and honestly i care more about her than anything else...
    Ilkpol11 Ilkpol11 16-17, M 2 Responses Sep 13

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    After my dad tried hitting me I have hardly nothing anymore and women leave over stupid stuff like afraid of falling for me when they like someone else (I mean how stupid can u get...
    wantedfunfriends wantedfunfriends 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    I've got so many feelings and desires, but nobody to express them to! I wanna hold a deserving man tightly around the waist and caress him gently where ever he so desires. I wanna...
    WinterIncandescence WinterIncandescence 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    Ever since I was little I have always been passionate and ambitious. I told my family that I wanted to be a zoologist and they laughed in my face, literally. They said it was a...
    adrii5262 adrii5262 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    Tired of being alone and miss having someone to love yes im obese but damn i dont need to be lonely
    Sirchraboesc Sirchraboesc 36-40, M Aug 23

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    I'm Brian!! I love females so much! It's been six months since I've been with a woman and I need sex so badly! I enjoy foreplay and the touch of a female!! Any takers?
    Brody999 Brody999 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    love is all i need yet people decide to give me hate and rejection
    calimaro calimaro 18-21, M 5 Responses Aug 28

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    I want someone to cuddle up next to me while I sleep... Or pretend to be sleeping. I need to be held. I don't want sex, I want ... I don't even know what to call it.
    Tigerlily53 Tigerlily53 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 29

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    Ok. I really need some help and some advice. Here's my story: It all started at a wedding. My parents own a wedding venue and I help out some times. So, at a wedding about 8...
    JeepGirl4 JeepGirl4 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    I need someone to make love.any beautiful queen out there
    rajaking123 rajaking123 26-30, M Aug 30

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    I always have to ask my family if they love me because I never really feel like they do. I mean, they always tell me they do but how can I really believe that? Sometimes I feel...
    lookingtovent lookingtovent 16-17, F 6 Responses Sep 8

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    I feel empty because i dont have someone to love and care. I need that
    marirosi marirosi 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 15

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    Our school is having a fundraiser and we need so many more ppl to buy stuff last year we didn't have this opportunity to go shop online but this year we do and we really need ppl...
    Shinecarberry Shinecarberry 13-15, F a week ago

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    I've always been the kind of person who was everyone's second mother. I listen to everyone's problems, make them laugh and cry with them. But I feel that when I have a problem and...
    LonelyUsagi LonelyUsagi 13-15, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    Hello to all Experiencers I am in desperate need for your help. My boyfriend Robert is having a birthday next month. He is a million miles away from me and I would love to suprise...
    Luseeyah Luseeyah 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I used to think so. I've come to realize this is something I don't need, ask for, or even try very hard to get. I'm okay with unreciprocated feelings and actions and all that jazz...
    noavailablenames noavailablenames 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I need a girl who will love me
    liljdswag liljdswag 13-15, M 1 Response