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I Need to Be Touched

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    Emotionally Clingy

    I'm emotionally clingy. I need to feel his touch. The feel of his hand on my shoulder, on my arm, and the side of my neck, and my cheek, the small of my back, and on my ***. I need to feel his arms around me holding me tight, as though he can keep all the bad things of the world...
    CDLynn CDLynn 41-45, T 1 Response Apr 6, 2013

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    If Only For A Few Minutes

    I wasn't shown as much affection as a child, and as a result I crave it alot but because of fear I don't show it as often as I'd like. I feel safe when there's someone there to hold me, give me a hug, whos shoulder I can lean on... you get the point. Right now...
    2slippers 2slippers 22-25 1 Response Sep 5, 2010

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    Just Me

    well i suppose i'm like most other people,but i have been told that compared to most i do cuddle and hug a lot more than most males! and being fairly fem i do relate well to being held and cuddled for as long as i can have one,lol. its just so nice to be held and to hold someone...
    pantieslips pantieslips 46-50, M 8 Responses Jun 7, 2012

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    Feel Is More Valued Afainst to Be Toched

    Its not important to be touched. Main thing is the feel that u get from that touch. Even you can feel someone touch long time after he leaves and it gave awesome feel
    sincere sincere 21-25, M Jan 9, 2008

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    Touching You

      To be touched by the one you love To be held by the one you desire To be kissed by the one your heart is wanting To be warmed by your love’s embrace To be gifted with their passion To be welcomed into their hearth   Sharing their days Eating from their...
    newdaydogEP newdaydogEP 70+, M Sep 11, 2009

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    Sometimes

    There are times when I really ache to be touched. A warm caress, a gentle stroke of my cheek, soft lips pressing mine or a strong embrace. There is so much emotion that can be conveyed through a simple touch. Being held is being wanted and being wanted is a comforting thing.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 26, 2012

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    Restrictions Apply!

    To make a long story short, it's been to long since I've been properly "touched" - if you know what I mean. However, I won't let just about anybody touch me. I'll only allow those who I know and love to touch me. ;)
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M Jun 16, 2011

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    By One Man

    I loved the way we used to be shy around each other, I still have a crush on him nearly 3 years later. And despite everything I would so love to be in his arms right now. He used to have this way of gently of lightly touching my neck. He would touch my face softly then let his...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 10, 2008

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    I Hate This

    I don't know why I need it so much. It's pretty bad. If I don't get hugged for a long time (sometimes I go months without getting a single hug) or touched in any affectionate way, I start getting all emo and depressed and I stay that way until somebody finally decides to give me...
    deadmoon deadmoon 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 26, 2011

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    So Bad....

    Please....I craved....I long to be touched, with gentle Love and care...so bad...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Sep 6, 2010

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    Only By People I Love Very Much

    I usually don't like (at all) to be touched. But when I come to be close to someone, I need the touch.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 5, 2008

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    Very Lonely Female

    i'm looking for good man who will help through painful days alone. i'm 44 years old female. very good listener, very loving person, very good at keeping things private. i like watching football, baseball. but most of all keep my man very happy in private and in public.
    candy2stone candy2stone 41-45 4 Responses Aug 8, 2011

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    It Gives Me Life Force

    I so crave being touched, I don't get much human contact and I crave it
    deleted767 deleted767 46-50 2 Responses Sep 11, 2009

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    I know what I need, I just don't know

    where to get it. Sensuality relaxes me, a touch, a kiss, a tickle. A smile. Maybe some else needs the same thing??
    vinceBx vinceBx 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 25

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    The Taste Of Best Indian Food In London

    Indian food tastes best when the freshest and finest ingredients are used to make them. The flavor of Indian spices is famous all over the world. The different climates in different parts of India promote the cultivation of the spices. These spices are then exported to many...
    ummed ummed 26-30, M Mar 12, 2013

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    Dear Gorgeous Ocean Eyes...please Love Me.

    I want to be hugged and loved. That's pretty much it.
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 24, 2011

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    32 and Haven't Been Touched

    I feel a need to be touched, because, it's been so long since I have been. I've never held hands with a woman. Never held someone in an intimate way. Haven't even had my first kiss. The last hug I had was from my grandmother, 12 years ago. There isn't anyone to hug anymore...
    Cursedboy Cursedboy 36-40, M 11 Responses Oct 19, 2008

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    Comfort

    Its interesting how we can adapt to the person we are with. while being married i never gave it much thought as to the need to be held or touched and now that i am rediscovering myself i am finding the act of a simple hug or touch of the elbow to be quite comforting.
    whatever1021 whatever1021 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 23, 2010

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    I Ache So Badly To Be Touched...

    Sometimes I think I am going to cry.  I ceretainly know I am slowly going insane.  I loved having a girlfriend when I was 14.  She had big boobs, which she let me see often, and she hung onto me like I was her favorite stuffed toy.  All I cared about was...
    tcoyneiv tcoyneiv 46-50, M Jun 10, 2010

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    Loneliness

    I am craving physical contact, any kind of intimacy; my hand held, a kiss, someone to hold me to tell me everything will be okay.  I've had my heart broken and re-broken so many times in the past few months, I'm afraid I'll be alone forever.  My desperation to be...
    CuriosityKitten CuriosityKitten 31-35, F 8 Responses Oct 1, 2008

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    It's Emotional

    i need to feel secure, loved, and beautiful. i need commitment. i need the chance to talk and open up in order to become emotionally satisfied And then i can feel an intimate connection. i need to know i'm...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2009

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    Just Not In My Mind...

    Tactile sensations or even attempted or percieved awareness of another, can be the greatest motivation to live.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 23, 2009

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    I Went So Long Without the Touch of a Lover

    Now it seems that I cannot contain myself, he must be getting sick of me, and he probably doesn't realize how much I communicate through touch and passion.  I hate feeling like he will eventually tell me "enough already", but I know it could become a reality. ...
    RedheadJolene RedheadJolene 41-45, F 13 Responses Nov 7, 2008

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    Finding An Old Flame

    After losing my wife of 28 years 2 years ago I find myself needing the touch of another and luckily finding an old friend who has never been married.  Know I see her once a month because of the distance between us, but boy it sure is sweet to spend the day with her and the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 20, 2010

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    ...

    so that I know you are real
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Oct 19, 2008

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    The Hands

    i asked him to blindfold me the world disappears the hands begin flowing up and down not too sexual, not too rough every body part caressed i soak it in i am healed once again
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 15, 2010

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    I Have Changed

    I used to shy away from all physical contact but within the last year or so, I have started to crave and love hugs and all forms of contact.  I am a very sensual person, physical contact, to me is a form of understanding, connection and care and something I wish to both...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 31, 2008

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    It could be in the most innocent of ways

    or not I just need contact with another human being who won't judge me because of my scars.
    NemoNoMore NemoNoMore 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 22

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    Human / Animal Bond

    This is my insite - maybe wrong - This is how I feel - Take a human baby or an animal at birth Without contact, nature, food , simulation, and touch what happens to that baby? It dies.... or becomes an outcast That's how I feel, I jump threw all that hoops handed to me...
    tunie tunie 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 7, 2008

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    I Don't Like It But I Want It

    I'm just going to explain myself bluntly because I seem to have a way of rambling. I don't hug people. I don't like having people put their arm around me. All I'm fine with is a handshake. I don't like getting 'touched' (so to speak), but I want to find that someone special that...
    Ghost218 Ghost218 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2012

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    Longing.....

      I yearn for it.... Its hard....
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp 22-25, M Sep 6, 2010

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    To Be Touched

    Oh , GOD how important these words are for humanity , " to be touched" whether by love or by feelings or by messeges or by contact , by love making passionatly , by Romancism , By all means of being touched , it is the healing process  itself , if all mankind do...
    lilianne lilianne 46-50, M 3 Responses Oct 29, 2008

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    My story is both simple and complicated at the same time, but I will try to explain it as best as I can. I claimed the title Straight Edge in 2012, but was drug and alcohol free...
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    I am a well-enough educated young man to communicate what I need to in almost any situation. This is a positivity I will allow myself. I can say what I need to say as clearly as I...
    poliad poliad 16-17, M 2 Responses Oct 5

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    I just don't know how to help my friend. She needs physical and emotional support, and I can stand by her to remind her that she's not alone but that's just not enough anymore. I...
    jesss333 jesss333 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    It was one of my mum's friends. He was in his late 40s and I was 12. He was staying with us because he had no where else to go. Mum had to go to another country for work so she...
    NotMuchGoingOnHere NotMuchGoingOnHere 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am a 16 yr old teen, from Tampa, FL, and the last time i received a spanking was at age 14 around Thanksgiving. I don't know what made it hurt more, being spanked with a belt...
    jaybrigee16 jaybrigee16 16-17, M 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I honestly don't lol. When I broke up with my ex I started going out on dates and one of the people I dated thought it was ok to grab my hands and kiss them along with my forehead...
    Morenita79 Morenita79 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 24

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    I wish that this wasn't the case. Because I would love to be able to hug or hold hands or do whatever without going into a full blown panic attack. I don't like to be touched by...
    modernmuse modernmuse 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 26

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    People touching me freaks me out.. Only certain people can.. I get really shakey and freaked out when i'm touched (especially not seeing or knowing who it is)
    Mkeely Mkeely 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 26

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    I love having my feet played with ^.^ tickled, touched, kissed, I know it's weird.. But I just love it :3 I also LOVE to play with a girls feet >_< it's so relaxing and lively...
    codyvilla99 codyvilla99 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 8

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    I was touched and told how to touch a woman when I was 11 by a cousin she was 19 then n was always friendly n flirty now I think of it but not understanding fully I was all for it...
    wetpantiesluvr wetpantiesluvr 31-35, M 3 Responses Oct 10

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    Today, I was touched by the soul of an Angel, Hessa,one look into her eyes, I saw her soul, her love, her grace, her life, her kindness, her hopes and dreams for her daughter. When...
    wasjustanillusion wasjustanillusion 41-45, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My neck and shoulders are aching from hunching over my work and my feet are sore from standing all day but my breast ache just to be touched...
    Sjb36 Sjb36 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 2

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    The kindness of some people, especially to someone they do not even know, absolutely amazes me. I work with dogs. I currently have a client who has a dog with cancerous tumours...
    dreshany dreshany 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 7

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    I touched someone who was underage and I feel shite for it I was underage as well but she was so much younger I'm a ducking mess
    Dg135 Dg135 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 10

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    I need someone nice to talk to
    AMarinesGirl0401 AMarinesGirl0401 18-21, F 5 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I need Her.
    AitchKay AitchKay 22-25, M 10 hrs ago

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    cant talk to tinkle friend. just went i really need to :/ hope tmr there wouldn't be that many kids on
    isohatetheworld isohatetheworld 13-15, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Off to work. Her bored all day. Need to talk send me a massage. Here to listen about whatever.
    bloud13 bloud13 36-40, M 6 hrs ago

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