I Need to Be Touched

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    If Only For A Few Minutes

    I wasn't shown as much affection as a child, and as a result I crave it alot but because of fear I don't show it as often as I'd like. I feel safe when there's someone there to hold me, give me a hug, whos shoulder I can lean on... you get the point. Right now...
    2slippers 2slippers
    1 Response Sep 5, 2010

    even if it just a hug i be find

    but i will do any thing
    duelking duelking
    18-21, M
    Jan 13, 2016

    I'm 11 weeks and 3 days pregnant.

    I really want a massage but I can't have one because no one I know wants to give me one):
    emileenicole31 emileenicole31
    22-25, F
    11 Responses Sep 24, 2015

    It could be in the most innocent of ways

    or not I just need contact with another human being who won't judge me because of my scars.
    NemoNoMore NemoNoMore
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 22, 2014


    Its interesting how we can adapt to the person we are with. while being married i never gave it much thought as to the need to be held or touched and now that i am rediscovering myself i am finding the act of a simple hug or touch of the elbow to be quite comforting.
    whatever1021 whatever1021
    51-55, F
    Jun 23, 2010

    Why is it that most people don't like to build

    up to the pleasure. I miss holding and being held, skin contact, and exploration of each other's bodies.
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Jan 12, 2016

    I had a very affectionate mother the first ten

    years of my life. She always held me and cuddled with me. But my dad got custody of me when I was eleven, and he never showed outward affection. My mom has gone completely insane from drugs and alcohol abuse and I NEED to feel that same touch. I don't care who its from I just...
    garguello garguello
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 23, 2015

    Right now. I needs hands,

    lips, bulges pressing against me, I need to be touched all over. Right now.
    YoungForeverr YoungForeverr
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Nov 15, 2015

    Just Me

    well i suppose i'm like most other people,but i have been told that compared to most i do cuddle and hug a lot more than most males! and being fairly fem i do relate well to being held and cuddled for as long as i can have one,lol. its just so nice to be held and to hold someone...
    pantieslips pantieslips
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Jun 7, 2012

    I know what I need, I just don't know

    where to get it. Sensuality relaxes me, a touch, a kiss, a tickle. A smile. Maybe some else needs the same thing??
    vinceBx vinceBx
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Jun 25, 2014

    I am craving it so badly lately.

    It's driving me insane. -_-
    thecraziestpanda thecraziestpanda
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Mar 20, 2016

    It Gives Me Life Force

    I so crave being touched, I don't get much human contact and I crave it
    deleted767 deleted767
    2 Responses Sep 11, 2009

    by my gf.right now we r in diff states n I

    feel like I'm going ballistic climbing the walls to be with her.she's my everything
    jewwlie jewwlie
    46-50, F
    1 Response Jan 13, 2016

    Just Not In My Mind...

    Tactile sensations or even attempted or percieved awareness of another, can be the greatest motivation to live.
    deleted deleted
    Mar 23, 2009

    I Went So Long Without the Touch of a Lover

    Now it seems that I cannot contain myself, he must be getting sick of me, and he probably doesn't realize how much I communicate through touch and passion.  I hate feeling like he will eventually tell me "enough already", but I know it could become a reality. ...
    RedheadJolene RedheadJolene
    41-45, F
    13 Responses Nov 7, 2008

    Touching You

      To be touched by the one you love To be held by the one you desire To be kissed by the one your heart is wanting To be warmed by your love’s embrace To be gifted with their passion To be welcomed into their hearth   Sharing their days Eating from their...
    newdaydogEP newdaydogEP
    70+, M
    Sep 11, 2009
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana
    36-40, F
    1 Response Oct 25, 2014
    kitteN4L kitteN4L
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 18, 2015

    I would love for someone to give me a message

    right now. I've been way too tensed up lately... and I really miss the warm touch of a man's hands on my body.
    popeca3 popeca3
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Jan 13, 2016

    I Hate This

    I don't know why I need it so much. It's pretty bad. If I don't get hugged for a long time (sometimes I go months without getting a single hug) or touched in any affectionate way, I start getting all emo and depressed and I stay that way until somebody finally decides to give me...
    deadmoon deadmoon
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Sep 26, 2011

    Dear Gorgeous Ocean Eyes...please Love Me.

    I want to be hugged and loved. That's pretty much it.
    LylaRocks LylaRocks
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 24, 2011

    Emotionally Clingy

    I'm emotionally clingy. I need to feel his touch. The feel of his hand on my shoulder, on my arm, and the side of my neck, and my cheek, the small of my back, and on my ***. I need to feel his arms around me holding me tight, as though he can keep all the bad things of the world...
    CDLynn CDLynn
    46-50, T
    1 Response Apr 6, 2013

    It's Emotional

    i need to feel secure, loved, and beautiful. i need commitment. i need the chance to talk and open up in order to become emotionally satisfied And then i can feel an intimate connection. i need to know i'm...
    Josie06 Josie06
    56-60, F
    1 Response Feb 13, 2009

    I need to be touched,

    it has been so long to be taken control over. will someone touch me.
    tiffsica tiffsica
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Apr 17, 2015

    "I Will Take You Home" I stole a car last

    night, don't know where we're gonna go but go ahead and drive I will take you home Honey it's cold outside (Mmm) your jumper is torn but darling hold on tight I will keep you warm Just follow the signs (ooh ooh) they will lead us home and we will drive till these tires wear...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 9, 2015

    Trace my lines, Feel my curves,

    Excite me, entice me, ***** my soul bare. Feed me, Bathe me, Do what you please with me. Your touch alone ignites a passion that's hard to ignore. Touch me forever, Hold me in your heart, Melt yourself into me, Become the part I am missing. I crave your touch, As my body...
    Saintlysinner Saintlysinner
    31-35, F
    10 Responses Feb 9, 2015

    Very Lonely Female

    i'm looking for good man who will help through painful days alone. i'm 44 years old female. very good listener, very loving person, very good at keeping things private. i like watching football, baseball. but most of all keep my man very happy in private and in public.
    candy2stone candy2stone
    4 Responses Aug 8, 2011

    I Don't Like It But I Want It

    I'm just going to explain myself bluntly because I seem to have a way of rambling. I don't hug people. I don't like having people put their arm around me. All I'm fine with is a handshake. I don't like getting 'touched' (so to speak), but I want to find that someone special that...
    Ghost218 Ghost218
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 21, 2012
    babygirl31390 babygirl31390
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 24, 2015


      I yearn for it.... Its hard....
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp
    26-30, M
    Sep 6, 2010

    I really need some human contact.

    Hope I find someone hot. Please don't respond of u r Asian. Sorry guys, sometimes what we attracted to aren't all that reasonable.
    Mangostrawberrybanana Mangostrawberrybanana
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Oct 25, 2014

    someone touch me.....

    anywhere i dont care
    ilovebabies19 ilovebabies19
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 27, 2015

    32 and Haven't Been Touched

    I feel a need to be touched, because, it's been so long since I have been. I've never held hands with a woman. Never held someone in an intimate way. Haven't even had my first kiss. The last hug I had was from my grandmother, 12 years ago. There isn't anyone to hug anymore...
    Cursedboy Cursedboy
    36-40, M
    11 Responses Oct 19, 2008


    There are times when I really ache to be touched. A warm caress, a gentle stroke of my cheek, soft lips pressing mine or a strong embrace. There is so much emotion that can be conveyed through a simple touch. Being held is being wanted and being wanted is a comforting thing.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 26, 2012

    By One Man

    I loved the way we used to be shy around each other, I still have a crush on him nearly 3 years later. And despite everything I would so love to be in his arms right now. He used to have this way of gently of lightly touching my neck. He would touch my face softly then let his...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Aug 10, 2008

    Human / Animal Bond

    This is my insite - maybe wrong - This is how I feel - Take a human baby or an animal at birth Without contact, nature, food , simulation, and touch what happens to that baby? It dies.... or becomes an outcast That's how I feel, I jump threw all that hoops handed to me...
    tunie tunie
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Nov 7, 2008

    The Taste Of Best Indian Food In London

    Indian food tastes best when the freshest and finest ingredients are used to make them. The flavor of Indian spices is famous all over the world. The different climates in different parts of India promote the cultivation of the spices. These spices are then exported to many...
    ummed ummed
    31-35, M
    Mar 12, 2013

    I Have Changed

    I used to shy away from all physical contact but within the last year or so, I have started to crave and love hugs and all forms of contact.  I am a very sensual person, physical contact, to me is a form of understanding, connection and care and something I wish to both...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response May 31, 2008

    So Bad....

    Please....I craved....I long to be touched, with gentle Love and care...so bad...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Sep 6, 2010
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