I Need to Communicate Better

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    I have really bad communication skills,

    I am very well educated just hard for me to put words together when it comes to talking to other people in person, so I stay quiet - which leads to people thinking I'm weird. :(
    helloapple1 helloapple1
    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 10, 2014

    Ironically

    On my CV, within my roles to date, it is always stated that I have excellent written and oral communication skills.  I can communicate easily with a diverse group of people on a range of topics..... all except one And that is my personal life.  I have...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Apr 23, 2009

    Its Not That

    that I'm afried of people. Its that I'm afried of talking infront of all those people!!
    ascs ascs
    22-25, F
    May 13, 2009

    I Dont Know What To Say..

    I have no topic to talk about and I sit there. Never can start a conversation, or once if it's started cannot keep it up/ carry it. I have been isolated all my life because of this. I hate reading. I donot try to be up-to-date with the current events and my vocab sucks. I...
    meenasuvari meenasuvari
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Dec 31, 2010
    openwindows openwindows
    41-45, F
    Feb 27, 2013

    Where I Go Wrong?

    i feel like am always trying soo hard to get closer to pepole i try to talk in a better way ,to care for them, not to be so sharp in what i say but i always seem that i do somthing wrong i just cant tell exactly what?the other day i was talking poltics with punch of poeple not...
    missdinos missdinos
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Feb 17, 2011

    Gobbledegook

    Gobbledegook: This is the word which best expresses the result of what my thought processes produce to come out of my mouth. My thoughts are all scattered. When it comes to conveying opinions, emotions or general thoughts and feelings, the right words which would express...
    Lingvolingo Lingvolingo
    18-21
    Nov 18, 2012

    I Do

    i need to communcatie better to E . to msyelf , to my supervisors , to my doctors .
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 26, 2010

    It's Not Easy.

          I've had a difficult time communicating for as long as I can remember. My preferred communication is through words, which I know can be detrimental to almost any relationship.       For my boyfriend and me, being together for 6 years has made us both aware of each...
    RelianceOnScience RelianceOnScience
    22-25, F
    Jun 10, 2012

    Communication

    In my lifetime, I have to believe and realize that communication is important at all aspect of life, example if you see that most couple or marriage don't work out it is because there is no communication or one part is talking while the other one does not even care to list at all...
    AfricainChocolate AfricainChocolate
    26-30, F
    Nov 6, 2009

    some people say I talk to much,

    and maybe they're right but aren't I entitled to my point of view , or am I supposed to just sit back and let everyone have their's like I don't matter .
    Cantgetright3196 Cantgetright3196
    46-50, M
    Nov 22, 2015

    I'm a Really Shy Person...

    I'm a really shy person and I don't really talk unless I'm talked to first.
    imrayza4life imrayza4life
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jul 8, 2009

    Communication Quote

    I know that you believe that you understood what you think I said, but I'm not sure you realize that what you heard isn't what I meant.
    kevinfun33 kevinfun33
    31-35, M
    1 Response Oct 27, 2010

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