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I Need to Feel Desired

Everyone Has Desires...Right?? 1,155 People

    I Want

    Recently I was sent to a suicide ward. The story of why I was sent can be read in my profile titled "I Don't Know" and "Aftermath". Everyone around me treats me like some malignant tumor. Just there to annoy society and no matter how much you cut it off it grows back. My family...
    solotuv solotuv 18-21, M Feb 25, 2013

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    abp6462abp abp6462abp 51-55, M May 1

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    Found

    I didn't realise how important this was to me.  I never really gave it much thought to be honest.  The fact that my husband was no longer interested in intimacy of any sort never really made me feel undesirable.  That might sound unbelievable ... but I always knew it was his...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss 51-55, F 2 Responses Apr 22, 2012

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    Most Wanted Gal

    I am so glad to acquainted myself. Maybe this acquaintance will be the future I so much desired. Do you want to know more about me? And I hope your answer here is “yes”. Well, I will tell you about myself and about my future and this special lady I have designed and like to...
    kipross44 kipross44 46-50, M Jan 7, 2013

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    I don't feel special.

    I don't feel worthy. I actually feel like a nobody.
    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F May 3

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    I Dont Feel Sexy.

    I don't feel sexy any more. I was never a big girl in any way but I have recently lost some weight due to my diabetes and I don't feel sexy any more. I lost some breast mass and also my ***! I wish I had what little curves I had back because I don't feel I am desirable any...
    whatfeelingsarethese whatfeelingsarethese 31-35, F Mar 28, 2013

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    need a good woman by my side to make me feel

    good inside, im friendy and easy to get on with with small manhood
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 3

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    The Need to Feel Appreciated

    I turn many heads and I attract a lot of younger men but my husband doesn't take time to look at me.  I feel like I just am there to meet his needs when the rare occasion happens that he has the need.  I want to be held and caressed and desired for more than 5 minutes a...
    grandlakeprincess62 grandlakeprincess62 46-50, F 3 Responses Apr 20, 2009

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    Free at Last Well, your faith was strong

    but you needed proof You saw her bathing on the roof Her beauty and the moonlight overthrew ya And she tied you to the kitchen chair She broke your throne and cut your hair And from your lips she drew, “Hallelujah” Hallelujah, Hallelujah Hallelujah, Hallelujah - K.D...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley 46-50, M Jan 7

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    Am I Asking For Too Much?

    Everyone likes to feel desired don't they? Can we have a show of hands please!I used to think our marriage was normal. kids.. house... dog, birthdays, PTA meeting, a little sex on Friday or Saturday night or even once during the week.  Nothing over the top yet steady and most...
    PC2629 PC2629 56-60, M 2 Responses Jul 16, 2012

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    I have always been cherished by someone in my

    life but my husband doesn't seem to cherish me. I know he loves me but I'm not special or adored by him. It kills me. Is it wrong to feel this way? I feel like I'm betraying him by saying this
    taylornicole2 taylornicole2 26-30, F 1 Response May 3

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    Me And You

    Make me happy? I’ll make you happy! Make me smile? I’ll make sure I’ll make you smile when I can! Make me laugh? I’ll have you in stitches with funny me moments! Make me cry? Happy tears, I won’t make you cry unless they’re happy tears! Make me love you? I’ll do my...
    kipross44 kipross44 46-50, M 1 Response Dec 19, 2012

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    Improve Your Odds

    Sex is great but then it ends. A large part of sex for me is being desired, being wanted and having a man respond to me. That's probably a large part of why I have had sexual relations outside my marriage. It was after one such affair that the idea of trying a ********* MFM...
    Kissweeterthanwine Kissweeterthanwine 41-45, F 5 Responses Oct 1, 2013

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    A Bed Made Just For Cathy

    A Bed Made Just for Cathy The pillow that you made for me It was soft with feather down And the headboard, it came from an old house That was about to be torn down And the songs you always sang to me Oh wow to fall asleep Did they sound the same to her In the bed you made for me...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley 46-50, M Oct 10, 2013

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    Invisible

    I sit quietly in my corner as I get smaller, smaller, smaller I haven't been heard in so long I believe I lost the ability to speak I try to breathe but the walls are collapsing No point in struggling it will only make it worse Just let go as I slip away I wonder if you will...
    mylife808 mylife808 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 5, 2012

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    Too Much To Ask?

    At the birth of the morning until its dark death, all I crave, all I truly desire is an all-consuming passion, a love that burns hotter than an inferno, to be held within his masculine embrace, to feel his caresses on my body as we are skin to skin and to know this is forever. Is...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 14 Responses Mar 20, 2012

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    Lonely

    It sucks. The silence is deafening. Can't concentrate to read. Frustrated. Lonely.
    mylife808 mylife808 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 2, 2013

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    Fed Up

    I am finally fed up. You can't try to make a relationship work when the other person does not even care.... He had a work Christmas party. I was excited to get out of the house just us no kids. He comes home with a new xbox game and immediately starts playing it instead of...
    mylife808 mylife808 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 19, 2012

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    Desired

    Just need to feel loved, desired, and wanted :)
    tatteredwings tatteredwings 36-40 2 Responses Jul 1, 2009

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    Beware Kylie Gough

    Beware of a Kylie Gough if you meet her and she is a RN refer under her full name Kylie Ann Gough who is from Coffs Harbour originally and living in Sydney now
    terrorlife terrorlife 18-21, F Mar 13, 2013

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    Not Even Once.

    The last time a guy had a crush on me was in 5th grade. I have never been asked out, complimented, or wanted by any member of the opposite sex. Guys don't even think twice about me. To be honest, I don't even know what it is like to be desired by someone else.
    immaheidi immaheidi 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 1, 2009

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    Desire Is Not Just Sex...

    "I love that you love and want me, but to be needed and desired would make me feel truly loved." I said this to my first ex 10 years ago and he said, "So, do you want us to have more sex?" The answer I gave was a heavy sigh. Tell me I am beautiful, wise...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 15 Responses Apr 12, 2009

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    A Basic Human Need!

    To be Desired. To be Wanted. Not just to do the dishes, or drive the car, or change the oil, but to be wanted because you are just you. I dream of this day! I lay awake at night wondering how would my life be different if I had someone who wanted me? I long for the days when...
    abigguy4u abigguy4u 56-60, M 2 Responses Mar 21, 2012

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    I Don't Just Like It

    it's not that i enjoy feeling desired. it's not that it makes me smile or gives me butterflies. it's that i need it. i need to feel craved. this need within me never wanes. when one desires me, i feel complete. but once the person's desire slims, i crumble. and i seek someone...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 12, 2009

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    Gypsy Woman

    I m passionate Gypsy woman , my eyes burn, I love playing dance, all night until dawn. When I look in your eyes, I forget the sadness, my heart wants you, your soul is the same ... If your eyes are met before, to find happiness in life even, but now I'm dancing for you, all...
    skyfone464 skyfone464 41-45, F Dec 26, 2012

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    This seems cryptic, but it really isn't.

    The Rolling Stones - Time Waits For No One Yes, star crossed in pleasure the stream flows on by Yes, as we're sated in leisure, we watch it fly And time waits for no one, and it won't wait for me And time waits for no one, and it won't wait for me Time can tear down a...
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    Me

    I just personally want to feel wanted. I want to feel beautiful, validated, and needed.
    McSnuggles95 McSnuggles95 16-17, F Nov 14, 2012

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    Broken Desires...

    This is EXACTLY why I can never hold a relationship for longer than a year lol. My boyfriend can be the nicest and sweetest guy ever and we can pretty much get along like a house on fire i.e extremely well, but once the relationship passes the 6th or the 8th month roughly I get...
    AryaFairgloom AryaFairgloom 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 1, 2012

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    Paintings

    I want to be unforgettable in someones life like an artist leaving behind an unforgettable picture. I want to be cherishes like a priceless vase needing to be protected from the braking violence of this world. I want to be kissed like no kiss will ever matter like the kiss from...
    Forbiddenfantasies Forbiddenfantasies 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 12, 2013

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    I Must Be Doing Something Wrong

    I'm seriously not sure what though. Most guys seem to only see a cute face and some curves. I once started to develop feelings for this one guy, thinking things may be different this time, only to find out that all he wanted was sex.So what is it about me that makes me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 4, 2012

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    Desire Is A Must!

    I personally have come to the realization that feeling desired is a must in a relationship. I was married and that feeling of desire just wasn't there. After a while it was more like living with a roomate. Since my marriage ended, I have felt desired again and realize there is...
    cnf1211 cnf1211 31-35 Nov 14, 2012

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    So, Here's the Deal

    I've had my share of relationships, I've felt love and shown it. I won't lie, I've been in love. Every love is different though. What I crave is someone who desires me, someone who craves to be near me. Someone who can't live a day without talking to me or seeing me. Call me...
    ImminentDisaster ImminentDisaster 26-30, M 3 Responses Aug 4, 2009

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    Feeling Desired Fulfills My Desires

    I want, long, and need to be desired, its one of the things that fulfills my desires. Its totally natural to want to be desired, I mean I cant imagine how empty life would be if you never felt longed for by anybody at least some times. It feels so much better when you have a...
    prettyintense27 prettyintense27 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 22, 2012

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    Lost

    I am new to this but I moved for love almost two years ago and don't really have many friends around here so just needed to vent. I have two beautiful children that I love dearly and I live with a man who I love dearly. Dearly might not be the right word to describe it...
    mylife808 mylife808 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 4, 2012

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    Hm.

    I have really low self-esteem, so it surprises people to find out that I post "naughty" pics on Ep. The truth is, when I post those pics, I'm attempting to make peace with the way I look, and also testing the waters of what other people perceive. It's sort of... weird self...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 7 Responses Dec 15, 2010

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    True Love?

    What are the characteristics of true love? Is it a feeling or a chain of events that lead to true love or is it automatic? How do you know if your just infatuated or you truly love this person? Is their really any such thing as true love? A friend of mine answered this question...
    mylife808 mylife808 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2012

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    A Calm In The Storm

    Another frustrating night of sitting alone while he plays xbox. He knows I am hurt but continues to play and seems rather content. Despite my pain I have decided to go back to my hometown to spend Christmas with my mother and the girls. He will have plenty of alone time to do as...
    mylife808 mylife808 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 20, 2012

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    Your Hatred Is A Cry For Help...

    YOU HATE ON ME, JUST TO SEE IF I WILL RESPOND, AND IF I DO YOU SEEM SO VERY COOL AND CALM, AS IF YOU HAVE DONE NOTHING WRONG, TO CONTINUE YOUR S..UCK ARSE BAD LOVE AND LIGHT POETRY, AS IF YOU ARE THE IMAGE OF SAINTLY BEHAVIOUR ITSELF... AGAIN......... WTF??????? YEAH MAYBE YOU...
    indigowitch indigowitch 22-25, F Dec 26, 2012

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    Why Is It That I Am Not Desired By My Boyfriend?

    I want so badly to be desired by my boyfriend and he compliments me all the time and I do appreciate that, but I basically have to beg him to become intimate with me. What is it about me that is undesirable?
    britt88britt08 britt88britt08 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 21, 2011

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    I Want Someone To Desire Me!

    be nice to come home from a hard day at work and find your partner in bed wanting you so bad and cant wait to rip your clothes off and forfill your every need. And then I woke up and see that it will never happen to me.
    harleyrider3151970 harleyrider3151970 36-40, M 13 Responses Feb 25, 2011

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    Lately, actually now

    that I'm recently separated; I've been wanting to be a little dominated by another man... Sometimes I get in my naughty moods that it makes me want to feel desired like never before... I don't mean to come off as fake, or on here for sex no!! Not at all, this is just something...
    SSGArmyWifex SSGArmyWifex 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 30

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    Trolls Love Me So

    Trolls writing shittt about me on EP, TO MAKE ME LOOK BAD, THEY JUST WANT ME TO SEE THEM, TO GIVE ATTENTION TO THEM, TO FEED THEIR HUNGRY LITTLE PATHETIC SOULS, F...UCK YOU ALL!
    indigowitch indigowitch 22-25, F Dec 26, 2012

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    My Boyfriend

    My boyfriend spends more time with my female roommates than with me. He also watches **** while I sleep and jerks off to it. Are all men pigs? Are they all the same? I cant take it anymore he is making me cringe at the thought of him. I am always last on his priority list and he...
    playmate08 playmate08 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 28, 2012

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    Intoxicating

    I need to feel desired, needed and wanted. It makes me feel sexy when I can feel eyes on me, undressing me and devouring me. Knowing I am wanted and craved is the most intoxicating feeling, my skin burns under his gaze and I am weak, helpless to resist. All the little doubts and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 18, 2012

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    Theres Hope

    Yesterday was an amazeing day for me. I met a man, who was amazeing. Its been a very long time since I felt desired. He made me feel alive again! He said everything right, his words were incourageing, I truely felt he cared. My days are lonely, but for a brief moment, he made me...
    tinkerbell2067 tinkerbell2067 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 1, 2013

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    My Love Letter To Linda

    Linda and the Diatonic Scale Music is love in search of a word. - French novelist and performer Sidonie Gabrielle Dearest Linda: As the moment of my departure on the ship that will take me away and separate us draws near, I feel compelled to write you something meaningful...
    ryanbradley ryanbradley 46-50, M Oct 19, 2013

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    Desired...needed...loved

    Ok, I'm not pretty or thin so it's rare when anyone is interested in me. When someone does show the slitest intrest turns out they only want one thing; apparently people think I am easy. I have been fooled by a couple of them. Made to think that what they wanted from me was more...
    netgurl netgurl 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 27, 2009

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    I Am More

    I am more than the provider in the house. I am more than the living version of your B.O.B. I am more than that occasional fix. When I love my soul yearns for the woman I am with. All day, everyday she is close to heart and never completely off my mind. I need to feel that...
    GoodMan67 GoodMan67 41-45, M 3 Responses Aug 15, 2010

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    End Of An Old World The Start Of A New Life

    Today marks a new chapter in my life. The end of an old era of unhappiness and anger. Instead I am going to embark on a new journey to find my own path. I will lose some on the way but that is a necessary part of life. You can't rely on others to make you happy because you will...
    mylife808 mylife808 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 20, 2012

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    I need to feel desired,

    I need to know that's I'm something people want. But I'm a very rational person too... I don't just want dumb short comment. I want to know why. I love precision. Isn't the beauty is in the details ? I believe so. I want to discover the person I'm talking to by finding what...
    SarahKiss SarahKiss 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    A Poem I Wrote...

    Mission for a missionary Missionary quite contrary How does your garden grow A sixty niner is always finer Come on lets go, dont be slow Diggy doggy, bend over And i'll do you, real slow, no really slow We both stand up you pretend Youre looking over my shoulder For a...
    ImminentDisaster ImminentDisaster 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 17, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I have forgotten how it feels! How does it feel to be desired? How does it feel to be wanted? To be loved?
    piscean1965 piscean1965 46-50, M Sep 7

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    Anyone out there feeling alone too? Let's chat about desires and being desired and much more :
    Sophiakhan1 Sophiakhan1 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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