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I Need to Feel Loved and Appreciated

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    I want to share with the whole world my

    experience in a supported accommodation for vulnerable adults with mental health issues in Zealand road in Middlesbrough opposite the train station ..I'm a grown up woman who is not white and I have Asian appearance and I'm perceived by white English people to be Asian Indian or...
    restlessuk restlessuk 31-35, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    I just feel lost in a crowd.

    .. No one even misses me!!
    kimmy1073 kimmy1073 41-45, F 14 Responses Sep 28, 2014

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    How much is too much?

    How long can you keep feeling unappreciated and disrespected until you just don't or CAN'T care anymore? I'm always drawn back to the quote that I seem I can relate more and more to lately. "Never push a loyal person to the point where they no longer care." Even though I...
    UndisputedTruth UndisputedTruth 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 21

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    I don't feel loved or appreciated.

    Why is it so hard to get that feeling from someone?
    juicyj18 juicyj18 18-21, F 9 Responses Oct 17, 2014

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    Did you ever think that it is possible to sleep

    with someone without having a physical relation? Just laying there, talking for hours about how we feel, what we love, memories etc. Just enjoying to be with someone.
    PaleRaven PaleRaven 18-21, F 16 Responses Sep 23, 2014

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    I want love!!! Someone.

    .. I don't wanna look desperate. I just feel like no one loves me and I'll take what I can get as desperate as that sounds
    sadiegirl347 sadiegirl347 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 16, 2014

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    I've never really had an easy life.

    When someone is kind to me, pr nice to me, I don't really know how to react because it's been so long since anyone has.
    CalZe CalZe 16-17, M 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    After a breakup, there is a great feeling of

    loneliness that overcomes us. For so long, we felt that we were a part of something bigger than ourselves. Suddenly we are left with the realization that we no longer have another to lean on. The loneliness is overwhelming. We have become used to having someone with us all the...
    belllla belllla 18-21, F 10 Responses Nov 9, 2014

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    I need to be loved and appreciated.

    . We all do.. I need people who DO understand me.. who DON'T let me down. I need them .. but they also need me. ~~~~~~ Everyone feels unloved at some point ... why?! it has no use! Everyone is perfect on the inside, and thats all that matters in love right!! The inside matters...
    BeYourselfBeBeautifull BeYourselfBeBeautifull 16-17, F 12 Responses Sep 21, 2014

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    As much as I love my girlfriend,

    last night I've come to the painful realization that it's best I end it. We didn't argue or fight about anything, I just think that she's so broken from past relationships that she doesn't feel the need to truly make an effort to keep me. No matter how much I sympathize or...
    MrShinra MrShinra 36-40, M 6 Responses Dec 2, 2014

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    i don't feel how i use to feel ,

    it's like i help and give my all to people who doesn't give me 50% back , i hate this .. my life is completely useful , .. and i dont know what to do anymore !!!
    AliseaBerry69 AliseaBerry69 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 28, 2014

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    I met a guy last July

    and we started dating. it wasnt not even a month later and I found out I was pregnant. he already has 2 kids that are 3 & 1 and I have a 10 month old. Ours will be here 3 days after my 10 month olds birthday. We broke up 2 times because of him cheating and now are back together...
    cnj1991 cnj1991 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    Ever since September I've had a crush on my

    physics partner and I haven't 'given up' because he gives me these signals I can't seem to interpret, and as much as they seem to say 'I like you' I tell myself it's all in my head. I just met my guy bestfriend this year, just like I did my 'crush' too. I've kept this bottle up...
    400luxbux 400luxbux 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    After so many years of devoting myself to one

    person... It's painfully hard to know that they've changed. And I no longer have what once was. I want to be held and cuddled. Soft kisses and tender whispers. I want to know that I still matter...?
    cl0udyskies cl0udyskies 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 20, 2014

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    I am so tired of giving my 100%

    and then people throwing it away. I was in a long distance relationship with my first boyfriend for 2years. He cheated on me, it was terrible, he said he was depressed and suicidal so I forgave him and then he dumped me 6 months later. I was single for over an year. I finally...
    take90 take90 22-25, F 8 Responses Nov 13, 2014

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    I have a friend. She is way older

    than me and very good at everything she does. I see her as a role model and sort of a mom to me. I care about her more than I can say. She's very kind in some ways (doesn't get angry at me for things most people would get angry at; very forgiving) but very callous in other...
    InvaderNice InvaderNice 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm just a girl. I love being called pretty,

    but I'll never believe it. I'm not always right, but hate admitting I'm wrong. I'm almost always smiling, but it's not always real. I can be read like an open book, but hide so much. I work hard at things, but don't always get what I deserve. I'm just a girl. (c)
    JustOrdinaryGirl JustOrdinaryGirl 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 21, 2014

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    goodnites25 goodnites25 22-25, M a week ago

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    I have an excessive need to feel loved

    and appreciated. How do I stop that? I want people to like me so bad. I have very strong feelings for others and somehow I always expect everyone to have very strong feelings for me. That's not the case. And I have trouble accepting that. Sometimes I feel like I'm too...
    InvaderNice InvaderNice 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I feel left out. My crush hates me,

    my friends hate me, my family hates me. It feels cramp when someone you really love doesn't feel the same way towards you. Especially when they can't accept the fact you like them and they're kind of bitchy about it. Annoying. A friend told me that my 'friends' have been...
    Patryk56349 Patryk56349 13-15, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    BlackMarqui BlackMarqui 13-15, M 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    I must be crazy now Maybe I dream too much But

    when I think of you I long to feel your touch To whisper in your ear Words that are old as time Words only you would hear If only you were mine I wish I could go back to the very first day I saw you Should've made my move when you looked in my eyes 'cause by now I...
    BigBossBadMan BigBossBadMan 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 18

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    . I hope everyone get their fucken karma soon .

    .. Yes there are discrimination and racism in the uk and only white citizen get given dignity but the only thing I get from white people is constant humiliation and harassment but I can not even say it in their fucken faces so I suffer constantly in silence I have been put in...
    restlessuk restlessuk 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    No matter how "Busy" a person is,

    if they really care,they will always find the time for you......
    wvcountrylady wvcountrylady 56-60, F 16 Responses Jul 22, 2014

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    I have been very lucky in this life of mine.

    Or is that even true? My world always appears so full of light. The outer rims of my soul like burning torches of fire in the night. People around me smile. I feel warmth exude from their now healthy spirit. It happens to me everyday. My heart shouts out with joyful glee that...
    Loverofpeace Loverofpeace 41-45, F 12 Responses Jan 13

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    Valentine's Day a cruel holiday

    for the unhappily married. You must look through the cards full of love and sentiment. Reading words meant for someone's great love but not my own. I wonder where to find a card which expresses the crushed dreams of a marriage to an alcoholic? I am not a woman who has ever...
    EverlyAnn EverlyAnn 31-35, F 13 Responses Feb 16

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    Fanteyzhuh Fanteyzhuh 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 6, 2014

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    I'm really upset, the aura in my home is of

    awkward with a capital A.. I can't take it anymore being the neglected one
    Fizzy0875 Fizzy0875 36-40, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    BigBossBadMan BigBossBadMan 36-40, M a week ago

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    I just found out my boyfriend's friends have

    been pressuring him into breaking up with me because I'm a "normie." When they are all hipster weirdos. And my boyfriend told them he will and then he told them he did so they think we aren't together anymore. Which he says was to avoid the situation but that makes me feel...
    TheBellaBubbles TheBellaBubbles 18-21, F 36 Responses Nov 19, 2014

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    All I get from my family these days is belittle

    meant and put downs. I wish sometimes they will just hug me and tell me it's okay but instead nothing I do seems to be good enough.
    firework05 firework05 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 21

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    We said our vows, and you promised to no matter

    what to always try and work things out, that was my one stipulation to getting remarried. In order to work things out and go thru the motions of life day in and day out communication is key. I'm not talking about screaming yelling bitching and or nagging ( I hate all of those...
    OrchidsNuBlu OrchidsNuBlu 36-40, F 12 Responses Jan 12

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    From a question somebody posted today: Q: Give

    me ONE reason why you're worthy to be fought for? My answer: Because once I've made up my mind that I want you, I'll stick around through the tough parts. Because if you're honest with me and give me the information I need, I am willing to do anything in my power to help you...
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 9 Responses Sep 23, 2014

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    My wife and son went to see Paddington last

    night. Midway through the movie I looked over at both of them and felt a surge of love for them. It's moments like that remind me why I'm alive.
    aminoooo aminoooo 41-45, M 4 Responses Jan 18

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    "Be careful" "Text me

    when you get home so I know you're safe" "Sweet dreams " "How are you?" "I hope you're feeling better" "Have a good day!" "I miss you" "Will you come over?" "Can I see you?" "Can I call you?" "You're beautiful" "Watch your step" "Let's watch a movie" "What are you up to?" "It...
    Lucca9 Lucca9 36-40, F 10 Responses Feb 9

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    minncech minncech 22-25, F 9 Responses Oct 28, 2014

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    I can't live without you.

    I would breathe the air, and my heart would beat, but I would not feel the joy of life. My dreams would be lost like a leaf carted away by a storm. I would gaze at the stars without appreciating the way they light up the sky. I would pass the roses in bloom without noticing...
    BigBossBadMan BigBossBadMan 36-40, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    For all people who are wondering

    or questioning about racism and discriminations in the uk .. The answer is a BIG YES especially if you are a dark skinned person and this apply to people of African origin or Asian origin and also Arabic origin .. We are all hated and persecuted by all British people and all...
    restlessuk restlessuk 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    BigBossBadMan BigBossBadMan 36-40, M Mar 20

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    Okay this is going to be a weird one I mean

    this girl I've been dating for 5 months we just recently decided to take a break mutual of course because both of us need some kind of space to figure some things out now that I have my mind clear over the past month it doesn't take me long she still needs it in her mind she...
    mklein1969 mklein1969 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 17

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    bethcc11 bethcc11 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I've been in a relationship with this guy

    for almost 7 years now and we've grown as people, our relationship has grown a lot more mature. So anyways, back to the point, I've always loved attention and the need to feel loved. even though things are great but now as things are getting serious (read:getting married in a...
    chijji chijji 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    Sometimes I wish we had a little more control

    in a situation of two people having strong feelings for one another. I wish that we could just be happy together, but somehow there is always something that keeps us from being a couple. I don't know whether this will truly be the last time that we give in to our feelings and...
    IKKI10 IKKI10 31-35, M 2 days ago

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    I would give anything

    for one hug. <3
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 29, 2014

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    kraine17 kraine17 22-25, F 11 Responses Feb 15

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    I totally agree with Ali (an egyptian man from

    port said)who I met in Brighton many years ago when life was a little better and he told me that all white people hate us and if the law wasn't protecting us they would have killed us all ... I totally agree with this man and I personally avoid white people and I have no trust...
    restlessuk restlessuk 31-35, F 1 day ago

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