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I Need to Feel Loved and Appreciated

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    I need to be loved and appreciated.

    . We all do.. I need people who DO understand me.. who DON'T let me down. I need them .. but they also need me. ~~~~~~ Everyone feels unloved at some point ... why?! it has no use! Everyone is perfect on the inside, and thats all that matters in love right!! The inside matters...
    BeYourselfBeBeautifull BeYourselfBeBeautifull 16-17, F 12 Responses Sep 21

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    All these people say their my friends

    but no one ever messages or talks to me. why is that?
    AF1Hugs AF1Hugs 16-17, M 2 Responses Oct 13

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    I have been married for five years

    and found out my husband has cheated many times. We went for counseling at our church. I was ready to end the marriage. I pretty much said this during the meeting. I was told by my pastor that I was selfish and critical and that we both needed to grow up! I was hurting when...
    simplypink simplypink 36-40, F 17 Responses 6 days ago

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    Imwhoiam93 Imwhoiam93 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 12

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    From a question somebody posted today: Q: Give

    me ONE reason why you're worthy to be fought for? My answer: Because once I've made up my mind that I want you, I'll stick around through the tough parts. Because if you're honest with me and give me the information I need, I am willing to do anything in my power to help you...
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 10 Responses Sep 23

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    I want to be loved because you know what?

    I deserve it. And you deserve it too. I want someone who loves love and wants to love me to their fullest every single day. I am a good person and i have a good heart and i have good intentions. I am tired of feeling not good enough because i am
    Cookielover5752 Cookielover5752 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 7

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    nick3737 nick3737 22-25, M 3 Responses Oct 11

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    I just need to love and be loved!

    I'm. Romantic affectïonate caring I
    suprbrian suprbrian 56-60, M 14 hrs ago

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    I just want someone to stick with me no matter

    what happens. Someone I can talk to about the most random things ever, but also express my deepest thoughts. I wamt us to spend days and nights together as if we have no worries in the world. I want love, and be loved.
    hebrokemyheart99 hebrokemyheart99 13-15, F 7 Responses Aug 7

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    I cheated and I feel horrible.

    My boyfriend lacks a sex drive almost completely and after 3 years I finally went out to see if sex was as important to me as I thought. It isn't. Lesson learned. I would rather work with him in that department for the rest of my life then be with someone else. I needed this. I...
    kaylee84 kaylee84 22-25, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    I would give anything

    for one hug. <3
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 29

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    Almost 10 yrs into a marriage with a person

    who shows nothing. No touching, no kissing, sex maybe twice a month. No "I love u". Not only does she not give these things but she doesn't want them either. If I tell her she's beautiful or that I love her, she thinks it's lame. If I try to kiss her she turns away. If I...
    tonyb83 tonyb83 31-35, M 5 Responses a week ago

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    I just separted from my husband of 12 years.

    He said he loved me but he never showed me. I did everything for him and I got nothing in return. Now I want to meet someone who will LOVE me and appreciate me for what I have to offer. I want to be in love with my best friend. I have alot to offer him.
    LookingforLove63 LookingforLove63 51-55, F 13 Responses Jul 23

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    No matter how "Busy" a person is,

    if they really care,they will always find the time for you......
    wvcountrylady wvcountrylady 51-55, F 15 Responses Jul 22

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    It's just weird. I don't really think I like

    people. But, I wish someone would love me.
    giovannisconfusion giovannisconfusion 22-25, M 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Who doesn't want be loved

    and appreciated ? But yes it is to be earned with respect and dignity. Then only people will love you and respect you for what you are.
    Ashley99906 Ashley99906 18-21, M 4 Responses Oct 14

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    i don't feel how i use to feel ,

    it's like i help and give my all to people who doesn't give me 50% back , i hate this .. my life is completely useful , .. and i dont know what to do anymore !!!
    AliseaBerry69 AliseaBerry69 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 28

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    i been with my baby's father

    for four yrs some times i feel unloved and unwanted by him he says he loves me and still wants to b with me but i dont see it ..yet nevertheless feel it ??iam confused and hurt
    margaritamuniz margaritamuniz 18-21, F 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    not only because I am beautiful,

    but because I have a good and a caring heart. I don't know what seems wrong but almost men I get in to a relationship always betray me. I often feel I am never enough.
    dontcallmepretty dontcallmepretty 22-25, F 24 Responses 6 days ago

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    I want love!!! Someone.

    .. I don't wanna look desperate. I just feel like no one loves me and I'll take what I can get as desperate as that sounds
    sadiegirl347 sadiegirl347 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 16

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    I just feel lost in a crowd.

    .. No one even misses me!!
    kimmy1073 kimmy1073 41-45, F 16 Responses Sep 28

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    Today I was at my grandparents house

    for lunch. Right after I finished my meal, my grandma asked "hey, do you want some chocolate?" And I said "yes, of course" and she said "what?" Because she didn't hear what I said, so I answered again "yeeeess" and again she didn't hear, and I screamed "YES, I DO WANT SOME...
    lottiemendler lottiemendler 16-17, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Don’t be afraid to open up again.

    I promise not everyone will love you with a knife behind their back.
    flyaway358 flyaway358 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    I am a Mom, Wife and daughter in law.

    I feel like i have more responsibilities. I am housewife, i work hard all day and no body appreciates. Just because i dont work outside, people think i am useless. I am feeling low
    preeti2012 preeti2012 26-30, F 6 Responses Sep 30

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    Some girls need the love

    and appreciation from someone else because they may not know how to show it to themselves.
    imblessed2014 imblessed2014 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't get why this girl ***** with my mind

    she is the most beautiful girl in my life literally can have anyone she wants and she want tell me stright up what she wants from me
    moexy moexy 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Fanteyzhuh Fanteyzhuh 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 6

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    I don't feel loved or appreciated.

    Why is it so hard to get that feeling from someone?
    juicyj18 juicyj18 18-21, F 11 Responses 5 days ago

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    Lovlic Lovlic 31-35, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm so confused with the girl I've bin seeing

    for awhile now she tells me that one day I'll be yours and it hurts so much cause I just want her now and she knows it she says I'm her best friend out of all her friends but she dosent wanna get serious yet and i not think I'm getting friends zoned cause we have good sex
    moexy moexy 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 13

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    I feel as if I know what the true meaning of

    love is and what it takes to make a relationship work but I've never had a girlfriend. Idk I'd like to believe there's someone out there for me but the more days that pass the less likely it seems
    Leojaykid17 Leojaykid17 16-17, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I hate catching feelings

    for someone and not knowing if they feel the same this **** always happens to me
    ariselena ariselena 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 27

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    I realise that nothing changes

    until you change it. Nothing is better until you make it that way. There’s nothing you’re not responsible for. Just waiting around for something to happen, letting yourself hurt that wishing, hoping, praying for it to change, doesn’t always ensure that it will. Days are...
    kaymiu kaymiu 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    no one appreciates the **** I do

    for them. be it trying to console them (which is a bother and I don't like) or me being nice which is not normal for me. I am a relatively negative person and the good I do for my friends goes unthanked and unappreciated.
    ithinkihaveamentalillness ithinkihaveamentalillness 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 12

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    Did you ever think that it is possible to sleep

    with someone without having a physical relation? Just laying there, talking for hours about how we feel, what we love, memories etc. Just enjoying to be with someone.
    PaleRaven PaleRaven 18-21, F 16 Responses Sep 23

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    Mm Martian god as told me to tell u I love you

    u r helping me to change. To follow the right path I'm in love with u Mary
    skyboy4545 skyboy4545 61-65, M 1 Response Oct 13

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    Not all people are loved,

    appreciated, nor wanted.. It's easy to crush a person who is experiencing such at home. It's hard to know that not only was I a mistake but born dead. With a lying cheating father follows the death of my mother to come in place. Night after night of verbal abuse, less physical...
    ForbiddenKidd816 ForbiddenKidd816 16-17, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    Yes i do."So long ago,

    another life.I can feel your heart beat.It's not a dream, remember us.I can see it in your eyes.We'll find our place in time,a place in time beyond the sun.We'll find our place in time,a place in time to call our own. by : Amanda Abizaid.
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 days ago

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    I cheated on my boyfriend of 3 years Friday

    night and I feel so guilty. Long story short I didn't even want to do it and it was completely emotionless. Not even a physical connection. I wanted to see if a sugar daddy would be a good idea so I said id try it once and see. Well I did it, and I am not in a good place about...
    kaylee84 kaylee84 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 12

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    Right now I feel so alone I have Noone to talk

    to no friends all my family are drug attics so if I try to talk to them I get asked for something. Like me and my boyfriend have been homeless for three months while my parents and sister live together and when I thought finding a new house was something good I get asked for my...
    msmendiola122 msmendiola122 22-25, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm just a girl. I love being called pretty,

    but I'll never believe it. I'm not always right, but hate admitting I'm wrong. I'm almost always smiling, but it's not always real. I can be read like an open book, but hide so much. I work hard at things, but don't always get what I deserve. I'm just a girl. (c)
    JustOrdinaryGirl JustOrdinaryGirl 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    angemil angemil 46-50, F 9 Responses Jul 25

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    Hate when you give your heart to the one person

    who you believed to be your dream partner, best friend, soul mate but along the journey you start to notice the lack of appreciation and affection which makes you unhappy. No matter how many times your actions remind them how important they are in your life, they don't seem to...
    Donnyboy1993 Donnyboy1993 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 27

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    Hi ..... I feel so lonely ,

    I never felt like I'v been loved ....... Never ever its really painful & I'm already in my late twenties so I had enough time but nobody gives a **** about me !!! I dnt think if i want to continue like this anymore ..... I dnt even have any friend that i can turn into...
    Elly2014 Elly2014 26-30, F 7 Responses Oct 12

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    For those of you who are sad .

    . For those who are Lonely For those whose hearts are on the floor Believe you will be happy again 7 mths ago I was left broken hearted by someone I loved too much who was abusive and destroyed me as a person Remind yourself that life is truly the moment and that life never...
    kaymiu kaymiu 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 26

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    And now I do... My mother was a drug addict

    when I was younger, so she really was never there for me. I had sex with 3 guys when I was 12 because they all seemed to really like me. It was only later I learned that I was the "ultimate prize" because I was cute, blond and white. Most the people in my neighborhood were...
    ElleRoberts94 ElleRoberts94 18-21, F 11 Responses May 28

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    A person that truly loves u will never let u go

    no matter how hard situation is
    rahwi rahwi 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Just broke up with my abusive ex.

    I've gotten spit on, food thrown at me, elbowed in the throat, thrown into a counter by my throat , lied to about him selling drugs behind my back, and called every name in the book. He also likes every girls picture on social media except mine and yelled at me when I would post...
    leaom22 leaom22 22-25, F 10 Responses Aug 16

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    I don't want to feel my heart in pain anymore.

    . I need to fill him up with love so badly that if i dont i think im gonna die
    beatrizc beatrizc 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Would be an awesome experience

    if someone would tell that they were in love with me. Til then i keep faith that it will happen. I better pull out my "patience" card
    cjohnson1983 cjohnson1983 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 18

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    It's nearly like I need constant reassurance

    that people haven't started hating me for no reason? More specifically my girlfriend
    Turtleisland97 Turtleisland97 16-17, M 2 Responses Oct 14

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    So tired of you saying you love me.

    ., PROVE it to me!! I'm tired of the words.. Show me what ya got!
    HardAsNailz HardAsNailz 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 17

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    I genuinely don't love myself.

    I mean I put on a facade and try like everyone else. But I don't, not really. I have good moments, but is everyone else struggling with this? A weariness of our personality or character.
    ijapa ijapa 31-35, F 12 Responses Aug 20

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