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I Need to Feel Loved and Appreciated

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    I'm so afraid I will never be cared

    for by a man, he's never considered any of my nerds. Even after surgery.
    Wantfreedom67 Wantfreedom67 46-50, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have this 6 year relationship with this guy

    and we fight almost everyday for 5 years now. Crazy right? We broke up several times already but decides to continue the relationship again after a few weeks. And now, we're on a bumpy ride again. My friends told me that it seems like teasing me to death or seeing my really...
    itsJulia itsJulia 18-21, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    somehow I just feel rejected all the time.

    Don't know if I'm being overly sensitive or everyone is really rejecting me? )-:
    jnnfrr jnnfrr 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    angemil angemil 46-50, F 10 Responses Jul 25

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    I just separted from my husband of 12 years.

    He said he loved me but he never showed me. I did everything for him and I got nothing in return. Now I want to meet someone who will LOVE me and appreciate me for what I have to offer. I want to be in love with my best friend. I have alot to offer him.
    LookingforLove63 LookingforLove63 51-55, F 14 Responses Jul 23

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    Most of my life I have lived alone,

    been alone, a solitary existence. I am complete as a man. But i am not enough, my true self needs more. A man is just a shell, a vessel, a mode of transport. A soul needs more. A soul needs life. A soul needs lessons. A soul needs experience. A soul needs to teach. A soul needs...
    URSTILLTHEONLYONE URSTILLTHEONLYONE 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 5

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    I lost my boyfriend of 5 years a few months ago

    and I have never felt more alone. It was my fault but it was his too. As much as he annoyed me he was always by my side I was never alone he was my best friend and now I have nothing. I have pushed out everyone in my life I talk to no one. I self harm and it's getting worse. I...
    SecretSpirit SecretSpirit 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 18

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    For those of you who are sad .

    . For those who are Lonely For those whose hearts are on the floor Believe you will be happy again 7 mths ago I was left broken hearted by someone I loved too much who was abusive and destroyed me as a person Remind yourself that life is truly the moment and that life never...
    kaymiu kaymiu 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 26

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    I genuinely don't love myself.

    I mean I put on a facade and try like everyone else. But I don't, not really. I have good moments, but is everyone else struggling with this? A weariness of our personality or character.
    ijapa ijapa 31-35, F 11 Responses Aug 20

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    Feeling worthless and just down right unhappy.

    Fake friends is all I get offered. God please help me :(
    gratefulme gratefulme 22-25, F 9 Responses Sep 17

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    sometimes i get scared

    that nobody will care that much about me
    teechme teechme 70+, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I would give anything

    for one hug. <3
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 29

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    Hate when you give your heart to the one person

    who you believed to be your dream partner, best friend, soul mate but along the journey you start to notice the lack of appreciation and affection which makes you unhappy. No matter how many times your actions remind them how important they are in your life, they don't seem to...
    Donnyboy1993 Donnyboy1993 18-21, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I think this experience is my longing.

    I want to be loved and appreciated! Not just hearing it said to me but shown in actions. I love to have a conversation and get thought out feedback. My wife lacks in this. She has a closed mind to new truths or anything that doesn't parallel her views. As of late, we are doing a...
    Thediary Thediary 26-30, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Did you ever think that it is possible to sleep

    with someone without having a physical relation? Just laying there, talking for hours about how we feel, what we love, memories etc. Just enjoying to be with someone.
    PaleRaven PaleRaven 18-21, F 16 Responses a week ago

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    I hate catching feelings

    for someone and not knowing if they feel the same this **** always happens to me
    ariselena ariselena 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 27

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    Me and my boyfriend of a year

    and a half just recently broke up. I found out he cheated on me twice in the middle of our relationship and never had the guts to tell me. Well we've been in a rough patch and last night we got into a big fight because he left me with no where to go because we wanted to go smoke...
    keke23 keke23 16-17, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    From a question somebody posted today: Q: Give

    me ONE reason why you're worthy to be fought for? My answer: Because once I've made up my mind that I want you, I'll stick around through the tough parts. Because if you're honest with me and give me the information I need, I am willing to do anything in my power to help you...
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 10 Responses a week ago

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    I am currently going through a breakup

    and I am in so much pain. Just need some encouraging stories that I will live through this.
    nycwoman nycwoman 61-65, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    I am best friends with my crush am I want to

    tell her I like her but what if she dose not feel the same way. I always make her laugh and turn her bad days to good. She is funny smart and creative. She has a a great sense of humor.what should I do please help!!
    luisr1234 luisr1234 13-15, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    Why the hell would everyone leave me?

    I should be in class now but I don't want to study. What is it about me that people hated so much? What is it? Is it that I have to be dead before anyone notices me?
    Concerto Concerto 22-25, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    Just found out my husband has been sending very

    explicit messages to women on sex websight , and has a "secret relationship " with some woman from his past. Blindsided because I thought he was my angel. He literally saved me from a deadly relationship 4 years ago, and treated me like gold since for the first time in my life...
    toolonly toolonly 46-50, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Me and my boyfriend just broke up.

    I need help on how to stay strong. Move along, and I don't even know how to find someone new. I've been in a relationship so long every guy I know automatically sees me as unavailable I feel. And I know he's going to move on before me which hurts as well. It was a very abusive...
    keke23 keke23 16-17, F 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    I hate this feeling .

    My mom shows that she loves me and appreciates me but it's difficult when my father looks at me , yells at me, calls me names. I'm starting to hate life to the point where I want to self harm but I have enough strength not to.
    biancaa3 biancaa3 16-17, F 9 Responses Sep 22

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    i don't feel how i use to feel ,

    it's like i help and give my all to people who doesn't give me 50% back , i hate this .. my life is completely useful , .. and i dont know what to do anymore !!!
    AliseaBerry69 AliseaBerry69 18-21, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    I feel so sad and empty.

    I know what people has to say but i just cant stop feeling it. Its like im meant to be miserable..
    charlichan charlichan 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Hi!:) My name is Candice.

    I'm 14. I found myself in a very hard and difficult situation. I loved someone that didn't love me back. I met someone in 1st grade. We became best friends. Till this day we are still best friends. But he doesn't know that I have a huge crush on him. I want to feel closer to him...
    Candice321 Candice321 13-15, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    I just feel lost in a crowd.

    .. No one even misses me!!
    kimmy1073 kimmy1073 41-45, F 17 Responses 2 days ago

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    My fiancé is the perfect man

    and showers me with attention and compliments and he makes sure he shows me I'm his whole world. But somehow I still don't feel loved enough. This makes me clingy and available to his every need. I need to love and respect myself but I don't know how..
    Tessasanders Tessasanders 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    After giving 3.5 years of my life to someone

    who didn't appreciate my love for them and I was Earth that revolved around them, the Sun. I gave and gave. I need to feel loved and appreciated again badly.
    AnthonyBush AnthonyBush 36-40, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am a romantic person.

    I do believe in happy endings and fairy tale stories even if people don't. I do believe that one day I will find my prince charming. The problem is most guys I talk to are always after sexual things without love involved! Is it that hard to find someone who makes you feel loved...
    Brokenwing88 Brokenwing88 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 14

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    I need to be loved and appreciated.

    . We all do.. I need people who DO understand me.. who DON'T let me down. I need them .. but they also need me. ~~~~~~ Everyone feels unloved at some point ... why?! it has no use! Everyone is perfect on the inside, and thats all that matters in love right!! The inside matters...
    BeYourselfBeBeautifull BeYourselfBeBeautifull 16-17, F 12 Responses Sep 21

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    EleJahSun EleJahSun 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 22

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    And now I do... My mother was a drug addict

    when I was younger, so she really was never there for me. I had sex with 3 guys when I was 12 because they all seemed to really like me. It was only later I learned that I was the "ultimate prize" because I was cute, blond and white. Most the people in my neighborhood were...
    ElleRoberts94 ElleRoberts94 18-21, F 11 Responses May 28

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    Just broke up with my abusive ex.

    I've gotten spit on, food thrown at me, elbowed in the throat, thrown into a counter by my throat , lied to about him selling drugs behind my back, and called every name in the book. He also likes every girls picture on social media except mine and yelled at me when I would post...
    leaom22 leaom22 22-25, F 10 Responses Aug 16

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    I just want someone to stick with me no matter

    what happens. Someone I can talk to about the most random things ever, but also express my deepest thoughts. I wamt us to spend days and nights together as if we have no worries in the world. I want love, and be loved.
    hebrokemyheart99 hebrokemyheart99 13-15, F 7 Responses Aug 7

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    For the last two years I've been hungry,

    hungry for love hungry for someone to feel the same way as me. Where is that person. Do these people even exists?! Things in life get thrown at you, you take them and try to succeed.. Do you succeed to the amount you've wanted no? My answer no. Doing things alone becomes regular...
    rebecca1624 rebecca1624 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 23

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    Fanteyzhuh Fanteyzhuh 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 6

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    I give my heart and body to anybody

    who tells me I'm pretty in hopes that Sex will get them to stay. I know it's not healthy and that I end up heart broken Everytime. But I don't care. I'm not going to stop until somebody loves me back.
    jaleesa101 jaleesa101 16-17, F 10 Responses 3 days ago

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    No matter how "Busy" a person is,

    if they really care,they will always find the time for you......
    wvcountrylady wvcountrylady 51-55, F 16 Responses Jul 22

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    I realise that nothing changes

    until you change it. Nothing is better until you make it that way. There’s nothing you’re not responsible for. Just waiting around for something to happen, letting yourself hurt that wishing, hoping, praying for it to change, doesn’t always ensure that it will. Days are...
    kaymiu kaymiu 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    I am a Mom, Wife and daughter in law.

    I feel like i have more responsibilities. I am housewife, i work hard all day and no body appreciates. Just because i dont work outside, people think i am useless. I am feeling low
    preeti2012 preeti2012 26-30, F 5 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    I'm looking for a girl

    who loves me
    liljdswag liljdswag 13-15, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have been in a relationship

    for three years. I have been lied to and disrespected so many times, I have completely lost trust in this man. He says he cares, but don't actions speak louder than words? I am very angry over all of this and find it hard to believe anything he tells me, even the truth. We...
    jeniemari jeniemari 36-40, F 23 Responses Aug 20

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    I've always found myself less

    than attractive. I've never got attention from guys in school and seeing as that was the extent of my social life thats how I gauged myself. It didn't help that from a young age my conservative parents wouldn't allow me to wear certain things because I was "too big" I realize...
    CassieWithAnO CassieWithAnO 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I've always fantasized about

    that perfect life, perfect husband and perfect family. I'm only 18, I know, too young to be thinking about all of that but who doesn't think about love someday? I think about it almost everyday. I have dreams that I am in love, or that I met someone and instantly, we are in love...
    destiny0710 destiny0710 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have to tell you I woke this morning with you

    on my mind a deep hunger and desire and one thought running through my mind... I want you!!! I want your taste I want your skin to mine I want to feel you inside me deep thrusts.. I want your kiss I want and crave you!
    mylifeisamess90 mylifeisamess90 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    Would be an awesome experience

    if someone would tell that they were in love with me. Til then i keep faith that it will happen. I better pull out my "patience" card
    cjohnson1983 cjohnson1983 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 18

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    charlichan charlichan 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    So tired of you saying you love me.

    ., PROVE it to me!! I'm tired of the words.. Show me what ya got!
    HardAsNailz HardAsNailz 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 17

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    I'm so over being stuck

    and controlled in my lame *** relationship. Or shall I say relationshit.
    fukitwhocares fukitwhocares 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 23

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    It's hard not to have any family.

    No parents or siblings that care for you but it's worst to have a husband that knows you are all alone and only have him but yet neglects you and don't care about you.
    sweetiie25 sweetiie25 31-35, F 10 Responses Sep 22

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    I want love!!! Someone.

    .. I don't wanna look desperate. I just feel like no one loves me and I'll take what I can get as desperate as that sounds
    sadiegirl347 sadiegirl347 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 16

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