Post

I Need to Feel Loved and Appreciated

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 11,176 People

    My heart has been broken

    so many times and I never believed I would ever become a person I am today, no matter how hard I try it seems to never be good enough. I just want to be someone's everything, to feel loved back, is that seriously too much?
    hebrokemyheart99 hebrokemyheart99 13-15, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    angemil angemil 46-50, F 11 Responses 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Ok, I simply don't get this.

    First my boyfriend gets mad at me because I do not call him enough... Then I change things and my calls become frequent. After this he suddenly doesn't answer or return my calls...so I decided to stop calling...And then he's angry because he thinks I'm ignoring him... WHAT?! I...
    PauPolis PauPolis 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    How do I honestly come out

    and tell my boyfriend I don't feel appreciated in this relationship.? We've been through a lot and I had a miscarriage in 2012 and that really brought us closer but now things are kinda on and off. I'm tired of just being available when he wants me or when he's in trouble. I...
    jloves21 jloves21 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    ikasia ikasia 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I seek love from others

    because I have trouble loving myself
    guardian96 guardian96 18-21, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I expect that if i give 100% of effort in a

    relationship i expect that 100% effort back. I hate the fact that i gave my all and got nothing in return.
    mskaylee24 mskaylee24 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Most of the time, she doesn't want to know

    if she's beautiful to the world. She just wants to know that she's beautiful to you.
    Lexi2014 Lexi2014 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 17

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My boyfriend doesn't look at me

    when he says he loves me
    Whattodo00 Whattodo00 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 12

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm extremely successful in my profession

    but I've allowed caring for my loved ones to bring me to the brink of financial disaster.
    RamGossip RamGossip 36-40, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    In my past I've been married,

    widowed, and being single mom for two children. After two year of being alone I feel sad and get jealous seeing a couple so I love with each other. I missing the feeling of being In love, being loved and being cared. That was amazing feeling and you can't imagine what kind...
    Redrose28 Redrose28 26-30, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I just separted from my husband of 12 years.

    He said he loved me but he never showed me. I did everything for him and I got nothing in return. Now I want to meet someone who will LOVE me and appreciate me for what I have to offer. I want to be in love with my best friend. I have alot to offer him.
    LookingforLove63 LookingforLove63 51-55, F 12 Responses a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm so afraid that I'm going to die alone.

    Haven't been in a relationship in about 5 years, and I don't get out much because I have to keep an eye on my 45 year old brother who is kinda slow. He is the only family I have left since my moms passing last year. I'm beyond lonely and feel myself slipping into a...
    whodouwantit2be whodouwantit2be 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 22

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I wish I could get into the minds of the people

    around me so I could understand what they think of me. Why do they not initiate conversations with me? Do I annoy them? Do I talk too much? Am I really that unattractive? Do I wear too much make-up? Is there just nothing special? Why is it that lately, I only seem to...
    harhailija harhailija 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Ugly Breakdown

    just got out of a 3 month relationship. to be honest he was a better friend than boyfriend, but he cheated on me. now we are broke up and he is already in another relationship while im still trying to get over him. this isnt fair- not even close. 
    ayannamay ayannamay 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 25, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I have been diagnosed with depression

    and anxiety. I went through basically my whole life not even knowing what I was doing here. I don't have friends. I don't know what it's like to have friends. The only person I can turn to is my boyfriend, even though sometimes that's difficult. We have a bumpy relationship...
    beccysamantha beccysamantha 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I have to tell you I woke this morning with you

    on my mind a deep hunger and desire and one thought running through my mind... I want you!!! I want your taste I want your skin to mine I want to feel you inside me deep thrusts.. I want your kiss I want and crave you!
    IgnoredConsistently IgnoredConsistently 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 19

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I don't mean to be told by words

    but by you being in my presence is enough.
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Me & my boyfriend have been together

    for two years going on 3 in November. We have truly been through a lot and I care and love him with all my heart. He's recently just gotten out of jail yesterday and when he got out I didn't see him at all but I was the one visiting him and putting money on his books. Now I had...
    jloves21 jloves21 18-21, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm in love with this girl

    but she seems so distant when I texted her or even send messages on facebook, she doesn't even reply. Oh what would I do? She's 22 years old and I'm 29.
    therunnerkidinside therunnerkidinside 26-30, M 6 Responses 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    i'm really sick of being alone ,

    unwanted most of the time , i hate this feeling ... i feel rejected , unloved , forsaken by everyone , no one ever appreciated me or loved me , i stand for myself most of the time unlike others who get the support of their friends , I just need to feel loved like anyone...
    izaacgrin izaacgrin 18-21, M 9 Responses Jul 22

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I feel like my parter

    and I are complete strangers when going thru a struggle and things get rough, my concern is shouldn't we be able to be closer and more willing to come to each other in these situations??
    AngelaV1988 AngelaV1988 26-30, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I am hurted by love .

    .me and my boyfriend love each other , but some things have happened in past that we cannot forget and we can't get back the trust. We both keep getting hurt:(
    katyte katyte 16-17, F 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I want to love a girl unconditionally.

    I want to be able to make her feel special, loved, cared for and beautiful. I want to make her feel precious and like a queen. I want to be able to be in a healthy stable and loving relationship for once. I'm tired of heartbreak, tired of being cheated on and tired of being lead...
    Winbu Winbu 16-17, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Feeling absolutely miserable.

    So sick of being alone. Just can't take it anymore. Just want to meet a girl, yet can't seem to. I'm tired. Want it to end.
    Nightshade777 Nightshade777 31-35, M 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Worst thing ever is to love a girl

    so much and be nice too much then she dump you for a stupid reason
    ahmedtarek11 ahmedtarek11 16-17, M 1 Response 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    So here i am laying in bed with my daughter.

    .my son sleeping calmly in his room and me crying again... My husband outside with his stupid friends not even giving me the slightest attention he works out of town and lives with his friebd in gis old hone town only comes home on weekends and im suppose to just stay here alone...
    paola04414 paola04414 18-21, F 10 Responses Jul 11

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I ache to make someone happy.

    I ache to make a Girl feel special and worth it. I ache to make a woman feel like she is precious and loved. I want to do that.. I want to make a woman feel like she is worth it. I want to make her blush, smile and squirm all at the same time. I want her to feel worth it. I want...
    Winbu Winbu 16-17, M 11 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I am raging right now.

    I feel so ignored sometimes. Every time I do something nice, no one cares. I don't expect a million dollars or anything. Just a "thank you" would be enough. I have been an honor roll student every semester this year but my parents do not care at all. When I work hard and do...
    Thinsomniac Thinsomniac 13-15, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Names I get called Psycho Crazy Fat cow Cry

    baby ***** Psychotic Redneck Stupid Stupid *** Retard Moron Annoying Piece of crap Loud POSITIVE ONES??? I got called awesome once when I paid for the majority of a lawn mower. ---- Can't remember the last time he kissed me, held my hand, hugged me (genuinely, like he wasn't...
    Bagshavefeelings Bagshavefeelings 31-35, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I don't need it but it's a great feeling to get

    from another person you might like or have. But some times I wish I didn't want to feel loved ... Some times it's to much of a heart ache
    rico20989 rico20989 22-25, M 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I mean I want a relationship

    but then again I don't ? I believe I may be afraid to commit to someone being in love hurts so much
    lilasofargone lilasofargone 18-21, F 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    And now I do... My mother was a drug addict

    when I was younger, so she really was never there for me. I had sex with 3 guys when I was 12 because they all seemed to really like me. It was only later I learned that I was the "ultimate prize" because I was cute, blond and white. Most the people in my neighborhood were...
    ElleRoberts94 ElleRoberts94 18-21, F 9 Responses May 28

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Imperative

    God, yes. I not only need to be loved and appreciated, I need to feel it. It takes far too much energy to pretend that I don't. I can't go on feeling like this anymore. It's honestly killing me.I have come to the truthful realization that I have never been truly close to anyone...
    DustToAshes DustToAshes 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 19, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel
    january71 january71 46-50, F 9 Responses Feb 20

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I really do. Right now I'm living a very sad

    episode in my life. I need to feel loved and to love a woman. Wish there was someone...
    CoolDad59 CoolDad59 51-55, M Apr 26

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I dońt know how to describe my feelings

    but all i want is to disappear from this life , i never succeed in anything ...i couldnt succeed to find love, having a good job, being appreciated by people.....nothing is going good for me and even god doesnt answer my pray !
    nadyan nadyan 31-35, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    we all need **** in life,

    but truth is. its probably not gonna happen for you. its best to make peace with it early and start living a normal life where you work and have hobbies and f uck some random chick every so often. woman lie and thats not gonna change spare yourself the drama
    Atromitos Atromitos 31-35 1 Response 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Several years ago, I went to a friends bday

    party! And a cute girl in our clique of friends surprised me that day when her mom came to drop her off and she said "oh you must be Jacob! our daughter has told us all about you!" In a rather happy remark. I thought this was a good thing and began to develop a crush on her...
    Jshangle64 Jshangle64 18-21, M 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Saraphina21 Saraphina21 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14

    Your Response

    Cancel

    No matter how "Busy" a person is,

    if they really care,they will always find the time for you......
    wvcountrylady wvcountrylady 51-55, F 17 Responses Jul 22

    Your Response

    Cancel

    If I'm going to be honest,

    I give my love away too easily. I look at random strangers and send my love to them, because I want them to know that I care about what they're going through. I can love others easily, but I don't leave any love for myself. I hate myself. I'm literally so desperate to find...
    eloquentshadow eloquentshadow 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 25

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm five months pregnant

    and I've never felt more alone in this. My partner uses affection like a weapon. If I'm not absolutely perfect I'm punished with silence. I haven't been hugged or kissed in so long that even if he attempted to touch me it would be weird. Sex is supposed to bring us together yet...
    PoeticFear87 PoeticFear87 26-30, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My boyfriend's been playing these mind games

    with me lately, which I don't have time for, but he purposely doing things that he knows make me upset and thinking that I don't know, which I find very immature. He also hasn't texted me for 2 days which is not like him because we talk everyday. I am getting very fed up with...
    laxlife laxlife 16-17, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Why cant I have the best dad in the world

    where I can be proud and say I really do have the best dad!!! 😞😞😞
    ymlove365 ymlove365 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    katyte katyte 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Getting compliments is about the only thing

    that makes me feel really good about myself. It doesn't happen that often, but when someone is talking to me and they genuinely come out and compliment me like, "You're nice and you're so sweet," I mean damn, it just puts me over the moon when I usually feel really down about...
    StokesQuirky StokesQuirky 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 8

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm not over it yet. It's kind

    if pathetic at this point. I used to be on experience project and then I left but now I'm back. I'm intensely depressed over a guy again. My ex is the first guy who I can say affected me this way. Like he's broken my heart time and time again and somehow I get sucked back into...
    NoMoreTearsToni NoMoreTearsToni 18-21, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I don't think my boyfriend feels the same about

    me even though he's always been there to help me at hard times.
    Melrosie Melrosie 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I got pregnant after living with a guy

    for 2 months. He quit having sex with me except once every 3 months or so....quit helping with chores....and now barely helps with baby. He works overtime and even on his days off he is glued to TV or his phone and never any time for his new family. He took me on one date for my...
    dimpledeana dimpledeana 31-35, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm a simple 15 year old guy

    who thought suicide would prevent him from seeing his 16th birthday. I went into a new school system for the 9th grade. New school new people, the new kid on the block. I fit in well. I played football and 3 weeks into school I was concussed. It was a major set back in school...
    nobleman1341 nobleman1341 13-15, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My insides hurt... I smoke weed everyday.

    Sometimes I feel I base my day on it because nothing is fun anymore. My girlfriend and I broke up, I have friends who don't understand me and actually listen to me, I've never opened up to my parents. I know it have control of many things in my life, but I want to be successful...
    leocario28 leocario28 18-21, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Love Tank Is Empty

    I have been without the warming and fulfilling feeling from a caring woman's touch for so long. I have now been separated from my wife for nearly 7 months now, but that drought of physical touch and caress has been absent for far longer that that. She never was able to care...
    Passionateheartman Passionateheartman 46-50, M 4 Responses May 8, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel