I Need To Find The Balance

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    I Need To Find The Balance...

    ...now that is the understatement of the new millenium. I'm not sure I ever had any. Maybe a bit at some points here and there but I think, generally, not too much. I get bored easily. I can't sit still for long. Always looking for something new. Everything always seems so...
    MyLucidDream MyLucidDream
    70+
    10 Responses Aug 25, 2010

    On The Tip Of The Needle

    between my heart and mind among my choleric, phlegmatic, melancholic and sanguine traits :) my foods my private and public life i believe in yin and yang *the title is as a monk put it on his book*
    uliftmeup uliftmeup
    36-40, F
    Jun 3, 2010

    This Is The Time Of My Life

    Some time ago, I felt that I needed a balance. I couldn't handle the stress of living in a society where everyone expects something of you and you are bound to live by their demands. One day, I decided to think for myself instead of how others are perceiving me. I told myself why...
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 7, 2011

    Balance Sheet Of Life

    "Our Birth is our Opening Balance! Our Death is our Closing Balance! Our Prejudiced Views are our Liabilities. Our Creative Ideas are our Assets. Heart is our Current Asset. Soul is our Fixed Asset. Brain is our Fixed Deposit. Thinking is our Current Account. Achievements are...
    cheeco cheeco
    26-30, F
    Apr 11, 2012

    Like Catching Steam

    The same feeling. When I wake up in the morning, before I fall asleep, when I have a quiet few moments to think. The feeling that something just isn't right.I'm happy. I'm in the middle of my teenage life, and I've put up with more than I'm comfortable with during those years...
    ImaginedTherapy ImaginedTherapy
    18-21, F
    Sep 20, 2011

    Balance

    I need to relax and not psych myself out as much BUT I can't keep up with this procrastination either or I will never be successful.
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick
    22-25
    4 Responses Sep 7, 2010

    Tip Tip Tip

    This is so hard, most of the time I feel like Im going nowhere. But iam a fighter, what else am I to do? Anyone got any balancing tips? lol. Oooh, does anyone know how to meditate? apparently thats the best way to find balance.
    MushroomFaerie148 MushroomFaerie148
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 19, 2010

    It's Hard

    With all the responsibilities and tasks,
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Apr 26, 2010

    "How can you mix fire

    and water?" the Fool finally whispers. Never pausing the Angel answers, "You must have the right vessels and use the right proportions." The Fool watches with wonder. "Can this be done with all opposites?" he asks. "Indeed," the Angel replies, "Any oppositions, fire and water...
    wingedjaguar wingedjaguar
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Jun 16, 2015

    Fear & Trust

    I find it very difficult to find the balance between fear and trust..... I mean I have a past and people were not always the most trustworthy and they hurt me in various ways, and I know trust is the basis of a loving relationship, but sometimes through all youve been through it...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response May 15, 2012

    Temptations

    *whacks temptations*
    Sylphy Sylphy
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jul 10, 2012

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