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I Need To Find The Balance

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    Inclination

    She fought the urge to clear the ground. To look out and see nothing. She knew her stillness would intensify if she waited. She had to release fear. Even though its columns were consuming the edges of her mind. Possessing like a spark behind her eyes. The glimmer of silent...
    SilentBluemoon SilentBluemoon 36-40, F Oct 26, 2013

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    Thoughts As They Came...

    An odd thing. I don't know what it is. Just a strange feeling. When I close my eyes, I see it. I can feel it. It's there, in my minds eye. Like a vision of sorts. A wall. It's in front of me. Cold and tall. Cement blocks. Cold and gray. I turn, there is another. I look and...
    Wakanpyro Wakanpyro 46-50, M 3 Responses Oct 4, 2010

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    Balance

    I need to relax and not psych myself out as much BUT I can't keep up with this procrastination either or I will never be successful.
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 7, 2010

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    I Need To Find The Balance...

    ...now that is the understatement of the new millenium. I'm not sure I ever had any. Maybe a bit at some points here and there but I think, generally, not too much. I get bored easily. I can't sit still for long. Always looking for something new. Everything always seems so...
    MyLucidDream MyLucidDream 70+ 10 Responses Aug 25, 2010

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    On The Tip Of The Needle

    between my heart and mind among my choleric, phlegmatic, melancholic and sanguine traits :) my foods my private and public life i believe in yin and yang *the title is as a monk put it on his book*
    uliftmeup uliftmeup 36-40, F Jun 3, 2010

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    Fear & Trust

    I find it very difficult to find the balance between fear and trust..... I mean I have a past and people were not always the most trustworthy and they hurt me in various ways, and I know trust is the basis of a loving relationship, but sometimes through all youve been through it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 15, 2012

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    Temptations

    *whacks temptations*
    Sylphy Sylphy 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 10, 2012

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    Tip Tip Tip

    This is so hard, most of the time I feel like Im going nowhere. But iam a fighter, what else am I to do? Anyone got any balancing tips? lol. Oooh, does anyone know how to meditate? apparently thats the best way to find balance.
    MushroomFaerie148 MushroomFaerie148 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 19, 2010

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    This Is The Time Of My Life

    Some time ago, I felt that I needed a balance. I couldn't handle the stress of living in a society where everyone expects something of you and you are bound to live by their demands. One day, I decided to think for myself instead of how others are perceiving me. I told myself why...
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 7, 2011

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    It's Hard

    With all the responsibilities and tasks,
    LordVoldemort LordVoldemort 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 26, 2010

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    Like Catching Steam

    The same feeling. When I wake up in the morning, before I fall asleep, when I have a quiet few moments to think. The feeling that something just isn't right.I'm happy. I'm in the middle of my teenage life, and I've put up with more than I'm comfortable with during those years...
    ImaginedTherapy ImaginedTherapy 18-21, F Sep 20, 2011

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    Balance Sheet Of Life

    "Our Birth is our Opening Balance! Our Death is our Closing Balance! Our Prejudiced Views are our Liabilities. Our Creative Ideas are our Assets. Heart is our Current Asset. Soul is our Fixed Asset. Brain is our Fixed Deposit. Thinking is our Current Account. Achievements are...
    cheeco cheeco 26-30, F Apr 11, 2012

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