I Need to Find the Strength to Leave Him

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    Finding The Strength

    I dont know what to do so here I am writing this..... I have been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years and it's been a long 2 1/2 years. Things got off to a rocky start, he was using drugs but I of course was drawn to that because here was a new project, let me fix him. He did stop...
    cadet29 cadet29
    1 Response Nov 25, 2011

    3rd Times The Charm?

    My bf and I have been on and off for 5 years. This is our third time getting back together. We've been consistently dating for 2.5 years now. I'm 22 and about to graduate college. Marriage is often toyed around with but not expected for a couple more years. Obviously since we've...
    Avanna Avanna
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 1, 2012

    This really sucks. Being in a bad relationship

    has been THE most taxing and draining experience of my entire life. As we speak, I HATE HIM and I am also still in love. Maybe what I'm still in love with is the thought of him. Things were so good in the beginning and then the cycle of abuse began. You do NOT want to believe...
    SinginGlamChick85 SinginGlamChick85
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 14, 2014

    Love Gone Bad

    I've known my husband since we were 10 yrs old. We lost our innocence to eachother were having our first child now. He had been my first for everything. He's changed, he'll say very hurtful things you can't take back. He's made me cry so many times! But he can make me happy when...
    Screwmen Screwmen
    Aug 3, 2012

    Fed Up

    I feel silly writing this because I have witnessed so many women go through so much worse, my mother in fact had a life of hell with my father that I witnessed and helped her get through. But it seems like as I am growing and raising my children , the man that I love is incapable...
    jessicacbarone jessicacbarone
    2 Responses May 4, 2011

    When I do something he does not like I feel

    like I get punished. He can be extremely cruel beyond what most can wrap their brain around. I never get an apology. Its usually blamed on how I made him do it, or I took it wrong. If I do not buy into his lack of accountability then it goes even more cruel into him pointing out...
    Imnotdillusional Imnotdillusional
    36-40, F
    Jun 14, 2014

    Just Hoping For the Strength

    I know its my fault, but I am so afraid to be by myself. I wish I had the strength to leave him, he belittles me and tells me the only man I would be able to have is either one who works at Burger King, or someone who is on sometype of government assistance. To me I can care less...
    identity identity
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Jul 21, 2008
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