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I Need to Fix My Life

You know that day when you wake up and everything wrong in your life, that you have tried to hide, comes to a point and you freeze. Where do you start, do I have to do this on my own. 300 People

    I Feel Hopeless

    I was widowed at 23 (13 years ago) and married a man with 2 teenagers. My marriage had its ups and downs but I never gave up. The troublesome teens got married... Then my life took a turn for the worst. We are at a stage now that my hubby and I dont touch or talk to each...
    aluha2u aluha2u 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 22, 2011

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    How My Wife Address Our Son

    From all the previous posts I have placed about they joy, joy of my marriage now my wife has drawn our son into her drama. I was changing our son on the floor like I usually do. He's at that age that he doesn't want to sit still. She was walking by and he lifted his head...
    j21043 j21043 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 17, 2012

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    I'm Stuck In This Rut And Can't Seem To Get Out...

    Hello guys. So I google searched, "how to fix my life" and I found this, and thought, Well Why not. So here's my story... Ever since I was little I've had problems with being sick all of the time. I would miss school a lot, and even failed the fourth grade because it, and...
    everythingisnotasitseems everythingisnotasitseems 18-21, F 1 Response May 26, 2012

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    I have a feeling this title might be used a lot

    by me in my life. Lol. Anyways everyday I wake up and it's a tottering balance of can I make myself happy today. I'm basically unhappy everyday from the start but I try. I think what can I do to make myself happy. I might have a shower. I'll have make some breakfast. But I am...
    angel510 angel510 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 11, 2013

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    Am I The Only One Out There Who Feels The Way I Do...

    I stumbled across this page because I am desperate for help & guidance from anyone out there who understands the way I am! I am so stuck & constantly feel like I'm at a dead end in my life! I hate the way I am & can't stop the way way I think or feel although I keep trying. I am...
    Destiny89 Destiny89 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 20, 2012

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    We Made It Home......o' Goodie

    So after the weekend from he** we made it home and we have power. The house was still cooling off. Talking to the neighbors we must have gotten power back sometime that morning. So we were without power for Friday night through Monday morning sometime in the middle...
    j21043 j21043 31-35, M Jul 4, 2012

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    What Happened

    I moved to Indiana from Massachusetts a few years back and everything was great. I started high school made friends easy played baseball had plenty of girls had a 4.0 honestly couldn't have been better until senior year. My dad lost his job but honestly my family was growing...
    darrmill darrmill 18-21 Apr 11, 2013

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    What Happens

    What happened to what everyone said I would be? I do not have anyone. Can that actually be? I froze to much in the past. Letting people tell me I could not do that. To much time has passed. But, now I know I can do that.
    Howr Howr 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 30, 2012

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    I Don't Know What The Answer Is

    I married a wonderful woman about a year and a half ago. We didn't have a lot of money so we did a low key wedding where it was pretty much the two of us. My parents ended up coming as well. A few months later we were able to go on a honeymoon and my mother took care of our...
    j21043 j21043 31-35, M 6 Responses May 14, 2011

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    I Need To Change

    I am so unhappy with myself. So totally and completely unhappy with my life and the way i live it..those of you reading this, please continue to read and then leave your comments below...i am desperate for advice and some sort of guidance. I just dont know what to do..thats my...
    redtoshiba redtoshiba 18-21, F 4 Responses May 6, 2012

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    Confussed

    Where to begin? As a little girl I have always wanted to be be mom and a wife. Well I got my wish, and got some beautiful daughters out of the first one. I also got alot of headaches and heartaches. Hubby thought working from 2-10 wasn't good enough he had to have after work...
    brighteyes18 brighteyes18 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 3, 2010

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    Broken Beyond Repair?

    A lot of times i think I'm just a broken appliance, broken beyond reasonable repair, i'm completely unsocial and every time I try to be it just gets too awkward. The horrible things I've seen in this world have made me not feel safe anymore, not even in my own house. The times...
    extremelysociallyawkwardguy extremelysociallyawkwardguy 13-15, M Sep 27, 2013

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    I Need Help

    ok, this is my first story here. where to begin.. im 20 years old. fell in love at 15 moved out on my own at 16. cheated on the person im in love with . after 3 years. we broke up. then i got in another relationship. things were good. until i backed away because im still in love...
    booja32504 booja32504 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 9, 2012

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    I'm 60 Years Old - Are You About The Same Age - Do You Feel Like A Failure?

    I'm 60 years old. I want to talk to people approx the same age as me about feelings of failure, needing to start over, and not liking myself. I used to be good and feel good. Now, I feel like a bad person. I ruined my own marriage, and I don't feel confident about meeting a...
    lynn1954 lynn1954 56-60, F 1 Response Oct 23, 2013

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    I Desperately Need To Run Away- NOW!

    I have got to get the hell out of my house! I love and adore my kids, and do my love my husband in my own way, but have not been in love with him for a very long time. It breaks my heart that I am living this way, but every time I have tried to leave, he guilts me back into...
    brokenwoman13 brokenwoman13 31-35, F 6 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    Bigger Problems... But Here It Is

    I know there are bigger issues in life and i should not be complaining but here it is... My dad owns is own business and my mom has always been in the restaurant business and I had always attended "friends" private schools and have been doing community service since i was 5. I...
    forthelifeofme forthelifeofme 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2012

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    I Am A Horrible Provider To My Wife....who Would Have Thought

    So my wife, son and I went to Rehobeth beach this weekend and stayed with my in-laws. My brother-in-laws parents (not my wife's parents) have a trailer home at the beach. I made the comment over lunch of "I wonder what that would cost a month?". This started a trailer...
    j21043 j21043 31-35, M 1 Response May 28, 2012

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    Making It Work

    I need my relationship fixed. I met my boyfriend almost 3 years ago, I met him through His sister, who I've known for over 7 years. When wayne and I met, we hit it off great. Then things start happening, I learned about the unfaithfulness and the history of drug use. I hung in...
    Nurse2009 Nurse2009 41-45 Oct 2, 2012

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    My Horrible Lies

    my horrible lies:well to start off on a true note and to tell you what I have lied about goes a little bit like this...all true by the way...I quit school @ 17 I readily joined the military but I was not ready for the military so I came back home after a couple months and trained...
    1 Response Jan 20, 2013

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    Never Did This Before

    So I am currently sitting at home doing none of the things I should. I lost my father 6 months ago but it feels like yesterday. He was my best friend and the one person who truly knew me and still loved me. I know that I have let his death effect the way I am behaving. My...
    Lostnobody Lostnobody 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 27, 2013

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    My Life , My Journey , My Future !!!

    Using the words I recorded in journals and notebooks I kept as a young girl, I bare my soul by sharing my own personal struggles, using them to offer young women real and heartfelt advice about sex, relationships, motherhood and growing up. I want to share my story to the world...
    reedjoyce28 reedjoyce28 26-30 Sep 23, 2012

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    I Feel So Stuck...

    I don't know where to start really... My childhood wasn't perfect... Some people had it worse, I know. Money-wise, I never really had much of a start. I lived with my Grandmother for most of my life, and she didn't make much money, so whatever I made was my contribution. I was...
    waterbaby waterbaby 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 20, 2011

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    I'm just so messed up.

    I struggle with people, school, and even waking up on time. I really want to do well so I can contribute but I keep falling short.
    IAimForHonor IAimForHonor 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 16

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    Help......i Don't Know How To Get Out.

    OK, I hope somebody can help me or at least give me some advice. My story is not quite as bad as anybody else but It it a predicament I can't seem to get out of or even know where to begin.....actually let's start from the beginning . I was 19 and a total pot head I had just...
    coops291 coops291 18-21 2 Responses Jan 7, 2013

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    Responsibility? What's That?

    I could list all the excuses I have for being where I am today. But that solves nothing. The truth is I just never gave a damn. And I always had family or friends to fall back on. I don't want to be this person anymore. I want more for my life. And one day I want to have a family...
    LittleMissRee LittleMissRee 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 20, 2010

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    i need to fix my life .

    .. no i want to , but i cant i try so hard to be happy and get better grades and try to get my mom to love me like she loves my sisters but its not working .... everytime i start to get happy and start liking myself something bad happens or my dad hits me
    JeSt0099 JeSt0099 13-15, F Mar 4

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    I Dont Know What Has Happened To The Old Me

    Ive had some bumps in the road growing up, some abuse in the family, friends passing away when I was kind of young, dropped out of high school, etc. But beside those set backs I have always been a hard charger. I was working 2 jobs, going to college, working out a few times a...
    c1990b c1990b 22-25, M May 13, 2013

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    How Does One Life?

    I'm about to be 22 in a few days and I have accomplished nothing in my life.I do, pretty much, the same things everyday - nothing. My family doesn't really make much money and I don't I'm currently in college as a Studio Art major and want to change it desperately. I love art...
    idekb idekb 22-25 1 Response May 28, 2012

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    How Did I Get Here?

    Third divorce. Really? Wow. I just left my ex-husband after he sent me to the hospital. I'm now living with my sister with my three youngest children. I lost my mother 22 months ago, and my father 11 months ago. I feel as though my world is crumbling beneath my feet, and I'm...
    mysticnight69 mysticnight69 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 12, 2012

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    My precious 21 year old son died by suicide 4

    years ago last week, I have a daughter now 19 with an almost 1 year old granddaughter with a deadbeat dad, my daughter and gdaughter live with us and "dad" lives 600 miles away. I can't lose them. I am in hell with bankruptcy (due to crazy tax debt, and mistakes made before and...
    HANNUMPBS HANNUMPBS 51-55, F 3 days ago

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    Worthless Use Of Air And Space.

    My life for the most part has been one big screw up after another and then worrying myself sick trying to fix it.I became disabled then started to COLLEGE THROUGH vOC REHAB BUT THAT WASNT GOOD ENOUGH i HAD TO ALSO GET STUDENT LOANS. This past semester I failed all my classes...
    ctm31024 ctm31024 51-55, F 4 Responses May 22, 2012

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    I Am In Love With Another Man, And Can't Walk Away

    I have slowly but surely fallen in love with a man that is the complete opposite of my husband. He's a very dominant male, very decisive, very confident, very aggressive, and a workaholic like myself. His intelligence, attitude and demeanor is what constantly attracts me to him...
    brokenwoman13 brokenwoman13 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 23, 2013

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    I Don'T Know What To Do Anymore.

    I have been trying very hard to keep things together for my children and myself, but I can't do it anymore. For some reason I just cant get things to go okay for us. I had lived with my sister for 7 years with my 2 kids and her 2 kids. We ended up getting evicted because we...
    kyanna012 kyanna012 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 29, 2013

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    I'm In My Own Waay

    It just seems like the more I try to accomplish the more things stay the same.  I have made many positive changes over the past year or so....but right now I just feel I am stuck in a rut.  I am in a relationship rut, financial rut, social life rut, job rut, mommy rut...
    TheBestIsYet2Come TheBestIsYet2Come 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 10, 2010

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    I fell asleep at 6:00pm

    and woke up at 8:00pm, so for about a half an hour I thought it was morning till I realized it wasn't getting any lighter outside.... I need to learn the difference between am and pm hahahah
    Tawni187 Tawni187 13-15, F Jan 5

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    I'm So Overwhelmed And Depressed, A Thousand Failed Attempts To Fix My Life, A Downhill Depression, A Long Story

    I don't know why I'm doing this, I just googled "how to fix my life" cuz I'm sitting here in my bedroom just depressed and overwhelmed.  I have so many things to do and I'm not doing them, and I can't seem to get myself to do anything productive.  I want so bad to be productive...
    benjaminelway benjaminelway 22-25, M 3 Responses May 1, 2012

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    hey my name shicha I live in uk nearly one year

    I have a lot of happy day and happy life in here but today it's not gonna be like that anymore my family thought I kick out from uni and didn't go to class and do some drug I told them and prove to them already that Im not be like that but it's doesn't mean anything to them what...
    shichaa shichaa 18-21, F a week ago

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    And So It Is...

    I literally never thought my life would turn out just like this. I've suffered from experiences such as sexual abuse as a child, drug and alcohol dependency, being co-dependent, psychological issues and a personality disorder, love, loss and more loss.. But my grades were always...
    gwenme gwenme 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 4, 2012

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    This Is the First Day of the Rest of My Life

    I am 25 years old, male, and really hope this works. I have been living the past 5 years of my life on a path of self-destruction. I am my own worst enemy and have this built in desire for everything I know is wrong. I want to fix who I am and get back to the decent person I...
    RR5 RR5 22-25 11 Responses Oct 30, 2008

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    My Mom Is Soooooo Mean To My Wife

    So this evenings hour long phone call at work. The complaint section of the call. It rained really bad here today. My mom was watching my son until my wife got home, as usual. The dog needed to go out. My mom let my wife know when she got in. My wife said she'll do it...
    j21043 j21043 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 2, 2012

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    Where Do I Go....

    Where do I go from here? Im 28 and feel like i have done nothing in my life. I joined the Army straight out of High School. I've deployed to Iraq and Afghanistan and done many things with the Army, yet i feel so empty. Now I'm out of the Army trying to start a normal life. But...
    speakezy019 speakezy019 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 4, 2012

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    Everything Seems Broken...

    I hate my job - but I make too much money to quit and do something I like - too many people counting on me I hate my kids - really, I love them, but they definitely hate me and it is so frustrating - I'd settle for a little respect once in a while I...
    soveryexhausted soveryexhausted 36-40 4 Responses Feb 1, 2012

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    Trying So Hard.

    I'm trying and trying. But where have I gotten so far? I beat depression once and I'm trying to get it all back together now. I'm trying really hard to go on and leave all of that behind. But it's a long story and it has a lot of pain involved. I can be a great person. I just...
    bluecupcakes bluecupcakes 18-21, F Dec 27, 2012

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    49 And Drained

    life is slowing draining out of me and don't know how to stop it.
    nanjo6 nanjo6 46-50 2 Responses Nov 11, 2011

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    Me In A Nut Shell

    I am a 33 year old, single mother of 4.  I grew up in a abusive home.  Because of that, I spent most of my life trying to fill the void I had. I have been married and divorsed twice, all 4 of my childern have different fathers, I never finished high school, or got my GED. My...
    bella1245 bella1245 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 9, 2011

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    I Need To Fix My Life

    i need to fix my life. As i write this, i feel so very very depressed and disheartened by everything..the sad thing is, nothing monumental is wrong with my life.. i have everything i need but im still depressed because im not happy with myself..i feel so ashamed of myself. there...
    redtoshiba redtoshiba 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 7, 2012

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    im tired of living in my predicament, i suck at school, which im uncertain that i will remain in, i've been in college for two years now, i've had nothing but grief here, i barely...
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