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I Need to Get a Life

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    Need to Get a Life!!!

    i really need to get a life!!i mean im a loner and sit in the house all the time, apart from when i go to work or go to the gym!! i sometimes on my days off from work, just go into town, and head for a coffee shop, and read the newspapers and drink coffee and have a sandwich...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 12 Responses Jun 2, 2009

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    Yes there are so many male ...

    Yes there are so many male suitors asking if i fool around on my husband, and since he is gay I geuss it's a good chance that I need to get a life
    elvirus elvirus 46-50, F Mar 30, 2008

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    Try Harder!!

    I spend so much time on here, it's unbelieveable and just spells that I need a life, seriously. I'll have to try harder with my social life!!
    Luangi Luangi 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 25, 2007

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    Need A Life Badly..

    Forward i do i think of my old relationships(not that i had many...) i wonder what those people are doing now... i think what if i would have done this, why did we break up, i still miss her.... im just so lonely... so depressed...but i cant go back... im 43 im getting old , i...
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M Sep 27, 2013

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    Dude. Yes. So much. I can't

    even describe how much I need to get a life. Well actually if I really wanted to I could describe it but I would end up embarrassing myself with the facts of my nonlife. :p If I lived alone I could become a serial killer, that's how much free time I'd have. o_o It's not like I'm...
    Friability Friability 18-21 2 Responses May 1

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    Makin' My Move

    Makin' my move,Yes,Need a life,None here,Movin' on,Greener pastures,I'm livin' again.
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 1 Response Apr 27, 2012

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    Need A Life

    Its hard trying to get up and Get A Life again when you are so use to being alone and staying home. The only time I feel like I have a life is when I am going to work. Come Friday I dont go out of my house, not because I dont want to, I just dont have anyone to go out with. I...
    Natjik Natjik 36-40 1 Response Mar 15, 2010

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    EBestest EBestest 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 25

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    Meetup.com

    There is a site I found a year ago. I've met some truly wonderful people and have been on a few interesting adventures because of it. Just go to meetup.com give a zip code or chose a city then look at the listings. I started kayaking because I found a group that was close to me...
    GoddessNakiBean GoddessNakiBean 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 30, 2008

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    Work-a-holic

    I work a lot, too much in fact. The problem is that I do love my job, and there is always more to be done. When I'm not working, I'm restless, I have to find something to work on, to occupy my time. I know I work too much because I see my friends only a few times a year...
    eyes eyes 31-35, F Oct 1, 2007

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    will be looking for a job,

    finding a different psychiatrist also, maybe get a life going on.. cannot continue on this way that I'm going... headed nowhere, need change soon. so those are my plans.
    beca0a1 beca0a1 26-30, F Jun 19

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    I Have to Add Something Positive to My World.

    I have had severe depression for many years.  Unfortunately, about 2 years ago in Nov., when my 51 year old brother committed suicide.  He was 2.5 yrs older and & still miss him so.  I turned to wine, and became an alchoholic.  I'm working with...
    KateW KateW 51-55, F Nov 24, 2007

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    Okay so this is a little far fetched,

    even for me. It's not that I don't feel like my existence is important. But today I had a weird burst of motivation, which is strange for me. I haven't been in the mood to do anything lately. I've been in this slump for over a year. Anxiety is my worst enemy, yet my biggest...
    Mrs1105 Mrs1105 18-21, F 2 Responses May 1

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    Thats What They Told Me But I Aleady Have One And Don't Want To Change

    i never go out i hate it! I'm the say at home boyfriend with 2 babies, they are so arable and cute and make me happier each day! my girlfrind works and parties most nights and so drunk, but i'm cool with it. i bake and cook junkfood all day for myself, i'm so hungry! I luv...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 16, 2013

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    Me Get a Life He Does Too

    man what a crazy day this fathers day was no one got along everyone was nagging at someone. I'm sitting getting lectured on fat burning pills and how I have to take them to help me rid of my weight quicker... Well I did not want to take my weight off to fast , I have been on my...
    GrannyGumps GrannyGumps 51-55, F Jun 17, 2007

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    My first kiss. The story never happened

    now go **** yourself while I resume my netflix and tumblr state of mind.
    GBulldog47 GBulldog47 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 9

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    Read The Label Before You Take

    When I was younger I went with my mom and my sisters to go camping. It was a nice day in the summer when I was sick but I still tried to enjoy myself. I wasn't allowed to take medicine, I could only take herbs and silver biotics " organic natural medicine". I was complaining...
    sillybritt sillybritt 18-21 Jan 19, 2013

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    A Bit of a Loser

    here i am on a weekend when i don't have my kids - they're at their dads. my boyfriend is away working this weekend, and i can't find one thing to do besides shop and spend money. i have no friends to do anything with, my phone in 48 hours has rung twice, both times for my son...
    prettyinpink prettyinpink 46-50, F 4 Responses Jun 2, 2007

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    I Doubt That I Ever Will

    I keep  thinking and I keep trying to change but I am stuck in a void why cant I get a life. I know I have one but its well I feel i should be doing more with it I have wonderful intentions , I think and plan but then poof its gone what a looser I am tonight
    GrannyGumps GrannyGumps 51-55, F Jun 27, 2007

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    Getting a Life

    I am a homebody, spend my time either on the computer, at work or listening to music. Until recently when I met a really nice guy who really hates for me to sit at home alone doing nothing. I went to  Festival this weekend, went on a boat ride in the bay and enjoyed a tour...
    icyfire icyfire 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 31, 2008

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    Mental Abuse Or What?

    Does this even quilfiy  who knows , today I have been acused of not  well lets say a realitive has always snubbed me who knows why she does it to all her husbands family friends who ever , I think she is that type who only wants who she wants in  their life, ...
    GrannyGumps GrannyGumps 51-55, F Jul 3, 2007

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    What Do You Do

    What do I do some days I'm thinking of starting a new life again the next I feel I'm to old and freeze out again , I MUST  do something good . I must do something for me that is so hard for me to do all i think about is doing for others or they need it before me I keep...
    GrannyGumps GrannyGumps 51-55, F Jun 16, 2007

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    OMG, do I ever! I have been pretty much

    sleeping the one I have away, for the past year now, literally... I had a psychotic breakdown around this time last year and it has literally taken the life right out of me. It started with sleeping 10-15 hours a day but when I woke up I was miserable and couldn't get the bad...
    Sandalwood3 Sandalwood3 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    I Need To Get A Life

    get up at 1pm ,take my medication,go on computer,sit up in room,dont go out..... you get the picture? i never thought i would hit rock bottom like this but i have. I lost my job 2 and a half years ago and have not worked since.I take anti depressants(dont work) i take thyroid...
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M May 17, 2013

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    Grad Robot.

    I guess I have a life but not the one I want. Unfortunately I only have vague ideas about what type of life it is I want, so it’s a little immobilizing. Being in grad school really sucks the life out of you sometimes, I need a break. Personal development is definitely a...
    AwakeWithMe AwakeWithMe 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 23, 2007

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    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M Nov 17

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    No Clue On How

    I have no clue on how to start living again all these years I have been a mom wife friend grand mom watching kids. running after kids now was watching grandchildren, now thats about up and now my husband treats me like crap  if i don't do what he wants , well that hasn't...
    GrannyGumps GrannyGumps 51-55, F 1 Response Jun 5, 2007

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    You Betcha!  However, I&#...

    You betcha!  However, I'm not really handling even the pathetic facsimile of a life I have at the moment, so if I had another one, I'd probably just make a hash of that, too.  I'd probably better leave it for someone who can actually make something of it.
    Mandragora Mandragora 46-50, F Nov 1, 2007

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    Suggestions Anybody?

    When I look at my life it doesn't make me feel happy. In fact it makes me feel pretty depressed. I know it needs changing but I just, honestly, do not know how to do it. This is not a new thing, I have felt this way for years. Not knowing how to fix it has left me feeling pretty...
    WyldHoney WyldHoney 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 28, 2008

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