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I Need to Get a Life

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    Work-a-holic

    I work a lot, too much in fact. The problem is that I do love my job, and there is always more to be done. When I'm not working, I'm restless, I have to find something to work on, to occupy my time. I know I work too much because I see my friends only a few times a year...
    eyes eyes 31-35, F Oct 1, 2007

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    Need A Life Badly..

    Forward i do i think of my old relationships(not that i had many...) i wonder what those people are doing now... i think what if i would have done this, why did we break up, i still miss her.... im just so lonely... so depressed...but i cant go back... im 43 im getting old , i...
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M Sep 27, 2013

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    Grad Robot.

    I guess I have a life but not the one I want. Unfortunately I only have vague ideas about what type of life it is I want, so it’s a little immobilizing. Being in grad school really sucks the life out of you sometimes, I need a break. Personal development is definitely a...
    AwakeWithMe AwakeWithMe 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 23, 2007

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    What Do You Do

    What do I do some days I'm thinking of starting a new life again the next I feel I'm to old and freeze out again , I MUST  do something good . I must do something for me that is so hard for me to do all i think about is doing for others or they need it before me I keep...
    GrannyGumps GrannyGumps 51-55, F Jun 16, 2007

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    A Bit of a Loser

    here i am on a weekend when i don't have my kids - they're at their dads. my boyfriend is away working this weekend, and i can't find one thing to do besides shop and spend money. i have no friends to do anything with, my phone in 48 hours has rung twice, both times for my son...
    prettyinpink prettyinpink 46-50, F 4 Responses Jun 2, 2007

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    Thats What They Told Me But I Aleady Have One And Don't Want To Change

    i never go out i hate it! I'm the say at home boyfriend with 2 babies, they are so arable and cute and make me happier each day! my girlfrind works and parties most nights and so drunk, but i'm cool with it. i bake and cook junkfood all day for myself, i'm so hungry! I luv...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 16, 2013

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    How Can My Life Become More Interesting

    My fiancé is in England right now and since he's been gone all I can do is sit around the house all day and watch tv and be depressed. I will start college in 6 months but for now all I have is work. I want to do something with my life, but feel like I have no friends. I get...
    Jan 17, 2013

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    Read The Label Before You Take

    When I was younger I went with my mom and my sisters to go camping. It was a nice day in the summer when I was sick but I still tried to enjoy myself. I wasn't allowed to take medicine, I could only take herbs and silver biotics " organic natural medicine". I was complaining...
    sillybritt sillybritt 18-21 Jan 19, 2013

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    No Clue On How

    I have no clue on how to start living again all these years I have been a mom wife friend grand mom watching kids. running after kids now was watching grandchildren, now thats about up and now my husband treats me like crap  if i don't do what he wants , well that hasn't...
    GrannyGumps GrannyGumps 51-55, F 1 Response Jun 5, 2007

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    I Need To Get A Life

    get up at 1pm ,take my medication,go on computer,sit up in room,dont go out..... you get the picture? i never thought i would hit rock bottom like this but i have. I lost my job 2 and a half years ago and have not worked since.I take anti depressants(dont work) i take thyroid...
    defoekeane defoekeane 36-40, M May 17, 2013

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    Try Harder!!

    I spend so much time on here, it's unbelieveable and just spells that I need a life, seriously. I'll have to try harder with my social life!!
    Luangi Luangi 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 25, 2007

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    Me Get a Life He Does Too

    man what a crazy day this fathers day was no one got along everyone was nagging at someone. I'm sitting getting lectured on fat burning pills and how I have to take them to help me rid of my weight quicker... Well I did not want to take my weight off to fast , I have been on my...
    GrannyGumps GrannyGumps 51-55, F Jun 17, 2007

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    You Betcha!  However, I&#...

    You betcha!  However, I'm not really handling even the pathetic facsimile of a life I have at the moment, so if I had another one, I'd probably just make a hash of that, too.  I'd probably better leave it for someone who can actually make something of it.
    Mandragora Mandragora 46-50, F Nov 1, 2007

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    Makin' My Move

    Makin' my move,Yes,Need a life,None here,Movin' on,Greener pastures,I'm livin' again.
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 1 Response Apr 27, 2012

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    I Have to Add Something Positive to My World.

    I have had severe depression for many years.  Unfortunately, about 2 years ago in Nov., when my 51 year old brother committed suicide.  He was 2.5 yrs older and & still miss him so.  I turned to wine, and became an alchoholic.  I'm working with...
    KateW KateW 51-55, F Nov 24, 2007

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    Meetup.com

    There is a site I found a year ago. I've met some truly wonderful people and have been on a few interesting adventures because of it. Just go to meetup.com give a zip code or chose a city then look at the listings. I started kayaking because I found a group that was close to me...
    GoddessNakiBean GoddessNakiBean 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 30, 2008

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    Suggestions Anybody?

    When I look at my life it doesn't make me feel happy. In fact it makes me feel pretty depressed. I know it needs changing but I just, honestly, do not know how to do it. This is not a new thing, I have felt this way for years. Not knowing how to fix it has left me feeling pretty...
    WyldHoney WyldHoney 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 28, 2008

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    Need A Life

    Its hard trying to get up and Get A Life again when you are so use to being alone and staying home. The only time I feel like I have a life is when I am going to work. Come Friday I dont go out of my house, not because I dont want to, I just dont have anyone to go out with. I...
    Natjik Natjik 36-40 1 Response Mar 15, 2010

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    Mental Abuse Or What?

    Does this even quilfiy  who knows , today I have been acused of not  well lets say a realitive has always snubbed me who knows why she does it to all her husbands family friends who ever , I think she is that type who only wants who she wants in  their life, ...
    GrannyGumps GrannyGumps 51-55, F Jul 3, 2007

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    I Doubt That I Ever Will

    I keep  thinking and I keep trying to change but I am stuck in a void why cant I get a life. I know I have one but its well I feel i should be doing more with it I have wonderful intentions , I think and plan but then poof its gone what a looser I am tonight
    GrannyGumps GrannyGumps 51-55, F Jun 27, 2007

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    Getting a Life

    I am a homebody, spend my time either on the computer, at work or listening to music. Until recently when I met a really nice guy who really hates for me to sit at home alone doing nothing. I went to  Festival this weekend, went on a boat ride in the bay and enjoyed a tour...
    icyfire icyfire 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 31, 2008

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    Yes there are so many male ...

    Yes there are so many male suitors asking if i fool around on my husband, and since he is gay I geuss it's a good chance that I need to get a life
    elvirus elvirus 46-50, F Mar 30, 2008

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    Need to Get a Life!!!

    i really need to get a life!!i mean im a loner and sit in the house all the time, apart from when i go to work or go to the gym!! i sometimes on my days off from work, just go into town, and head for a coffee shop, and read the newspapers and drink coffee and have a sandwich...
    cowshed123 cowshed123 31-35, M 12 Responses Jun 2, 2009

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    Since I was a little boy I didn't communicate with people. I was something like an introvert. Instead of improving my social life I started different activities like martial arts...
    ghos7 ghos7 22-25, M 9 hrs ago

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    April 19. Accepting Change. The winds of change blow through our life, sometimes gently, sometimes like a tropical storm. Yes, we have resting places - time to adjust to another...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 8 hrs ago

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    I am far from what I thought I'd be at the moment and it seems that there's no way to get back on track. I planned to go to college in America but things didn't really work out for...
    pleadndsting pleadndsting 16-17, M 4 hrs ago

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    I've always thought I was a pretty okay guy. A cut above average. But maybe that isn't so true after all. I made the choices that got me to where I am today. I had an awesome...
    sirloinsteak sirloinsteak 22-25, M 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    i know life can be a struggle and sometimes dreadfully hopeless but try look around you and see some other people have more struggles than ourselves have. that why we are all not...
    nataliechu nataliechu 13-15, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    My whole life i have been reserved to everyone, no one knows me, its been 17 years keeping it all in. I could sure use someone to talk to right now :) It mean alot. It might be...
    vidish vidish 16-17, M 4 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Im about to turn 19 in may and im not sure why i am experiencing this feeling of emptiness. It has been going on for a year or so and i still cant figure out what it is. I do feel...
    Durf Durf 18-21, M 12 hrs ago

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    The most important thing in order to flourish and succeed in life, I believe is the belief someone places in you. An individuals strong sense of wanting to please themselves or...
    greenpebbles greenpebbles 18-21, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    So most of my life I pretend To be someone I'm not I'm not very social and the only reason I hang out with the people I do is because I want people to think I'm normal ish
    ShattertheMemories ShattertheMemories 13-15, F 6 hrs ago

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    How would you feel if your gf sent you this..... What do I see when I look at you? This is truth and I don't what you in any way to be down about what I am about to say. When I...
    shunjustin shunjustin 31-35, M 6 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    "I want to say thanks... This site really did save my life."
    premkoirala premkoirala 18-21 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I have come to point in my life where spanking is the only solution to my behavior, if you wish to speak with me and mentor me and discipline, please use Please must be older...
    Gxraider Gxraider 22-25, M 1 hr ago

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    If you are a GUY ( of the MALE gender), DO NOT EVER ******* MESSAGE ME. Unless your gay or already on my friends list. Back the **** off im not interested and never will be. Get a...
    DieForMetal666 DieForMetal666 18-21, F 2 Responses 47 mins ago

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    Sometimes you got to make choices you don't want to. Sometimes life gets overwhelming and you got to sit back and think about what the right thing to do is. Sometimes you got to be...
    16countrygirl 16countrygirl 16-17, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Do you do naughty things and get away with them? Do you feel that you need to get on track and stay there? I have helped women get on track and help them stay there. I worked...
    aspanker43232 aspanker43232 61-65, M 3 hrs ago

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    I'm finally doing what I think is best for ME. My whole life I've done what I've been told is "right" and doing what others want me to do because it's what I "should" do. And you...
    Lala365 Lala365 18-21, F Mar 29

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    Anyone can you message me but girls please? I need to stay awake.
    Enoch88 Enoch88 22-25, M 12 hrs ago

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    Daddy needed to make his sissy boi a little princess!
    PrettySissyBoiTG PrettySissyBoiTG 26-30, T 11 hrs ago

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    I need more friends on here. Not just people who add me because they think I sound like a good toy. I want someone to talk to and get to know. I want a friendly friend so hit me up...
    SammyLovesChu SammyLovesChu 18-21, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Hi, I am Sharon and I need to lose weight. I find it pretty hard to do this on my own so I think it's easier to have someone to talk to every day and tell what you ate and motivate...
    Iwantobeskinnyx14 Iwantobeskinnyx14 41-45, F 1 hr ago

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    Cars are THE BEST in transportation... You wanna know why?? Cause where I live, I live off a damn highway in country-like Iowa, so guess what? If I go any damn where I have to...
    Ruru88 Ruru88 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    I guess it's my own fault for making less effort with my friends since I got a boyfriend, but they weren't the sort of friends I could share things with anyway. I need a friend who...
    worthlesslife97 worthlesslife97 16-17, F 2 Responses 38 mins ago

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    I came to a recent understanding about my time. I am not to live by my own free will. My natural instinct directs me in a way that made me come to realize its not my own feelings I...
    WarzJack WarzJack 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 27

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    Hey guys... I also wanted to change my life... Especially for the better. I figured out how to do it and I'd like to share it with you all. (I am aware this might all sound very...
    xxersabooxx xxersabooxx 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 29

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    Hey guys... I figured out how to feel better about myself, and be happier and I'd like to share it with you all. (I am aware this might all sound very hippie like...but I'm just...
    xxersabooxx xxersabooxx 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    Hey guys... I figured out how to feel better about myself, and be happier and I'd like to share it with you all. (I am aware this might all sound very hippie like...but I'm just...
    xxersabooxx xxersabooxx 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 29

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    How do I believe my wife after what I have found I am going to post two as she says "Stories" I have found over the last week about her and her co-worker. The first one I found was...
    mcanant8 mcanant8 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 10

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    Just got a slap in the face... What other good things does life have for me, why do I still try maybe I shouldn't I really just don't give a'f.
    onlyforyou13 onlyforyou13 13-15, F 12 hrs ago

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    I'm tired of alwayse feeling alone in life. I'm tired of all the pain and the hurt. People alwayse say that it gets better and that the hurt stops.. Well I would sure as hell like...
    jdunlap jdunlap 16-17, M 12 hrs ago

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    I think it would be cool to have all of you in one room. The advice and support I get here is fab n your wisdom in real life would be amazing.
    Sunrise13 Sunrise13 31-35, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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