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I Need to Get Over a Relationship

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    Why?

    So it's been over 2 years since she dumped me. And still i have feelings for her. We talk as friends and she uses me as a rebound every time she breaks up with someone. I know she just uses me but i can't help but go along with it. I know I am an idiot but i just can't stop. I...
    Zamet Zamet 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 23, 2012

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    My New Dream

    So there is this boy. He is different than the other "new" boy. You see, this one is special. He doesn't smoke, drink, swear a lot, is huge on family. He is so sweet to me. We have so much in common it's kind of crazy. A good kind of crazy. He lives in the town next to mine. He...
    LittleMsGreenEyes LittleMsGreenEyes 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2013

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    Breathe. Get through the evening.

    Do not respond to messages. Remember I deserve more. Remember to breathe.
    cailinAlainn cailinAlainn 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    Keeping Your Enemies Close

    For 7 years she led me to believe she was in love with me.  The last 3 years have been perfect between us.  I learnt how to truly love someone with her.. instead of getting irritated at her faults, I accepted them as part of her and respected her for who she was 100...
    heme heme 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 17, 2008

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    November 22, the days seem to blur together.

    I don't want to love him, I know I don't want to reconcile and stop divorce proceedings....but why am I still crying over him??? He treated me like crap!!! He was honestly the meanest man I've ever known....I wish he was a beater, those bruises would heal, what he's done to me...
    Andromeday Andromeday 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2013

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    Is it possible to love someone but not want to be with them?

    Aye aye aye, so its been 3 months since Jimmy broke up with me, and yet I'm still not over it yet. You would think a 19 year old would be playing the field and dating numerous amounts of boys. Nope, I fooled you. I'm in the opposite position; I have a picture of him in my room...
    takethispain takethispain 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 24, 2011

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    I'm Not Going Back To The Time For A Heartless Man Like You

    I'm not going back to the time for a heartless man like you; Where you kept in contacts and messages with dozens of girls and gave me the insecurity always, Where you did not bother to show care and concern for me when I was sick, Where you show care and concern for your good...
    sunnyagain sunnyagain 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 24, 2013

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    Getting Through A Breakup Seemed Like Getting Through A Drug Addiction!

    Getting through a breakup just seemed like getting through a drug addiction! It's one month two weeks post breakup. Need to kick the love drugs from your heart and mind!!!
    sunnyagain sunnyagain 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 1, 2013

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    I Thought He Loved Me

    i have been seeing someone for 9 months and I felt we had an amazing connection. I enjoyed every moment with him, i felt happy and relaxed. A few months back he had ended it saying that there was something missing for him, but then quickly contacted saying he thought he was...
    sox122 sox122 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 23, 2012

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    He Got Over It.....

    Well after 2 years he breaks up with me for another girl. he should have atleast told me it was becasue of that no i had to see them. So he got over me and just replaced me, everything he did with me he does with this new girl so. So i need to move on to but i can't even think...
    browneyesweetie browneyesweetie 16-18, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2007

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    Too Long...

    have been in a long distance relationship for over 20 years... need to move on...
    baby56 baby56 46-50, F Apr 5, 2007

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    8 Years And A Kid And He Still Plays Games With My Heart

    Me and my current boyfriend have been together for 8 years and our daughter is 1yr old. I love him to death but he has cheated on me so many times and I don't think I can take it anymore. I feel like my heart literally can't take it anymore because if he is cheating on me again I...
    greers24 greers24 22-25 1 Response Mar 30, 2011

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    The Very Second I Saw Him

     The minute I laid eyes on my ex there was something there.  He told me the minute he saw me he felt the same.  We had this amazing connection and I really did love him. He is a touring musician and we thought we could handle his crazy band schedule.  Turns...
    rocknroll88 rocknroll88 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 24, 2008

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    A Belated Letter To My Ex-boyfriend

    Dear Mr ex-boyfriend, I meant to write to you sooner but the letter was eventually thrown away. When I was on my way to the post office to send the letter to you, I suddenly realised that whatever I had written was crap and you were not going to read it anyway. Thus, I dropped...
    sassycrimsonrose sassycrimsonrose 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2012

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    Broken Heart

    Hi  well im experiencing my first broken heart, with my first love.I need to know how to get over him. Everyone keeps telling me try to not think about him, but it's not that easy. I need some advise! Please
    Girlie Girlie 19-21, F 2 Responses Apr 15, 2007

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    After 6 years of marriage it has come to this.

    I packed my stuff and moved out. My husband is from Nigeria and I am from the USA. Apparently in his culture it is perfectly acceptable for your husband to cheat on you. Where to start... Our marriage has always been rocky. With the cultural differences it was never easy. There...
    zooloothe1st zooloothe1st 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 18

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    Nothing That Is Worth Having Comes Easy.

    So, here's the deal. I met my first love over the internet, and she was my everything. I loved her so much. She was my fiance, and my baby, and my angel. I would have done anything for her. I would have given my life. I would have killed someone. Anything for my angel. And then...
    Pan Pan 18-21 4 Responses Apr 7, 2007

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    Her Song, I Hate To Love

    7:20am, my alarm sounds. Except for some reason, today, my clock alarm is set to RADIO and not buzzer... I'm awaken right at the very beginning of a new country pop song that even mentions the state she now lives in. I must admit I knew the song was gonna be great by the very...
    ActionMax ActionMax 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 20, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Short history: We are long distance. We have been in an online relationship for a couple of years and we just met face to face last fall. We are on a break now, that I initiated...
    Selvmo Selvmo 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 29

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    How do I fall in love it is hard for me to fall on love . I feel heartless when I date someone. I have very high standards too. I get over break ups fast .
    REALWORDS823 REALWORDS823 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    Tell me girls PLEASE... It has been said and largely agreed amongst my female friends (which form the majority of my friendships) that, I quote, ' every girl should have a Karl...
    spiike65 spiike65 46-50, M Apr 10

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    How would you feel if your gf sent you this..... What do I see when I look at you? This is truth and I don't what you in any way to be down about what I am about to say. When I...
    shunjustin shunjustin 31-35, M 5 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Bottom line i miss my ex but theres a whole story behind this. I want advice ASAP!
    Lollibear023 Lollibear023 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    I really don't know why I haven't been thinking this.. But now these days you always see people getting into relationships and sometimes you kinda get jealous because you wish that...
    drs0307 drs0307 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    First the obvious. It is surprising to see folks that grieve over relationships that have ended when they knew going in it was not a smart thing to do. Many say that there is...
    berke007 berke007 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    Since I was a little boy I didn't communicate with people. I was something like an introvert. Instead of improving my social life I started different activities like martial arts...
    ghos7 ghos7 22-25, M 7 hrs ago

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    Well, my ex boyfriend and I broke up approximately three weeks ago. Were were together for a year and one month and it was a pretty serious relationship which you guys will...
    ambitousk ambitousk 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    Well, my ex boyfriend and I broke up approximately three weeks ago. Were were together for a year and one month and it was a pretty serious relationship which you guys will...
    ambitousk ambitousk 13-15, F 3 hrs ago

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    I've always thought I was a pretty okay guy. A cut above average. But maybe that isn't so true after all. I made the choices that got me to where I am today. I had an awesome...
    sirloinsteak sirloinsteak 22-25, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    While at uni I was at a party and one of the lecturers was there. She was about 35 and I was 19, and we had a wonderful time at the party, and ended up kissing while we were...
    PinkyPinks PinkyPinks 31-35, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    For so many years I was unhappy, for so many years I felt ignored and rejected. Nothing changing, ever staying, every day the day the same. We've spilt at lot but for some reason...
    anonbeing anonbeing 26-30, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I want to be in a mistress slave online relationship! Anyone?
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    How do I believe my wife after what I have found I am going to post two as she says "Stories" I have found over the last week about her and her co-worker. The first one I found was...
    mcanant8 mcanant8 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 10

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    So I need some advice because my friend came to me about relationship advice and I'm not sure what to tell her. It's a lot, so get comfy. So my friend G is in a relationship...
    lightningthief lightningthief 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Hi everyone, I'm having a dilemma and don't/can't speak to friends or family about it as I don't want their opinion on my boyfriend (Ben) to be tainted. We have been together for...
    yameirual yameirual 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 6

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 4

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    I only obssess over celebrities who are either much older than me or aren't as over-hyped as others are. I don't go for that teen idol stuff and I don't go for anyone like say...
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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
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    I worked in sales during the late 1980s and got into Marketing in the 1990s. In 2001 I became a Marketing Manger of a large company and was doing really well until the crash of 20...
    DietCokeBreak DietCokeBreak 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    So I feel really overwhelmed this last few months. A lot of stuff has been going on. I need some advice on this situation I am in. About a few years back I met two guys off online...
    ButterflyPrincess876 ButterflyPrincess876 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 24

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 2

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 2

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
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    I have always been in serious relationships. After a broke up with my most recent 4 year relationship, one of my really good guy friends (John) confessed that he's had a major...
    lifelover30 lifelover30 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm 14 and I see my friends in relationships and want a relationship and I'm just here.. And... Sure, I'd like a boyfriend, but I don't need one. Love is so overrated these days...
    rapfordays rapfordays 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I have been dating the best man on earth for seven years. We got engaged August last year and immediately started planning the wedding.We have 11 weeks to go before the big day...
    deidrevw deidrevw 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    Dear all I say- the most certain thing in this world is the uncertainty of relationships. I often wonder if there is a single relationship that does not come with any sorts of...
    saeed78 saeed78 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 26

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    It used to be that my best friend (a man) and I (a woman) could joke around, have fun, do things- but since I moved in with him going on 3 years ago, it all seemed to change in a...
    Sweetlady58 Sweetlady58 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I've always found this strange. On this site, whenever anyone mentions relationship problems, it's often that people will tell that person to just breakup with their significant...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Apr 2

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    Okay. Well just the other day I met a girl for the first time. I have to say, I was instantly caught by her 'aura' of happiness and 'chill'. I have to say, its the first time in a...
    ccc7777 ccc7777 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 6

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