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I Need to Get Over a Relationship

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    How Am I Not Over This Guy??

    How am I not over this guy he hasnt been very nice too me. Hes a total heart breaker but no one will this not. Sure he was sweet but a big flirt, all he did was lie to me over and over again i picked him over what my friends told me and i regret it cause they were right big...
    SomeBody2Love SomeBody2Love 13-15, F 1 Response May 22, 2010

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    Broken Heart

    Hi  well im experiencing my first broken heart, with my first love.I need to know how to get over him. Everyone keeps telling me try to not think about him, but it's not that easy. I need some advise! Please
    Girlie Girlie 19-21, F 2 Responses Apr 15, 2007

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    I Thought He Loved Me

    i have been seeing someone for 9 months and I felt we had an amazing connection. I enjoyed every moment with him, i felt happy and relaxed. A few months back he had ended it saying that there was something missing for him, but then quickly contacted saying he thought he was...
    sox122 sox122 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 23, 2012

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    My New Dream

    So there is this boy. He is different than the other "new" boy. You see, this one is special. He doesn't smoke, drink, swear a lot, is huge on family. He is so sweet to me. We have so much in common it's kind of crazy. A good kind of crazy. He lives in the town next to mine. He...
    LittleMsGreenEyes LittleMsGreenEyes 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2013

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    November 22, the days seem to blur together.

    I don't want to love him, I know I don't want to reconcile and stop divorce proceedings....but why am I still crying over him??? He treated me like crap!!! He was honestly the meanest man I've ever known....I wish he was a beater, those bruises would heal, what he's done to me...
    Andromeday Andromeday 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2013

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    Getting Through A Breakup Seemed Like Getting Through A Drug Addiction!

    Getting through a breakup just seemed like getting through a drug addiction! It's one month two weeks post breakup. Need to kick the love drugs from your heart and mind!!!
    sunnyagain sunnyagain 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 1, 2013

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    He Isn't Over Me And I Dont Know What To Say

    Its been too long, yet he still says he isn't over me. We could be amazing together but that isn't going to happen and I have accepted that. Also, he is too different from me. i thought we understood each other before, but I dont think we do. He wallows in sadness and has a lot...
    turquoisenails turquoisenails 13-15, F Sep 22, 2010

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    Keeping Your Enemies Close

    For 7 years she led me to believe she was in love with me.  The last 3 years have been perfect between us.  I learnt how to truly love someone with her.. instead of getting irritated at her faults, I accepted them as part of her and respected her for who she was 100...
    heme heme 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 17, 2008

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    Why?

    So it's been over 2 years since she dumped me. And still i have feelings for her. We talk as friends and she uses me as a rebound every time she breaks up with someone. I know she just uses me but i can't help but go along with it. I know I am an idiot but i just can't stop. I...
    Zamet Zamet 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 23, 2012

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    Her Song, I Hate To Love

    7:20am, my alarm sounds. Except for some reason, today, my clock alarm is set to RADIO and not buzzer... I'm awaken right at the very beginning of a new country pop song that even mentions the state she now lives in. I must admit I knew the song was gonna be great by the very...
    OvOBrien OvOBrien 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 20, 2013

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    A Belated Letter To My Ex-boyfriend

    Dear Mr ex-boyfriend, I meant to write to you sooner but the letter was eventually thrown away. When I was on my way to the post office to send the letter to you, I suddenly realised that whatever I had written was crap and you were not going to read it anyway. Thus, I dropped...
    sassycrimsonrose sassycrimsonrose 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2012

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    Breathe. Get through the evening.

    Do not respond to messages. Remember I deserve more. Remember to breathe.
    cailinAlainn cailinAlainn 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    Too Long...

    have been in a long distance relationship for over 20 years... need to move on...
    baby56 baby56 46-50, F Apr 5, 2007

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    8 Years And A Kid And He Still Plays Games With My Heart

    Me and my current boyfriend have been together for 8 years and our daughter is 1yr old. I love him to death but he has cheated on me so many times and I don't think I can take it anymore. I feel like my heart literally can't take it anymore because if he is cheating on me again I...
    greers24 greers24 22-25 1 Response Mar 30, 2011

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    Nothing That Is Worth Having Comes Easy.

    So, here's the deal. I met my first love over the internet, and she was my everything. I loved her so much. She was my fiance, and my baby, and my angel. I would have done anything for her. I would have given my life. I would have killed someone. Anything for my angel. And then...
    Pan Pan 18-21 4 Responses Apr 7, 2007

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    He Got Over It.....

    Well after 2 years he breaks up with me for another girl. he should have atleast told me it was becasue of that no i had to see them. So he got over me and just replaced me, everything he did with me he does with this new girl so. So i need to move on to but i can't even think...
    browneyesweetie browneyesweetie 16-18, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2007

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    The sad thing is it wasn't

    even an official relationship. But here I am, 5 months later, still thinking about him. 😒
    lss0807 lss0807 18-21, F Jul 12

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    The Very Second I Saw Him

     The minute I laid eyes on my ex there was something there.  He told me the minute he saw me he felt the same.  We had this amazing connection and I really did love him. He is a touring musician and we thought we could handle his crazy band schedule.  Turns...
    rocknroll88 rocknroll88 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 24, 2008

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    Is it possible to love someone but not want to be with them?

    Aye aye aye, so its been 3 months since Jimmy broke up with me, and yet I'm still not over it yet. You would think a 19 year old would be playing the field and dating numerous amounts of boys. Nope, I fooled you. I'm in the opposite position; I have a picture of him in my room...
    takethispain takethispain 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 24, 2011

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    After 6 years of marriage it has come to this.

    I packed my stuff and moved out. My husband is from Nigeria and I am from the USA. Apparently in his culture it is perfectly acceptable for your husband to cheat on you. Where to start... Our marriage has always been rocky. With the cultural differences it was never easy. There...
    zooloothe1st zooloothe1st 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 18

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    I'm Not Going Back To The Time For A Heartless Man Like You

    I'm not going back to the time for a heartless man like you; Where you kept in contacts and messages with dozens of girls and gave me the insecurity always, Where you did not bother to show care and concern for me when I was sick, Where you show care and concern for your good...
    sunnyagain sunnyagain 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 24, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    This isn't an "Attention all on me!" kind of post. It's just come into mind. And well, here I am. I'm not going to sugarcoat this, you can tell what my issues are from previous...
    arandomleprechaun arandomleprechaun 18-21, M Sep 8

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    Ok, please don't judge me.... i have been with my fella for four years but have dated on and off for a few years back in school. But now, I'm in my 20's and in serious trouble...
    Kezza911 Kezza911 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 8

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    I don't really feel like dating anyone. I feel like my life is pretty full and satisfying without desperately trying to find a boyfriend to add into the mix. I dont GET girls who...
    Cindell Cindell 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    If anyone is good at relationship stuff and could give me some advice I am open to it.
    amyrnmca amyrnmca 26-30, F Aug 18

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    So there is this guy at my school that I have like always had a crush on. I use to know him really well in Elementary and Middle school. Then he just stopped talking and we started...
    Realtalk0066 Realtalk0066 16-17, F a week ago

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    I met this girl when I was 20 years old. We are 30 now. There was a point in time when we used to have a lot of fun, but now, her friendship has become burdensome. I feel like a...
    HeartofReality HeartofReality 26-30, F Aug 24

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    I feel like I need a relationship and I am a good and romantic and nice caring guy
    trew5432 trew5432 13-15, M Sep 4

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    I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months. I thought that I had found the one. He treated me like a princess in every way. I've always had low self esteem and I'm pretty sure...
    danka021 danka021 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    hello...this is my first story. I am currently in a LDR with my guy who lives about 1200 miles away. We have been in a relationship on and off 2 years in December. We have met...
    giggletree giggletree 41-45, F 4 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I recently started dating this guy who was persistent about having me around. He used to call me every morning and night. We both work so we see each other 2-3 times a wk. However...
    missyluvslilies missyluvslilies 26-30, F 8 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I am over 30 yo, have maintained successful relationships both at work and in my family. However I m very tied of fitting myself into what others want me to be, aligning my...
    dalum60 dalum60 31-35, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I recently entered into a long distance relationship with someone I met here. Her name is Lauren, and she is the most beautiful girl I've ever seen! She accepts me for who I am...
    Dsrutherford Dsrutherford 16-17, M 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I don't hate my job. I hate who I work with. I am in school and I also work. I work as a petcare guy at PetSmart. I've been there for 2.5 years and in that time I really started...
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    Why Need Emotional Intimacy - Emotional intimacy is not the same as sexual intimacy. Sexual intimacy can take place with or without emotional intimacy, and emotional intimacy...
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 23

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    I'm one who has no problem with interracial relationships. Most of my romantic relationships with women have been with non whites. I dated mainly Hispanic women in high school...
    CrazyWaterSpring CrazyWaterSpring 51-55, M 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    If, I was in a great relationship. I wouldn't be experiencing this pain. The pain and fear of losing someone you truly love. The time being spent on them rather than focusing on...
    ikoreanx3 ikoreanx3 18-21 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Our relationship was strictly physical. We promised that our "relationship" wouldn't be more than this, but the truth is, the only reason we started this "friends with benefits...
    triplemix triplemix 22-25, F 4 Responses 43 mins ago

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    i have no problem with interacial any thing but sometimes its not that simple ....like people say love is color blind..maybe love is...but people are not......and it depends on who...
    amie26 amie26 31-35, F 5 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Seeking the great feelings from developing relationships
    40fitguy 40fitguy 41-45, M 5 hrs ago

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    I have known my boyfriend for years. We finally got together approximately two years ago. Before we realised how we felt about one another we spent loads of time together because...
    K504lois K504lois 31-35, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    I’m straight out of college and just got a job as a full time receptionist at busy medical office. My hours are scattered and span 6-days a week; one day I’ll work a 10 hr...
    scarletv scarletv 22-25, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    My gf of a year and I have had a very rocky and confusing relationship. We broke up about 2 weeks ago and had no contact for about 2 weeks. During this time she reached out to me...
    jayc408 jayc408 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    My gf of a year and I have had a very rocky and confusing relationship. We broke up about 2 weeks ago and had no contact for about 2 weeks. During this time she reached out to me...
    jayc408 jayc408 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    My gf of a year and I have had a very rocky and confusing relationship. We broke up about 2 weeks ago and had no contact for about 2 weeks. During this time she reached out to me...
    jayc408 jayc408 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    My gf of a year and I have had a very rocky and confusing relationship. We broke up about 2 weeks ago and had no contact for about 2 weeks. During this time she reached out to me...
    jayc408 jayc408 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    My gf of a year and I have had a very rocky and confusing relationship. We broke up about 2 weeks ago and had no contact for about 2 weeks. During this time she reached out to me...
    jayc408 jayc408 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    My gf of a year and I have had a very rocky and confusing relationship. We broke up about 2 weeks ago and had no contact for about 2 weeks. During this time she reached out to me...
    jayc408 jayc408 22-25, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    One thing that is constantly on my mind right now is about my relationship. Straight to the point; We met a year ago, and it was the 3rd month of my foundation year. Honestly I had...
    bellatrixeslove bellatrixeslove 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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