I Need to Get Over a Relationship

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 154 People

    My New Dream

    So there is this boy. He is different than the other "new" boy. You see, this one is special. He doesn't smoke, drink, swear a lot, is huge on family. He is so sweet to me. We have so much in common it's kind of crazy. A good kind of crazy. He lives in the town next to mine. He...
    LittleMsGreenEyes LittleMsGreenEyes
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 8, 2013

    Her Song, I Hate To Love

    7:20am, my alarm sounds. Except for some reason, today, my clock alarm is set to RADIO and not buzzer... I'm awaken right at the very beginning of a new country pop song that even mentions the state she now lives in. I must admit I knew the song was gonna be great by the very...
    HollowBravado HollowBravado
    26-30, M
    1 Response Apr 20, 2013

    The sad thing is it wasn't

    even an official relationship. But here I am, 5 months later, still thinking about him. 😒
    lss0807 lss0807
    22-25, F
    Jul 12, 2014

    November 22, the days seem to blur together.

    I don't want to love him, I know I don't want to reconcile and stop divorce proceedings....but why am I still crying over him??? He treated me like crap!!! He was honestly the meanest man I've ever known....I wish he was a beater, those bruises would heal, what he's done to me...
    Andromeday Andromeday
    36-40, F
    1 Response Dec 28, 2013

    A Belated Letter To My Ex-boyfriend

    Dear Mr ex-boyfriend, I meant to write to you sooner but the letter was eventually thrown away. When I was on my way to the post office to send the letter to you, I suddenly realised that whatever I had written was crap and you were not going to read it anyway. Thus, I dropped...
    sassycrimsonrose sassycrimsonrose
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 3, 2012

    Too Long...

    have been in a long distance relationship for over 20 years... need to move on...
    baby56 baby56
    46-50, F
    Apr 5, 2007

    Broken Heart

    Hi  well im experiencing my first broken heart, with my first love.I need to know how to get over him. Everyone keeps telling me try to not think about him, but it's not that easy. I need some advise! Please
    Girlie Girlie
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 15, 2007

    He Got Over It.....

    Well after 2 years he breaks up with me for another girl. he should have atleast told me it was becasue of that no i had to see them. So he got over me and just replaced me, everything he did with me he does with this new girl so. So i need to move on to but i can't even think...
    browneyesweetie browneyesweetie
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jun 3, 2007

    I Thought He Loved Me

    i have been seeing someone for 9 months and I felt we had an amazing connection. I enjoyed every moment with him, i felt happy and relaxed. A few months back he had ended it saying that there was something missing for him, but then quickly contacted saying he thought he was...
    sox122 sox122
    36-40, F
    1 Response Nov 23, 2012

    Breathe. Get through the evening.

    Do not respond to messages. Remember I deserve more. Remember to breathe.
    cailinAlainn cailinAlainn
    36-40, F
    Mar 19, 2014

    How Am I Not Over This Guy??

    How am I not over this guy he hasnt been very nice too me. Hes a total heart breaker but no one will this not. Sure he was sweet but a big flirt, all he did was lie to me over and over again i picked him over what my friends told me and i regret it cause they were right big...
    SomeBody2Love SomeBody2Love
    13-15, F
    1 Response May 22, 2010

    I'm Not Going Back To The Time For A Heartless Man Like You

    I'm not going back to the time for a heartless man like you; Where you kept in contacts and messages with dozens of girls and gave me the insecurity always, Where you did not bother to show care and concern for me when I was sick, Where you show care and concern for your good...
    sunnyagain sunnyagain
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Aug 24, 2013

    Nothing That Is Worth Having Comes Easy.

    So, here's the deal. I met my first love over the internet, and she was my everything. I loved her so much. She was my fiance, and my baby, and my angel. I would have done anything for her. I would have given my life. I would have killed someone. Anything for my angel. And then...
    Pan Pan
    4 Responses Apr 7, 2007

    He Isn't Over Me And I Dont Know What To Say

    Its been too long, yet he still says he isn't over me. We could be amazing together but that isn't going to happen and I have accepted that. Also, he is too different from me. i thought we understood each other before, but I dont think we do. He wallows in sadness and has a lot...
    turquoisenails turquoisenails
    18-21, F
    Sep 22, 2010

    Getting Through A Breakup Seemed Like Getting Through A Drug Addiction!

    Getting through a breakup just seemed like getting through a drug addiction! It's one month two weeks post breakup. Need to kick the love drugs from your heart and mind!!!
    sunnyagain sunnyagain
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Sep 1, 2013


    So it's been over 2 years since she dumped me. And still i have feelings for her. We talk as friends and she uses me as a rebound every time she breaks up with someone. I know she just uses me but i can't help but go along with it. I know I am an idiot but i just can't stop. I...
    Zamet Zamet
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jul 23, 2012

    After 6 years of marriage it has come to this.

    I packed my stuff and moved out. My husband is from Nigeria and I am from the USA. Apparently in his culture it is perfectly acceptable for your husband to cheat on you. Where to start... Our marriage has always been rocky. With the cultural differences it was never easy. There...
    zooloothe1st zooloothe1st
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 18, 2014

    Keeping Your Enemies Close

    For 7 years she led me to believe she was in love with me.  The last 3 years have been perfect between us.  I learnt how to truly love someone with her.. instead of getting irritated at her faults, I accepted them as part of her and respected her for who she was 100...
    heme heme
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Feb 17, 2008

    8 Years And A Kid And He Still Plays Games With My Heart

    Me and my current boyfriend have been together for 8 years and our daughter is 1yr old. I love him to death but he has cheated on me so many times and I don't think I can take it anymore. I feel like my heart literally can't take it anymore because if he is cheating on me again I...
    greers24 greers24
    1 Response Mar 30, 2011

    The Very Second I Saw Him

     The minute I laid eyes on my ex there was something there.  He told me the minute he saw me he felt the same.  We had this amazing connection and I really did love him. He is a touring musician and we thought we could handle his crazy band schedule.  Turns...
    rocknroll88 rocknroll88
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 24, 2008

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