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I Need to Get Over a Relationship

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 148 People

    8 Years And A Kid And He Still Plays Games With My Heart

    Me and my current boyfriend have been together for 8 years and our daughter is 1yr old. I love him to death but he has cheated on me so many times and I don't think I can take it anymore. I feel like my heart literally can't take it anymore because if he is cheating on me again I...
    greers24 greers24 22-25 1 Response Mar 30, 2011

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    Broken Heart

    Hi  well im experiencing my first broken heart, with my first love.I need to know how to get over him. Everyone keeps telling me try to not think about him, but it's not that easy. I need some advise! Please
    Girlie Girlie 19-21, F 2 Responses Apr 15, 2007

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    After 6 years of marriage it has come to this.

    I packed my stuff and moved out. My husband is from Nigeria and I am from the USA. Apparently in his culture it is perfectly acceptable for your husband to cheat on you. Where to start... Our marriage has always been rocky. With the cultural differences it was never easy. There...
    zooloothe1st zooloothe1st 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 18

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    The Very Second I Saw Him

     The minute I laid eyes on my ex there was something there.  He told me the minute he saw me he felt the same.  We had this amazing connection and I really did love him. He is a touring musician and we thought we could handle his crazy band schedule.  Turns...
    rocknroll88 rocknroll88 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 24, 2008

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    He Isn't Over Me And I Dont Know What To Say

    Its been too long, yet he still says he isn't over me. We could be amazing together but that isn't going to happen and I have accepted that. Also, he is too different from me. i thought we understood each other before, but I dont think we do. He wallows in sadness and has a lot...
    turquoisenails turquoisenails 13-15, F Sep 22, 2010

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    Getting Through A Breakup Seemed Like Getting Through A Drug Addiction!

    Getting through a breakup just seemed like getting through a drug addiction! It's one month two weeks post breakup. Need to kick the love drugs from your heart and mind!!!
    sunnyagain sunnyagain 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 1, 2013

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    The sad thing is it wasn't

    even an official relationship. But here I am, 5 months later, still thinking about him. 😒
    lss0807 lss0807 18-21, F Jul 12

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    A Belated Letter To My Ex-boyfriend

    Dear Mr ex-boyfriend, I meant to write to you sooner but the letter was eventually thrown away. When I was on my way to the post office to send the letter to you, I suddenly realised that whatever I had written was crap and you were not going to read it anyway. Thus, I dropped...
    sassycrimsonrose sassycrimsonrose 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2012

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    Her Song, I Hate To Love

    7:20am, my alarm sounds. Except for some reason, today, my clock alarm is set to RADIO and not buzzer... I'm awaken right at the very beginning of a new country pop song that even mentions the state she now lives in. I must admit I knew the song was gonna be great by the very...
    ActionMax ActionMax 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 20, 2013

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    How Am I Not Over This Guy??

    How am I not over this guy he hasnt been very nice too me. Hes a total heart breaker but no one will this not. Sure he was sweet but a big flirt, all he did was lie to me over and over again i picked him over what my friends told me and i regret it cause they were right big...
    SomeBody2Love SomeBody2Love 13-15, F 1 Response May 22, 2010

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    I'm Not Going Back To The Time For A Heartless Man Like You

    I'm not going back to the time for a heartless man like you; Where you kept in contacts and messages with dozens of girls and gave me the insecurity always, Where you did not bother to show care and concern for me when I was sick, Where you show care and concern for your good...
    sunnyagain sunnyagain 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 24, 2013

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    November 22, the days seem to blur together.

    I don't want to love him, I know I don't want to reconcile and stop divorce proceedings....but why am I still crying over him??? He treated me like crap!!! He was honestly the meanest man I've ever known....I wish he was a beater, those bruises would heal, what he's done to me...
    Andromeday Andromeday 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2013

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    My New Dream

    So there is this boy. He is different than the other "new" boy. You see, this one is special. He doesn't smoke, drink, swear a lot, is huge on family. He is so sweet to me. We have so much in common it's kind of crazy. A good kind of crazy. He lives in the town next to mine. He...
    LittleMsGreenEyes LittleMsGreenEyes 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2013

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    He Got Over It.....

    Well after 2 years he breaks up with me for another girl. he should have atleast told me it was becasue of that no i had to see them. So he got over me and just replaced me, everything he did with me he does with this new girl so. So i need to move on to but i can't even think...
    browneyesweetie browneyesweetie 16-18, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2007

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    Keeping Your Enemies Close

    For 7 years she led me to believe she was in love with me.  The last 3 years have been perfect between us.  I learnt how to truly love someone with her.. instead of getting irritated at her faults, I accepted them as part of her and respected her for who she was 100...
    heme heme 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 17, 2008

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    Nothing That Is Worth Having Comes Easy.

    So, here's the deal. I met my first love over the internet, and she was my everything. I loved her so much. She was my fiance, and my baby, and my angel. I would have done anything for her. I would have given my life. I would have killed someone. Anything for my angel. And then...
    Pan Pan 18-21 4 Responses Apr 7, 2007

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    Too Long...

    have been in a long distance relationship for over 20 years... need to move on...
    baby56 baby56 46-50, F Apr 5, 2007

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    Why?

    So it's been over 2 years since she dumped me. And still i have feelings for her. We talk as friends and she uses me as a rebound every time she breaks up with someone. I know she just uses me but i can't help but go along with it. I know I am an idiot but i just can't stop. I...
    Zamet Zamet 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 23, 2012

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    Breathe. Get through the evening.

    Do not respond to messages. Remember I deserve more. Remember to breathe.
    cailinAlainn cailinAlainn 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I Thought He Loved Me

    i have been seeing someone for 9 months and I felt we had an amazing connection. I enjoyed every moment with him, i felt happy and relaxed. A few months back he had ended it saying that there was something missing for him, but then quickly contacted saying he thought he was...
    sox122 sox122 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 23, 2012

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    Is it possible to love someone but not want to be with them?

    Aye aye aye, so its been 3 months since Jimmy broke up with me, and yet I'm still not over it yet. You would think a 19 year old would be playing the field and dating numerous amounts of boys. Nope, I fooled you. I'm in the opposite position; I have a picture of him in my room...
    XxxFallenAngelxxX XxxFallenAngelxxX 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 24, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I'm 47 and divorced. Gf is 45 and divorced. We have been together for a bit over three months. Great relationship, we care deeply for each other. How long is appropriate before...
    mslvr01 mslvr01 46-50, M 4 Responses Dec 5

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    Well I kinda need some advice. I'm stressed out about my final year of my business course. Things aren't going to plan but that's not really the only reason... I'm dating this guy...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 27

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    This will probably sound like absolute insanity but I really want to have kids at my young age and so dose my girlfriend... We been talking back and forth for a couple days now and...
    ECrierie ECrierie 16-17, M 4 Responses Dec 3

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    I am getting married on February 28th 2015. I love my fiancé, but I just feel like we're too different. Whenever I come to him with anything such as advice, conversation, or even...
    Seeth3sky Seeth3sky 18-21, F a week ago

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    Is it wrong to be upset that your gf is always I'm mom mode talking about your child 24/7 and church but seems to want to do nothing with you that's adult things and relationship...
    shunjustin shunjustin 31-35, M 2 Responses Dec 4

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    I am confused and need some advice. I don't understand the how guys think or why they think the way they do. Anyone up for chatting?
    amyrnmca amyrnmca 26-30, F 6 Responses Dec 3

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    Need some advice Have yous ever hidden talking to your ex (even innocent talking) from the person you are seeing so they don't get angry or hurt?
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 10

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    If he is willing to right his wrongs and prove his love, Should I be willing to give him the second chance he's asked for?
    ShadowedLover ShadowedLover 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I have an emotional need to be young, and I have an emotional need to be in diapers. I would like to find a wife who can also be my mommy. Just because I need this relationship...
    Scorchermcsteve Scorchermcsteve 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 29

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    A letter to my 14 year old self: Why must you be so stupid. You had everything going for you and you screwed it up with him! You were so smart in school that you were in honors...
    WeirdOtaku WeirdOtaku 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    I would love to find a mistress who's into latex and bondage I'm over in the uk Hertfordshire area.
    Sportsman007 Sportsman007 51-55, M 2 hrs ago

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    Umm.. So it was beautiful, ofcourse at the start, as every relationship is.. but very soon at the initial stage she lost my trust. Not love, I just stopped trusting her but I didn...
    mak2512 mak2512 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 6

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    I'm really sorry for the big rant, but I'm feeling pretty panicked at the moment and I need advice. Two weeks ago, everything was perfect. I was happy, and whenever I thought...
    LittleClouds LittleClouds 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 24

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    I have been with my gf for almost a year. We met in college (while we were both with other people) but knew that we wanted to be together. We have since changed our lives to be...
    bw27237 bw27237 36-40, F 1 day ago

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    Firstly, I love dogs. I grew up with them all my life. Secondly, I am dating a guy who has two dogs. He loves them to death like any other parent loves their child. Having them...
    crimsonfleur609 crimsonfleur609 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    It sometimes takes a new person in your life to gain a better perspective of your past. What I believed I never had, might have been, that I never understood the power of love...
    EverlyAnn EverlyAnn 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    I honestly overthink things way too much. Before doing anything I ask myself why and I know that isn't a bad things but then after that I ask myself why again. It ends up going...
    theultimatesashacourtney theultimatesashacourtney 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    I am going through one of the worst breakups that I've ever experienced in my life. I am 27 years old and I was in a relationship for almost 3 years. When we met, We were happy...
    lonetraveller24 lonetraveller24 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 25

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    What do you do when you are lucky enough to have found someone who loves you and who wants to be with you, and you even trust them and can talk to them about anything, but you end...
    snorre snorre 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 29

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    So, I love my boyfriend, very much. Well actually he's my fiancé, so obviously I love him enough that once upon a time I said yes to marrying him. Lately it seems that everything...
    AlicebeneyisSilvereyes AlicebeneyisSilvereyes 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 11

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    The Great **** Debate: My boyfriend and I are in a serious relationship and plan to marry. We don't live together yet, so there are some unknowns as far as permanent domestic life...
    Pinkamina Pinkamina 26-30, F 7 Responses Dec 2

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    Ok so I'm 23 years old. About 3 months ago I got out of a BAD relationship. During the whole break up, I started talking to a friend. I confided in him an told him what I was going...
    edpj25 edpj25 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 7

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    Many believe past relationships are a sign of failure or time they wasted with the wrong person. Yes, relationships leave us with feelings of sorrow, uncertainty, and guilt but...
    Paris46 Paris46 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 28

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    It's been 5 yrs. As the years pass I began to love him more and more. I know not to blame him for the way things are. I have my fault too. My problem is the lack of support he has...
    ptsdlady ptsdlady 26-30, F Dec 10

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    I need help being turned into a girl please help me
    jamespeterson30 jamespeterson30 18-21, M 4 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I. Need some one to talk about me being a sissy with
    jamespeterson30 jamespeterson30 18-21, M 1 hr ago

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