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I Need to Get Over a Relationship

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    He Got Over It.....

    Well after 2 years he breaks up with me for another girl. he should have atleast told me it was becasue of that no i had to see them. So he got over me and just replaced me, everything he did with me he does with this new girl so. So i need to move on to but i can't even think...
    browneyesweetie browneyesweetie 16-18, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2007

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    Is it possible to love someone but not want to be with them?

    Aye aye aye, so its been 3 months since Jimmy broke up with me, and yet I'm still not over it yet. You would think a 19 year old would be playing the field and dating numerous amounts of boys. Nope, I fooled you. I'm in the opposite position; I have a picture of him in my room...
    takethispain takethispain 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 24, 2011

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    After 6 years of marriage it has come to this.

    I packed my stuff and moved out. My husband is from Nigeria and I am from the USA. Apparently in his culture it is perfectly acceptable for your husband to cheat on you. Where to start... Our marriage has always been rocky. With the cultural differences it was never easy. There...
    zooloothe1st zooloothe1st 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 18

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    Keeping Your Enemies Close

    For 7 years she led me to believe she was in love with me.  The last 3 years have been perfect between us.  I learnt how to truly love someone with her.. instead of getting irritated at her faults, I accepted them as part of her and respected her for who she was 100...
    heme heme 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 17, 2008

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    Her Song, I Hate To Love

    7:20am, my alarm sounds. Except for some reason, today, my clock alarm is set to RADIO and not buzzer... I'm awaken right at the very beginning of a new country pop song that even mentions the state she now lives in. I must admit I knew the song was gonna be great by the very...
    OvOBrien OvOBrien 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 20, 2013

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    I Thought He Loved Me

    i have been seeing someone for 9 months and I felt we had an amazing connection. I enjoyed every moment with him, i felt happy and relaxed. A few months back he had ended it saying that there was something missing for him, but then quickly contacted saying he thought he was...
    sox122 sox122 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 23, 2012

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    November 22, the days seem to blur together.

    I don't want to love him, I know I don't want to reconcile and stop divorce proceedings....but why am I still crying over him??? He treated me like crap!!! He was honestly the meanest man I've ever known....I wish he was a beater, those bruises would heal, what he's done to me...
    Andromeday Andromeday 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2013

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    Nothing That Is Worth Having Comes Easy.

    So, here's the deal. I met my first love over the internet, and she was my everything. I loved her so much. She was my fiance, and my baby, and my angel. I would have done anything for her. I would have given my life. I would have killed someone. Anything for my angel. And then...
    Pan Pan 18-21 4 Responses Apr 7, 2007

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    Getting Through A Breakup Seemed Like Getting Through A Drug Addiction!

    Getting through a breakup just seemed like getting through a drug addiction! It's one month two weeks post breakup. Need to kick the love drugs from your heart and mind!!!
    sunnyagain sunnyagain 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 1, 2013

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    My New Dream

    So there is this boy. He is different than the other "new" boy. You see, this one is special. He doesn't smoke, drink, swear a lot, is huge on family. He is so sweet to me. We have so much in common it's kind of crazy. A good kind of crazy. He lives in the town next to mine. He...
    LittleMsGreenEyes LittleMsGreenEyes 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2013

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    A Belated Letter To My Ex-boyfriend

    Dear Mr ex-boyfriend, I meant to write to you sooner but the letter was eventually thrown away. When I was on my way to the post office to send the letter to you, I suddenly realised that whatever I had written was crap and you were not going to read it anyway. Thus, I dropped...
    sassycrimsonrose sassycrimsonrose 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 3, 2012

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    He Isn't Over Me And I Dont Know What To Say

    Its been too long, yet he still says he isn't over me. We could be amazing together but that isn't going to happen and I have accepted that. Also, he is too different from me. i thought we understood each other before, but I dont think we do. He wallows in sadness and has a lot...
    turquoisenails turquoisenails 13-15, F Sep 22, 2010

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    The sad thing is it wasn't

    even an official relationship. But here I am, 5 months later, still thinking about him. 😒
    lss0807 lss0807 18-21, F Jul 12

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    Breathe. Get through the evening.

    Do not respond to messages. Remember I deserve more. Remember to breathe.
    cailinAlainn cailinAlainn 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    Why?

    So it's been over 2 years since she dumped me. And still i have feelings for her. We talk as friends and she uses me as a rebound every time she breaks up with someone. I know she just uses me but i can't help but go along with it. I know I am an idiot but i just can't stop. I...
    Zamet Zamet 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 23, 2012

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    How Am I Not Over This Guy??

    How am I not over this guy he hasnt been very nice too me. Hes a total heart breaker but no one will this not. Sure he was sweet but a big flirt, all he did was lie to me over and over again i picked him over what my friends told me and i regret it cause they were right big...
    SomeBody2Love SomeBody2Love 13-15, F 1 Response May 22, 2010

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    The Very Second I Saw Him

     The minute I laid eyes on my ex there was something there.  He told me the minute he saw me he felt the same.  We had this amazing connection and I really did love him. He is a touring musician and we thought we could handle his crazy band schedule.  Turns...
    rocknroll88 rocknroll88 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 24, 2008

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    8 Years And A Kid And He Still Plays Games With My Heart

    Me and my current boyfriend have been together for 8 years and our daughter is 1yr old. I love him to death but he has cheated on me so many times and I don't think I can take it anymore. I feel like my heart literally can't take it anymore because if he is cheating on me again I...
    greers24 greers24 22-25 1 Response Mar 30, 2011

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    Too Long...

    have been in a long distance relationship for over 20 years... need to move on...
    baby56 baby56 46-50, F Apr 5, 2007

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    I'm Not Going Back To The Time For A Heartless Man Like You

    I'm not going back to the time for a heartless man like you; Where you kept in contacts and messages with dozens of girls and gave me the insecurity always, Where you did not bother to show care and concern for me when I was sick, Where you show care and concern for your good...
    sunnyagain sunnyagain 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 24, 2013

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    Broken Heart

    Hi  well im experiencing my first broken heart, with my first love.I need to know how to get over him. Everyone keeps telling me try to not think about him, but it's not that easy. I need some advise! Please
    Girlie Girlie 19-21, F 2 Responses Apr 15, 2007

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    I have been dating this guy for six months. This is my first more serious relationship after a previous twelve year relationship. Embarrassed to say I did meet this guy online. We...
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    I'm in love and have fallen for a beautiful man. It's still only early days and we have been together for 5 months. We talk openly about everything and love each other. The...
    KiwiBirdie KiwiBirdie 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    So I was in a long distance relationship and we recently broke up... He's getting really confusing and I need some advice :/
    Tayway22 Tayway22 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 6

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    I don't really feel like dating anyone. I feel like my life is pretty full and satisfying without desperately trying to find a boyfriend to add into the mix. I dont GET girls who...
    Cindell Cindell 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    this man who i have been living with since jan. and have went thru being pregnant and having a abortion is still trying to act like we are not together!! he says contantly how i do...
    cassandra1122 cassandra1122 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    hi. never done this before so not sure what to expect? I'm 20 years old, and in a relationship with a 37 year old man. He's so lovely but the obvious concerns me. I'm sensible and...
    minniex minniex 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I might leave my husband he cheated ! He was in a relationship with several other woman ! I can't deal my heart feels trapped should I try or just walk away I don't know if this is...
    Justhearmeout Justhearmeout 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 25

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    Im so confused, frustrated, remorseful and sad. I dont know how to help my boyfriend we have been together for a year but i really hurt him:( i betrayed him and he found out and i...
    Dana93y Dana93y 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    If anyone is good at relationship stuff and could give me some advice I am open to it.
    amyrnmca amyrnmca 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    How would you feel if you have expressed to your mate that you Feel excluded from their life and the very next day you wake up after they were supposed to be leaving to go to work...
    imireallyhere23 imireallyhere23 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 21

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    The girl I call myself so in love with makes me feel so worthless etc.........I want to understand why she does this to me ..
    c561 c561 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 21

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    My boyfriend is In the army and we are young and in love. I miss him and I don't know how to deal with these feelings and not being able to talk for weeks or months at a time.
    armystronggirlfriend54 armystronggirlfriend54 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    Thats the problem living in ireland
    amenmurrish amenmurrish 16-17, M Aug 10

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    How do you term relationships like "long term" "short term" relationships. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months and my friends say we're in a long term relationship however I...
    xxEMOtionalxx xxEMOtionalxx 13-15, F 7 hrs ago

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    Well let me tell you now, as you begin to read this my thoughts are not going to be in order. I like to call it Freestyle of the thoughts meaning whatever im thinking, or feeling I...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I met my ex boyfriend at a job we once both worked at & I fell in love. It was perfect, so I thought. After 6 months I moved in with him because my mom and I didn't get along...
    sagalvan1 sagalvan1 22-25, F 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Well I've been with my man for 4 years and met at age 11. I'm in a long distance relationship now and haven't seen him in 3 years. We fight sometimes and I want to live happy...
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    My wife recently returned home from a trip where she had a chance to speak to her aunt. During her trip, her aunt warned her that men who don't work can become petty. My wife...
    deeken deeken 36-40 1 Response Aug 1

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    I've been with my partner now for over 15 years, married for 5 years. I do love my wife, but over the years she has become so controlling and has over-ruled my decisions too many...
    PaulSm68 PaulSm68 46-50, M Aug 1

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    I don't know what to do about loving and really hating my boyfriend at the same time. We are both very impulsive people who often rush into things but don't do anything half...
    UsuallyHappii UsuallyHappii 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 21

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    These last few months have been hell for me. I honestly thought the whole point of a relationship was to love the other person unconditionally and to be faithful? I'm so sick of...
    supernovaChic supernovaChic 22-25, F Jul 28

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    It all started back in 2011 when I was 18, just a few months away from turning 19. I had been using a site called flashflashrevolution.com because I was interested in the game it...
    HillyHana HillyHana 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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