I Need to Get Over Him

Does anyone ever really get over someone? Or do we just become numb to the situation?

Had a boyfriend for nearly 4 years and we were very happy together. Was a fairytale relationship.
Travelled alot together and he always treated me nicely and made me smile, with the occassional argument thrown in for good measure.
I...

during my relapse last year, i believe I had fallen for a guy which i blindly pursued.. If I was sober I wouldn't have. But I got rejected. Of all the guys I've met, It was one of the best feelings in the world, infatuation or love, I...

I really need to get over him. He hurt me, stole from me, lied to me...and probably cheated. Why am I not over him?!  It's because he was my first love! Ugh! This isn't fair!

i am so blank.
you spend 7 1/2 years with someone. you go through a lot of bs and then you start to feel it. you know he's slipping away. you're not exactly happy either, but there is so much good. there was so much good. so, he stops...

Just want to let it go

Over the past 12 months life for me has been rough, going through constant bullying throughout school getting so bad i couldnt walk into a classroom, i couldnt excape as it followed me back to boarding but...

Yeah, like the title says, I am. Really. Well, not in love, but dangerously close to it. No matter who he dates, who he loves, I just can't get over him. Never will be able to for a long time :(. I really don't know why. I guess he just...

theres this guy i know, and have done for about a year now.
ive liked him for AGES. i dont want a relationship with him exactly because im not ready to be committed to anyone yet. but ive become obsessed with him. i really fancy him...

I wish i knew if i should hold on or let go.

i fell so hard, and now that he is done with us... i just cant see myself finding anyone better. He is amazing! i have never met someone so passionate about the same things that i am! he is so great. i could sit here forever and cry...

After 15 years of being with him, it's hard to let go. I miss him very much. You have a longing to want that companionship again, that want to listen to another person, hear their feelings, their thoughts, watch tv shows with them... I...

I dated this guy for about 5 months. I met him online on a MMORPG. It wasn't supposed to have happened. Anyways, I dont feel like grinding through all the details. We did meet in real life and he said he loved me way before I think...

I thought I was over it.
It.
There was never anything that we could call it.
I met him before I met him. In a dream.
I was 14 years old, and I had this incredible, vivid dream. My friends and I were being chased, threatened by...

So I met him back in the day when I was thirteen.  I liked him a LOT.  I made lists of all the things we had in common.  Wrote his name on things (paper).  You know, tweenage love stuff. 
I also met...

I cant do it anymore! You dont seem to care like you did a few weeks ago, but i suppose thats because you are a guy. But what about all the things you said? That was genuine. But then what were you saying to her at the same time? You...

When I was in my late teens I fell in love with the most amazing person I have ever encountered. I'm now 36, am married and haven't seen him in over 3 years, but still think about him every day in some form or fashion.
We...

Damon was my first real boyfriend. We started dating when I was fourteen and we broke up on new year's eve this year, right before I turned eighteen. Three years and three months. He was my best friend for a long, long time. We rarely...

I have been in love with a man at who works at the same company as I do for almost two years now. He doesn't know how I feel. We are both married and I don’t want to cheat or break up my marriage or his, so this can pretty much go...