I Need to Get Over Him

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 329 People

    Why Do I Still Care

     I'm friends with my ex on facebook. and its driving me nuts because this girl keeps commenting on his stuff. it shouldn't bother me, he was an *** and I'm seeing someone else. it does though, i keep thinking he is going to be better to his next girlfriend and that's not...
    TheGardener TheGardener
    22-25, F
    11 Responses Sep 23, 2009

    I need to find a way to be able to stop him

    using me whenever he feels like it. I'm in love with him, so I jump at any chance to see him even though I know he doesn't want to be with me again... It's killing me.
    NicolleSashaa NicolleSashaa
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 23, 2014

    (un)merry Christmas :(

    Had a boyfriend for nearly 4 years and we were very happy together. Was a fairytale relationship. Travelled alot together and he always treated me nicely and made me smile, with the occassional argument thrown in for good measure. I started, in early October, to plan a getaway...
    Mellie91 Mellie91
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Jan 4, 2012

    The Age Old Dilemma: Guy Wants Sex, Girl Wants More Than That.

    So I met him back in the day when I was thirteen.  I liked him a LOT.  I made lists of all the things we had in common.  Wrote his name on things (paper).  You know, tweenage love stuff.  I also met his mum, sister and step-dad a couple of...
    tearaway tearaway
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 1, 2008

    Conversation with myself.

    ... Do you think he's crying over you when he hears your voice in his head? Do you think he misses you when thinking about that funny conversation about clowns in bedsheets? Do you think he thinks of you when he listens to a song that reminds him of you? Do you think he loves you...
    BernadetteAshley BernadetteAshley
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 11, 2016

    I Feel Bad Inside.

    I cant do it anymore! You dont seem to care like you did a few weeks ago, but i suppose thats because you are a guy. But what about all the things you said? That was genuine. But then what were you saying to her at the same time? You told me you were fighting, but what about when...
    Playmeasong Playmeasong
    1 Response Mar 27, 2012

    I Still Love You.

    I am writing this because i know you'll never see it. I'll never mention it or anything. I just wanted you to know. That no matter what i did before. I will never be that person again. Everyday my heart and brain hurt because i constantly think about you. Those memories are all i...
    Shannawow Shannawow
    22-25, F
    Oct 18, 2013

    hating the Fact , just

    because I Attempted to get with him , it got me into this big hole , were am super lost . . Am starting to smoke again after I had stop for 3 years am starting my old ways .. What hurts the most I could be doing great just as he is but I choice not to , I don't have the words to...
    AfraidOfme AfraidOfme
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 26, 2013

    Almost 3 years ago, I broke up with him.

    But i still can't get him off my mind so easily... I'm currently with someone else too. Sooo.. its all messed up. Like why do i ******* still love him? I hate him for everything he's done, cheated on me, treat me like a stranger in high school when we were together. I should've...
    xluhhv xluhhv
    18-21, F
    Nov 2, 2014

    I am trying to heal,

    but triggers are firing off their bullets right at my heart. Two things in particular: I get an unknown call from Manchester, IN (he was from Manchester, UK) I get an email from William Blake (his favorite writer) I'm not even looking for this. It's just a slap in the face...
    BernadetteAshley BernadetteAshley
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 11, 2016

    His name is Paul, and he was the year above me

    in school. He went away to uni last year, but since he's been away we've been talking loads and I've totally fallen for him. He has a girlfriend... yet he still texts me in a somewhat 'inappropriate' manner. I feel so harsh on his girlfriend but secretly love the fact that he...
    claudiamonique claudiamonique
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 26, 2014

    Why is getting over somebody always

    so difficult, I mean they can destroy you, rip you too shreds but you will still chase them untill your emotionally beaten black and blue. Love is far too painful- I often find my self saying "Is it worth it?" You need to ask your self that. Yes you can be happy for months or...
    amberblueford15 amberblueford15
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jul 24, 2015
    deleted deleted
    Jan 26, 2015

    Loving Someone Else While Trying To Forget

    The last two years of my life have become hell. I am loosing my Father to cancer and well because of that my anxiety has been intense. but whats truly hurting. i choose to move to another state for this guy. we were sorta friends before and well we grew into an amazing...
    Shannawow Shannawow
    22-25, F
    Sep 6, 2013

    Over Or Numb?

    Does anyone ever really get over someone? Or do we just become numb to the situation?
    dreamerinus dreamerinus
    3 Responses Dec 9, 2010

    Getting called names & being belittled by

    someone who u crave their love is torturous. I know I should end it most days/nights... But I don't, I just keep consuming the hatred that comes from him and spews into me. I keep begging for him to love me the same all the time. I belittle myself. I can't accept that fact that...
    Ccolon480 Ccolon480
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 28, 2014

    So Many Years

    i am so blank. you spend 7 1/2 years with someone. you go through a lot of bs and then you start to feel it. you know he's slipping away. you're not exactly happy either, but there is so much good. there was so much good. so, he stops talking to you for days. you know that's bad...
    soulshadow soulshadow
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Oct 8, 2008

    He Wont Let Me Go

    I dated this guy for about 5 months. I met him online on a MMORPG. It wasn't supposed to have happened. Anyways, I dont feel like grinding through all the details. We did meet in real life and he said he loved me way before I think he should have. I am much more cautious and...
    its4am its4am
    2 Responses Jul 12, 2010

    I keep crying over him

    and he wasn't even mine. Can people message me? I need to get over him.
    PierceTheGreen PierceTheGreen
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Aug 24, 2014


    Damon was my first real boyfriend. We started dating when I was fourteen and we broke up on new year's eve this year, right before I turned eighteen. Three years and three months. He was my best friend for a long, long time. We rarely went a day without at least seeing eachother...
    sodapop27 sodapop27
    18-21, F
    May 23, 2011

    He Was My Heaven

    When I was in my late teens I fell in love with the most amazing person I have ever encountered. I'm now 36, am married and haven't seen him in over 3 years, but still think about him every day in some form or fashion. We quit dating because he was a musician, and...
    siren1971 siren1971
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Oct 16, 2007

    So this morning my boyfriend in 8th grade broke

    up with me. He felt as that we werent going to work out and said he needed a break. i am not entirely bothered by it just because i was already having doubts but im sad a bit. This is my first breakup and i dont really know how to handle it. We see each other in the hallways...
    MsMarvel1 MsMarvel1
    16-17, F
    Nov 22, 2014


    as I am no longer in love with him. I just love him, and even thats not a definite...     I need to get over the idea of him, the having him, the being loved, the happiness.   I need to forgive myself for what I did to both of us and what we had.   I...
    Tesse Tesse
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 1, 2008

    ... I Really, Really Do.

    I have been in love with a man at who works at the same company as I do for almost two years now. He doesn't know how I feel. We are both married and I don’t want to cheat or break up my marriage or his, so this can pretty much go nowhere. Even knowing all this, I still can’t...
    FaithInFate FaithInFate
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Jul 17, 2010

    I Want To Let Go

    Just want to let it go Over the past 12 months life for me has been rough, going through constant bullying throughout school getting so bad i couldnt walk into a classroom, i couldnt excape as it followed me back to boarding but just before this started i had a beautiful...
    paynecourtney666 paynecourtney666
    2 Responses Jan 22, 2012

    Oh my god. Why do I still

    even care?😂 Lol. #imdone
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jul 10, 2015

    if I keep thinking about him I'm honestly going

    to start banging my head against a brick wall
    Angelcum Angelcum
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 19, 2014

    I NEED to get over a guy

    that has left a year ago! Can anyone help please??
    xxfunloverxx xxfunloverxx
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 20, 2014

    someone I barely know

    during my relapse last year, i believe I had fallen for a guy which i blindly pursued.. If I was sober I wouldn't have. But I got rejected. Of all the guys I've met, It was one of the best feelings in the world, infatuation or love, I don't know.. My thoughts: The feelings I...
    amejad amejad
    22-25, F
    Feb 9, 2010

    i forgot his number..

    ........it's officially over
    Angelcum Angelcum
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 4, 2014


    I wish i knew if i should hold on or let go.
    DreamWishBelieve DreamWishBelieve
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Jul 19, 2010


    my Ex who I really need to get over. Sounds typical right? I wish, but it's not that simple. He's my brothers best friend and he's literally at my house EVERY weekend. It never fails. No matter how hard I try I can't seem to get over him. He's so hot and cold. One day we'll be...
    StillTryingToDeal StillTryingToDeal
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 22, 2014


    I thought I was over it. It. There was never anything that we could call it. I met him before I met him. In a dream. I was 14 years old, and I had this incredible, vivid dream. My friends and I were being chased, threatened by this monster of a man. We were terrified and...
    eyes eyes
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Mar 23, 2008

    Maybe it is time for me to move on .

    So I found out this boy was cheating on I had found out myself . Stalking his IG and FB I just did. I was just a waste of time to him I bet. He talking about he wants to spend the rest of his life that was just all a lie. Maybe it's just time for me to get over him . He's not...
    Heyitsjalenn Heyitsjalenn
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 22, 2014

    So, I've met a guy who was vacationing in my

    country. We met at a party and we spent three days together before he left. We talked a lot and I felt very comfortable with him. We keep constantly texting for about two months after he returned home, then he suddenly stopped texting me. He was the one who always initiated the...
    cuoreisolato cuoreisolato
    22-25, F
    Jun 21, 2015

    Dangerously In Love

    Yeah, like the title says, I am. Really. Well, not in love, but dangerously close to it. No matter who he dates, who he loves, I just can't get over him. Never will be able to for a long time :(. I really don't know why. I guess he just took my heart, ran away, and won't give it...
    ThreeDaysGraceIsLove ThreeDaysGraceIsLove
    18-21, F
    Nov 8, 2007

    Its Even Hard to Admit That This Is What Needs to Happen.

    i fell so hard, and now that he is done with us... i just cant see myself finding anyone better. He is amazing! i have never met someone so passionate about the same things that i am! he is so great. i could sit here forever and cry while i list all of his outstanding qualities...
    LittleLady LittleLady
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 7, 2008


    I really need to get over him. He hurt me, stole from me, lied to me...and probably cheated. Why am I not over him?!  It's because he was my first love! Ugh! This isn't fair!
    Val3ntine Val3ntine
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 6, 2010

    I Need to Get Over Him

    theres this guy i know, and have done for about a year now. ive liked him for AGES. i dont want a relationship with him exactly because im not ready to be committed to anyone yet. but ive become obsessed with him. i really fancy him. but the problem is, he likes me too, but hes...
    chloee22 chloee22
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Oct 25, 2007

    I will give the man I love a gift

    so I may get over him. I'm nervous, any tips?
    MyDoctorLove MyDoctorLove
    26-30, F
    Oct 6, 2015
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