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I Need to Get Over Him

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    Confused

    I wish i knew if i should hold on or let go.
    DreamWishBelieve DreamWishBelieve 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 19, 2010

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    Loving Someone Else While Trying To Forget

    The last two years of my life have become hell. I am loosing my Father to cancer and well because of that my anxiety has been intense. but whats truly hurting. i choose to move to another state for this guy. we were sorta friends before and well we grew into an amazing...
    Shannawow Shannawow 22-25, F Sep 6, 2013

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    Him

    I thought I was over it. It. There was never anything that we could call it. I met him before I met him. In a dream. I was 14 years old, and I had this incredible, vivid dream. My friends and I were being chased, threatened by this monster of a man. We were terrified and...
    eyes eyes 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 23, 2008

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    Its Even Hard to Admit That This Is What Needs to Happen.

    i fell so hard, and now that he is done with us... i just cant see myself finding anyone better. He is amazing! i have never met someone so passionate about the same things that i am! he is so great. i could sit here forever and cry while i list all of his outstanding qualities...
    LittleLady LittleLady 19-21, F 2 Responses Jan 7, 2008

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    Especially....

    as I am no longer in love with him. I just love him, and even thats not a definite...     I need to get over the idea of him, the having him, the being loved, the happiness.   I need to forgive myself for what I did to both of us and what we had.   I...
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 1, 2008

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    I Still Love You.

    I am writing this because i know you'll never see it. I'll never mention it or anything. I just wanted you to know. That no matter what i did before. I will never be that person again. Everyday my heart and brain hurt because i constantly think about you. Those memories are all i...
    Shannawow Shannawow 22-25, F Oct 18, 2013

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    I Feel Bad Inside.

    I cant do it anymore! You dont seem to care like you did a few weeks ago, but i suppose thats because you are a guy. But what about all the things you said? That was genuine. But then what were you saying to her at the same time? You told me you were fighting, but what about when...
    Playmeasong Playmeasong 16-17 1 Response Mar 27, 2012

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    I Need to Get Over Him

    theres this guy i know, and have done for about a year now. ive liked him for AGES. i dont want a relationship with him exactly because im not ready to be committed to anyone yet. but ive become obsessed with him. i really fancy him. but the problem is, he likes me too, but hes...
    chloee22 chloee22 16-18, F 6 Responses Oct 25, 2007

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    Seriously...

    I really need to get over him. He hurt me, stole from me, lied to me...and probably cheated. Why am I not over him?!  It's because he was my first love! Ugh! This isn't fair!
    Val3ntine Val3ntine 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 6, 2010

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    I Want To Let Go

    Just want to let it go Over the past 12 months life for me has been rough, going through constant bullying throughout school getting so bad i couldnt walk into a classroom, i couldnt excape as it followed me back to boarding but just before this started i had a beautiful...
    paynecourtney666 paynecourtney666 18-21 2 Responses Jan 22, 2012

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    He Wont Let Me Go

    I dated this guy for about 5 months. I met him online on a MMORPG. It wasn't supposed to have happened. Anyways, I dont feel like grinding through all the details. We did meet in real life and he said he loved me way before I think he should have. I am much more cautious and...
    its4am its4am 41-45 2 Responses Jul 12, 2010

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    (un)merry Christmas :(

    Had a boyfriend for nearly 4 years and we were very happy together. Was a fairytale relationship. Travelled alot together and he always treated me nicely and made me smile, with the occassional argument thrown in for good measure. I started, in early October, to plan a getaway...
    Mellie91 Mellie91 18-21, F 12 Responses Jan 4, 2012

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    Why Do I Still Care

     I'm friends with my ex on facebook. and its driving me nuts because this girl keeps commenting on his stuff. it shouldn't bother me, he was an *** and I'm seeing someone else. it does though, i keep thinking he is going to be better to his next girlfriend and that's not...
    TheGardener TheGardener 22-25, F 11 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    Dangerously In Love

    Yeah, like the title says, I am. Really. Well, not in love, but dangerously close to it. No matter who he dates, who he loves, I just can't get over him. Never will be able to for a long time :(. I really don't know why. I guess he just took my heart, ran away, and won't give it...
    ThreeDaysGraceIsLove ThreeDaysGraceIsLove 16-18, F Nov 8, 2007

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    hating the Fact , just

    because I Attempted to get with him , it got me into this big hole , were am super lost . . Am starting to smoke again after I had stop for 3 years am starting my old ways .. What hurts the most I could be doing great just as he is but I choice not to , I don't have the words to...
    AfraidOfme AfraidOfme 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2013

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    My Ex Was My Best Friend...

    After 15 years of being with him, it's hard to let go. I miss him very much. You have a longing to want that companionship again, that want to listen to another person, hear their feelings, their thoughts, watch tv shows with them... I miss that. I look at couples and think just...
    favestril favestril 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 26, 2011

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    someone I barely know

    during my relapse last year, i believe I had fallen for a guy which i blindly pursued.. If I was sober I wouldn't have. But I got rejected. Of all the guys I've met, It was one of the best feelings in the world, infatuation or love, I don't know.. My thoughts: The feelings I...
    amejad amejad 22-25, F Feb 9, 2010

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    ... I Really, Really Do.

    I have been in love with a man at who works at the same company as I do for almost two years now. He doesn't know how I feel. We are both married and I don’t want to cheat or break up my marriage or his, so this can pretty much go nowhere. Even knowing all this, I still can’t...
    FaithInFate FaithInFate 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 17, 2010

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    Damon.

    Damon was my first real boyfriend. We started dating when I was fourteen and we broke up on new year's eve this year, right before I turned eighteen. Three years and three months. He was my best friend for a long, long time. We rarely went a day without at least seeing eachother...
    sodapop27 sodapop27 16-17, F May 23, 2011

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    So Many Years

    i am so blank. you spend 7 1/2 years with someone. you go through a lot of bs and then you start to feel it. you know he's slipping away. you're not exactly happy either, but there is so much good. there was so much good. so, he stops talking to you for days. you know that's bad...
    soulshadow soulshadow 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2008

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    His name is Paul, and he was the year above me

    in school. He went away to uni last year, but since he's been away we've been talking loads and I've totally fallen for him. He has a girlfriend... yet he still texts me in a somewhat 'inappropriate' manner. I feel so harsh on his girlfriend but secretly love the fact that he...
    claudiamonique claudiamonique 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    He Was My Heaven

    When I was in my late teens I fell in love with the most amazing person I have ever encountered. I'm now 36, am married and haven't seen him in over 3 years, but still think about him every day in some form or fashion. We quit dating because he was a musician, and...
    siren1971 siren1971 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 16, 2007

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    I NEED to get over a guy

    that has left a year ago! Can anyone help please??
    xxfunloverxx xxfunloverxx 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    Over Or Numb?

    Does anyone ever really get over someone? Or do we just become numb to the situation?
    dreamerinus dreamerinus 26-30 3 Responses Dec 9, 2010

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    The Age Old Dilemma: Guy Wants Sex, Girl Wants More Than That.

    So I met him back in the day when I was thirteen.  I liked him a LOT.  I made lists of all the things we had in common.  Wrote his name on things (paper).  You know, tweenage love stuff.  I also met his mum, sister and step-dad a couple of...
    tearaway tearaway 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 1, 2008

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    Its taken such a long time, years of feeling dreadful, hopeless and not knowing what to believe and where I stood....but now, I have finally accepted the relationship is over and i...
    sillysoo sillysoo 41-45, F Jul 3

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    A new guy stared at my job and immediately started pursuing me. I thought he was awesome, but I knew he was married so I didn't give in... Until he fed me a bunch of garbage about...
    fucknshit fucknshit 18-21, F 11 hrs ago

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    Getting my stuff back from him and giving his back to him. Yep:)
    BeautifulCatastr0phe BeautifulCatastr0phe 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    I wish I could take him out of my life..forever!
    luv4get luv4get 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    Okay I hate to sound like 'that girl' but I actually am in huge need of relationship advice. Honestly, I will take anything, I just need someone to talk to because this feeling of...
    Dancedancedance Dancedancedance 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 30

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    This is LONG, but I'm desperate for advice... ): Okay there's this guy I've had a thing with for 2-3 months now, & we might be completely over.. Him & I aren't in a relationship...
    SweetLikeSugarrr SweetLikeSugarrr 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 9

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    Yes I love him and hate him. It was fun hanging out and chatting with him. He lied to me a lot of times and treat me like ***** when he is in a bad mood. He said he love me but...
    yomy1603 yomy1603 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I can't believe that my stupid ex thinks that I can support myself and my daughter on my college money! This fool gets paid 2 times a month, steady! I mean he's in the freakin Navy...
    MelMel68 MelMel68 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    Before telling you my story, I wanna ask you something... Is there someone who you just can't get over? Someone who's broken your heart and you just can't mend it? 3 years ago I...
    vinylvanilla vinylvanilla 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    EVERYTIME IT SEEMS AS IF I GOT OVER HIM, HE TALKS TO ME AND I AM LOST AGAIN! Okay, this time I did it to myself. I talked to him. What surprises me, because I am not the one to...
    2wrp 2wrp 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 8

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    Just starting to be happy and content with the fact that were done. And he texts me out of the blue with relationship problems. I miss him so much. And I wish I could be his first...
    avagrace03 avagrace03 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I've know my BF for 7 years. The first 5 we were FWB. Then we decided we had actual feelings for each other. Our sex life had always been awesome. He moved in with me a little over...
    MnBelle MnBelle 46-50, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I feel like we just fell apart but now we're unfinished business. He said he still loved me but i don't know if he said that just to make me feel better. I don't know if we can...
    chemically99 chemically99 13-15, F Jul 9

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    Talking to an ex boyfriend. He was my first lover, but he's not good for me at all. I know I shouldn't be talking to him, but I just can't see myself ever getting over him.
    Maq98 Maq98 16-17, F Jul 18

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    So I've liked this guy for at least 3 years and we've had an on-off relationship for the past 6-7 months..in June he said that he had 'lost feelings' for me. I was crushed. Then...
    eirwin15 eirwin15 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    Can anyone help me my boyfriend was with his ex gf for 4 years they brought a flat 2geva when they was 19 when they was 20 she told him she did not feel the same and it was over...
    kayloulou kayloulou 22-25, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Why is everyone obsessed with not being happy with their weight? I'm very fat but am not at all dissatisfied with how I look. I like the way I look. I'm cute. I do need to lose...
    SeaOfMonsters SeaOfMonsters 26-30, F 4 hrs ago

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    I met my OH when I was 13 and he was 15.... we are pretty much together since than with some on/off phases inbetween. When I was 18 I had an affair with his younger cousin who was...
    anniecherry anniecherry 26-30, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Its been almost 2 weeks since I've been properly spanked and I have 2 wait 3 more days! I am getting rude with everyone and both my spankers are away so when they come back I will...
    otkangel otkangel 36-40, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    My name's Alisa Usagi Gold. I'm trapped in a male body, but rightfully a girl. Need help finding: My Real Birth Mommy, (or at least a nice enough woman who would Love me as such...
    WhiteLegoNinja WhiteLegoNinja 13-15, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I'm a simple 15 year old guy who thought suicide would prevent him from seeing his 16th birthday. I went into a new school system for the 9th grade. New school new people, the new...
    nobleman1341 nobleman1341 13-15, M 4 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend forced me to sleep with him i new i gonnq be able to push him off he went to the army he is 10 times stronger than me and at the time I couldnt get my head around it...
    marshmel marshmel 13-15, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Nine months ago, while I was at a lakeside music festival, I ran into an old acquaintance. John and I had met in 2008 through a mutual friend. Over the years, our paths had crossed...
    wastedmonths wastedmonths 26-30 1 Response Jul 3

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    I'm in such a bad way. I'd appreciate some kind words off anyone. I have a history of severe depression anyway but events in my life atm are causing me to implode. I have two...
    Stiggyb Stiggyb 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    Things have been eating me alive lately. For somewhat of a background, I am 24 years of age, and that this point in my life a lot of things are changing, yet I'm not quite where I...
    GiovanniRose GiovanniRose 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 15