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I Need to Get Over Him

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    Almost 3 years ago, I broke up with him.

    But i still can't get him off my mind so easily... I'm currently with someone else too. Sooo.. its all messed up. Like why do i ******* still love him? I hate him for everything he's done, cheated on me, treat me like a stranger in high school when we were together. I should've...
    xluhhv xluhhv 18-21, F Nov 2

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    ... I Really, Really Do.

    I have been in love with a man at who works at the same company as I do for almost two years now. He doesn't know how I feel. We are both married and I don’t want to cheat or break up my marriage or his, so this can pretty much go nowhere. Even knowing all this, I still can’t...
    FaithInFate FaithInFate 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 17, 2010

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    I Want To Let Go

    Just want to let it go Over the past 12 months life for me has been rough, going through constant bullying throughout school getting so bad i couldnt walk into a classroom, i couldnt excape as it followed me back to boarding but just before this started i had a beautiful...
    paynecourtney666 paynecourtney666 18-21 2 Responses Jan 22, 2012

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    Getting called names & being belittled by

    someone who u crave their love is torturous. I know I should end it most days/nights... But I don't, I just keep consuming the hatred that comes from him and spews into me. I keep begging for him to love me the same all the time. I belittle myself. I can't accept that fact that...
    Ccolon480 Ccolon480 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 28

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    I NEED to get over a guy

    that has left a year ago! Can anyone help please??
    xxfunloverxx xxfunloverxx 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    He Was My Heaven

    When I was in my late teens I fell in love with the most amazing person I have ever encountered. I'm now 36, am married and haven't seen him in over 3 years, but still think about him every day in some form or fashion. We quit dating because he was a musician, and...
    siren1971 siren1971 36-40, F 4 Responses Oct 16, 2007

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    Especially....

    as I am no longer in love with him. I just love him, and even thats not a definite...     I need to get over the idea of him, the having him, the being loved, the happiness.   I need to forgive myself for what I did to both of us and what we had.   I...
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 1, 2008

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    His name is Paul, and he was the year above me

    in school. He went away to uni last year, but since he's been away we've been talking loads and I've totally fallen for him. He has a girlfriend... yet he still texts me in a somewhat 'inappropriate' manner. I feel so harsh on his girlfriend but secretly love the fact that he...
    claudiamonique claudiamonique 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    So Many Years

    i am so blank. you spend 7 1/2 years with someone. you go through a lot of bs and then you start to feel it. you know he's slipping away. you're not exactly happy either, but there is so much good. there was so much good. so, he stops talking to you for days. you know that's bad...
    soulshadow soulshadow 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2008

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    Over Or Numb?

    Does anyone ever really get over someone? Or do we just become numb to the situation?
    dreamerinus dreamerinus 26-30 3 Responses Dec 9, 2010

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    i forgot his number..

    ........it's officially over
    Angelcum Angelcum 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 4

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    Its Even Hard to Admit That This Is What Needs to Happen.

    i fell so hard, and now that he is done with us... i just cant see myself finding anyone better. He is amazing! i have never met someone so passionate about the same things that i am! he is so great. i could sit here forever and cry while i list all of his outstanding qualities...
    LittleLady LittleLady 19-21, F 2 Responses Jan 7, 2008

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    The Age Old Dilemma: Guy Wants Sex, Girl Wants More Than That.

    So I met him back in the day when I was thirteen.  I liked him a LOT.  I made lists of all the things we had in common.  Wrote his name on things (paper).  You know, tweenage love stuff.  I also met his mum, sister and step-dad a couple of...
    tearaway tearaway 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 1, 2008

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    (un)merry Christmas :(

    Had a boyfriend for nearly 4 years and we were very happy together. Was a fairytale relationship. Travelled alot together and he always treated me nicely and made me smile, with the occassional argument thrown in for good measure. I started, in early October, to plan a getaway...
    Mellie91 Mellie91 18-21, F 9 Responses Jan 4, 2012

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    Damon.

    Damon was my first real boyfriend. We started dating when I was fourteen and we broke up on new year's eve this year, right before I turned eighteen. Three years and three months. He was my best friend for a long, long time. We rarely went a day without at least seeing eachother...
    sodapop27 sodapop27 16-17, F May 23, 2011

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    I Need to Get Over Him

    theres this guy i know, and have done for about a year now. ive liked him for AGES. i dont want a relationship with him exactly because im not ready to be committed to anyone yet. but ive become obsessed with him. i really fancy him. but the problem is, he likes me too, but hes...
    chloee22 chloee22 16-18, F 6 Responses Oct 25, 2007

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    So this morning my boyfriend in 8th grade broke

    up with me. He felt as that we werent going to work out and said he needed a break. i am not entirely bothered by it just because i was already having doubts but im sad a bit. This is my first breakup and i dont really know how to handle it. We see each other in the hallways...
    MsMarvel1 MsMarvel1 13-15, F Nov 22

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    I need to find a way to be able to stop him

    using me whenever he feels like it. I'm in love with him, so I jump at any chance to see him even though I know he doesn't want to be with me again... It's killing me.
    NicolleSashaa NicolleSashaa 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 23

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    Him

    I thought I was over it. It. There was never anything that we could call it. I met him before I met him. In a dream. I was 14 years old, and I had this incredible, vivid dream. My friends and I were being chased, threatened by this monster of a man. We were terrified and...
    eyes eyes 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 23, 2008

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    I Still Love You.

    I am writing this because i know you'll never see it. I'll never mention it or anything. I just wanted you to know. That no matter what i did before. I will never be that person again. Everyday my heart and brain hurt because i constantly think about you. Those memories are all i...
    Shannawow Shannawow 22-25, F Oct 18, 2013

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    My Ex Was My Best Friend...

    After 15 years of being with him, it's hard to let go. I miss him very much. You have a longing to want that companionship again, that want to listen to another person, hear their feelings, their thoughts, watch tv shows with them... I miss that. I look at couples and think just...
    favestril favestril 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 26, 2011

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    someone I barely know

    during my relapse last year, i believe I had fallen for a guy which i blindly pursued.. If I was sober I wouldn't have. But I got rejected. Of all the guys I've met, It was one of the best feelings in the world, infatuation or love, I don't know.. My thoughts: The feelings I...
    amejad amejad 22-25, F Feb 9, 2010

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    I DESPERATELY NEED ADVICE: I'm in love w.

    my Ex who I really need to get over. Sounds typical right? I wish, but it's not that simple. He's my brothers best friend and he's literally at my house EVERY weekend. It never fails. No matter how hard I try I can't seem to get over him. He's so hot and cold. One day we'll be...
    StillTryingToDeal StillTryingToDeal 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 22

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    hating the Fact , just

    because I Attempted to get with him , it got me into this big hole , were am super lost . . Am starting to smoke again after I had stop for 3 years am starting my old ways .. What hurts the most I could be doing great just as he is but I choice not to , I don't have the words to...
    AfraidOfme AfraidOfme 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 26, 2013

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    He Wont Let Me Go

    I dated this guy for about 5 months. I met him online on a MMORPG. It wasn't supposed to have happened. Anyways, I dont feel like grinding through all the details. We did meet in real life and he said he loved me way before I think he should have. I am much more cautious and...
    its4am its4am 41-45 2 Responses Jul 12, 2010

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    I keep crying over him

    and he wasn't even mine. Can people message me? I need to get over him.
    PierceTheGreen PierceTheGreen 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 24

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    Loving Someone Else While Trying To Forget

    The last two years of my life have become hell. I am loosing my Father to cancer and well because of that my anxiety has been intense. but whats truly hurting. i choose to move to another state for this guy. we were sorta friends before and well we grew into an amazing...
    Shannawow Shannawow 22-25, F Sep 6, 2013

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    Dangerously In Love

    Yeah, like the title says, I am. Really. Well, not in love, but dangerously close to it. No matter who he dates, who he loves, I just can't get over him. Never will be able to for a long time :(. I really don't know why. I guess he just took my heart, ran away, and won't give it...
    ThreeDaysGraceIsLove ThreeDaysGraceIsLove 16-18, F Nov 8, 2007

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    if I keep thinking about him I'm honestly going

    to start banging my head against a brick wall
    Angelcum Angelcum 18-21, F 8 Responses Nov 19

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    Confused

    I wish i knew if i should hold on or let go.
    DreamWishBelieve DreamWishBelieve 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 19, 2010

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    Why Do I Still Care

     I'm friends with my ex on facebook. and its driving me nuts because this girl keeps commenting on his stuff. it shouldn't bother me, he was an *** and I'm seeing someone else. it does though, i keep thinking he is going to be better to his next girlfriend and that's not...
    TheGardener TheGardener 22-25, F 11 Responses Sep 23, 2009

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    I Feel Bad Inside.

    I cant do it anymore! You dont seem to care like you did a few weeks ago, but i suppose thats because you are a guy. But what about all the things you said? That was genuine. But then what were you saying to her at the same time? You told me you were fighting, but what about when...
    Playmeasong Playmeasong 16-17 1 Response Mar 27, 2012

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    Maybe it is time for me to move on .

    So I found out this boy was cheating on I had found out myself . Stalking his IG and FB I just did. I was just a waste of time to him I bet. He talking about he wants to spend the rest of his life that was just all a lie. Maybe it's just time for me to get over him . He's not...
    Heyitsjalenn Heyitsjalenn 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 22

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    Seriously...

    I really need to get over him. He hurt me, stole from me, lied to me...and probably cheated. Why am I not over him?!  It's because he was my first love! Ugh! This isn't fair!
    Val3ntine Val3ntine 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 6, 2010

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    Back in like year 8 or 7 I was absolutely in love or obsessed with this guy but we never seemed to communicate often and it wasn't the right time. But now I'm 16, in year 10 and...
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