I Need To Get Over Someone, I Want To Move On

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    I just can't get her out my head I don't want

    to love her anymore I haven't seen or spoken to her in nearly a year bur still she haunts me in my dreams and in my mind it only calms down when I'm talking to another girl but it still sits in my head reminding me she doing better then I am
    loyalman1983 loyalman1983
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Feb 7, 2015

    Uhhhh I'm done trying I'm done trying to make

    people happy and make people notice me I'm done embarrassing myself for someone who don't care I'm done trying to be with someone that doesn't notice me unless I got something I'm done I'm done I'm done
    iammee13 iammee13
    13-15, F
    1 Response Mar 23, 2015

    When Does It Stop.

    I loved him from the first moment I ever saw him, for about a year & a half, then we made it happen, & it was wonderful. We saw each other about 4 months, because it turned out he was already with someone & there 2 kids, so I finished it, so hard , but I did, because it wasn't...
    Xzaria Xzaria
    41-45, F
    8 Responses Feb 10, 2011

    November 16. It's your birthday today.

    I remember it every year. Wish I could tell it to you today. Wish I could've told you this the last 3 years also. But you abandoned me & I still see you almost every week somehow. Everytime you give me this ugly look. It hurts and I hate it. I fu***** miss you. Wish you weren't...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 15, 2014

    I can't get over him you don't understand what

    do I do? but I want to move on his no good for me all his did was treat me bad I question him he gets angry and blames me puts me down its horrible...
    sabzzzz sabzzzz
    18-21, F
    Nov 9, 2015

    How do I do this...? I'm head over heels

    for someone I can never have again
    dqtxeb25 dqtxeb25
    26-30, F
    Nov 3, 2015

    Reading some good moving on quotes on Pintrest

    I wanted to share and hope it helps you too. Feeling hopeful­čśŐ
    Shineonblueyes Shineonblueyes
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Feb 15, 2015
    beebeexoxox beebeexoxox
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 28, 2015

    It's hard, I can't move on no matter how hard i

    try the feelings just won't go away.
    Diamondgirly Diamondgirly
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 15, 2014

    so...there's this one guy

    that i've been into for almost two years, ever since i met him i knew he was a flirt, but i didn't care cause i though i knew him, for me he was so smart, so kind and also really attractive, and i loved every single word that come out of his mouth, but lately i found out that he...
    MichelleKnight MichelleKnight
    18-21, F
    Mar 15, 2015

    my husband passed away 19mos ago.

    I dint think its possible.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Mar 18, 2015

    I just can't get over my crush :( Every time I

    make up my mind to just forget him and ignore him, he does something nice that makes me like him more. what the hell is wrong with me? :<
    followyourheart0304 followyourheart0304
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 1, 2015

    Every time when I pick up the phone

    and want to text/email you, I stop myself. I write here instead. I thought about you today during one of my meetings and the memory just made me smile for no reason. How much I miss you and your voice. How much I miss your silliness and your jokes. How much I miss the random...
    JandL2013 JandL2013
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 21, 2015

    It's just every time I am seeming to get past

    him he always pops back up in my life somehow. It's very frustrating how all your happiness can come from one person and when they're gone so is your happiness.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Mar 1, 2015

    Rate the person in terms of: Looks

    Personality Social status Family background Job/education If they score low/average on most you haven't got a good catch, then you can move on.
    Paleandpolluted86 Paleandpolluted86
    26-30, F
    Feb 1

    OK soo it's been a year

    since I saw her last hearing she doing so well and always smiling happy last Monday I bumped into her she the same nothing has changed but for me I didn't feel the same for her I have changed lost 6 stone in weight looking better getting on with my life but there's a side of me...
    loyalman1983 loyalman1983
    31-35, M
    Apr 8, 2015

    I was friends with this girl

    but she did some ride stuff to me, however I kept giving her more chances. This year, my old guy friend from 7 years ago comes back into my life and the girl liked him after 1 day. A few weeks after he came I decided, after a lot of thinking, that I like him. The girl tells me...
    Gracexox49 Gracexox49
    16-17, F
    1 Response Mar 14, 2015

    You were in my heart You were my heart You

    shattered my heart You were in my soul You were my soul You shattered my soul You were in my dream You were my dream You shattered my dream
    FriendlyDutch FriendlyDutch
    36-40
    4 Responses Feb 6

    And what better way than to sleep with someone

    else....I do like him, but I feel almost like I slept with him just to get over you...I think it's not necessarily a bad way to put an old relationship to bed. I loved you Peter but I wasted my time, and I'm done with you and me now. I guess if ever you belong in my life again...
    Smile123q Smile123q
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 6, 2015

    I've been with him for a long time,

    we both grew up together. He was my first boyfriend and my very first love. I got to experience a lot of things for the first time with him. He was my everything but... he never express how he feel about me. I felt like we were just best friend that understood each other very...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Dec 19, 2015

    My fianc├ę broke up with me.

    He was lying and cheating with someone from his past. We had planned our wedding and everything!!! And then all of a sudden ...he starts to act different ...never stopped telling me he loved me..didn't stop being intimate ...but started seeing a woman from his past...my heart...
    stillhavehope3 stillhavehope3
    41-45, F
    Oct 15, 2014

    I thought I would like to start a new

    relationship at one point, but then my feelings for my ex came back. And I didn't want my next relationship to be a rebound. I've been the rebound before, so I don't want to pass that experience on to an awesome woman who deserves a lot better than that situation.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 14, 2015

    Sorry but It's a bit of a long story she was a

    classmate. I began to notice her a year ago. she is really beautiful, and has an amazing personality. seemed like a calm and reserved person. after a while I talked to her, told her that I liked her. She said she just didn't want to get involved with anybody. I was disappointed...
    Xylem1992 Xylem1992
    22-25, M
    Dec 18, 2015

    this is the hardest part.

    it's time to let go, I'm emotionally spent, and yet it hurts so much to leave it all behind. I miss him at the same time that I despise what he's done. I love him so much and never want to see him again at the same time. this is the hardest part. just not giving in and going...
    evynray evynray
    22-25, F
    Dec 3, 2014

    So my friends joke and say I need an

    intervention, i have havent talked to my ex in 2 weeks. and my friends say I should start dating...I tried to go on a dating site. So many guys want to talk to me. they message me all day. I talk to them but I never feel a connection. Iv been on a date but I just keep thinking...
    carebearblue carebearblue
    41-45, F
    Feb 28, 2015

    I've been liking this guy

    for a long time and I was pretty shocked and stressed after I've known that he was already taken. I can't do a thing. I don't want to ruin a relationship,I'm not selfish. My friends also like him,that doesn't help me out. Now I need to move on eventhough he doesn't know about my...
    oxyJean oxyJean
    18-21, F
    3 Responses May 28, 2014

    I need to move on. I tell

    that to myself over and over again. Today is your birthday. I have to stop this. Its been over a year already. But why? Why can't I step forward? Why do I still look for you in a crowded place? Why do I keep doing this to myself, knowing you're no longer there? Until when should...
    sehunscott sehunscott
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 25

    It sucks when you want to move on,

    but if you do, you're pretty much moving on away from your happiness.
    justinbartolome justinbartolome
    16-17, M
    1 Response Feb 7, 2015

    And here he starts talking to me again.

    ..... Or at least today...... With a huge smile and he tried to grab my arm I think when we were close..... The universe has been pulling us together for the past 3 years...pretty sure to test me because I have failed too many times already...but I can't help it. NOW MY FEELINGS...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 25, 2014
    Shineonblueyes Shineonblueyes
    46-50, F
    Feb 15, 2015

    It's been 17 months and it still hurts the same

    I was deeply in love and in a relationship with someone I thought felt the same but it was lie. My girlfriend of 3 yrs walked out of my life with such ease after deciding that someone else was more valuable than I was. 3 yrs of dedication thrown away for some coworker she knew...
    Authentic921 Authentic921
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Oct 15, 2014

    help me find a song related to my situation

    so I can feel sorry for myself­čśé, wanting a weep. love a guy who my friends and family hate because he's been horrible to me, but I want to be wth him and love him and I can't tell anyone because I'll look a fool
    samanthaannemccann samanthaannemccann
    16-17, F
    1 Response Feb 4

    I've been dating this guy

    for almost 3 years. And of course I'm madly in love. He has hurt me many time in the past. Other girls, lying, ect. He does this thing where he breaks up with me because he doesn't want a relationship but still talks to me and tells me he loves me. We almost had a kid together...
    blue1750 blue1750
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 15, 2014

    Why do you have to try to break my heart over

    and over again? It's already shattered. Can't damage it anymore. So do you what you have to do and leave. I hope you'll find what you are looking for with him. I hope his wife will be understanding and don't forget his kids...
    FriendlyDutch FriendlyDutch
    36-40
    Feb 17

    I'm drunk first of all,

    so sorry for anything that doesn't really make sense. my first serious boyfriend was the first person I ever loved. and from him. I learned that o am loyal to a fault. Because I promised that I would love him forever, even though we broke up, I kept the promise. every day I'm...
    toekneeow toekneeow
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 1, 2015

    She is dating my greatest enemy now,

    she betrayed me for him. I couldn't give her what she needed which is why she went with him. I'm heartbroken and need to move on but i still think about her every single day. I wish we never met, it ruined my business and now my emotional and love life. How do you move on when...
    gameoholic gameoholic
    36-40, M
    1 Response Jul 12, 2015

    Ugh. I just saw her and how happy she is to

    cheat on me with frack face. Why does a part of me still love her? Does moving on always constitute another relationship? Why do I feel that I have to erase love by finding another love? This is going to cost me another couple hundred dollars of therapy for sure or maybe a sexy...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Oct 14, 2014

    I loved you, Michael.

    Everything I ever told you was 100% true. You led me to believe you wanted me, loved me, and cared as much as I did. I cried, prayed and cried some more for over a year. You made me question my life values, made me suffer along with what you said was pain. And now I'm left with...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Mar 16
    Shineonblueyes Shineonblueyes
    46-50, F
    Feb 15, 2015

    We where like great friends

    but when he found out I liked him then it all changed He doesn't even talk to me anymore We don't laugh as much as we used to Instead I just cry all the time But no one cares When I die they better not say how they miss and they wish they could see me one more time cuz I'm...
    iammee13 iammee13
    13-15, F
    1 Response Feb 6, 2015

    I read an article recently over 'unhealthy soul

    ties'. It's a warning I've heard before for young ladies cautioning them against giving themselves away sexually. The article stated how emotionally different sex is for women than it is for men. There were science-y chemical rationales offered. It is a bit different on the...
    ijustneed2talk ijustneed2talk
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Feb 6

    I need to get over him like immediately

    before my feelings get too strong,but it's almost impossible to do so when he protects me and defends me at every opportunity he sees. This child was overwhelmingly hyper after my performance at his school and was coming over to me all red in the face and excited and the man...
    internalloveneverdies16 internalloveneverdies16
    18-21, F
    Dec 24, 2015
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