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I Need to Grow Up

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    Yeah So You Say

    i apparently need to grow up because i really really obsess over some one i cant have... i think its pritty f**king normal but no i have been told to grow up and get over it... sorry im not perfict and sorry i feel safe wanting what i cant have.
    Rebirth Rebirth 16-18, M Oct 30, 2007

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    Can Never Grown Up

    asi can never be potty trained and so many thing that makes me a child still and i have to many toys toys sort of fillthe vacacey ibn my haert for the one i loved
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Feb 13, 2012

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    I Need To Grow Up.

    I am going through an identity crisis right now. Actually, I have been, since two years ago. Who am I exactly? What happened to the old me? And why don't I like the new me? I have always been a proponent of "things just happen." "People just grow up." "It will happen to you...
    calmthedarkness calmthedarkness 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 25, 2012

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    My Mum

    I wish I knew how to be adult about stuff when it comes to my Mum. I just always have such a gut reaction when it comes to decisions she makes. The latest one is to sell the house where she lives with her husband of a year and move to an orchard.  The house where they are...
    auroraaustralis auroraaustralis 22-25 4 Responses Feb 21, 2009

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    growing up (one day at a time) ^^

    I am relearning to love myself, the people that are in my life now and those who are yet to come my way. I am relearning to love life again no matter how much it went down the hill. I am relearning to laugh out loud, smile like the sun and cry sad and happy tears. I am...
    indelible indelible 26-30 3 Responses Dec 21, 2010

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    Grow Up

    I get money once a semester from my college and I always spend it a good amount on games. Being Broke with no money and spending it on unimportant things seem really stupid when I think about but it's really the only thing I love. I need to find a balance fast .
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 19, 2012

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    What will I be when I grow up?

    That's always the question isnt it? And we're always looking for the answer. Or at least, I am. Ever since I can remember I've been Searching for my own dream, trying other peoples dreams on to see if they'll fit against my shell. I started to think that maybe I wasn't...
    lekrap lekrap 22-25, F Jun 18

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    Ya I really do ppl have been talking to me no

    names but you know who you are and also grow up for someone Important to me you also know who you are and I'm going to change I promise
    Pablo71214 Pablo71214 16-17, M Jun 4

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    Need Too..but Scared Too

    My life had been plan by my father since I was born...School...education...what major I'll be taking..what degree I'll be taking...what to do after degree...where to work.....It was plan to so detail that I Doubt I ever never need to think for myself..Parents is great..they...
    sindilky sindilky 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 9, 2011

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    Lol

    yes mum...
    sharpTresHombre sharpTresHombre 41-45, M Apr 4, 2010

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    What? The World Doesn't Revolve Around Me? Why Not?

    ok the title says the most important part. I guess as the last of 3 kids i got used to being the center of attention. i think that may have changed when we moved out into the country - my big sister lost all of her friends and had a lot of other issues that were never resolved...
    notalostcause notalostcause 36-40, M Mar 15, 2010

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    A Time To Transform Into A Woman.

    After 26 years you'd think I was ready. But something is holding me back and I don't know what. I don't know why. I feel left behind in my generation. I don't feel like I am where I am supposed to be mentally, physically, or spiritually. Is it that I am afraid of change? Is it...
    sweetiepoo sweetiepoo 26-30, F Nov 23, 2013

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    I Need To Grow Up... Fast.

    Ok. I'm 21, going to school, married, and i work as a cashier. But lately, I've been noticing at work that I'm being treated differently than other workers. I work with a lot of younger people (17 to 19) and i seem to get along pretty well with them. I can actually hold a...
    OnyxVioletSky OnyxVioletSky 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2013

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    (This is long but I just want someone to read and hear my struggle and understand. Please read I'll appreciate it!) I have no friends in high school. None at all. During break I...
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    I just need someone, someone to listen or just talk...message me someone?..
    pwikachew pwikachew 16-17, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    So I really need to try and get out of this ******* house and try and meet some people this weekend. This feels like such an impossible task, though. I feel like nobody who sets...
    purposebuilt purposebuilt 22-25, M 8 hrs ago

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    I need a full body massage, starting on my neck and working down my back.
    Bettyjb Bettyjb 41-45, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I just need someone to talk to,I feel upset and stressed right now
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    honeybug792 honeybug792 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    he Girl's i need talk ilove you girl's :) :* :* :*
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    Hey. I'm 15 years old, and growing up awfully. Most of my family is dead due to cancer. The remaining part are partually thieves, and partually selfhating people, blaming eachother...
    Draganoth Draganoth 13-15, M 9 Responses Jul 2

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    Our names are Lydia & Dale and we offer a childminding service named A Home to Grow from our lovely house in Maida Vale, Westminster, London W10. We are both fully registered...
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