I Need to Learn to Forgive

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 109 People

    My Deadbeat Dad

    So my father bailed on my mother when I was two years old and never made an attempt to reconnect with me until I was 10. I went to visit him in London the summer after my 10th birthday and I had a wonderful time. Then he introduced me to some woman and said she was his wife and...
    hisworstnightmare hisworstnightmare
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 28, 2012

    My ex best friend and I could never stop

    fighting. It was all verbal. A month ago, things became so bad that I ended everything we had. He was hurtful (so was I) and he often took his stress in life out on me. It was frustrating for me, but I stayed with him because he could help me at my worst too. The only difference...
    DanceOfBlades DanceOfBlades
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 22

    Can I?

    I am the ultimate grudge holder. I'm not exactly proud of it, but it is true. If someone really hurts me I have a hard time forgiving. Even if they aren't aware of it, it is there, between us. I have learned that how much I love someone is directly related to how long I can...
    autimom autimom
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Nov 18, 2008

    To Forgive Or Not to Forgive My Mother

    Before I write anything further, I just want to say that I'm sharing this not because I don't know how to forgive. I just don't know if I should. It's so hard to accept that the person you love the most would cause you so much hurt and suffering. I haven't talked to my mother...
    Axo Axo
    22-25
    1 Response Aug 18, 2008

    Funny Quote

    When I was a kid I used to pray every night for a new bicycle. Then I realised that the Lord doesn't work that way so I stole one and asked Him to forgive me.Emo Philips
    NeopolitanSkye NeopolitanSkye
    36-40, F
    Feb 29, 2012

    Hold Grudges For Way Too Long

    I Hold Grudges Way Too Long And I Hate Doing It Sometimes. I Keep Anger Or Hurt Held Against A Person Even Though I Know That It Is Just Hurting Me. The Ppl I Get Upset At Aren't Wasting Their Time On Me. They Probably Don't Give Me A Second Thought, Here I Am Taking Time Out...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 5, 2012

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