I Need To Plan For My Divorce

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    So, bottom line, I need to divorce.

    my problem is, I don't know who should file first. I hurt her already & don't want to hurt her anymore. I have not filed, because I don't want to add salt to her wounds. I figured if she files it would somehow made her feel better & empower her. Yet, it has been two months...
    irishstone irishstone
    46-50, M
    Nov 19, 2014

    Just got home from awful vacation with husband

    and realize we have reached the bottom. Any lower and there will be police involved. I need to get divorce started asap. So scarred, no job, nowhere to go!
    squirrelbounce squirrelbounce
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Oct 29, 2014
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 17, 2015

    I need advise on how do I get divorce without

    hurting my wife and kids.. My wife is good human being .. It's just that nothing happens the way I wanted my married life to go.. It's more a bad luck and I would say her no contribution to make it work for me the way I wanted my marriage... I got lost within 6 months of my...
    lovencare lovencare
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Sep 18, 2014

    I am one week away from a settlement hearing.

    My issue is this. it was discovered by my phone carrier that a spy app was put on my phone, my computer was remotely activated, he is quoting texts and conversations I have privately had with people, and now is withholding and destroying evidence that I need. not to mention I...
    j46b82 j46b82
    41-45, F
    Nov 30, 2014

    I Need Advice And Help Please

    I've been with my husband since we were young teenager. The love we had was great ,we enjoyed each other and loved to do anything as long as it was with each other. The past year has been like living in hell. We have two kids . One a teenager girl the other a 10 year old boy. I'm...
    Canadianmommy Canadianmommy
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Feb 5, 2012

    I'm 38, disabled wife is 48,

    I'm emotionally divorced, lonely, poor, but have 3 kids so it's my duty to stay, but unhappily? IDK what to do!
    jgoffe10 jgoffe10
    36-40, M
    1 Response Jan 8, 2015
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