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I Need To Realize That Somethings You Just Can't Change

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 274 People

    No Use In Getting Worked Up Over It...

    I always seem to have anxiety attacks because I can never learn that some things are just out of my control. I cant change the way other people think or act. I just need to focus my attention instead on myself and things that are in my control
    AdamFTM AdamFTM 22-25, T 1 Response Apr 11, 2010

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    I just wish I could be happy.

    Everyday I think about the "what ifs". What if I actually had supportive parents, parents who I could talk to about any and everything, parents who would show they actually cared. I've never had anybody ! I feel like life would be so much easier if I had at least one friend or...
    dezy2be dezy2be 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 19, 2015

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    You can't change other people

    but I can make changes for me.
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F Jan 21

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    Like My Twin Sisters Need For Drama

    like my twin sisters drama 24/7 she drives me crazy thats why i dont call her too much its always drama every day
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 24, 2010

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    After A While

    After a while you learn The subtle difference between Holding a hand and chaining a soul And you learn that love doesn't mean leaning And company doesn't always mean security. And you begin to learn That kisses aren't contracts And presents aren't promises And you begin to...
    ichooselife ichooselife 36-40, F Jul 25, 2010

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    Some People Will Never Understand

    You morons are utterly hopeless. The following paragraph is to those who steadfastly believe that being an American gives them the right to degrade their country, while simultaneously failing to see that it is our very freedoms which give them that choice.  I've read story...
    Stahl Stahl 31-35, M 3 Responses May 22, 2010

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    ......just Like The Weather......

    In life each day is new and each day is different. We can each do our best to be the best that we can be but there will be obstacles. Some days the sun will shine and other days it may rain. We must take what life throws at us and learn from each experience...good or bad...
    SuzieA SuzieA 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 13, 2010

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    People

    Why because we are so different.
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 2 Responses May 8, 2010

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    Nope... no matter how hard I try.

    There are things...traits...opinions, beliefs, expectations.... I can't change.
    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2015

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    I need to realize that some things can't be

    changed. I need to accept what is and do the next right thing.
    Peter123 Peter123 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 17, 2015

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    you can't change yourself,

    you just have to live with it!
    abcd70 abcd70 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 13, 2014

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