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I Need To Realize That Somethings You Just Can't Change

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 146 People

    .....especially Others

    Yeah, like other people. You need to work on yourself instead.
    Evernight Evernight 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 11, 2010

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    No Use In Getting Worked Up Over It...

    I always seem to have anxiety attacks because I can never learn that some things are just out of my control. I cant change the way other people think or act. I just need to focus my attention instead on myself and things that are in my control
    AdamFTM AdamFTM 22-25, T 1 Response Apr 11, 2010

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    Some People Will Never Understand

    You morons are utterly hopeless. The following paragraph is to those who steadfastly believe that being an American gives them the right to degrade their country, while simultaneously failing to see that it is our very freedoms which give them that choice.  I've read story...
    Stahl Stahl 31-35, M 3 Responses May 22, 2010

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    Like My Twin Sisters Need For Drama

    like my twin sisters drama 24/7 she drives me crazy thats why i dont call her too much its always drama every day
    lunnas lunnas 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 24, 2010

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    After A While

    After a while you learn The subtle difference between Holding a hand and chaining a soul And you learn that love doesn't mean leaning And company doesn't always mean security. And you begin to learn That kisses aren't contracts And presents aren't promises And you begin to...
    ichooselife ichooselife 36-40, F Jul 25, 2010

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    People

    Why because we are so different.
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 2 Responses May 8, 2010

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    I can't totally help you if you don't want my help or if your don't try to make this forced forced friendship work work ~_~ As my favorite band of old time Paparoach says in my...
    SquirrellyChanLuvsAcorns83 SquirrellyChanLuvsAcorns83 18-21 Mar 29

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    Sometimes I close my eyes and drift back to my childhood days, And call to mind those old sweet times then wander through the haze. Back to a place of carefree life in happy...
    Bonnie1934 Bonnie1934 56-60, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    There is this song called #SELFIE, and I find it quite annoying, to be honest I actually would prefer songs by Justin Bieber and all those hated artists. I just can't stand this...
    ConcealedWildheart ConcealedWildheart 13-15, F Apr 4

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    I can't stand every song by Beyoncé
    Purplequeen21 Purplequeen21 18-21, F Apr 4

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    I can't stand blurred lines
    musicdance814 musicdance814 13-15, F Apr 4

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    I can't stand any song that is by Miley Cyrus or Taylor Swift.
    Djcman331 Djcman331 13-15, M Apr 4

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    I can't stand thrift shop at all. Nope. I can't.
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 4

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    For one thing i'm sure about money and love is when you love someone and he, she or it is in need and you have money you support him,her,or it financally.
    blackweirdcat blackweirdcat 46-50, F Mar 23

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    Dubstep and Just The Way You Are by Bruno Mars...just...no.
    kissthedeadly kissthedeadly 18-21, F Apr 4

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    Story of my lifeeeeeeeeeeee
    miracle98 miracle98 18-21, F Mar 29

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    Rebacca black friday, almost any country song
    RavenHearts RavenHearts 16-17, F Apr 4

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    Oh. My. God. When Fancy by TI, Drake and Swiss Beatz came on the radio last summer I swear they played it like 5 times in every 2 hours 😩
    KyLeone KyLeone 18-21, F Apr 4

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    Might be a shock but I find Happy by Pharrell very annoying
    lostCake lostCake 22-25, F Apr 4

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    The only country song i cant stand tim magraw his new song it sounds like trash
    curvybitch curvybitch 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    What does the fox day , call me maybe and anything Taylor swift makes .
    lunaluna13 lunaluna13 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    Let it Go so ******* annoying even for Disney standards
    ttremain ttremain 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    Country music , I am allergic to it.
    mrrabbitdigital mrrabbitdigital 46-50, M Apr 6

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    Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind. You can't change anyone because everyone is different in there own way..
    dede9090 dede9090 16-17, F Apr 1

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    I don't mean this in a negative sense... I mean that my friends at school are like family to me. For some reason, I'm far more comfortable talking to them about anything than I am...
    EponymousAnonymous EponymousAnonymous 13-15 1 Response Apr 7

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    when you freak out because you so badly want to remember some songs she always used to play in the car but you can't just pick up the phone and ask her. </3 I just want to...
    Ray1787 Ray1787 18-21, F Mar 23

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    Or like when they say they are going to do something and don't do it, or vice versa. My mother in law has this problem and it annoys the crap out of me. She's always complaining to...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F Mar 25

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    Argh. Note to self: you can't trust high school girls. Infact the only females you should trust are your sisters aunties and mothers (or older woman who are pretty much your second...
    SassySam77 SassySam77 18-21, F Apr 1

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    I want to be there for anyone suffering in silence. If there's something that you've been dying to get off your chest, want to tell someone but feel like you can't, or just want to...
    Caramelheart Caramelheart 16-17, M 2 days ago

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    I'm 186 lbs and my goal is to get back to the 140 lbs I was 4 years ago. Since then, I've met a great guy who cooks amazing food, and eventually I started taking second helpings...
    aspenhaze aspenhaze 26-30, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Coworkers. . . My job as much work as I do getting paid really **** for it has made me realize somethings. I've met some people that have become like family to me. Their opinions...
    TaurasiWade TaurasiWade 18-21, F Apr 6

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    After relationship nonsense after relationship nonsense, I began to realize I don't need that crap while I'm still trying to figure out who I am. For days and days on end I would...
    imryll imryll 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    Well I given up on my family, I left my mom, ignore my father for so long, and I always felt so left out from my brothers and sister. I was never close with my father, I was never...
    DaylightAly DaylightAly 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    I am a very open person, and you usually have to literally be trying to get on my bad side in order to do it... My Mother-in-Law manages it spectacularly. I have never met such a...
    gladmadhatter gladmadhatter 22-25, M 1 Response 52 mins ago

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    I've been in several circles of friends from high school to college but for some reason I often get left out. Yes, they care about me and I care about them, it's just that for some...
    1092baker 1092baker 18-21, M 2 hrs ago

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    So when I was 10 I went to visit my uncle who lives in California. I had a great time! So my last day we went to the beach and there I met a scrawny boy with blonde hair and blue...
    DeadlyKryptonite DeadlyKryptonite 13-15, F Mar 20

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    Oh, when people accuse you of "changing" as though you have done something wrong. Ask yourself why they feel the need to point it out? To help you? Or to serve themselves? Will you...
    SmashedUpSanity SmashedUpSanity 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    Dear Mother. I have found it! Your kidlogger. Very creative to betray your 18 year old daughter. I must say, I always wanted to be able to trust you, I was so jealous everytime I...
    Littlegirl99 Littlegirl99 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 2

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 2

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    I'm really struggling at the moment to find a reason to keep on living or to look to the future. I split from my ex a while ago but we have been on and off since. We have a...
    isthereanypoint isthereanypoint 26-30 Apr 8

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    Happens all the time. My memories feel like dreams. So I'm not sure what is real that much. Not to mention I can't remember most of my life anyways. It doesn't matter though.
    SpilledTea SpilledTea 18-21, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend and I are currently trying to work things out after he made out with someone else 3 weeks ago. We have been dating 2 1/2 years and live together. His is my best...
    mixedup2 mixedup2 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    I don't think I can forgive my husband for the way that he acted when my father got sick and passed away from prostate cancer after a 10 year battle against it. My dad was pretty...
    idk8 idk8 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    Have you ever had that experience where you just can't decide on your own? The times when you have to wait for what others think then later you agree with the majority? This is...
    versusapathy versusapathy 18-21, F Mar 25

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    Soooo there's this girl that's really nice sweet an attractive, but age is too far an idk really what to do :(. Any help would be amazing I do like her but can't be with her 💔
    CustomsPatChr CustomsPatChr 22-25, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I can't stand when my parents fight because then I'm stuck upstairs in my room all day long I really wish they would just make up!!!:(
    thequietone1000 thequietone1000 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    Don’t change because someone wants you to, change because you want to. If you have to change for someone then they aren’t worth it. The one that don’t want you to change...
    serachii serachii 22-25, F Apr 2

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    Okay so for the people that play Vedic games they may know this image from imfamous the second son, but this picture is a great message for people. The white side represents good...
    laia120841 laia120841 13-15, M Apr 2

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    Idk if I can do this but I'll try! 1• What you look for in a boyfriend? - At least 175cm (5"9) tall, humor and doesn't lie to me. 2• Are you childish? - I don't think I am...
    Planetweird Planetweird 16-17, F Mar 29

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    Meanwhile my boyfriend is in NYC for a college course schmoozing with publishers and, after one day, got a job working for a cooking website from the publisher he is staying with...
    dendroica dendroica 22-25, F 5 days ago

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