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I Need to Relax

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    I So Need To At Times

        There are times that I need to relax. I seem to have a hard time relaxing at times. I don't know why that is. I guess that there are times that I have wayto much on my mind. I just don't know how to relax. Get the relaxation that I need. I wish that at times...
    acjf acjf 22-25, F Nov 20, 2010

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    I Need To Relax

    I work everyday from 8 am to 10:30 pm. I have no day off for 3 weeks already. Whenever I reach back home also my friends are chatting in my room until morning 2am. I'm really fed up with this things. Really really want to get good rest. Sometime I realy wanna run away from this...
    Mingwe Mingwe 26-30 Nov 18, 2011

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    I Need To Relax

    I need to relax,The pace of life,Too fast,Getting me down,Can’t keep up,So many changes,I’ve had enough,Need a break,I’d love to get off,This merry-go-round!
    cndrewdrvr8 cndrewdrvr8 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 14, 2011

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    Inability to Relax Because of Anxiety

    I've certainly considered myself a care free person for a long time... but careLESS... just carefree. I could still take care of day to day responsibilities and have fun and just chill out if I wanted. Though I do spaz quite frequently! I always get over it in a few minutes...
    fiercetwilight fiercetwilight 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 2, 2009

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    Do I Ever!

    I'm a student. I have test anxiety and so when I'm sick and I miss school, sometimes I miss  tests and that makes me even more nervous that when I'm there to take the test on the day it was given. School work in general makes me nervous. So does report cards and grades. In...
    AliciaAnesthesia AliciaAnesthesia 16-17, F Nov 14, 2010

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    How?

    I don't know how to relax. I went to the spa last week & it was a constant chore of reminding myself to just relax. I guess I stay so tense & rarely get the opportunity so when the chance comes along I just don't know how.
    gatorgirl013 gatorgirl013 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 22, 2013

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    Relax to Music

    I am feeling just a little bit wound right now after writing that story about anger - thankfully it is almost the time when my partner gets up for work. I need to let him have his beauty sleep so that he can function at his work. My partner and I had great fun...
    catya47 catya47 51-55, F Jan 21, 2009

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    Although I don't consider myself a walking

    time-bomb or a perfect picture of health, but there are some things I feel get worse with stress. The thing about it is, I know I get annoyed and agitated at certain things--I don't think I am stressed out. All my friends tell me I am, and I have a lot of reasons to be, but...I...
    opensodacan opensodacan 22-25 Dec 31, 2013

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    Whats Your Perfect Vacation ? Summer Fun !!

    We go camping every year take our horses . Back in the deep country .. Camp fires , hiking , swimming , rent a boat , fish , kids we drag in old tires on the river , drink cold beer ..eat by the camp fire , ride horses at night . sleep under the stars .. What is your family...
    mycowboyson12 mycowboyson12 36-40, M 9 Responses Apr 19, 2009

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    Affirmation to Fall Asleep (usually)

    There are a couple situations in life that are stressful. I finally figured out how to fall asleep-usually LOL Regular bedtime Never talk about anything anxiety raising within an hour and a half of going to sleep, put it away for later. get enough sleep each night. exercise...
    akasolia akasolia 41-45, F Mar 1, 2011

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    RESTORING RESOURCES

    Can you relate to this? I am being harrassed, it is a horrible feeling. Anyway, my x-bf friend went ahead and moved into the upstairs apartment, right above my husband and myself. Annoying, and creepy. My X was crazy. His house was littered with cat turds on the carpet. An entire...
    akasolia akasolia 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 1, 2011

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    Pinkyschwear23 Pinkyschwear23 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    I Really Need to Relax and Stop Over Analyzing

    I'm the type of person who likes to plan ahead - I'm reading law so I need this to be able to study and get on with it.  It's not like working, where you have to be at work for a determined period of time and you can't do anything about it.  Especially with exams...
    Gankarl Gankarl 22-25 Jan 26, 2009

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    A Break

    I probably just need that BREAK... just a real break. I mean, in a new place (if only i had the money!) or something...a new atmosphere...I just need to calm my restless soul...
    mistyeyedlass mistyeyedlass 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 17, 2009

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    13tides31 13tides31 18-21, M Apr 11

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    I Need To Learn How To Relax

    It's hard to relax like how am I supoused to relax when I have a test that can make my life much better of worse, how am i suposed to relax in this society, where one mistake, one bad judgment can mark you for the rest of your life, or even kill you, how can I trust myself when I...
    mokkx mokkx 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 27, 2012

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    Tense

    My neck, ears, shoulders and upper arms are just rock tight with tension.  I can't seem to release it.  Yoga and meditation are only very temporary cures.   Any suggestions for relief?
    Freestanding Freestanding 51-55, F 12 Responses Mar 11, 2008

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    Sitting on my back porch with a mini cigar.

    Relaxing before work...it's nice.
    LadyCNote LadyCNote 26-30, F Jun 19

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    jrugbby jrugbby 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    Mental Health Break

    Sometimes, I think we need a break, A mental health day, Have ‘em all the time, Some people, They need a permanent mental health break, Wouldn’t that be great, No more work, Even less stress!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket 46-50, M Oct 1, 2011

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    Relaxing Sounds Good Right Now.

    Relaxing sounds good right now, but the only time I relax is when I fall asleep. And I heard of a survey back in the 1990s where over 50% of americans had day to day stress. The simpelest thing can stress me!. As simple as a statement.
    no14me no14me 22-25, M Nov 17, 2010

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    Dream.

    If a manager offer me a new job I would work as " sleeping tester in a matress factory " !
    juliegirlie juliegirlie 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 19, 2012

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    today has been a little rough.

    but right now i just need someone give me some poetry intellectual conversation.. i love my roommate but she and her bf have been talking most the evening lol.
    musicalsoul10 musicalsoul10 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I Need To Learn How To Relax

    I stress out over everything so it’s really no shock that all of this would come back to haunt me. I need to learn how to relax and let things go but it’s just not something that I have learned how to do, or at least haven’t learned how to do well. I take a lot...
    LoneLostDreamer042 LoneLostDreamer042 26-30, F Nov 20, 2010

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    I Want To.

    My cousin's girlfriend left her baby here with us for the fourth time today.  My aunt was laying down with the kids in her room.  So, she comes in here and throws him in my lap and asks, "Will you watch him?"  Well, I guess I will seeing as I have no ******* choice...
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace 18-21, F Jan 6, 2010

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    Im Panicking

    I dont know what to doim scared i think thatthere is something watching meim scared of the darkand i dont know what to doim scared of the darki think that there watching mei dont have helpno one knowsi need helpthere is nonei think im going insanei dont know what to do
    crepesaredelicious crepesaredelicious 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 14, 2011

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    Relax

    I'm going to relax a little with the hub in the lving room before we hit the bed...Zzzzz ... goodnight
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 17, 2012

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    Complicated

    I REALLY need to relax. But it's hard ya know? School, parents and friends counting on you and at your heels at every moment. I need a massage or a vacation for 2 years or something. My head goes crazy and I believe I have gone mad and become a crazy psychopath. You see my...
    MeiAtraAla MeiAtraAla 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 14, 2011

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    maybe, just maybe if my mind stopped racing,

    for a minute or two i would be able to hear my heart beat, and remember that im alive.
    XxxMarkusFromDarknessxxX XxxMarkusFromDarknessxxX 18-21, M Dec 30, 2013

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    I would love to be sitting on a white beach

    with crystal clear water at my feet and a ice cold drink!!!! Time to wake up from the dream..... 3 yr old has the 6yr old in a headlock kissing him. Lol
    carebear1019 carebear1019 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 19

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    Yeah Right

    I say this just as I'm about to start another job and school and the kids will return to class tomorrow. I don't think the word is really in my vocab. I am attempting to take some time off around the next holiday but we also volunteer to work the MDA telethon so that's one day...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F Aug 17, 2008

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    Really just want to lay my head in his lap

    and let him play with my hair. We can talk or listen to music or watch a movie. I don't care. I just want to be with him. Nothing makes me more at peace.
    BrokenPhoenixx BrokenPhoenixx 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 22

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    Like You Mean It........

    Kiss me like you mean it. make me feel good. I wanna feel your tongue and teeth and lips. Make me feel nothing but you. Make me think about nothing but you. Lead me into oblivion with your lips. Sink into me. pull me closer. Show me what it's really like. Make me melt....
    dreamworld4eva dreamworld4eva 18-21, F Jul 29, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I'm a single mom, I work full time, taking online classes, I have my own apartment,and bills of my own. So me trying to relax isn't happening.its non existant. I don't know how to...
    Sb88 Sb88 26-30, F Jul 19

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    Hi there, So this is where I am right now - I have had a really bad couple of years at both personal and working levels. - I want to understand what is going on inside me that gave...
    bud1969 bud1969 41-45, M 2 days ago

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    This is so me! I over rest before even taking a second to think. I'm always in a rush! I need to learn to relax and calm it down! Sometimes it's best to just slow down and take a...
    SimplyBeingMe94 SimplyBeingMe94 18-21, F Jul 2

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    I had my teeth cleaned a couple weeks ago and the dental hygienist suggested I see a specialist about my crown. She suggested a nearby endodontist that had just opened and used...
    beachfoot12 beachfoot12 22-25, M Jul 14

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    I really need to relax right now. I have way too much anxiety right now. He said he wouldn't tell anyone but I know he's gonna look at me differently now
    JalenFrankie616 JalenFrankie616 13-15, F Jul 19

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    I have a boyfriend. This is my first relationship. I'm still pretty young. I'm a college student But right now I'm a full time lifeguard and swimming instructor My little job on...
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I found that one way I relax is knowing that somebody is there with/for me. Just having somebody near me is so relaxing And for txting people I love getting replies because it...
    DearYou DearYou 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    Relaxing to me is reclining in my basement chairs in the dark; wrapped in a snuggie and sipping on a juice box, while watching TV. Comment your favorite way to relax.
    successhasnoface successhasnoface 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    ... I don't even know what to do anymore xD Sometimes you just need a place all to yourself no worries and Nooo internet.... No cellphone just open air and alone lost in thoughts...
    PaulinaaaO PaulinaaaO 13-15, F Jul 23

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    I just need someone to talk to or sing for me. It would help me to relax. I just can't handle it.
    ysobelley ysobelley 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and I am in love. As every couple we have ups and downs. I need some advice. We have recently been arguing over things that...
    ulovedesi ulovedesi 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am a really overweight guy who has a girlfriend that keeps cheating and sending sexual messages to other men. I am learning that my friend base is almost a zero and the few I...
    roomypersonality roomypersonality 31-35, M 5 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I love to listen to my music in a car when I'm driving especially at night where there aren't many car on the road, sooo peaceful and relaxed.
    ShastaMt ShastaMt 36-40, F Jul 15

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    Somehow wearing clothes makes me feel uncomfortable, it makes me want to hurry to a place where I can take them off. I ain't relaxed when I'm dressed, the feeling of clothes on my...
    Sanvis Sanvis 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 23

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    Nothing more relaxing than having a nice warm bath smelling lovely while Claude Debussy is playing on the Ipod☺️🛀
    AnotherTomboyGamer AnotherTomboyGamer 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I'm relaxing on my sofa what's everyone else doing ?
    annoyedgirl annoyedgirl 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I massage my chest while I drive, it's relaxing.
    jjtoes jjtoes 36-40, F 11 Responses Jul 1

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    I do understand that drinking alcohol may people feel more relaxed in order to break the shyness. But in my experience, by having a boost of caffeine it would act the same way. It...
    ElenaPR ElenaPR 46-50 1 Response Jul 11

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