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I Need to Say Goodbye and Move On

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    Get Over Him!

    this is what I have been telling myself for over two years. After a relationship of 3 months, K dumped me for someone else. I thought I was over him, but as soon as he gives the least bit of attention, i'm almost immediately pulled back in. He has a girlfriend for over 1 and a...
    deardiaryjulia deardiaryjulia 16-17, F Sep 6, 2013

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    I Needed Help For This One

      I have to let go of all my exes, one in particular. And Pablo Neruda, a man who died 10 years before I was even born had exactly the words to express how I feel. Nuff said     Tonight I can write the saddest lines. Write, for example,'The night is shattered...
    annathom annathom 26-30, F 2 Responses May 22, 2008

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    I know when that time comes and I have no problem telling it like it is and moving on with my life in most cases.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F May 6, 2010

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    Goodbye friends you are all loved.

    Always remember that.
    ccafreak ccafreak 16-17, F Jan 19

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    Adios.

    Sometimes people don't feel likewise and want us out of their lives.Sometimes, the feelings of friendship, appreciation etc. aren't mutual.And we have to learn to let go.Move on.Because it's for the best, you know?I wish you the best.This post is for all those friends I had to...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F May 2, 2011

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    Diary Of A Twelfth Grader 3 March 2013

    Dear Diary, I really like A but i dont want to keep sneaking around at 2 in the morning to swap spit. i feel like, other than sexually, we dont have any connections. i cant hold a decent conversation with him anymore. im not sure how to do this though. i dont know what to call...
    juSts0m3giRl juSts0m3giRl 18-21, F Sep 1, 2013

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    My husband & I had a talk Sunday about saving

    our marriage of course he said he wanted to. Our main issue is he shows me no affection we our never intimate and I'm very lonely. Sunday was the first time in 2 years he slept in the room all night with me. I have to admit I felt so good not being alone. But that was it Monday...
    inaslump inaslump 31-35, F 2 Responses May 15

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    Goodbye Ep And Thank You

    To quote Douglas Adams, So long and thanks for the fish. elegantlady is leaving. Happy to have known you all. When I am here as elegant lady, I am her totally and she is me. I am a woman with specific interests and tastes. I have a strong sense of self and a strong sense of the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 15, 2012

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    Good-bye And Good Riddance!

    For the past three years, I've been fixated on my ex-girlfriend - something I'm not too proud of. Although I can't good-bye to my ex in person, I can good-bye to her memories, which I've taken the painful effort of erasing.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 13, 2011

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    I Have Moved On Actually

    And pretty thoroughly (;P). I just haven't gotten around to the goodbye part of it yet. I know I should, my gawd, my best friend was telling me to do just get it over with months ago but I just...didn't. I think its because I suck at official goodbyes. In the past, leaving worked...
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21 22-25, F May 9, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I need to say goodbye to the most important part of my life and I don't even know how to begin. It is said that one is nothing but a sum of their experiences, but what happens when...
    Tanira Tanira 22-25 Jul 3

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    I don't like saying goodbye but goodbye to the people I've met today......well until tomorrow because now I'm going to sleep.....so bye
    pattyricia pattyricia 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I hate saying goodbye to people I love. I feel like I could've done something to make it hurt a little less like more hugs or hang outs or talking idk but it's never that. Just...
    TallyO TallyO 13-15, F Jun 28

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    Its horrible. You've just had lots of fun and now you have to go to boring old home. But saying goodbye at the airport is the worst, it makes me cry for hours.
    Mahsa99 Mahsa99 13-15, F Jul 9

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    I hate saying goodbye to him ;( I never know when I'll see him again, it's always surprise visits!
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    goodbye old house that i moved into when i was 6 where you shared my smiles and tears goodbye to the dining room, where dinners full of delciousness and discussions of life and...
    jeweldoggy jeweldoggy 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    Goodbyes are not forever, Goodbyes are not the end, they simply mean I'll miss you, Until we meet again.
    allencam05 allencam05 22-25, M Jul 4

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    A 5 year old girl had a panic attack. he passed away, she left and never looked back. She loved her daddy so much. That little girl was me. lost little soul wondering why her daddy...
    kjonesr kjonesr 18-21, F Jul 8

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    I'll be off for awhile, goodbye. I won't be on as much anymore either, bit busy with somethings aswell, I'll be on my other account or k---eeek 9they filter this lol). Plus, going...
    jakey942 jakey942 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 12

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    Goodbye is a simple lil word but somehow it seems final like coming to an endBut i know this is only the beginning of something wonderful with you my dear friend.So this word wont...
    lilreddress lilreddress 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 4

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    Goodbye Experience Project!
    DepressedIsMe DepressedIsMe 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    Goodbye seems like you will never see each other again. I prefer cya later.
    PanicAtTheBlink PanicAtTheBlink 13-15, M Jun 29

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    The most painful goodbyes are the ones that are never said and never explained.
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 9

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    I do hate it... I don't even like to hang up... But sometimes you have to say good-bye so you can say hi for new and better stuff... Changes are good... Or that's what people say...
    dalexand16 dalexand16 22-25, F Jul 13

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    I'm sorrryyyyyy people!!!!! But I'm going on holiday so won't talk or reply or whatever for a week...😘😭😁byeeeeeeeee...well...I'll be leaving tomorrow morning VERY early...
    loveyourselfalwaysxx loveyourselfalwaysxx 13-15, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    No sence sticking around if I just get ignored.. I thought I had friends in here guess not!!!
    mckddy mckddy 36-40, M Jun 24

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    Truth is there's so much to lose.
    fios fios 18-21, F Jul 10

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    I didnt know it was a heart attack. I thought it was just a cold.
    mairesequin mairesequin 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    As of late I have come to the conclusion about my life that seems quite enduringly logical. I have borderline personality disorder* & today I came too the realization that I will...
    girlinterrupted96 girlinterrupted96 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    It took me four years to get over "U"I admit, i was in love till the very end. Even when you told me " you know it is over, right?" or that unforgettable night when you made it...
    STORMBRINGER72 STORMBRINGER72 36-40, M 5 days ago

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    I am married and so my AP, neither happily married. We became friends over 2 years ago, but over the last year have gotten alot closer. Our families were all friends (his wife, my...
    Suzanne1976 Suzanne1976 36-40, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    My best friend of nearly ten years, moved to the US without saying goodbye to me. We dated a brief while, but everything was well between us. Not a goodbye call, text or pigeon...
    nikkieDarth nikkieDarth 22-25, F Jul 15

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    I could honestly say you've been on my mind Since I woke up today I look at your photograph all the time These memories come back to life And I don't mind I remember when we...
    jeannetjayy jeannetjayy 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Just as we finally decide to get together he moves to Bangladesh cuz of his low grades 😭💔 I can't text him cuz bad connection and I didn't even get to say goodbye he's...
    georgia2001 georgia2001 13-15, F Jun 28

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    Don't ever say goodbye , that means bye for forever . Say cya later so the other person knows your not leaving
    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    Dear me, Stop worrying! Everything will be OK! I meant are you seriously worry for him not loving you in person and only loving you for you behind a computer scree. WAKE UP!! You...
    lovemedearly lovemedearly 16-17, F Jun 23

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    So every time my boyfriend asks me to come visit him I always get this bittersweet feeling. Of course I'm happy that I'm gonna see him, nothing makes me more happy. But always in...
    LifeOfaMarineGirlfriend20 LifeOfaMarineGirlfriend20 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Okay here I go, I am 12 years old, and I am turning 13 in August. My parents love me to the moon and back, and they show it by getting me things and saying "I love you." And I love...
    saboosa1 saboosa1 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    I do.. cause people keep us idling...waiting..it needs compassion n understanding to wait.. I appreciate a proper goodbye where we can start to continue something new.. It helps...
    9thguy 9thguy 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I have moved around so much in my first year after college that I don't know anyone anymore. I could definitely use some new friends.
    empressoflight empressoflight 22-25, F 3 hrs ago

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    I said goodbye to you today. Breaks my heart but I know when it needs to be done. Can you see the tears in my texts? How about the screams from my heart? I'm so sorry you have to...
    Souless33 Souless33 26-30, F Jul 10

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    So I figured I'd update my earlier post as I don't care anymore, mood is dropping by the day and if it wasn't for me having to hold on to work equipment. I'd do it now. Work knows...
    lostunit lostunit 26-30, M a week ago

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    The picture says it all nothing more needs to be said
    Custos1 Custos1 18-21, M 48 mins ago

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    Most of my close friends got married recently, and my parents have cut off my connection to social media, so I lost ALL of my online friends... And I just said goodbye to a close...
    ifeelempty ifeelempty 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 10

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    To all that say they need to lose weight, and think there fat, and are putting themselves down. **** going on a diet. You are beautiful just the way you are in this very moment...
    TheLoud TheLoud 13-15, M 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    So here goes! I'm female 21 and have been struggling with maintaining a healthy weight for sometime, (i wouldn't necessarily say I had an ED, more borderline) I feel so alone right...
    RachB1992 RachB1992 18-21, F 5 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    First, I want to introduce myself, I am Cyril, 22 years old living in the Philippines. I work online as a freelance writer where I earn money just enough to pay monthly bills and...
    CyrilOh CyrilOh 18-21 Jul 15

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    Goodbye my lover. Goodbye my friend. You have been the one. You have been the one for me < 3
    lottie1996 lottie1996 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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