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I Need to Say Goodbye and Move On

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    Goodbye Ep And Thank You

    To quote Douglas Adams, So long and thanks for the fish. elegantlady is leaving. Happy to have known you all. When I am here as elegant lady, I am her totally and she is me. I am a woman with specific interests and tastes. I have a strong sense of self and a strong sense of the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Mar 15, 2012

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    Adios.

    Sometimes people don't feel likewise and want us out of their lives.Sometimes, the feelings of friendship, appreciation etc. aren't mutual.And we have to learn to let go.Move on.Because it's for the best, you know?I wish you the best.This post is for all those friends I had to...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F May 2, 2011

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    I Needed Help For This One

      I have to let go of all my exes, one in particular. And Pablo Neruda, a man who died 10 years before I was even born had exactly the words to express how I feel. Nuff said     Tonight I can write the saddest lines. Write, for example,'The night is shattered...
    annathom annathom 26-30, F 2 Responses May 22, 2008

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    My husband & I had a talk Sunday about saving

    our marriage of course he said he wanted to. Our main issue is he shows me no affection we our never intimate and I'm very lonely. Sunday was the first time in 2 years he slept in the room all night with me. I have to admit I felt so good not being alone. But that was it Monday...
    inaslump inaslump 31-35, F 2 Responses May 15

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    Diary Of A Twelfth Grader 3 March 2013

    Dear Diary, I really like A but i dont want to keep sneaking around at 2 in the morning to swap spit. i feel like, other than sexually, we dont have any connections. i cant hold a decent conversation with him anymore. im not sure how to do this though. i dont know what to call...
    juSts0m3giRl juSts0m3giRl 18-21, F Sep 1, 2013

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    I Have Moved On Actually

    And pretty thoroughly (;P). I just haven't gotten around to the goodbye part of it yet. I know I should, my gawd, my best friend was telling me to do just get it over with months ago but I just...didn't. I think its because I suck at official goodbyes. In the past, leaving worked...
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21 22-25, F May 9, 2009

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    Get Over Him!

    this is what I have been telling myself for over two years. After a relationship of 3 months, K dumped me for someone else. I thought I was over him, but as soon as he gives the least bit of attention, i'm almost immediately pulled back in. He has a girlfriend for over 1 and a...
    deardiaryjulia deardiaryjulia 16-17, F Sep 6, 2013

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    I know when that time comes and I have no problem telling it like it is and moving on with my life in most cases.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F May 6, 2010

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    Good-bye And Good Riddance!

    For the past three years, I've been fixated on my ex-girlfriend - something I'm not too proud of. Although I can't good-bye to my ex in person, I can good-bye to her memories, which I've taken the painful effort of erasing.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 13, 2011

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    Goodbye friends you are all loved.

    Always remember that.
    ccafreak ccafreak 16-17, F Jan 19

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