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I Need To Say Rape Is Always Wrong

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    Just Please Stop!!!

    im 14 and i have a domestic violent boyfriend the most scarist day i had witth him was last weekand its march 22 ,2013 now he told me to come talk to him and he sounded sooo mad i was frightend but i went cause i was confussed and scared and i dident want him to spazz at me for...
    SunnyShine200 SunnyShine200 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    "If hormones cause young men to rape women,

    then is it okay to go on a killing spree the week before my period? I mean, I'm not to blame, right?"-random online post.
    LaurenJFisher LaurenJFisher 22-25 Jan 4

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    Not Sure

    I don't know if this is considered rape or not, maybe just sexual assault. I am 17, and I have to ride the bus home from school every day. My ex-boyfriend was angry with me for breaking up with him, and he pinned my arms down and kept touching me inappropriately. I was too...
    TheHeartless11 TheHeartless11 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 8, 2012

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    This Will Help You.

    http://video.server.dhamma.org/video/intro/vintro.htm watch the videos on that page with an open mind. Peace.
    tyrian69 tyrian69 22-25, M Sep 12, 2012

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    Rape is 100% preventable.

    The perpetrator always has the option not to rape, and even if the perpetrator decides to commit the crime, the victim might have a can of mace or a gun readily available for these situations. If the victim forgot the can of mace, or the gun, and was still raped, s/he should...
    LaurenJFisher LaurenJFisher 22-25 2 Responses Dec 31, 2013

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    Claudi1802 Claudi1802 18-21, F Mar 7

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    Agreed

    I know it's wrong because sex is supposed to be a good experience not bad. It ruins everything good about it. You can't cuddle and no hugging not even your mom..Physical contact just makes you cringe. You can't trust anyone anymore. You can't walk down the street without being...
    FeelingLikeACloud FeelingLikeACloud 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2011

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    I'M Pregnant And I'M 14

    My boyfriend came to my door and ask If I could come over to his house I did when u got there his parent were not there they where at work he said that we have 4 hours to have sex I said yes. We had sex and a few weeks later I started to have Simptoms of pregnancy I bought a...
    Fightforjustice Fightforjustice 13-15 4 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    Hey Folks

    no body no matter what outfit they happen to be wearing is asking to be raped and anybody that thinks otherwise is very ****** in the head it is a serous issue that has remained silent for far to long
    wotaloser wotaloser 36-40, M 2 Responses Dec 23, 2011

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    "The Invisible War"

    I've just watched the documentary "The Invisible War", a Netflix rental. It's about rape in the U.S. armed forces, and it's really hard to watch at times. 20% of women and 1% of men in the armed forces are sexually assaulted at some point in their careers, and the offenders are...
    Pyramania Pyramania 51-55, M Sep 13, 2013

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    Never The Girl's Fault

    I'm becoming sick and tired of everybody who thinks that a girl that gets raped "wanted it", "was asking for it", or even "deserved it". I know that rape is never, ever, the victim's fault. I should know. A close female friend of mine and my wife was raped two years ago. My wife...
    BLACKTIGER75 BLACKTIGER75 36-40, M 2 Responses Feb 10, 2012

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    They Took My Body From Me And Used It And Other Truths

    I was in Europe. It was 1999. I was in a garden in a hotel. I was reading a book. French Literary Fascism. I was drinking kir royale. I had two. The second one didn't taste right. I didn't finish it. Then I became sort of sickish or weakish or something, and all I could think...
    Ambitieuxetvicieux Ambitieuxetvicieux 31-35, F 29 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    Take Me

    Im home alone its raining hard outside its 2:00 in the morning. Im laying warm in my bed. In a black lacey bra and thong. I here a door slam. I hear men talking. My door opens. There stands 3 black men. They turn on the light. They run up to me and grab my hair. One rips off my...
    MizzBre MizzBre 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 18, 2012

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    No Exceptions

    It disturbs me when I see groups about people who have rape fantasies. OK, so maybe you dream of controlling, or being controlled by, your partner. Maybe you'd do a little role playing.But that isn't rape.Rape is someone violating your intimacy, your body. Sex is something...
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    "RAPE IS RAPE"

    I've recently started reading the book "RAPE IS RAPE" by Jody Raphael, JD (Lawrence Hill Books, 2013), subtitled "How Denial, Distortion, and Victim Blaming Are Fueling a Hidden Acquaintance Rape Crisis." From the back cover: "MORE THAN 80 PERCENT OF RAPES in the United States...
    Pyramania Pyramania 51-55, M 11 Responses Oct 19, 2013

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    Loving Someone Who Tried To Kill You Has Its Ups And Downs

    I was not able to understand what was happening when my sister got kicked out .. You see I was only 11 and I was immature . My sister was a drug addicted and almost killed me on several ocassion one she put a pillow over my face and twice she tried to choke the life out of me...
    Deadlylovely13 Deadlylovely13 70+ 1 Response Nov 5, 2012

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    Life Is A Nightmare.............if You Look Too Closely.

    I’ve never been raped. However I grew up in a house that fostered many children so I saw the results all the time. I hated that adults could destroy children like this. It was big part of my life identifying and dealing with children like this. I still if I see the point work...
    DC57 DC57 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 6, 2012

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    Absolutely

    Despite my ******-up fantasies, that in no way means I condone rape. The things I wish on myself I do not wish on other people. I am a messed person and I believe that is partly due to repressed abuse from ages 2-6. I can tell from the feelings I have about that time. But there...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Dec 23, 2011

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    Rape And Sexual Harassment

    This here is a letter I wrote to my friend, just so I could let things out. He advised me to post it and maybe help bring awareness on the subject. So here it is: What is rape and how to protect yourself First and foremost it's important for people to understand the meaning of...
    yummmy1991 yummmy1991 18-21, F Apr 23, 2013

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    Hide The Marks And Try To Forget 3

    ive been in a domestic relashionship 4 a whole year and currenntly in it he has raped me over 5 times ...a week ago ago i was with my boyfriend and a couple of his friends(4) well anyways i was walking by myself in the back and all of his friends were gigggleing and talking to...
    SunnyShine200 SunnyShine200 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 19, 2013

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    Anybody That Disagrees With Me Is Wrong

    rapist rank right up there with pedofiles and women beaters in my book i am so angry just thinking of it i want to go vomit at anybody who things anybody deserves to be raped at any time
    wotaloser wotaloser 36-40, M 5 Responses Dec 23, 2011

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    Despoliation

    The action or process of despoiling! That is another way of saying... RAPE. To seize and take away by FORCE! An act or instance or despoiling or carrying away a person by force. Let me ask you all something.... Does that sound like something to fantasize about, desire, want to...
    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze 56-60, F 1 Response May 27, 2012

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    Abuse Is Never Okay

    I was first sexually assaulted at age 4, age 8, gunpoint at age 13, drugged and then gang rapped at age 16. When I was 18 and date raped by a boyfriend in a car, I figured it was just normal and no one else was talking about, because I wasn't either. I stayed for 10 years. As an...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 19, 2012

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    Was This My Fault Im Convinced It Was

    five years ago i was raped. there i said it . he was my boyfriend of two years and i was a virgin he was 17 i was 15 i wanted to wait because it was something very important to me and he was patient for all of 2 years . one day, december 2007 i skipped class and walked to his...
    katie134 katie134 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 12, 2012

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    i will never forget her face

    Ill never know what she went through thst night my bff was comeing home from colage.I met her at the bus stop like usal but she look tramatised her head was split open ang her clothes were ripped."I need to get home" she said bawling her eyes out she told me that dhe had been...
    twiheartxox twiheartxox 22-25 4 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    Always, Always, Always Wrong!!

    Rape is wrong, not just wrong but it is a cancer that eats at the very heart of those it touches; its not about sex its about power, pure and simple; its about one persons all consuming rage at their inadequacies in whatever form they may take, that they have to wield such a...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 31-35, F May 21, 2012

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    The Night My Life Ended

    I was only 13. I had decided to go out to a movie with a few friends. When we were leaving she said we should stop by the 18 and under club. So we went. And as we were leaving there was a man in a grey jacket, white hair, glasses, and jeans. I try to forget it all but I can't. He...
    2 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    Love Will Never Come For Me

    When I was 8 my teacher kept looking at me and smiling and I thought she was just bring NICE but no she was intrested in me so one day she pulls me to herr car and ripped off my skirt and started fingeringv me that was so soar. I was begging her to stop she made he dance/pole...
    twiheartxox twiheartxox 22-25 2 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    To me, it is never okay to spank, hit,slap or otherwise intimidate a child. I think all violence towards children should be classified as abuse!
    dreshany dreshany 36-40, F a week ago

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    Last week I got out of an abusive relationship. Last week my whole life changed. I am now living the "single" life. Which I haven't for a while. At first with my boyfriend...
    laneyrn laneyrn 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    ''You should be lucky to have parents, some people don't have them.'' Lucky? I would be luckier if I didn’t have people who I call mom and dad, maybe then other people would...
    KidAgony KidAgony 18-21, F Mar 26

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    All the damn time, especially by teachers. It is like when I'm talking you tell me to be quite and when I'm quite you ask me why. Have they not notice the irony of this whole...
    Jewels2145 Jewels2145 18-21, F Apr 7

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    I'm kind of guys who always keep thinking more than talking . I have a lot a lot of things really want to talk about, but I don't know how to say it :/ & always think no one gonna...
    Bash94 Bash94 18-21, M Apr 3

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    I've only been on this site for half an hour and I've already seen dozens of girls between the ages of 13 to 15 asking older men to screw them. Now I understand that that is their...
    Mikkihyperbunnychan Mikkihyperbunnychan 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    It was last year the summer before sophomore year. I thought i was in love with my first boyfriend (yes im gay don't hate or bash) he seemed so perfect when we first started...
    stevenmonroe stevenmonroe 16-17, M 3 hrs ago

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    So, I only got introduced to this world about a month ago. I'm not the most open of people at the best of times. I just find talking about anything that could potentially make me...
    stephsub stephsub 22-25, F 3 Responses 1 hr ago

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    It's your fault. It wasn't rape. You didn't want it, but you didn't try hard to resist. Right? I mean.. it's not like you were an insecure 14 year old and he was a responsible...
    NekroNomikon NekroNomikon 18-21, F 8 Responses Apr 4

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    This may sound a wee bit silly to a lot of fokes. I have a best friend, he is 11 years old, he is very comforting to me. he does not question me, he likes to sleep on my clothes...
    flyingangel7 flyingangel7 46-50, F 4 hrs ago

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    Iv never done this before excuse the long story but I need to get every detail off my mind I have no One else to talk to I'm hoping some1 will understand I was on holiday when it...
    Candlelight01 Candlelight01 22-25, F 3 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    Hello, I’m a young girl, I’m 24 years old, and I’m a student at the university I have a big problem and I don’t know what should I do…please can you give me some advices...
    hujkl hujkl 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 4

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    For as long as I recall, abortions have been legal. But it has also been equally legal for those who hold Religious convictions to speak against abortion. I personally think that...
    OnewithJC OnewithJC 36-40, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 2

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 2

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 2

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. Ever since this girl first walked into our school, I couldn’t take my eyes...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    There are a lot of reasons I (as a survivor too) think so: They do suffer the same feelings as we (women) do and a lot of other issues they have to deal with: There is a lot of...
    Mellangela Mellangela 26-30, F Apr 13

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    I was in Minneapolis for the night as my flight was leaving the next morning for Fort Jackson, South Carolina. I decided to walk to the gas station and take in the sights along the...
    gr8love gr8love 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    When I was 16, and shortly after losing my Mum, some people saw me walking looking extremely depressed and sad. They took complete advantage of me, kidnapped me and raped me for...
    adendvw adendvw 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 30

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    (F^cking A-Hole Best Friend) Such a idiot best friend i have, but why don't i leave him? It's complicated. He always says he would leave me, but he never does. Anyways, he's been...
    Dapperness Dapperness 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    People need to understand the difference between an «embryo», a «foetus» and a «child». An embryo is a simple set of diploid-eukaryote cells in its earliest stage of...
    Avoutrye Avoutrye 16-17 1 Response Mar 23

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    So I feel really overwhelmed this last few months. A lot of stuff has been going on. I need some advice on this situation I am in. About a few years back I met two guys off online...
    ButterflyPrincess876 ButterflyPrincess876 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 24

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    I'm trying hard to understand what you did to me. I know what you have told me, I know what others have told me, what I don't understand is why. why? Why did you take something so...
    BEYMMXIII BEYMMXIII 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    We think we know right from wrong but we don't. We have our laws and our regulations and our expectations, social or otherwise and they change all the time. Laws are added and...
    T4RD15 T4RD15 26-30 2 Responses Mar 27

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