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I Need To Say Rape Is Always Wrong

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    The Night My Life Ended

    I was only 13. I had decided to go out to a movie with a few friends. When we were leaving she said we should stop by the 18 and under club. So we went. And as we were leaving there was a man in a grey jacket, white hair, glasses, and jeans. I try to forget it all but I can't. He...
    2 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    Agreed

    I know it's wrong because sex is supposed to be a good experience not bad. It ruins everything good about it. You can't cuddle and no hugging not even your mom..Physical contact just makes you cringe. You can't trust anyone anymore. You can't walk down the street without being...
    FeelingLikeACloud FeelingLikeACloud 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 23, 2011

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    "RAPE IS RAPE"

    I've recently started reading the book "RAPE IS RAPE" by Jody Raphael, JD (Lawrence Hill Books, 2013), subtitled "How Denial, Distortion, and Victim Blaming Are Fueling a Hidden Acquaintance Rape Crisis." From the back cover: "MORE THAN 80 PERCENT OF RAPES in the United States...
    Pyramania Pyramania 56-60, M 16 Responses Oct 19, 2013

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    Being raped in May has thrown me off.

    I can't sleep, I am irritable, I'm a real b***** to my parents, and my depression is taking over again. I wish it had never happened.
    mwdot mwdot 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 23, 2014

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    I think it may have happened to my friend

    when I was there. I don't know. I tried to persuade her to come home, kept asking if she was okay. I feel sick.
    minmins07 minmins07 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    Was This My Fault Im Convinced It Was

    five years ago i was raped. there i said it . he was my boyfriend of two years and i was a virgin he was 17 i was 15 i wanted to wait because it was something very important to me and he was patient for all of 2 years . one day, december 2007 i skipped class and walked to his...
    katie134 katie134 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 12, 2012

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    If youre in an emotionally vunerable spot,

    I feel for you, but this is the truth: people get attacked sometimes, but they rape themselves. In reality, there is no reason feel dirty, or broken or hollow, after being the victim of rape. In reality, rape is not somehow worse then being killed, or having your limbs chopped...
    leptar leptar 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 9, 2014

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    Always, Always, Always Wrong!!

    Rape is wrong, not just wrong but it is a cancer that eats at the very heart of those it touches; its not about sex its about power, pure and simple; its about one persons all consuming rage at their inadequacies in whatever form they may take, that they have to wield such a...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F May 21, 2012

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    Not Sure

    I don't know if this is considered rape or not, maybe just sexual assault. I am 17, and I have to ride the bus home from school every day. My ex-boyfriend was angry with me for breaking up with him, and he pinned my arms down and kept touching me inappropriately. I was too...
    TheHeartless11 TheHeartless11 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 8, 2012

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    They Took My Body From Me And Used It And Other Truths

    I was in Europe. It was 1999. I was in a garden in a hotel. I was reading a book. French Literary Fascism. I was drinking kir royale. I had two. The second one didn't taste right. I didn't finish it. Then I became sort of sickish or weakish or something, and all I could think...
    Vivagalore Vivagalore 31-35, F 23 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    Abuse Is Never Okay

    I was first sexually assaulted at age 4, age 8, gunpoint at age 13, drugged and then gang rapped at age 16. When I was 18 and date raped by a boyfriend in a car, I figured it was just normal and no one else was talking about, because I wasn't either. I stayed for 10 years. As an...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 19, 2012

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    Don't want to share my own personal experiences

    per say but can't get the stupid leaked lana del rey video out of my head now since I saw it earlier today. The whole concept is sick and evil it's like they wanted to promote something about it, what exactly I don't know. I hate that some people thought they were 'cool' (or...
    backendofthestreet backendofthestreet 22-25, F Nov 28, 2014

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    Take Me

    Im home alone its raining hard outside its 2:00 in the morning. Im laying warm in my bed. In a black lacey bra and thong. I here a door slam. I hear men talking. My door opens. There stands 3 black men. They turn on the light. They run up to me and grab my hair. One rips off my...
    MizzBre MizzBre 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 18, 2012

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    rape is always wrong.

    to make someone feel helpless and insignificant for amy reason is wrong. the only thing worse are the people who make the victims relive and feel guilty for such an act. it is despicable. a rape victim goes through so much more than being attacked by a rapist. the attacks...
    cocanola cocanola 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    "If hormones cause young men to rape women,

    then is it okay to go on a killing spree the week before my period? I mean, I'm not to blame, right?"-random online post.
    LaurenJFisher LaurenJFisher 22-25 Jan 4, 2014

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    Love Will Never Come For Me

    When I was 8 my teacher kept looking at me and smiling and I thought she was just bring NICE but no she was intrested in me so one day she pulls me to herr car and ripped off my skirt and started fingeringv me that was so soar. I was begging her to stop she made he dance/pole...
    twiheartxox twiheartxox 26-30 2 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    Rape And Sexual Harassment

    This here is a letter I wrote to my friend, just so I could let things out. He advised me to post it and maybe help bring awareness on the subject. So here it is: What is rape and how to protect yourself First and foremost it's important for people to understand the meaning of...
    yummmy1991 yummmy1991 22-25, F Apr 23, 2013

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    Hide The Marks And Try To Forget 3

    ive been in a domestic relashionship 4 a whole year and currenntly in it he has raped me over 5 times ...a week ago ago i was with my boyfriend and a couple of his friends(4) well anyways i was walking by myself in the back and all of his friends were gigggleing and talking to...
    SunnyShine200 SunnyShine200 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 19, 2013

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    Despoliation

    The action or process of despoiling! That is another way of saying... RAPE. To seize and take away by FORCE! An act or instance or despoiling or carrying away a person by force. Let me ask you all something.... Does that sound like something to fantasize about, desire, want to...
    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze 56-60, F 1 Response May 27, 2012

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    Rape is 100% preventable.

    The perpetrator always has the option not to rape, and even if the perpetrator decides to commit the crime, the victim might have a can of mace or a gun readily available for these situations. If the victim forgot the can of mace, or the gun, and was still raped, s/he should...
    LaurenJFisher LaurenJFisher 22-25 2 Responses Dec 31, 2013

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    i will never forget her face

    Ill never know what she went through thst night my bff was comeing home from colage.I met her at the bus stop like usal but she look tramatised her head was split open ang her clothes were ripped."I need to get home" she said bawling her eyes out she told me that dhe had been...
    twiheartxox twiheartxox 26-30 4 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    Recently in India, two girls were raped

    and found dead, hanging in a mango tree. I wonder what clothes they had to wear to provoke that. Rape apologists could at least ******* admit that they just hate women, and can't stand the idea of their empowerment. Rape culture disgusts me.
    MeadowLark4 MeadowLark4 18-21 2 Responses Aug 6, 2014

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    This Will Help You.

    http://video.server.dhamma.org/video/intro/vintro.htm watch the videos on that page with an open mind. Peace.
    tyrian69 tyrian69 22-25, M Sep 12, 2012

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    Loving Someone Who Tried To Kill You Has Its Ups And Downs

    I was not able to understand what was happening when my sister got kicked out .. You see I was only 11 and I was immature . My sister was a drug addicted and almost killed me on several ocassion one she put a pillow over my face and twice she tried to choke the life out of me...
    Deadlylovely13 Deadlylovely13 66-70 1 Response Nov 5, 2012

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    I'M Pregnant And I'M 14

    My boyfriend came to my door and ask If I could come over to his house I did when u got there his parent were not there they where at work he said that we have 4 hours to have sex I said yes. We had sex and a few weeks later I started to have Simptoms of pregnancy I bought a...
    Fightforjustice Fightforjustice 16-17 4 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    Absolutely

    Despite my ******-up fantasies, that in no way means I condone rape. The things I wish on myself I do not wish on other people. I am a messed person and I believe that is partly due to repressed abuse from ages 2-6. I can tell from the feelings I have about that time. But there...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Dec 23, 2011

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    Claudi1802 Claudi1802 22-25, F Mar 7, 2014

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    Who are any of you to say what a man can

    and can't do to your bodies. He has every right
    soph99ep soph99ep 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 9

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    Life Is A Nightmare.............if You Look Too Closely.

    I’ve never been raped. However I grew up in a house that fostered many children so I saw the results all the time. I hated that adults could destroy children like this. It was big part of my life identifying and dealing with children like this. I still if I see the point work...
    DC57 DC57 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 6, 2012

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    Anti Rape.

    Id rather not say about myself on this one because it is too painful , but i know rape is tot wrong!. No excuse no reason behind it. I mean are people reall ythat desperate they have to go and rape people?. I tbrings me to tears knowing what these people hav ebeen through and i...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 26, 2012

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    Question... My wife and I were debating recently

    after watching an investigative report. The report was suggesting that someone under the influence can not give consent thus it was rape. It was centered around a case where a woman willingly took 8-10 shots in an hour and blacked out. She woke up and there was a guy in the room...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 16

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    Just Please Stop!!!

    im 14 and i have a domestic violent boyfriend the most scarist day i had witth him was last weekand its march 22 ,2013 now he told me to come talk to him and he sounded sooo mad i was frightend but i went cause i was confussed and scared and i dident want him to spazz at me for...
    SunnyShine200 SunnyShine200 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 22, 2013

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    Never The Girl's Fault

    I'm becoming sick and tired of everybody who thinks that a girl that gets raped "wanted it", "was asking for it", or even "deserved it". I know that rape is never, ever, the victim's fault. I should know. A close female friend of mine and my wife was raped two years ago. My wife...
    BLACKTIGER75 BLACKTIGER75 36-40, M 2 Responses Feb 10, 2012

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    No Exceptions

    It disturbs me when I see groups about people who have rape fantasies. OK, so maybe you dream of controlling, or being controlled by, your partner. Maybe you'd do a little role playing.But that isn't rape.Rape is someone violating your intimacy, your body. Sex is something...
    DancingFox DancingFox 31-35, F 5 Responses Nov 4, 2012

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    Accountability

    I don't care how much any woman teases a man, she does not deserve to be raped. Even though she may ask for it, 'no means no'. That is what ************ is all about. It relieves sexual tension. If the death penalty was to include rapists, I think this topic would be almost non...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 8, 2012

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    "The Invisible War"

    I've just watched the documentary "The Invisible War", a Netflix rental. It's about rape in the U.S. armed forces, and it's really hard to watch at times. 20% of women and 1% of men in the armed forces are sexually assaulted at some point in their careers, and the offenders are...
    Pyramania Pyramania 56-60, M Sep 13, 2013

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    Anybody That Disagrees With Me Is Wrong

    rapist rank right up there with pedofiles and women beaters in my book i am so angry just thinking of it i want to go vomit at anybody who things anybody deserves to be raped at any time
    wotaloser wotaloser 36-40, M 5 Responses Dec 23, 2011

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