Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Need to Stop It

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 77 People

    Stop What Exactly?

    "it" of course :)  to be more precise....i need to stop comparing every single guy to "him"  i do it without realizing it....it's like my subconcious tells me no one can ever compare, or come close to measuring up, so why even bother to try...
    KinkyFlower KinkyFlower 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 3, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Halt!!

    This isn't about EP actually. :) There are just a lot of things I need to put a stop to. :) And I will.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 29, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Shut Up, Brain!

    I need to stop two things: 1. Constantly thinking. THE BRAIN NEVER SHUTS UP. Ever. I'm always planning or analyzing or comparing or reviewing or daydreaming. There is never silence in my head. Sometimes, it cranks up to a roar (especially upon the analysis of an embarrassing...
    rainbowchristmaslights rainbowchristmaslights 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 3, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    But I Can't Help It :)

    I have recently developed a bit of a crush on Mr. Colin Firth and I find myself watching youtube videos of him constantly. In fact on my second tab that I have pulled up right now, youtube is up with video of Valmont. I get quite giggly and I forget what I'm doing, (sigh), I...
    GoldieMtZion GoldieMtZion 26-30, F 20 Responses Jun 27, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    How do I stop caring? How do I let loose? How do I not let things get to me? I can honestly say I'm a prude when it comes to certain things but to my defense I'm terrified of...
    missANONYMOUS13 missANONYMOUS13 22-25, F 1 hr ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I know a man that needs.to do this, he's called.my.dad he he stresses so mutch infact it put him in hospital not knowing where the last pack of smarties went
    jodyjames2397 jodyjames2397 16-17, M 38 mins ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Ok so here it goes I know it's long so bear with me. I was married in 2004 at 21. When I met my wife I really wasn't attracted to her. I know that's sounds messed up but hear me...
    martinezh martinezh 31-35, M 1 hr ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    There is this girl that I am friends with and we worked together at a care taking type job where we worked with developmental disabled people.Mostly when I am madly in love with a...
    EmptyBlack EmptyBlack 31-35, M Mar 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Basically, I'd woken up fifteen minutes late and needed to use the bathroom quite badly. Due to being late, I had no choice but to skip the bathroom and leave the house to catch...
    LeahSampson LeahSampson 13-15, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I need advice on stop trying to impress people at my school. I don't know y I try to impress people . i also need advice on how to stop caring what people think it drives me crazy...
    Dent15 Dent15 13-15, M 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    To all the girls on here that keep on posting about asking everyone who thinks that you're attractive, it's getting on most people's nerves..... and this means that y'all girls...
    RappingAboutMyLife RappingAboutMyLife 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have posted about this experience before but there is so much more to add that I decided to start a new experience. just to catch people up, a couple of years ago my wife got a...
    UEL1784 UEL1784 31-35 Mar 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've relapsed once again /: I don't know exactly what it was that pushed me over the edge but I guess I just don't care anymore. I've got nothing left to lose. This probably isn't...
    yoursecretlifestylee yoursecretlifestylee 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I sit next to this kid in my chem class who won't stop touching me. He'll put his hand on my back and grab my shoes, which is irritating but fine I guess. But then e started...
    BroguesAndJeans BroguesAndJeans 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 12

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Yesterday a student in my country was found dead. He is said to have killed himself because he couldn't take the bullying anymore. Let him be the last victim of bullying. If...
    Korinthos Korinthos 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 16

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm having a hard time sleeping because I can't stop thinking. Whenever I start to relax or calm down, I start thinking about my friend who's been acting weird, and I know his...
    BroguesAndJeans BroguesAndJeans 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    And it is getting close to starting Volume II of my journey. It feels good to get yourself back on track. It's been a long journey that I'm traveling, but I need to choose a stop...
    NaomiSoulJourney NaomiSoulJourney 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 8

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I live in India. I am tired of living my life as per other people. India is not the most open places to live for unmarried women at 33 years. My bf of 4.5 years has lost everything...
    Ptahswati Ptahswati 31-35, F Mar 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I would like to talk to someone because I need help. I want to stop. So if someone is an ex cutter, who thinks they may beable to give some advice, I was wondering if u would pm me...
    Byeluv Byeluv 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am almost 25 years old. I am married and I have a beautiful 5 yr old daughter. My husband is handsome and perfect in almost every way possible. I have a beautiful 4 bedroom house...
    MrsRoker MrsRoker 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am almost 25 years old. I am married and I have a beautiful 5 yr old daughter. My husband is handsome and perfect in almost every way possible. I have a beautiful 4 bedroom house...
    MrsRoker MrsRoker 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I need to stop drinking...Because one drink is never enough. I went over to a friends house on Saturday and, after too many tequilas, passed out. I woke up naked on the floor...
    lostgirl44 lostgirl44 26-30, F Mar 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So I said to you "What if I said I move out and file soon?" And your reply was "the current sign is for me to date others". I said I agreed and I mentally do and I said the...
    LoveExplorer78 LoveExplorer78 36-40, M Mar 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate it, i totally hate it.. But i need to feel loved, i need attention, i hate it, Cuz i feel weak, But i need it... No one care about my words, Im tired of screaming on silence...
    Mysorrow Mysorrow 18-21, M 5 Responses Mar 21

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Do you know that feeling where you are surrounded by a sea of people around you and you still feel horribly terribly lonely ? I don’t know if everyone goes through this, I sure...
    piscespieces piscespieces 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    i really need one a cute one too lol my ex just stopped talking to me one day so I guess thats it but i need a really cute bf
    violinmaster242 violinmaster242 13-15, F Mar 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So this guy and I, we had sort of a complicated relationship, ir you can call it relationship. So first he liked, But he has this historical where he dates girls and then he...
    AnaRita11 AnaRita11 18-21, F Mar 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm 22. My parents divorced when I was a baby and I was raised by my maternal grandmother. I rarely see my dad. My family told me he's not a very good man. My mother lives and work...
    damagednights damagednights 22-25, F Mar 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I need massive help. I have a crush on a straight girl. I'm not quite sure she's straight though because every time someone asks her if she is she freezes up and stutters. About a...
    supernichole supernichole 16-17, F Mar 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Ugh I need to stop badly when I do, but then I get mad or sad about something
    Skatergirl0013 Skatergirl0013 13-15, F Mar 16

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Iam 16 years old and I have been going out with my girlfriend for 10 months and I completely fell in love with her she means everything to me and I know I mean the world to her too...
    Qewwz Qewwz 22-25, M Mar 17

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I feel like I'm just sitting. I feel like I'm not getting anywhere with my life. I just need someone that will make me feel alive, and I feel torn. Yesterday was my birthday, and I...
    archerart archerart 22-25, M Mar 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's sitting by the overcoat, The second shelf, the note she wrote That I can't bring myself to throw away And also Reach she said for no one else but you, Cuz you won't turn...
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic 36-40, F Mar 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Actually, I NEEDS to stop being lazy. I have everything a man could want. There is no reason for me to be so damned lazy. Faaack! Sometimes, I'd rather just watch anything on tv...
    barzins barzins 46-50, M 4 Responses Mar 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've gotten spanked a great deal lately. I've really had a couple really good spankings and i have stopped smoking and doing drugs. My boyfriend just beats me when he knows i need...
    brennon1 brennon1 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I feel left out. My crush hates me, my friends hate me, my family hates me. It feels cramp when someone you really love doesn't feel the same way towards you. Especially when...
    Patryk56349 Patryk56349 13-15, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Ive been clean for a year... I completely forgot how it feels, the pain. I guess i just feel empty, and invisible. No one really gives a **** if im around. I have friends, but i...
    Eunice17 Eunice17 16-17, F 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have been with my boyfriend for over 4 years now, but it always been me changing for him, I left my friends because he didn't like them, I stopped going Out because he would get...
    ox97 ox97 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've gone through a lot in my life and always found it hard to connect more each time something bad happens and now I lost the only person I loved I feel nothing. I have no...
    shervonxx shervonxx 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    On my bed, just finished a Night turn... A few days ago i was on a riot, There were a lot of riots that day... And a riot cop died. I Feel a lot of rage against them, for what...
    Mysorrow Mysorrow 18-21, M 1 Response 20 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm in the beginning stages of letting go of an addiction: the fact that I know I need to, I know I want to, and I know I'm going to.... Now I just have to start (quitting). (It's...
    DreamChristine DreamChristine 31-35, F 5 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel