I Need to Work On My Self Esteem

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    This is so embarrassing

    for me to post and to admit. It's crazy how the world can alter your reflection, and in the end you find yourself looking at a distorted picture of yourself, mainly focused on the flaws. I love myself. Currently, that statement is only partially true, but I'm working on it. I...
    wtfgirl001 wtfgirl001
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 11, 2015

    It's a Catch 22

    kind of like I know I am a good person, and I know I am beautiful but I keep playing that tape over and over in my head of all my failure and inadequacies and mistakes.  Then I remember that I am beautiful and strong and resilient and I FORGIVE...
    molecules molecules
    26-30
    3 Responses Feb 2, 2009

    How I Learned To Love Me

    "When doubts filled my mind, your comfort gave me renewed hope and cheer." Psalm 94:19I am writing this today for everyone reading this who deep down feels less than, who feels like they might not be somehow "eligible" for healing and blessings, who feel like God is there for...
    girl4god girl4god
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 24, 2012

    ..I need to fix myself.

    . so much damage I had done..
    whitemamba122414 whitemamba122414
    26-30, F
    Dec 10, 2015

    I Am a Great Person.

    It's always been low since I was bullied at school,but it seems to take more of a dive when I form personal relationships with men or am on my monthly cycle. I view myself in such a negative light and it stops me from enjoying my life like I should do because...
    orangeblossom89 orangeblossom89
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 2, 2009

    One of the biggest things I need to work on.

    ..smh I just feel like I am never good enough...
    sisi19 sisi19
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 5, 2014

    Work In Progress

    My self esteem is divided into 2 catagories.  Emotional and Rational.  My emotional side is the one that says, your no good, your not pretty, sexy, smart, good enough.  It is that side I need to tame.  My Logical, rational side will say hold up don't be so...
    mytime mytime
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Mar 6, 2008

    Work In Progress

    My self esteem is divided into 2 catagories.  Emotional and Rational.  My emotional side is the one that says, your no good, your not pretty, sexy, smart, good enough.  It is that side I need to tame.  My Logical, rational side will say hold up don't be so...
    mytime mytime
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Mar 6, 2008

    ..I need someone can take me away from this

    pain..I want to work abroad.. I want to forget everything..
    whitemamba122414 whitemamba122414
    26-30, F
    Dec 9, 2015

    I have troubles trusting myself

    even when I know that what I'm doing is right. I just can't stand up to take my own side sometimes. How do I help myself?
    rubyrs rubyrs
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 5, 2015

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