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I Need You To Hold Me And Tell Me Everything Will Be Okay

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 239 People

    I Heard It

    I needed comfort; I needed compassion. I needed your touch; something solid and heartfelt. I hoped for it in you, but it never came. But then a friend came along and I heard those words, "Everything's going to be okay." The dam burst and my tears fell. My friend held me...
    LadyChatterley LadyChatterley 41-45, F Apr 26, 2011

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    Now Would Be Nice

    Even if he never said anything, I'd just feel safe and wouldn't have to worry about anything....
    Floydess Floydess 18-21, F 19 Responses Mar 7, 2010

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    For me it can be just words.

    ..A few extra kind and gentle words can make a world of difference. What a great way to ward-off reactivity and fear to settle my heart. No babying, no coddling required. Just reassurance through communication. And then will I know everything will be okay.
    blueyedreamer blueyedreamer 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 23

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    Just Someone Plz Just Tell Me

    i always wanted someone to tell me everything is going to be ok....i ever had that...i just want some to hold me.... ever since my mom didn't want me i feel like no one wants me... i feel alone lost and don't know what to do...i cant take not knowing what its like...i hate this...
    alex35 alex35 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 13, 2010

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    So, do it. Decide. Is this the life you want to

    live? Is this the person you want to love? Is this the best you can be? Can you be stronger? Kinder? More Compassionate? Decide. Breathe in. Breathe out and decide
    Giia Giia 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 11, 2014

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    I Won't Hold My Breath...

    For one... because I don't see it happening.  ( puzzles me as to WHY things have changed so drastically on your end )And... I have to wonder if everything ever WILL be OK?
    BooBooBunny BooBooBunny 46-50, F May 16, 2012

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    Make Me Safe

    i just need someone to love me and make everything ok to hold me make the pain go away i just need you to hold me  tight  and make everything alrite
    fallingfast fallingfast 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 26, 2010

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    Sometimes That's All I Need

    sometimes i get sick. i get sad. i get scared, or lonely. i just need to hear you say those words to me. sometimes i get lost in my own head. i believe the things i think i see and hear. i believe what i've been told in the past. i need you to remind me that i'm not that person...
    juggalove juggalove 31-35, F Jan 18, 2011

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    Please

    Even if it is only for one night, to feel your masculine arms and to know I am safe with you is my one wish.  I know that i would keep wishing for just one more night through eternity though.  You are just too perfect to pass up.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 27 Responses Feb 20, 2010

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    Crushed Me Heart

    He crushed my heart he pulled it out stomped on it, cut it up, threw it awayI thought he loved me but I guess I was wrong he tells me that he loves me then the next day he calls me a ho cuz I didnt answer him when he called meI wish he still loved me true love never fades :( but...
    hillbillyjilly15 hillbillyjilly15 13-15, F 4 Responses Jan 12, 2011

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    All I Want Is You

    I just want you to hold me and tell me its all gonna be ok.I know I have to met up with you. we have to talk and meet. no matter what else happens... we just have to meet up and talk.and I know I love you already. you are so beautiful ... the moment I saw your photo in the...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Apr 12, 2012

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    You Know Who You Are.... Read This

    We've been fighting, and the title in this group, definitely is something I want to be happening because I'm scared I've lost you. Everything has gotten completely out of hand, and I'm not apologizing for what I asked of you. Why wouldn't I want more time with the person I'm very...
    Greeneyedandcurious Greeneyedandcurious 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    Learning To Be Strong On My Own

    Hello my name is Lyndsey. One of my good freinds little brother died last night in a car wreak and after I found I layed in my bed and cry for awhile and the whole time I was cryin I just kept wishin my boyfriend was home and not over seas so he could hold me in his arms and...
    Lyndz2010 Lyndz2010 18-21, F Aug 5, 2010

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    This is one of the only things I've asked my

    husband to do. Sometimes during a fuss or me having an emotional moment he asks what can he do and truly one thing that would make me feel better is to have him hug me and say those words... but he doesn't. He never has and won't. I've asked him twice. 8 years ago when I was...
    Mamateapot Mamateapot 31-35, F Feb 1

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    Right Now It Doesn't Feel Like It

    I know everything will work out in the end...but right now it doesn't feel like it.  Right now I could just roll up in a ball somewhere and cry.  I'm in a period of really heavy flashback activity, triggering at the drop of a hat, just in so many kinds of pain...I know it will...
    Plaid Plaid 31-35, F Feb 1, 2012

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    Hold Me & Love Me.

    Im Not Clingy, I am just another girl who falls in love with just another boy, I Must be with a man who loves me, and tells me im beautiful everyday, Who listens & Supports. I Have found this man... however, will it last? and if so for how long. I Hope forever. Right till the end...
    JstAnotherGirl JstAnotherGirl 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 17, 2011

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    18 years of living hell, and never a single person that cares enough to do anything about it. I don't want to be held and told everything will be okay, I need it.
    stewartgreen stewartgreen 18-21, M May 17

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    Best night ever :) Too bad you were sleepy i could spend the whole night talking to you. The most amazing girl ever and i am stupidly and crazily inlove with you. I wish i could...
    msb2015 msb2015 26-30, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am Autistic. I NEED you to be UPFRONT with me. I don't Give a **** that you want to be Nice. I NEED. You. To. Be. Up. Front. I don't care how you were socialized from birth or...
    ManifestoOfThePhoenix ManifestoOfThePhoenix 26-30, M 1 Response May 12

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    of all the things that lack meaning in my life that darken all of the positivity...only one rises above...that is the hope that everything will eventually work out..and if it...
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    When you truly look inside a woman's heart you see her struggle, you see the lies, the crap along with all the times she wished she was dead. You begin to feel her pain and...
    hunterw0lf hunterw0lf 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 29

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    when i'm still w/ my ex, he have gf already...as you know, she is is a disney star so i need to go like yea what ever
    xaviergauthierbluhenharmon xaviergauthierbluhenharmon 13-15, F May 6

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    I hide behind a mask I keep all of my feelings concealed I hide away From everything From the things that bother me From the things that hurt I stay behind my mask On my mask...
    RedHwaiting RedHwaiting 18-21, F 1 Response May 5

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    I smile so I can just make people shut up. I smile because I'm tired of crying. That's why people don't take me seriously. They see me and HATE me because they think i am so...
    justdontleaveme justdontleaveme 13-15, F 4 Responses May 18

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    Hello i am an incarnated angel, and i wanted to know have any of you told your family or friends? And if so how did they respond, and if not do you feel they need to? I've told a...
    tflo012192 tflo012192 22-25, F May 3

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    You are the only one with the magical key to my heart, it is only your finger tips upon my skin, only your fingerprint that can open it up. Others might try but you see they don't...
    NewBeginnings77 NewBeginnings77 31-35, F 4 Responses May 11

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    I need some advice! About a year ago I was dating this guy that I loved. But over time my feelings for him went away and he became annoying so I broke up with him. But just...
    skyebrookson skyebrookson 13-15, F May 12

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    Never have and never will. I am not that desperate yet. :-) Your approval of me does not determine my self worth!
    1ClassyMinnie 1ClassyMinnie 70+, F 5 Responses May 12

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    So I just asked for males names for a psychopath 15th boy for my book! Now I need last names an nicknames 😶 I'm terrible with names, sorry guys! So... Help please?? I need a...
    pansexualgirl pansexualgirl 13-15, F 1 Response May 4

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    I need to feel your warm body next to mine
    weadkeys weadkeys 46-50, M May 16

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    I need huge advice from preferably a women :(
    allinsilent allinsilent 16-17, F 1 Response May 20

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    I'm gonna be your therapist so ask ( or message ) me any questions you have and I'll help
    AlphaStigma77 AlphaStigma77 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 29

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    In Fact, I should be thanking you. You did, after all, help me ruin my life so much faster than if I'd been left to my own devices.
    SayLowMan SayLowMan 46-50, M 1 Response May 4

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    Would anyone be interested in reading a novel or graphic novel with this theme? Being agnostic and suffering from multiple mental disorders and diseases, I came up with a...
    dontyouunderstand dontyouunderstand 18-21 May 6

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    Dear You: I don't know what went wrong on your side...somewhere along the way something happen that suddenly change the way we used to be ( calling, chatting)...you never said...
    hannagrace hannagrace 31-35, F May 8

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    My husband checks for teeth marks around my navel and hips as soon he comes from office. Sometimes he finds red teeth marks and asks me how did you get it? Please advice what...
    RamyaAirHostess RamyaAirHostess 26-30, F May 19

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    Yea sitting home alone tonight... Wondering what your doing. It's been so hard not to text you... Wishing you would text me. Other day you said leave you alone, I'm trying but it's...
    hunterw0lf hunterw0lf 41-45, M May 13

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    Smiles are like band aids they cover up the pain, but it still hurts.
    ImJustANobody ImJustANobody 26-30, M a week ago

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    http://www.gofundme.com/MoveMeHome
    XxForeverBlueXx XxForeverBlueXx 18-21, F May 3

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    ...ugh... I just want to be held and picked up and etc :'( ....
    OutOfSight23 OutOfSight23 18-21, F 3 Responses May 7

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    I'm still in love with my high school sweetheart of 6years. We are still the best of friends after 14 years (from the time we broke up). and see each other and talk often. Doesn't...
    dezyre4u dezyre4u 36-40, F 1 Response May 15

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    I really like this girl on EP but I don't know if she likes me what do I do
    Reagank22 Reagank22 18-21, M 1 Response May 16

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    Yes please I want to be held so close & it feel so good that you just know everything will be alright in that moment!!
    nicegirlinaz nicegirlinaz 36-40, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Please respond with authenticity, support,