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I Need You To Hold Me And Tell Me Everything Will Be Okay

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    This is one of the only things I've asked my

    husband to do. Sometimes during a fuss or me having an emotional moment he asks what can he do and truly one thing that would make me feel better is to have him hug me and say those words... but he doesn't. He never has and won't. I've asked him twice. 8 years ago when I was...
    Mamateapot Mamateapot 31-35, F Feb 1

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    For me it can be just words.

    ..A few extra kind and gentle words can make a world of difference. What a great way to ward-off reactivity and fear to settle my heart. No babying, no coddling required. Just reassurance through communication. And then will I know everything will be okay.
    blueyedreamer blueyedreamer 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 23

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    Please

    Even if it is only for one night, to feel your masculine arms and to know I am safe with you is my one wish.  I know that i would keep wishing for just one more night through eternity though.  You are just too perfect to pass up.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 27 Responses Feb 20, 2010

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    Now Would Be Nice

    Even if he never said anything, I'd just feel safe and wouldn't have to worry about anything....
    Floydess Floydess 18-21, F 19 Responses Mar 7, 2010

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    Make Me Safe

    i just need someone to love me and make everything ok to hold me make the pain go away i just need you to hold me  tight  and make everything alrite
    fallingfast fallingfast 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 26, 2010

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    Crushed Me Heart

    He crushed my heart he pulled it out stomped on it, cut it up, threw it awayI thought he loved me but I guess I was wrong he tells me that he loves me then the next day he calls me a ho cuz I didnt answer him when he called meI wish he still loved me true love never fades :( but...
    hillbillyjilly15 hillbillyjilly15 13-15, F 4 Responses Jan 12, 2011

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    Learning To Be Strong On My Own

    Hello my name is Lyndsey. One of my good freinds little brother died last night in a car wreak and after I found I layed in my bed and cry for awhile and the whole time I was cryin I just kept wishin my boyfriend was home and not over seas so he could hold me in his arms and...
    Lyndz2010 Lyndz2010 18-21, F Aug 5, 2010

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    I Heard It

    I needed comfort; I needed compassion. I needed your touch; something solid and heartfelt. I hoped for it in you, but it never came. But then a friend came along and I heard those words, "Everything's going to be okay." The dam burst and my tears fell. My friend held me...
    LadyChatterley LadyChatterley 41-45, F Apr 26, 2011

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    Just Someone Plz Just Tell Me

    i always wanted someone to tell me everything is going to be ok....i ever had that...i just want some to hold me.... ever since my mom didn't want me i feel like no one wants me... i feel alone lost and don't know what to do...i cant take not knowing what its like...i hate this...
    alex35 alex35 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 13, 2010

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    Hold Me & Love Me.

    Im Not Clingy, I am just another girl who falls in love with just another boy, I Must be with a man who loves me, and tells me im beautiful everyday, Who listens & Supports. I Have found this man... however, will it last? and if so for how long. I Hope forever. Right till the end...
    JstAnotherGirl JstAnotherGirl 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 17, 2011

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    So, do it. Decide. Is this the life you want to

    live? Is this the person you want to love? Is this the best you can be? Can you be stronger? Kinder? More Compassionate? Decide. Breathe in. Breathe out and decide
    Giia Giia 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 11, 2014

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    Sometimes That's All I Need

    sometimes i get sick. i get sad. i get scared, or lonely. i just need to hear you say those words to me. sometimes i get lost in my own head. i believe the things i think i see and hear. i believe what i've been told in the past. i need you to remind me that i'm not that person...
    juggalove juggalove 31-35, F Jan 18, 2011

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    Right Now It Doesn't Feel Like It

    I know everything will work out in the end...but right now it doesn't feel like it.  Right now I could just roll up in a ball somewhere and cry.  I'm in a period of really heavy flashback activity, triggering at the drop of a hat, just in so many kinds of pain...I know it will...
    Plaid Plaid 31-35, F Feb 1, 2012

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    I Won't Hold My Breath...

    For one... because I don't see it happening.  ( puzzles me as to WHY things have changed so drastically on your end )And... I have to wonder if everything ever WILL be OK?
    BooBooBunny BooBooBunny 46-50, F May 16, 2012

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    You Know Who You Are.... Read This

    We've been fighting, and the title in this group, definitely is something I want to be happening because I'm scared I've lost you. Everything has gotten completely out of hand, and I'm not apologizing for what I asked of you. Why wouldn't I want more time with the person I'm very...
    Greeneyedandcurious Greeneyedandcurious 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    All I Want Is You

    I just want you to hold me and tell me its all gonna be ok.I know I have to met up with you. we have to talk and meet. no matter what else happens... we just have to meet up and talk.and I know I love you already. you are so beautiful ... the moment I saw your photo in the...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Apr 12, 2012

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