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I Never Ask For Help

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    I love helping people and always say yes but it never occurs to me to ask for help myself - even when I really need it. Because of this I always feel like I have all these one...
    Monostereo Monostereo 36-40, F 22 mins ago

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    I just have learned one thing never ever ask people for help. If you feel bad, trust me they make you to feel more horrible.
    okspols okspols 31-35, F 3 hrs ago

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    My old Ep acct! I had to let you go :( You'll be chilling in cyber heaven with my other 2 accts from back in 2011 - 2013.
    RastaGotSoul RastaGotSoul 22-25, M 5 hrs ago

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    So today I was waiting for the city bus at the bus station bc I'm poor. I've been there for about an hour. It's like 100° outside. I'm hot as ****. My hair is all frizzy but at...
    Smelyalata97 Smelyalata97 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Come on!! Sometimes it happens before even having a five minute conversation!!
    nowletmeblowyourmind nowletmeblowyourmind 26-30, F 8 hrs ago

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    Everyone says to ask for help. I have a hard time doing that. But I have been reaching out and so far I am not able to find help. I'm at a loss. I need some financial help, but I...
    PrairieSong PrairieSong 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I'm an interracial adoptee from Africa, adopted by a white family. These last few years I've been thinking about the stories my adoptive parents have told me about what happened...
    Tearystar1027 Tearystar1027 18-21 1 day ago

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    ... Is asking to be loved the way I love you too much? :-(
    smileylove91212 smileylove91212 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Snuff by Slipknot. Wistful lyrics indeed. "So break yourself against my stones And spit your pity in my soul You never needed any help You sold me out to save yourself"
    thanatophobic thanatophobic 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    I am in serious trouble. The county plans on auctioning my house aug 31. My credit is bad due to disability. I don't have any where else to go with this. I am asking ya'll for...
    lonewolf41 lonewolf41 41-45, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I've known this for quite a while. But I am the type of person that cares WAY too much and when I feel someone needs my help or advice, I usually try to do everything I can. It...
    xWarriorPrincessx xWarriorPrincessx 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    If anyone wants to talk about anything or ask for advice, You can talk to me. I love helping others! :))
    shelleyhansen shelleyhansen 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    No matter how hard I try to get rid of you. Deep down. I'll always want you. I try to sleep but I can't even though I want to I can't because when I am about to close my eyes. I...
    Ownership Ownership 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    My Dusautonomia has gotten the better of me..at times I have to ask for help and it hurts me so much to have to do this. I had to have assistance in the shower from my boyfriend...
    katelynchildress katelynchildress 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I love to help people when they ask me to. It is a high insult to me when a friend doesn't ask me to help them move or talk when they're down. I am a fantastic listener and I would...
    nickels513 nickels513 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    This is for a college essay lol, it's probably not a good one to send in, but I liked it. Please give me your opinion My Mother gave birth with one person in her hospital room...
    Lilique Lilique 16-17, F a week ago

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    I am going to ask women for hugs to day why becouse i like women I like hugs I like giving them I like getting hugs.so take that cruel world haha!
    magicrabbit magicrabbit 51-55 Aug 24

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    I just did they're not all about testing drugs some are very safe and noninvasive. I gave 5 hours of my time and made 140 dollars. I'm also hopefully participating in another and...
    honestlyanonymouslyme honestlyanonymouslyme 22-25, F Aug 23

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    I realized that at one point in our lives, no matter how strong we think we are, we'd still need a helping hand from others. I humbly ask for company. For some friends. I've been...
    zrylism zrylism 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 23

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    I do, but when people ask for directions, I'm horrible at it! Lol I can barely even explain where the school bathrooms are without messing up 😅😅
    Smileydork Smileydork 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 22

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    just a kiss on your lips in the moonlight, Just a glimpse of a fire burning so bright, Just a shot in the dark cause you just might Be the one I've been waiting for My Whole...
    LadyGallivanter LadyGallivanter 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 21

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    I have this helpers syndrome or whatever it is called. When I see an old lady carrying heavy bags I always offer my help. Sadly they sometimes don't trust me and say I just want to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Aug 20

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    While appreciating all the advice that I can get, I do not feel comfortable sharing my life on a social site.
    Soossie Soossie 51-55, F Aug 20

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    Part 2 My name is Reece I love with my parents friend Eva and with my sister and her sister. I had a shower only to find the door was padlocked. And that I didn't know Eva was...
    Sexyrachel1406 Sexyrachel1406 22-25, M Aug 20

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    The other night I watched pompeii. It was about a couple who fell in love and during the eruption of the volcanos they stood in the field and kissed and then they were gone. I...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F Aug 18

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    Im not an instructor. But lately ive been getting messages from my friends asking for help on how to lose weight. Im happy coz of all people they could have asked, they chose me...
    Elleshore81 Elleshore81 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    gofund.me/GTransitionNYC Hey there! My name is Leilani (you can call me L) and I'm desperate for help at this point. I've recently started my gender transition (MtF) in June and...
    ASMRLegion ASMRLegion 18-21, T 1 Response Aug 17

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    I hope there is someone out there who will listen to my story. 2 years ago I fell in love. I realized I was in love with her when she fell asleep in my bed and her cheek was...
    oceanastronaut oceanastronaut 18-21, F Aug 17

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    About ten years ago a young woman in college asked me out and I accepted. We went for a drive in her car around town, and she almost killed us in a car accident, but it was just a...
    hythloday hythloday 41-45, M Aug 16

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    My boyfriend is a 48 year old married man. He's 25 years my senior and was my former boss. I now work in the same industry in the same vicinity so I'm still able to see him. He is...
    catsmp catsmp 22-25, F 15 Responses Aug 16

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    If I ever do, my account has been hacked. :-)
    Nest38 Nest38 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 16

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    My stepmother is making up too much false gossip and is really not a nice person she acts like this when she is going through a with drawl because of all that nicotine she's really...
    Jolietillinois Jolietillinois 22-25, M Aug 15

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    Though I wish I could.....
    Sicarium Sicarium 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 14

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    Hey, I know how it feels to feel alone, if anyone ever needs anyone to talk to feel free to message me. I will provide advice if you want it or I can just listen.. I like helping...
    ShadowMgrove03 ShadowMgrove03 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 14

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    I like to do things on my own, i really do hate asking for help. ppl have no idea how hard it is for me to ask, so if I humble myself to ask you for help, consider yourself the few...
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 Aug 14

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    I end up hurting myself in the process. When I know someone needs help I always offer lending a hand. When someone asks for help I always say yeah sure. However, whatever I do...
    SoulCoffee SoulCoffee 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 14

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    I'm in the mood to text people right now. I don't know why. I just like to do it
    fxckmxdxaddy fxckmxdxaddy 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    I hate asking for help, especially if it is something I really need/want. I can't stand being indebted to someone.
    Evabeth Evabeth 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    I absolutely love helping people. No matter who it is, we're all humans we should be willing to help anyone. Helping people is great but you have to be weary of people who are...
    ZacharyGray19 ZacharyGray19 18-21, M Aug 12

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    I feel like if i ask for help they'll think i'm stupid or i'd be bothering them in some way.
    Darkstar101 Darkstar101 16-17, M Aug 11

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    If I was to be honest with myself I'm a 22 young male who's never had a girlfriend (female companion) ever before. Never dated or never been in a relationship with a female. Nor I...
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