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I Never Cheated On My Wife

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    I'm No Angel But I've Never Cheated On Her

    I write this because there's such widespread assumption that all men cheat on their wives. Twenty years of marriage, several tempting opportunities, a few close calls -- and yet I have managed to walk through the minefield of fidelity. I'm not patting myself on the back. I've...
    ninepointfive ninepointfive 46-50, M Aug 4, 2011

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    I've never cheated! I've been cheated on though. Cheaters never seem to get the concept of how much pain they inflict on others! Cheating is selfish... Just be single if you want...
    Mytime32 Mytime32 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I don't understand people who cheat, it's disgusting. I experienced a boyfriend who had a side-thing during part of our relationship, because he was THAT desperate for sex...
    Cindell Cindell 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    Cant. My body goes elsewhere
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 6 days ago

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    Today I just need to vent. I know that I shouldn't hate her, and that honestly, love - not romantic- but agape or unconditional love is the only way ahead. I honestly don't know if...
    Boredonline4discovery Boredonline4discovery 31-35, M 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    I'll never understand why people cheat. My wife cheated because I talked to an ex. Clearly her cheating was more hurtful than me talking to an ex. Yet I do not feel an urge to...
    Dartanian Dartanian 36-40, M 2 Responses Sep 5

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    She came home later than she said she would. I had put the kids to bed and was probably just on the edge of slumber when I felt the bed shift and her slide in. The warmth of her...
    Cautiouslyr3ckless Cautiouslyr3ckless 41-45, M 21 hrs ago

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    I cheated on my ex husband with a childhood boyfriend who has a habit of coming in and out of my life. He was my first kiss and a few other firsts... We did it at the bottle shop...
    lilbirdydoll lilbirdydoll 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    I has been long before my boyfriend told me this he will never do anything wrong ever to broke my heart when I used to ask him about his gal pals and especially about One coz I had...
    Blackangel4u Blackangel4u 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    I'm not sure what to do. My boyfriend and I had been talking for a while before he finally decided to ask me out the other day. Let me tell you a little bit about him. He has had a...
    unluckiestginger unluckiestginger 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 14

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    Update! There's hope guys - don't settle! Last time I posted it had been only one month since being cheated on - and I was a mess. Only thing I was sure of is that there was no way...
    imatulipinacup imatulipinacup 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 27

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    My husband cheated on me online. He never met the woman but many of their conversations were very heart felt and emotional. He even asked her to marry him twice. (he claims he was...
    hasinalady hasinalady 46-50, F 5 Responses Sep 1

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    My husband and I have been together for almost 30yrs and married for about 18yrs with 5 beautiful children. He venture to Philipine for business and love to settle there. He's got...
    angelsmile67 angelsmile67 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    I have been cheated on more than a couple times, my latest ex cheated on me but is now texting me all the time.part of me feels like hey karma is a ***** because he says the new...
    LoudMouse LoudMouse 31-35, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I don't really understand what love is, but what I feel for my wife seems about right.
    sercouwis sercouwis 46-50, M 3 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    My wife is an awesome woman and delightful human being. I strive to be like her as much as possible. She teaches me about manners, style, ethics and personal relationships. I am a...
    MsNeither MsNeither 51-55, T 12 hrs ago

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    Well we were living separately in two different cities for the whole of 2009 and after being apart for so long I guess and being frustrated with me for not giving her enough...
    kicks2014 kicks2014 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 29

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    Well I used to date someone and recently i found out that he cheated on me with my bestfriend. My bestfriend turn him down and he came back for me.. And I found out that he asked...
    NynnaDavis NynnaDavis 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    We were in a relationship for 4 years and she decided that one night with a random guy from the bar was more important then us. She thought she wouldn't find out but it was my...
    Pantyskater14 Pantyskater14 31-35, M Aug 27

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    I cheated on my girlfriender know I'm changing 4times already. I stop wanting to be better but the dumby i am now I learn my lesson after I loose her. I want to change completely...
    puppet13 puppet13 18-21, M Aug 28

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    Long story short; he cheated. pissed off some mutual friends of the mistress. so they messaged me telling me of the child as a way to get back at him, they were hoping that I would...
    SilentRider SilentRider 18-21, F Aug 14

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    I so want to just trust my wife. But every time she is out of my sight my mind starts wondering what she is doing. I just want to believe her. She likes to sugarcoat everything to...
    fishin4eyes fishin4eyes 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 17

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    My now ex wife and I were married 8 years all of them happy I thought I loved her we had to kids I loved being a dad and tried hard to be a good one. I tried hard for my ex too I...
    lovetoswim69 lovetoswim69 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 21

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    My boyfriend has cheated on me twice in the past. I wish I could hurt him the same way he's hurt me but could never get myself to do it even if I had the chance. It's the worst...
    ashley719 ashley719 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 29

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    I can go against peer pressure! All my life I've been my own person and quite independent! I remember back at school people seem to put people in groups depending on what type of...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 17 hrs ago

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    I believe my ex cheated on me....
    Rayven1997 Rayven1997 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    I just found out he cheated and it was with one of my friends when she was super stoned and he's like one of the only things that can still make me happy and I just feel so empty...
    2me4u 2me4u 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    I just found out that my boyfriend cheated on me. He told me all these lies like I love you and I want to be with you when it turns out he has another girlfriend. I suspected it...
    Savone52798 Savone52798 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 16

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    I cheated on my girlfriend a couple times with some random girls, I know this is so wrong and yet I couldn't stop myself from this.
    cjcj0967 cjcj0967 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 18

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    My wife isn't really getting fat at the moment but rather has always been plump. She was only 5'0 tall and 190 pounds when graduating from highschool in 1993. By the time we met in...
    hsnpman hsnpman 46-50, M 5 Responses Aug 18

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    My ex of 4 years cheated on and gave me an STD. I hate his ******* guys but yet still love him. I have had a little over 2 weeks of no contact and he had tried contacting me once...
    brokenhearted7108 brokenhearted7108 31-35, F Aug 20

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    Its been over a year since I found out my ex had been cheating on me and its been almost a year since I last heard from him at all. I have to start by saying I miss him every day...
    harlow8776 harlow8776 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    My husband of 25 yrs cheated on me , I just found out for sure May. 27 an I can't think of nothing else , the girl was his sons girlfriend and she is pregnant supposed to b by my...
    hizwife25 hizwife25 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 29

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    We had been together nearly two years when I found out he cheated. He admitted what he done but lied about the whole truth which I found out later, it was a one time thing. He's my...
    karennxx karennxx 18-21, F Aug 31

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    I found out I was cheated on 3 months ago, he had known since my birthday in february and looked me straight in the eye as if nothing had happened. He's also my best friends...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 31

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    Well i havent cheated yet but heres the thing Me and My husband have a mutual friend who i have always known has a crush on me. Tonight he told me he wanted more than to just b...
    texaschick85 texaschick85 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 31

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    I cheated on the love of my life, I wanted so much more because the relationship hadn't changed in a year. She wants to work it out but I don't know if it will work out. I'm trying...
    PurpleJay PurpleJay 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    So I met this guy in April of 2013 an we started dating. He was the man of my dreams so of course I fell head over heals in love with this guy. This girl started sending me...
    aleAnnp24 aleAnnp24 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    That's right you read correct, my wife shaved her head. Conversations have been happening for months with my wife who has been spending her free time studying the bible and has...
    HoMaj HoMaj 31-35, M Sep 2

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    The last guy i dated cheated on me. With a dude.
    666LexiBabe666 666LexiBabe666 18-21, F 34 Responses Sep 3

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    I have been married to my husband for ten years and he has cheated on me for most of those years. I believe that the cheating started after the loss of our first child. I was...
    FiestyJacqueline FiestyJacqueline 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 5

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    Yep sadly ALL my girlfriends cheated on me! Why? Phew still not 100% sure about that, mostly they said that people cant fall in love with me. Strange cuz after weeks or months they...
    ChipmunkTV ChipmunkTV 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 6

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    I'm afraid I will never find somebody to really love me because they won't be ably to handle my career choice.. I'm in the USAF, and every single woman has either cheated on me, or...
    theHuntedOne14 theHuntedOne14 18-21, M a week ago

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    my ex cheated on me for two years ✌️
    mablerylee mablerylee 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I cheated years ago but lately the guilt is overwhelming. We have the perfect relationship so I don't want to say anything to ruin it but I can't stand not telling him..
    bakerv bakerv 22-25, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Literally ALL my girlfriends cheated on me. Thats basically why I became bisexual... I do love women but I dont trust them anymore. All girls lied to me and I dont even no why! If...
    ChipmunkTV ChipmunkTV 22-25, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    My wife Do you know my wife? Of course not I keep her in secret because she is special All men who lay eyes on her Will try to steal her but they will failed My wife is not like...
    broskidude broskidude 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 28

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