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I Never Get the Girl

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    Well,

    I'm not a really nice guy, and I don't always finish last. But for whatever reason those relationship things never quite materialize for me.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Aug 9, 2008

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    NEVAR!
    ready2shrug ready2shrug 26-30, M Mar 12, 2011

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    I Never Get The Guy!!

    I couldn't find a group for the thing I wanted to write about so I thought I'd crash this one :p OK, so I want to know what is wrong with me? I'm friends with guys, I live with three at uni and we all get along perfectly fine. But I never, never get recognised as someone that the...
    papercastles papercastles 22-25, F 6 Responses Oct 20, 2009

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    I Have Never

    Maybe because I have never been in love with another female.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 2 Responses May 9, 2010

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    36 And Never Had A Long Term Relationship

    Hi, I'm new here and this seems to be my life story. I have never been in a relationship longer than a year if that. I don't understand. I do realize I have some issues within my own self worth but I didn't think it translated in my relationships. In fact I've only really had...
    jjayyman jjayyman 36-40, M 4 Responses Jun 24, 2012

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