I Never Get the Girl

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 55 People

    Always

    Im the guy who girls are "friends" with. Im not one of those nice guys who are idolizing girls, but one of those guys who are friendly.  But everytime I have feelings for a girl, I seem to lose out to an idiot or a player.  Fun.  But I can blame myself...
    Lawlasaurus Lawlasaurus
    18-21, M
    Mar 2, 2009

    36 And Never Had A Long Term Relationship

    Hi, I'm new here and this seems to be my life story. I have never been in a relationship longer than a year if that. I don't understand. I do realize I have some issues within my own self worth but I didn't think it translated in my relationships. In fact I've only really had...
    jaymarty jaymarty
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Jun 24, 2012

    I Have Never

    Maybe because I have never been in love with another female.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    41-45, F
    2 Responses May 9, 2010

    Whenever I like a girl it turns out she is

    either all ready in a relationship or enters one with someone else whilst I like her. And in one case, I helped the girl I liked get into a relationship. Which sucked. Big time!
    Namesarntimportant Namesarntimportant
    22-25, M
    Mar 13

    ...

    NEVAR!
    ready2shrug ready2shrug
    26-30, M
    Mar 12, 2011

    Well,

    I'm not a really nice guy, and I don't always finish last. But for whatever reason those relationship things never quite materialize for me.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Aug 9, 2008

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