I Never Had a Boyfrend

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    I Really Want Someone

    I'm 23 years old, I have never had a boyfriend. I have dated but not for a while now. What do you do? I try flirting when I'm out dancing with friends, I flirt when I meet nice people. But no one seems to want me. Sometimes guys come up to talk to me, but they're always the...
    francie333 francie333
    22-25
    4 Responses Mar 16, 2010

    I Am 18 And Never Had A Boyfriend Depressed

    hiiii every one .. well my name is naynay. im 18 yeaRS OLD AND I KNOW I AM PRETTY.ALL MY FRIEND HAVE BOYFRIENDS EXECEPT ME. I AM ABOUT TO GRADUATE OUT OF HIGH SCHOOL IN JANURAY AND STILL HAVENT HAVE NO TYPE PF BOYFRIEND. I REALLY ONE WANT BADLY BUT I DONT WANT TO SEEM DESPERATE...
    naynay428 naynay428
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 19, 2009

    And I'll Never Will

    and you know what? thats my decision. and im deadset on it.
    knucklez knucklez
    18-21, M
    8 Responses Dec 20, 2009

    Never Cared Much

    I have NEVER cared about finding boyfriend. As a little girl, I only cared about having my own television show, getting a pool in my backyard, and fulfilling my dream career (which pretty much stayed the same: Artist). Except in third grade. Both my best friend (who isn't my best...
    IHeartJapan IHeartJapan
    70+
    Aug 7, 2010

    No Surprise...

    When I was 12 I moved to a small town dominated by a particular religion. At the time I considered myself apart of that religion, but soon found it too extreme for my taste. When I realized this I stopped going to church and basically became untouchable to any "nice boys", and...
    ophelia6 ophelia6
    18-21
    Jun 26, 2010

    I Get Overlooked On A Daily Basis...

    I'm 28 yrs old and i've never had a bf.  I'm not a virgin and yes i've been kissed before but i've never had a bf.  I don't care about what race a person is but sadly i live in a place in Alabama where it makes a big difference.  i  grew up in a small very southern and white...
    greenmonkey1983 greenmonkey1983
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Aug 28, 2011

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