I Never Had a Boyfriend

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    I really want a boyfriend.

    I want to know what love is. I'm not talking about the love from family. I want the love that two people share together like my mom and dad. I wish I could find a guy like my dad. He was the best. I miss you daddy.
    curiousaboutlove1 curiousaboutlove1
    16-17, F
    1 Response Mar 16, 2016

    I have never had a boyfriend

    because some boys don't. Go for your heart they go for your beauty or how. Good your body looks in a dress
    katsmithy katsmithy
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Mar 13, 2016
    RainbowCrayon666 RainbowCrayon666
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 4, 2015

    I'm actually okay with this,

    though sometimes I'm scared that I won't be able to experience falling in love.
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses May 9, 2015
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Oct 19, 2015

    Have you ever wondered

    if you're a good kisser or not? lol. I do sometimes but I wouldn't find out until that one guy who loves me so much came and take my breath away by a kiss.
    soyyoprincesa soyyoprincesa
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Apr 20, 2016

    Never had a crush. Never liked anyone

    (romantically). Never had a boyfriend. I am in no rush either. As I went through my years of high school, my friends always went on rants about finding a boyfriend. Most of them got hurt really bad and the relationships were not serious. I'm going to start my new life in...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 7, 2014

    I'm 14 and i never had a boyfriend

    and I'm a 100% sure i not gonna have one. when i am in a group with my friends i watch their boyfriends come up and hug them or kiss them and i am just pretty much the loner on the side.
    pandalover89 pandalover89
    16-17, F
    4 Responses Jan 2, 2016
    Jennifer900jen Jennifer900jen
    13-15, F
    1 Response Mar 11, 2016

    All of my friends have had at least one

    boyfriend in their life while I have only had my first kiss with a girl and only became "friends with benefits" with them, never date. I am straight with homosexual experience but I just really want a guy in my life, who loves me. I had a huge crush on this guy at my school for...
    escapekey escapekey
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 31, 2015

    Sadly I don't have a boyfriend

    because most of the boys are immature and just want to get into my panties or wants me to show my assets off
    mysticaldreams mysticaldreams
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 18, 2014

    Hi, girls. I am hot guy,

    add me pls, skype - mengak
    mengak mengak
    26-30, M
    Apr 10, 2016

    I'm going to have to give up this experience.

    I had the most wonderful date last night, and we're out together today. He wants to see much more of me, and I certainly want to see him. So I think I can say that I do have a boyfriend!
    chantalmw chantalmw
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Mar 29, 2014

    Single Mother But Never Had A Boyfriend

    One of my biggest insecurities growing up was the fact I never had a boyfriend. It all started when everyone seemed to be getting one of these at around 13.. Thinking back now, that was ridiculous for me to even worry, but here I am.. turning 20 this month and I still haven't had...
    YourRemedyMyPoison YourRemedyMyPoison
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Sep 4, 2013

    People need to stay out of my love life.

    If I'm not in a relationship, it's not your business
    RainbowCrayon666 RainbowCrayon666
    18-21, F
    Jan 20, 2016

    Yup I'm forever alone.

    I'm 14 still without a boyfriend. But it's cool.
    FighterWolf FighterWolf
    18-21, F
    48 Responses Jun 23, 2014
    Mingukie Mingukie
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 7, 2015

    I think it's mostly because I'm socially awkward

    and shy, I've had guys come up to me and try to start conversations but because I feel ugly all the time I just end up cutting the conversation short and walking away, every once in a while I'll run into some guy who calls me beautiful or cute and I automatically question his...
    neverprettyenough neverprettyenough
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Apr 20, 2015

    Well, I had a long distance relationship once.

    I consider him my boyfriend but sad things happen. We haven't met up, he broke my heart, I went crazy(broken hearted crazy =_=) and he's still acting caring but rude (I don't understand him sometimes) so long story short, it's as if I haven't had a boyfriend. It pains me to...
    soyyoprincesa soyyoprincesa
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 15, 2016

    I'm 22 and never had a boyfriend.

    The last and only time there was guy which I liked and actually liked me back was 3 years ago, but I left the city the next day (I was just visiting friends)and he later moved to a different country... I have also since relocated to a different country for work last year. Since...
    Mirai77 Mirai77
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Dec 27, 2015

    I was never asked to be someone's girlfriend.

    . I've been having a crush just never a boyfriend . I wonder what it feels like to be loved ..
    Rosella4 Rosella4
    22-25, F
    5 Responses May 22, 2014

    I never had a boyfriend,

    but guys just started coming up to me once I lost weight. When I was bigger (almost 300lbs, now 160), the guys didnt want me, but they chatted with me. It was as we were bros or whatever. I knew how they felt about girls and what they say. They were all about having sex. But...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses May 19, 2015

    17 years and I've never had a real relationship.

    I just had my first kiss last September an I've never, ya know, done "it" (lol). I used to feel bad an left out but I now realize that I'm not really relationship material nor am I ready for one. I'm not secure or confident enough to love or even like myself yet so I definitely...
    leadmenot leadmenot
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Feb 10, 2015

    I'm a guy who likes gals

    but not ones who'll take advantage of me. Chat If interested. I like sports and photography.
    Keenan244 Keenan244
    16-17, M
    1 Response Feb 17, 2016

    I've never had a boyfriend.

    Never been kissed. Never held a guy's hand. Never been hugged by a guy. Never been asked for my number, or had any guy show any interest in talking to me. Never had a guy start a conversation with me. Never had a conversation with a boy that didn't have to do with school. Never...
    deleted deleted
    8 Responses Jul 1, 2015

    I think it's better to just think about having

    a boyfriend than actually have one........... Damn that sounds sad... Lol
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 11, 2016

    And am still and always will be quite proud of

    it. I truely do love being lesbian, it's the one part of myself that l most embrace <3
    Poodlelez Poodlelez
    26-30, F
    Feb 3, 2016

    I have never been in a relationship with

    another boy, but recently I've been chatting with a sweet guy. I'm meeting him this friday, wish me luck.
    Eurocd Eurocd
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Mar 16, 2016

    I will turn 27 this year,

    in March, and have never even gotten close to having a boyfriend, never been kissed and all that. And while I do confess there are times when I am thinking having someone to care for and be affectionate with would be nice, I also cannot help thinking that I would hardly ever...
    MantisReligiosa MantisReligiosa
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 22, 2016
    TMC444999 TMC444999
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Dec 19, 2015

    I have kissed a girl on one

    or more occasions but never kissed a male before
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Feb 3, 2016

    I just haven't had any interest in having a

    relationship. I mean, many guys come to me with certain intentions and even if I like them it just feels like friendship and eventually they get interested in someone else. So I have a bunch of male friends and no boyfriend yet.
    mromp mromp
    18-21, T
    1 Response Mar 26, 2016

    How do you get over the fact

    that you've never had one, especially when girls much younger than you are getting one and there's talk of romance everywhere you go -.-
    deleted deleted
    6 Responses Aug 12, 2015

    I have been told this

    so many times. "I love you forever" "I'll be there for you always" but none really stepped up to prove it. Either they get tired too easily or isn't really that serious, I guess. Guys that I get close to, friends or not, end up catching feelings, even falling for me. Well, let...
    soyyoprincesa soyyoprincesa
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 19, 2016

    I'm a guy in northern Utah I have never had a

    girlfriend and I'm 24. I would like to take someone like me on a date. I don't have any desires to get married but I do want someone I can be loved by, if you can understand. I don't date around. In the last two years I have had four dates and three were with one girl. I would...
    hypnomagic hypnomagic
    26-30, M
    Apr 7, 2016

    Sometimes I'm to scared to like a guy

    because I'm pretty sure they won't like me back or they think I'm not pretty.
    Juliette20 Juliette20
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Jan 2, 2016

    Many boys said I LOVE U to me.

    . but i never got into a relationship.. coz for me i guess 'relationship suckss!'
    Mazyy Mazyy
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 20, 2016

    It doesn't mean that no one wants you,

    that you're not beautiful, or you're picky. Maybe you're just waiting for the right person and the right time
    NewRomantics NewRomantics
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 25, 2014

    I've never had a bf and I have no regrets.

    When I had my severe depression and I hated myself in high school I didn't love myself: THEREFORE (when you don't love yourself you will only attract undignified and ****** men, they will never save you) Years later it served as the best lesson, finally when I genuinely knew my...
    GiiGi GiiGi
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 9, 2015

    I'm just not interested in dating

    and idk why. I mean, I like guys but I will say no if they ask me out. I'm so different from other girls who are so desperate to date and guys in high school are often fuckboys. It can wait.
    extrovertedintrovert extrovertedintrovert
    16-17, F
    1 Response Mar 9, 2016
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Jul 14, 2014

    I've always wanted to be with a cute guy.

    They always hit on me and just don't understand that I'm not ready. I have emotional things to deal with. Maybe I just need to open up and actually get to know one of those guys. There is this one at my school that I so want to kiss. I just know it will be magical.
    curiousaboutlove1 curiousaboutlove1
    16-17, F
    Mar 15, 2016

    No guy friends @school (yes outside though)

    or a BF before. I'm kinda antisocial, or that's what my friend thinks I am. Is it because of my personality that all guys hate and that's why they don't want to talk to me? Or maybe I'm the one who can't talk well and keep a conversation?
    raspberri raspberri
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 19, 2016

    I´ve never had a boyfriend

    and so I made the badest mistake in my life: I´ve married immediately when I fell in love and this was really the biggest mistake in my life because I didn´t know anything about love or partnership. I think it´s necessary to have some boyfriends/girlfriends before falling in...
    Loretta78 Loretta78
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Sep 2, 2015

    Yep I'm 20 years old

    and have never had a boyfriend or anything remotely close to it. there are times when it saddens me and I feel like something is wrong with me then there are times when I just say I'm better off alone anyway. It just sucks because i always yearn for the touch and the love a s/o...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Feb 14, 2016

    I don't really count one I had

    when I was 12. I mean, I broke up with him because he wanted to kiss, and I was all like "oh hell naw, we done" But, I don't date for the simple fact that dating as a teenager isn't a great idea. Most of the teenage relationships I see are 99.9% drama, and endless statuses...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Oct 7, 2015

    Maybe I'll get one when I finish high school

    and starting going to college.
    RainbowCrayon666 RainbowCrayon666
    18-21, F
    Dec 14, 2015


    I'm 25 and never had a boyfriend. No real date. No first kiss.. no nothing. It gets lonely and frustrating. Especially when I see other people together. I can't handle being around my cousin because she has a boyfriend. I can't help but wonder when is it going to be my turn?
    Stripped628 Stripped628
    26-30, F
    29 Responses Apr 21, 2010


    WinnieCamden WinnieCamden
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 27, 2016

    I'm fine with not having one.

    No way I'm ever letting my feelings latch onto any guy anytime soon. Education is my first priority and I can't let my feelings, that is if I ever have any feelings for a guy, get in the way. I know myself and I'm not gonna die if I don't get one. I have years ahead of me. I don...
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy
    18-21, F
    13 Responses Jul 13, 2014

    I've just never been interested in one.

    It seems like too much work, and a waste of time. Besides, I have trust issues and I'm very insecure.
    HarryPotterFan0926 HarryPotterFan0926
    13-15, F
    1 Response Mar 14, 2016

    I am 27 and I've never had a boyfriend.

    Or a girlfriend. Anything. I've never had someone other than my family tell me they loved me. I have loved once but was not loved in return. That was one of the worst experiences of my life. I think I'm ok looking. I shower and put effort into my appearance. My bmi is average...
    Bluesky86 Bluesky86
    31-35, F
    9 Responses Jan 8, 2014

    My parents say that I can't have a boyfriend

    until I'm in college. To be honest, I don't mind too much. I feel like having a boyfriend would be kinda awkward at this period of my life, since I'm only sixteen. I do sometimes get a teensy bit jealous when people have dates to school dances and I'm just here going stag, but...
    Apartments Apartments
    18-21, F
    Mar 6, 2016

    I actually don't want to have a boyfriend but,

    Boy's accompany is Fun. Its fun when your Talking to someone that is your opposite. And it made more fun when that boy is you have the same interest in life! I just need someone to talk to.. for now =)
    Kially Kially
    16-17, F
    Dec 31, 2015

    Men are NOTHING, Nothing

    but Crap, Liars, con artists and back stabbers, they get get a female to where they want them lure them in is what they do, and use females for all their sick twisted games Bloody UGH!!! I HATE MEN, ALL OF THEM, AGAIN IF YOU NEVER HAD A BOY FRIEND YOU ARE BETTER OFF, THEY DON...
    WinnieCamden WinnieCamden
    26-30, F
    Apr 21, 2016

    25 And I've Never Done A Lot Of Things

    I'm 25 and never had a boyfriend, a first real kiss or sex. Sometimes this really bothers me. I've tried to figure out 'why' for a while now and I think it may be because growing up as the first child my father was so strict with me and said if I ever came home with someone he...
    sagira sagira
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Jul 25, 2012

    i've always wondered how would it felt like.

    I never talk to boys to be honest and as expected boys don't talk to me at all... they just don't seem interested. Some people tell me that i might be too intimidating for guys even tho im very quiet... for me it doesnt make any sense but whatever. I just really wanna know...
    wendym98 wendym98
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 12, 2014

    I'm a bit picky. I prefer white Guy's

    but I attract ugly black guys sorry I just don't like them. I could never date one.
    UnfriendlyBlackGirl UnfriendlyBlackGirl
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Oct 24, 2015
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