Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Never Had a Boyfriend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 5,121 People

    calllmeA calllmeA 18-21, F Dec 22, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I've never had a boyfriend.

    Never been kissed. Never held a guy's hand. Never been hugged by a guy. Never been asked for my number, or had any guy show any interest in talking to me. Never had a guy start a conversation with me. Never had a conversation with a boy that didn't have to do with school. Never...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jul 1

    Your Response

    Cancel

    20 And Single

    It's hard, and somewhat embarrassing to say, but I've never had a boyfriend.  Not in the true sense anyway.  I've had boys like me, been on a date, been in mutual like, and I finally had my first kiss at age 20.  But I've never really 'been' with anyone.  It...
    deleted deleted 26-30 18 Responses Mar 9, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    17 years and I've never had a real relationship.

    I just had my first kiss last September an I've never, ya know, done "it" (lol). I used to feel bad an left out but I now realize that I'm not really relationship material nor am I ready for one. I'm not secure or confident enough to love or even like myself yet so I definitely...
    irreelevance irreelevance 16-17, F 6 Responses Feb 10

    Your Response

    Cancel

    i never had a boyfriend

    and im 21. i know i will never have one but sometimes i wonder how it would feel to have someone care and like you. im too "disgusting" for guys and i get it. but it would be nice to not be alone everyday.
    ihatebeingblack44 ihatebeingblack44 18-21, F 2 Responses May 16

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Lonely

    I'm 25 and never had a boyfriend. No real date. No first kiss.. no nothing. It gets lonely and frustrating. Especially when I see other people together. I can't handle being around my cousin because she has a boyfriend. I can't help but wonder when is it going to be my turn?
    Stripped628 Stripped628 26-30, F 29 Responses Apr 21, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I have no boyfriend since birth.

    Some people asks me, "Why?" and I always answer that I am not allowed to have a boyfriend yet. It is not far from the truth because my parents are encouraging me to concentrate on my studies rather than having a relationship with the opposite sex. Not having a boyfriend...
    TheWinter TheWinter 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 22

    Your Response

    Cancel

    never ever ...i dont think there is

    that guy who will loves me just the way i am
    salmax99 salmax99 16-17, F 6 Responses Apr 5

    Your Response

    Cancel

    i've always wondered how would it felt like.

    I never talk to boys to be honest and as expected boys don't talk to me at all... they just don't seem interested. Some people tell me that i might be too intimidating for guys even tho im very quiet... for me it doesnt make any sense but whatever. I just really wanna know...
    wendym98 wendym98 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 12, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I am 24 and I have honestly never had a

    boyfriend! I'm not saying there is anything wrong with me or that ugly or anything! I just don't like asking guys out or tell them that I like them because I'm terrified of rejection and embarrassment! I have had guys ask me out or tell me they like me but I never liked them...
    fitnesswoman24 fitnesswoman24 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 24

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I turn 19 this coming up weekend

    and I have never even had my first first kiss, let alone a boyfriend. The other night I had a dream about a man who loved me whole heartedly and didn't want to let me go. It felt so real and when I woke up this morning reality crashed in and a huge weight dropped on my heart...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses May 22

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Almost 21 and still never been in a

    relationship. Sometimes I don't mind, sometimes I wish I could figure out what's wrong with me. Depends on the day I suppose. I just wanna find someone
    Juils Juils 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 17, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Mostly because some guys I don't like them

    because of their personality but some I like n they like me to n I think I just wasn't ready for one or I was saving myself for one guy but that guy is a jerk so theirs no use for a boyfriend until I find out what love is
    cassie200015 cassie200015 13-15, F 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I know I don't need a boyfriends to be happy.

    I know I'm too young to have a boyfriend. I know I need to wait for the right person. I just want someone to make me feel special and happy. I want someone to talk to until 2 am. I'm tired of waiting. All of my friends have or have had a boyfriend and their first kiss. I kinda...
    Flowerposter Flowerposter 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 19

    Your Response

    Cancel

    25 And I've Never Done A Lot Of Things

    I'm 25 and never had a boyfriend, a first real kiss or sex. Sometimes this really bothers me. I've tried to figure out 'why' for a while now and I think it may be because growing up as the first child my father was so strict with me and said if I ever came home with someone he...
    sagira sagira 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 25, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Im asking myself if its worth hurring with

    such stuff as relationships
    nemelabychtubyt nemelabychtubyt 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    phoenixfire101 phoenixfire101 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 5

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I've never had a bf and I have no regrets.

    When I had my severe depression and I hated myself in high school I didn't love myself: THEREFORE (when you don't love yourself you will only attract undignified and ****** men, they will never save you) Years later it served as the best lesson, finally when I genuinely knew my...
    GiiGi GiiGi 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 9

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I was never asked to be someone's girlfriend.

    . I've been having a crush just never a boyfriend . I wonder what it feels like to be loved ..
    Rosella4 Rosella4 18-21, F 7 Responses May 22, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I've came very close to having some,

    but they all stopped talking to me out of nowhere so I don't "talk" to boys anymore that I don't know in person. Like they all went to my school but I never met them in person before so.
    ButteryToast ButteryToast 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 17

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Yep never and I think I'm ready.

    I've thought about online but I am not sure if that's where I want to start. There are so many layers in a persons personality that scrolling through EP looking at "advertisements" for wanting a girlfriends seems weird. I think I should wait at a bit longer until I reconsider...
    MyMindHurts01 MyMindHurts01 13-15, F 4 Responses May 27

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm going to have to give up this experience.

    I had the most wonderful date last night, and we're out together today. He wants to see much more of me, and I certainly want to see him. So I think I can say that I do have a boyfriend!
    chantalmw chantalmw 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 29, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Sadly I don't have a boyfriend

    because most of the boys are immature and just want to get into my panties or wants me to show my assets off
    mysticaldreams mysticaldreams 16-17, F 4 Responses Dec 18, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I am 27 and I've never had a boyfriend.

    Or a girlfriend. Anything. I've never had someone other than my family tell me they loved me. I have loved once but was not loved in return. That was one of the worst experiences of my life. I think I'm ok looking. I shower and put effort into my appearance. My bmi is average...
    Bluesky86 Bluesky86 26-30, F 10 Responses Jan 8, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    All my friends around me have boyfriends.

    I'm single and always have been. My friends come to me about their problems with their boyfriends and I can't help them. They send me pictures of them and their boyfriends and ditch me for them 99% of the time. I'm happy for them, but I just get jealous of my friends...
    baiho baiho 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 28

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I had one in elementary school

    but I don't count that.
    JointPuffer JointPuffer 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 16

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Every semester since I've started college there

    has been at least one guy who seems attracted to me, yet no one has bothered to ask me out. Why is this?
    theloveofmylife2 theloveofmylife2 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 9

    Your Response

    Cancel

    For me, this has been a "choice with no regrets.

    " (Anyone get the reference? No? Gah! No one ever does.)
    misanthropicpessimist misanthropicpessimist 13-15, F 5 Responses Jun 23

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I have been feeling really frustrated

    that I'm almost 27 and I've never had a boyfriend. I've never even dated anyone. All I've had are some hookups and awkward blind dates. I feel sad that some girls I know have no problem always finding a boyfriend and that even when I try to date and meet guys I find no one. In...
    fabgirl824 fabgirl824 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 19

    Your Response

    Cancel

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    norahcc11 norahcc11 26-30, F May 25

    Your Response

    Cancel

    but I wish someone could tell me

    if i want to be there girl friend
    Emily657 Emily657 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 21

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Sorry for being inactive!

    ! I will be back on here daily :)
    Cristyy274 Cristyy274 22-25, M 1 Response May 18

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Are there any guys out there

    who live in Wisconsin and wants to chat?
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 14

    Your Response

    Cancel

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    kyliecc11 kyliecc11 26-30, F Jun 10

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Yup I'm forever alone.

    I'm 14 still without a boyfriend. But it's cool.
    FighterWolf FighterWolf 13-15, F 51 Responses Jun 23, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm actually okay with this,

    though sometimes I'm scared that I won't be able to experience falling in love.
    laulaud laulaud 18-21, F 8 Responses May 9

    Your Response

    Cancel

    And i dont need one..

    . i am really happy living with myself, but sometimes... just sometimes... i wonder what it's feel love for somebody...
    Shouuup Shouuup 18-21, F 2 Responses May 14

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I just don't see the importance of dating.

    I'm young, there's other things in life. If I meet someone worth it, then maybe I'd date that person. But right now, I haven't found one person like that.
    faithandfree faithandfree 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 15, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I never dated and im 19

    and in college. yay life (sarcasm). every guy a mean is a douchebag who just wants one thing not love.
    iknoweverything iknoweverything 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 12

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Single Mother But Never Had A Boyfriend

    One of my biggest insecurities growing up was the fact I never had a boyfriend. It all started when everyone seemed to be getting one of these at around 13.. Thinking back now, that was ridiculous for me to even worry, but here I am.. turning 20 this month and I still haven't had...
    YourRemedyMyPoison YourRemedyMyPoison 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 4, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I don't know if the only one

    who experience this. Because i am actually single but i want to finish high school with no boyfriends. But i really want to know what it feels like to have one.
    NicoleDelaCruuz NicoleDelaCruuz 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 16, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    16, single, never had a boyfriend.

    All you people older than me are probably thinking 'she's still young, she has nothing to worry about' and you'd be right, however it really doesn't do much to my already lower than the floor self esteem. Other girls my age have had multiple boyfriends by now, which just leads...
    RebeccaLouise224 RebeccaLouise224 18-21, F 22 Responses Jun 24, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I never had a boyfriend,

    but guys just started coming up to me once I lost weight. When I was bigger (almost 300lbs, now 160), the guys didnt want me, but they chatted with me. It was as we were bros or whatever. I knew how they felt about girls and what they say. They were all about having sex. But...
    Jene95 Jene95 18-21, F 3 Responses May 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    blackwoodwolf blackwoodwolf 18-21, F 8 Responses Jun 29

    Your Response

    Cancel

    It doesn't mean that no one wants you,

    that you're not beautiful, or you're picky. Maybe you're just waiting for the right person and the right time
    worthynot worthynot 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 25, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    On Saturday, I will be the only 20 year old I

    know that has never had a boyfriend. How do these girls do it?! I can't trust so easily.
    Jene95 Jene95 18-21, F 10 Responses Jul 13

    Your Response

    Cancel