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I Never Had a Boyfriend

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    I've read recently about somebody asked to

    describe their love life. They went on to vividly depict their golden, fairy tale love life and all the conquests. This got me thinking. How would I describe my love life (or rather lack-of-love life)? I would describe it as "Taking a test, feeling like you did wonderful, and...
    RxpperGirl RxpperGirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    I just turned 18, and I've never been in any

    sort of relationship. I actually think I'm aromatic, but I tried talking about it with a friend who's had a couple of boyfriends, and she said I just hadn't met the right person yet. I have a lot of guy friends, but I feel like dating would ruin a friendship.
    scsoccer scsoccer 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 22

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    Im 24 right now,ive never had a first kiss,

    never gone out on a date(though ive been asked out once,i declined though because the guy wasn't my type didnt wanna lead him on.) never had sex(though i have had online friends with benefits i guess u could say..but it was just sexting and i only did that cause i was lonely and...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    carry11 carry11 26-30, F Dec 22, 2014

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    So I've never ever in my life had a boyfriend.

    I'm I ashamed of it? No. Does it sometimes get lonely? Yes. I'm the one who has never had a boyfriend and I don't mind it. It doesn't make me an alien or anything, but it seems like my friends can't accept it. Where do I start? It makes me sad that the people that are supposed...
    Dari97 Dari97 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 20, 2014

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    100% Non-girlfriend Material

    100% NON-Girlfriend Material I will be 26 the 19th of December. I feel like I will never be good enough to ever be someones girlfriend. I think about this all the time. It makes me depressed and I cry about it a lot. I lack self-confidence and im not that outgoing. Im told all...
    NRF25 NRF25 26-30, F 10 Responses Dec 16, 2012

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    It's ok. But I want that moment

    when you feel loved and wanted. I have never been kissed (on lips) and I was always thinking I'm waiting for the right moment/guy. But at least everyone has had a bf and my school is having a junior prom!!!! I kinda want to go!
    AngelsAgainstUs AngelsAgainstUs 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 26

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    25 And I've Never Done A Lot Of Things

    I'm 25 and never had a boyfriend, a first real kiss or sex. Sometimes this really bothers me. I've tried to figure out 'why' for a while now and I think it may be because growing up as the first child my father was so strict with me and said if I ever came home with someone he...
    sagira sagira 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 25, 2012

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    16, single, never had a boyfriend.

    All you people older than me are probably thinking 'she's still young, she has nothing to worry about' and you'd be right, however it really doesn't do much to my already lower than the floor self esteem. Other girls my age have had multiple boyfriends by now, which just leads...
    RebeccaLouise224 RebeccaLouise224 16-17, F 22 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    I was never asked to be someone's girlfriend.

    . I've been having a crush just never a boyfriend . I wonder what it feels like to be loved ..
    Rosella4 Rosella4 18-21, F 7 Responses May 22, 2014

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    ^^^^^^ & honestly I'm starting to feel okay

    with it . I've witnessed all my friends get their hearts broken boy after boy . I've witnessed their grades slipping & their whole demeanor changing . I'm actually pretty content with myself & how things are going for me right now . A boy will pop into my picture one day , I'm...
    domino00 domino00 13-15, F Jan 19

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    I'm fine with not having one.

    No way I'm ever letting my feelings latch onto any guy anytime soon. Education is my first priority and I can't let my feelings, that is if I ever have any feelings for a guy, get in the way. I know myself and I'm not gonna die if I don't get one. I have years ahead of me. I don...
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F 15 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    KatIsAMermaid KatIsAMermaid 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 14, 2014

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    I just don't see the importance of dating.

    I'm young, there's other things in life. If I meet someone worth it, then maybe I'd date that person. But right now, I haven't found one person like that.
    faithandfree faithandfree 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 15, 2014

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    I'm going to have to give up this experience.

    I had the most wonderful date last night, and we're out together today. He wants to see much more of me, and I certainly want to see him. So I think I can say that I do have a boyfriend!
    chantalmw chantalmw 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 29, 2014

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    Being straight, it's

    rather to be expected.
    RustinCohle RustinCohle 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 18, 2014

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    Never had a crush. Never liked anyone

    (romantically). Never had a boyfriend. I am in no rush either. As I went through my years of high school, my friends always went on rants about finding a boyfriend. Most of them got hurt really bad and the relationships were not serious. I'm going to start my new life in...
    Liv4Life Liv4Life 18-21, F Jul 7, 2014

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    I have no boyfriend since birth.

    Some people asks me, "Why?" and I always answer that I am not allowed to have a boyfriend yet. It is not far from the truth because my parents are encouraging me to concentrate on my studies rather than having a relationship with the opposite sex. Not having a boyfriend...
    TheWinter TheWinter 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    16 1/2 no boyfriend(or kissed) waiting

    for that right one i feel like hes on his way im not rushing it it would just be nice. All the guys who asked me out i know werent perfect . Perfect guy if you come dont break my heart :/ .i coulfve had one but i didnt want to remember my first bf or kiss being the worst.
    crazyyes crazyyes 22-25, F Jan 31

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    I'm 18, never had a boyfriend

    and never been kissed. I just haven't found a guy that I can see myself dating. And the guys that ask me out are creeps so I always say no.
    brenda4696 brenda4696 18-21, F 11 Responses Jan 29

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    Nope!

    I'm 20 years old and I've never had a boyfriend and I'm not ashamed to admit it either. Sometimes it's very difficult. When everyone around you is coupled up you want to be happy for them. At the same time there's this sinking feeling. You feel two faced smiling "oh that's great...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 70+, F 7 Responses Apr 22, 2013

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    I never have a boyfriend

    because I am not interested in boys, I am lesbian I love girls and I had sex with a girl once :).
    ianslover101 ianslover101 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    The 11th Wheel

    Sure, We've all heard stories of being the 3rd wheel and how much it sucks but let me ask you, have you ever been the 11th wheel? Well I have and it sucks, BIGTIME. I'm 22 and I've never had a boyfriend. It never bother me up until last year. I've always been busy with school...
    justanotherrandomperson justanotherrandomperson 22-25 7 Responses Dec 23, 2012

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    AKALadyRed AKALadyRed 16-17, F 5 Responses Feb 1

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    i've always wondered how would it felt like.

    I never talk to boys to be honest and as expected boys don't talk to me at all... they just don't seem interested. Some people tell me that i might be too intimidating for guys even tho im very quiet... for me it doesnt make any sense but whatever. I just really wanna know...
    wendym98 wendym98 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    Never had one and never want one tbh.

    I have a preference for girls (I'm pansexual but I mean c'mon. Girls are p cool) a lot of guys my age are really gross anyways.
    plantgoddess plantgoddess 13-15, F Feb 3

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    ciarajones179 ciarajones179 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 20

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    Never felt the need, one day there will be

    so I'm not stressing. there are very little people in this world who change our lives and accept us wholeheartedly - and I'm going to find that person.
    lolznewaccountio lolznewaccountio 18-21, F Dec 26, 2014

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    I Give Up.

    I am almost 20 and a sophomore in college, and I have never had a boyfriend. My friends have been having boyfriends left and right since they started high school, but I've never even had a guy like me before (except for EP, but that doesn't really count). Hell, the only time a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Dec 17, 2012

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    https://www.youtube.

    com/watch?v=1AJmKkU5POAcool song"Haven't Met You Yet"I'm not surprised, not everything lastsI've broken my heart so many times I stopped keeping trackTalk myself in, I talk myself outI get all worked up then I let myself downI tried so very hard not to lose itI came up with a...
    voyagetoheaven voyagetoheaven 18-21, M Feb 4

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    I had one for 3 months

    that I would never claim as a relationship. Other than that I've never had crushes or a boyfriend, let alone a boy have any interest in me. Is that bad? So far 3 years of high school, and nothing.
    giscoleman34 giscoleman34 16-17, F Dec 30, 2014

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    calllmeA calllmeA 18-21, F Dec 22, 2014

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    I am 27 and I've never had a boyfriend.

    Or a girlfriend. Anything. I've never had someone other than my family tell me they loved me. I have loved once but was not loved in return. That was one of the worst experiences of my life. I think I'm ok looking. I shower and put effort into my appearance. My bmi is average...
    Bluesky86 Bluesky86 26-30, F 10 Responses Jan 8, 2014

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    I'm 15, and I haven't had a boyfriend

    or my first kiss yet. I feel so behind all of my friends, but I still don't know if I'm ready to be in a relationship yet. Even though I want to start dating, I'm not sure if I'm comfortable with it. That's where I'm completely stuck. And I don't want to date just to date; to...
    canary291 canary291 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 17

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    Lonely

    I'm 25 and never had a boyfriend. No real date. No first kiss.. no nothing. It gets lonely and frustrating. Especially when I see other people together. I can't handle being around my cousin because she has a boyfriend. I can't help but wonder when is it going to be my turn?
    Stripped628 Stripped628 26-30, F 28 Responses Apr 21, 2010

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    17 years and I've never had a real relationship.

    I just had my first kiss last September an I've never, ya know, done "it" (lol). I used to feel bad an left out but I now realize that I'm not really relationship material nor am I ready for one. I'm not secure or confident enough to love or even like myself yet so I definitely...
    irreelevance irreelevance 16-17, F 7 Responses Feb 10

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    It doesn't mean that no one wants you,

    that you're not beautiful, or you're picky. Maybe you're just waiting for the right person and the right time
    worthynot worthynot 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 25, 2014

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    Almost 21 and still never been in a

    relationship. Sometimes I don't mind, sometimes I wish I could figure out what's wrong with me. Depends on the day I suppose. I just wanna find someone
    Juils Juils 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 17, 2014

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    Yup I'm forever alone.

    I'm 14 still without a boyfriend. But it's cool.
    FighterWolf FighterWolf 13-15, F 54 Responses Jun 23, 2014

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    wooow I seen a lot of girls posting they

    want a bf well i guess i dont want to lef out am a great guy with good personality in plus ages is not a limit since now young girls gets marry with older do yu girlls like romantisism am still that kind of persons= who gives serenate how would you describe the guy...
    loner001 loner001 26-30, M Mar 6

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    I'm 36 And I Never Had A Bf :)

    I've been reading the posts of other people here, how some feel worried and even pathetic coz they're 17 or 21 and never had a boyfriend.  It makes me feel self-conscious of my age.  I'm 36 and I never had a bf.  Not for lack of suitors, I've had some over the...
    brighteyedstargazer brighteyedstargazer 36-40, F 30 Responses Mar 28, 2010

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    silaekaradas silaekaradas 16-17, F 7 Responses Mar 20

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    20 And Single

    It's hard, and somewhat embarrassing to say, but I've never had a boyfriend.  Not in the true sense anyway.  I've had boys like me, been on a date, been in mutual like, and I finally had my first kiss at age 20.  But I've never really 'been' with anyone.  It...
    deleted deleted 26-30 18 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    I KNOW ITS A BIT LONG STORY BUT I WANTED TO

    HEAR UR OPINIONS. I never had a boyfriend. Last summer when i was in England for a language school, i met someone and he was cute. (and french) We had a bit time together. But we were never alone, there were always our friends with us. Actually i wasn't complaining about it :D...
    ddeniz ddeniz 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 22

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    JumpingTomatoes JumpingTomatoes 16-17 Mar 7

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    Im 13 this year.I never had a boyfriend

    but crush? yes I do have.two actually.But sadly one of them is taken by my bestfriend :( And all I had to do is pretend to be happy for them.sigh.I wanna be attached to my another crush or someone arnd my age
    ehmel ehmel 13-15, F Feb 7

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