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I Never Had a Boyfriend

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    I'm 18 and I've never had a boyfriend. Not that i'm itching for one. The thing is I don't even have guy friends! I've been in an all-girls school since primary till high school and...
    littlederps littlederps 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    In My 40'S And Never Had A Boyfriend :( - Yeah..at my age, I've never had a special someone to share my life with. I've always panicked and felt awkward, self-conscious, extremely...
    Misfitbrokentoy Misfitbrokentoy 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 30, 2013

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    Unintrested - People always say I'm weird for never having a boyfriend. My friends have had them left and right and complain and swoon about them but honestly they aren't on the...
    ColdBehindTheSmile ColdBehindTheSmile 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 30, 2013

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    It's sucks to be the only one who never had a boyfriend out of all my friends. I feel like I'm broken or something but I guess I'm just not ready yet... I have too much that's...
    futurestar94 futurestar94 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 15, 2013

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    I am 22 and never had a boyfriend. I think about being single nearly everyday, not constantly but it will pop into my head once during the day, And once a month for a few days I...
    lorrilondon22 lorrilondon22 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 8

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    Wait Until Your My Age - I'm 25 years old with a college degree and a lot going for me. I've never had a boyfriend. I've been on dates and even at one time had a friends with...
    Donnavan23 Donnavan23 26-30, F 8 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    36 Never Had A Boyfriend And Never Been Kissed. - I am 36 year old, and ever since I remember I've been waiting for that special someone, I remember since I was 15-16 years old on...
    AREF13 AREF13 36-40, F 10 Responses Aug 25, 2013

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    Single Mother But Never Had A Boyfriend - One of my biggest insecurities growing up was the fact I never had a boyfriend. It all started when everyone seemed to be getting one of...
    YourRemedyMyPoison YourRemedyMyPoison 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    I'm Passive. And I Hate It. I'm Also Too Scared To Do Anything About It.... - I've never been in relationship... I had chances to kiss but i ended up rejecting those guys because I...
    paukstukas paukstukas 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 30, 2013

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    100% Non-girlfriend Material - 100% NON-Girlfriend Material I will be 26 the 19th of December. I feel like I will never be good enough to ever be someones girlfriend. I think about...
    NRF25 NRF25 26-30, F 10 Responses Dec 16, 2012

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    I don't know if the only one who experience this. Because i am actually single but i want to finish high school with no boyfriends. But i really want to know what it feels like to...
    NicoleDelaCruuz NicoleDelaCruuz 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    All My Friends Are Pairing Off - i have two close best friends who are now with guys. ugh. im in my second year at a university and there have been interested guys but ive never...
    plumivory plumivory 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 21, 2013

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    I'm in college and I've never been in a serious relationship before. Usually it doesn't bother me, but now that my best friend has been talking to this guy I started realizing how...
    itsverity itsverity 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm 36 And I Never Had A Bf :) - I've been reading the posts of other people here, how some feel worried and even pathetic coz they're 17 or 21 and never had a boyfriend. ...
    brighteyedstargazer brighteyedstargazer 36-40, F 29 Responses Mar 28, 2010

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    32 And Still Single And Never Had A Bf. - I am 31 going to be 32 in September and I have been getting this horrible feeling that I am going to be alone for the rest of my life. I...
    Allan856 Allan856 31-35, M 6 Responses Aug 1, 2012

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    I Give Up. - I am almost 20 and a sophomore in college, and I have never had a boyfriend. My friends have been having boyfriends left and right since they started high school, but...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Dec 17, 2012

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    Waitiing For God's Best.. - Waiting is hard. It's something that most of us would not want to do. Because we want things,instantly.We are always in HURRY.From foods, clothes, our...
    hanibi06 hanibi06 19-21, F 1 Response May 10, 2007

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    Still Waiting - I am a 27 year old virgin who never had a real boyfriend before. So many years have gone by and it made me so bitter. I even lost faith in GOD because I wasn't even...
    lotus26 lotus26 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 27, 2012

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    I Didn't Think It Was Me......but It Must Be - While growing up i have always been the quiet one. This would prove to be my downfall throughout my life, but from no fault of my...
    Alwysblue Alwysblue 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 30, 2010

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    Almost 26... - and never had a boyfriend. if i don't think about it too much, then i don't get TOO depressed. if i ever do get one, would he think i'm weird because i've never been...
    NaNeenah NaNeenah 31-35, F 11 Responses Apr 10, 2008

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    Never Been Kissed - I'm 16 years old. Sophomore in highschool and eternally single. I'm pretty outgoing so i don't think my problem is me being shy. I used to be really self...
    Keepitsimple1088 Keepitsimple1088 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 14, 2013

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    Well, I kinda have. But I don't want to refer to him as my (Ex) boyfriend. Why not? Well, when he asked me, I did say yes. But I didn't feel comfortable with him, so I broke up. I...
    littlewolf1 littlewolf1 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    People say I should get a boy friend because I never had a boyfriend it's just, I don't trust any of the boys at my school because it is a prep school. /-: and I think I should...
    WonderinginWV WonderinginWV 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 27

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    Almost 17, no boyfriend - I am probably just too shy. Or maybe it's because I'm too crazy. I haven't had a kiss or anything. I get so depressed thinking about love.
    emipurple emipurple 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 29, 2013

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    I'm going to have to give up this experience. I had the most wonderful date last night, and we're out together today. He wants to see much more of me, and I certainly want to see...
    chantalmw chantalmw 26-30, T 5 Responses Mar 29

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    I've never been in a real relationship. I can't even remember the last time I went on a real date. I feel like I don't prioritize my needs because I'd rather have something that I...
    caitlynmarks caitlynmarks 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I Want To Be Loved - I'm 16 and never had a boyfriend. And probably never will... I know most of you think that I'm too young to think so that I will never experience the love...
    kaaat101 kaaat101 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 20, 2013

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    I've been with one guy but never had a relationship before
    mbratz123 mbratz123 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Never Had A Boyfriend - i'm 19 and i've never had a boyfriend. all my friends have had one but not me. when i was in high school there was a boy i liked but he did't like me he...
    makeitsomeday makeitsomeday 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 23, 2013

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    Hi. I'm 24 And I've Never Had A Boyfriend Haha - I don't know why. Maybe I'm too shy, maybe it's fear, maybe I run away from men... I've had many suitors, but I never know how to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 3, 2011

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    I've never had a real boyfriend. I had a two week thing with a guy who had not yet come out of the closet. No, not a sex thing. But.. there were some heavy make out sessions. He...
    WhoNeedsNormal WhoNeedsNormal 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    Keep It Real, Sacred And Everlasting. - Have you had the sensation of butterflies in your stomach.. the feeling that make you clam up whenever you get near to the particular person...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 29, 2013

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    Relapse - Well yesterday, I went into one of those really bad moods and it's made its way into today. I bawled and wailed and cried and wept...it's just that I'm so sick and tired...
    survivor0001 survivor0001 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 28, 2013

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    25 And I've Never Done A Lot Of Things - I'm 25 and never had a boyfriend, a first real kiss or sex. Sometimes this really bothers me. I've tried to figure out 'why' for a while...
    sagira sagira 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 25, 2012

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    The 11th Wheel - Sure, We've all heard stories of being the 3rd wheel and how much it sucks but let me ask you, have you ever been the 11th wheel? Well I have and it sucks, BIGTIME...
    justanotherrandomperson justanotherrandomperson 22-25 7 Responses Dec 23, 2012

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    Nope! - I'm 20 years old and I've never had a boyfriend and I'm not ashamed to admit it either. Sometimes it's very difficult. When everyone around you is coupled up you want to be...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 22, 2013

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    20 And Single - It's hard, and somewhat embarrassing to say, but I've never had a boyfriend.  Not in the true sense anyway.  I've had boys like me, been on a date, been...
    deleted deleted 26-30 18 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    Always Alone. - I'm 23 and never had a boyfriend. I don't know what's so wrong with me that everyone around me are getting boyfriends or girlfriends and I'm the one that is always...
    aplaceforme1 aplaceforme1 22-25, F 3 Responses May 18, 2013

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    Left Out... - I'm 21, almost 22 and I've never had any boyfriend... not even a crush...because right in the end, when I saw all the guys I supposedly liked leaving... I discovered...
    HadaraNight HadaraNight 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 21, 2013

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    It's not only that I don't have boyfriend. I just feel like no one ever likes me that way, you know ?
    risaanise risaanise 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    Scared I'll Never Change... - I'm 19 years old and never had a boyfriend.I've always thought it was dumb when people would become "boyfriend/girlfriend" and they hardly knew...
    Along4theRide Along4theRide 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 1, 2010

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    I Feel So Abnormal Because I'm 21 And I've Never Had A Boyfriend - Not only that, I've never gone out on a date, kissed, flirted, held hands, or even befriended a guy. It didn't...
    Hydronica Hydronica 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 7, 2010

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    Aches - I know two things, and I know these two things very clearly.  I am twenty years old.  I know this because twenty years is as long as I’ve been alive. ...
    Bellatk421 Bellatk421 18-21 4 Responses May 27, 2008

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    I am 27 and I've never had a boyfriend. Or a girlfriend. Anything. I've never had someone other than my family tell me they loved me. I have loved once but was not loved in return...
    LeatherCabbage LeatherCabbage 26-30, F 11 Responses Jan 8

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    Never In Real Life - I'm 27 years old and have never even been hit on nor asked out on a date; in real life that is. I've had a "long-distance boyfriend" that I met online over 7...
    SimplyComplex SimplyComplex 22-25 5 Responses Jul 26, 2011

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    Lonely - I'm 25 and never had a boyfriend. No real date. No first kiss.. no nothing. It gets lonely and frustrating. Especially when I see other people together. I can't handle...
    Stripped628 Stripped628 26-30, F 28 Responses Apr 21, 2010

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    Sigh - I know many people go through life without having a partner in crime, lover, etc. I've yet to embark on that amazing journey. I do know that I'm young and have a long way to...
    fictionx fictionx 16-17, F 8 Responses Oct 20, 2013

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    I've never had a boyfriend. Everyone surprised somehow. I'm not even allowed to date so what would be the fun in that?
    cotygal123 cotygal123 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2013

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    Its not the fact that i'm a 13 year old who's complaining. But the fact that i'm turning 19 this year and i've never had a boyfriend. Never even been kissed. Or more accurately...
    Lifeshouldsparkle Lifeshouldsparkle 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Ugly Woman Who Has Never Had A Boyfriend For More Then 4 Months - I'm almost 27 and only had a boyfriend for four months and he ended up with my 3rd cousin (there a story behind it...
    boo864 boo864 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 11, 2013

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    I just don't know where to complain about my issue so I'll complain here. I am only physically attracted to fat girls. I hate it because women always want to lose weight and when...
    bassmasterflea bassmasterflea 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 12

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