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I Never Had a Boyfriend

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    I am 20 and never had one.

    Not only that, but I have never actually being in a love relationship. I kiss 2 guys my entire life and they were totally random, like so random I don't even know their names. First I was in High School and was like, ok I am not the cute type. Thought I was gonna meet someone in...
    gaabes gaabes 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 13

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    I'm 16 going into my Junior year of High School

    and I still haven't had a boyfriend... :( It's kinda degrading because I almost did freshman year but then he pulled this huge jerk move and I broke it off. Some of my friends have had boyfriends (though most that date one of my friends are jerks and she won't let us meet them...
    emilymariee02 emilymariee02 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 4

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    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 20

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    KatIsAMermaid KatIsAMermaid 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Lonely

    I'm 25 and never had a boyfriend. No real date. No first kiss.. no nothing. It gets lonely and frustrating. Especially when I see other people together. I can't handle being around my cousin because she has a boyfriend. I can't help but wonder when is it going to be my turn?
    Stripped628 Stripped628 26-30, F 29 Responses Apr 21, 2010

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    It's really depressing I've never

    even been told I'm pretty by a guy irk and it kinda stings
    JosueGjerdingen JosueGjerdingen 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 18

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    I mean I've kissed a guy before

    but I've never had a relationship in my life I don't know what it's like to have a boyfriend
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 13

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    I was never asked to be someone's girlfriend.

    . I've been having a crush just never a boyfriend . I wonder what it feels like to be loved ..
    Rosella4 Rosella4 18-21, F 7 Responses May 22

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    So... I'm 15, with epilepsy

    and very anti-social also, tend to be Sadistic a lot... o.o Is it possible for me to be loved? (Also, I'm over-weight...)
    SnowyPuppy14 SnowyPuppy14 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 5

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    I'm 14 and never had a real boyfriend .

    all my bf was online from different states or countries and i never new them. tbh I never held hands with a guy before. smh...and I'm going to high school this year :(:(;(:(:(:(:(:(:(;(;:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(;(;:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(;(;
    lovealway14 lovealway14 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    Yup I'm forever alone.

    I'm 14 still without a boyfriend. But it's cool.
    FighterWolf FighterWolf 13-15, F 55 Responses Jun 23

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    I'm 13 and the picture below is pictures of me,

    I have never had a boyfriend.. Am I to ugly? :(
    Lyriklozano Lyriklozano 13-15, F 6 Responses Aug 24

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    I feel like i'm the only one.

    It's like somethings missing in my life, maybe this is it. But i just don't do anything, not that i don't dare. Everyone else that takes initiative i push away. Maybe it's not right for me
    ChlaraX ChlaraX 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 17

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    Single Mother But Never Had A Boyfriend

    One of my biggest insecurities growing up was the fact I never had a boyfriend. It all started when everyone seemed to be getting one of these at around 13.. Thinking back now, that was ridiculous for me to even worry, but here I am.. turning 20 this month and I still haven't had...
    YourRemedyMyPoison YourRemedyMyPoison 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    So I'm 20 years old..

    Almost 21 actually, and I have never had any romantic experience of any kind. I can't think of anybody I know who has never been in a relationship, or who hasn't at least been approached to be in a relationship. I must say it's really getting to my self esteem, and I'm starting...
    postmixlemonade postmixlemonade 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 24

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    19 years on this earth

    and it hasn't happened yet, and probably not anytime soon. It's a tad disappointing that I didn't get to be in a relationship with anyone as part of the highschool experience (save for 2 awkward dates and a peck on the cheek), but I think I'm okay with that.
    almaera almaera 18-21, F 2 Responses May 3

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    16, single, never had a boyfriend.

    All you people older than me are probably thinking 'she's still young, she has nothing to worry about' and you'd be right, however it really doesn't do much to my already lower than the floor self esteem. Other girls my age have had multiple boyfriends by now, which just leads...
    RebeccaLouise224 RebeccaLouise224 16-17, F 23 Responses Jun 24

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    I'm almost 17 and never had a boyfriend

    or even kiss a guy... it sucks bc most of my friends have and when they talk about if I just feel lame and left out.. the guys in my school are not great but I want experience before I go to college and hopefully I find luck in college :(
    englxnd23 englxnd23 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 19

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    The 11th Wheel

    Sure, We've all heard stories of being the 3rd wheel and how much it sucks but let me ask you, have you ever been the 11th wheel? Well I have and it sucks, BIGTIME. I'm 22 and I've never had a boyfriend. It never bother me up until last year. I've always been busy with school...
    justanotherrandomperson justanotherrandomperson 22-25 7 Responses Dec 23, 2012

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    Honestly, I'm a freshman in High School.

    I do not need to have a boyfriend because it's just setting me up for a heartbreak, especially because little to no one marries their High School Sweetheart.. So, why even bother?
    gumdropss gumdropss 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    25 And I've Never Done A Lot Of Things

    I'm 25 and never had a boyfriend, a first real kiss or sex. Sometimes this really bothers me. I've tried to figure out 'why' for a while now and I think it may be because growing up as the first child my father was so strict with me and said if I ever came home with someone he...
    sagira sagira 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 25, 2012

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    I'm fine with not having one.

    No way I'm ever letting my feelings latch onto any guy anytime soon. Education is my first priority and I can't let my feelings, that is if I ever have any feelings for a guy, get in the way. I know myself and I'm not gonna die if I don't get one. I have years ahead of me. I don...
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F 16 Responses Jul 13

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    Almost 21 and still never been in a

    relationship. Sometimes I don't mind, sometimes I wish I could figure out what's wrong with me. Depends on the day I suppose. I just wanna find someone
    Juils Juils 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 17

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    I'm 13 and I feel like the only one.

    None of my friends are virgins, and I'm just over here doing nothing but humiliate myself in front of possibly boyfriend-material. I'm also the only one who's not in a hurry to spread my legs...
    ColourfulDreams ColourfulDreams 13-15, F 21 Responses Sep 5

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    Im starting to get very annoyed with this one,

    i always ask myself why never a guy asks me out, or at least says im pretty in person. I comment this to my friends or family but they always says that is not true, that many guys consider me attractive, that almost all my brother's friends has a crush on me, that if we weren't...
    Mynameistooweird Mynameistooweird 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    There better be some cute guys

    who arnt dicks at my new school?? Please??
    JosueGjerdingen JosueGjerdingen 13-15, F Aug 17

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    I've never had a boyfriend

    or my first kiss and I'm 15..
    Kiara15xxx Kiara15xxx 13-15, F 20 Responses Jun 19

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    I told this to some fiends a

    while back, and for some reason they were impressed? Apparently being single is a skill.
    almaera almaera 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    Never had a crush. Never liked anyone

    (romantically). Never had a boyfriend. I am in no rush either. As I went through my years of high school, my friends always went on rants about finding a boyfriend. Most of them got hurt really bad and the relationships were not serious. I'm going to start my new life in...
    Liv4Life Liv4Life 18-21, F Jul 7

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    Yes this isn't anything knew

    but I want to add to what I've said. I think a reason y I haven't had a bf is cuz I'm really shy and when I have a convo I'm scared I will not find anything to talk about and it will just be awkward. Like it has happend to me before. I try talking with someone but then I run out...
    captainamericafan captainamericafan 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 28

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    Finally thought I was going to escape this 360

    virgin status, but like all the guys say, he didn't like me that way. After years of this happening I'm just stuck. I hate being told I'm attractive anymore and how great of a personality I have, where's the proof? The worst one is the "he's out of my league" excuse. So many...
    NerdRock87 NerdRock87 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 4

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    MeIGuess172 MeIGuess172 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    20 And Single

    It's hard, and somewhat embarrassing to say, but I've never had a boyfriend.  Not in the true sense anyway.  I've had boys like me, been on a date, been in mutual like, and I finally had my first kiss at age 20.  But I've never really 'been' with anyone.  It...
    deleted deleted 26-30 18 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    I am 15 and I never had one.

    I spent the last two years head over heels for this boy in my grade. This summer I moved to England and the boy I like has a girlfriend now. So I just really want to move past this guy who made me so miserable and find a boyfriend, and there are a lot of couples in my old school...
    belly99 belly99 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    I'm 15 and I never had one.

    All my friends have one and it's kinda sad, really. I mean, I've been called "pretty' and 'cute' by some guys around my age but no one has genuinely liked me yet. :(( Maybe it's because I'm kind of quiet.
    mecc28 mecc28 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 9

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    waterflame waterflame 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    Excuse the nose pimp.

    I've never had a boyfriend and people thrive off of making me feel weird about it, like I don't see the big deal, the only man in my life is my dad. XD
    MissIHateEverything MissIHateEverything 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 23

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    I've talked about this before

    but it's true it annoys me that I'm like one of the only ones at my school who hasn't had a boyfriend or first kiss. I'm an 8th grader and just seeing everyone in couples makes me sad.
    captainamericafan captainamericafan 13-15, F 8 Responses Jul 23

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    I Give Up.

    I am almost 20 and a sophomore in college, and I have never had a boyfriend. My friends have been having boyfriends left and right since they started high school, but I've never even had a guy like me before (except for EP, but that doesn't really count). Hell, the only time a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Dec 17, 2012

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    I just don't see the importance of dating.

    I'm young, there's other things in life. If I meet someone worth it, then maybe I'd date that person. But right now, I haven't found one person like that.
    faithandfree faithandfree 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 15

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    I'm Just Not Attractive.

    And I've had enough of the "Don't say that, you're pretty!" nonsense. Those little white lies don't work on me. They say it to everyone. You can tell when someone is attracted to you. I don't get that. If I do, it's from old/drunk men or people who are desperate for something...
    hollowdesires hollowdesires 16-17, F 6 Responses Sep 5, 2011

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    I don't know if the only one

    who experience this. Because i am actually single but i want to finish high school with no boyfriends. But i really want to know what it feels like to have one.
    NicoleDelaCruuz NicoleDelaCruuz 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 16

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    I'm 14 and I never had a boyfriend!

    I had some boys who liked me and wanted to be with me but I don't know why I always rejected them. I think it was because I thought I was to young and it was unnecessary ( weird I know). But now that I am 14 i don't feel that way anymore. I can't tell the boys that I like how I...
    itsdiane itsdiane 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 5

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    I'm going to have to give up this experience.

    I had the most wonderful date last night, and we're out together today. He wants to see much more of me, and I certainly want to see him. So I think I can say that I do have a boyfriend!
    chantalmw chantalmw 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 29

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    I am 27 and I've never had a boyfriend.

    Or a girlfriend. Anything. I've never had someone other than my family tell me they loved me. I have loved once but was not loved in return. That was one of the worst experiences of my life. I think I'm ok looking. I shower and put effort into my appearance. My bmi is average...
    LeatherCabbage LeatherCabbage 26-30, F 11 Responses Jan 8

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    Ashbarg Ashbarg 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    thatonegirl156 thatonegirl156 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 23

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    I have just been too scared.

    I want one to an extent. Then when I meet a guy I like a lot he doesn't txt me back. I just want some one to cuddle with.
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    Iā€™m just looking for a deep conversation

    that stimulates my mind so much that it turns me on and I hang on every word you say
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F Aug 20

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    It doesn't mean that no one wants you,

    that you're not beautiful, or you're picky. Maybe you're just waiting for the right person and the right time
    worthynot worthynot 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 25

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    So... I have been thinking about asking a

    friend help, i want him to help me to get a date... I find it a little (a lot) embarrassing but i will birth 17 in one month, the next year i'll go to college. I really need that experience and go from there. But i don't know how to ask for his help ._. What would be a nice and...
    Mynameistooweird Mynameistooweird 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    Nope!

    I'm 20 years old and I've never had a boyfriend and I'm not ashamed to admit it either. Sometimes it's very difficult. When everyone around you is coupled up you want to be happy for them. At the same time there's this sinking feeling. You feel two faced smiling "oh that's great...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 18-21, F 8 Responses Apr 22, 2013

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    I Feel So Abnormal Because I'm 21 And I've Never Had A Boyfriend

    Not only that, I've never gone out on a date, kissed, flirted, held hands, or even befriended a guy. It didn't upset me until I started college. There's obviously something that guys find repulsive about me (whether it's my looks or personality), because guys wont be my...
    Hydronica Hydronica 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 7, 2010

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    I am 19 and I have never been in a relationship

    or even kissed a boy, it is very embarrassing at times, if someone ask if I have been in a relationship I tend to lie a bit and say I been in 1 but it wasn't serious so it didn't last. but even I f I had the opportunity to be in one I prefer being single because of how...