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I Never Had a Boyfriend

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    I am actually okay with this.

    Most people would think that I'm crazy for being okay with never having a boyfriend. But, you know what? I really don't care. Life is not all about trying to find a boyfriend. It's about trying to live your life and trying to survive this cruel world. I am actually not that all...
    Peridot22 Peridot22 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 24

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    Never had a crush. Never liked anyone

    (romantically). Never had a boyfriend. I am in no rush either. As I went through my years of high school, my friends always went on rants about finding a boyfriend. Most of them got hurt really bad and the relationships were not serious. I'm going to start my new life in...
    Liv4Life Liv4Life 18-21, F Jul 7, 2014

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    22 and I want something serious leading to

    marriage. I can't find anyone online. I don't like the world of dating. How do you find anyone? I am not in pubs or clubs. I wouldn't know how to meet anyone. I have a different view of things and am serious about my Christian faith. I don't want kids either and I think my...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 3 Responses Apr 19

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    I turn 19 this coming up weekend

    and I have never even had my first first kiss, let alone a boyfriend. The other night I had a dream about a man who loved me whole heartedly and didn't want to let me go. It felt so real and when I woke up this morning reality crashed in and a huge weight dropped on my heart...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses May 22

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    I find bf who accept

    for who I am
    jayn12 jayn12 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 22

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    Never felt the need, one day there will be

    so I'm not stressing. there are very little people in this world who change our lives and accept us wholeheartedly - and I'm going to find that person.
    lolznewaccountio lolznewaccountio 18-21, F Dec 26, 2014

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    Lonely

    I'm 25 and never had a boyfriend. No real date. No first kiss.. no nothing. It gets lonely and frustrating. Especially when I see other people together. I can't handle being around my cousin because she has a boyfriend. I can't help but wonder when is it going to be my turn?
    Stripped628 Stripped628 26-30, F 29 Responses Apr 21, 2010

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    When your younger brother * the one

    who was a little boy not so long ago, the one you took care like a baby, the one you always thought you would have a relationship way before than * has had more relationships in three years than what you've had your whole life... * # Relationships you've had in your whole life...
    HowToFixASoul HowToFixASoul 18-21, F 1 Response May 24

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    I don't know why. Is it my strict parents?

    My average looks? My body? My extreme shyness as a kid? My weird personality? My non-flirtatious ways? Like fr, what's the problem? ;-; I just don't seem to really attract people. But that's okay...next year! . . . (that's what I keep telling myself...every. single. year. -_-)
    justthat1girl99 justthat1girl99 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I was never asked to be someone's girlfriend.

    . I've been having a crush just never a boyfriend . I wonder what it feels like to be loved ..
    Rosella4 Rosella4 18-21, F 7 Responses May 22, 2014

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    I never dated and im 19

    and in college. yay life (sarcasm). every guy a mean is a douchebag who just wants one thing not love.
    iknoweverything iknoweverything 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 12

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    calllmeA calllmeA 18-21, F Dec 22, 2014

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    Are there any guys out there

    who live in Wisconsin and wants to chat?
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 14

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    I have this crush on this boy

    and I really like him. he's really adorable and cuddly to me... but I don't know if he likes me back?? I need someone to talk to plz
    singlepringlereadytomingle singlepringlereadytomingle 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 30

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    I'm tempted to reopen my okcupid account again,

    but I am so cynical about dating nowadays that I'm not sure. I never really wanted to meet someone online, but rather in real life
    crypticcrime crypticcrime 18-21, F 1 Response May 19

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    norahcc11 norahcc11 26-30, F May 25

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    I'm going to have to give up this experience.

    I had the most wonderful date last night, and we're out together today. He wants to see much more of me, and I certainly want to see him. So I think I can say that I do have a boyfriend!
    chantalmw chantalmw 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 29, 2014

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    I've never had a boyfriend

    or my first kiss and I'm 15..
    Kiara15xxx Kiara15xxx 16-17, F 18 Responses Jun 19, 2014

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    It doesn't mean that no one wants you,

    that you're not beautiful, or you're picky. Maybe you're just waiting for the right person and the right time
    worthynot worthynot 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 25, 2014

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    dlaurel dlaurel 18-21, F 1 Response May 9

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    I never had a boyfriend,

    but guys just started coming up to me once I lost weight. When I was bigger (almost 300lbs, now 160), the guys didnt want me, but they chatted with me. It was as we were bros or whatever. I knew how they felt about girls and what they say. They were all about having sex. But...
    fjgreen95 fjgreen95 18-21, F 3 Responses May 19

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    i am 17, i have never had a boyfriend,

    ive never been on a date, and ive never been kissed. and when guys do ask me on dates i always say no because i just dont feel comfortable, and also because i would have to bring them home to meet my parents and my step dad is so embarrassing, so maybe ill wait till college when...
    mirandasoltero mirandasoltero 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 19

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    I'm 21 and never had a boyfriend.

    All of my other friends have. They always talk about guys like they're nothing and have great self esteem. Sometimes I feel like there's something wrong with me at this age to not be with someone yet. Maybe I'm too socially awkward, or not looking for the right guys, or...
    crypticcrime crypticcrime 18-21, F 4 Responses May 11

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    KatIsAMermaid KatIsAMermaid 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 14, 2014

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    I've never had a boyfriend.

    . I will hang out with a boy till I feel it starts to get too serious and that's when I run with my tail between my legs. I don't know why I'm scared.
    kristen1993 kristen1993 22-25, F 1 Response May 9

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    Sorry for being inactive!

    ! I will be back on here daily :)
    Cristyy274 Cristyy274 22-25, M 1 Response May 18

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    atfenix atfenix 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 21

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    I think it's mostly because I'm socially awkward

    and shy, I've had guys come up to me and try to start conversations but because I feel ugly all the time I just end up cutting the conversation short and walking away, every once in a while I'll run into some guy who calls me beautiful or cute and I automatically question his...
    neverprettyenough neverprettyenough 26-30, F 6 Responses Apr 20

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    Am I pretty? My friend is always being flirted

    with and all the boys like her And I will be standing right next to her and they will come up and flirt with her.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 7

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    20 And Single

    It's hard, and somewhat embarrassing to say, but I've never had a boyfriend.  Not in the true sense anyway.  I've had boys like me, been on a date, been in mutual like, and I finally had my first kiss at age 20.  But I've never really 'been' with anyone.  It...
    deleted deleted 26-30 18 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    16, single, never had a boyfriend.

    All you people older than me are probably thinking 'she's still young, she has nothing to worry about' and you'd be right, however it really doesn't do much to my already lower than the floor self esteem. Other girls my age have had multiple boyfriends by now, which just leads...
    RebeccaLouise224 RebeccaLouise224 16-17, F 22 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    Yup I'm forever alone.

    I'm 14 still without a boyfriend. But it's cool.
    FighterWolf FighterWolf 13-15, F 53 Responses Jun 23, 2014

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    And i dont need one..

    . i am really happy living with myself, but sometimes... just sometimes... i wonder what it's feel love for somebody...
    Shouuup Shouuup 18-21, F 2 Responses May 14

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    I just don't see the importance of dating.

    I'm young, there's other things in life. If I meet someone worth it, then maybe I'd date that person. But right now, I haven't found one person like that.
    faithandfree faithandfree 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 15, 2014

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    Almost 21 and still never been in a

    relationship. Sometimes I don't mind, sometimes I wish I could figure out what's wrong with me. Depends on the day I suppose. I just wanna find someone
    Juils Juils 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 17, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    dalidacc11 dalidacc11 26-30, F Apr 21

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    Well, not anymore... a guy at school asked me

    out yesterday. I have never been asked out before, and we only have 25 days until graduation, and we're both going to college about 6 hours away from each other... so I don't know what he thinks is going to happen in this relationship... and anyway, I'm not really into guys, and...
    Boulier Boulier 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 25

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    I'm 36 And I Never Had A Bf :)

    I've been reading the posts of other people here, how some feel worried and even pathetic coz they're 17 or 21 and never had a boyfriend.  It makes me feel self-conscious of my age.  I'm 36 and I never had a bf.  Not for lack of suitors, I've had some over the...
    brighteyedstargazer brighteyedstargazer 36-40, F 30 Responses Mar 28, 2010

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    DexterMalloween DexterMalloween 13-15, M 1 Response Apr 30

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    I'm fine with not having one.

    No way I'm ever letting my feelings latch onto any guy anytime soon. Education is my first priority and I can't let my feelings, that is if I ever have any feelings for a guy, get in the way. I know myself and I'm not gonna die if I don't get one. I have years ahead of me. I don...
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F 14 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    i've always wondered how would it felt like.

    I never talk to boys to be honest and as expected boys don't talk to me at all... they just don't seem interested. Some people tell me that i might be too intimidating for guys even tho im very quiet... for me it doesnt make any sense but whatever. I just really wanna know...
    wendym98 wendym98 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    Yep never and I think I'm ready.

    I've thought about online but I am not sure if that's where I want to start. There are so many layers in a persons personality that scrolling through EP looking at "advertisements" for wanting a girlfriends seems weird. I think I should wait at a bit longer until I reconsider...
    MyMindHurts01 MyMindHurts01 13-15, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    17 years and I've never had a real relationship.

    I just had my first kiss last September an I've never, ya know, done "it" (lol). I used to feel bad an left out but I now realize that I'm not really relationship material nor am I ready for one. I'm not secure or confident enough to love or even like myself yet so I definitely...
    irreelevance irreelevance 16-17, F 6 Responses Feb 10

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    I have no boyfriend since birth.

    Some people asks me, "Why?" and I always answer that I am not allowed to have a boyfriend yet. It is not far from the truth because my parents are encouraging me to concentrate on my studies rather than having a relationship with the opposite sex. Not having a boyfriend...
    TheWinter TheWinter 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    25 And I've Never Done A Lot Of Things

    I'm 25 and never had a boyfriend, a first real kiss or sex. Sometimes this really bothers me. I've tried to figure out 'why' for a while now and I think it may be because growing up as the first child my father was so strict with me and said if I ever came home with someone he...
    sagira sagira 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 25, 2012

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    This doesn't mean I'm desperate.

    ... It means I'm holding out for someone worth dating. Sure I'm lonely but you know what being lonely isn't that bad. I never had a boyfriend, but I wouldn't date anyone but that is a waste of my time. I do like a few guys.....but I want love not a relationship.
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 17

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