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I Never Had a Boyfriend

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    Lonely

    I'm 25 and never had a boyfriend. No real date. No first kiss.. no nothing. It gets lonely and frustrating. Especially when I see other people together. I can't handle being around my cousin because she has a boyfriend. I can't help but wonder when is it going to be my turn?
    Stripped628 Stripped628 26-30, F 29 Responses Apr 21, 2010

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    I'm 15 and never had a boyfriend.

    I've never even had a "thing" with anyone. I know I'm not the only one, many of my friends have never dated either. It's not about peer pressure or any of that. I just want someone to love. sounds super cheesy, I know, but it's true! I don't want anything that's purely sexual...
    snowbunny7 snowbunny7 13-15, F 4 Responses Dec 27, 2015

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    i've always wondered how would it felt like.

    I never talk to boys to be honest and as expected boys don't talk to me at all... they just don't seem interested. Some people tell me that i might be too intimidating for guys even tho im very quiet... for me it doesnt make any sense but whatever. I just really wanna know...
    wendym98 wendym98 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    I will turn 27 this year,

    in March, and have never even gotten close to having a boyfriend, never been kissed and all that. And while I do confess there are times when I am thinking having someone to care for and be affectionate with would be nice, I also cannot help thinking that I would hardly ever...
    MantisReligiosa MantisReligiosa 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 22

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    It mainly because they don't like me

    and they think that they are to good for me
    kayleigh1029 kayleigh1029 13-15, F 8 Responses Nov 24, 2015

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    I know I'm really young

    and all (whatever:P) but whenever I like someone and start talking to them but then they say they like me, or ask me out, I stop talking to them. It makes me feel bad but I just hate it when they say that. Meh. There's a reason why I'm homeschooled and am better at talking to...
    clicheusername12 clicheusername12 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 9, 2015

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    I never had a boyfriend,

    but guys just started coming up to me once I lost weight. When I was bigger (almost 300lbs, now 160), the guys didnt want me, but they chatted with me. It was as we were bros or whatever. I knew how they felt about girls and what they say. They were all about having sex. But...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 19, 2015

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    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 19, 2015

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    Sad right? I feel like it's my height mainly

    because I'm taller or almost as tall as guys. Guys like short girls lol
    cuteblackgirl12345 cuteblackgirl12345 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 22, 2015

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    I actually don't want to have a boyfriend but,

    Boy's accompany is Fun. Its fun when your Talking to someone that is your opposite. And it made more fun when that boy is you have the same interest in life! I just need someone to talk to.. for now =)
    Kially Kially 13-15, F Dec 31, 2015

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    Mingukie Mingukie 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 7, 2015

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    All of my friends have had at least one

    boyfriend in their life while I have only had my first kiss with a girl and only became "friends with benefits" with them, never date. I am straight with homosexual experience but I just really want a guy in my life, who loves me. I had a huge crush on this guy at my school for...
    escapekey escapekey 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2015

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    I don't really count one I had

    when I was 12. I mean, I broke up with him because he wanted to kiss, and I was all like "oh hell naw, we done" But, I don't date for the simple fact that dating as a teenager isn't a great idea. Most of the teenage relationships I see are 99.9% drama, and endless statuses...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Oct 7, 2015

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    I was never asked to be someone's girlfriend.

    . I've been having a crush just never a boyfriend . I wonder what it feels like to be loved ..
    Rosella4 Rosella4 18-21, F 6 Responses May 22, 2014

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    TMC444999 TMC444999 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 19, 2015

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    Sometimes I'm to scared to like a guy

    because I'm pretty sure they won't like me back or they think I'm not pretty.
    Juliette20 Juliette20 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 2

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    Just chiming in here,

    but I did not have a girlfriend until I was almost 22, and that relationship lasted only 3 or 4 months. So all you teenagers worried about not being in a serious relationship, please don't worry - it will happen when it's the right time.
    HazelMotes HazelMotes 51-55, M Nov 22, 2015

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    My favorite question

    when I yell people I dont want a boyfriend "Are you not able to commit?" -__-
    LBBitch LBBitch 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 11, 2015

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    Never had a crush. Never liked anyone

    (romantically). Never had a boyfriend. I am in no rush either. As I went through my years of high school, my friends always went on rants about finding a boyfriend. Most of them got hurt really bad and the relationships were not serious. I'm going to start my new life in...
    Liv4Life Liv4Life 18-21, F Jul 7, 2014

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    I'm 19 and I've never had a boyfriend.

    It's always made me feel like I am missing this typical teenage experience. Everyone I know has been in a relationship or at least on a couple dates and it makes me feel very lonely and pathetic. It also seems like boyfriends are all my friends talk about these days, and as...
    aforbes96 aforbes96 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 27, 2015

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    People need to stay out of my love life.

    If I'm not in a relationship, it's not your business
    RainbowCrayon666 RainbowCrayon666 16-17, F Jan 20

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    I've never had a boyfriend.

    Never been kissed. Never held a guy's hand. Never been hugged by a guy. Never been asked for my number, or had any guy show any interest in talking to me. Never had a guy start a conversation with me. Never had a conversation with a boy that didn't have to do with school. Never...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jul 1, 2015

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    I have kissed a girl on one

    or more occasions but never kissed a male before
    PhatGirl1999 PhatGirl1999 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    I never had a boyfriend

    because I am always busy with school and my dad doesn't allow me to date boys.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Dec 5, 2015

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    I'm fine with not having one.

    No way I'm ever letting my feelings latch onto any guy anytime soon. Education is my first priority and I can't let my feelings, that is if I ever have any feelings for a guy, get in the way. I know myself and I'm not gonna die if I don't get one. I have years ahead of me. I don...
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 18-21, F 13 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    I'm going to have to give up this experience.

    I had the most wonderful date last night, and we're out together today. He wants to see much more of me, and I certainly want to see him. So I think I can say that I do have a boyfriend!
    chantalmw chantalmw 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 29, 2014

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    I'm 22 and never had a boyfriend.

    The last and only time there was guy which I liked and actually liked me back was 3 years ago, but I left the city the next day (I was just visiting friends)and he later moved to a different country... I have also since relocated to a different country for work last year. Since...
    Mirai77 Mirai77 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 27, 2015

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    I want a meaningful boyfriend

    that would rub my forehead and my back also my legs (don't know why it makes me relax and I like it but I do) anyways also makes me breakfast on the weekends and put up with me when on my periods. And when I had let say bleed on the bedding he will fill up the bath with hot...
    mblan11 mblan11 18-21, F Nov 14, 2015

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    How do you get over the fact

    that you've never had one, especially when girls much younger than you are getting one and there's talk of romance everywhere you go -.-
    crypticcrime crypticcrime 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 12, 2015

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    17 years and I've never had a real relationship.

    I just had my first kiss last September an I've never, ya know, done "it" (lol). I used to feel bad an left out but I now realize that I'm not really relationship material nor am I ready for one. I'm not secure or confident enough to love or even like myself yet so I definitely...
    leadmenot leadmenot 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 10, 2015

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    And am still and always will be quite proud of

    it. I truely do love being lesbian, it's the one part of myself that l most embrace <3
    Poodlelez Poodlelez 26-30, F Feb 3

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    RainbowCrayon666 RainbowCrayon666 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2015

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    I have never been interested in dating.

    Sure, maybe I've had a crush or two, but the feelings went away and I became very good friends with them.
    FurandFangs FurandFangs 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 19, 2015

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    Yep I'm 20 years old

    and have never had a boyfriend or anything remotely close to it. there are times when it saddens me and I feel like something is wrong with me then there are times when I just say I'm better off alone anyway. It just sucks because i always yearn for the touch and the love a s/o...
    Imstillhere122 Imstillhere122 18-21, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I am 27 and I've never had a boyfriend.

    Or a girlfriend. Anything. I've never had someone other than my family tell me they loved me. I have loved once but was not loved in return. That was one of the worst experiences of my life. I think I'm ok looking. I shower and put effort into my appearance. My bmi is average...
    Bluesky86 Bluesky86 26-30, F 10 Responses Jan 8, 2014

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    I'm a bit picky. I prefer white Guy's

    but I attract ugly black guys sorry I just don't like them. I could never date one.
    UnfriendlyBlackGirl UnfriendlyBlackGirl 18-21, F 9 Responses Oct 24, 2015

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    ColeSweety ColeSweety 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 14, 2015

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    I'm 14 and i never had a boyfriend

    and I'm a 100% sure i not gonna have one. when i am in a group with my friends i watch their boyfriends come up and hug them or kiss them and i am just pretty much the loner on the side.
    pandalover89 pandalover89 13-15, F 4 Responses Jan 2

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    I'm actually okay with this,

    though sometimes I'm scared that I won't be able to experience falling in love.
    laulaud laulaud 18-21, F 8 Responses May 9, 2015

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    Yup I'm forever alone.

    I'm 14 still without a boyfriend. But it's cool.
    FighterWolf FighterWolf 16-17, F 50 Responses Jun 23, 2014

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    It doesn't mean that no one wants you,

    that you're not beautiful, or you're picky. Maybe you're just waiting for the right person and the right time
    NewRomantics NewRomantics 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 25, 2014

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    Maybe I'll get one when I finish high school

    and starting going to college.
    RainbowCrayon666 RainbowCrayon666 16-17, F Dec 14, 2015

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    I think it's mostly because I'm socially awkward

    and shy, I've had guys come up to me and try to start conversations but because I feel ugly all the time I just end up cutting the conversation short and walking away, every once in a while I'll run into some guy who calls me beautiful or cute and I automatically question his...
    neverprettyenough neverprettyenough 26-30, F 6 Responses Apr 20, 2015

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    I'm 19 and I've never

    even come close to having a boyfriend. I've never been on a date or been kissed. I know there are people older than me in the same place but I still feel so far behind. I don't really have guy friends either. I had one but we don't talk anymore. Usually relationships start...
    mylifeinwords1021 mylifeinwords1021 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 1, 2015

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    I've never had a bf and I have no regrets.

    When I had my severe depression and I hated myself in high school I didn't love myself: THEREFORE (when you don't love yourself you will only attract undignified and ****** men, they will never save you) Years later it served as the best lesson, finally when I genuinely knew my...
    GiiGi GiiGi 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 9, 2015

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