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I Never Had a Boyfriend

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    I don't know if the only one

    who experience this. Because i am actually single but i want to finish high school with no boyfriends. But i really want to know what it feels like to have one.
    NicoleDelaCruuz NicoleDelaCruuz 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 16

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    my parents don't allow it.

    they say I'm to young and need to concentrate on school
    Emma20020 Emma20020 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    There's this guy at my high school.

    .. We have never talked but I feel like something is different with him, there's a spark and we occasionally lock eyes in the hallways. The only problem is he is famous and popular in school and I'm not. I wouldn't say I'm the exact opposite, it's just that I'm more of a nerd...
    Icantthinkofausername9999 Icantthinkofausername9999 46-50, F Nov 21

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    But thats okay :) . I want a boy

    who would cuddle with me, have long night walks and talk about random things, watching stars and sneak out at night in our pj's , someone i can feel comfortable with so i don't have to worry for nothing . Yeah we all want our " dream " boy but perfect boyfriends doesn't exist
    ActuallyGrace ActuallyGrace 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    I'm a 21 year old girl

    and I always seem to like the guy that is so out of my reach. I like those guys with charisma and who are smart but usually they're people with girlfriends or guys that just want to play around with girls. Im actually known as the conservative type. Also the fact that i spoke...
    wrongimpressions wrongimpressions 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 30

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    I could've had one. I've only been on about

    three dates with one guy who had some strong feelings for me. To be honest, the whole thing made me quite uncomfortable. He wasn't bad, and is probably the closest friend I'd ever had, and would do and has done a lot for me, but I just couldn't return his feelings. I'm...
    almaera almaera 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I'm fine with not having one.

    No way I'm ever letting my feelings latch onto any guy anytime soon. Education is my first priority and I can't let my feelings, that is if I ever have any feelings for a guy, get in the way. I know myself and I'm not gonna die if I don't get one. I have years ahead of me. I don...
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F 16 Responses Jul 13

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    The 11th Wheel

    Sure, We've all heard stories of being the 3rd wheel and how much it sucks but let me ask you, have you ever been the 11th wheel? Well I have and it sucks, BIGTIME. I'm 22 and I've never had a boyfriend. It never bother me up until last year. I've always been busy with school...
    justanotherrandomperson justanotherrandomperson 22-25 7 Responses Dec 23, 2012

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    I feel like i'm the only one.

    It's like somethings missing in my life, maybe this is it. But i just don't do anything, not that i don't dare. Everyone else that takes initiative i push away. Maybe it's not right for me
    ChlaraX ChlaraX 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 17

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    hehe Im 18 still waiting

    for ny first kiss :p I've have never ever had a boyfriend. Im not really attractive so I don't blame them. Sometimes I really feel lonely and embarrassed about it, but I actually like it... Being singel I don't need to worry about being pretty all the time for him, or worry...
    JN96 JN96 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 28

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    It is probably a good thing.

    I can't stick to one decision very long. I am also too picky about who I date. I know I have to high standards for looking for a man. But I'm here to change that.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 8

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    Nope!

    I'm 20 years old and I've never had a boyfriend and I'm not ashamed to admit it either. Sometimes it's very difficult. When everyone around you is coupled up you want to be happy for them. At the same time there's this sinking feeling. You feel two faced smiling "oh that's great...
    AngelofPink AngelofPink 70+, F 7 Responses Apr 22, 2013

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    Ok. I admit that I ain't ever had a boyfriend

    but I wonder what it's like. What will he say to me? Will he hold my hand? Will he cuddle me?
    blodyn blodyn 13-15, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Almost 21 and still never been in a

    relationship. Sometimes I don't mind, sometimes I wish I could figure out what's wrong with me. Depends on the day I suppose. I just wanna find someone
    Juils Juils 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 17

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    KatIsAMermaid KatIsAMermaid 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 14

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    16, single, never had a boyfriend.

    All you people older than me are probably thinking 'she's still young, she has nothing to worry about' and you'd be right, however it really doesn't do much to my already lower than the floor self esteem. Other girls my age have had multiple boyfriends by now, which just leads...
    RebeccaLouise224 RebeccaLouise224 16-17, F 24 Responses Jun 24

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    I just don't see the importance of dating.

    I'm young, there's other things in life. If I meet someone worth it, then maybe I'd date that person. But right now, I haven't found one person like that.
    faithandfree faithandfree 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 15

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    I'm going to have to give up this experience.

    I had the most wonderful date last night, and we're out together today. He wants to see much more of me, and I certainly want to see him. So I think I can say that I do have a boyfriend!
    chantalmw chantalmw 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 29

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    I know boohoo but I just want to share it :)

    haha it's not like a bad thing I have been asked out quite a few times but its never anyone I can really be with because I'm not close with them or i know they only want one thing people think I'm really weird because of this though and Think its weird that I'm 16 and haven't...
    digglett digglett 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 22

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    I don't know when or

    if I will ever get a boyfriend. A lot of people think I'm pretty, but I know that none of them truly care about me, in the end looks don't matter. I haven't found anyone that actually likes me, even in just friendship. And I'm starting to wonder if something's wrong with me, why...
    Icantthinkofausername9999 Icantthinkofausername9999 46-50, F Oct 1

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    20 And Single

    It's hard, and somewhat embarrassing to say, but I've never had a boyfriend.  Not in the true sense anyway.  I've had boys like me, been on a date, been in mutual like, and I finally had my first kiss at age 20.  But I've never really 'been' with anyone.  It...
    deleted deleted 26-30 18 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    100% Non-girlfriend Material

    100% NON-Girlfriend Material I will be 26 the 19th of December. I feel like I will never be good enough to ever be someones girlfriend. I think about this all the time. It makes me depressed and I cry about it a lot. I lack self-confidence and im not that outgoing. Im told all...
    NRF25 NRF25 26-30, F 10 Responses Dec 16, 2012

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    i've always wondered how would it felt like.

    I never talk to boys to be honest and as expected boys don't talk to me at all... they just don't seem interested. Some people tell me that i might be too intimidating for guys even tho im very quiet... for me it doesnt make any sense but whatever. I just really wanna know...
    wendym98 wendym98 16-17, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    OMFG I just did the most embarrasing thing in

    my life. For the first time i invited a guy to a date through message and im too ******* embarrased to see the answer. I feel like i want to die.
    MilkyHon MilkyHon 16-17 1 Response Oct 14

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    I am 27 and I've never had a boyfriend.

    Or a girlfriend. Anything. I've never had someone other than my family tell me they loved me. I have loved once but was not loved in return. That was one of the worst experiences of my life. I think I'm ok looking. I shower and put effort into my appearance. My bmi is average...
    Bluesky86 Bluesky86 26-30, F 11 Responses Jan 8

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    Sadly I don't have a boyfriend

    because most of the boys are immature and just want to get into my panties or wants me to show my assets off
    mysticaldreams mysticaldreams 13-15, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Being straight, it's

    rather to be expected.
    RustinCohle RustinCohle 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I've never had a boyfriend ?

    ? I'm in no rush actually....
    GoldenJay GoldenJay 16-17, F Nov 18

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    Yup I'm forever alone.

    I'm 14 still without a boyfriend. But it's cool.
    FighterWolf FighterWolf 13-15, F 56 Responses Jun 23

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    I never desired a Relationship

    but I wouldn't mind if I had one. I have been asked out but I always declined because I didn't really care. Where I'm from we befriend someone first before we marry them so there's no dating phase. It's kind of a limiting factor but I prefer it to be that way ;)
    T055 T055 16-17, F Dec 9

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    I get so sad everyone has a boyfriend

    and I just want someone who will love me for me.
    jlee45 jlee45 13-15, F 6 Responses Nov 19

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    I am 17 years old and I've never had a

    boyfriend, I haven't even had a guy tell me I was pretty. I feel really insecure about my self and my image towards other people... I don't even think I'm pretty enough to look people in the eyes. Even people close to me have said I'm not attractive. Guys don't pay me any...
    chelseaalexis18 chelseaalexis18 16-17, F 5 Responses Sep 30

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    Honestly, I have a hard time talking to guys.

    I never really had any guy friends until this year. Everyone around me is in or has been in a relationship. It's saddening. I know 12 year olds who have had several boyfriends. I don't know what's wrong with me. People either think I'm ugly or really pretty. There's no inbetween...
    DayFawn DayFawn 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 24

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    Like never. I want to know how it feels to be

    in love. To have someone that has the same feelings for you.
    Mahrhindha Mahrhindha 16-17, F Dec 5

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    Yes never! I think that day will never come.

    Or when it comes I live under a rock.
    Mahrhindha Mahrhindha 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    inseng12 inseng12 22-25 2 Responses Oct 24

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    Lonely

    I'm 25 and never had a boyfriend. No real date. No first kiss.. no nothing. It gets lonely and frustrating. Especially when I see other people together. I can't handle being around my cousin because she has a boyfriend. I can't help but wonder when is it going to be my turn?
    Stripped628 Stripped628 26-30, F 29 Responses Apr 21, 2010

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    People think i am attractive

    but when me and the "guy" started to get serious ,he is running away. Or i am always finding the dumb ones..
    hey212 hey212 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 6

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    I Give Up.

    I am almost 20 and a sophomore in college, and I have never had a boyfriend. My friends have been having boyfriends left and right since they started high school, but I've never even had a guy like me before (except for EP, but that doesn't really count). Hell, the only time a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Dec 17, 2012

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    I ain't had a boyfriend.

    I got friends who are boys.🎌
    blodyn blodyn 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    25 And I've Never Done A Lot Of Things

    I'm 25 and never had a boyfriend, a first real kiss or sex. Sometimes this really bothers me. I've tried to figure out 'why' for a while now and I think it may be because growing up as the first child my father was so strict with me and said if I ever came home with someone he...
    sagira sagira 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 25, 2012

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    well i never had a boyfriend,

    i always wanted one but i dont think a boy that is 13or 14 will like me
    jessymrech jessymrech 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 9

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    I was never asked to be someone's girlfriend.

    . I've been having a crush just never a boyfriend . I wonder what it feels like to be loved ..
    Rosella4 Rosella4 18-21, F 7 Responses May 22

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    looking for a boyfriend aged 13 lives in

    Plymouth ? someone with instagram
    emily220201 emily220201 13-15, F Oct 27

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    It doesn't mean that no one wants you,

    that you're not beautiful, or you're picky. Maybe you're just waiting for the right person and the right time
    worthynot worthynot 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 25

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    I'm 13 and I feel like the only one.

    None of my friends are virgins, and I'm just over here doing nothing but humiliate myself in front of possibly boyfriend-material. I'm also the only one who's not in a hurry to spread my legs...
    Colourfi Colourfi 13-15, F 24 Responses Sep 5

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    I never have one before

    and never will! Because I'm gay and proud:) some people said why are you so sure about being a gay even you don't ever experience with a guy!? It's just I don't need to and I will never get confused about it :)
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I mean I've kissed a guy before

    but I've never had a relationship in my life I don't know what it's like to have a boyfriend
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 13

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    marmosets marmosets 13-15, F 4 Responses Oct 11

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    I Am Transgender I Came Out About 5 Months Ago

    So I Am Gay And One Of The Things That Kills Me Is That I Have Yet To Have A Boyfriend So I've Never Had A Boyfriend And Don't Know How To Get One Or Anything! Help!? Please!? /~
    jessicaStylezTG jessicaStylezTG 18-21, T 1 Response Nov 3

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    I have never has a boyfriend

    and my friends always talk about what they did with their boyfriend how many boyfriends they had and when they ask me I am like I don't know what its like
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm 36 And I Never Had A Bf :)

    I've been reading the posts of other people here, how some feel worried and even pathetic coz they're 17 or 21 and never had a boyfriend.  It makes me feel self-conscious of my age.  I'm 36 and I never had a bf.  Not for lack of suitors, I've had some over the...
    brighteyedstargazer brighteyedstargazer 36-40, F 30 Responses