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I Never Had a Boyfriend

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    And i dont need one..

    . i am really happy living with myself, but sometimes... just sometimes... i wonder what it's feel love for somebody...
    Shouuup Shouuup 18-21, F 2 Responses May 14

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    20 And Single

    It's hard, and somewhat embarrassing to say, but I've never had a boyfriend.  Not in the true sense anyway.  I've had boys like me, been on a date, been in mutual like, and I finally had my first kiss at age 20.  But I've never really 'been' with anyone.  It...
    deleted deleted 26-30 18 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    All my friends around me have boyfriends.

    I'm single and always have been. My friends come to me about their problems with their boyfriends and I can't help them. They send me pictures of them and their boyfriends and ditch me for them 99% of the time. I'm happy for them, but I just get jealous of my friends...
    baiho baiho 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    Since I've never had one,

    just thinking about the reality of me having a boyfriend gives me a really... "weird"?... feeling
    0KatieKat0 0KatieKat0 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 12

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    I'm actually okay with this,

    though sometimes I'm scared that I won't be able to experience falling in love.
    laulaud laulaud 18-21, F 8 Responses May 9

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    I am 27 and I've never had a boyfriend.

    Or a girlfriend. Anything. I've never had someone other than my family tell me they loved me. I have loved once but was not loved in return. That was one of the worst experiences of my life. I think I'm ok looking. I shower and put effort into my appearance. My bmi is average...
    Bluesky86 Bluesky86 26-30, F 10 Responses Jan 8, 2014

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    I don't know if the only one

    who experience this. Because i am actually single but i want to finish high school with no boyfriends. But i really want to know what it feels like to have one.
    NicoleDelaCruuz NicoleDelaCruuz 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 16, 2014

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    I never had a boyfriend,

    but guys just started coming up to me once I lost weight. When I was bigger (almost 300lbs, now 160), the guys didnt want me, but they chatted with me. It was as we were bros or whatever. I knew how they felt about girls and what they say. They were all about having sex. But...
    Jene95 Jene95 18-21, F 3 Responses May 19

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    i've always wondered how would it felt like.

    I never talk to boys to be honest and as expected boys don't talk to me at all... they just don't seem interested. Some people tell me that i might be too intimidating for guys even tho im very quiet... for me it doesnt make any sense but whatever. I just really wanna know...
    wendym98 wendym98 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    I think it's mostly because I'm socially awkward

    and shy, I've had guys come up to me and try to start conversations but because I feel ugly all the time I just end up cutting the conversation short and walking away, every once in a while I'll run into some guy who calls me beautiful or cute and I automatically question his...
    neverprettyenough neverprettyenough 26-30, F 6 Responses Apr 20

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    It doesn't mean that no one wants you,

    that you're not beautiful, or you're picky. Maybe you're just waiting for the right person and the right time
    worthynot worthynot 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 25, 2014

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    I know I don't need a boyfriends to be happy.

    I know I'm too young to have a boyfriend. I know I need to wait for the right person. I just want someone to make me feel special and happy. I want someone to talk to until 2 am. I'm tired of waiting. All of my friends have or have had a boyfriend and their first kiss. I kinda...
    Flowerposter Flowerposter 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 19

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    im 24, and never had a boyfriend.

    i have had plenty of one night stands, although im more of what my friends call a "repeat offender". some of the guys iv slept with iv liked more then just having sex, but i just dont seem to have the guts to tell them. and they have never approached me to tell me they like me...
    noonoo91 noonoo91 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 10

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    When your younger brother * the one

    who was a little boy not so long ago, the one you took care like a baby, the one you always thought you would have a relationship way before than * has had more relationships in three years than what you've had your whole life... * # Relationships you've had in your whole life...
    LittleUnicorn LittleUnicorn 18-21 1 Response May 24

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    I was never asked to be someone's girlfriend.

    . I've been having a crush just never a boyfriend . I wonder what it feels like to be loved ..
    Rosella4 Rosella4 18-21, F 7 Responses May 22, 2014

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    I just don't see the importance of dating.

    I'm young, there's other things in life. If I meet someone worth it, then maybe I'd date that person. But right now, I haven't found one person like that.
    faithandfree faithandfree 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 15, 2014

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    17 years and I've never had a real relationship.

    I just had my first kiss last September an I've never, ya know, done "it" (lol). I used to feel bad an left out but I now realize that I'm not really relationship material nor am I ready for one. I'm not secure or confident enough to love or even like myself yet so I definitely...
    leadmenot leadmenot 16-17, F 6 Responses Feb 10

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    Single Mother But Never Had A Boyfriend

    One of my biggest insecurities growing up was the fact I never had a boyfriend. It all started when everyone seemed to be getting one of these at around 13.. Thinking back now, that was ridiculous for me to even worry, but here I am.. turning 20 this month and I still haven't had...
    YourRemedyMyPoison YourRemedyMyPoison 18-21, F 7 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    phoenixfire101 phoenixfire101 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 5

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    Almost 21 and still never been in a

    relationship. Sometimes I don't mind, sometimes I wish I could figure out what's wrong with me. Depends on the day I suppose. I just wanna find someone
    Juils Juils 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 17, 2014

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    Sadly I don't have a boyfriend

    because most of the boys are immature and just want to get into my panties or wants me to show my assets off
    mysticaldreams mysticaldreams 16-17, F 4 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    Mostly because some guys I don't like them

    because of their personality but some I like n they like me to n I think I just wasn't ready for one or I was saving myself for one guy but that guy is a jerk so theirs no use for a boyfriend until I find out what love is
    cassie200015 cassie200015 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    I have been feeling really frustrated

    that I'm almost 27 and I've never had a boyfriend. I've never even dated anyone. All I've had are some hookups and awkward blind dates. I feel sad that some girls I know have no problem always finding a boyfriend and that even when I try to date and meet guys I find no one. In...
    fabgirl824 fabgirl824 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    I've never had a boyfriend

    or my first kiss and I'm 15..
    Kiara15xxx Kiara15xxx 16-17, F 18 Responses Jun 19, 2014

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    Never had a crush. Never liked anyone

    (romantically). Never had a boyfriend. I am in no rush either. As I went through my years of high school, my friends always went on rants about finding a boyfriend. Most of them got hurt really bad and the relationships were not serious. I'm going to start my new life in...
    Liv4Life Liv4Life 18-21, F Jul 7, 2014

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    Hello, My name is Nicole,

    i have been a psychic since i was 15 years old, i have been helping people with there love lifes, finance’s, Jobs, and just being there for there everyday coaching, a lil about me that you should know … i always give the 100% truth no sugar coating at all, i dont like to...
    psychicnicole psychicnicole 26-30, F Jul 22

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    How do you get over the fact

    that you've never had one, especially when girls much younger than you are getting one and there's talk of romance everywhere you go -.-
    crypticcrime crypticcrime 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 12

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    I've never had a bf and I have no regrets.

    When I had my severe depression and I hated myself in high school I didn't love myself: THEREFORE (when you don't love yourself you will only attract undignified and ****** men, they will never save you) Years later it served as the best lesson, finally when I genuinely knew my...
    GiiGi GiiGi 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 9

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    I am 24 and I have honestly never had a

    boyfriend! I'm not saying there is anything wrong with me or that ugly or anything! I just don't like asking guys out or tell them that I like them because I'm terrified of rejection and embarrassment! I have had guys ask me out or tell me they like me but I never liked them...
    fitnesswoman24 fitnesswoman24 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 24

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    I'm fine with not having one.

    No way I'm ever letting my feelings latch onto any guy anytime soon. Education is my first priority and I can't let my feelings, that is if I ever have any feelings for a guy, get in the way. I know myself and I'm not gonna die if I don't get one. I have years ahead of me. I don...
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F 13 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    I'm tempted to reopen my okcupid account again,

    but I am so cynical about dating nowadays that I'm not sure. I never really wanted to meet someone online, but rather in real life
    crypticcrime crypticcrime 18-21, F 2 Responses May 19

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    25 And I've Never Done A Lot Of Things

    I'm 25 and never had a boyfriend, a first real kiss or sex. Sometimes this really bothers me. I've tried to figure out 'why' for a while now and I think it may be because growing up as the first child my father was so strict with me and said if I ever came home with someone he...
    sagira sagira 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 25, 2012

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    norahcc11 norahcc11 26-30, F May 25

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    Yup I'm forever alone.

    I'm 14 still without a boyfriend. But it's cool.
    FighterWolf FighterWolf 13-15, F 51 Responses Jun 23, 2014

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    Lonely

    I'm 25 and never had a boyfriend. No real date. No first kiss.. no nothing. It gets lonely and frustrating. Especially when I see other people together. I can't handle being around my cousin because she has a boyfriend. I can't help but wonder when is it going to be my turn?
    Stripped628 Stripped628 26-30, F 29 Responses Apr 21, 2010

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    but I wish someone could tell me

    if i want to be there girl friend
    Emily657 Emily657 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 21

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    I never dated and im 19

    and in college. yay life (sarcasm). every guy a mean is a douchebag who just wants one thing not love.
    iknoweverything iknoweverything 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 12

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    I feel like im just not a likeable person.

    Whenever I like someone, I always have this one thought, "they'll never think of me in that way.
    1004love 1004love 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    calllmeA calllmeA 18-21, F Dec 22, 2014

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    Sorry for being inactive!

    ! I will be back on here daily :)
    Cristyy274 Cristyy274 22-25, M 1 Response May 18

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    Every semester since I've started college there

    has been at least one guy who seems attracted to me, yet no one has bothered to ask me out. Why is this?
    theloveofmylife2 theloveofmylife2 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 9

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    I turn 19 this coming up weekend

    and I have never even had my first first kiss, let alone a boyfriend. The other night I had a dream about a man who loved me whole heartedly and didn't want to let me go. It felt so real and when I woke up this morning reality crashed in and a huge weight dropped on my heart...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses May 22

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    16, single, never had a boyfriend.

    All you people older than me are probably thinking 'she's still young, she has nothing to worry about' and you'd be right, however it really doesn't do much to my already lower than the floor self esteem. Other girls my age have had multiple boyfriends by now, which just leads...
    RebeccaLouise224 RebeccaLouise224 18-21, F 22 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    never ever ...i dont think there is

    that guy who will loves me just the way i am
    salmax99 salmax99 16-17, F 6 Responses Apr 5

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    I don't know why. Is it my strict parents?

    My average looks? My body? My extreme shyness as a kid? My weird personality? My non-flirtatious ways? Like fr, what's the problem? ;-; I just don't seem to really attract people. But that's okay...next year! . . . (that's what I keep telling myself...every. single. year. -_-)
    justthat1girl99 justthat1girl99 16-17, F 4 Responses May 28

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    ive been close to having a boyfriend,

    but they all proved to me i was wasting my time hopefully i find someone right but im not rushing
    amazingjay amazingjay 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 30