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I Never Had a Boyfriend

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    I'm 13 and I feel like the only one.

    None of my friends are virgins, and I'm just over here doing nothing but humiliate myself in front of possibly boyfriend-material. I'm also the only one who's not in a hurry to spread my legs...
    Colourfi Colourfi 13-15, F 24 Responses Sep 5, 2014

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    i've always wondered how would it felt like.

    I never talk to boys to be honest and as expected boys don't talk to me at all... they just don't seem interested. Some people tell me that i might be too intimidating for guys even tho im very quiet... for me it doesnt make any sense but whatever. I just really wanna know...
    wendym98 wendym98 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    I ain't had a boyfriend.

    I got friends who are boys.🎌
    blodyn blodyn 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 13, 2014

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    I'm turning 16 in a few weeks

    and I have never ever had a boyfriend and I have never been kissed. I know it's probably not that big of a deal but for a teenage girl it feels like a major self-esteem drop sometimes. I know it'll happen eventually so I don't really worry about it most of the time but I do have...
    nonolacayo nonolacayo 13-15, F 6 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    It doesn't mean that no one wants you,

    that you're not beautiful, or you're picky. Maybe you're just waiting for the right person and the right time
    worthynot worthynot 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 25, 2014

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    i am 17, i have never had a boyfriend,

    ive never been on a date, and ive never been kissed. and when guys do ask me on dates i always say no because i just dont feel comfortable, and also because i would have to bring them home to meet my parents and my step dad is so embarrassing, so maybe ill wait till college when...
    mirandasoltero mirandasoltero 16-17, F 8 Responses Jan 19

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    100% Non-girlfriend Material

    100% NON-Girlfriend Material I will be 26 the 19th of December. I feel like I will never be good enough to ever be someones girlfriend. I think about this all the time. It makes me depressed and I cry about it a lot. I lack self-confidence and im not that outgoing. Im told all...
    NRF25 NRF25 26-30, F 10 Responses Dec 16, 2012

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    So I've never ever in my life had a boyfriend.

    I'm I ashamed of it? No. Does it sometimes get lonely? Yes. I'm the one who has never had a boyfriend and I don't mind it. It doesn't make me an alien or anything, but it seems like my friends can't accept it. Where do I start? It makes me sad that the people that are supposed...
    Dari97 Dari97 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 20, 2014

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    ciarajones179 ciarajones179 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 20

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    I'm 36 And I Never Had A Bf :)

    I've been reading the posts of other people here, how some feel worried and even pathetic coz they're 17 or 21 and never had a boyfriend.  It makes me feel self-conscious of my age.  I'm 36 and I never had a bf.  Not for lack of suitors, I've had some over the...
    brighteyedstargazer brighteyedstargazer 36-40, F 30 Responses Mar 28, 2010

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    inseng12 inseng12 22-25 2 Responses Oct 24, 2014

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    25 And I've Never Done A Lot Of Things

    I'm 25 and never had a boyfriend, a first real kiss or sex. Sometimes this really bothers me. I've tried to figure out 'why' for a while now and I think it may be because growing up as the first child my father was so strict with me and said if I ever came home with someone he...
    sagira sagira 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 25, 2012

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    Ok. I admit that I ain't ever had a boyfriend

    but I wonder what it's like. What will he say to me? Will he hold my hand? Will he cuddle me?
    blodyn blodyn 13-15, F 4 Responses Dec 13, 2014

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    Sadly I don't have a boyfriend

    because most of the boys are immature and just want to get into my panties or wants me to show my assets off
    mysticaldreams mysticaldreams 13-15, F 4 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    16 1/2 no boyfriend(or kissed) waiting

    for that right one i feel like hes on his way im not rushing it it would just be nice. All the guys who asked me out i know werent perfect . Perfect guy if you come dont break my heart :/ .i coulfve had one but i didnt want to remember my first bf or kiss being the worst.
    crazyyes crazyyes 22-25, F 23 hrs ago

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    Yup I'm forever alone.

    I'm 14 still without a boyfriend. But it's cool.
    FighterWolf FighterWolf 13-15, F 56 Responses Jun 23, 2014

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    20 And Single

    It's hard, and somewhat embarrassing to say, but I've never had a boyfriend.  Not in the true sense anyway.  I've had boys like me, been on a date, been in mutual like, and I finally had my first kiss at age 20.  But I've never really 'been' with anyone.  It...
    deleted deleted 26-30 18 Responses Mar 9, 2010

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    Lonely

    I'm 25 and never had a boyfriend. No real date. No first kiss.. no nothing. It gets lonely and frustrating. Especially when I see other people together. I can't handle being around my cousin because she has a boyfriend. I can't help but wonder when is it going to be my turn?
    Stripped628 Stripped628 26-30, F 29 Responses Apr 21, 2010

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    KatIsAMermaid KatIsAMermaid 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 14, 2014

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    Yes never! I think that day will never come.

    Or when it comes I live under a rock.
    Mahrhindha Mahrhindha 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 18, 2014

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    Never had a crush. Never liked anyone

    (romantically). Never had a boyfriend. I am in no rush either. As I went through my years of high school, my friends always went on rants about finding a boyfriend. Most of them got hurt really bad and the relationships were not serious. I'm going to start my new life in...
    Liv4Life Liv4Life 18-21, F Jul 7, 2014

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    The 11th Wheel

    Sure, We've all heard stories of being the 3rd wheel and how much it sucks but let me ask you, have you ever been the 11th wheel? Well I have and it sucks, BIGTIME. I'm 22 and I've never had a boyfriend. It never bother me up until last year. I've always been busy with school...
    justanotherrandomperson justanotherrandomperson 22-25 7 Responses Dec 23, 2012

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    I never desired a Relationship

    but I wouldn't mind if I had one. I have been asked out but I always declined because I didn't really care. Where I'm from we befriend someone first before we marry them so there's no dating phase. It's kind of a limiting factor but I prefer it to be that way ;)
    T055 T055 16-17, F Dec 9, 2014

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    calllmeA calllmeA 18-21, F Dec 22, 2014

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    Like never. I want to know how it feels to be

    in love. To have someone that has the same feelings for you.
    Mahrhindha Mahrhindha 16-17, F Dec 5, 2014

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    marmosets marmosets 13-15, F 4 Responses Oct 11, 2014

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    Never felt the need, one day there will be

    so I'm not stressing. there are very little people in this world who change our lives and accept us wholeheartedly - and I'm going to find that person.
    lolznewaccountio lolznewaccountio 18-21, F Dec 26, 2014

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    16, single, never had a boyfriend.

    All you people older than me are probably thinking 'she's still young, she has nothing to worry about' and you'd be right, however it really doesn't do much to my already lower than the floor self esteem. Other girls my age have had multiple boyfriends by now, which just leads...
    RebeccaLouise224 RebeccaLouise224 16-17, F 24 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    I don't know if the only one

    who experience this. Because i am actually single but i want to finish high school with no boyfriends. But i really want to know what it feels like to have one.
    NicoleDelaCruuz NicoleDelaCruuz 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 16, 2014

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    I could've had one. I've only been on about

    three dates with one guy who had some strong feelings for me. To be honest, the whole thing made me quite uncomfortable. He wasn't bad, and is probably the closest friend I'd ever had, and would do and has done a lot for me, but I just couldn't return his feelings. I'm...
    almaera almaera 18-21, F Dec 13, 2014

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    I was never asked to be someone's girlfriend.

    . I've been having a crush just never a boyfriend . I wonder what it feels like to be loved ..
    Rosella4 Rosella4 18-21, F 7 Responses May 22, 2014

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    carry11 carry11 26-30, F Dec 22, 2014

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    Single Mother But Never Had A Boyfriend

    One of my biggest insecurities growing up was the fact I never had a boyfriend. It all started when everyone seemed to be getting one of these at around 13.. Thinking back now, that was ridiculous for me to even worry, but here I am.. turning 20 this month and I still haven't had...
    YourRemedyMyPoison YourRemedyMyPoison 18-21, F 8 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    I never have a boyfriend

    because I am not interested in boys, I am lesbian I love girls and I had sex with a girl once :).
    ianslover101 ianslover101 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    my parents don't allow it.

    they say I'm to young and need to concentrate on school
    Emma20020 Emma20020 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 18, 2014

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    I am almost 20 years old

    and have never had a boyfriend. I have also never had my first kiss. Is this normal? I always fear I will end up alone. What guy would want to be with me now?
    nityaaa nityaaa 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 8

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    I mean I've kissed a guy before

    but I've never had a relationship in my life I don't know what it's like to have a boyfriend
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 13, 2014

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    I've never had a boyfriend

    or my first kiss and I'm 15..
    Kiara15xxx Kiara15xxx 13-15, F 20 Responses Jun 19, 2014

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    I have never has a boyfriend

    and my friends always talk about what they did with their boyfriend how many boyfriends they had and when they ask me I am like I don't know what its like
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 12, 2014

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    Being straight, it's

    rather to be expected.
    RustinCohle RustinCohle 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    I am 27 and I've never had a boyfriend.

    Or a girlfriend. Anything. I've never had someone other than my family tell me they loved me. I have loved once but was not loved in return. That was one of the worst experiences of my life. I think I'm ok looking. I shower and put effort into my appearance. My bmi is average...
    Bluesky86 Bluesky86 26-30, F 11 Responses Jan 8, 2014

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    I'm fine with not having one.

    No way I'm ever letting my feelings latch onto any guy anytime soon. Education is my first priority and I can't let my feelings, that is if I ever have any feelings for a guy, get in the way. I know myself and I'm not gonna die if I don't get one. I have years ahead of me. I don...
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F 16 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    I volunteer as tribute!

    I'm in Georgetown TX.
    Jakd69 Jakd69 22-25, M Jan 20

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    ^^^^^^ & honestly I'm starting to feel okay

    with it . I've witnessed all my friends get their hearts broken boy after boy . I've witnessed their grades slipping & their whole demeanor changing . I'm actually pretty content with myself & how things are going for me right now . A boy will pop into my picture one day , I'm...
    domino00 domino00 13-15, F Jan 19

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    I Give Up.

    I am almost 20 and a sophomore in college, and I have never had a boyfriend. My friends have been having boyfriends left and right since they started high school, but I've never even had a guy like me before (except for EP, but that doesn't really count). Hell, the only time a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Dec 17, 2012

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    SarahChevalier SarahChevalier 16-17, F 2 Responses 33 mins ago

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    I'm 18, never had a boyfriend

    and never been kissed. I just haven't found a guy that I can see myself dating. And the guys that ask me out are creeps so I always say no.
    brenda4696 brenda4696 18-21, F 14 Responses 3 days ago

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    It's ok. But I want that moment

    when you feel loved and wanted. I have never been kissed (on lips) and I was always thinking I'm waiting for the right moment/guy. But at least everyone has had a bf and my school is having a junior prom!!!! I kinda want to go!
    AngelsAgainstUs AngelsAgainstUs 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Almost 21 and still never been in a

    relationship. Sometimes I don't mind, sometimes I wish I could figure out what's wrong with me. Depends on the day I suppose. I just wanna find someone
    Juils Juils 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 17, 2014

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    I had one for 3 months

    that I would never claim as a relationship. Other than that I've never had crushes or a boyfriend, let alone a boy have any interest in me. Is that bad? So far 3 years of high school, and nothing.
    giscoleman34 giscoleman34 16-17, F Dec 30, 2014

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    I'm going to have to give up this experience.

    I had the most wonderful date last night, and we're out together today. He wants to see much more of me, and I certainly want to see him. So I think I can say that I do have a boyfriend!
    chantalmw chantalmw 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 29, 2014

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    But thats okay :) . I want a boy

    who would cuddle with me, have long night walks and talk about random things, watching stars and sneak out at night in our pj's , someone i can feel comfortable with so i don't have to worry for nothing . Yeah we all want our " dream " boy but perfect boyfriends doesn't exist
    ActuallyGrace ActuallyGrace 13-15, F 1 Response