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I Never Had a Boyfriend

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    I'm going to have to give up this experience.

    I had the most wonderful date last night, and we're out together today. He wants to see much more of me, and I certainly want to see him. So I think I can say that I do have a boyfriend!
    chantalmw chantalmw 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 29, 2014

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    Im asking myself if its worth hurring with

    such stuff as relationships
    nemelabychtubyt nemelabychtubyt 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 22

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    Single Mother But Never Had A Boyfriend

    One of my biggest insecurities growing up was the fact I never had a boyfriend. It all started when everyone seemed to be getting one of these at around 13.. Thinking back now, that was ridiculous for me to even worry, but here I am.. turning 20 this month and I still haven't had...
    YourRemedyMyPoison YourRemedyMyPoison 18-21, F 8 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    I turn 19 this coming up weekend

    and I have never even had my first first kiss, let alone a boyfriend. The other night I had a dream about a man who loved me whole heartedly and didn't want to let me go. It felt so real and when I woke up this morning reality crashed in and a huge weight dropped on my heart...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses May 22

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    When your younger brother * the one

    who was a little boy not so long ago, the one you took care like a baby, the one you always thought you would have a relationship way before than * has had more relationships in three years than what you've had your whole life... * # Relationships you've had in your whole life...
    Undecodable Undecodable 18-21, F 1 Response May 24

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    Never had a crush. Never liked anyone

    (romantically). Never had a boyfriend. I am in no rush either. As I went through my years of high school, my friends always went on rants about finding a boyfriend. Most of them got hurt really bad and the relationships were not serious. I'm going to start my new life in...
    Liv4Life Liv4Life 18-21, F Jul 7, 2014

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    laulaud laulaud 18-21, F 1 Response May 9

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    Sadly I don't have a boyfriend

    because most of the boys are immature and just want to get into my panties or wants me to show my assets off
    mysticaldreams mysticaldreams 16-17, F 4 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    I don't know if the only one

    who experience this. Because i am actually single but i want to finish high school with no boyfriends. But i really want to know what it feels like to have one.
    NicoleDelaCruuz NicoleDelaCruuz 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 16, 2014

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    i've always wondered how would it felt like.

    I never talk to boys to be honest and as expected boys don't talk to me at all... they just don't seem interested. Some people tell me that i might be too intimidating for guys even tho im very quiet... for me it doesnt make any sense but whatever. I just really wanna know...
    wendym98 wendym98 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    I am 27 and I've never had a boyfriend.

    Or a girlfriend. Anything. I've never had someone other than my family tell me they loved me. I have loved once but was not loved in return. That was one of the worst experiences of my life. I think I'm ok looking. I shower and put effort into my appearance. My bmi is average...
    Bluesky86 Bluesky86 26-30, F 10 Responses Jan 8, 2014

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    never ever ...i dont think there is

    that guy who will loves me just the way i am
    salmax99 salmax99 16-17, F 6 Responses Apr 5

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    Am I pretty? My friend is always being flirted

    with and all the boys like her And I will be standing right next to her and they will come up and flirt with her.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 7

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    i never had a boyfriend

    and im 21. i know i will never have one but sometimes i wonder how it would feel to have someone care and like you. im too "disgusting" for guys and i get it. but it would be nice to not be alone everyday.
    ihatebeingblack44 ihatebeingblack44 18-21, F 2 Responses May 16

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    17 years and I've never had a real relationship.

    I just had my first kiss last September an I've never, ya know, done "it" (lol). I used to feel bad an left out but I now realize that I'm not really relationship material nor am I ready for one. I'm not secure or confident enough to love or even like myself yet so I definitely...
    irreelevance irreelevance 16-17, F 6 Responses Feb 10

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    I've never had a bf and I have no regrets.

    When I had my severe depression and I hated myself in high school I didn't love myself: THEREFORE (when you don't love yourself you will only attract undignified and ****** men, they will never save you) Years later it served as the best lesson, finally when I genuinely knew my...
    GiiGi GiiGi 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 9

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    I'm 21 and never had a boyfriend.

    All of my other friends have. They always talk about guys like they're nothing and have great self esteem. Sometimes I feel like there's something wrong with me at this age to not be with someone yet. Maybe I'm too socially awkward, or not looking for the right guys, or...
    crypticcrime crypticcrime 18-21, F 4 Responses May 11

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    I never dated and im 19

    and in college. yay life (sarcasm). every guy a mean is a douchebag who just wants one thing not love.
    iknoweverything iknoweverything 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 12

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    For me, this has been a "choice with no regrets.

    " (Anyone get the reference? No? Gah! No one ever does.)
    misanthropicpessimist misanthropicpessimist 13-15, F 5 Responses Jun 23

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    I never had a boyfriend,

    but guys just started coming up to me once I lost weight. When I was bigger (almost 300lbs, now 160), the guys didnt want me, but they chatted with me. It was as we were bros or whatever. I knew how they felt about girls and what they say. They were all about having sex. But...
    Jene95 Jene95 18-21, F 3 Responses May 19

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    but I wish someone could tell me

    if i want to be there girl friend
    Emily657 Emily657 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 21

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    I've never had a boyfriend.

    Never been kissed. Never held a guy's hand. Never been hugged by a guy. Never been asked for my number, or had any guy show any interest in talking to me. Never had a guy start a conversation with me. Never had a conversation with a boy that didn't have to do with school. Never...
    sad258 sad258 16-17, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I have no boyfriend since birth.

    Some people asks me, "Why?" and I always answer that I am not allowed to have a boyfriend yet. It is not far from the truth because my parents are encouraging me to concentrate on my studies rather than having a relationship with the opposite sex. Not having a boyfriend...
    TheWinter TheWinter 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    Yup I'm forever alone.

    I'm 14 still without a boyfriend. But it's cool.
    FighterWolf FighterWolf 13-15, F 51 Responses Jun 23, 2014

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    I really like a person.

    I've never clicked with someone like this before. I just love absolutely everything about him. We've said we were best friends. He said he likes people like me. And there was a small chance we'd meet and he's extremely glad we did. I don't know if he feels the same about me...
    14Kelly14 14Kelly14 13-15, F 22 hrs ago

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    Almost 21 and still never been in a

    relationship. Sometimes I don't mind, sometimes I wish I could figure out what's wrong with me. Depends on the day I suppose. I just wanna find someone
    Juils Juils 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 17, 2014

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    I've never had a boyfriend.

    . I will hang out with a boy till I feel it starts to get too serious and that's when I run with my tail between my legs. I don't know why I'm scared.
    kristen1993 kristen1993 22-25, F 1 Response May 9

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    I think it's mostly because I'm socially awkward

    and shy, I've had guys come up to me and try to start conversations but because I feel ugly all the time I just end up cutting the conversation short and walking away, every once in a while I'll run into some guy who calls me beautiful or cute and I automatically question his...
    neverprettyenough neverprettyenough 26-30, F 6 Responses Apr 20

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    phoenixfire101 phoenixfire101 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 5

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    And i dont need one..

    . i am really happy living with myself, but sometimes... just sometimes... i wonder what it's feel love for somebody...
    Shouuup Shouuup 18-21, F 2 Responses May 14

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    Are there any guys out there

    who live in Wisconsin and wants to chat?
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 14

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    Every semester since I've started college there

    has been at least one guy who seems attracted to me, yet no one has bothered to ask me out. Why is this?
    theloveofmylife2 theloveofmylife2 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 9

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    calllmeA calllmeA 18-21, F Dec 22, 2014

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    It doesn't mean that no one wants you,

    that you're not beautiful, or you're picky. Maybe you're just waiting for the right person and the right time
    worthynot worthynot 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 25, 2014

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    I don't know why. Is it my strict parents?

    My average looks? My body? My extreme shyness as a kid? My weird personality? My non-flirtatious ways? Like fr, what's the problem? ;-; I just don't seem to really attract people. But that's okay...next year! . . . (that's what I keep telling myself...every. single. year. -_-)
    justthat1girl99 justthat1girl99 16-17, F 3 Responses May 28

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    I'm actually okay with this,

    though sometimes I'm scared that I won't be able to experience falling in love.
    laulaud laulaud 18-21, F 8 Responses May 9

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    I've never had a boyfriend

    or my first kiss and I'm 15..
    Kiara15xxx Kiara15xxx 16-17, F 18 Responses Jun 19, 2014

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    Yep never and I think I'm ready.

    I've thought about online but I am not sure if that's where I want to start. There are so many layers in a persons personality that scrolling through EP looking at "advertisements" for wanting a girlfriends seems weird. I think I should wait at a bit longer until I reconsider...
    MyMindHurts01 MyMindHurts01 13-15, F 4 Responses May 27

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    KatIsAMermaid KatIsAMermaid 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 14, 2014

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    Sorry for being inactive!

    ! I will be back on here daily :)
    Cristyy274 Cristyy274 22-25, M 1 Response May 18

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    Lonely

    I'm 25 and never had a boyfriend. No real date. No first kiss.. no nothing. It gets lonely and frustrating. Especially when I see other people together. I can't handle being around my cousin because she has a boyfriend. I can't help but wonder when is it going to be my turn?
    Stripped628 Stripped628 26-30, F 29 Responses Apr 21, 2010

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    All my friends around me have boyfriends.

    I'm single and always have been. My friends come to me about their problems with their boyfriends and I can't help them. They send me pictures of them and their boyfriends and ditch me for them 99% of the time. I'm happy for them, but I just get jealous of my friends...
    baiho baiho 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    25 And I've Never Done A Lot Of Things

    I'm 25 and never had a boyfriend, a first real kiss or sex. Sometimes this really bothers me. I've tried to figure out 'why' for a while now and I think it may be because growing up as the first child my father was so strict with me and said if I ever came home with someone he...
    sagira sagira 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 25, 2012

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    I'm tempted to reopen my okcupid account again,

    but I am so cynical about dating nowadays that I'm not sure. I never really wanted to meet someone online, but rather in real life
    crypticcrime crypticcrime 18-21, F 2 Responses May 19

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    There are numerous older men in the world

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    kyliecc11 kyliecc11 26-30, F Jun 10

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    I'm fine with not having one.

    No way I'm ever letting my feelings latch onto any guy anytime soon. Education is my first priority and I can't let my feelings, that is if I ever have any feelings for a guy, get in the way. I know myself and I'm not gonna die if I don't get one. I have years ahead of me. I don...
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F 14 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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