Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Never Had a Boyfriend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 4,516 People

    inseng12 inseng12 22-25 2 Responses Oct 24, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm going to have to give up this experience.

    I had the most wonderful date last night, and we're out together today. He wants to see much more of me, and I certainly want to see him. So I think I can say that I do have a boyfriend!
    chantalmw chantalmw 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 29, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm fine with not having one.

    No way I'm ever letting my feelings latch onto any guy anytime soon. Education is my first priority and I can't let my feelings, that is if I ever have any feelings for a guy, get in the way. I know myself and I'm not gonna die if I don't get one. I have years ahead of me. I don...
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F 14 Responses Jul 13, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    25 And I've Never Done A Lot Of Things

    I'm 25 and never had a boyfriend, a first real kiss or sex. Sometimes this really bothers me. I've tried to figure out 'why' for a while now and I think it may be because growing up as the first child my father was so strict with me and said if I ever came home with someone he...
    sagira sagira 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 25, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Im 24 right now,ive never had a first kiss,

    never gone out on a date(though ive been asked out once,i declined though because the guy wasn't my type didnt wanna lead him on.) never had sex(though i have had online friends with benefits i guess u could say..but it was just sexting and i only did that cause i was lonely and...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 8

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Yup I'm forever alone.

    I'm 14 still without a boyfriend. But it's cool.
    FighterWolf FighterWolf 13-15, F 54 Responses Jun 23, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Seems to be because I always end up liking

    straight guys and making a fool of myself. It sucks....
    BlitzBallin BlitzBallin 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 5

    Your Response

    Cancel

    There is one thing good about not having a boy

    friend. I don't have to worry about him breaking my heart.
    btiny13 btiny13 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    atfenix atfenix 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    And I think the reason is

    because I think I might be lesbian. I really need someone to talk to about it. I'm so confused.
    katies0071 katies0071 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Lonely

    I'm 25 and never had a boyfriend. No real date. No first kiss.. no nothing. It gets lonely and frustrating. Especially when I see other people together. I can't handle being around my cousin because she has a boyfriend. I can't help but wonder when is it going to be my turn?
    Stripped628 Stripped628 26-30, F 28 Responses Apr 21, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I've read recently about somebody asked to

    describe their love life. They went on to vividly depict their golden, fairy tale love life and all the conquests. This got me thinking. How would I describe my love life (or rather lack-of-love life)? I would describe it as "Taking a test, feeling like you did wonderful, and...
    RxpperGirl RxpperGirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 22

    Your Response

    Cancel

    22 and I want something serious leading to

    marriage. I can't find anyone online. I don't like the world of dating. How do you find anyone? I am not in pubs or clubs. I wouldn't know how to meet anyone. I have a different view of things and am serious about my Christian faith. I don't want kids either and I think my...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 3 Responses a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    JumpingTomatoes JumpingTomatoes 16-17 Mar 7

    Your Response

    Cancel

    100% Non-girlfriend Material

    100% NON-Girlfriend Material I will be 26 the 19th of December. I feel like I will never be good enough to ever be someones girlfriend. I think about this all the time. It makes me depressed and I cry about it a lot. I lack self-confidence and im not that outgoing. Im told all...
    NRF25 NRF25 26-30, F 10 Responses Dec 16, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Almost 21 and still never been in a

    relationship. Sometimes I don't mind, sometimes I wish I could figure out what's wrong with me. Depends on the day I suppose. I just wanna find someone
    Juils Juils 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 17, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    17 years and I've never had a real relationship.

    I just had my first kiss last September an I've never, ya know, done "it" (lol). I used to feel bad an left out but I now realize that I'm not really relationship material nor am I ready for one. I'm not secure or confident enough to love or even like myself yet so I definitely...
    irreelevance irreelevance 16-17, F 6 Responses Feb 10

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I just don't see the importance of dating.

    I'm young, there's other things in life. If I meet someone worth it, then maybe I'd date that person. But right now, I haven't found one person like that.
    faithandfree faithandfree 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 15, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel
    silaekaradas silaekaradas 16-17, F 6 Responses Mar 20

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm 15, and I haven't had a boyfriend

    or my first kiss yet. I feel so behind all of my friends, but I still don't know if I'm ready to be in a relationship yet. Even though I want to start dating, I'm not sure if I'm comfortable with it. That's where I'm completely stuck. And I don't want to date just to date; to...
    canary291 canary291 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 17

    Your Response

    Cancel

    16, single, never had a boyfriend.

    All you people older than me are probably thinking 'she's still young, she has nothing to worry about' and you'd be right, however it really doesn't do much to my already lower than the floor self esteem. Other girls my age have had multiple boyfriends by now, which just leads...
    RebeccaLouise224 RebeccaLouise224 16-17, F 22 Responses Jun 24, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I have no boyfriend since birth.

    Some people asks me, "Why?" and I always answer that I am not allowed to have a boyfriend yet. It is not far from the truth because my parents are encouraging me to concentrate on my studies rather than having a relationship with the opposite sex. Not having a boyfriend...
    TheWinter TheWinter 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 22

    Your Response

    Cancel

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    dalidacc11 dalidacc11 26-30, F 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I KNOW ITS A BIT LONG STORY BUT I WANTED TO

    HEAR UR OPINIONS. I never had a boyfriend. Last summer when i was in England for a language school, i met someone and he was cute. (and french) We had a bit time together. But we were never alone, there were always our friends with us. Actually i wasn't complaining about it :D...
    ddeniz ddeniz 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 22

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I find bf who accept

    for who I am
    jayn12 jayn12 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    i've always wondered how would it felt like.

    I never talk to boys to be honest and as expected boys don't talk to me at all... they just don't seem interested. Some people tell me that i might be too intimidating for guys even tho im very quiet... for me it doesnt make any sense but whatever. I just really wanna know...
    wendym98 wendym98 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 12, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Sadly I don't have a boyfriend

    because most of the boys are immature and just want to get into my panties or wants me to show my assets off
    mysticaldreams mysticaldreams 13-15, F 4 Responses Dec 18, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    This doesn't mean I'm desperate.

    ... It means I'm holding out for someone worth dating. Sure I'm lonely but you know what being lonely isn't that bad. I never had a boyfriend, but I wouldn't date anyone but that is a waste of my time. I do like a few guys.....but I want love not a relationship.
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 17

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I never dated and im 19

    and in college. yay life (sarcasm). every guy a mean is a douchebag who just wants one thing not love.
    iknoweverything iknoweverything 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 12

    Your Response

    Cancel

    i am 17, i have never had a boyfriend,

    ive never been on a date, and ive never been kissed. and when guys do ask me on dates i always say no because i just dont feel comfortable, and also because i would have to bring them home to meet my parents and my step dad is so embarrassing, so maybe ill wait till college when...
    mirandasoltero mirandasoltero 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 19

    Your Response

    Cancel

    wooow I seen a lot of girls posting they

    want a bf well i guess i dont want to lef out am a great guy with good personality in plus ages is not a limit since now young girls gets marry with older do yu girlls like romantisism am still that kind of persons= who gives serenate how would you describe the guy...
    loner001 loner001 26-30, M Mar 6

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Single Mother But Never Had A Boyfriend

    One of my biggest insecurities growing up was the fact I never had a boyfriend. It all started when everyone seemed to be getting one of these at around 13.. Thinking back now, that was ridiculous for me to even worry, but here I am.. turning 20 this month and I still haven't had...
    YourRemedyMyPoison YourRemedyMyPoison 18-21, F 8 Responses Sep 4, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    hmm most men nowadays just want sex

    and the others are picky i like my women classy and mature they know how to be playful at times but also know how to handle their own so far i the 20 years I've been on this planet ive met 3 women who had the requirements i dated one of them and it didnt last long because we...
    ThatOneLeo ThatOneLeo 18-21, M Apr 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    calllmeA calllmeA 18-21, F Dec 22, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I was never asked to be someone's girlfriend.

    . I've been having a crush just never a boyfriend . I wonder what it feels like to be loved ..
    Rosella4 Rosella4 18-21, F 7 Responses May 22, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I've never had a boyfriend

    or my first kiss and I'm 15..
    Kiara15xxx Kiara15xxx 16-17, F 18 Responses Jun 19, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Never had a crush. Never liked anyone

    (romantically). Never had a boyfriend. I am in no rush either. As I went through my years of high school, my friends always went on rants about finding a boyfriend. Most of them got hurt really bad and the relationships were not serious. I'm going to start my new life in...
    Liv4Life Liv4Life 18-21, F Jul 7, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I feel the same way. like there's always going

    to be something about me that is a complete deal breaker. I don't think I'm ugly or annoying or anything but I feel like no one is ever going to like enough of me to love me like that.
    shamrok11 shamrok11 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 6

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Never felt the need, one day there will be

    so I'm not stressing. there are very little people in this world who change our lives and accept us wholeheartedly - and I'm going to find that person.
    lolznewaccountio lolznewaccountio 18-21, F Dec 26, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I don't know if the only one

    who experience this. Because i am actually single but i want to finish high school with no boyfriends. But i really want to know what it feels like to have one.
    NicoleDelaCruuz NicoleDelaCruuz 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 16, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel
    KatIsAMermaid KatIsAMermaid 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 14, 2014

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Well, not anymore... a guy at school asked me

    out yesterday. I have never been asked out before, and we only have 25 days until graduation, and we're both going to college about 6 hours away from each other... so I don't know what he thinks is going to happen in this relationship... and anyway, I'm not really into guys, and...
    Boulier Boulier 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Im 13 this year.I never had a boyfriend

    but crush? yes I do have.two actually.But sadly one of them is taken by my bestfriend :( And all I had to do is pretend to be happy for them.sigh.I wanna be attached to my another crush or someone arnd my age
    ehmel ehmel 13-15, F Feb 7

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I have never had a boyfriend.

    I have had my first kiss but he wasn't my boyfriend if that makes sense. Guys don't like me because I have Trichotillomania, I'm kind of chubby, I'm flat chested, and I don't really talk. Any advice to get a guy to like me.
    beeella beeella 13-15, F 8 Responses Apr 6

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I'm 36 And I Never Had A Bf :)

    I've been reading the posts of other people here, how some feel worried and even pathetic coz they're 17 or 21 and never had a boyfriend.  It makes me feel self-conscious of my age.  I'm 36 and I never had a bf.  Not for lack of suitors, I've had some over the...
    brighteyedstargazer brighteyedstargazer 36-40, F 30 Responses Mar 28, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I just turned 18, and I've never been in any

    sort of relationship. I actually think I'm aromatic, but I tried talking about it with a friend who's had a couple of boyfriends, and she said I just hadn't met the right person yet. I have a lot of guy friends, but I feel like dating would ruin a friendship.
    scsoccer scsoccer 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 22

    Your Response

    Cancel