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I Never Had Xxx

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    Where Did The Innocence Go?

    My mother was fifteen, the age I am now, when she got pregnant with me. My father? Yeah, didn't stick around and now I'm paying for that. My grandmother was seventeen when she got pregnant for the first time, my aunt was 14. I come from a long line of teenage parents and so I...
    Kaybaby68 Kaybaby68 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 10, 2011

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    With a White Woman

    one of my many fantasies is making love to a white women.maybe its from watching ****.maybe cause i just think white women arte so sexy with glasses and stockings.all i know is i want to make love to a white lady
    SINISTERMEMPHISTO SINISTERMEMPHISTO 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 9, 2007

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    What Happened To All The Virgins?

    I am only 13, but most of my friends have lost their Virginity already. Their parents don't know, intil they get pregnant. My virginity is my last piece of hope. I want to. Graduate from college, find a good guy, get married, and THEN start talking sex. My friend Beth is pregnant...
    missy1999 missy1999 13-15, F 8 Responses Apr 18, 2011

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    Never Had Xxx Sex...

    I mean, it's gotten pretty steamy, but just once to try, I want to make a film with my (as yet to arrive) new lover. Just the thought makes me excited. Capturing yourself letting go, on celluloid for the ages. Oooh...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 31, 2010

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    Still Waiting

    My best friend got pregnant when she was 13, it was her first time... and i think that just traumatized me. I associated sex with pregnancy, so i told myself i would NEVER have sex. When i finally did start thinking about having sex, i met a wonderful guy that took me to church...
    youandme123 youandme123 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 9, 2011

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    I Don't See It As a Bad Thing..

    I think many young people don't care that much about it anymore. Some girls in my class change their boyfriends like weekly and have sex with them. I am quite naive when it comes to that. In my opinion, you should wait for the right one. I know, you never know.. But having sex...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 17, 2008

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    Sad But True

    I'm 27 and never had sex.  Is that pathetic or what.  I'm sick of it and tired of hearing of people talking about them talk about it
    loneranger loneranger 31-35, M 15 Responses Aug 31, 2007

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    Sex Should Never Be Entered Lightly

    I'm not afraid to admit, i'm 26(even though my profile wont let me change it) and never had sex, its a choice... i believe that in order to for it to come to this, i have to be in love first. since i can't find that person i connect with on multiple levels i just wont settle...
    Unfocused Unfocused 26-30, F 33 Responses Jul 13, 2010

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    Good

    I am 30 and still waiting. I'm not necessarily waiting for marriage, but I know I'm worth it. Right now, I'm focusing on getting my life back together. Finishing school this summer. Hopefully, I will be able to find a great woman when I'm actually ready
    DodoMan1976 DodoMan1976 31-35, M 5 Responses Jun 19, 2007

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    I Love Girls.....

    i love girls, they are my weakness...i don't know whether i love them or i need sex with them, but i respect them, love to talk with them, share anything under the sun, but i don't want to confine myself to any particular girl , i need to be avaiable for other... i need friends...
    tzn4free tzn4free 31-35 2 Responses Jun 23, 2010

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    I Pity Those Who Lose Their Virginity At A Young Age

    i see it all the time i see kids as young as 13 having sex and its side effects. i really dont care for them i pity them i just dont think they deserve the respect i give normal people. the respect i give them is the same respect i give people who think being gangster...
    kurokineko kurokineko 18-21, M 7 Responses Apr 2, 2011

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    Deep Heart

    yaar m 22 nd m still vergin .......i never had sex  nd didnt feel this  moment of love because i havent any grl in my life 2 be my soul .....i have grl but she is my friend only friend........i spend my whole night at teris towards seeing 2 stars nd moon .......yaar i want a...
    wateradi wateradi 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 12, 2011

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    No..

    ...I have never had sex. I am still a virgin. The only kind of affection I got from a guy was like four or five years ago. He was the first and only guy I have kissed or made out with. It does annoy me that I havent done anything else with a guy, but oh well. At least I dont have...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Mar 19, 2010

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    Never Had Sex

    AND DAMN PROUD OF IT TOO!!!!!!! At least I can hold my own, and have self-control. As hot and bothered as I may get sometimes, I prefer to wait until I'm married to unleash those "frustrations" on my man. "Don't do that thing, if you ain't got that ring." ;)
    Sirenalynda Sirenalynda 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 9, 2011

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    The Right Time!!!!!!!

    It would come when i feel ready, it would come when God allow me, not with the perfect one (cause that man doesnt exist) but maybe with someone special, someone who worth (someone i learn how to love and he learn how to love me back) the right time will arrive, not when i wish...
    thenewmisslunallena thenewmisslunallena 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 12, 2011

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    Never Had It And Never Had A Girlfriend

    The title says it all really. i dont know what more to say
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 12, 2010

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    Tis True

    yea, I'm waiting. Till I'm married. Well, thats the plan anyways. My boyfriend and I plan on getting married in two years. Which really isn't that far away...but still. The question now is...do we really want to wait? Is it really worth it? I just don't know what i want. Cause i...
    jaisikae jaisikae 26-30, F 13 Responses Aug 12, 2007

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    I Know That I'm Ready

    my boyfriend and i have been together for a long time, and no i dont want to have sex because i think we've waited long enough or that its long overdue. i am completely in love with him and i want to show him how much. i've never believe in sex before marriage, because i didn't...
    miiranda23 miiranda23 16-17 1 Response Aug 4, 2011

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    daveR80 daveR80 22-25, M 2 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    So I'm 20 years old.. Almost 21 actually, and I have never had any romantic experience of any kind. I can't think of anybody I know who has never been in a relationship, or who...
    postmixlemonade postmixlemonade 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 24

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    I'm 18 years old and I never kissed a girl and never had a girlfriend. I get really nervous when I talk to a girl in person. chatting is not really a problem though, as long as I...
    appelpeer appelpeer 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    I never had any brothers or sisters to play with. I was always alone in my room playing. I wish I had a childhood. My parents didn't even buy me any nice toys..they'd buy me like...
    anathefluffycat anathefluffycat 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    I'm 14 and I never had a boyfriend! I had some boys who liked me and wanted to be with me but I don't know why I always rejected them. I think it was because I thought I was to...
    itsdiane itsdiane 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 5

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    I'm 13 and the picture below is pictures of me, I have never had a boyfriend.. Am I to ugly? :(
    Lyriklozano Lyriklozano 13-15, F 6 Responses Aug 24

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    i have never had a friend that was girl let alone girlfriend. i dont have anything to give anyone
    benjiescobar benjiescobar 18-21, M Aug 25

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    its so weird to me to see guys. like they are aliens lol. i have never had a boyfriend and im afraid it wont happen. all bcus of how i look
    unlovednbroken unlovednbroken 18-21, F Aug 28

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    I am 15 and I never had one. I spent the last two years head over heels for this boy in my grade. This summer I moved to England and the boy I like has a girlfriend now. So I just...
    belly99 belly99 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    I always complain that I never had a girlfriend but I've beer done anything to get one. Maybe because I'm too shy and nervous around girls... -_- people say let them come to me. No...
    jm4life jm4life 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 9

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    Anyone else never had a girlfriend/boyfriend? Share so we can all be single together :)
    jm4life jm4life 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 9

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    i am almost 17 years old and have never had a boyfriend. it's better to say this... i gained a bunch of weight when i was 12, like a lot...about 25 pounds! idk what happened but i...
    KatieRosess KatieRosess 16-17, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    So where do I start. It was my second semester in college around the month of February. It all stated when I was hanging out on the student center lobby and a karaoke event was...
    Storyguy007 Storyguy007 18-21, M Aug 25

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    I am 19 and I have never been in a relationship or even kissed a boy, it is very embarrassing at times, if someone ask if I have been in a relationship I tend to lie a bit and say...
    MissLadyJay MissLadyJay 18-21, M 3 Responses Sep 7

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    Omg. Lmao. Seen this group. Never felt it applied. Then. Just now. It showed it does. Me misses a family. A real family. That dont say sink or swim. A...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 27

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    I feel like I will never be approached by women and actually get a gf. Girls only approach hot guys. When has a girl ever approached an ugly guy ever? I'm ugly, I'll never get...
    jm4life jm4life 16-17, M Sep 9

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    This past year has been a huge step for me. I went on dates for the first time in my life, and I learned how to open up and be more social. This year I had the chance to start 2...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 26-30, F Sep 12

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    I once was in a rather intimate long distance relationship with a Spanish girl. This relationship was fueled by sexual desire for one another, but lacking the ability to act upon...
    AlbertFeynstein AlbertFeynstein 13-15, M Aug 25

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    I think girls try to knock you down to test your confidence and resilience. Unfortunately, I have fragile self-confidence and crumble in such situations. I'm afraid that I'll never...
    Nexile90 Nexile90 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 26

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    Ok so im the lead in my school musical and i have to kiss the lead male! But the problem is i've never kissed anyone before and neither has he... We're goodish friends (only...
    justagirlwithdreams justagirlwithdreams 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    It's funny how this generation shows most criticism Towards the man who holds a plan to rise above his egoism. They say to be a player just to simply catch a feel. I say that...
    OdeSlinger OdeSlinger 26-30, M Sep 12

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    I had a dream that I had a girlfriend, does that count? it must count for something
    xColdxWorldx xColdxWorldx 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    Nope, never. Not difficult really. When I was younger I screwed everything that let me inside, LOL, but I always used a rubber. Honestly, it was far more the fear of being someones...
    Beaver318 Beaver318 41-45, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Ive had plenty boyfriends. But. I want to try something new. (;
    ninjadentistinspace ninjadentistinspace 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    Because I had two night-stands, and the other one exploded in the middle of the night. People who live with glass tables should not throw stones. Not that I did or anything, but it...
    Faust76 Faust76 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    Im turning 20 this november and sadly still havent had a girlfriend. For a long time I felt lonely. How I wisj there was someone I could talk to who also understands me.
    KianZzy KianZzy 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 28

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    They aren't made to be parents, not for more than one child. No. I wonder why they even had me? They hate me
    KidAgony KidAgony 18-21, F Sep 5

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    I'm turning thirteen in literally a month or less but anyways, obviously I haven't got a boyfriend. Many guys have liked me and I rejected them all because I guess I wasn't really...
    omaxson42 omaxson42 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 6

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    this is my first post Teacher :- iska arth (meaning) bataiye.. . Blue Eyes Hypnotyes Teri Kardi Hai Mainu I Swear Chhoti Dress Me Bomb Lagdi Mainu... . . Student :- prasang me ye...
    turnerworld turnerworld 22-25, M 5 hrs ago

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    sometimes i would like to feel how it feels like. does it feel good?
    yoshiyang yoshiyang 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 22

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    I'm about to be 23 and have a girlfriend or kiss a girl. Man if i ever have one i would treat like a queen. With the most respect the most support. I do think I'm ready for a...
    tomasalmas6789 tomasalmas6789 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 25