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I Never Let Anybody Too Close to Me

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    My Mask Refuses to Crumble - Being numb and distant is an easy way to avoid getting hurt. However, it's also an easy way to never really connect with anyone. I've opened up to...
    XxSperanzaXx XxSperanzaXx 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 10, 2008

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    just a little... - ....just only so much then no more. too fearful of what they may think, i hide again. and it's a terrible thing to want to step closer, yet have to give in to...
    Cinderelly Cinderelly 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 31, 2008

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    Just Because - In my lifetime, I have had too many individuals that I allowed past the inner walls that I built to protect me from those that only want to use what they can...
    beentherendonethat beentherendonethat 56-60, M 1 Response May 9, 2009

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    I Don't Know Which To Choose - I want nothing more in this entire world than to just be one with someone. And because of this, I would jump at every oppurtunity I could, fall 500...
    Angelwings7 Angelwings7 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2011

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    Well, I Used to Not Let Anybody Close to Me... - but I'm learning to open up to people. But only to very, very, very few people. It can get very lonely sometimes though.
    minnie22mouse minnie22mouse 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 10, 2008

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    Rogue - I never let anybody close to me. Not to spare me, but to spare them. So they don't get hurt. I allow myself to love others unfortunately, because I don't  have much...
    RogueAlphaFemale RogueAlphaFemale 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 31, 2008

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    Somethings Never Change - I talk - on a very superficial level, to many people.  I talk for a living - it's not a problem making small talk, making people feel...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 3, 2008

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    Afraid! -  I'm afraid of letting someone close to me and getting hurt...Either physical and emotionally. Mostly because i'm like an open book and get easily hurt.....
    andreinac13 andreinac13 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 4, 2008

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    False - They're all fake, wearing masks. Hypocrites who have no real interest. They say things like "you can tell me anything", "cheer up", "it will get better". They make false...
    L96Arctic L96Arctic 22-25, M 4 Responses Jan 21, 2012

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    I am beyond afraid to get too close to others. It has never been a good thing in the past when I have got close to someone, and let someone in. I always end up hurt, or...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    "Getting in too deep" I'm deeply afraid to get too close to my boyfriend. Don't get me wrong, I am truly head over heels for him, and I haven't felt this way in a long time since...
    takethispain takethispain 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I'm not good at getting close to people. Well scratch that I'm good at getting close to people but I'm not good at letting people get close to me. I just don't know how- I think it...
    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    As much I desire having close relationships with people I have come to the realization that I am a self saboteur. I don't know why I do what I do. I have friends but I don't let...
    bluebaby072 bluebaby072 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    Sometimes I wish I could turn back the time to the day when I gave my heart away, to the day when you took it and ran away from me. If I could change I would change everything but...
    SilentButDeadlyPizzaFaceDragon SilentButDeadlyPizzaFaceDragon 18-21, M Apr 6

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    I've been hurt so many times by my friends, family, and everyone else. I don't know if I can take the chance of getting too close, getting too much hope. What if they hurt me too...
    LostAngel12 LostAngel12 13-15, F 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    Sometimes I look at the amount of people in this group and wonder if they are all really being sincere when they join this group. Have they all been hurt? Have they maybe hurt...
    Septisoul Septisoul 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Ever since my dad died I have never had the same emotions again. It's like I have no heart now.. I don't feel love like I used to. Or let people in too much. As if I push them away...
    JDHarrison93 JDHarrison93 18-21, M Mar 17

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    Every time I open up and let down a wall or two. Someone stomps all over me. I don't trust people, and I'm beginning to think I never will.
    Kat51 Kat51 18-21, F 7 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    Among the millions of people around, you and I came to be connected. Already selected? It took daring steps, one by one, allowing us to reach out, and speak from the heart...
    jenga1 jenga1 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    I always try to be open and honest, be the person I would like to be seen as. It can be difficult sometimes and I have opened myself up to a lot of untrustworthy, nasty people over...
    Bellastasia Bellastasia 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    The moon must have felt my pain that night it turned blood red. After months of staring at the moon, wondering you're looking too, maybe it was my sign ti stop bleeding for someone...
    NefelibataAggression NefelibataAggression 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I used to be a rather trusting person but as of recently I've discovered that some people really aren't your true friends no matter what they say. I would say that currently I only...
    twiggy93 twiggy93 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I was working as a manager and a woman applied for a vacancy who was a little older for the role, my boss did not want to give her the job and wanted another candidate with more...
    sabasaba06 sabasaba06 41-45, F Mar 24

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    I've been hurt one too many times by people who claimed they wouldn't hurt me. I don't trust very easily and have yet to find someone with genuine intentions I can depend on.
    goldengirl24 goldengirl24 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    I'm afraid of being the person who betrays people when I gain their trust. But I'm also afraid of being betrayed. The result is that I know more of my friend's secrets. They know...
    Septisoul Septisoul 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    some peolpe just want you when they need it. I have benn there before but because of my personality I can't never do that to a person. I put someone else feelings before me.
    OrangeCaramel OrangeCaramel 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Its like this. when you stick your hand out and get bitten. you learn very quickly not to stick your hand out anymore. I've been "bitten" so many times by people who are supposed...
    sweetpea6200 sweetpea6200 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 21

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    I have such a hard time letting my walls down. Also the fact that i was in a seven yr relationship that just recently ended doesn't help. But I just can't trust people at all. I...
    Fantasy646 Fantasy646 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 30

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    There are only two people in my life that know me very well - and even they don't know *everything* about me. I guess it's safe to say I do not trust very easily, but I do find...
    HappyandSad20 HappyandSad20 18-21, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    I feel like people will judge me harshly. That they might think that I am boring. I am also afraid of them leaving me and not being my friend anymore. That really makes me sad.
    butterflyhearts17 butterflyhearts17 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    I is hard to trust humanity. are there any good people left?
    tacomasr5 tacomasr5 51-55, M 6 Responses Apr 8

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    i will do anything for my friends and because of that I expect to much from them when i need it. When the time come, they do nothing. I dont want feel this way
    OrangeCaramel OrangeCaramel 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    This post is for ep member 3 and those I may have hurt unwillingly.If YOU DON'T FORGET AND FORGIVE ,IT WILL BECOME A BIGGER PROBLEM FOR YOU.Good to forgive ;Best ,to forget...
    mona87 mona87 46-50, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    Open up to someone and they might just take advantage of you...start to care and they might just lead you on....I made the mistake of trusting something thinking they cared about...
    BlessedMommy08 BlessedMommy08 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I am a people person for the most part, but I never let anyone get to close I am afraid they will hurt me and because of this I never let people in ....
    lovingmeyousee lovingmeyousee 16-17, F 6 hrs ago

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    Guys, Let's make it easier for you to understand. Girls are crazy, and they have this high and low state of mind. I'm just stating what I believe is a bit obvious when it comes to...
    wherethehealingbegins wherethehealingbegins 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    I have a question for all of you out there and I really need an honest answer. How do you know if a guy loves you? Give me a list of examples of what guys need to do in order for...
    Zozolove Zozolove 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 27

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    I sometimes wish I had never had children too. I started out relatively early. I was 20 when I had my daughter and 24 when I had my son. My daughters father was abusive in every...
    BBMS BBMS 41-45, F Mar 30

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    I usually thought that being on this would let me find closer friends and people I could actually talk to even just for fun but then I realized no one took me seriously and most...
    melanie17 melanie17 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    So, one night during the summer, my boyfriend and I were going through some turmoil in our relationship. I was so angry because he was supposed to pick me up from Anacostia Station...
    RoyautePrincess RoyautePrincess 26-30 1 day ago

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    Perhaps this is why starting a relationship is too difficult for me. I try not to be and when I feel myself getting that way I try to pull back. They say you shouldn't let past...
    acquiredtaste acquiredtaste 26-30 2 Responses Mar 17

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    I need it bad and let people watch me make love to another girl and let husband too
    drivehercrazy drivehercrazy 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Please don't hate me for loving too much, for needing you so much. I am sorry that my hearts got so entwined in you that my soul can never let go. I have tried everything even...
    BrokenAngel35 BrokenAngel35 31-35, F Apr 2

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    So yesterday kinda got me thinking about something i always felt but never actually thought too much about. I realized that no matter how many people I find around, no matter what...
    anonymouslyherenow anonymouslyherenow 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    Since I left for Afghanistan a few months ago, I've definitely drifted from the few people I was close to back in the states. Now I literally have no one. It's bittersweet seeing...
    ObviouslyAlex ObviouslyAlex 16-17, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    The boogy man exists I know that its true But just maybe... i don't have to tell you. Its a game that we play Hide and go cry You could join sometime Im sure he won't mind It...
    ladylulu ladylulu 22-25, F 3 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I am asked often why I prefer women. "Do you dislike men? Do you distrust them? Did you have a bad experience?" they say. As if these are the only valid reasons! My sexual...
    Cdm210 Cdm210 18-21, F 4 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Father, my days continue to be uncertain. Career and income are unsettling. It is such a heavy worry I carry on my shoulders. The darkness seems so thick and I am grasping at thin...
    1490wayb 1490wayb 46-50, M 14 hrs ago

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    I need to let go of my anger, sadness and loneliness before I can truly be happy. The problem is, I was never good at letting go.
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Dear family, friends, and all seven billion people in this world, First off, let me tell you about myself. I am a thirteen year old girl, I have two sisters and one step-sister. My...
    mcsunshine09 mcsunshine09 13-15, F 4 days ago

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