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I Never Lost My Virginity

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      My name is Bob.

    I am 45 and i'm sad. There is a reason for it and once i tell you, i'm guessing you will either laugh at me or feel pity for me. I have held this in too long. I cant hold it any more, it's making my depression and anxieties worse and the older i get the more i just want to d...
    zerobitRaD zerobitRaD 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 29, 2015

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    I Guess That's One More

    I'm 16 I don't want to be like every other girl and lose it to some highschool jerk. I don't even like anybody  except my friends. I'm still thinking about this whole boyfriend girlfriend thing and I'm not sure wether I want that or not either. I'd love...
    Passionfruit3 Passionfruit3 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 4, 2009

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    The Right Moment

    Just waiting for the right moment! Hopefully Jan 1 2010. Keep your fingers crossed for me!  
    KatieJane KatieJane 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 8, 2009

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 30, 2015

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    I am so tired I all these teenager

    even the ones in my family complaining because they are still virgins. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin. I am 23 and I have not had sex and I am proud of that fact. Who gives a crap if you decide to wait until you want to have sex and who with. It's driving me crazy...
    Eyeofthebeholder23 Eyeofthebeholder23 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 8, 2014

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    Nooope.

    Still waiting for that one special person... if he or she still exists. I guess I'm not conservative enough to wait for marriage but if I was in a relationship with someone, it would have to be at least a year before I start having sex with them.
    lntel lntel 22-25 Jun 4, 2012

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    Thankfully

    My virginity was never lost or stolen, it was given away. I gave it to a man that I love and I couldn't have been happier to have done so.  The experience was how it was suppose to be and how everyone deserves it to be. He was gentle and kind and made sure not to do...
    brwneyedbeauty brwneyedbeauty 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 9, 2009

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    Lost

    I never lost it, I know exactly where it went. How can you lose something you give away?
    mailmanshadow mailmanshadow 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 14, 2011

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    After reading some of the posts on here I'm

    realizing this is probably going to sound weird, not the "I Never Lost My Virginity" part...but the part about me being 45. Part of the reason I think, has to do with my low self worth, low self esteem, feeling unworthy of a woman, which I'm petty sure starts with my being fat...
    zerobitRaD zerobitRaD 41-45, M Jul 23, 2015

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    I Gave Mine Away

    To the first girl that would take it. 
    loopnscc loopnscc 46-50, M 4 Responses May 1, 2009

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    I'm 25 and I'm a virgin.

    I choose to wait until marriage mostly because all of the guys that have ever "liked" me or at least pretended to, just wanted sex and when they realized they weren't gonna get that they would run. I've never been in a committed, serious relationship and most people that I tell...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 13, 2015

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    Really... It Was Never "Lost"

     My Love and I talked about this the other night... about "losing" one's virginity.  I mean, like, what does that mean?   How does one go about "losing" one's virginity?  Is this a case of carelessness?  Forgetfulness?  ...
    SaratogaGirl SaratogaGirl 26-30, F 32 Responses May 1, 2009

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    Sex just never really appealed to me.

    Not to say that I've never experienced sexual attraction before because I have, just not strongly enough to go through with it. Is that weird?
    SqueezeTheLemon SqueezeTheLemon 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 9

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    Prize For Him

    i don't want to 'til i get married.   well, it's a great prize for my husband.. ^^,
    dazzlingeyes dazzlingeyes 18-21, F 11 Responses Apr 30, 2010

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    People tell me all the time I am too beautiful

    to be a virgin... lol I know what they want lol...
    ThankYouSoldiers ThankYouSoldiers 22-25, F Jan 19, 2015

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    just a little background I am 26

    and a big guy OK let's just call it like it is I am fat and my only real attributes are that I am a hard working man with a good job I am an emergency medical technician advanced level and a farmer and small business owner having been a big guy my entire life I never had the...
    centralff centralff 26-30, M 2 Responses Nov 29, 2014

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    ....

    i just cant remember where i put the damn thing.... 
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 7 Responses May 1, 2009

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    for me its very difficult to fall in love.

    so to be able to be with someone just seem kind of impossible at the moment. i treat people with respect so i dont force myself on someone. and to me sex doesnt equate love theres other ways to love. most people go into relationship and have sex then the relationship quickly...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 12, 2015

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    I Want To Save It For A Woman Who Would Save It For Me.

    I want a wife who is a Virgin, and I believe that in the interest of fairness, I should save it, too. I had a girl tell me that she would DEFINITELY be the one who was going to marry me and that it would be okay if we got together but, I am glad that I didn't fall for it...
    soabdelj soabdelj 18-21, M 15 Responses May 31, 2010

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    I Am Just So Curious

    Well to be completely honest im just a 14 year old girl. Im curious just any other teenager can be. You see I have this boyfriend we've been talking since the summer of 2012. I actually love this guy. Every time we kiss is like an electric shock, I drown in his kisses his tongue...
    IIXIXXIII19 IIXIXXIII19 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 17, 2013

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    I told her i aint never did this

    before , no I told her i aint never did this before , no I told her i aint never did this before , no I told her i aint never did this before , nooo
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 15, 2015

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    It Was Taken.........

    Rudely & without my consent. But apparently it doesn't mean that much anyway. So, why mourn..... Right?
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 1, 2009

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    No, I never wanted to be a delinquent, I never wanted people to think I'm unstable and crazy. I never wanted to be called a trouble maker, I never wanted to be friend less. I never...
    LikeICare13 LikeICare13 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    I have been feeling lost... I feel like I should let him go... I need someone to give me a lot of emotional support and simply just be here day in and out... On days/weeks like...
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    Yep I'm 20 years old and have never had a boyfriend or anything remotely close to it. there are times when it saddens me and I feel like something is wrong with me then there are...
    Imstillhere122 Imstillhere122 18-21, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I lost my best friend last night. Once upon a time we had an affair, then we became just friends. After 2 years, it all comes to an end. My friend had become very close to...
    DesolateSoul64 DesolateSoul64 51-55 1 day ago

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    At 19 I decided that I was ready to fall in love. I met a boy through mutual friends, we talked all night, and I knew he was the one I would open my heart to. Our relationship...
    Halfapersonn Halfapersonn 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    can anyone take my virginity in Lebanon, Indiana? 18 M
    cente55 cente55 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    April 2nd 2015 At 10:20 pm I got a call from my sister Katie, she told me mom committed suicide. She shot her self in the head and at the time I thought it was a sick april fools...
    bethaneyj bethaneyj 18-21, F 12 Responses 2 days ago

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    I Reflect On Life I was a victim of molestation at a young age. Homeless and had a Druggie parent. I never told anyone about this until a few months ago because I always felt...
    Salyssasalenee Salyssasalenee 18-21, F 10 Responses 4 days ago

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    I lost my dad in 2005 to cardiac arrest. It was all very sudden, we were watching a movie and having ice cream. Something suddenly happened and next minute my mother and elder...
    VarshaJ VarshaJ 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm 15, I'm planning to lose my virginity to a junior at my school. He's a fuckboi so I know nothing will come out of it. I just wanna bang but I'm really scared he will think I'm...
    Keyanna15 Keyanna15 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Hmm,now I'm 26 years old and stilll virgin :D what about you? and what do think about virginity?
    majidkt majidkt 26-30, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I lost my virginity at 14 to my boyfriend on his birthday lol :S. It was mostly a good time except the first few minutes and I started to love the feeling after awhile :p
    Clara213 Clara213 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    It's been over a year now since he, my uncle, died and I find myself thinking about him a lot. We didn't see much of one another while he was alive, but in my last few years of...
    ProcessOfBecoming ProcessOfBecoming 18-21, T 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I was 17. I was volunteering at a church camp. The Sunday school teacher early 40s maybe was working late and I was just getting the campers to bed. She said her neck was...
    Gws1269 Gws1269 46-50, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Grief is a funny thing. It sneaks up on you, quietly, stealthily, then mugs you of your belongings in a dark alleyway. Sometimes you can feel it coming, sometimes you don't. It...
    PaigeLawley PaigeLawley 16-17, F 7 Responses Feb 3

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    I left my sketchbook/journal that I had on a trip that changed my life. It has notes from friends I'll never see again, sketches and everything I wrote. I left it at the airport...
    TheEverythingFanX TheEverythingFanX 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    I lost my virninity at age13 but cant say how or with what
    babybrad49 babybrad49 56-60, M 8 Responses Feb 3

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    What if you’ve died…?Dear myI don’t really know how to call you, but I think you know what I mean…That day when I have heard you could have died my heart...
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