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I Never Lost My Virginity

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    My virginity was never lost or stolen, it was given away. I gave it to a man that I love and I couldn't have been happier to have done so.  The experience was how it was suppose to be and how everyone deserves it to be. He was gentle and kind and made sure not to do...
    brwneyedbeauty brwneyedbeauty 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 9, 2009

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    Nooope.

    Still waiting for that one special person... if he or she still exists. I guess I'm not conservative enough to wait for marriage but if I was in a relationship with someone, it would have to be at least a year before I start having sex with them.
    lntel lntel 18-21 Jun 4, 2012

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    Really... It Was Never "Lost"

     My Love and I talked about this the other night... about "losing" one's virginity.  I mean, like, what does that mean?   How does one go about "losing" one's virginity?  Is this a case of carelessness?  Forgetfulness?  ...
    SaratogaGirl SaratogaGirl 26-30, F 30 Responses May 1, 2009

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    I Want To Save It For A Woman Who Would Save It For Me.

    I want a wife who is a Virgin, and I believe that in the interest of fairness, I should save it, too. I had a girl tell me that she would DEFINITELY be the one who was going to marry me and that it would be okay if we got together but, I am glad that I didn't fall for it...
    soabdelj soabdelj 18-21, M 15 Responses May 31, 2010

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    Prize For Him

    i don't want to 'til i get married.   well, it's a great prize for my husband.. ^^,
    dazzlingeyes dazzlingeyes 18-21, F 11 Responses Apr 30, 2010

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    I Guess That's One More

    I'm 16 I don't want to be like every other girl and lose it to some highschool jerk. I don't even like anybody  except my friends. I'm still thinking about this whole boyfriend girlfriend thing and I'm not sure wether I want that or not either. I'd love...
    Passionfruit3 Passionfruit3 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 4, 2009

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    I Gave Mine Away

    To the first girl that would take it. 
    loopnscc loopnscc 46-50, M 4 Responses May 1, 2009

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    The Right Moment

    Just waiting for the right moment! Hopefully Jan 1 2010. Keep your fingers crossed for me!  
    KatieJane KatieJane 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 8, 2009

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    It Was Taken.........

    Rudely & without my consent. But apparently it doesn't mean that much anyway. So, why mourn..... Right?
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 1, 2009

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    I Am Just So Curious

    Well to be completely honest im just a 14 year old girl. Im curious just any other teenager can be. You see I have this boyfriend we've been talking since the summer of 2012. I actually love this guy. Every time we kiss is like an electric shock, I drown in his kisses his tongue...
    IIXIXXIII19 IIXIXXIII19 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 17, 2013

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    ....

    i just cant remember where i put the damn thing.... 
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 6 Responses May 1, 2009

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    I am so tired I all these teenager

    even the ones in my family complaining because they are still virgins. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin. I am 23 and I have not had sex and I am proud of that fact. Who gives a crap if you decide to wait until you want to have sex and who with. It's driving me crazy...
    Eyeofthebeholder23 Eyeofthebeholder23 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 8

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    Lost

    I never lost it, I know exactly where it went. How can you lose something you give away?
    mailmanshadow mailmanshadow 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 14, 2011

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    Mmm,,, tomorrow is part when I can't see u again , can't laugh together wiv u again , hangout or sharing or doing like crazy ppl But I promise you never lost in my mind u always...
    ElenaMegan ElenaMegan 13-15, F Jul 1

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    a42g11 a42g11 61-65, M Jul 9

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    I really don't understand why people say,"I lost my virginity.", when I fact they didn't lose it. They basically gave up their virginity to someone they did the do with. They knew...
    YagaProject YagaProject 13-15, M 13 hrs ago

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    I was raped at 14. No one found out I was raped until 3 years later when I finally spoke up about it.. It was three years of my life I know I'd never get back and the day it...
    SubmissiveSecrets SubmissiveSecrets 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I was am 14 at the moment and a few months ago I was at a stage with a girl I loved dearly and still love where we had been "talking dirty" for a while and exchanging pictures with...
    Teyh606 Teyh606 13-15, M 2 hrs ago

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    So ever since i got back from the clinic ive had no interest in life. i just lost about everything. and dont tell me i still have people because i dont have friends and i havent...
    Insomniac77 Insomniac77 16-17, M 2 hrs ago

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    I've played with girls and had oral sex but I really wanna lose my virginity. I wanna know what sex is like and how amazing it is.
    Rosco05 Rosco05 18-21, M 8 hrs ago

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    there was this guy , i first fell in love with him while i was 13 at a basketball game . i talked about to my friend for a while to , i messaged him, he was 18 then . So he told to...
    xo757 xo757 13-15, F 5 Responses Jun 26

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    Technically I lost it before even turning 18 (obviously). I had planned to wait, but there was one thought that got in the way of it: "What if I regret giving someone my virginity...
    ForgottenCelestria ForgottenCelestria 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    Hey there it was new year Eve my mum and dad were out of town, my bf parent were also out of the country I was chatting with my brother on my laptop and he was in his room. We were...
    themara226 themara226 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 28

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    I was 14 when I lost my virginity the boy was 17 I should have waited until marriage but I wanted to experience because some ppl I was around was doing it. It wasn't as painful as...
    cutelilshawty cutelilshawty 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    I liked this boy for years and he finally started talking to me! I was over the moon he told me he wanted to be with me one day and told me loads of other cute things that made me...
    khloee123 khloee123 13-15, F Jul 5

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    I once met someone, I fell in love with this someone. We were fighting to be together off and on for about three and a half years. At the end, I told him I was done, that I didn't...
    saatansnipples saatansnipples 22-25, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    When I was 16 years old I had my first boyfriend who I typically thought then was my love i'd never get over but after a long time of tears and tantrums I eventually did move on...
    shannen4 shannen4 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    I don't know if this is classified as rape or not..maybe to some but I confided in my friend cause its always in the back of my mind & she said it was. It happened right before my...
    missintriguing missintriguing 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 9

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    She still doesn't care. Nor does he. I don't know why I spend so many tears of sorrow on them. I just can't seem to stop. No matter how hard I try to push away the memories, they...
    bornand4gotten bornand4gotten 18-21, F 1 Response 49 mins ago

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    Hey! I uhh, lost my virginity at the age of 10.. my cousin forced me. :( Somehow I managed to keep it a secret to my mom not until she read my diary. That was hell, I tell you! But...
    mrmshkh mrmshkh 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    I lost my virginity to rape. I was 9. My father raped me repeatedly, almost every day. It was horrible. I am currently 14, it was around 5 years ago. He died due to drug use and...
    thefaultinmylife thefaultinmylife 13-15, F 6 Responses Jul 3

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    I lost my virginity when i was 18 to my first boyfriend, we only had sex once. He was quite big which made it uncomfy, add to that his lack of patience and it was not really the...
    GothLife GothLife 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    I lost my virginity at age 12. I was not raped, I could've said no, but I didn't. He was 14, and he sorta pushed it on me. At first he just wanted me to give him head. I refused. I...
    WhatIsLifeWithoutPizza WhatIsLifeWithoutPizza 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I lost my virginity to rape when I was 19. I was on break at work when he pushed me against the wall. I told him no several times but he still untucked my work shirt and slammed...
    Daddysdirtyslave Daddysdirtyslave 18-21, F 11 Responses 4 days ago

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    When i was 14 (8th grade) I lost my virginity. It was with my brothers friend (Ryan). Ryan would always come over to my house because he was my brothers best friend. (Him and my...
    apr01 apr01 22-25, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I lost my virginity to rape when I was 14. My sister left me alone with her drug dealer and he got me high so that when i tried to tell someone.. He would just say that I didn't...
    KatIsCrazy KatIsCrazy 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I lost my virginty when I was 15 to a guy I had been seeing for about 3 days. By the third date he asked if we could have sex. I was shocked that he wanted sex so early in the...
    RubyTuesday413 RubyTuesday413 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 5

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    When I was 14...well 3 months before I became a Christian actually I lost my virginity...I am not proud of it and actually quite ashamed...but God will and has forgiven me:D
    FriendlyCanadian321 FriendlyCanadian321 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    i know people think im to young and stuff.. but seriously think about it how many teens have lost there virginity in your life time . its not like im planning to lose it or im...
    crazyvibe crazyvibe 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    When I was 9 the head librarian at my school pulled me in his office... Told me I'd been sneaking books out and that I was in trouble... When I said I hadn't done anything wrong he...
    xkayleex xkayleex 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 24

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    If I was to write every single detail, I'd probably be typing all night. Plus I am too lazy :P But well me name is Emily, I'm 17 years old. I was raped when I was 12 by a...
    Emily97x Emily97x 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 9

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    Its haunted me for years and partly the reason why I can't share an intimate relationship. Everyone has fond memories of their first bf. Not me. I dread him and might panic seeing...
    Anthromorphic Anthromorphic 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    I don't regret it. I lost it to the only man who has treated me with respect. We are still together. I lost it on the floor of my basement while my whole family was upstairs.
    xXDARKFOWERXx xXDARKFOWERXx 13-15, F 5 Responses Jun 29

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    This is the first time in my life I will ever be sharing my story. It all started when I was 13. My parents were on meth from when I was 6 months old till I was 13. So yes at time...
    Keishahamilton Keishahamilton 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 30

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    I have't ever just told the story :/ it never seemed to click in my mind so much. A weird thing to say I know but after eight years of being molested and abused just seemed well...
    TearsBecomeSnow TearsBecomeSnow 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    My first ever sexual experience happened right after my 13th birthday when I was gangraped by my sister's boyfriend and three other men I had never seen before, but would see again...
    thegirlnobodyknows thegirlnobodyknows 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 12

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    It was quite a shocker. The audacity that my so-called ex had. I remember it vaguely, but he convinced me to get drunk (via text) a few days prior to when it happened. My...
    xpetiteetoilex xpetiteetoilex 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 24

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    I lost my virginty at age 13 I had I really nice boyfriend and we were dating for a year and a half. I thought it was the right time for it. So I told him and he agreed with me so...
    LetsLiveItOut LetsLiveItOut 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 2

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