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I Never Lost My Virginity

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    Really... It Was Never "Lost"

     My Love and I talked about this the other night... about "losing" one's virginity.  I mean, like, what does that mean?   How does one go about "losing" one's virginity?  Is this a case of carelessness?  Forgetfulness?  ...
    SaratogaGirl SaratogaGirl 26-30, F 30 Responses May 1, 2009

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    I Gave Mine Away

    To the first girl that would take it. 
    loopnscc loopnscc 46-50, M 4 Responses May 1, 2009

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    I am so tired I all these teenager

    even the ones in my family complaining because they are still virgins. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin. I am 23 and I have not had sex and I am proud of that fact. Who gives a crap if you decide to wait until you want to have sex and who with. It's driving me crazy...
    Eyeofthebeholder23 Eyeofthebeholder23 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 8

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    I Guess That's One More

    I'm 16 I don't want to be like every other girl and lose it to some highschool jerk. I don't even like anybody  except my friends. I'm still thinking about this whole boyfriend girlfriend thing and I'm not sure wether I want that or not either. I'd love...
    Passionfruit3 Passionfruit3 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 4, 2009

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    Thankfully

    My virginity was never lost or stolen, it was given away. I gave it to a man that I love and I couldn't have been happier to have done so.  The experience was how it was suppose to be and how everyone deserves it to be. He was gentle and kind and made sure not to do...
    brwneyedbeauty brwneyedbeauty 18-21, F 9 Responses Jul 9, 2009

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    The Right Moment

    Just waiting for the right moment! Hopefully Jan 1 2010. Keep your fingers crossed for me!  
    KatieJane KatieJane 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 8, 2009

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    I Am Just So Curious

    Well to be completely honest im just a 14 year old girl. Im curious just any other teenager can be. You see I have this boyfriend we've been talking since the summer of 2012. I actually love this guy. Every time we kiss is like an electric shock, I drown in his kisses his tongue...
    IIXIXXIII19 IIXIXXIII19 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 17, 2013

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    ....

    i just cant remember where i put the damn thing.... 
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 7 Responses May 1, 2009

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    Prize For Him

    i don't want to 'til i get married.   well, it's a great prize for my husband.. ^^,
    dazzlingeyes dazzlingeyes 18-21, F 11 Responses Apr 30, 2010

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    I Want To Save It For A Woman Who Would Save It For Me.

    I want a wife who is a Virgin, and I believe that in the interest of fairness, I should save it, too. I had a girl tell me that she would DEFINITELY be the one who was going to marry me and that it would be okay if we got together but, I am glad that I didn't fall for it...
    soabdelj soabdelj 18-21, M 15 Responses May 31, 2010

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    Nooope.

    Still waiting for that one special person... if he or she still exists. I guess I'm not conservative enough to wait for marriage but if I was in a relationship with someone, it would have to be at least a year before I start having sex with them.
    lntel lntel 18-21 Jun 4, 2012

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    It Was Taken.........

    Rudely & without my consent. But apparently it doesn't mean that much anyway. So, why mourn..... Right?
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 1, 2009

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    Lost

    I never lost it, I know exactly where it went. How can you lose something you give away?
    mailmanshadow mailmanshadow 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 14, 2011

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    OneHowlToTheMoon OneHowlToTheMoon 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 2

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    I was 19 years old when i lost virginity to a guy of 20 year old.. It was the most romantic thing that has ever happened to me. Considering where i come from pre-marital sex is...
    raoapoo raoapoo 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 28

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    Im breaking down. There's only so much **** a person can take before they either go crazy, not give a ****, or just lose faith. Well sometimes I feel like I'm going a little crazy...
    Jess7787 Jess7787 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    Im 14 and the guy i lost my virginity to is 16. I'm going to be a freshman in high school and he's a junior. We knew each other for about a month through a mutual friend who got us...
    abzry abzry 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Ew ew I know. Okay here's the story. I lost my virginity. I just lost my virginity like 4 hours ago to my boyfriend. He is 14 and I'm 13. Ignore the title^ We thought about it...
    Azndiamond1234 Azndiamond1234 13-15, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Actually at 13 but idk how to make my own experience so im posting on here. Anyways. I lost my virginity at a party to a guy who was 17 named Dalton. We couldnt do it in the house...
    newaccountquinnmac newaccountquinnmac 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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    I lost my virginity to rape when I was 14. My sister left me alone with her drug dealer and he got me high so that when i tried to tell someone.. He would just say that I didn't...
    KatIsCrazy KatIsCrazy 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 21

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    I really don't understand why people say,"I lost my virginity.", when I fact they didn't lose it. They basically gave up their virginity to someone they did the do with. They knew...
    YagaProject YagaProject 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 22

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    Reading everyone else's experiences.... It makes me feel so young. I lost my virginity at 10. To a 14 year old. He was my friend's brother. I was really close with him and we...
    DarkSoulInsaneHeart DarkSoulInsaneHeart 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 23

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    I just lost my virginity to my boyfriend who I've been with for two years. We used protection, nothing went wrong. But why do I feel so guilty all the time now? I wanted to wait...
    huntersmiles14 huntersmiles14 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    I'm a ****. I'm a *****. I lost my virginity in a bedroom while my parents were next door watching the hunger games. I was 13. I don't really regret it and I've gone on to do a lot...
    anon1100110 anon1100110 13-15, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I'm a good person, I help every one I can and would never hurt a fly. I was a good student and a amazing friend but life just never dealt me very nice cards. I was barely 14 when I...
    abusedandused abusedandused 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 9

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    Two months of being mislead. Two years of denial. Two more years of not letting go. Two sides of this story, and I'm dying to know his. But since I can't have that, and I probably...
    FixatedDreamer FixatedDreamer 16-17, T 1 Response Aug 10

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    I lost my virginity a few days ago, but felt nothing but pain. I don't know if my body went into shock or something, but all I could feel was him inside me. I was ready, and I...
    Littlepurplecloud Littlepurplecloud 13-15 5 Responses Jul 26

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    Well um it happend last year when i was 14. I am now 15. I was leaving a friend's house around 11, and at the time i didnt think it was a big deal since we lived close to eachother...
    Kylieblazinit Kylieblazinit 16-17, F 6 Responses Jul 29

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    A lot of the paper employed is printed especially for her in South Korea, In particular the paper with patterns designed by herself. In the subsequent step she applies thin and...
    Anthony825d5cr0 Anthony825d5cr0 31-35, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I waited through my teenage years to lose my virginity, it was something very special and precious to me, I didn't want some random guy to take it. it took me three useless...
    Dreamprojector Dreamprojector 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    I was raped at 14. No one found out I was raped until 3 years later when I finally spoke up about it.. It was three years of my life I know I'd never get back and the day it...
    SubmissiveSecrets SubmissiveSecrets 18-21, F 16 Responses Jul 22

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    I rather prefer to be with a guy that has no STD's, STI's or HIV/AIDS. Believe it or not people do lie about their sexual health just to sleep with you. I always ask if there is...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F Jul 28

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    Dalton. If I had have known he would tell the story on tv of how we lost it I would have never gone near him. The show is watched by like every teenager in Ontario since its MTV...
    newaccountquinnmac newaccountquinnmac 13-15, F 13 Responses Aug 2

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    I was 14 and he was 23 years old. He was working at a cyber where I used to go with friends to play and spend some afernoons together. We became friends fast and he invited me to...
    Ourbad1 Ourbad1 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 5

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    Here I am again writing another experience on this site. I guess people really understand here and I've never seen a bad comment towards anything I have posted. Thanks so much if...
    hopeandsoul hopeandsoul 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 9

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    I was always afraid, and I wanted to wait till marriage, but it didn't happen. :/ I lost it at 18 to an ex. That was 2 years ago, and he wants me back. :/
    JennBaby94 JennBaby94 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    I almost lost my virginity just now. It was awesome, but I don't think I was to **** her, btw I'm 16 and she was 18
    DildoFaggons DildoFaggons 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 29

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    I lost my virginity and got pregnant my on my first time sucks right... After that I had a miscarriage I can't stop thinking it's my fault
    scenekid59 scenekid59 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    8 inch ****, thick skinny white male experienced will be as gentle or rough as you want will take your virginity, *** virginity too if you want
    8InchesToStretchYou 8InchesToStretchYou 26-30, M Jul 23

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    I also waited to loose with the right girl ....she lost it to other dudes but I don't care
    Phalguni9 Phalguni9 22-25, M Jul 20

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    I was am 14 at the moment and a few months ago I was at a stage with a girl I loved dearly and still love where we had been "talking dirty" for a while and exchanging pictures with...
    Teyh606 Teyh606 13-15, M Jul 22

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    My virginity. Nah just kidding still waiting
    emotionalyana emotionalyana 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I've played with girls and had oral sex but I really wanna lose my virginity. I wanna know what sex is like and how amazing it is.
    Rosco05 Rosco05 18-21, M Jul 22

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    I am 18 and tired of waiting! Lately I have just been thinking about losing my virginity. I can't find the right girl. I know I am not the most attractive guy. Just want to lose it...
    justdeath96 justdeath96 18-21, M Jul 24

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    I'm 14 right now... I was just wondering if anyone here in the area in Enfield (Female) would maybe want to lose our virginity to each other. Maybe we could be "friends with...
    Alridge Alridge 31-35, M 3 Responses Jul 30

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    How does it feel to lose your virginity?
    Randomchick3 Randomchick3 16-17, F 7 Responses Aug 3

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    I want to loose my virginity w a guy. I've been with girls but I still have this big urge to be w a man. I need to figure out my sexuality. Preferably w an older man. :p
    RecklessXO96 RecklessXO96 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I'm a 19 year old guy and the only thing on my mind is sex.. is there any nearby woman that could help me solve this by taking my virginity??
    Alanh19 Alanh19 18-21, M 15 hrs ago

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