I Never Lost My Virginity

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 183 People

    Sex just never really appealed to me.

    Not to say that I've never experienced sexual attraction before because I have, just not strongly enough to go through with it. Is that weird?
    SqueezeTheLemon SqueezeTheLemon
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 9

    People tell me all the time I am too beautiful

    to be a virgin... lol I know what they want lol...
    ThankYouSoldiers ThankYouSoldiers
    22-25, F
    Jan 19, 2015

    just a little background I am 26

    and a big guy OK let's just call it like it is I am fat and my only real attributes are that I am a hard working man with a good job I am an emergency medical technician advanced level and a farmer and small business owner having been a big guy my entire life I never had the...
    centralff centralff
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Nov 29, 2014

    ....

    i just cant remember where i put the damn thing.... 
    Tesse Tesse
    18-21, F
    6 Responses May 1, 2009

    I Gave Mine Away

    To the first girl that would take it. 
    loopnscc loopnscc
    46-50, M
    4 Responses May 1, 2009

    I'm 25 and I'm a virgin.

    I choose to wait until marriage mostly because all of the guys that have ever "liked" me or at least pretended to, just wanted sex and when they realized they weren't gonna get that they would run. I've never been in a committed, serious relationship and most people that I tell...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 13, 2015

    It Was Taken.........

    Rudely & without my consent. But apparently it doesn't mean that much anyway. So, why mourn..... Right?
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses May 1, 2009

    The Right Moment

    Just waiting for the right moment! Hopefully Jan 1 2010. Keep your fingers crossed for me!  
    KatieJane KatieJane
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jul 8, 2009

    for me its very difficult to fall in love.

    so to be able to be with someone just seem kind of impossible at the moment. i treat people with respect so i dont force myself on someone. and to me sex doesnt equate love theres other ways to love. most people go into relationship and have sex then the relationship quickly...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 12, 2015

      My name is Bob.

    I am 45 and i'm sad. There is a reason for it and once i tell you, i'm guessing you will either laugh at me or feel pity for me. I have held this in too long. I cant hold it any more, it's making my depression and anxieties worse and the older i get the more i just want to d...
    zerobitRaD zerobitRaD
    41-45, M
    Aug 29, 2015

    After reading some of the posts on here I'm

    realizing this is probably going to sound weird, not the "I Never Lost My Virginity" part...but the part about me being 45. Part of the reason I think, has to do with my low self worth, low self esteem, feeling unworthy of a woman, which I'm petty sure starts with my being fat...
    zerobitRaD zerobitRaD
    41-45, M
    Jul 23, 2015

    Lost

    I never lost it, I know exactly where it went. How can you lose something you give away?
    mailmanshadow mailmanshadow
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Sep 14, 2011

    I Am Just So Curious

    Well to be completely honest im just a 14 year old girl. Im curious just any other teenager can be. You see I have this boyfriend we've been talking since the summer of 2012. I actually love this guy. Every time we kiss is like an electric shock, I drown in his kisses his tongue...
    IIXIXXIII19 IIXIXXIII19
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Mar 17, 2013

    Prize For Him

    i don't want to 'til i get married.   well, it's a great prize for my husband.. ^^,
    dazzlingeyes dazzlingeyes
    18-21, F
    11 Responses Apr 30, 2010

    I told her i aint never did this

    before , no I told her i aint never did this before , no I told her i aint never did this before , no I told her i aint never did this before , nooo
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jul 15, 2015

    I Want To Save It For A Woman Who Would Save It For Me.

    I want a wife who is a Virgin, and I believe that in the interest of fairness, I should save it, too. I had a girl tell me that she would DEFINITELY be the one who was going to marry me and that it would be okay if we got together but, I am glad that I didn't fall for it...
    soabdelj soabdelj
    18-21, M
    15 Responses May 31, 2010

    I am so tired I all these teenager

    even the ones in my family complaining because they are still virgins. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin. I am 23 and I have not had sex and I am proud of that fact. Who gives a crap if you decide to wait until you want to have sex and who with. It's driving me crazy...
    Eyeofthebeholder23 Eyeofthebeholder23
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Feb 8, 2014
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 30, 2015

    Thankfully

    My virginity was never lost or stolen, it was given away. I gave it to a man that I love and I couldn't have been happier to have done so.  The experience was how it was suppose to be and how everyone deserves it to be. He was gentle and kind and made sure not to do...
    brwneyedbeauty brwneyedbeauty
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Jul 9, 2009

    Really... It Was Never "Lost"

     My Love and I talked about this the other night... about "losing" one's virginity.  I mean, like, what does that mean?   How does one go about "losing" one's virginity?  Is this a case of carelessness?  Forgetfulness?  ...
    SaratogaGirl SaratogaGirl
    26-30, F
    32 Responses May 1, 2009

    I Guess That's One More

    I'm 16 I don't want to be like every other girl and lose it to some highschool jerk. I don't even like anybody  except my friends. I'm still thinking about this whole boyfriend girlfriend thing and I'm not sure wether I want that or not either. I'd love...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Sep 4, 2009

    Nooope.

    Still waiting for that one special person... if he or she still exists. I guess I'm not conservative enough to wait for marriage but if I was in a relationship with someone, it would have to be at least a year before I start having sex with them.
    lntel lntel
    22-25
    Jun 4, 2012

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    The thought of losing my virginity, while at the same time creating a baby turns me on.
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    deleted deleted
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    sportsE31 sportsE31
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