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I Never Loved My Husband

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    Didn't Want to Be Alone For the Rest of My Life.

    At the time I didn't want to spend the rest of my life alone so when he threw the ring box at me and said "You  know what it is,  let me know".....  I guess I  just thought that this was it for me and I had better grab the brass ring with both...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 7, 2007

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    I Married My Husband With My Brain Not My Heart Now I Want To Leave

    He has a son who calls me mommy. We have been married for a year and a half. I have grown to love him but I don't feel that connection that says I'm in live with him. He told me lies to get me to marry him and I did after only one month of dating( yes I know not very smart) but...
    jessmess30 jessmess30 26-30 1 Response Apr 10, 2012

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    Scared to Divorce.

    I have been married 18 years and 4 children .  I knew the day I returned from my honeymoon, I had made I terrible mistake.  For multiple reasons I have stayed and now wonder if its too late to leave.  My husband is a good man, loves me  and his children. ...
    wantinganswers wantinganswers 41-45 5 Responses Jul 15, 2009

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    Never Loved Him

    I come from a Pakistani, Muslim family. I was born and raised in the US. I am 27 years old, with 2 kids. I was forced in a marriage at the age of 17. Everyone that would hear this story would say, "you can't be forced in America". Well my parents always...
    the3Ls the3Ls 26-30 3 Responses Dec 19, 2008

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    loved you more than you deserve,now you mean nothing to me cuz I knew you never loved me, its too late for me to know about you but not too late to start a new life,i dont need a...
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    May be I was dumb to take your anormal behavior as love towards me.. I just love the way you are.. when you look back one day You will see me waiting for your company.. I'll never...
    alekya99 alekya99 16-17, F a week ago

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    You cannot love someone unless you love yourself. BULLSHIT I have never loved myself, But U, oh God, I loved U so much, I almost forgot hating myself.
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    When I was 15 I fell in love with an older woman. She was my first true love but she never loved me back, she was married and had kids.... I'm still not 100% over it and I'm now 23...
    DaVirgo DaVirgo 22-25, F 3 Responses May 6

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    Loving someone that dosnt love you is just heartache,your hoping for any glimpse of affection even a X after a text.i had an affiar with mine for 2 years.now over not seen him for...
    Pommy8 Pommy8 51-55, F 2 Responses May 12

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    I had a crush on this guy and had the bright idea to ask him out so I did and he said yes. But later after we broke up my friend told me he never loved me and just said yes because...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    1) I think your best friend or sister looks better than you do. 2) You are fat. Or that dress looks horrible on you. 3) I think you are worthless. 4) You are nothing more...
    zonus zonus 31-35, M 4 Responses May 6

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    My name is Christina and I really do wish that I could find someone that would love me and care about me for who I am and want to listen to me when I need the caring for. I have...
    PinkyChristina PinkyChristina 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    This is simple; my history from a young age was not good. Lots of circles going back to that. My husband found me....literally. Against more odds then can be imagined. He loved me...
    happycampersfanNfran happycampersfanNfran 41-45, F 6 days ago

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    I'm a "good girl," per say, but there's nothing but troublesome guys around these parts. My mom wonders why I fall for guys that are no good for me, it's because outside of the bad...
    jellolia jellolia 16-17, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I really do not get why people treat me the way they do. My kids tell me to **** off when I say I love you, and attack me and call me pervert when I try to give them a hug. My wife...
    EpilepticOne EpilepticOne 31-35, M 1 Response May 2

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    My husband has been someone that I have completely killed myself to please. He is a complete ball of insecurities and for the past 5 years always try's to catch me in a lie that...
    Wishful2388 Wishful2388 26-30, F 4 Responses May 10

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    i would not want it any other way!!! i recently found this on-line a few years ago. It is a great list of ideas on ways to submit to your Husabnd. i found this list giving me new...
    goodgirl456 goodgirl456 31-35, F 5 Responses May 7

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    I've posted here before about how abusive my husband is to me. I'm planning on leaving him this summer because my parents are coming down and by that time I'll save up some more...
    Faith89 Faith89 22-25, F 2 Responses May 14

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    Not recently, but it was more than once. All it really was was empty "revenge" for the things he did. For a long time, our relationship was pretty messed up - we never seemed to be...
    IzzzyD IzzzyD 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    So... (1st post!) my husband... I love him but he's so damn annoying it's scary.i often wonder if I made a mistake in marrying him and that we should just live separately and have...
    Kdm0809 Kdm0809 26-30, F 1 Response May 3

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    After almost 10 years together and 50+ pounds on my end, my husband still finds me sexy. In fact he's more attracted to me now than he was when we met. I never have to feel...
    Chestyx Chestyx 31-35, F 7 Responses May 15

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    I'm so TIRED of being brought down. My mom has this knack with words and she's been using it against me a lot lately. I suppose it doesn't help my grandma told me my mom doesn't...
    MyNameMeansLight MyNameMeansLight 16-17, F 1 Response May 4

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    Kenned Kenned 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    I have never felt reciprocated love. I don't mean like the friends and family package deal that everybody gets, I mean romantically. It's not from a lack of trying, but as I look...
    monkey0506 monkey0506 26-30, M 1 Response May 9

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    I find that my situation is different than many I've read here and also very much the same. Some of these posts actually make me think "I don't have it so bad", but the bottom line...
    iwant2bhappyagain iwant2bhappyagain 56-60, F May 9

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    KierstenJ671 KierstenJ671 22-25, F 4 Responses May 10

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    WHAT IS LOVE? May I share this with you? Most people are searching these days. They don't realize how much God loves them. He loves you very much. No matter who you are, no matter...
    ArtLover01 ArtLover01 66-70, F 1 Response May 2

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    When I was married I loved my husband with every fiber of my being. He didn't love me.. But time heals all wounds. To an extent.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 4

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    I don't think there is a word that can sum up how much I hate my husband. I hate him I hate him I hate him. We have been together for 9 years and 3 children. For as long as I can...
    Ava237 Ava237 26-30 3 Responses May 15

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    I am not sure who you are, but I don't like you very much. You replaced a very funny, caring and loving man. I loved him with all my heart and he loved me back. I really want...
    meedakin meedakin 41-45, F May 15

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    I've been married for 6 yrs with 2 kids aged 3 and 5. Recently i realised that i have lost my feeling for my husband during this marriage. We talked and pointed where is our...
    snowvix snowvix 31-35, F 7 Responses May 18

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    I have been married 9 months and I loved him so much. I feel he is a different man. He is convinced I cheat on him and as soon as I fall asleep he explores threw my phone looking...
    loulou96 loulou96 26-30, F 2 Responses May 19

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    pink26 pink26 41-45, F May 18

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    Mdesires Mdesires 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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