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I Never Loved My Husband

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    I Married My Husband With My Brain Not My Heart Now I Want To Leave

    He has a son who calls me mommy. We have been married for a year and a half. I have grown to love him but I don't feel that connection that says I'm in live with him. He told me lies to get me to marry him and I did after only one month of dating( yes I know not very smart) but...
    jessmess30 jessmess30 26-30 1 Response Apr 10, 2012

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    Scared to Divorce.

    I have been married 18 years and 4 children .  I knew the day I returned from my honeymoon, I had made I terrible mistake.  For multiple reasons I have stayed and now wonder if its too late to leave.  My husband is a good man, loves me  and his children. ...
    wantinganswers wantinganswers 41-45 5 Responses Jul 15, 2009

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    Didn't Want to Be Alone For the Rest of My Life.

    At the time I didn't want to spend the rest of my life alone so when he threw the ring box at me and said "You  know what it is,  let me know".....  I guess I  just thought that this was it for me and I had better grab the brass ring with both...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 7, 2007

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    Never Loved Him

    I come from a Pakistani, Muslim family. I was born and raised in the US. I am 27 years old, with 2 kids. I was forced in a marriage at the age of 17. Everyone that would hear this story would say, "you can't be forced in America". Well my parents always...
    the3Ls the3Ls 26-30 2 Responses Dec 19, 2008

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    Spiritualhope Spiritualhope 36-40, F 6 days ago

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    Call it womens intuition but lately i feel that my husband is cheating on me. He's super close to this bunch of girls at work and he might be cheating on me with one of them. I...
    mmmela mmmela 26-30, F 12 hrs ago

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    (when my hubby impregnated the daughter of our neighbor, my world collapsed) Betrayal is very hard to handle in the beginning especially if you think that the last person who will...
    lemongrass09 lemongrass09 46-50, F 10 Responses Jun 28

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    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Lin53207 Lin53207 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    meowshelbs meowshelbs 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    sunshineonarainyday sunshineonarainyday 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    mery81 mery81 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    Catnipp Catnipp 46-50, F 20 hrs ago

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    Tina303 Tina303 41-45, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago