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I Never Married

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    I Feel Like It's Too Late

    i lost my virginity at 32. i have no real dating experience. i am not the man i want to raise my children. both sides of my family should have been full of divorces if the Church had allowed them at the time... but all the men on both sides of my family deserved to get divorced...
    astounded1088 astounded1088 31-35, M Mar 9, 2012

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    Have Always Been a Single Mum.

    I love to love but when it came to living with a man it was never something I was good at. As a surviver of child abuse and having two daughters I just could not feel right at home with a guy, so I never married. I worked all the dead end jobs, and worked alot of them...
    logisticmosquito logisticmosquito 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 5, 2007

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    Unhitched

    The only time I'd ever considered marriage was one day when my eldest daughter told me that she would have been happier if her parents had been married.  Some guilt, some wanting to lecture her about marriage being an outdated and pointless institution, some wondering.  I think...
    CrookedMan CrookedMan 46-50 May 26, 2011

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    Never Had a Chance

    She had my baby when we were both 16. Right away she saw "the kid" as a burden on her lifestyle. After all, cheerleading practice and hanging at the mall were much more important than her own son, weren't they? Shallow *****. The only thing I ever saw in her was how she...
    percypercy percypercy 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 27, 2008

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    Another Form Of Difference?

    I'm 44 and unmarried. Other people find it unbelievable.that I've never been married, not even one time. I used to blame my parents for this-they're from the '50's-another time, era. But now I know that it's from my time and way of doing things. The truth being that I don't...
    mistressmonique mistressmonique 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 11, 2012

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    Me Too

    i lived with someone for 12 yrs but we never got married. but i did calll him my husband.
    Smiley7 Smiley7 26-30 2 Responses Apr 28, 2008

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    I Never Married

    I never Married anyone and I'm 61. I told someone on Ep this and she said don't say that. I guess she expected me to lie. Or else she don't believe me. I didn't add her to my circle because of that. I am looking for Miss Right but if I don't find her that's okay. I'd...
    aquarius3 aquarius3 61-65 1 Response Nov 24, 2011

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    Not Married

    I'm turning 29 years old. Some people might argue that is still too young to be put into the 'never married' category but it really doesn't seem to be going well. I was engaged at the age of 22 to the first boyfriend I had (since 16). He was wrong for me in nearly every...
    stories4234 stories4234 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 29, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    Hi I find folks who say they are ' single ' and are divorced or even widowed. Where I come from single means one thing: never married. A person says they're single and divorced...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 Response Jul 13

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    Internet is full of stories of people falling in love with someone else while married to their husband or wife's. Most of the stories proclaim that their husbands or wives were...
    arwhap13 arwhap13 31-35, M 7 hrs ago

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    I met my wife through a Christian dating service called "Equally Yoked." I wanted to meet someone who had the same beliefs and values as I did. She and I hit it off from the first...
    ludix ludix 41-45, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I have been married 20 years in August 2014 ! I met my husband back in 1994 on a blind date . On my first date with him I looked at him and just new this was the guy for me to...
    Nature1968 Nature1968 41-45, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    The most important to anyone. It makes me so sad inside because I'm married. I thought after I got married that this feeling would go away. That he would put me on a pedestal...
    3care 3care 22-25, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    He likes his video games and I guess sometimes I am glad he does. I moved in with my boyfriend 2 yrs ago, just as he got custody of his son. Ps, he didn't tell me this until after...
    Tanalic Tanalic 41-45, F 10 hrs ago

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    My husband never loved me. He always listen to his sister, he always obey his sister, his sister wants us to separate. His sister said were not a family coz we dont have kids. He...
    yodatheching yodatheching 22-25, F 4 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Hey there all. Just to start off i need sincere advise . I am a 20 year old female who is seeing a married man who is in his early 40s yes as bad as it may sound the issue is...
    rainafff rainafff 18-21, F 3 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I am a married male,35 years and last 10 years been seeking male encounters
    daveau daveau 61-65, M 5 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I cheated on my boyfriend of three years with a married man. I don't regret it even though I should and here is why. I believe that people should never regret anything they said or...
    noregrets0914 noregrets0914 18-21, F Jul 3

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    This is a long story so please bear with me if you can. I met a man back in 2008 through his sister who was a good friend of mine at the time. I knew he was married from the start...
    plmagnet29 plmagnet29 36-40, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    If you are married and try to flirt with me or whatever that is inappropriate keep it moving. I will not talk to a married man that made a sacred vowel before God, I feel like its...
    bootsie85 bootsie85 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I've been with my bf for 6.5 years now and we recently watched a documentary where this guy who filmed all these weddings goes back to the people years and years later and...
    danielle1423 danielle1423 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    August of 2014, will be 16 months since he walked out the door. Never leaving me with our boys to raise alone. Some ppl think I'm crazy for saying this, but I'm actually glad he...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 7 Responses Jul 12

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    This is not infatuation, I've been infatuated before and this is completely different...I've been married 3 and 1/2 years and I love my husband though we have a rocky marriage...
    galaxyrea galaxyrea 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 1

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    Looking back at my life, I'm very surprised I never made the "mistake" of getting married and/or having kids too early on in life. I call it a mistake because, for me, it would...
    TrailrunnerMN TrailrunnerMN 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 2

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    On 17th of April I met a guy on the street I was driving my car with my cousin and he was in his car beside me on the traffic stop sign , he asked me to stop and we started...
    sisikuci sisikuci 26-30, F Jul 11

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    It's so nice to see an old married couple still being in love with each-other. It's so sweet how they smile at each-other while they look into their eyes, as if knowing exactly...
    Eimana Eimana 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Three years ago I caught my husband texting younger women that he worked with. He said he sent some inappropriate text messages but never had a physical affair. He tried to...
    kelly121994 kelly121994 41-45, F 11 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm married for 11 years and have 2 beautiful young children. My husband and I have grown apart. after a long career, I became a stay at home mom at least until my youngest is in...
    Llynne12 Llynne12 41-45, F Jul 1

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    i love a guy.. i'm loving him since 5 years.. n he love me too.. but i behaved in such a way that he never knew that i love him.. after 5 long years i decided to confess.. since he...
    9lilly 9lilly 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am 24. I've been married to my husband for just over 2 years. We have no children. We met in college, dated for only 6 months before getting engaged, and were married almost 2...
    swimcoachpro swimcoachpro 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 1

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    Before married him, I accepted that he was likely to get bigger. I admitted to myself, and then to others (especially his mom) that I was not responsible for his weight and I never...
    biali biali 31-35 Jul 2

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    I have been divorced for a little over a year from a man who had a destructive personality disorder and who had had an affair...and recently got the courage to start putting myself...
    hometowngirl211 hometowngirl211 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 15

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    I met him almost 18 months ago, it was lightening.. incredible chemistry immediately. I had never experienced anything like it in my life... I remember the day, I remember...
    Scorpionchild Scorpionchild 46-50, F 6 days ago

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    About 18 years ago, I met an amazing guy. We really connected & had amazing chemistry. At the time he had a set 3 mo old twin boys & I discovered that I was pregnant by my ex. So...
    Angeeb Angeeb 41-45, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I never really thought about marriage these past years. I never thought I wouldn't be excited to get married. I never knew I was afraid of commitment. But when your mother bought...
    takaw takaw 22-25, F Jul 20

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    2nd marriage. I am a REAL christian. I am alone in my marriage. Always being rejected. It has been almost 6 years. I tried to commit suicide 2 months ago. I took 50+ percocet. I...
    winterbutterfly winterbutterfly 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I've never been in an official relationship. I tend to push people away if they're interested, because I don't trust them - and normally they prove that I can't trust them because...
    SummerSoldier SummerSoldier 22-25 16 hrs ago

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    The only time I ever bumped lips with someone, which in my opinion doesn't count as kissing, was when I was 12 for a dare and I didn't even feel it (thankfully). I don't really...
    Sasha0827 Sasha0827 16-17, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I was raised a Jehovahs Witness. That proved be a hardship in my life when it came to accepting who i was as a person. From a very young age, I new I was gay. I used to get the...
    akg27 akg27 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    Before I start, this is going to be long. You have to know the beginning before you can understand the end. KARMA is a big word here so pls keep that in mind while reading...
    arwhap13 arwhap13 31-35, M Jul 17

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    I've been married for a few years now and have a wonderful husband. He's a good guy, has never mistreated me, my family loves him, and together we're the poster family for our...
    JaySurge JaySurge 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    Single mom age 43. Like some people I've had bad relationships. Only those found true love in the end which I didn't. I never understood why but now I do. I'm too cautious. Too...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F 4 days ago

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    Long story short, I'm inlove with a married man, who's 32. I'm 17 btw, he has a daughter who's one, his wife is due with their second child in a few months, and me and this man...
    Princessjaa Princessjaa 16-17, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am not married, however I view my partnership with as much weight as a typical marriage and resources on the topic are limited, so here I am. While I at least have the benefit...
    opheliasodyssey opheliasodyssey 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 7

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    I'm married - for too many years - but don't want to grow old alone. Not the best reason to stay in a marriage, I know. He is a nice man and I do wish I could love him the way he...
    RestlessMe1957 RestlessMe1957 56-60, F 8 Responses Jul 7

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    I'm turning 22 next week, and I'm yet to have my first boyfriend. I'm not sure exactly why it hasn't happened by now, although I'm beginning to develop some theories. I think that...
    mblake mblake 22-25, F 6 Responses Jul 8

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    I met this guy at a Fashion show, we never really spoke much but exchanged business cards. he later added me on skype and we'd converse daily ever since. When we had our first date...
    mwichkins mwichkins 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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