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I Never Met My Father

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    I will be 35 this year,

    he has never bothered to find me
    bookwormchic bookwormchic 31-35, F 1 Response May 11, 2014

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    Where's Dad

    hello out there im 17 years old.. and its been me && my mother.. no dad... well when i was little i didnt no no better.. well, when i was 10 , my mom asked me " do you want to go on a walk" && i said sure mommy" .... well again i was 10 yrs old .. && i looked up at my mother...
    megandanielle012 megandanielle012 16-17 1 Response Jun 16, 2011

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    is he worth it?

    Alright, I just turned 19 and I'm supposed to be meeting my biological father for the very first time in a few weeks. I must say I feel pretty conflicted. He never once tried to make contact with me, never a birthday card, never a phone call, never a child support payment. My mom...
    trussmm trussmm 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 9, 2012

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    Never Knew Him

    Growing up I never asked about him or was curious about who he was. Whenever everyone was making a gift for father's day i always made one for my grandpa. I never met my dad and even now im not even interested in meeting him.
    chaosXIII chaosXIII 22-25, M 2 Responses May 4, 2009

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    Who Is ......

    My father? A name...not even sure if it's his real one, that's all I know of my father. And some bits and pieces of stories of where he may have worked and what he might have looked like and what happened between he and mo mom. Most of it doesn't come from her, she doesn't care...
    isis728 isis728 26-30 1 Response Jul 17, 2009

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    I Wish..

    I was born without a father and grew up til I was about 5 without a stepdad. It was just my mom and I and I was so young it never really bothered me. My mom is great, not only my mom, but my best friend. When she met my stepdad, Carlos, I was exxxtremely unsure about the whole...
    nessa143 nessa143 18-21, F Jul 17, 2009

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    He Died 20 Yrs Ago

    I have no memories of him. My mom said he saw me a few times when I was a baby and that he chose not to be in my life. I don't buy that for one second. My mom is an evil biotch, so I have no doubt in my mind that she kept me from him. Then he died when I was 10. She told me my...
    XtremeBordelineChic XtremeBordelineChic 31-35, F Sep 18, 2013

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    From Dad

    I don't know what you've been told, but I would never purposely hurt you. I don't care how you got here, or who your mother is, you are part of me, and hurting you is hurting myself. I know we have never met, but I want to explain something to you just in case we never do. There...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 21, 2013

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    Who?...oh, Yeah. That Guy.

    i kinda have met my father. i'm even named after him. my first two years of my life. then he left, because he didn't want my mom. though my mom never told me that at first. all she said was how he always wanted a boy. i'm a girl. for a long time i hated my sexuality. i tried to...
    mizukilen mizukilen 16-17, F Jun 9, 2011

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    Abusive Foster Father, Damaged Mother, Biological Dad Drug-addict

      I’m not a star, not a hero, not a celebrity material, don’t know if I’ve got some great talent. No. But I know that I am different.   I am weird.   I wonder sometimes if it has something to do with my messed up childhood. The old classic...
    psychosocial psychosocial 18-21 Jan 25, 2009

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    Last year I was told my father of 25yrs wasn't

    my biological father! I've since done DNA to confirm and my parents some family and friends have known my whole life! This stirred up a lot of trust issues with everyone in my life as now nothing appears to be as it seems or who they appeared to be, other things have happen for...
    Flower88 Flower88 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 17, 2014

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    It is still so fresh and raw and to some degrees painful. It all started with an innocent tinder chat. I was tindering as any single busy girl with mobile would do. I'm a...
    dorothyinOZ dorothyinOZ 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    My grandpa he was in the Air Force and military I never seen him he died before I was born but I have photos of him :'( I miss him even though I never seen him
    BiXwolfsXbears BiXwolfsXbears 13-15, F Feb 11

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    I found out 2 years ago that I have an older sister. She was adopted at birth and it was a closed adoption. Sadly, I will most likely never meet her, but I hope I do one day.
    Runenox Runenox 18-21, F Feb 11

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    I was adopted by my step-dad when I was 2, and always knew him as my real dad. As I grew older, I realized that I was quite different than my younger brothers in terms of...
    rolywynne rolywynne 46-50, M Feb 12

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    I still miss you I still remember you and I wish I never knew you!
    Oceandock19 Oceandock19 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 19

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    So, EP got me I guess. :) The last thing I thought would happen was me finding someone and becoming intoxicated with them on here. Not quite sure how it happened ... but it did...
    Smile4me33 Smile4me33 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    Kyle77524 Kyle77524 16-17, M Feb 3

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    You are a human. And you deserve to live. You have feelings. And you may or may not have gone through **** in your life. But you have a story. And I'd love to hear it.
    londonbr1dge londonbr1dge 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    i have no words to thank you for caring me. coz it is something beyond words. but i m not able to talk to you even. Tc Have a nice life. i will be a good person. because you...
    noblerain noblerain 31-35 Feb 3

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    Waiting eagerly who is my destiny! Missing her a lol , don't know where is she and when will come in my life .....
    lifenoteasy lifenoteasy 26-30, M 1 Response Feb 11

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    you caused me so much pain. I would be happy if you are just dead or something painful happens to you soon! .
    unknown159231 unknown159231 18-21, F Feb 14

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    He has brought such amazing feelings back into my heart that haven't been there in a long time. But along with those great feelings have been really horrible ones. I don't know...
    irishred122 irishred122 51-55, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm 14 and I've never met my dad. You see my mum and dad had a one night stand, and my dad was already married and had a child. When my mum told him she was pregnant, he didn't...
    taneesha16 taneesha16 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    Usually I avoid sites like these, full of people who want attention and telling people things of their boring lifes and craving encouragement. Thus I want none of that, I just...
    Darcera Darcera 18-21, F Feb 1

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    When I first met you I felt like I had known you forever, telling you my secrets and what I didn't want ever. you listened to me I bet you thought I'd never end, who would...
    hawakeira hawakeira 13-15, F 10 hrs ago

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    I'm only 21 but I can't wait to be a father... but I'll wait..
    KadeemRossi KadeemRossi 18-21, M 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    in the event I have kids I want their father to always let them know how proud he is of them and how much he lives them. my dad was a good dad but I wish growing up he would have...
    myshell91 myshell91 22-25, F 9 hrs ago

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    Some people just don't understand how important a father is to a growing child, especially a boy. Growing up without a father is agonizing, whether he left you or he died before...
    BloodFanatic BloodFanatic 18-21, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Judas Priest. Desert Plains..The voice never changes..stunning
    hellzbelle1 hellzbelle1 41-45, F 8 hrs ago

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    I truly fell in love with someone I met online. And it wasn't on this site. Haha. I was actually someone who answered a Craigslist ad I posted.
    luv2wetmyself2 luv2wetmyself2 41-45, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    "Who's going to walk me down the isle? I can't have a father who abandoned me assume a position that he no longer deserves". Thoughts like this pop into my head on the daily. I was...
    adriit adriit 18-21, F Feb 9

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    I was molested by my stepfather when I was 13-14. I'm 32 now, and to this day I have never told a soul. I always faked being asleep the many many times it happened. I didn't know...
    thelonereader thelonereader 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    I was a single father, it's harder than being a single mom. I went to childcare facilities and paid more than single mothers who were paid more for work before child support than...
    TheLionGod TheLionGod 36-40, M Feb 17

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    I was never that close with my Father. I am sorry that we didn't have a closer daughter/father relationship. My father seem to be so consumed with his career that he never seem to...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F Feb 20

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    Since i'm 8, he makes my life complicated. He moves from bad to happy mood all the times, and when he's in a bad mood, i'm the one who gets all. Insults, inappropriate things, i...
    mariondlm mariondlm 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    My "real" father has never been a dad to me, so he is not in my life at all. Then my step father came into our lifes after living alone with my mother for 16 years. He has been...
    EverythingAndAnything EverythingAndAnything 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I am a Metal fan since early 2012. However it looks as if I do not get positive reactions from people, if I get reactions at all, the reactions are rather negative. The people I...
    metalheart2012 metalheart2012 51-55, M Feb 1

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    I am sure I will be a good father as I learned from my dad .I consider him best father in world .He never let me down and fulfilled my all wishes .He loves to me and my siblings...
    lifenoteasy lifenoteasy 26-30, M 9 Responses Feb 16

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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1AJmKkU5POAcool song"Haven't Met You Yet"I'm not surprised, not everything lastsI've broken my heart so many times I stopped keeping trackTalk...
    voyagetoheaven voyagetoheaven 18-21, M