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I Never Met My Father

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    Where's Dad

    hello out there im 17 years old.. and its been me && my mother.. no dad... well when i was little i didnt no no better.. well, when i was 10 , my mom asked me " do you want to go on a walk" && i said sure mommy" .... well again i was 10 yrs old .. && i looked up at my mother...
    megandanielle012 megandanielle012 16-17 1 Response Jun 16, 2011

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    From Dad

    I don't know what you've been told, but I would never purposely hurt you. I don't care how you got here, or who your mother is, you are part of me, and hurting you is hurting myself. I know we have never met, but I want to explain something to you just in case we never do. There...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 21, 2013

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    Last year I was told my father of 25yrs wasn't

    my biological father! I've since done DNA to confirm and my parents some family and friends have known my whole life! This stirred up a lot of trust issues with everyone in my life as now nothing appears to be as it seems or who they appeared to be, other things have happen for...
    Flower88 Flower88 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 17, 2014

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    is he worth it?

    Alright, I just turned 19 and I'm supposed to be meeting my biological father for the very first time in a few weeks. I must say I feel pretty conflicted. He never once tried to make contact with me, never a birthday card, never a phone call, never a child support payment. My mom...
    trussmm trussmm 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 9, 2012

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    Never Knew Him

    Growing up I never asked about him or was curious about who he was. Whenever everyone was making a gift for father's day i always made one for my grandpa. I never met my dad and even now im not even interested in meeting him.
    chaosXIII chaosXIII 22-25, M 2 Responses May 4, 2009

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    Who Is ......

    My father? A name...not even sure if it's his real one, that's all I know of my father. And some bits and pieces of stories of where he may have worked and what he might have looked like and what happened between he and mo mom. Most of it doesn't come from her, she doesn't care...
    isis728 isis728 26-30 1 Response Jul 17, 2009

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    Abusive Foster Father, Damaged Mother, Biological Dad Drug-addict

      I’m not a star, not a hero, not a celebrity material, don’t know if I’ve got some great talent. No. But I know that I am different.   I am weird.   I wonder sometimes if it has something to do with my messed up childhood. The old classic...
    psychosocial psychosocial 18-21 Jan 25, 2009

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    He Died 20 Yrs Ago

    I have no memories of him. My mom said he saw me a few times when I was a baby and that he chose not to be in my life. I don't buy that for one second. My mom is an evil biotch, so I have no doubt in my mind that she kept me from him. Then he died when I was 10. She told me my...
    XtremeBordelineChic XtremeBordelineChic 31-35, F Sep 18, 2013

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    Who?...oh, Yeah. That Guy.

    i kinda have met my father. i'm even named after him. my first two years of my life. then he left, because he didn't want my mom. though my mom never told me that at first. all she said was how he always wanted a boy. i'm a girl. for a long time i hated my sexuality. i tried to...
    mizukilen mizukilen 16-17, F Jun 9, 2011

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    I Wish..

    I was born without a father and grew up til I was about 5 without a stepdad. It was just my mom and I and I was so young it never really bothered me. My mom is great, not only my mom, but my best friend. When she met my stepdad, Carlos, I was exxxtremely unsure about the whole...
    nessa143 nessa143 18-21, F Jul 17, 2009

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    I will be 35 this year,

    he has never bothered to find me
    bookwormchic bookwormchic 31-35, F 1 Response May 11, 2014

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    blueeestarrr28 blueeestarrr28 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    never met my dad, but mom and I had some great times. especially in my teens and early 20s. she was young when she had me.
    Therealjason Therealjason 31-35, F Jan 18

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    I have never met her, my birth mother but neither my adopted parents know about her. So, it's really difficult because where do you go to find clues of who is she? Where could she...
    lucy1010 lucy1010 13-15, F Jan 14

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    Never met my real parents, it's kinda sad but I don't really care all that much about the topic. I'm seeing that one movie about that white man with a black daughter that's coming...
    CallMeDanny CallMeDanny 13-15, M 5 days ago

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    My Lost Baby Sister-A little light skinned girl with cascading mostly straight dark hair and gray eyes......I only met you once as a toddler but then your daddy took you away. I...
    FreakinRicano FreakinRicano 26-30, M Jan 16

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    My parents split up before I was born. It was not good break up and because of this my father has never been in my life. A few years ago I discovered I have two half siblings. I've...
    niteowl84 niteowl84 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    I was put into foster care at two days old. My first foster parents adopted me at nine and a half months. I only know my birth mother was scitzofrentic (however you spell that) and...
    charlottedoyle charlottedoyle 26-30, F Jan 17

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    My closest friend in the entire world had two friends, once upon a time. Both died a long time ago. She talks about them so often, and with so much love that I sometimes forget...
    missquinn missquinn 18-21, F Jan 4

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    I met this kid on an online game and he told me how he was feeling depressed and suicidal. I tried consulting him that he shouldnt do it and gave him advice etc. I said that you...
    HeyHer1234 HeyHer1234 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 9

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    I've fallen hard for this girl. We've been talking through Snapchat a lot recently and I can't stop thinking about her. She's also told me she's falling for me too. I even told her...
    pwillems15 pwillems15 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 5

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    I don't know how to tell a friend that I care so much about how he is feeling and can find the words to say it. I that I can find the words to say is that you're never alone I will...
    Frozenfireflies Frozenfireflies 13-15, M Jan 6

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    I don't know who you are. All that I know, is what you let me know. However, I do see glimpses every now and then, of the person behind the words. And the people I do see are truly...
    themanoflegends themanoflegends 22-25, M Jan 13

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    i will always care, you are one of the best Lyndie
    sharichi sharichi 22-25, M Jan 6

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    I wanna know my birth parents but I'm scared to ask about them in front of my foster mom who has adopted me
    Itsmiprada Itsmiprada 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    Problems are problems and you have to deal with them eventually. The kindness of strangers has helped me get through some tough times in the past. So I seek to follow their example...
    SleeplessSage SleeplessSage 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 8

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    I happened upon this site by accident. Actually, I don't believe in accidents. I'm usually so turned off from these forums due to trolls. However, I've been pleasantly...
    mostdaysaregood mostdaysaregood 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 13

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    For some strange reason I was initially surprised such a forum exists. I actually thought I was the only one. Who knew?
    mrjordan13 mrjordan13 36-40, M Jan 17

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    Yep n now I have abandonment issues
    nbdash nbdash 16-17, M 5 days ago

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    We were talking to each other a few times a week for about 4 or 5 months and I thought we got along. Then all of a sudden today her account is de activated. All msg's, experiences...
    fishandchips321 fishandchips321 26-30, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    To shorten the story, I have an ex fiance from 2004. My father died and he walked away due to my father's death. You know why as good as I do. I ended up having an emotional...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Jan 18

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    I have never met my real father, and my stepfather has not been a father figure in any way, shape, or form
    BooksSportsForever BooksSportsForever 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    When I first met her, she was pregnant with quadruplets. As time went on, she told me about her boyfriend cheating on her. The next day she tells me he dumped her. I leave town to...
    jackdragon22399 jackdragon22399 13-15, M 4 Responses Jan 15

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    And I keep falling in falling in falling in love with him. We were together for a very brief period of time, broke up, stayed friends for 4 years and confessed to each other our...
    SapphireSol SapphireSol 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 7

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    What about never? We think of it but superficially and with foreboding. We certainly don't talk about it--I mean REALLY talk about it. ..as if engaging in the conversation itself...
    OnlyLoveKeepsTrying OnlyLoveKeepsTrying 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    By "real," I mean, I've never met a stranger, they asked me on a date, and then we went somewhere together at later and specified time to learn more about each other.
    loveVSlust loveVSlust 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 21

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    Okcupid!! lol so embarrassing to even say this right now. I never thought that I would find the love of my life, my twin flame, my bf on this silly site. I signed up because my...
    firedestroyer firedestroyer 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    My wife and I met online 3 1/2 years ago, have been married for almost 3 years, and it's wonderful! I love her with all my heart, as she does me, and it really is the fairy tale...
    musicmaker71 musicmaker71 41-45, M 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    its been a little over 2 weeks since i posted anything on here and i was very optimistic and hopeful in my last blog but right now i just feel like ****, no matter how much i try...
    TheWorldVsJ TheWorldVsJ 26-30, M 3 Responses Jan 13

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    Hi, I'm new to this, and here to tell my story and ask for help. I was molested and raped by my step father since the age of 5 to 11, when my mom and step father broke up. Growing...
    VeganBarbie VeganBarbie 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 1

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    Letter 5 Dear Steve it's 2015 and I have survived 2014 despite your best efforts to stop me. I enter 2015 knowing things are far from resolved and there are many battles yet to...
    Sunrise13 Sunrise13 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    This is the child your caste system took from my parents...over genocide...this is the child that grew up wondering how she'd fend for herself because of YOUR secrets and YOUR All...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I've lots of memories from before I was born on earth and in some of them I can now recognize their actions when comparing them to the Gods of this world. 
    Petervdkerk Petervdkerk 36-40, M 2 days ago

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    I met a wonderful lady on EP. Actually I've met a few but this one is extra special to me. I've been divorced for a few years now after a twenty plus year marriage. I've had...
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    Deprived Me of My Mother-When I was 9 my mother who was a Black American unilaterally relocated my younger sister and self to her homeland the United States. A short time later our...
    DayDayEdwards DayDayEdwards 22-25, M Jan 13

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    I have a father who did most of the things anyone here could mention. He left when I was three. Has been gone for more than twenty years. (Even as we speak, he is with another...
    Mutiso Mutiso 26-30, M Jan 10

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